Matt and Abby's UNPLANNED + Colleen Ballinger's RELAX!!: The Upsetting Reality of Couple Podcasts

[@MickeyAtkins]

Girl I clicked on this for the tea and recoiled into the couch like I was on candid camera when you said my name 😂😂 Thanks for the shoutout and excellent video!!

[@msmollybk]

YAAAY! So glad you enjoyed and sorry for the jump scare!!

[@freddyfazbear6350]

Oh, hi Mickey, love your content🧡

[@freddyfazbear6350]

​@@msmollybk love your videos, even though watching it for the first time

[@aliciafree4246]

Colleen and Eric give me the energy of that one couple out for dinner in your group that are having an open fight and trying to involve you in it 😅

[@EpicKate]

I've had two c- sections, Holy cow it's crazy to think anyone thinks it's cheating. The pain is ridiculous.

[@jillk4461]

I've recovered from childbirth, and I've recovered from abdominal surgery. I have MAD respect for women who manage to do both at the same time. Y'all are superheroes.

[@moustik31]

I had one for fibroma and I couldnt sit/stand for a whole week! I was in so much pain!

[@H4nn4hL]

Six months postpartum with a C-section. STILL in recovery and have pain daily.

[@honeydewgurlfriend]

Imo c sections are harder than non c section births (of course this is a blanket statement)

[@autismworldtravel]

@@honeydewgurlfriendI agree, though I acknowledge every woman’s childbirth is different. Exceptions exist, and c sections have certainly saved lives. I have four children, 2 were born vaginally. The other two (twins), were born via c section. The c section was far worse, in every regard. The recovery was nothing like my previous births, and I was young, healthy, with “easy” pregnancies. I had all my children by age 28. C sections are major surgery, most people don’t realize that.

[@BunniBeshara]

I can’t stand Matt’s face and the fact that he *thinks* he’s hot. The cringe is pure and unadulterated.

[@Octobris]

Conventionally attractive? Sure, I can see that. But hot he is definitely not 😂

[@annieboyle4434]

he’s not hot at all. he has the exact look and attitude of a washed up theatre kid who’s annoyingly arrogant cuz he’s insecure

[@camillekartchner]

I think what makes Matt's music feel icky is because he's singing about those things at the expense of his wife and kids. It's one thing to sing about mental health, but the way he goes about it is a little.... 😬

[@calinac1671]

if my partner told me that the reason for his depression was because he felt forced into the life WE built TOGETHER i might just fall apart

[@camillekartchner]

@@calinac1671 oh FOR REAL

[@VeraAndTheDogs]

Might not be accurate, but it seems like Matt liked Abby more before the kids. Body wise, as they talk about it a lot. It seems like he is upset he can’t be babied anymore by her, he needs so much attention on him. He seems upset he’s not getting that undivided attention.. still blows my mind he didn’t talk to her for I think two days after her birth!! Like WHAT?!

[@terinrandle5084]

No literally this

[@sarahmcdonald4787]

And what's so sad about it is he openly talks about it in an indirect way and she just sits there awkwardly like "hahaha yeah...."

[@joey4222]

I know he is such a baby it’s unbelievable. Literally a man child. And also Abby is so freakin in shape it’s insane. So I don’t know what his problem is

[@sherilynl4038]

Bingo!!

[@HayleySulfridge]

Their comment on cheating birth shocked me. I’ve had two births, only vaginal, and i was taking pain meds for the episiotomy, i was TERRIFIED to have a C-Section. Besides my minor pain i was up and at’em immediately, i don’t know how c-section moms do it!

[@coleworld4385]

I was shocked too. I had two natural and my LAST baby had to be extra and I had to have an emergency cesarean… it was literally the scariest moment of my entire life… I have never had major surgery before and since it was an emergency, I wasn’t expecting it. It was REALLY hard to heal. Definitely not skipping out on anything there and there’s no way women who have a cesarean should feel that way.

[@trashbasket11]

Same! I was so scared of a C-section because the recovery is usually so much harder than a traditional birth. They need to stfu.

