Matrilineal Marriage Culture, Khasi-Meghayala

[@famingkharnaior4088]

@Shenaz, Youngest daughter is not the owner of everything it's depend upon family but she inherit her parents house as a care taker but not all the properties. We Khasi men we work for the welfare of our own family first (Kamai iing Kur) when we married we work as a fathers for our children in our wife house as our own.(Kamai iing Khun ) but if we are not married to youngest daughter we build our own for the welfare of our children .

[@lapynshaikhongwir2340]

It's so true. I like your comment. Thank you. That should be our tradition. Proud of all the men in our family

[@hopelove7167]

The youngest daughter is not everything . The lady's and those guys comments is kind of off track. In fact in the khasi community one married out of love not out of wealth or inheritance.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@hopelove7167 still why men dont have the property right . Its a bad culture

[@hopelove7167]

@@mayankshukla3912 maybe it is the same as yours on your side men get all the property women are send off to married along with the dowry to be paid right ..it's a bad culture too on your side. As for the khasis some do give shares to their son too.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@hopelove7167 lol in our side women can easily get her fair share by moving to court. They have all rights.

[@purpleheart3861]

Yes pls Holy khasi tradition must be followed everywhere, not inside india but globally too💎

[@techhadi]

Didn't knew that, every culture is unique & beautiful in it's own way ❤️

[@patengukhunkhasishainohkhu6325]

So bad and free broken family,, break the law of God,, so dirty

[@69yearsago25]

_Khasi people need to update their culture before its too late. Outsiders are taking advantage out of this system! Yes it's unique but it doesn't mean it's better or best. Every culture needs to be updated._

[@azadshreya....5743]

How the advantage are taken?

[@69yearsago25]

@@azadshreya....5743 If you're married to a Khasi woman, you're not only married to the woman but also to the tribe as a whole. You marry a youngest gaughter and you're incharge of her property! This is the land where the king's son is a slave and a slave's son is the king.

[@zelina364]

@@69yearsago25 that's why marriage bill is important , to stop outsider take advantage .....

[@69yearsago25]

@@zelina364 What Marriage Bill?

[@bok3360]

this matrilineal system suck 👎 wake up before it's to late

[@alok_kumar_bhuyan]

I worked in Tura, Meghalaya, have seen this culture there in Garo communities as well..God job done, Shenaz.. 🙏

[@Mewanrahnam575]

Dei kane ka daw u naga u khein poh bha ia u khasi

[@zelina364]

@@Mewanrahnam575 balei bro

[@biddutkamalborah3231]

I am unmarried I am from assam can I marry khashi girl .Because I love khashi people.

[@azizwar8489]

Every man in this world considered his action ,his culture is the best. THIS IS HUMAN PROBLEMS. BECAUSE OF THIS THINKING THAT THERE IS NI PEACE I THIS PLANET .

[@dameiahshaphranglaloo6291]

Am from Meghalaya i belong fromMatrilineal society ,i don t like my society because all the property belong to both my sisters.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

Its true this system is outdated and unnatural making men the weaker sex.

[@mayankshukla3912]

Fight against it

[@rakhikar8416]

Lol deal with it like rest of the India is dealing with the patriarchal society

[@ls3514]

I wish your sister see this comment...😂

[@OetsuuuanT]

​@@rakhikar8416 s t fu pajeeta. Northeast Indians have never been Patriarchal. Deal with your own men and stop talking sh!t about northeast boys

[@Shillong-Megh]

Being a khasi myself, I wish to say that the matriarchal system followed by the Khasis is not really an ideal set up in society. The boys are neglected and are only used to provide financial and other kinds of help to his parents and sisters without really getting any part of the parents' property. You will see that Khasi males are less educated than Khasi females. They are also very irresponsible towards their wife and children because their loyalty lies with their 'kur' or their clan. Many times the mother of the man tends to control her son into devoting his finances and services towards his clan . The wife and children become secondary. This creates a lot of tension in the family and divorce is quite common. Broken families are aplenty among the Khasis. Many educated women either do not get married because they can't find a good mate or they get married outside the community for which they are criticized. I've seen so many irresponsible Khasi men in my lifetime that if my children are able to find good non- Khasi Christian men , I'll be very happy to give them my blessings. I'm not blaming the men. I put the blame on the matriarchal structure of the Khasi society which has made our Khasi men the way they are. I've been burned by this system and I don't want my children to suffer the same fate. I come from a well- educated progressive family in Shillong and I feel that Khasis need to change this system if they want the community to progress in this era and have their men become more educated and more responsible .

