Mask of Masculinity by Lewis Howes

[@VALUETAINMENT]

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[@pedrorodriguez464]

WOW! Lewis Howes is a real man who speaks from his heart! Thank you so much for sharing your pain and your breakthrough!

[@aaronlim7324]

Instead of trying to prove people wrong, aim to lift people up. Thank you Lewis.

[@06Awake]

This interview honestly made me tear up as I thought about my own mask and why I do it. Awesome interview Pat.

[@AnnaSzabo]

OMG... I've been following Lewis for years and NEVER have I heard anything vulnearbale like this. Pat, thank you so much.....

[@DecodeChannel]

Masculinity is not something given to you, but something you gain. And you gain it by winning small battles with honor.

[@eternalbattle1438]

*'Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one.'* -Marcus Aurelius

[@Hyperions92]

I agree with that

[@andjelkovicjasmin2954]

That's fucking right!

[@ontraccapp]

I like that! We have to realize we all start out feminine in the womb, and in the beginning of our lives as well. Masculinity is a choice that comes in our teenage years. Our hormones helps us along, and then it’s our choice if we learn to control our emotions, and use them for good

[@VALUETAINMENT]

Do yourself a favor and go buy this book. Click here to read the book. tinyurl.com/ya8sqrw4

[@9odokt7chi]

After watching this video , i feel brave .....i feel energetic .....i just want to go outside and share my life with people ....thank you so much I going to get the book

[@clareeeeee1]

One of the greatest interviews I have watched. So powerful. I've just ordered the book, I can't wait to read it.

[@VegasLyfe]

Much respect to see you interviewing him. 2 great leaders. Couldn't ask for a better first episode 🎉😁

[@MilesDixon]

Masculinity is responsibility. Growing up means dropping the blame. Dropping excuses. Action and integrity.

[@berkeleybenje]

Crying watching this. What kind of monster hurts a 5 year old? I never knew this about LH. I’ve always respected him. But now he’s literally one of my heroes. We benefit from his courageous act of sharing his story.

[@the_triplethreat]

Love your interviewing style, Pat. Refreshing to see people listening and having a genuine conversation, as opposed to asking irrelevant/deadend questions + talking over their guests. Welcome back, man! Cant wait for this book to be shipped....goosebumps the entire video.

[@saimonasbanelis3487]

Literally the only channel I check every hour. Pat, you have inspired me so much to give up my deepest obsessions and start creating my future. Love you man.

[@ontraccapp]

Saimonas Banelis that’s awesome man! When you say deepest obsessions - do you mean addictions? Reason I’m asking is because I have a friend who wants to be a musician, but it’s not gonna make him any money... is that what you mean ? ;)

[@hensy6417]

This made me explode. my emotions are everywhere I’ve held everything in for so long...

[@DaisysmileAu]

I think it's important to be there for people going through depression or past experiences. Lewis congrats for learning to express your emotions.

[@amospan9473]

This is 50 minutes of nonstop great stuff fellas!

[@carlospantoja6335]

A power surge hit me last night when I seen you guys are back , Its winter and my business is at its lowest point . I needed this . God bless your family and the Valuetainment family . From S.O.S LAWNSERVICE AND MAINTENANCE IN FORT WORTH

[@VALUETAINMENT]

🙏🙏🙏💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽

[@AlWheelin]

This is such a worthwhile tough subject for many people,

[@Skateboardfreakist]

This is so deep. Makes me want to buy the book and open up too. This is gold, thanks for sharing

[@shanesollis8029]

Can't wait to read this book! Just the interview was so powerful and inspirational to me. Much love and respect to both of you.

[@michaelwerner126]

Thanks from Germany. Have tears in my eyes 😊

[@justinyoung3068]

Pat, you were hustling and grinding when everyone thought you were done and no one was watching. Thats badass! Keep pushing great content, glad to have you back.