[@quinceyclouds3208]

making a song about how you’re not happy with your marriage, two kids, millions of dollars… INSANE also, in terms of postpartum depression, sure the person in the relationship not giving birth can also feel that stress and pain, but he explained it not as “depression”, but as “I’m upset that we had another baby cause I rather make music”. And that he was MAD AT HIS WIFE. AFTER SHE GAVE BIRTH. I hope they’re happy in their lives and that their kids are healthy; but showcasing on the internet all the things you dislike about your wife is not the move.

[@moustik31]

Tbf, I feel like a lot of religious kids are groomed/pressured into "consenting" to these lifestyle choices: get married, have kids, never divorce, embrace traditional gender roles, etc. but their consent isnt informed and that's why, they have a lot of "buyer regrets".

[@mzhelenahyde2851]

@@moustik31Or we just like to be traditional

[@moustik31]

@@mzhelenahyde2851 Sure, you ALL like to be traditional. It's something that you ALL chose of your own free will and a complete understanding, of what you were signing for before hand. You are aware, that some of us grew fundie and witnessed the misery first hand, while everybody else had a chance to watch either a fundie influencer and/or a fundie reality tv demonstrate said misery as their "testimony/ministry". And it's not like it's even their fault (abusers excluded)! It's just that faulty information produces faulty results. The fault lies with these self-appointed preachers/charlatans, who pretend(ed) to speak "in the name of god" but were/are simply pushing their own personal preferences/bigotry instead. What's "godly/holy" in any of that?! Anyway, the only way for us to know, whether or not "traditional gender roles" are "ordained by god" is to analyse its "fruits". Imo, said fruits are rotten but if you guys want to keep dining on them, nobody will stop you: this is a free country. Edit: I'm only sorry for the kids. They deserve better choices.

[@moustik31]

Relating to Abby and Matt, divorce might not be an option, but it looks like "quiet quitting" your mariage on the other hand ... And I'll leave it at that.

[@jnihill4514]

Colleen Ballinger is still doing stuff? Do... do people actually watch it?

[@msmollybk]

"Relax" gets about 30K views per episode

[@jnihill4514]

​@@msmollybkwhoa. I guess there are a lot of masochists in the world.

[@CraiginOhioUSA]

Everyone is waiting for her to restart her career. It's been a very very long wait for the fans of Miranda Sings. The damage to Colleen's career, by the disgusting liar/scammer Adam McIntyre was very upsetting, there are still many people who believed absolutely every lie he told.

[@Octobris]

​@@CraiginOhioUSA what is disgusting is your comment. Her career is over. Sure, Adam is not without fault, and he did exaggerate parts of the story, but he is not a liar. The signs of her toxicity are there, sprinkled throughout multiple videos posted over the years. I'm saying this as an ex fan, who watched her stuff for a decade. Besides, even if you don't believe Adam... Why not trust Josh, the person who was the closest to her for years, who she hurt and humiliated repeatedly? Wake the fck up.

[@sarahbornhorst7072]

@@CraiginOhioUSAsmdh

[@rae_gem]

I get what you mean about 26 seeming so young. I had told my husband about the Father’s Day/birthday thing and he said “is this guy 12? You don’t act that when you’re a dad.” 😂 You two are way cuter than these couples trying to be cutesy.

[@msmollybk]

Aw shucks!! Thanks for watching!!

[@LemoniestLemony]

I had to skip through Matt singing. It gives me such bad second-hand embarrassment that it's painful.

[@andrewbullington8166]

Imagine having to learn how to play it and then re-record... 😢

[@leora_in_london]

His music is bad enough, but having to watch/listen to someone having to watch/listen to it is cringe x100000

[@dovestone_]

I’m 26 and I’m shocked they’re my age / younger They seem tired

[@msmollybk]

They are! 2 under 2 is not an easy ride

[@dovestone_]

@@msmollybk very true!

