Top 10 Sexiest Things About Male Sexuality and WHY

[@decekfrokfr3mdx]

For every woman out there who feels objectified or overly sexualised (and there are many), there are countless men who have actually never experienced being sexualised, never experienced being desired, never experienced being or feeling....worthy. They feel neutered. It is genuinely moving to hear a woman speaking about the ways in which men are attractive, because we hear it so rarely and (most) men get little reason in everyday life to believe it about themselves.

[@PullthaleverKronk]

I make sure to tell my man what I like and love about him- his features, the things he does to me

[@marlonmoncrieffe0728]

Yeah, Victoria's the best!

[@wingnutmcspazatron3957]

"They feel neutered" hits just as hard as we feel like we've been hit, great choice of words.

[@stride0812]

Finally someone understands!

[@bighandsome9165]

Very well said.

[@samgrafton1455]

Listening to you is a treasure trove. It’s feels like men and women actually love each other on the deepest of levels and our prejudices are all rooted in our unhealed injuries.

[@mrshakey2533]

Finally...............a woman that is totally in touch with her feminine, knows it, understands it, and is attracted to the masculinity of a man, and can convey her thoughts perfectly. Very rare nowadays.

[@Andrew-wy9qy]

Very much appreciated as well.

[@gr-xw3sp]

Yeah, extremely rare so scientific piercing objectivity. In my early 20's I did something similar when I embarked into making myself a man from the biological point of view: a lot of introspection + evolution theory. But I'm a man; women are much more complicated, so much so that even some females friends have told me that women don't understand themselves. Victoria has broken that barrier.

[@damianstarks3338]

You said it perfectly.

[@dustbowlhammer7119]

I mean, she is probably a real firecracker 😉

[@darkoz1692]

Don't be fooled gentlemen.

[@ahrengroesch8774]

So many of us don't know our value to women. I'm finally starting to understand and really feel and believe it. Thank you.

[@mynonleatherlife]

HI Ahren. I’m so glad u liked the vid. Anything else that u could think of that guys need to know to fully understand please lmk if you think of anything.

[@ahrengroesch8774]

@@mynonleatherlife The way a woman enjoys me enjoying her. I was on a video call with a woman recently. The conversation had a pause. I let the silence be, dropped into my body, and just took her in and enjoyed the feeling it gave me. She got the chills and said "Oh my god what did you just do?" I stayed in that energy and she got really turned on. That is the first time I have ever had that effect on a woman and I'm not sure what to even call it.

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@ahrengroesch8774 that's wild! so cool.

[@theresonly1truth138]

This video makes me think about something i haven't thought about which is the possibility or the 100% certainty that God who made us male feel and think about females has indeed makes them feel and think things too about us. That's the first point any loser with girls should think of and know and remember.

[@markdelej]

You are actually more valuable to a woman evolutionary wise than she is to you. Think of things from a point of view 50,000 years ago. Life was tough. Danger was around every corner. Predators trying to kill you. A man needed a woman to produce off spring and he was attracted to her and protected her but by himself he could still survive. She didnt protect him. Actually she may have made life slightly more dangerous for him since he now had a sought after female which others would want for themselves. So all in all she was good for him but an added danger. However think of it from the girls perspective. She couldnt survive without a strong man who could hunt and help keep her safe, it was literally life and death for her finding a man, and not just any man but an alpha male who could protect her and keep her and their offspring safe and keep them warm and fed. So dont ever think you have no value to a woman. Deep down in their unconscious mind you are the difference between life and death for them. They “need” you more than you “need” them. I put need in quotes because some people want a certain guy or girl, however “need” is much stronger. Imagine being stuck on a desert island with a girl, she “needs” you or you are both fucked, but you may want her there with you for help and company. Very different

[@andrewshantz9136]

You're such a sweetheart Victoria. It's such a rare thing for someone to really give the straight truth the way you do. Most people are really scared to simply say what's true, especially when it makes them feel vulnerable.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thank you Andrew that really means a lot. It is somewhat scary for me to admit these things as well but the more I grow the more I feel strong enough to do it. I see it a lot in women that they aren’t always strong enough to admit they want to feel weak and want anything submissive. They are so caught up in defending themselves as strong and powerful but I feel it is weak not to be strong enough to admit the truth. It is presumptuous of me to say since every woman wants different things but I know there are very big themes among women which most women completely hide. I feel it took me becoming a stripper to have the strength to cross over and start appreciating men more because it got rid of a lot of fear I had about men. It also took me doing a lot of research into kink and getting rid of a lot of fear and shame around sex and becoming a truly sex positive person. I don’t think a lot of women are there yet because they are raised with soooooo much sex negativity and so much shame and control around their sexuality. They are so scared of being seen as a slut or being seen as caring about sex too much or even being weak and “not feminist” or disrespecting themselves. They don’t understand the paradoxical world of kink where it is ok to be into anti feminist things that regress women’s rights. Sexuality has always been anti everything proper, that’s part of the way kink works and always has. Anyway forgive me going off there and acting like a know it all. Idk that’s just my opinion. Thanks so much for your wonderful comment.