[@dropout_nation6812]

i was checking back to youtube and i saw this and wow it unlocked a part of my brain i feel like a part of me is ok

[@chetu1992]

Really thanks Pat for starting our channel again. I am really happy. Thank again, GBU

[@shawnblack8711]

Glad to have you back David. This interview really resonated with me and I will be checking this book out. I can see the value in understanding why each mask may be worn. Not only to understand what mask you wear and what has caused it but to better help you understand other people. Look forward to new episodes of high-quality content and hope to help spread the word about the work you do here.

[@ontraccapp]

Shawn Black yeah man! PBD’s stuff is amazing! Go strong bro!

[@andrewsimonson6451]

This was one of the best videos I have ever watched.

[@Spyrosdaf12]

Valuetainment IS FUCKING BACK WITH A DAGGER

[@edsonantunes5979]

Since our reactions in everything that happens on a daily basis is that they allow a better relationship with everyone around us.

[@hottblade]

Absolutely POWERFUL interview!

[@Ayushkumar-cv3er]

We are back!! Valuetainers!! Grateful!!

[@wassimfourkaoui9576]

I wasn't planning to cry when I clicked to watch this video, I don't know what it is about those stories but somehow I related to each one of them! So Thanks a lot for sharing the both of you. btw I am buying that book

[@ChronosCrypto]

Great interview, loved the long form. The world needs more deep conversations like this. Thanks, Pat & team (and Lewis)!

[@johnnyroycerichardsoniii3273]

I also was a victim of sexual abuse at age 5. You nailed Lewis Howes, great insights PBD. Great interview gentleman. This is a great message and that mindset change from wanting to prove all wrong with a massive chip to inspiring, impacting, and lifting them up I really needed to hear that . Thank you ! Look forward to meeting both of you one day

[@RahulSam]

Unbelievable, God Bless the both of you. You guys are changing many lives here. I have never been through such a traumatic situation and I can never imagine the repercussions of such a thing. Happy New Year to all you guys, hope you achieve all your goals.

[@edsonantunes5979]

Thank you, on the one hand, for interviewing, on the other hand for sharing such an important argument for improving our quality of life.

[@vamsikrishnachandrapati8763]

What a way to come back to youtube. Great content. Something which most can relate to in life.

[@einmann3252]

Welcome back Patrick. Valuetainment's return is a new year gift.

[@garrettkandoll7563]

Thanks to Lewis for sharing! And Pat, nice hat :)

[@benfeltus7883]

So happy you guys are back

[@NavedAhmadX]

I did read no more Mr. Nice guy. Then, after sometimes, like at page 30, I stopped, because it was full of ideas for the bad side to do. Empty brain, home of devil. I'm currently reading " Monetizing Innovation: How smart companies design the product around the price" by Madhavan Ramanujam, George Tacke. It's a must read, I guess I saw this book in your reading list.

[@julianbdeveloper]

Patrick is honestly the man, fucking love this guy. Lewis too, he's great.

[@MyBodyIsMyTemple]

What a hero, may the universe bless this man so much 💗

[@elvicitor9070]

Absolutely amazing video Pat! It was great seeing you two talk so intimately, I honestly think that this video really shows a very different side of you that I have never seen in your earlier videos.

[@arsenioseslpodcast3143]

This is PERFECT! I love this book! I do podcasts on each mask and relate it to my life. The material and sexual masks are probably the ones that have the firmest stranglehold on men today.

[@ontraccapp]

Arsenio Buck yeah, and porn and masturbation, avoiding people becomes a recurring theme in their lives

[@rachellamoghadam6082]

This interview is truly amazing! To Lewis Howes: I think you are so brave for sharing your pain. Speaking your truth and revealing something so personal about yourself takes serious guts! I can only imagine how much good it has done for other people. For me, as a woman, I find it very inspiring to see a man open up about himself and be so vulnerable to the world, while still maintaining his passion for personal success! To Patrick-Bet David: I have just started watching your channel and have found it amazing so far! It's been so liberating to see someone else talk about the same values I've had for so long, knowing I'm not alone. My dad has had a similar life growing up and moving to the states from Iran, and it's so easy to connect to with your videos and the messages you have to share! I just want to say thank you to both of you for your bravery and inspiration!