[@Heideberry]

Matt's lyrics are not complementary to his wife, his family or his life in general. He says something like I thought I would be happier. How can you sing that you are not happy with your wife and kids, that you see your kids as something holding you back from having freedom in life. His songs sound like break up songs and he's singing about how he realises that he wasn't happy and he wants freedom and to be alone and not have responsibilities. That's an awful way to write and sing that Infront of your wife and kids that is happy but you are saying you are not but playing it up as a romantic song to her. Which it's not, it's basically a diss track about his family and that he wishes he was his younger single self.

[@knjparadise]

matt reminds me of the boys in my high school youth group

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

That’s where he peaked, so it makes perfect sense.

[@SQUIDELIZA]

“But I would be drunk and childless” - me shaking my head yes vigorously. drunk & without kids sounds like the proper way to go about that.

[@taylafarquhar1614]

The "But I-iiiiiiii would be drunk! And childless"! Thank you 😂

[@belfry.bats.xx.]

matt seriously reminds me of someone i made the mistake of dating last year lol the guy is also 26 and such a freaking man-child. they both act like they’re 16, not 26 💀 keep in mind im 22, and this man wanted me to mother him 24/7. i only lasted a month in that relationship haha

[@stilted]

Lmao, glad you didn't make us wait for the cover 😂😂😂😂

[@Heideberry]

Matt's second song should be called I'm disappointed that I have responsibilities and I don't want them anymore.

[@miacarvalho8732]

Yeah, if I felt this way about my kid I'm not saying a word about it outside my therapist office. God. Also, the melody is supposed to be moving, and almost uplifting

[@linzileverenz4737]

Wishing you an easy pregnancy/delivery

[@ari.maeve.g]

Who’s Matt? The guy I been sitting here talking about 😂😂😂😂 husbands 😂😂😂

[@msmollybk]

When will they heed us???

[@Ellgand]

I love Abby but I absolutely hate Matt. He’s so disgusting and cruel edit the fact that Matt is balding makes me so happy

[@tianathomas7732]

Wait…if she had a c section, why would it change her downstairs area? It’s not like she pushed the baby out of it so why would it be different??

[@msmollybk]

Her first kid was via the usual exit, the second was a c-section.

[@tianathomas7732]

@@msmollybk thank you! That makes more sense

[@VeraAndTheDogs]

@@msmollybkdon’t know why, but the “usual exit” made me chuckle. Maybe I need more sleep. Hahaha

[@coleworld4385]

I’m brand new here… gonna hop on over and check out a couple more vids. This was stellar work! I like your delivery. Congratulations on the little one!

[@msmollybk]

That's great to hear, thanks so much!

[@theimprobableone8635]

Yeeesssss love a good Crooked Timber vid on cringey Christian couples haha also didn't know you were pregnant! Congrats, that's so exciting!

[@msmollybk]

Thank you!!

[@Managingmischief394]

I think you should do a video on Della Vlogs. They came across my recommendations while I was doing IVF with a reel of them doing it while at resorts and stuff and it felt very out of touch. I didn't like that but then I found out that they were way worse. Bella is the owner of an MLM. They asked their youtube audience if anyone they knew wanted to put up their baby up for adoption and then got scammed (or possibly all just a ploy for views) then they adopted a baby that "people say she looks just like us wow! so blessed" and then they exploit her for views. They're also friends with Matt and Abby.

[@alibinprogress]

Yes love seeing a Mickey clip! Great video and cover from Andrew!

[@rebeccahwilson3673]

The music you added is soooo good 😂 perfect fit

[@carlgrimeseyepatch27]

that 36 clip made me scream! 😂

[@kaitlynprokopp6430]

Every day you post is the Best Day Ever

[@taylor3342]

Wait Andrew’s cover is amazing! 10/10

[@jessann_art]

“…He appears to hate his family.” Well said lmao

[@lauren-q6f]

I love your channel I feel like you do a great of talking about this stuff in a balanced way. And you and your husband really make me laugh.

[@msmollybk]

That's great to hear, thanks!!

[@annieboyle4434]

I don’t think he actually loves Abby or is a good father, I think he loves that she caters to every stupid thing he does/says and he gets to shit all over her thru his music and call it art. it makes me feel so sad for her and their kids.