[@_nichi_kun_6817]

If you're a khasi you would know that khasi society isn't matriarchy lol

[@jlyngdoh5608]

So rather than trying to improve the system you rather give up on it. Wow. Your little " progressive " rant goes to show more about yourself than the system itself. Irresponsibility is something that can be changed, while you have seen irresponsible men, I've seen men who valued this system and knows their role to the dot, they would devote themselves to their mother's household and clan while they're single and when they're married they would devote themselves to their new family. Those cases are few and far in between and are just cases of individual familial manipulation. You're the type of person who would give up on someone or something when things don't go your way, For you it's more about what you can GET rather than what you can Give. smh.. I do Hope your children marry outside the Hynniewtrep society cause I wouldn't wish my worst enemy the problems that come from your type of thinking, which is probably passed down to your children. I pity the khasi men who are unfortunate enough to fall for your children, cause the problems that will come in the future is not worth it. Bimbo's like you should just move somewhere new, some place akin to your mode of thinking and taste.

[@elsha1990]

If all khasi men and women are having a heart like you . We can change this system. My heart broke when I see still many many khasi people still wanted to keep this matrilineal culture. Divorce and broken family are ahead.

[@Shillong-Megh]

@@_nichi_kun_6817 lol really? Please look up the definition of matriarchy on Wikipedia or on any other website..lol

[@Shillong-Megh]

@Minni True👍

[@spark300c]

Khasi is magical place where the man does not have worry about making more money than the women. He just have to be hard working man.

[@lamang05mylliem]

Lol who told you 😂😂😂you got wrong information

[@mohanamoksh2957]

It's a beautiful tradition n it's good to prevail in other parts of India.

[@tanataku3988]

Ask those husbands when their wives are not together, their answers would be different😂. Not all husabnds are happily married ever after .

[@banteilangiawphniaw9028]

and not all the property goes to the youngest daughter its distributed to all just that the youngest being the person who will take care of their parents get more properties...

[@Damnstrait98]

I'm from Meghalaya, Im interested in girls not their property.

[@dameiahshaphranglaloo6291]

I'm from Meghalaya matrilineal society.When I got married i left my home now i stayed with my wife.I don't get satisfied because women in our society they ruled and torture too much.

[@manchagojohnsonmanchago6367]

Fuck, sounds bad

[@youngreflectmanipur8945]

Is a lesson to teach all man see how much women get worry n how they live n face when they get married in man house ..I agreed this rule

[@anthonycosta128]

​@@youngreflectmanipur8945 People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@anthonycosta128]

​@@youngreflectmanipur8945And about torture nowadays even in patrilineal societies many men also face domestic abuse by their wives all wives are not that good men mostly face mental or verbal abuse

[@lovingmylife2662]

Love from northeast,Meghalaya from my khasi and garo people.

[@armourlyngdoh999]

But not all khasi men enjoys staying in girl's house.. some khasi men took their wives to their homes and even gave their surnames/titles to their kids.. moreover, nowadays many khasi guys prefer to marry girls from other communities rather than khasi girls..shehnaz do reasearch in this regard too..

[@YoYo-nt7yf]

I def wont marry guys like you tho😉

[@notoriousj.i.z9943]

@@YoYo-nt7yf a weeb in the comment section, didnt expect that

[@barikupariangrai6009]

Definitely, this guy a world renowned jerk

[@anthonycosta128]

​@Minni I would like to do that atleast it is better still than marrying a gold digger and I don't have to provide for her all the time she will provide to the family something in return unlike those modern feminists who don't hold them responsible but only wish men to provide house, car, property for them without any accountability

[@captaintaurus4285]

No problem with the culture but the worst thing is that all the properties go to the daughter, the son doesn't get even 1%. I think that the Meghalayan parents don't love their son. Thank God, I am from West Bengal

[@captaintaurus4285]

@@Aditi-mb3qm Both men and women should get equal rights......In Meghalaya and in parts of Kerala the rights of women are more and in other states, men have more right.....Is there any place in the entire world where people of both the gender enjoy equal rights...? I wonder 🤔

[@captaintaurus4285]

@@Aditi-mb3qm This is not the case now...Girls also get their share but boys get the Max share if property.....the girl gets all the jewels of her mother...

