Matthew McConaughey - This Is Why You're Not Happy | One Of The Most Eye Opening Speeches

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"Always play like an underdog" - Matthew McConaughey
This is an incredibly powerful speech from Matthew McConaughey giving life advice about being happy. If you feel lost in life this is a must watch.
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[@AbsoluteMotivation]

Always play like an underdog.

[@KennnnyT]

wellshafted how many people do you think gives a fuck about that? I'm gonna take the positive and ignore the negative.

[@thefourthwatch6337]

this adage really did stem from our observation of dogs, moreover; wolves. all worthy pups will quarrel, yet its the one whos on top that gets correction when a parent arrives on the scene. oops. maybe the underdog was playing the underdog { ; -- /}

[@stevenadams11]

Actors don't qualify for Illuminati. They are panto performers. Amusement. Think Billionaires, oligarchs, the 1% who own your arse and you're probably in the ball park.

[@jimstormcrow]

Chill mate...it's okay. Take care.

[@delorispierce2824]

I LOVE MATTHEW THOUGHTS AND TEACHING👍🏻

[@joshuaellis1058]

My girlfriend showed me this speech two years ago when I was going through adversity. She passed away last September.. I listen to this speech now as if it’s from her.

[@Dormat25]

Sorry Josh. Hard to imagine. Thanks for sharing.

[@bluntvillesyoddle4619]

U can't stop the birds of sorrow from 🕊️ flying over head but u can stop them from nesting in ure hair..

[@ramsesdelatorre996]

I'm sorry 😞 my gf diesld of cancer last year in November...so I know how hard it is...I'm really sorry

[@alexbez1958]

I feel you Josh. My ex committed suicide this September. Stay strong king, and please make sure to love yourself. When it comes to grief, the only way the painful memories stop is when we learn from them.

[@joshuaellis1058]

@@alexbez1958 I appreciate that Alex. As long as were around, spreading love and trying to find a meaning for meeting them, their memory will be alive.

[@lejonbrames8820]

Matthew McConaughey: Have you done anything to make your life better? Me: No. Matthew McConaughey: Be a whole lot cooler if you did.

[@ayyubabdullah9289]

Clearly Jerry doesn't get the reference...

[@1990nrsge]

Brilliant lmao

[@1990nrsge]

Ayyub Abdullah clearly!!! Lol

[@ayyubabdullah9289]

Some people go through life Dazed and Confused 😐

[@masetrucking6048]

Marion Cobretti brilliant!! Why didn’t I think of that? 🤔

[@thamad311]

Life breaks you down so you could rebuild better. Most times it amaze me greatly the way I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over $63k per month, utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years to doubt that opportunities are bound in the financial markets, The only thing is to know where to focus.

[@ericchk102]

@Dulce de Leche I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or crypto and stocks.

[@izagdlife]

I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

[@thamad311]

@@izagdlife That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like Mr Tony Alin berker my coach, you may have come across him on interviews relating to bitcoin. He trades, manage trading account and offer mentorship program for clients who wish to become professional investors.

[@izagdlife]

@@thamad311 You allow people to trade for you ? that's interesting, I would love to learn, how safe is it ?

[@nyreggie]

Wow I can't believe you guys are discussing about Mr Tony Alin berker, I once met him at a conference in California 2019, just before the pandemic. I can testify that is very good in trading..Highly recommended.

[@KathrineKassandra]

Psychedelics saved me from years of uncontrollable depression, anxiety, and illicit pills addiction. Imagine carving heavy chains for over a decade and then all of a sudden that burden is gone. Believe it or not, in a couple of years they'll be all over for treatment of mental health related issues.

[@Weaver-gz4ox]

yes, that's right, I researched and found out that shrooms are helpful in many ways but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source I can reach out to

[@AndreasSchwarz12]

Sporeville... Is pretty commendable and a very intelligent mycologist. He saved my life honestly

[@KarlitaBasurto]

they've helped me a lot as well I'm a war vet diagnosed with PTSD. A lot of issues spun out of control when I came home. This is something i looked up and tried after trying the roller coaster of antidepressants. Day and night difference

[@Weaver-gz4ox]

How do I reach out to him? Is he on Instagram

[@AndreasSchwarz12]

Yes, he is, Sporeville.

[@haemusic1]

"Don't spend time with anything that jeopardizes your soul!"

[@aprilskillman6927]

that spoke to me too

[@RyanSmith-wo2pi]

Thank you

[@kerryleehartley]

Love this! I like this also its so deep and meaningful! Stay encouraged CT #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@ericcrosson3844]

That sentiment/sentence is what it's all about.

[@imdannymartins]

my wife was cheating on me for months with a cokehead/pothead who treated like shit while I was home with our daughter. The lies I'm going out with my sister... I'm going out with my coworkers...I'm going to spend the night at moms...

[@Michael-rg8rh]

I showed this speech to my cat, now he’s a lion

[@reneehoward8579]

One of my favorite KZbin comments!

[@poseidonnn.n]

👎👎👎👎

[@enertiastudios1074]

That is an awesome reply to the truth. THANK YOU. I smiled.

[@justincase9657]

Best reply on a comment on KZbin smiling from ear to ear made my night 🐱🐱🐱🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁🦁

[@zeem.8656]

Funniest shyte ever!!

[@brett7071]

This changed my outlook on myself and the world I wanted to quit my job and quit life but this has given me a sense of purpose I wrote down all his key points and I’m gonna keep it on my wall, I saw this yesterday went into work and killed it and had a smile the whole time. I’m so proud of myself.