[@andrewshantz9136]

@@mynonleatherlife Hey Victoria, Thanks so much for your awesome response. It feels great to talk about these things like we are. It's super interesting to hear about your experience as a stripper and with kind and how that has beneficial in your life. I'd really love to talk more if you are interested. I'm a staff member at a men's coaching company called The Fearless Man and we've been circulating your other video about the raw attractive qualities of men in our client FB group and one of our coaches made a blog post about it. It's been super helpful to a lot of our clients (and to me personally :) I'd love to somehow find a way to get your message to more of our clients. I'm not sure what that would look like but maybe we could talk about that. My email is [e-mail] I hope we can talk more!

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@andrewshantz9136 I will email you!

[@karl2405]

@@mynonleatherlife thanks for sharing this. It's so true and resonates with my experience as a man and coming to understand women... the strength is in witnessig and loving things as they are

[@Kenny-Ross]

Yes spot on! Just say what really is instead of being politically correct all the darn time. I just speak the truth about unspoken truths and it seems to rub some people the wrong way.

[@Samuel-er6td]

Top 10 Sexiest things about Male Sexuality and why. 1. The enthusiasm of the female body. Males love the female body. 2. The lack of judgment. Men aren't very judging of a woman's body. "I wish you could see yourself the way I do," 3. The entrancement that men go into for women. 4. The way commands feel natural coming from a man. When a guy has a backbone and gives a command. There's something powerful in that. 5. The anger and coldness. Powerful emotions men carry. Especially sexy when used in the bedroom. 6. The dirtiness of the sexuality that men have. Raw. Primal. Kinky. Male kinks are good. 7. The complementary fantasies men and women have. 8. The strength of men. The ability to defend and protect. 9. The strength of a man when it's used for the women. When a man takes care of a woman, It's like taking a dangerous thing and having it melt for you. 10. Male culture and female culture. The polarity. 11. How athletic men are. There's something memorizing about it. 12. The chemistry that can happen between a woman and a man. 13. The magic made when a guy is touching a woman. The ability a man has to heal a woman.

[@philippajoy4300]

Yes but she says they are not in order...I'd like her to put them in order really.

[@AB-ts6dn]

This woman is really saving the future generation of men and relationships yo 😭🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@jadenippersiel912]

shes saving the human race

[@loreman7267]

I only wish someone had told me all this in my 20s. It would have saved so much AARGH! in my life!

[@erikmurray3661]

Agreed

[@gilgamecha]

@@mynonleatherlife this is so eloquent and honest. And so deeply thought and felt. Please tell me you are writing a book to share your observations with the world? By the way in another post you said you were reading Nancy Friday? Please be aware there are claims her research is faked. For example I've never known a woman who shares her bestiality fantasies.

[@lalosamu]

​@loreman7267 dw bro I'ma do it for you

[@cameronwallace3024]

It is at once incredibly liberating and insanely frustrating to hear these things about the way women view male sexuality. I feel like some of the key things you mentioned, like enthusiasm for the female form and the tendency to be transfixed by it are at the very core of what men are taught is poisonous to women if not down right evil- objectification and the “male gaze”. It made sense to me as it was burned into my psyche from adolescence onward.The message I got loud and clear was stand back, be cautious and let the woman say what she wants. Imagine my confusion when the message from the women I tried to be romantic with was more often “man up, take control and show me what you want”. This is so demoralizing and anxiety inducing that at a certain point I think a lot of men just start to loose interest. I know that’s true for me. I really appreciate your work, and I think it can go a long way towards bridging the gap between reality and our perceptions. Thank You!!

[@mynonleatherlife]

That’s very sad. Thank U for describing it so well. A lot to think about for me in ur comment.

[@Alex3141pi]

@@mynonleatherlife it’d be great if you made a video about this

[@johnparitosh]

Where have you been all my life. I’m a middle aged man and I wish I’d had this kind of knowledge when I was much younger, it would have saved a lot of miserable times for myself and the woman in my life. Our generation grew up with the romantic stereotypes from movies and the mixed messages of boys being all ‘slugs and snails and puppy dogs tail’. Thank you- you’re a real gem. Keep up this important work.

[@1pcmedic]

Nobody ever talked about this years ago, this is the power of platforms like this, EDUCATION at it's best. Where we can filter through and take exactly what we need to get where we need to be!

[@Bubbles-od2tv]

So you’ve watched all the Bond movies and they had no effect on you?

[@sinbrega3616]

I’m 50, and it’s the first time I hear these things. Thank you so very much, Victoria. I am not embarrassed to say that I am moved by your words.