[@anthonycosta128]

​@@captaintaurus4285 People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@hiamrymmai3237]

Youngest daughter will not get/inherit all the properties, but the 'lion share'.

[@shane2ification]

I prefer bilateral system.. atleast in property.. a minimum for the boy's too... It's hard to start from scratch.. not all are lucky enough... 🙏🙏 In the other system the girls is sad to feel unlucky and here boy's are not lucky as well... That's why I feel a minimalistic consideration for boys should also be provided ( bilateral)...

[@YoYo-nt7yf]

Yes agree...Ahhh finally someone who commented in the right way and not like many guys here with some fragile ego. I do agree...it seems many do that tho mynta ka juk lei...kum ju da ieh ia u khun shynrng lade ruh...ka bha kumne nmr ba ka ai ka sense of longing ha ka Jait lade ruh.

[@shane2ification]

Yeah! I feel the same...

[@Shillong-Megh]

@@YoYo-nt7yf Khasi men are more loyal to their clan than to their wives and children. That's why they're very irresponsible towards their wives and kids. I don't blame the men . I blame the system. The system should change so that men are not controlled by their 'kur' anymore. Men are just pawns in the Khasi society. They don't have any rights. Many of them thus become victims of addiction and die young. Why am I saying all this? Because I've been badly treated by my husband and his clan and was on the brink of a divorce because of his irresponsibility. I don't blame my husband but I blame the system and his clan for making him the way he is.

[@alex47_in_downtown18]

Matriarchies are unnatural & hence they need to isolate themselves from to rest of the world to exist.

[@jlyngdoh5608]

​@@shane2ification ... leit mih sha ka kur..

[@esternongdhar4736]

Youngest doughter is only the custodian of the khasi law not to inherit to her all the property, their parent divide accordingly how many daughters they have .

[@b12345678w]

I've asked my Dad why only females get to inherited his wealth? Dad: Man are the 12bor, if man mistreat (divorce and left his children) his wife she will still have something to support herself and the children.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

In patriliny men will simply not leave the children cause he own them by his clan name unlike the men in matriliny.

[@mayankshukla3912]

What of women mis treat and kick you out ? What will you do

[@anthonycosta128]

What if the mother is abusive/psycho type?

[@saikatbaidya4999]

Oo u r the Ishk vishk actress... watching u newly.. this episode is very funny but a new thing we knew by you.. keep it up..

[@bhagyavannagure2736]

very interesting.. in our side it is bit similar as (mane aliya) son in law of the house , when in the family no one guy is born and daughter is born , then the guy marry to that daughter he become son in law of the house , and he moves to wife s house and he takes care about his wifes family and that all property bellongs to that guy/wife

[@ashwinkumar.s5993]

We Nairs also practised this system( till 1935) Nairs are a group of sub caste or titles such as Nair ,Menon,pillai,kurup, paniker,unnithan,Nair pothuval,Nair marar,kartha,kaimal,adiyodi,Nambiar,nayanar ......

[@riwarchannel321]

Really?

[@wallambokmangu344]

From which state/country

[@Victormeshan]

Hello sir can I chat with you to know about the rich culture of India

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

Good for you guys that you left this matriliny system and embrazing patriliny coz its outdated and unnatural making men the weaker sex.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

@@Aditi-mb3qm Why did you put yourself under a curse sister? Going against God's perfect ways of strenghtening patriarchy family will put you in devil's trapped. Take care.

[@code9954]

Do read it She-Naz: My gf who I'd be dating for 3 months asked me to shift into her apartment wherein I paid all the utility, groceries, petrol(3 cars), mobile and even her salon bills(total came out close to 1.5lac a month) but she candidly called me a freeloader in front of her friends. Well, little did she know that I own a penthouse in Bandra West and several properties in India and across the globe. Never told her and moved out. Lesson learnt, "wo bulayegi, par jaane ka nahi...".Lol. Atleast in India it is hard to break the stereotype thinking.