[@kyuubi7523]

Beautiful. . .never give up.

[@willi7595]

Proud.

[@brett7071]

@@willi7595 Thanks sir still going strong and getting better everyday 👍🏼

[@setayeshmiresmaeili6126]

I wish I would be affected by such simple thing too

[@maryjeanglenn2486]

I understand..

[@joshambush8574]

When you’re having an inspirational moment and that 16 second ad pops up 😂

[@Everetts113]

people still get ads on youtube? just get the damn chrome extension already.....

[@444fawn]

@@Everetts113 some of us aren’t using laptops or computers

[@bigman-em7cc]

@@Everetts113 Do you like having your privacy jeopardized?

[@sare88]

😂 right ! i’m over here crying and that popped up and made me forgot what i was crying about lol

[@ImMikeGenesis]

Beautiful video. This song is dedicated to everyone who lost a loved one. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gITFeHqfiMpmiZo

[@joegolfer]

“To the world you may be one person but to one person you may be the world.” ― Bill Wilson

[@3-piece129]

Who's Bill Wilson?

[@joegolfer]

@@3-piece129 founded AA

[@3-piece129]

Awesome! Thank you. Great quote. Be safe out there.

[@jamespouchoulen3867]

youre definitely a lesbian

[@jamespouchoulen3867]

suck him off already

[@kathyphillips6691]

I consider myself successful because I had 3 daughters, who gave me 6 grand children, and 7 great grandchildren...to carry on my values. I do not have much money but I have lots of love.

[@AbsoluteMotivation]

Amazing. We also love you for that fantastic comment. - Am team

[@maniravandi5983]

❤

[@pman3293]

Your already rich... 😁 my kids are the most perfect thing in my life.

[@divagirl10]

We are STILL successful even if we don't have children. Not everyone is lucky

[@rocoss1]

That s all you need in life, i m happy you have that

[@RebuildReality]

I always think of happiness as a choice you make, because it's an emotional response. And of course, only we can choose our emotional responses. I had been in a terrible situation, where my life had turned into a nightmare of homelessness and drugs. I was finally able to move into the wilderness, in an attempt to get away from it all. However, the crushing memories moved with me and everyday they came to wash over me like never ending waves. One day I realized that I literally wasn't going to survive if I kept allowing my thoughts to annihilate me, so I stood up to them. Every time those memories came up, which was a dozen times a day, I said nope, not today. I told myself, "I'm going to be happy now, I've suffered enough" and I refused to indulge in the sadness of those thoughts. I said NO MORE and I meant it. I absolutely refused them. I was determined to just BE happy. It took me about 2 weeks of slamming the door on those thoughts every time they came up before, suddenly, everything changed. Like a light switch being turned off, over night they stopped appearing. Because I wouldn't take no for an answer, my subconscious mind finally stopped playing that terrible program. And when it did... my entire life changed. Because I chose happiness, it chose me. Then, like a knock on effect, life changed it's response to me. That's when I realized that all of life had simply been copying what I had been putting out. It was incredible. All of the sudden, everyone wanted to be around me. Everyone wanted to be my friend. People started giving me things. I was given 2 cars in 2 months. Money started pouring in... I'd never seen anything like it. That's when I finally understood that happiness is always within our grasp. Happiness is always a choice that we have the power to choose anytime we decide to. It's only when we change, that life and everyone in it, can change it's response to us. It's a powerful thing to realize.

[@multifandom3268]

can u tell me some points on "our happiness does not depends on our mental health "

[@vikramkamra8603]

Great

[@yolandagrabowski6043]

If it starts going downhill, drink water to chill.

[@stephencarlson1242]

"An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind". well said Matthew.

[@whatisahandle221]

👍

[@C5B-jc1yj]

My last breath in this life will be my soft pillow.@@whatisahandle221

[@disking10ZA]

My favourite line

[@alfredozavala7933]

This is how I imagine a President to speak.

[@electric3420]

Alfredo Zavala ikr but they never do they never do...

[@skyheart1495]

Matthew McConaughey for President 😀🥰😋

[@divagirl10]

Exactly

[@ganymeade5151]

The President must be a warrior. Every good President has been a bad-ass and bully when necessary to protect the US. There is a difference between a President and a Diplomat. Actors are different from Presidents. President Reagan was a tough guy when necessary. Unfortunately, Dictators are wolves that will devour nice leaders who they see as sheep. CEOs must also defend their companies and their employees jobs from "barbarians at the gate." Weak CEOs make weak companies and cause massive unemployment. Weak players cause sports teams to lose. Leaders, therefore, cannot always be nice. Leaders must be warriors. If you want to please everyone and always be nice and cannot tolerate someone being tough, then don't get into politics, business, or sports.

[@jacobmatney5597]

FAKE NEWS!!

[@Greenlights111]

“An honest man’s pillow is his peace of mind, and when you lay down on that pillow at night, no matter who’s in your bed, we all sleep alone.” Wow I felt that.

[@learnistic-1017]

Can somebody explain this line?

[@learnistic-1017]

@Mafia's Finest TV sure

[@learnistic-1017]

@Mafia's Finest TV yup,it makes sense

[@jasius83]

@learnistic -101 What he’s saying is, although it’s highly romanticized that you should be one with your lover who you might be married too or just dating forever, ultimately you need to not lose yourself in them, know who YOU ARE, don’t lose it, deep level enmeshment isn’t healthy, you need to maintain your identity. Believe it or not, this will actually strengthen your relationship with your other person, as you’ll add even more to the relationship. Love someone fully, but know YOU. Ultimately it’s you who is driving even in a long standing union. Being YOU in a long term relationship will help you get through hard times and think about them more clearly, rely on the loved one for support, but have yourself to help resolve the issue. This isn’t just about relationships also about being a team member. Know yourself well enough that you’re not disruptive but a good contributor.