[@mikeolithory898]

Take notes gentleman! We have a real women here sharing what goes inside a women's brain.. what a privilege, thank you! My self esteem has gone up. I treat myself with high value now compared to my beta days (bad posture, poor social skills, low self esteem). People notice this & thus treat you the way you see yourself.. it's like a reflection that people feed off of you (especially women!) I never knew the powers we men have when it comes to our masculine energy.. it was hidden for most of my life & now women seem to notice me A TON more. Guys, lift weights.. it will help you with confidence by a long shot! Once again thank you for your informative videos, you are doing a great service for us men 👍🏼

[@mynonleatherlife]

thanks so much Mike

[@richardkalmwater5996]

Show men 1 woman who understands what makes women tick and I will show you a 1000 women who are completely clueless...

[@Yvonne17]

​@@richardkalmwater5996Cluless on how they themself tick, or that they just don't tick the way you would like them to? People are different from eachother, one person doesn't have the answear for everyone. I would be scared if a man dind't repect my bounderies, needs and opinions, just because another women online said something else and spoke for everyone.

[@user_f1]

@Yvonne17 where did she say for men to not respect the boundaries and needs and wants of women?

[@mktt]

This video is crazy! No fancy cameras or lighting or edits, then she delivers one of the most important videos on YT!

[@MrBlackjack456]

"Unveiling Male Sexuality: A Woman's Perspective" **Summary:** In this video, Victoria addresses the common perception that male sexuality is often seen as undesirable or gross. She provides her perspective on what women find attractive about male sexuality, breaking down various aspects that appeal to her. The video aims to shed light on the positive aspects of male sensuality that may not be frequently discussed. **Key Highlights:** 1. **Enthusiasm for the Female Body:** - Victoria appreciates the genuine enthusiasm many men exhibit toward the female body, regardless of age or body type. - This unfiltered positivity is seen as a gift to women, creating a sense of constant adoration and attention. 2. **Lack of Judgment and Acceptance:** - Men's ability to accept and appreciate women without judgment is highlighted. - This lack of judgment provides healing for women who often struggle with body image issues. 3. **Entrancement and Dominance:** - The entrancing quality of men, likened to a snake charmer captivating a snake, is discussed. - The allure of a man's dominant commands and the natural way they convey authority is deemed attractive. 4. **Anger and Coldness:** - The video touches on the power and attractiveness of male anger and coldness, particularly in intimate settings. - Victoria acknowledges the intensity and realness behind such emotions. **Conclusion:** The video concludes with a list of additional points that Victoria finds attractive about male sexuality, ranging from the primal nature of male desires to the strength of men and their ability to soften and devote themselves. The overarching message is that women appreciate various aspects of male sexuality that go beyond societal stereotypes. **Purport:** Victoria aims to counter the negative narrative around male sexuality, offering her perspective on what women find attractive. By highlighting positive and diverse aspects, the video seeks to foster a more nuanced understanding of male sensuality.

[@serenityinside1]

Thanks for posting your dissertation Feel better for that ?

[@MrBlackjack456]

@@serenityinside1So what's wrong with that?

[@kyoshiro4042]

​@@serenityinside1 why is bro projecting his insecurities like that?

[@imkaun]

Yeah I read this instead of 15 min vid

[@jethromartins3123]

I definitely love how calm, reflective and genuine ur presentation style tends to be. Doesn't feel phony or scripted which makes u very persuasive. I really didn't think women could articulate what it was that made them sexually attracted to men. But u do that well enough from a woman's perspective. New sub here

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thanks Jethro. I appreciate your feedback on what you like about the vids a lot, it helps me. Thank you for subscribing. any topics you would be interested in getting some female perspective on?

[@jethromartins3123]

Wow such speedy reply. Great work there! Well about quality female perspective, just wanted to put it out there that at the core of a core masculine man, the kind ARC refers to as total alpha males is promiscuity and an aversion for commitment, monogamy or even emotionally profound connections. So if a single woman desirous of long term commitment finds herself immensely sexually attracted to said guy, would u suggest she (a) tried to somehow finesse him into a relationship or marriage, (b)just fuck him and get on with it, or(c) avoid dealing with him entirely. I appreciate ur dedication to ur subscribers

[@houseofvalue]

She’s the best

[@karl2405]

Yeah you speak from the heart

[@Beeker0420]

If you're a guy and watching this video...subscribe to this channel! It's truly an insider's perspective into the female mind and psyche! Fascinating and really glad to have found it!

[@mynonleatherlife]

oh wow thank u beeker I appreciate this

[@marcusnielson5487]

Just found this yesterday. Unfortunately I feel very depressed about this info

[@karl2405]

@@marcusnielson5487 whys it depressing ?