[@anunemployedsoftwareengine1425]

🥺i feel sorry for you.

[@anunemployedsoftwareengine1425]

I hope you get a better partner

[@anthonycosta128]

People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@code9954]

​@@anthonycosta128 Who owns the property in matrilineal society? Money is power. If women hold the power then they are the ones calling the shots.

[@demingsangma5683]

Hello, madam ji! We meghalaya people (Garo and Khasi)are bound to follow the same Matriarchal culture. I belong to Garo community. But, feel so much happy and great for being praised. We Garo also do the same. Man goes to Girl house and youngest girl inherit as she is responsible for parents. But as it's being said by many people in comments it depends upon the family members whether to keep youngest daughter to inherit or to keep middle or eldest one. If youngest one is not according to the Will or direction of parents, they have no right to inherit.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

in matrilinial society women are praised but men are condemned !!! 😅

[@banteilangiawphniaw9028]

only the last daughter can stay with their parents and take care of them..and only the husband of the last daughter can stay with the wife...others have to move out and built their own homes...and usually the man is the head of the family...

[@majorsunday2824]

From now on you have to know that Khasi guy is the tail of the house not the head of the house.

[@ekbachchisabseachchi926]

I am doing privately research on matriarchy society. I find out very meaning points, so to convert whole world in matriarchy society. I am searching good team.

[@BigMamaVee]

I want to leave United States and move here. I am raising my daughter already with these matriarchal behaviors and views 💚💚💚

[@anthonycosta128]

Haha there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway you people don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers or head of the family but not the protectors. Men are still protectors and head of the society here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@appatakkar6112]

Don't marry instead, stay single, you will have peace, u can booze all day, no commitments, no mother-in-law problems as well.

[@kynsaiwarjri2023]

Pride Goes Before Destruction, a Haughty Spirit Before a Fall: Proverbs 16:18

[@gabezthangkhiew4192]

Very lucky and blessed indeed for the Khasi women . Because others state or maybe other places in the world are rare to have such a Great power bestowed upon them. They got well respect . I'm so proud of our tradition our ancestors for their great visions...as we noticed now a days women being discriminated or violence against them in other places

[@anthonycosta128]

People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@alt-2553]

​@@anthonycosta128for me personally Matrilineal society is the worst I'm not saying all of it depends.. But for us a mixed of diff land and diff culture is hard to deal with it's unacceptable that's my opinion (I'm Khasi btw)

[@OetsuuuanT]

Lo s er system

[@ramkithirugnanam4257]

different kinda video , as usual superb

[@WayanadanGlobetrotter]

Meghalaya is extraordinary place...Good presentation...keep it up..

[@Uwusus_56]

wow its same like in my village #BHUTAN please visit here also its a very beautiful place you will enjoy and love it

[@beastboy9168]

Do you also have matriachy

[@newzztube]

so lively and awesome Shenaz

[@user-lf6nk5gh5b]

I love this culture ❤

[@FredyBlah]

😁😂 Hilarious! When men have to be gold diggers. Just the opposite of everything, right?? & with many side effects I guess. So sad you know, but it's true. Nice video Shenaz.👍👍

[@banteilangiawphniaw9028]

its not like that im a khasi i know how thing are around here

[@ravimk4494]

@@banteilangiawphniaw9028 how

[@donnalorraine3529]

You look hilarious yourself so ugly thoughts poor you Joker

[@donnalorraine3529]

We are proud of our Khasi men they are gentlemen not like you Joker

[@lajong2391]

My grandparents distributed property to sons and daughters equally. Love from West khasi hills District

[@bahdengsyiem3039]

I didn't recommend about our system because girl or youngest daughter when she get married everything supposed if she get married to non matrineal group

[@zelina364]

yes

[@khrawmawkon2060]

Khasi protect our girls 🎉❤

[@me_ow5662]

Omg I just found this video, you are beautiful .. I love your warm smile..