[@Greenlights111]

@Mafia's Finest TV my take on it is that we all fight our own mental battles, and no matter who may walk through life by your side, we are all lone wolves in a way. And the “honest man” is someone who is true to themself and others, so that when you go to bed at night and your mind starts wandering, rather than lying awake with your mind racing, you feel a sense of peace. Many interpretations I’m sure, that’s just mine!

[@camerongray7767]

3:56 watch this over and over "Prioritise who you are, who you want to be and don't spend time with anything that antagonises your character

[@ganymeade5151]

Great advice. Learn not to waste too much time in life worrying over negative people who are haters.

[@supercovid2349]

Easy for a rich guy to say. For normies, his advice would lead them into chronic unemployment and homelessness. Just about every boss is insufferable.

[@miepmaster25]

I think you should get a divorce, you’d be part of the divorced women community (50% off marriages end in divorce)

[@sgrif392]

There are two most important day's in your Life..........The day your Born..........And the day you find out Why!!!! Mark Twain

[@DuncanWLievi]

you're*

[@jeremyviromek]

@@DuncanWLievi did i miss a joke?

[@DuncanWLievi]

@@jeremyviromek no joke. 'The day you're* born....ans the day you find out why."

[@DuncanWLievi]

@@nhfairies thanks :)

[@bonitad2832]

@@jeremyviromek Amen!

[@paulgray0311]

Old knowledge just in a new voice that people are willing to listen to and believe. The power of fame used responsibly..

[@theeaundrea2254]

Wet well put ❤️

[@Michburger1]

Yes, very well put. Masters of Tibetan Buddhism have been teaching this for 2500 years. xx

[@jarradgray56]

Agreed... Law of Attraction.. what you put out ~~~~ what you get back

[@jax0nda1l3y6]

Hi

[@christopherp.hitchens3902]

??? That you are famous does not make you wise or responsible. That you admire bumper-sticker wisdom does not bode well for you or others in this room.

[@RemasterYourLife]

Happiness isn't complicated. It's actually fairly simple. The problem is that people chase happiness as outcomes. When we don't get what we want, we feel unhappy. But you can be happy without those kind of conditions.There's the happiness that comes from getting what you want, but there's also the happiness in being content with who you are and what you have. Meaning is what we gain by the way we choose to engage with the world (goals, projects, relationships), and happiness comes from the contentment we feel for who we are and what we have have in the moment.

[@marymallios865]

Well said!

[@ochakoyashimoto946]

Perfectly said 🥰

[@user-yr3ip3pn7t]

My brother sent me this, two weeks before he died from COVID. I didn't listen to it then. I've had trouble going back through our conversations. I'm thankful I found it tonight, I needed this. He passed away after being on a ventilator for seven days, a 39 year old father of three children. He has no grave, we couldn't afford that...he was cremated. I have no burial grave to go visit him and I wish I did even with the small amount of ashes I have. He deserves a tombstone. He literally lives in my heart now.

[@AbsoluteMotivation]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your brother's family get through this difficult time.

[@mahalalettvin7675]

plenty have tombstones and are never remembered. I'd choose to be remembered in the hearts of my loved ones. you haven't forsaken him, I promise

[@annnunley9777]

Abraham Lincoln said, most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. At some point in life you have to be content with what you have in life. The road to happiness is always under construction. The heart is happiest when it beats for others. Happiness is not the absence of conflict, but the ability to cope with it. A small house will hold as much happiness as a big one and the happy person is the one who can enjoy the scenery even when you have to take a detour. It isn't our position but our disposition that makes us happy.

[@sjulian6110]

Very well said!

[@ZiplineShazam]

I'd be a hell of a lot happier if I looked like Matthew McConaughey.

[@wendysmith9229]

I would like to share this ?

[@annnunley9777]

You can share !!!!

[@kaminarte]

Love it

[@jbela]

"Eliminate who you are not first and you're going to find yourself where you need to be" I'm already a better person , great quote

[@jledesma1175]

🤯🤯🤯 Amazing…

[@PissySkyKat]

McConaughey is LEGENDARY. He walks the walk AND talks the talk.

[@slowhand1000ca]

Bur it was 6 not 5

[@healingmelody112]

Whoever is reading this now, remember: You are the light! You are unique and worth it! You are blessed to be in your body and experience all that is! Blessings to all beings! Love and Light!

[@frontsidegrinder6858]

Thank you for the deepest truth in us.

[@alizard1399]

I disagree, plenty of people aren’t. Plenty of people are just like everyone else. Plenty of people may not deserve the effort. Though that isn’t a bad thing. No matter where you, or me, or someone else may be. Nothing is stopping us from becoming better. Not everyone may be deserving, not everyone may be worth the trouble, not everyone is some great, special, unique person. But, with that in mind.... nothing is stoping the individual from changing that. Whether it’s one step or the full staircase. There is always room to go higher. Whether you’re at the top or never started climbing, life is only set in stone once you stop trying.