[@Inkironnrum]

I have been with a woman who I took a chance with opening up, fully, with what I like in the bedroom, and other places alike. Kinks I don’t necessarily tell any woman I have been with relationship or otherwise. The woman I am with now has taken what I desire to the next level and then some. Her submissiveness to my lead and decision making in every aspect of our relationship has also made our s**/kinks/fetish world epic. After ten years we are still inseparable.

[@livewiresegu5576]

She is a very rare woman, you never gonna get this anywhere else, she's good.

[@luismaggio8507]

Great video. I respect her so much for bringing validity to male sexuality. It’s gotten a bad wrap. Being a true man with desires as well as vulnerabilities has become a punch line IMO. Love the honesty and courage to actually speak to this. Well done.

[@markjarvis2894]

Yes yes yes...this happens to be the first time a woman has been gutsy and aware enough to compliment masculinity as it actually IS. I have suffered for decades from being with women who I love desire admire and ready to give all of what I have to her (almost all ) and still be misunderstood and abandoned. Of course I know I am part of what causes that. At age 74 my desire for women in the way you so beautifully speak is still full steam ahead. I see magnificent older women and I still imagine the great match to be possible.

[@kingkong905]

You're also right when you said male sexuality is seen in a negative light. I think women don't mind getting sexual with men. The problem is many men send women unsolicited nudes and sexually explicit messages when they barely know each other. While I wanted to get my sexual desires fulfilled, I took a different approach. I made them laugh first and made them comfortable first with my personality. Once the attraction was established, they let me send sexually explicit messages and nudes. I was surprised they liked it lol.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Ur so right, women are so confused why men don’t respect basic courtesy and etiquette when getting to know them. Your way is so much smarter...and more respectful as well

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

Had a similar experience with my ex, we had a lot of fun with emails, pics texts, and she used to call me daddy! Ha

[@kingkong905]

@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 I don't like it when women call me daddy haha. It sounds like they see me as a father. It also sounds incestuous.

[@MichaelMurray-w6f]

Where is your self respect?

[@pedridemperi9872]

Beta games. Enjoy

[@waynerichardson414]

Victoria, each time I get a chance to watch one of your videos, I just become incredulous of your ability to verbalize to men what a woman wants, thinks, and how to be successful in loving them. You are a jewel to men!!

[@mynonleatherlife]

Wayne, I appreciate you. Thank you for your support.

[@hasseaouled6032]

This is so beautiful. You are saving lives. This really touched me. Especially the male healing power.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thank you so much Hasse. I'm very moved by your comment...kinda speechless really--deleted my comment a bunch of times. What did u like about the male healing power aspect. I agree that one is so special

[@mackaready1]

Beautifully put, the polarity of male and female energies and the ability of one to heal the other and excite the other is completely natural. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

[@canobenitez]

this woman is singlehandly giving us the insights nobody mentions.

[@handsomesquidward5160]

Bro number 5 in the description is so goddamn true. My ex told me to my face she liked it when I became angry.

[@mynonleatherlife]

what did u think when she told u, did u get it then

[@handsomesquidward5160]

@@mynonleatherlife I was actually taken back by it. I'm rarely angry, but when I do I really go off. I thought it was counterintuitive to the relationship, I treat people the way I'd like to be treated, so trying to make people especially my girlfriend purposely angry doesn't even cross my mind. Plus being angry is exhausting, not worth it. What do you think?

[@darrylsenior2055]

Thank you Victoria, this kind of videos are awesome! This is the kind of education we need! I’m old 81 again and we owe you a debt of gratitude! You are so precious. Thank you 🙏!!!❤

[@kajalpandey5871]

You said what I felt but could never put in words. One time I was so madly in love with a man..all i wanted was to sleep with him ... because all I wanted was to be touched by him only so I can melt in arms, i could never understand y...i sometimes felt ashamed of it. It's beautiful how the same touch from the right person can liberate you and the same touch from wrong person can offend you!

[@magicalesquilax7232]

As a man, I appreciate your raw honesty a lot. Thanks for keeping it real.

[@alvarocontreras5040]

What a breath of fresh air.....in a world chuck full of airbrushed Instagram FAKE women comes this Absolutely natural honest and beautiful woman making her ultimate mission to heal us from the hipertoxic antimale feminism ABSOLUTELY PRICELESS

[@muumarlin1731]

You are giving such an important and real gift of healing to men.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Thank u

[@ShawnDixon-r4z]

I was reading comments thinking how con this video be as good as they’re saying but yep it was. Thank you

[@muffettuffet8253]

So much truth!!! Men just don’t realize just how sexy they are when just effortlessly being men!! I thought it was only me who found male anger a huge turn on (providing he is not being abusive with it. ) there’s just an intense energy that makes me both afraid but also week in the knees.

[@anfieldreds_1892]

women are interesting creatures. So where all this fairy tale BS came from then?