[@khrawmawkon2060]

Long live martrilineal sociaty in my Meghalaya

[@shadmanabdulkalamkalam2261]

Well done shenaz keep it up 👍❤️😊😍

[@skhongwir4046]

Hi chenas can we meet one day pse i like your support our culture 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@vivekmehta3995]

When you going to come Uttarakhand ?

[@ykyndaitworld19]

Shame for our Powerless man😂😂😂😂

[@anunemployedsoftwareengine1425]

A stigma to our masculinity.

[@illpyogaming1914]

Well only the guy who marries the youngest daughter have to go n live with his mother n father in law not all should go n live with in laws the one who marries the oldest or middle daughter they live in their own seperate home in Meghalaya the youngest is responsible to look after their parents in old age while other son's n daughters go to help at time when required or needed casually back then only youngest daughter inherited every thing but now other daughter oldest or middle also inherite property too but most goes to the youngest daughter even son nkw inherited property base on what or how much wealth the parent have to pass on in case u think that only youngest daughter inherit all property that's no longer the case a bit of change has been set for every child welfare generations wise

[@kerjalong]

Welcome to meghalaya

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

Yes a LAND OF LOST MALE RIGHTS.

[@ML_06]

My khasi culture was a worst way of practicing matrilinial system, it is a very failed culture women having more than one husband 20% of the married women

[@dobetter02]

Ok then tell if a Meghalaya boy married to a north Indian or non northest girl will he go to her house?

[@dafinatnongtdu490]

Nope... He will take her to his house.. there are khasi women who stay at her in law house

[@Andlib-hb8yi]

Is it possible for muslim boy to marry khasi girl. He don't want her to change. He just want to marry her because they both love eachother. But she is sacred wherever her family accept him or not

[@InsightInfinity555]

Do a court marriage first if you marry Khasi you should go according to matrilineal society, so you need to adopt their parents move to her house and surname + children + husband should follow wife's culture This is what I know and understood so far

[@jsangma3476]

In matrilineal system, society cannot be strong as patrilineal.. So disadvantage

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

This system is outdated and unnatural making men the weaker sex.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

@@Aditi-mb3qm If you are a christian and still accept matriliny you are under a curse my sister, every generational family recorded in the Bible were following patriarchy.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

@@Aditi-mb3qm One day you will know the TRUTH and it will set you free. Stop cursing the beautiful creation of God (human). Let God alone leads you in the right path. 🙂

[@anthonycosta128]

​@@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@patengukhunkhasishainohkhu6325]

Jaitkmie bym don nongrim ka knieh iaka ikriar ka jait u symbai u shynrang kaba UBlei U lah ai,, dustur pyrshah iaka hukum UBlei bad iaka hok long briew man briew kaba U Blei U lah ai,, jait bynriew ban sa jah haka wei ka por

[@iamlegend3133]

Ye toh sanatani culture nhi hai.. toh jab khasi log apna culture nhi chhod sakte toh.. baki jo bhi India mein culture hai.. wo kyu iss culture appreciate kar rhe...

[@jofersonmarthong6339]

Nobody knows the brutal truth of khasi culture. It is absolutely decline khasi men.I'm from khasi that is why i know it.

[@rajeevmenon4u]

Happening in Kerala also

[@bishalkarlov4916]

Rajeev menon in Kerala i read in one book and i know that practice have been abolished by the Nayair regulation act 1925. Is not it.

[@ashwinkumar.s5993]

@@bishalkarlov4916 yes Menon,kurup,paniker,pillai,Nambiar,Nair,Nayanar,kartha,kaimal,pothuval,Nair marar,unnithan all these surname or title belongs to Nair caste.

[@bishalkarlov4916]

@@ashwinkumar.s5993 but i see book that now they abolished that matrilineal system by introducing Nayair regulation act 1925 because they see that when the property passed from mother to daughter hampered the growth of economy.

[@bishalkarlov4916]

@@ashwinkumar.s5993 i learned that in Nayair society now they have changed this matrilineal system from matrilineal to patrilineal since 1925 isn't it ? But in meghalaya they feared to change this system because they don't want to hurt the sentiments of Gods and Goddesses till now they don't want to dump this matrilineal culture.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

Good for the families in Kerala that they have adopted Patriachy at the right time, but sorry to hear Meghalaya still putting to sleep under the curse of matriliny. Wake up you guys, coz this matriliny system makes God furious portraying men the weaker sex because if you don't someday you gonna be a slave in your own homeland.