[@macizzle1956]

Had a very rough 24 hours. My daughter sat on my couch with me and we watched and listened to this together. She initiated it. She lent me her heart, she shared her compassion, she reminded me of her unconditional love today when I needed it most. Im a very lucky Dad to two amazing girls who remind me everyday why life is worth living. Im blessed to have an ex who still cares about me. The universe brought some loving people into my life in the past 24 hours. I have an obligation to give back now - and I will. I try everyday to be my best version. “Joy is the feeling we have from doing what we are fashioned to do. No matter the outcome.” Embrace the journey. ❤️

[@beautifulsoul7394]

Mike McHenry You don’t now me mike but::: I BELIEVE IN YOU❤️. NOW GO LIVE YOUR BEST LIVE !!🥰

[@IndigeniousTaino]

Mike McHenry blessings to you and yours sir

[@illfather7066]

thanx for sharing

[@midotiger8838]

Go Live the message. As in all things, pass it on to others who need it. I Wish you the BEST!

[@MrGmilla]

We hear you! Thanks for putting your heart out there.

[@TsunamiWaveSpirit]

Always loved Matthew McConaughey as an actor. I love him even more as a human being. Refreshing

[@ritialydia]

He is more fake than margarine. Erm...that is his JOB.

[@ritialydia]

BTW His craft is to be realistically fake. Do you not think this ability works on other platforms.... podcasts...motivational videos.... catfood commercials? He is paid stupid money to act my friend.

[@FINEST-uz9ek]

Dorinda Williams perhaps but it doesn’t take away from his message he is conveying.

[@mikerulon]

None of the four of you KNOW for sure... why not give the benefit of doubt and take the high road like Tsunami and Ray... I bet the two of them smile a lot....

[@sm87112]

@@ritialydia I don't think you know enough to say any of what you did.

[@gabriellepatrick5165]

this man went to my hometown highschool. he’s always been a humble, kind, man.

[@ChristianHoyle]

Nice to have something speak positive of someone...

[@ganymeade5151]

I have always liked him and now I know why. He sure beats the arrogant, better than thou, punitive punks and trolls that are so common these days.

[@user-he9ew6sn9g]

You must be from Uvalde, i’m from Carrizo..

[@lizporto4860]

Ha

[@naj9658]

I watched so many videos, it’s not easy to get out of a depression circle, but this video is special, it really gave me a little hope, I see a little light within me, things can change, and I can’t believe I’m saying that. Thank you for this video, It will always be a special one. ♥️

[@monsterhuntingunslingers33]

I understand how you feel, I really do. How are you doing today?

[@naj9658]

@@monsterhuntingunslingers33 it’s sweet of you to ask 🥺 I’m doing better everyday and I Thank God for it :))

[@monsterhuntingunslingers33]

@@naj9658 I'm glad! I know I'm just some random person on the internet, but keep trying! Im doing the same and im starting to see some good progress, happy thoughts!

[@naj9658]

@@monsterhuntingunslingers33 🥺🥺 thank you! I wish you all the best and happiness, I hope you find your way out to the light too 💕

[@MarlonValcq]

Same. Life is hard.

[@Delivered0ne]

I've always liked Matthew, now I respect him. "Don't spend time with anything that antagonizes your character" ( 3:59 ) - Now that's something I will never forget.

[@chrisredig1381]

Fuck off

[@randomdeadbydaylight3498]

@@chrisredig1381 got spread your negativity somewhere else BITCH!!

[@tammywallace9461]

Matthew, Our son Eric could never find himself, his joy, his purpose. He was such a sweet soul but also a troubled one as well. He told not so long ago, mom I wish I had half of your positivity and good energy. On October 17th our sweet, beautiful 28 year old boy decided to check out of his crazy world and took his own life. We tried so hard, so very hard to help him. He always called or came home if he was feeling troubled, but not that night. Our souls are crushed and there is a painful gaping hole. Please pray for our family that we can make it through this.

[@kaj4850]

Tammy, I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine your heartache. Sending positive thoughts and hugs.

[@PoWaBtZZ]

it has almost been a year ago by now but thoughts and prayers never come too late ... i hope both of you have found the willpower and strenght to keep going, That you made peace with this event and do not give up on the joy this man was talking about. :)

[@1rugbynutter]

Hi Tammy. I visit the video often but have only just seen your comment and noticed the date. I hope the anniversary passed with love and good memories. Take care.

[@Scorylo93]

Tammy, my name is also Eric, I'm also nearly 28, and i have also struggled with the same struggles and sometimes battled with the same thoughts. Please know that your comment has had a positive influence on me and also broke my heart a lil. I hope you have found your piece and your heartache is less so now.

[@renee2105]

Jesus Christ will heal ur pain. So very sorry for ur loss.

[@markuskholl4807]

True happiness is "content with self as is, having your simple needs, just being".

[@AnthonyLiccione]

"A tormented mind wants to forget, what a broken heart will always remember."

[@dropdead_red]

😔

[@SPRobinson21]

stopped smoking pot a week ago after 12 years of daily use. just saw this speech today at a time when i'm more emotionally available than i've been in years. feels like a blessing

[@NathanielVandenbrink]

Same here 8 years of use on my 10th day off. Good stuff man

[@SSSSoulSkater]

Samuel Robinson - I used to swear by it Samuel. Now I realize It just wants me down and dumb so I wont make a difference.

[@matthewforrest2208]

Keep it up

[@michaelmuzzy8401]

good for guys .life is short.

[@tonemc6047]

Good man .You don’t need it all you need is you

[@Gary-cd7rj]

"An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind." Quoting John Mellencamp. One more reason to like Matthew McConaughey

[@mattyvster1967]

Easily my favorite Mellencamp song.