[@fab8672]

It's always beautiful and cool to see how you understand , experience and explain what masculinity means to you from your perspective as a truly feminine woman . Love your videos and your energy

[@mynonleatherlife]

thanks a lot I really appreciate your kind words but I do have to add I am actually quite masculine in many ways prob much more than the average women

[@fab8672]

@@mynonleatherlife My pleasure . Is there anything that we can learn from that other side of yours ?

[@aspect3000]

How poetic that it ends on healing. This video was so enlightening. Youre a blessing to men, I love this channel

[@gaurav5161]

I cannot thank you enough for this. But still… THANK you so much.

[@mynonleatherlife]

I am so glad you liked it. So the explanations were helpful? Did it help u see any thing differently...lmk any further feedback or questions, good or bad, u might have

[@marcojarufe1841]

About number 10, I'd add that melting that strength into devotion for her is healthy as long as the man has the intelligence to know when to use it and when not. I point that out because I know that channeling a man's strength towards a woman permanently is a source of suffering. You should write a book

[@mynonleatherlife]

what would be an example of channeling a man's strength towards a woman permanently?

[@marcojarufe1841]

@@mynonleatherlife When he makes her, the relationship with her, his major life purpose

[@jurgenchristiansen6075]

It’s just nice to hear this coming from you. In a day and age like today where girls try to bash us men into the ground just for being guys, its encouraging to hear the truth. Keep up the good work, girl. 👍

[@momotheelder7124]

You have an amazing gifts to break down these things that for most people are intangible sensations, it is really helpful to hear someone verbalise them so accurately.

[@ivankhoury4861]

You are very articulate. I love the way you choose your words and your vocabulary and use of popular culture.

[@patchthesinclair5896]

Don't stop doing it, it's so good for the human race,both men and women!

[@khaleedx4268]

Love and blessings from capetown! ❤❤❤❤ NO make up, NO craxy wigs or extensions😘😚😍, Thank you do much for sharing your feminine beauty and taking time to be our Teacher💞💓❤

[@mynonleatherlife]

thank you Khaleed!

[@un0RRS]

"Toxic positivity" Well put.

[@BezoRazo]

You're freely speaking on timeless primal truths that have become stigmatized, verboten, and unnaturally denied. I honestly wasn't sure there were any of you left (on YT, at least). I wasn't even looking for something like this, it just randomly popped up on my homepage and I clicked, intrigued by the title.

[@Isen502]

Wow its nice to see that you recognize that men can feel like creeps or wrong for having a sexuality. It feels like were walking on eggshells. I think honest women is such an underrated attraction to men. Its draining for anybody to feel they have to figure out what someone is thinking or why they feel the way they do.

[@jonnietranca6833]

I love what you said about men and agree and understand more. We are really enchanted by women body, we want to see, touch and ... that feminine aspect of the human being woman, and we love to be strong and have strength and powerful body to protect our woman, and nothing can stop us from protecting, we even go to war if is needed.

[@cloudsculptor1]

Soooo refreshing to have these truths named. Respect ✊

[@carpentersson77]

I really appreciate the the way you share your wisdom to us... it's not just necessary to know... it's essential for a man to somehow understand why womanfolk are who they are...

[@Dalilama3]

Thank you so much for this!!! I was looking or something positive about male sexuality and why women would even want a man at all. this is so enlightening.

[@fnzone]

This woman has a clear vision on the beauty of male and female energy ❤ As a male I’m barely starting to understand the depths of masculinity. All power and glory be to God 🔥

[@ManyDoors777]

I’ve watched a few of your videos and I really appreciate your honesty and advice. As a man who was once on top of his game and then beaten over by the challenges of life, it is valuable to be reminded by a woman what women look for in a man and what they find attractive about them. At 45, I am telling you, much about a man gets lost in just trying to survive and take care of their family. Thank you for your words.

[@christophergriffith3420]

This lady could very well save humanity!! Well spoken

[@erikmurray3661]

This woman is so blunt and smart,nice to see a woman who doesn't bullshit or beat around the bush all puns intended.

[@DHTC888]

Incredible, I've been in a dateless rut going on 8 years now. I finally have a useful tool I haven't been able to get anywhere else yet. Kind of a bizarre week, I've had two other discoveries along these same lines. I don't know if the 'universe' thinks it's finally time to move forward or what, but thanx for this!!

[@mynonleatherlife]

Awesome I am glad u found it useful, thx for subscribing

[@jftruthseeker989]

Thank you so much , it’s good to hear what you say and i must say you’re the only woman i hear for years to say something good and honest about men . it’s been many years now that i’ve been lonely with no relationship because my last relationship has broken me, humiliated me and i l’ve been struggling alone and everything i heard in the medias about men was only negative and very hateful and i was feeling very alienated from society and your videos just do good for men in my situation

[@TomAtkinson-gq2wx]

Wow folks this lady knows what she is talking about cheers girl

[@GearsGirlsGuitars]

I’m just gonna go ahead and keep this on repeat untill my previous imprinting is gone 🙇🏻‍♂️ confusion and separation from women has been one of the most painful things in my life.