[@boy-mixed-vid.4122]

Love it 🥰 from Garo hills

[@cmtyngkaimattiriewhyndai7455]

This is down culture not khasi culture many khasi men in this generation take their wives to their own house why because the problem is the mother inlaw donot like the man to control their,

[@joyashreebhattacharjee9337]

I think it's very normal to them..may be the guy faces the prblm here.😂 just like a girl from our society who faces saas bahu prblm at in-laws house

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

This system is outdated and unnatural making men the weaker sex that makes God mad.

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

@@Aditi-mb3qm why are you protecting the lie of matriliny that has brought a curse to many ancient families? You abandoned the TRUTH of God giving Patriarchy system, you will never experienced God's blessing until you repent!!!

[@anthonycosta128]

​@@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@sumehakushwaha7364]

Coming to meghalaya

[@jennyfondabolwary9011]

Maam not only khasi, Garo community also

[@bharadwaj25]

I just realized, am not married yet 🤪

[@shenaztreasury..]

Hahahaha all the best!😉

[@bharadwaj25]

@@shenaztreasury.. : i've not found my "soul mate" yet. As they say, marriages are made in heaven and i believe soul searching happens on earth 😇

[@edward4516]

when they get marriage, come new family, new house, no 👎🙅jiont family

[@zelina364]

most outsider dont understand how our society work ..

[@Aditi-mb3qm]

Even we in Patriarchy don't want joint family unless it's the other way round

[@isthatyou1836]

Very interesting video

[@shenaztreasury..]

Thanks!🤗🤗

[@isthatyou1836]

@@shenaztreasury.. you're most welcome 😂👊🏿

[@rahul-qo3fi]

No mother in law problem!!! How blatantly women accept that they are the ones that cant gel well with others

[@anthonycosta128]

People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@loveislifers3246]

I think I have to get married with a girl in shillong

[@Mytravelaccounts]

Need me a Khasi man!!

[@SalrakgipaSangma]

Love from Garo Hills Meghalaya

[@kriti743]

❤❤❤

[@drkitkurlangsawian2113]

I did not go the girl home even if she is the only daughter😂

[@stephandharkahit7249]

I too did not go to the mother in law's house. We stayed 3 days only after marriage. We rentedba house. Later wevhad our own house what more under my own name.

[@69yearsago25]

Me la lehbein ia ka kiaw u kthaw tate. Mano pat ban sumar ia ki?

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

If her mother insisted her to take her children her surname, im outta here !

[@ribalyngdoh8877]

Yesss

[@MrPunlue]

The same Khmer/Cambodian culture

[@mayankshukla3912]

Feel bad for all men out there .

[@nehagouniyal6717]

Are you jealous with matriarch society

[@arulprakash9452]

Superb sister 😊🙏🏻❤

[@rajkappor34]

Nice

[@isanju331]

So sehnaz marry 1 khasi boy, u will be benefited

[@YoYo-nt7yf]

Nope ther is a law...any woman or man marry an outsider...you became an outsider . You may be a Khasi by blood but not by the Law of the Kur brought about now.your children will never become a Khasi because you marry an outsider. SO do that with your own risk. Marry the one you love. Same applies to Mizo people.

[@69yearsago25]

@@YoYo-nt7yf Which law? I'm a Khasi but never heard such kind of law. Khasi Social Custom of Lineage is still a bill.

[@69yearsago25]

Only non Khasi boy will be benefited in this society.

[@snehajangir-w7i]

I just discovered it, I would marry someone from from Khasi tribe in a heartbeat, I have no issues being the breadwinner of the house. Infact, I would take care of him and coming generations. Oh! When I come back to India I will run to Meghalaya for Khasi men.

[@InsightInfinity555]

Wonderful to read I do support matrilineal culture

[@justicekd3877]

Khasi man just like chowkidar at his wife's house because he was no home or property on his own side.All property belong to his mother in law and Wife. Shame for Khasi Man. Manager became Chowkidar.