[@kerryleehartley]

This was a great quote! Love your positivity! Stay encouraged Gary #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@thecowboy9698]

He hit on the key word: "Work." If you want to be joyful, you have to be willing to work, in order to attain it. And then be grateful for what you have, and not be worried about what you do not have.

[@faceinthecrowd5810]

Somehow my youngest son,27, has discovered M.M. As his Dad Ive been trying for his whole life to guide him as a life coach would. When D. Shared with me M.M.’s interview on Hot Ones, I ordered Green Lights for him. I am one of the absolutely coolest humans on earth😎, but I have a very short reach. Thank you Matthew, if you become a spirt guide for my son and he starts to grow into the man he can be......well done! As a aging warrior of peace, I’m tuned into your message, I’ve been an artist on an artist’s path for a long time, but the greatest beauty I can create is Love for others.

[@Indubidably0]

Sounds to me that Matt has learned the secret to life that most humans aren't even capable of ever seeing, let alone grasping. Well done, Matthew McConaughey. Well done.

[@Hachatata]

And was able to deliver this ROCK of a speech

[@bernieclips9003]

Thanks Dr Brule youre the best Doctor I Know.

[@ganymeade5151]

Many of us are so busy earning enough to get by that we miss life.

[@ganymeade5151]

Welp, he did not get to be a billionaire if he did not know these things and also be very good actor.

[@Luke-qp9fd]

Why dont they teach this stuff in schools ? U leave school knowing nothing about life. I wish school was about life lessons and not so much useless shit we never remember...

[@tenhetmitchel]

Luke Timbrell A society unable to think for themselves are easily controlled.

[@brianunderhill2330]

I do teach this stuff in high school History and Psychology

[@Luke-qp9fd]

Brian Underhill u sir are 1 in a billion 😊

[@andrewpalmer1223]

Parents teach this, not educators.

[@semillerimages]

Life isn't easy. He starts the speech with that. It wasn't easy for you and I and it wasn't easy for our parents and our teachers etc. You just have to keep learning how to be human.

[@russelldunmire4799]

I swear I would give money to sit with this man and chat over a drink. My kind of mental fluidity. Two minds that like together in a room, change the world. That’s all it takes.

[@russelldunmire4799]

@Brad Paisley Hope you have a fine day.

[@coles_recovery]

matthew mcconaughey is the coolest man on the planet !!!

[@fridaythe13thpartx]

And that is why(except for KZbin) I completely went cold turkey from all forms of social media.Tired of all the hatred and negativity.It’s just a vexation on the spirit.I also started eating healthier,getting rid of the sugar,caffeine,alcohol and processed food.It’s a lifestyle change. The best revenge you can have in life is being happy and healthy.

[@chriswyatt9869]

I quit 2 years ago, at first I thought I'd be happier. But honestly it didn't, I'm in a generation where everyone is on social media. And I missed out, didn't get invited to events, parties, and know what was going on. I grew detached from my friends and spent too much time alone. I only recently, like in the last week, decided to come back, as I read that more social media (opposed to less) can actually help people with depression and anxiety. The problem is that I also have adhd which means I get easily distracted, meaning now having the ability to endlessly scroll through Twitter has dramatically decreased my productivity. I don't know what the hell to do. Social media can be a great thing, but in rationed amounts. I don't know how to do that. Anyway rant over lol. I hope you're happier than I was off social media.

[@lilypink1592]

Lawrence Stevens THIS-

[@miepmaster25]

I don’t wanna pay taxes.

[@seejay60]

My favorite quote related to this topic is from Bob Dylan, "Life isn’t about finding yourself. Or finding anything. Life is about creating yourself.”

[@holycowpainter]

Lovely!

[@kerryleehartley]

Yes this was so deep! Craig I wish you all the more success in your journey! I know you are a rockstar because you watch positive content and actively invest In yourself! #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@whisthpo]

We can't all be a Matthew McConaughey until... We realise that You must embrace failure, before you can fully appreciate YOUR Success!

[@smyrnasstory]

There is more happiness in giving than there is in receiving.”

[@smyrnasstory]

@Brad Paisley I am doing fantastic. Nice to meet you!

[@smyrnasstory]

@Brad Paisley I am not. But why would you be interested or curious in chatting with me?

[@MrNobodywatching]

'Eliminate who you are NOT, first, and you're going to find yourself where you need to be'...can this be any more perfect of a mission statement!

[@dadooddarren2116]

I came across this comment and literally heard that line right after I read it this comment. It's a sign.

[@ganymeade5151]

I am not a singer, dancer, poet, painter, millionaire. However, I can still appreciate what is positive.

[@huhuruz77]

Thank you. :)

[@jozkomichta4571]

@@dadooddarren2116 same happens to me

[@ganymeade5151]

I did that long ago and am better for it. Only phonies like phonies.

[@carrinalee3425]

“Too many options will make a tyrant of us all” such a great speaker

[@kerryleehartley]

This was a very deep portion of the video! Love your positivity! Stay encouraged! #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@toner37]

when he talks about the bar, the computer screen and the food. We ALL can relate to one of things for sure

[@slimpickering1699]

He is a very smart and wise man. I had no idea he was this enlightened and perceptive.

[@ganymeade5151]

He seems like one of the better people in Hollywood.

[@jayne2648]

@@ganymeade5151 n

[@masterace1150]

There lived a poet once, who was also a part time philosopher, he said, "...if one does not have money, obviously he is broke and I have yet to see a broke man wise..." What I am trying to say is that if it was a homeless person give this same speech, it wouldn't have the same weight to it :) just a taste of reality.

[@ganymeade5151]

Especially since most celebs do not appear like this.