[@elpino811]

I use your videos to learn English you have a wonderful voice . 🇬🇹

[@mynonleatherlife]

That is so cool, and thanks for saying that about my voice, I am somewhat insecure about it as people often tell me it is odd or unusual for some reason so I appreciate what u said a lot. What country are u from?

[@robert4you]

@@mynonleatherlife Don't listen to people who say it is "odd or unusual", your voice is like the smoothest honey dipped in truth. There is another interesting subject: most women have no idea what a fantastic turn on a woman's voice can be for a man. Just search for ASMR videos here on KZbin and watch the view numbers, it's absolutely insane. And I can guarantee you that at least 80% are men listening to those heavenly smooth female voices. A man can actually "fall in love" with a female voice.

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@robert4you what do you like about asmr voices, I’ve always wondered about what is the deal with asmr on KZbin

[@robert4you]

@@mynonleatherlife This is a really tough one to even try to explain... but when you listen, as a man, to the "right" female ASMR voice it actually gives you physical sensations which are filled with pleasure. You feel almost a tingling feeling in the back of your neck, in the hair, and through the backbone. This phenomenon is extremely hard to explain, but when you find the "right" female voice it is relaxing beyond words, it goes *deep* inside your soul. Personally I am not so sensitive to nails and others sound effects, it has to be a slow whispering voice oozing of femininity and almost a slight vulnerability. I don't think women know the power of their voice, you could easily hypnotise many men. I'd much rather be together with a six with a relaxing and soothing voice than a ten with a sharp and "flaring" voice. The voice means a lot. Even in Seinfeld there was an entire episode about how Jerry could not be with a woman because of her voice and laughter.

[@fandude7]

So much wisdom and knowledge about men. Great stuff.

[@mexodroid1848]

When I was younger I felt perverted for having sexual desires. When it came to intimacy with gf I would try to show that "It's not only about sex with me" which lead me to have a painful life later on.

[@arthurbromback4143]

Its great to hear a woman that knows and understands the masculine and feminine dynamic. It seems to be getting lost among a lot of people online. Yes Mode one is an excellent book. You are doing a really good thing explaining all of this. I am one of those guys who loves and appreciates a womans body and form that takes care of herself.

[@neredyfre2392]

I love the way you talk about men, so positive to be a man when I hear you. Couple of days ago I was explaining a girl how men and women photographe women differently but I was unable to explain the difference. You helped me to put words on it 🙌

[@mynonleatherlife]

how do they photograph differently?

[@neredyfre2392]

@@mynonleatherlife I would say female photographers tend to present woman as a princess, a flower in a dreamy kind of way 🤔 However, a male photographer will highlight her femininity and all her characteristics that make her a gorgeous creature 🤔 I will put it this way 😅

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@neredyfre2392 that's really interesting. the male gaze vs the female gaze. you are so right about that princess dreamy flower thing being a huge part of the female gaze. does femininty and charcteristics that make her a gorgeous creature just mean like her curves and stuff or what do u think is it more specifically that men are seeing in her and capturing, i'd love to hear more

[@neredyfre2392]

@@mynonleatherlife exactly you got my point 😊 I guess that as we men are visual creatures, we would focus more on her soft and gentle female curves. Just look at some black and white bodyscape pictures. The photographer just paints the feminine curves of the model with light ☺ I have rarely seen that kind of pictures coming from a female photographer 😊

[@mynonleatherlife]

@@neredyfre2392 great point

[@PulseCodeModulate]

Sexual chemistry is about mirroring and resonance. While you were giving the lap dance your partner was likely dancing back. This is easily done with proper eye contact and micro body language used in conjunction to silently scream "You are sexy". Remember- about 85% of communication is non verbal because it is the primal language of the animal kingdom which we are.

[@archangel_gold2451]

Today's woman would be more "happy" for us if we were openly lusting after other men... if we want a man and his body, women are like "yay happy for you that's good" If we want a woman and think her body is sexy, then its "sick pervert, nasty, disgusting, shame on you etc"

[@22551rick]

This is therapy. My experiences Phuck me up for years and your videos heal that mess up

[@asifhussain9583]

Glad I stumbled upon your channel. Life changing stuff. Ur like the awesome cousin I never had. I respect what you are doing. Thank you

[@mynonleatherlife]

thank you Asif!

[@lukalukadublin]

Your coaching is out of the world. Amazing

[@mynonleatherlife]

Wow thank you! Anything else u would want to see a vid on?

[@lukalukadublin]

@@mynonleatherlife hmm, thank you for asking. It would be great to hear about expressing male trauma to woman, at what stage of relationship, dating we could address it ?