[@ebenezer_l_myrthong]

Not chowkidar but as protector of the Khasi Community.We khasi men are the protector of the family because the family is the bloodline of the community and they protect them so that our lineage goes on.We Khasi men are the Protector.

[@69yearsago25]

Sad but true, some people are trying to ignore this fact.

[@barbara_corcoran6150]

@@ebenezer_l_myrthong ym myntoi ban batai ia kine ki "ai jait kpa" league 😂😂 kin kynthoh beit kumne, tip ki kpa jong ki ki shah leh heh haduh katno ba ki da sngewsih kthang katne katne 😂😂 ngi te i Pa la ka pyniaid ia ka iing ka sem, la ka thied iing thied jaka, i ai kyrteng beit ha i mei ia kiba i thied ruh, ki Kñi ruh katno ngi burom, da don kaei kaei ka mat ha iing, ngi shait da kynjoh ktien sha ki Kni ban ioh ka jingkyrkhu na ki. Kane ka dustur Khasi jong ngi. Nga sngewsih ba kiwei ki khlem ioh mad lem ia kata.

[@zelina364]

Only if you are poor.. and that too it depends on family .

[@zelina364]

most khasi man buy his own land build his own property own house,and take his wife with him, and that too his children always carried his wife surname ...

[@indiakarnan]

what the boy's parents will do,

[@Randomspace17]

His youngest sister will take care of them. And in a situation where he have no sister at all then his wife or one of his brothers wife will move in.

[@shenaztreasury..]

@@Randomspace17 thanks for the information friend!

[@bishalkarlov4916]

@@Randomspace17 a society where Mother is the Head of the family and Father have to obey his wife's order i think because he is not the owner of the House and if he do anything in his own will he will be thrown out.

[@barbara_corcoran6150]

@@bishalkarlov4916 hahaaha this guy is just salty and spreading fake information in the comments 😂😂

[@ykyndaitworld19]

@@bishalkarlov4916 Dame True .....I hate this flop culture

[@anthonycosta128]

Haha there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway you people don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers or head of the family but not the protectors. Men are still protectors and head of the society here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@kirti2908]

Meghalay mein ladkon ko Sanskar sikha kar bheja jata hai sasural ki Tum kisi Aur ke Ghar ja rahe ho to tumhen tamiz se rahana chahie SAS sasur ki seva karna chahie?

[@shrawanpradhan8749]

1.07 Miss Iarisa ♥️🔥

[@kingsleyhopper]

Hey buddy I feel like you are losing your charm , are you all alright? Thumbs up if you are alright buddy ❤️

[@nora.gabiltv.1699]

Hello sister my from Meghalaya 🤗🥰

[@anthonycosta128]

​@Max Tax People don't understand the difference between matriarchal society and matrilineal society it is (Khasi) not a matriarchal society it is just a matrilineal society where only grooms go to brides home and women are the providers but not protectors. Men are still protectors here people always mix them up patrilineal is not patriarchy and matrilineal is not also matriarchy there is no such thing as matriarchy anyway

[@anthonycosta128]

@Max Tax You are welcome good to know you got it in these communities men are head of the society but women head of the house/family plus women can own properties

[@anthonycosta128]

@Max Tax Yes kind of

[@koiltadainmumbai4584]

Well it's true most problems of society are nonexistent in matrilineal society.

[@mayankshukla3912]

And society is weak too

[@alex47_in_downtown18]

She just said in the video that divorce is common...wake up from your fantasies dove

[@bahdengpyngrope1323]

Kine ki shynrang khasi biej ruh hangne kumno kim lehrain ei ba ki pynpaw ha ka pyrthei ha kane ka vedio ba kidei ki nong bud sha iing ka kynthei . phuit lah poh hi khait kum kine ki jait shynrang henpeck

[@vaibhavsingh-bz1xf]

Mom : get married .. Me : not until whom u find is the youngest sister

[@FredyBlah]

😁😁Gold diggers

[@vaibhavsingh-bz1xf]

@@FredyBlah 😎

[@69yearsago25]

In case you didn't know, I'll tell you brother. If you're married to a Khasi woman, you're not only married to the woman but to the tribe as a whole. You'll get the benefits and your children too will get. I know this system is fvcked and if you got maried to a Khasi woman you're the luckiest motherfvker LoL.