[@rommelcorpuz4157]

“Don’t spend time with anything that antagonizes your character.” WOW.

[@karadronzek91]

I just want to thank you for this speech. I’m a nurse, a mom, a person, and a battered wife. And it can be very difficult to remember who I am, what I do, and my worth. This speech doesn’t heal me, that’s up to me. But it gave me some stepping stones away from the darkness. So thank you. Little things help

[@lizelledupreez4335]

Breaks my heart to read this, I pray you have managed to get out of the abusive relationship. May you find the strength and courage to lift up your head and take back what the enemy has stolen from you.

[@williamparker3406]

Hello Kara,how are you doing ?

[@matthewmcconaughey3751]

Thanks for your love and support message me via [e-mail]

[@belindamoore8996]

How amazing that I found this “accidentally” today, only to find it’s exactly what I needed to hear! It’s brilliant.

[@cremedrip]

First time i heard this speech i cried... Came back a week later and downloaded the audio from the video. and ever since i have been listening to it every single day. From morning till dawn, it helped me appreciate life around, and so much more. My mother said to me recently that she can see a bright light around my face. That i should continue to smile and strive to be a better man. Once again, Absolute motivation, you guys are awesome and you need to keep up the good work. Every video you make, save millions.

[@shelbyguizar9036]

i found God, this mindset followed. I was critically depressed for years and have never been as alive and full of joy as I am today

[@shannonksexton4897]

Awesome response

[@ceeceebee5736]

Very inspiring, keep teaching your prophesy/philosophy. 💯😊❤🌅

[@sydasipah4170]

Wishing you so much happiness and most of all JOY in your life

[@kerryleehartley]

Thank you for sharing your brave testimony! I am so encouraged by your faith and by your story! Stay in Joy and continue to be a light in this world! #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@carlamann6703]

"Life Is Not A Popularity Contest" Love Him! Smart, Talented, Great Actor.

[@timothycurnock9162]

Life is not a contest, there is a good TED speech called life is easy. Basically the only TED speech I recommend. ANON. Have a good day. Peace.

[@ganymeade5151]

In this age of groupthink and the pressure to please everyone or else, you must be true to yourself.

[@kerryleehartley]

Great positivity! I know that you will always be successful because you are feeding yourself positive content! Continue to be a light in this world! #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@user-he9ew6sn9g]

The wolf in me just called my sister a f theif, never talk to her that way before..now i’m very capable of a lot, i wanted to be loved an excepted giving, but the full wolf came out, i’ve listened to this three thousand times, be yourself, stay yourself, take no shit.. don’t ever, ever think anyone is going to do the right thing.. stay yourself, love yourself.. take of yourself and the ones that truly love you. Have a great journey every one.😊

[@mgg169]

When you have tried everything to get through depression and didn't worked, you still have some hope that this video could help,

[@joegregory7695]

Wow! "An honest man's pillow is his peace of mind."

[@Jodessa1]

Never choose anything that will jeopardize your soul...i feel that so much! I start my day with this speech daily!

[@roxinefelton2561]

You can not have happiness or joy without God.

[@quinnyjqj]

"Joy is the feeling that we have from doing what we are fashioned to do. No matter the outcome." Most important takeaway.

[@AbsoluteMotivation]

Interesting way to put it, thank you for watching.

[@DannaCrawford]

Don't jeopardize your soul! "Love this man"

[@ganymeade5151]

Too many demons out there lust for your soul. Resist.

[@williamparker3406]

Hello danna

[@stevehammel2939]

Matthew McConaughey is an exceptional human being. He is true to himself

[@JamesBond-ml3zp]

Steve Hammel I'll let you know in a S'ECREC

[@MRC1110]

Really the only way you should be.

[@JustLikeJulia9]

Talk about beautiful inside and out!

[@adrianmcglynn9345]

Don't spend time with people who bring you down. You're to good for them.

[@nickcoy2103]

That is the most McConaughey thing I have ever heard.

[@dexoy_awp]

Guilt and regret kills many a man before their time, So turn the page, Get off the ride, You are the author of the book of your life. From another Matthew's inspiration video.

[@ganymeade5151]

Never let other people especially mean-spirited and negative people run your life for you. Have the strength and courage to resist. You may be alone and hated by negative people; but will be better for resisting and staying positive. This is why group think is so bad and leads to persecution of innocent people who refuse to go along.

[@rampart6557]

"Gratitude is the root of all joy." Mike Tucker *** McConaughey is in accord. Right on.

[@olhawagner9026]

Matthew McConaughey as "Mari Kondo" here:) Getting rid of anything that is not you, cleaning your energy, getting back to your own energy and living what you are! I made notes of the whole text and thought about every single word in it. It's so powerful. I got rid of some contacts, the process is sometimes painful, but the results are worth it. I think it's effective to combine both cleaning my house and my life.

[@greatestchristian5913]

I prayed a special prayer for someone passing through hard times, a hard time which seem to be mental, financially and emotionally damaging. I pray for this person reading this, that God will come to your rescue, wipe your tears and restore you whole in Jesus name. Amen

[@RnD8300]

Please pray for me.

[@lkwood-fk6mn]

I am having so much fun and realizing so much joy every day I get to spend with my twin sons helping people stop their foreclosures, fixing broken homes and showing broken people how to look forward to a better day.....I am enjoying this part of my journey more than ever before in my life

[@paulettemoore265]

You are a blessing! Blessings to you🤗

[@kerryleehartley]

This is amazing! Thank you for being a helping hand out in the world! That is amazing that you are also living in Joy! I wish many many more blessing and success over you and your family! Stay encouraged! #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@nitapatel5992]

Hi I do the same thing. What state are you in?