[@OregonDARRYL]

Men look at women like women look at their favorite food. It's that simple. We want what we want, and we don't feel like - nor do we have to - explain it to anyone.

[@OregonDARRYL]

Thanks again Google for burying my comment. Nice.

[@corilia9529]

Honestly the comments are very enlightening. Says a lot about the person who brings out the truth. People respond to that.

[@Pazuzu82]

I've got to admit all these videos that when your talking about male sexuality and what they want ect you seem to get it more and understand it from our point of view also and perhaps give some great lift into most males that have low self esteem.👍🏻

[@mynonleatherlife]

thank u for letting me know your thoughts, I appreciate it a lot

[@mickmack9333]

......very honest view, most women feel probably the same but would never express this.....thanks

[@טוביהיגלניק]

Thank you so much for this MIND SHIFTING video. Strangely, for me as a man it has been hard to realize that women are actually attracted to men.. It is a simple truth, but some how I didn't accept it.. I hope that this video will help me to see the reality as is😎

[@mynonleatherlife]

oh yes...absolutely. I want to make another vid on this topic illustrating what they find attractive with different tiktok videos that have many views. Trust me they can be exxxtremely attracted they just hide it better--unfortunately for men

[@טוביהיגלניק]

@@mynonleatherlife Create more videos like this💪

[@oPHILOSORAPTORo]

Gomez Adams. Nuff said. Also, the whole danger/safety thing kinda reminds me of a line From The Lion, The Witch, And The Wardrobe. When Mr Beaver is telling the kids about Aslan, one of them asks: "A lion?! Is he safe?" "Safe? Who said anything about safe? 'Course he isn't safe. But he's good." Insert Jordan Peterson quote here. (y'know, the thing about how a truly good person isn't someone who's harmless, it's someone who is dangerous but chooses to do good.)

[@florenceandrews2526]

And THAT is what is a turn on IMO. Feeling the power and strength of a man but feeling seen and respected and safe enough to be able to submit to it!🔥

[@HardKillaz]

Protect this woman at all cost. She has this ability to navigate the the male and female views, it's a gift I can listen to her.

[@dr.jackbutler7569]

I tested some of your insights and they proved 100% correct. A woman i have known for several years asked me a medical question by text. I answered her but then commented on a sexual stimulating part of her body. Right away she came back with some sexual heat. Then i told her " you just need a little spanking. Two texts later I said you need discipline. The reason you know deep down that you need discipline is because it will give you a reason to submit. And submission excites you beyond your wildest dreams. LOL Now I am a little sorry that I started this raging fire. It was only a test by me. I don't want to get anything going here. YOU ARE CORRECT

[@mynonleatherlife]

This is so incredible Dr Jack Butler. Ur on fire!!! I can’t believe u were just testing it out and it all worked.

[@PapaFlorez]

I internalised from a little kid that women naturally hated men. I just saw it everywhere. Women GOOD men BAD. I am always in disbelief when a women talks good about men in general. It feels weird to say but it feels unnatural to me so I always assume they are lying when speaking good about men. Its funny how I naturally accepted all these years that women hate men no matter what....still do. I accept it as reality. That being said I am shocked to see a video like this. How are you not being cancelled by a video like this?? Guess the feminists havent found you yet or because you are a women you are getting the society pass to say these things. Much respect 🤟🏻

[@mynonleatherlife]

I don’t think I said anything anti feminist in this video but I really appreciate your telling me why and how u developed your thoughts around women good men bad.

[@Chrisfogaty]

I write in support of all the fine comment made regarding how perceptive, honest and well articulated your views are regarding sexuality, kink, healing and your refreshing and rare view of how the power of male sexuality is seen and felt in your experience. Your view celebrates the differences in men and women in a way thats liberating. I have watched most of your video's and find what you express to be right on the money, your style slightly vulnerable and sensual and your honesty of high integrity. Many thanks I bow from the waist.

[@dnick1981]

Wow! This is such incredibly well thought out advice for men. You have done a great thing sharing such intimate, sisterly advice. Bravo!

[@mikebowman9844]

You're very articulate

[@TM-tw1py]

This may be your best video yet!

[@axeljk1]

Number 5 : the anger / coldness/ danger. I’ve seen this in some women I’ve met , they love the animal inside us. They don’t want to tame it either , they want to see what can happen.

[@ralphgreenwood5857]

Thanks for making these videos. I hope You keep doing this.👍

[@freedomforall3695]

This is refreshing as a young man it is hard to even approach a women if they are not interested I could be seen as a creep simply for approaching and starting a conversation or even a greeting. Even if they are interested the commitment may still fail, and being dominant and direct could be seen as toxic masculinity. If I do get a date I almost expect her to test me and play mind games in, today's society is it worth the risk and potential for heartbreak. There are many expectations women have and yet they can't even make them clear what those expectations are.