[@Aditi-mb3qm]

@@69yearsago25 But it's far better than patriarchal systems. It's not that bad in fact Khasi, Garo etc cultures are far superior

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@Aditi-mb3qm lol patriarchy is better and strong .

[@69yearsago25]

*We are Hynñiew Trep(7 huts). We came from Heaven to Earth through Lumsohpet Bneng!!! We are a cummunity where a king's son can become a slave and a slave's son can become a king! Some people say We are unique.*

[@notoriousj.i.z9943]

Homie ur name makes me think ur a man of culture?

[@69yearsago25]

@@notoriousj.i.z9943 😂

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

Wake up! This system makes God mad portraying men the weaker sex.

[@saralyngwa5095]

@@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES In a patriarchal community a man becomes a commodity where a woman would love to pay through a dowry

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

@@saralyngwa5095 did they do that in Nagaland and Manipur also?

[@zjsangma]

Wow

[@blackhawk7462]

Our system is suck... Few understand that.

[@HUPERPCTOP]

👍

[@12BMEDIA-BY-RAMEEZ]

Iam one of your follower in instagram Now i started to watch on youtube Your videos are pretty amazing Love and regards from 12 b media 💕

[@lol-dh5zn]

Jamai rajas.. In meghalaya

[@vikramreddy278]

💝🌹🌹

[@equatorfilmsofficial]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@shenaztreasury..]

❤️❤️❤️

[@bishalkarlov4916]

@@shenaztreasury.. i think meghalaya is a land of Stepfathers. Thanks for revealing the truth and i think the women from the patrilineal society they will never marry those men of this society after watching this video because men lost their right to ownership.

[@69yearsago25]

@@bishalkarlov4916 Let me tell you brother, as a Khasi man myself I can say that it's easier for me to catch a cheetah than to date a Non-Khasi girl. And many Khasi girls prefer Non Khasi men especially those living in the urban areas. If you want to take this advantage then come to Meghalaya, a land where a king's son is the slave and a slave's son is the king! If you're married to a Khasi girl you're not only married to the girl but to the tribe as a whole.

[@bishalkarlov4916]

@@69yearsago25 i knew very well brother according to my research. Now aday i learned from my non tribal friends who live in shillong for long time back that theirs parents were not happy if their sons marry with Khasi women because they knew that they will loose their identities and wealth in the hands of their daughters in law who were khasi women..Shehnaz treasury please say something if you see this.

[@69yearsago25]

@@bishalkarlov4916 I think your friend got this one wrong, they'll not lose their wealth whatsoever. Instead they'll get from their wives(Khasi women) if they know how to play the role. If they don't know then sure they'll lose.

[@mohammedramees6631]

The Muslim of Kerala do this

[@Kittiecat-o3p]

System of self distruction community

[@YoYo-nt7yf]

You and your toxic Ideals. Go to the West and they will welcome you. Stop With your unused Ideals. ITS Not gonna promote you anywhere.

[@donnalorraine3529]

Low grade foreigner

[@Aditi-mb3qm]

What about Patriarchy?!! Their Matrinial societies are way more balanced and strong. All societies in ancient times were Matrinial or Matriarchal. Respect your ansisters

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

This system makes God furious portraying men the weaker sex.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@Aditi-mb3qm our ancestors had dowry system and sati too

[@mianaarengh7918]

😘😘😘

[@badondormawlong6016]

❤💕❤❤❤

[@pallabgoswami8886]

Haseen muskan hai aapki

[@JassiSingh-rb1jm]

Very nice culture. It should be the norm everywhere.

[@YoYo-nt7yf]

Yes..Dowry will decrease

[@KNOWLEDGE_LIBERATES]

You mean making men the weaker sex.

[@alex47_in_downtown18]

The fact that they need to isolate themselves from the rest of the world to EXIST shows how unnatural matriarchies are.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@YoYo-nt7yf lol . A women trying to make men fool. Their society is actually a failed society. What have they achieved.

[@mayankshukla3912]

@@YoYo-nt7yf kuch nahi milega tujhe .