[@VALUETAINMENT]

🙏🙏🙏💪🏽💪🏽

[@semajalan23]

This VERY POWERFUL & GREATLY IMPACTFUL PATRICK... THANK YOU..

[@KaneforKing]

love from nepal.. welcome back pat!!

[@ntttn520]

Kanefor King guff nahan

[@samgood9807]

I watched the Impact Theory interview of Lewis Howes, and I like how you took the same man and got a near completely different interview. Excellent lessons.

[@fernando254472]

Nice to see u again Patrick. Happy New year.

[@da-teachermanda6877]

so glad you back, love from a Malawian in cape town

[@Abeautifulmindclinic]

Authentic conversations from Both Sides Heart Touching Being a Psychiatrist it’s Very Important to be able to Express ourself completely Otherwise no Amount of Success Is going to Give us Sense of Fulfilment in Life If we are Destined for Bigger Causes we always serve better if we are at Peace with ourself

[@redpillbrotherhood110]

Welcome back. Glad you're back Pat!

[@shantanubaliyan8706]

I cried multiple times watching this.

[@joaobranco3397]

Amazing interview. Glad you're Back PBD

[@nitinkumar_005]

Missed you Mr. Patrick... So nice to see you uploading this on new year ... Welcome back... let the adventure continues....😊😎😋

[@FlorinGN]

First video since the comeback and it's Lewis Howes... this is an awesome comeback! Phone on silent, headphones on, notepad and pen close by... time to watch :D

[@niraj4024]

Glad that you are back

[@Lando0o0o0o0o0o]

Fantastic message! More men and women need to see this!

[@brisleyisaac8837]

Thanks man for coming back.We miss you🤝

[@harshitpanchal7545]

Welcome back Patrick missed u so much.

[@VALUETAINMENT]

🙏you’ve been missed as well. 😉

[@yomomomama3964]

one of the best content on this channel thanks Patrick

[@JK-bv4ke]

Lewis Thank You... Pat Thank You... Now I'm going to buy the BOOK!!!

[@kakashisensei2048]

Great interview. Welcome back PBD.

[@NetSunJin]

Absolutely loved this interview. Can’t wait to dive into the book! Thank you both for being so transparent. I know it will help a lot of people!

[@Simber23]

I'm loving the new intro and look forward to more interviews!

[@donttouch6692]

Great video as always 😁Love your videos can’t wait to see your next video👍❤️

[@immortalized_onion]

Awesome video man *loved it*

[@carlosmaldonado6860]

Lewis you're my hero.

[@prabhanehul2214]

Great comeback with such a deep topic ...looking for more such things.Keep going Valuetainment team.Grear content.Thankyou 🙏

[@vicosmendoza]

So glad that u r back

[@thechangeproviders5451]

Hello PBD, first of all let me join in with the many others who have congratulated you and thanked you for all of your success and content. You are an amazing educator and I have followed you silently for months. I’m glad you have returned and I admit that I certainly had been the first 3 types of valuetainment subscribers you mentioned in your return video. I liked that you called for ambassadors with that prior video. I do exactly the same with my own agenda. You remind me a lot of myself and as per your copycat video prior I don’t find that surprising. Many people do not realize that the interesting thing about humanity is that there are so many more things we share then we realize and admit. It is like there is a common think between individuals. I have always said that it is almost impossible to come up with a truly original idea. Chances are whatever you can think of has been thought of before, the difference is in who takes their thoughts to action and in the most effective ways. I know you push for reading and I acknowledge even as a current nonreader that it is extremely important for growth. A lot of what I have learned and teach through experience has a common think amongst all the greats and ironically I came to many of those conclusions on my own. The true power of reading is not necessarily in learning something new. After all the most effective reading will be on things you are passionate about. The true power as Jim Kwik says is the ability to compress and learn the decades of knowledge and mistakes that the author portrays in a matter of a week or however long it takes you to consume the topic. We learn through trial and error and if it is something you can connect with you will learn a lot. That’s why we have a tendency to learn more and value stories about mistakes than successes. Anyhow, what I have realized about you and you may not have yourself is that much of what you teach is business psychology. The principles in the areas of psychology are ultimately the same so in essence we teach the same thing but for different industries. I’m a doctor with a passion for mental health so this video really hit home for me. Ultimately your goal of 0% unemployed would be obtained with a goal of 0% stigma toward mental health which is one of my goals. Much like Lewis’ experience with that eye opening experience he had and the men said they would follow him, I will follow you for the same. You have an ambassador in me. I decided to create my own KZbin channel which will launch with some content soon. Of course mine will be much more lowtech due to my current financial position and being a single kickstarter. Maybe one day you can also be an Ambassador of CHANGE (that’s my organization, CHANGEJax.com). For now I answer Quora questions and just answered one that I linked this video to.I wish you continued success and hope we both reach our goals. What people don’t realize is that now more than ever our goals for world peace are possible. The beauty of connectivity that technology now allows is that there is truly global influence. The problem is the current use of it. There needs to be more influencers like you and I that need to put it to good use. Best of luck my friend. www.quora.com/As-I-think-this-will-prevent-people-my-age-from-not-thinking-of-committing-suicide-from-depression-Why-dont-doctors-have-a-insertion-implant-that-can-let-them-feel-what-their-patient-is-feeling/answer/Philip-Tran-25?share=3d95ac34&srid=54xfS