[@Matticus-mb6wl]

Don't over think it. Put what other people might think out of your head as most don't think. Go after what you want and you might just surprise yourself and get it. My wife is way out of my league and we have made it 28 years.

[@MatthewCaggiano]

As a man brother There’s no such thing as toxic masculinity don’t listen to some fat green hair male sexist feminist bitch trying to tell you how you should be as a man she has no say towards that and will never know what it’s like to be a man because she’s a woman not a man you’re a man take a lot of strong pride in ya male birth right manhood biologically hardwired male nature towards being a good strong manly man that’s how god purposesly design and created men to be and put on this earth to be towards the male biological wired nature of mankind as a man it’s beautiful blessing

[@RupertMcGruber]

You are great, thank you for posting these!! 😙

[@arunrajvs]

this is as real as it gets..thank u!

[@johnroberts3723]

I love this woman's depth of honesty and understanding she is a true inspiration. My late father once told me that a great philosopher said that women is either goddess or door mat and I think that there's a lot of truth in that.

[@mynonleatherlife]

sadly i kinda agree with it...like women can really get used as a door mat easy if they slip and really fall in love and forget they have options

[@andrewmcnulty6789]

Awesome 👏🏻 This is the second video on this channel I have watched and it was extremely interesting to have things confirmed about the way I am and like to be when with feminine energy.

[@j-star1]

Amazing content, love how you openly talk about any topic, keep up.

[@akshaymalik_pro]

You explained it so perfectly and truly. Really great!!!

[@redfaman]

You should write a book about your experiences as well as you knowledge. I would definitely buy it.

[@mynonleatherlife]

thanks a lot Men. What kind of experiences should I put in it

[@liveuser8527]

@@mynonleatherlife I've basically been implicitly called a "rapist" my whole life and by society for my MALE instincts..so... Yeah...thank you society... Thanks society for the Gaslighting.

[@liveuser8527]

@@mynonleatherlife so how am I supposed to get over my female complexes when you ADMIT they are all FULL OF SHIT?..and society is FULL OF SHIT?

[@lordapophis7438]

I love your smile. It projects very positive energy.

[@mynonleatherlife]

watch my video on the 3 masks

[@lordapophis7438]

@@mynonleatherlife yes ma'am

[@richardgomesarruda5590]

Can you talk about the difference between what woman wants and what mens wants in each other? Because our perspective is that bare minimum woman ask in a men is way more than what men ask in a woman.

[@mynonleatherlife]

wow great topic idea...thank you so much. I love the way u phrased this idea.

[@garryjackson709]

Great insights. Thanks for being so open. It helps a lot.

[@damianstarks3338]

This woman knows what she is talking about.

[@sunnisukumar]

This video, like others you've made, is a gift to men. As someone said below, many of us don't know our value to women and often feel like we don't have enough to offer. If you could make videos about online dating, starting with how best to come across in a profile, I'd be curious to hear your thoughts on it.

[@mynonleatherlife]

Great idea, I’ve been out of the game for a little while but when I was online dating I had infinite thoughts about it haha and could have made a great vid but now I’m somewhat out of Touch id have to do some research and thanks a lot!

[@sunnisukumar]

@@mynonleatherlife You're welcome. And I'm sure you still have great insights, especially if you skim through some dating profiles as a refresher.

[@romani8494]

Right. Half of the things is about how special men make women feel and the rest falls under toxic masculinity these days. And then she wonders why guys are not open about their sexuality.

[@Samurai7able]

I love your channel...you uping my game with each video...thank you

[@larsbitsch-larsen6988]

Thank you. In these "me too" times it is necesary for men to understand and the only way men can understand i by hearing what it really is about.

[@ronandheather3079]

This was a great video. I actually felt appreciated. 💪🏼🥳

[@Pegasus4213]

As you go through your list, opposites attract. The way the Bible's Genesis explains our sexuality doesn't do it enough justice. The complementary aspects of the sexes are magical and all the ways you explain your response to it. Really well explained! I was thinking how when men whistle as females go by a building site etc, this is not being derogative of the female, but it's expressing this primal impact that a female has on nens psyche. As you explain in number one. Every aspect of a female has an impact on us as a male. I wonder why women don't seem to be aware of their attractiveness to us males. The sound of a woman's voice can be so arousingly satisfying to listen to, A woman's natural body odour can be such an arousingly satisfying scent in our nostrils, that wearing perfume can cloud and cover this natural scent's impact. Women just don't trust their beauty and natural attractiveness enough!

[@GearyMorales]

Outstanding insights from a very lovely lady… who artfully unpacks what women enjoy about a man’s uncompromising sexuality! BRAVO! 😊👀😘😎

[@mynonleatherlife]

thanks geary