[@ZiplineShazam]

I'd be happier if I looked like Matthew McConaughey

[@Jennifer-nz2ss]

I really think we ALL need more teachers like this and should be taught from kindergarten on. Kids are so lost now days i feel sorry for the world as it is now.

[@user-pkjha]

I think happiness is just one's state of mind. If you want to be happy, you are happy. Period.

[@GalGiddyUP]

After this, I can see why UT is taking him on as a "professor of practice" - he is a great speaker...alright alright alright!

[@ganymeade5151]

He is very intelligent also.

[@TexasRose50]

And he is considering running for governor of Texas! Wow!

[@chrissyhardman8098]

@@TexasRose50 Trouble is with government, that the most inspirational and spiritual person can become corrupted within the corrupted environment they work in

[@chrissyhardman8098]

This won't ever be taught in schools - "they" don't want well-adjusted happy people - they need sick, depressed people, as they can be controlled more easily,

[@zkcrisyee]

@@chrissyhardman8098 It can happen indeed. However, there have been cases of people in government standing by their values, remaining inspirational and humble, wanting to truly better their state or nation. Albeit not necessarily a majority, example of those still abound in certain past eras. Bad people, people with egocentric and narcissistic tendencies, who do not care about anything else but their own riches and finding ways to enrich themselves through corrupt laws and practices, will always be naturally drawn to power. “Like flies surrounding a pile of cow manure, so are the corrupt and the evil drawn to power”, a philosopher I read said, don’t remember clearly who it was. Yet… the best leaders are more often than not the ones who don’t want any power to begin with. In ancient times, they were often called “Emperor X The Good”, or “King Y The Benevolent”, or “Emperor Z The Noble”. Even if power and leadership was determined by blood or family lineage in ancient times before democracy, it DID happen that there were good intentioned people that happened to get the throne descended upon them, and they remained good, humble, charitable, spiritual, noble, human. Just as it did happen that barbaric, despotic, war-driven, cruel leaders also could inherit the throne through family lineage alone. It was a game of roulette really. Nowadays with democracy, at least the people have a “say” in who’s governing them. Even if it isn’t perfectly representative, with gerrymandering and whatnot, and there is still lots of injustice and corrupt ways in which elections get heavily influenced by the rich and powerful of a nation (lobbying). Even then, thinking everyone in government gets inevitably corrupted and morally bankrupt, is a bleak perspective of the past and future, a pessimistic one which doesn’t leave any room for hope, change, and doesn’t do justice to the immense amount of work some younger and grassroots activists put in forward towards trying to change that precisely. Big money in politics, a corrupt establishment, corporations buying senators and judges and giving themselves big bonuses and tax evasion, students paying way too much for their education as a way for the rich to keep the poor poorer and stopping change and upheaval, public infrastructure hospitals and school and public spaces being defunded and rotting because no one invests in them... The only way, and I mean the only, to make a positive change is through politics, well intentioned individuals entering government to change it from the inside out, and enough people to support them. If enough people assemble and vote for people who truly stand for change, will sacrifice most of their time in a year advocating for a good cause and trying again and again to pass bills that will invalidate old corrupt bills and other tricks corrupt people put in there to steal from the people. What’s the alternative then? Cynicism? Cynicism about politics accomplishes nothing. It is the equivalent to throwing up your arms in the face of sickness and declaring “I give up”. Instead you go to a doctor, you pass tests, you speak with knowledgeable people who will try and help you the best they can. You strive to heal and survive, and even if you don’t succeed, you at least sure as hell tried. Same with government. It is not “too sick to be changed”. Change is always possible.

[@LV-jh4zt]

When I found God. I found happiness.

[@drewbee2024]

L V I didn’t

[@drewbee2024]

But I’m trying

[@LV-jh4zt]

@@drewbee2024 God will guide you.

[@kerryleehartley]

Blessing! Stay Encouraged L V I am so lifted from your testimony! #RootingForUsAll2Win

[@LV-jh4zt]

@@kerryleehartley Thank you Kerry, I hope you find happiness in your life. 🙏

[@veritasetlibertas7889]

Happiness in the Aristotelian sense is what McConaughey is talking about.

[@manifestationwithsami]

Happiness comes to us when we replace fear, anger, hate with LOVE. Just let them go and invite love to your life. Forgive the others and forgive yourself for your mistakes, then smile.

[@dawn4559]

Wow, " eliminate who you are not first" ❤

[@TechbyParker]

Showed this to my cat, now he's an independent responsible member of society.

[@christopherleonard8313]

The ending of this hit me HARD. this is simply amazing

[@amidtoadss]

I showed this video to my son, and now he’s my dad.

[@AbsoluteMotivation]

Hahaha, these types of comments are the funniest!

[@JeffreyWuFilm]

What I learned today 1. Look for joy instead of happiness through gratitude 2. Help define yourself by eliminating things that are not in line with your character 3. Be faithful and take on battles with and for yourself 4. Let others tell you of your own successes

[@devllo6686]

thanks Jeff! Copied that to my notes :D

[@christiankopet5891]

Jeffrey Wu I am learning that joy is the key. Happiness is temporary joy is eternal

[@marynafouche1804]

Jeffrey Wu play like the underdog

[@martinmcfly5405]

Very inspirational speech and quite down to earth. But why are some people saying he is an illuminati and he would tell only brain- wash ? Dont understand. I m not from the States....