[@UdoADHD]

Thanks Patrick!

[@alandeleon8976]

Wow this is a really powerful interview.

[@immortalized_onion]

Great interview

[@nobertstanel9428]

Must be in top 3 interviews that i watched in last 12 months. Next to Ray Dalio and Tom Bilyeu. Amazing story & a must get book.Thank You Guys.

[@templeagodike7358]

I was a victim of what he's talking about but I recommend "wild at heart" by John Eldredge

[@VALUETAINMENT]

Temple Agodike another great book.

[@SC_MarkAI]

I really loved the moment when you talked about your dad. Really great interview, thank you

[@bitslittle]

OH MY GOODNESS! My two favorites in the same place! What a small world!

[@clayhundley3464]

Great content pat glad ur back.

[@satpreetsingh7459]

Daym!! Much needed, was not able to buy the book and then came to this!! Thanks pat, much love and respect 🙏👍👌

[@VALUETAINMENT]

You won't be able to put it down. tinyurl.com/ya8sqrw4

[@chakhil143]

Hi Patrick Can you make a video about skills to learn before you start a business like when your in college

[@bigz132]

dope interview!

[@markbenson6323]

that is straight dope in a real world

[@cphillps1749]

Bought this book and read it... Thanks Pat We have similar personalities and wow......

[@nuamanmalik8682]

Really enjoyed and understood and learnt from the 1st second to the last 🙋🙋🙋

[@jayyoung3258]

Great value added commentary!

[@danielvanderhoek3020]

Thank you so much for this video

[@jehovahshabba]

Good video to start off the new year valuetainment :)

[@ArginGerigorian]

Love it Patrick and Lewis!! Keep up the great work. Been watching all the videos! :)

[@ykc4638]

I just clicked the bell.

[@jeremiahdavis9813]

It’s so fucking lit that you’re back

[@Rising_Pho3nix_23]

This video inspired me to make this comment. I'm going to just come out and say it. I have been struggling with sexual and gender identity for years. I have been judged by so many people for so many things that I have put myself into a prison, never going anywhere, never talking to anyone, always hating and doubting myself. I take it out on those I care about because the few people in my life, I know they will accept my lashing out at them. Looking for ways to overcome the pain of judgement and rejection, I have pursued illegal things. Knowing that these things are illegal ends up increasing the fear of judgement and rejection, so these things become part of my prison.

[@slowmocitizen1939]

Pat you need to change the Mic, the sound is not clear as it was before. And i sent a msg via the website about the ambasssdors project. Other than that great content as always!

[@tangel165]

At 47:21 I instantly teared up and had to hold back some tears. Why?

[@stanleyman4100]

Great lesson

[@ArifHidayat]

PBD IS BAAAAAAACK

[@Ayushkumar-cv3er]

Wow! This guy is amazing.

[@jobroskull7623]

He’s back

[@jessemorton3909]

Thank you!