[@play-fool]

I really like what you said though about how no realistic view of a marriage is going to be met with anything but a lot of negative reactions. A lot of the issues that people bring up with Matt and Abbey I actually do think are a little bit unfair in either direction, but I also agree with a lot of the reasons people have issues with it. it's just always hard to see young people who already making something work at a young age also get the online pile on. They may even deserve it but it's just hard to watch sometimes.

[@joey4222]

I find the dumpster fire on your t-shirt quite appropriate 😂

[@lindseystein9676]

Omg I forgot about that show! Is it called jiminy glick? Whatever it’s called, it was so funny. Totally his best role

[@msmollybk]

Glick in Lalaland! There are some good clips on KZbin. He also did a spot on Jimmy Kimmel this year!

[@laurenwright5609]

What a banger. How will you handle all the groupies?

[@msmollybk]

Time to put out overpriced merch!!!

[@trinesrensen6821]

​@@msmollybk or a course!!

[@kirsten9323]

His music sounds like a parody on a hallmark movie soundtrack

[@mistylavae2433]

“Let’s fight 👇🏻” 😂

[@Missmiserie]

New subscriber here I’m only half way into the video but I like you guys

[@eplon9513]

When the parody is more listenable than the original song

[@ThemedNumber02]

the cover is AWESOME!

[@andrewbullington8166]

Thank youuu, I am still recovering emotionally❤

[@Sealegs9]

Colleen and Eric also have twins, and the statistic for divorce rates of parents of multiples is super high. I guess Matt and Abby have almost twins since their kids are so close in age

[@beefrick9957]

Six kids with my last being a c section and I’d do vaginal over the c section any day. Although it was nice to not have to be in labor, but all the before and after really sucks. I love the idea of marrying your high school sweetheart. In practice, I hate it. Most people never get a chance to find out who they are as a person.

[@caitlinvongaertner9153]

Great cover!

[@laurenwright5609]

Do the Spider-Man one next!

[@MsMedusaa]

Matt gives me killer vibes

[@RG-rx7cy]

Love you criticism of others just being real and your already griping at your husband showcasing control issues your at the get go.

[@stronkdevin5264]

love the shirt

[@rebeckagilbert2905]

I have to say that i don't have a lot of issues with Matt and Abby. Yes, sometimes their youth shows up but also mistakes happen. I apparently completely forgot to pay a bridge toll for my husband for 5 months and received a penalty fee. Some of us adhders try our hardest but we are human and mistakes happen

[@marymarymary25]

These influencer’s marriages are so cringe.

[@showersinger38]

I love your shirt!!!! 😊

[@msmollybk]

My son has a matching onesie

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

You’re hilarious, stunningly beautiful.. and *far* from old!

[@msmollybk]

Haha, if you say so!! Thanks for watching :) :)

[@ethandollarhide7943]

Notice how Matt and Abby have never once invited a Non Christian to their podcast and almost exclusively interview White People.

[@ambitioussoprano]

I love how ur hubby hates matt

[@Danielle-pt7we]

Major sugery over the intended way of hiving birth... ahh not cheating.. not an easy route and i really dont knlw why people elect to do that to themseleves but i also dont judge what people do. All i know is after an emergency section and 4 vaginal births, one of which was 17 stitches and another i had a full arm in me by the end holding a burst artery. I still would choose vaginal and i didnt even have a baby to lift/ and look after the c section.

[@Ellgand]

I love Kay so much she’s so cute 18:57 I had no idea

[@ionaaaaaaa]

I love Colleen but I don't love Matt.

[@Chelle-yz5sc]

Colleen is crazy

[@coleworld4385]

Ew. No. Don’t love someone who tried to groom teenagers…

[@BunniBeshara]

Ewww. Colleen is a horrible person and she is constantly inappropriate with children.

[@Seeker0fTruth]

Do you mean Abby? 😅

[@CraiginOhioUSA]

He is a very lucky guy. I don't know why she puts up with him.