[@gregoryunderwood4121]

What he's saying is nothing new.

[@PatrickWilliamShaw]

When my sobriety is falling, I listen to this. But my ego says to not listen to it at all. I began listening to videos like this; take action and move past the excuses, is what I've found to be most helpful. Thank you Matthew, truly thank you. I'm not where I want to be, but I'm better than I was yesterday

[@leodrayton16]

Matthew McConaughey is a bloody Legend!

[@howtodoit4204]

The way the west is living is depressing, when I came from Africa to US, They was a certain smell, feeling and taste that made me happy to be here but they faded away in a year and depression came in to my life for the first time. I never had depression in Africa, I used to be the happiest person laughing all day.

[@MrAshay12]

Same when I went from India to Germany

[@schonschon7406]

@@MrAshay12 What do you think triggers that depression? What made you happy in India that you are missing in Germany?

[@MrAshay12]

@@schonschon7406 feeling like an alien, nothing is familiar . No community, acquaintances, friends, family. Weather sucks, not enough sunlight n damn cold. And the biggest isolation caused due to pandemic. All it may seem like a trivial thing but it is what it is.

[@miepmaster25]

@@MrAshay12 so it’s a you problem

[@MrAshay12]

@@miepmaster25 yes every problem is an individual problem. All of us behave differently to different circumstances.

[@Theepineappleking]

Matthew McConaughey is my spirit animal

[@cynthialugo-medina1478]

I am lucky... I have known who i am for my life... I am now 42. I have no friends, and i am shotgunned by loved ones... Ridiculed by the people that should protect you. I just want to live, I want to be real without repercussions. Especially by family.. One love homey. THANK YOU!!! I needed this message. Thank you.... You just saved a life. Legit.

[@thegivenesseffect3716]

totah

[@michelleogden]

Cyn Medina you do you Girl Friend, I’m right there with ya. 42 no friends but Happy with being authentically ME! 😘

[@thevizualassassin7744]

I just got into depression by a break up that happened literally 5 minutes ago. Clicked on this video, and this was the very first comment I read. It captivated me instantly, simply because I am going through exactly all that, again in life. As for we are the same age, I needed this recent sequence to happen at this very moment. It was meant for me to read this. For this I thank you.

[@phillipdeam410]

You're preaching to the choir. And stealing my post word for word. Focus that it's OK to be alone but avoid the feelings of loneliness at all costs.

[@eusticejflywheel925]

Real talk , integrity.....

[@disking10ZA]

What a Speech wow, this guy's speech inspired my Graduation speech...Even before then, I used to listen when I was down and out, failing modules, with no social existence, in a depressive state. Even at highest of highs', I'll still be running this Speech!!!!

[@Anjohl]

Jon Moxley, a top pro wrestler, said in a promo after returning to the ring from a stint in rehab for alcohol addiction that he tried to do a little bit better each day than he did the day before, even if noone noticed except him. I spontaneously started crying. I did the same thing at one point while watching this. Those are the times for real growth. Remember them.

[@plissabarrett7358]

Too many options will make a tyrant of us all! Most important words and speech I have heard in my life. Mind blown!

[@jimdingman1181]

The difference between Happy and Joy is right on. I call Joy the acceptance that what is going to happen is good enough. Trudge (walk with purpose) the road to Happy Destiny.

[@chris20sith]

When you are in the dark listen to this video, always remember the only person that can lift you up is yourself. You will be so proud of yourself when you do and you will start to shine a light so bright that the right people will start to come into your life. :)

[@camerongray7767]

"We have to define success for ourselves and then we have to put in the work to maintain it."

[@scottk1525]

"Too many options will make a tyrant of us all."

[@annikaskywalker6545]

Scott K I’m tyrannical on this dating website tho

[@sandraannesmale5784]

Matthew's speech was so worth listening to just now. Love the thought that a person's pillow is their peace of mind. More please and thanks.

[@engopys5574]

At the end of the day He's just a human being like us.

[@victorianicolehughes4291]

Wow, One of the most powerful speeches I ever heard. This should be said at every high school and college graduation!

[@MichaelBerezny]

Such a great speech! The point about joy really hit home. To me living your dreams is all about falling in love with the process, and when you find joy in the process, you'll win.

[@thefourthwatch6337]

I love this comment, and only want to caution us all to maintain clarity regarding falling in love compared to having fallen in love...one of them is currently active while the other tends toward a memory. A balance like that is good.

[@artivedi3887]

Mikey Bee not getting the joy of the process..is the issue...pple released wid guD weather in their native places I guess it makes it enjoyable even wen they have no body around

[@dolphingirl49]

Mikey Bee I haven’t always loved the process but trusting it and staying in Joy no matter what always rewards you.

[@SoMusicNy]

Thank you for a productive and constructive comment!

[@Rbreaux87]

..trusting the journey...and having the few pats on the back along the way from friends who care..#nice

[@ckelley63]

I agree with Matthew, especially being grateful for what I have.

[@twinsof86]

Failed to mention GOD number 1 !!

[@leorehbein1588]

He is saying things that we always listen during our lives, but we never pay attention to those things, it's a bless when your really understand it, that makes life sooo much simple!!! Awesome speech

[@JaWznickc04]

I love this!! Never heard of the idea of focusing on joy rather than happiness!! Happiness is always a result of something that keeps on changing.

[@dinayando2849]

Love for the Lord brings all these things. And Faith keeps all of us going in the best and worst of times! He walks with us everyday...He's there for us always...know this in your heart and what Matthew is saying takes on even more meaning!!!