same. If they don’t text, or I’m always the one texting first, it seems like they’re not interested and it very quickly makes me lose interest too
@cokerainbows3 жыл бұрын
Shesa: That is exactly what you should do. Why bother when they treat you like that?
@eileenluna35152 жыл бұрын
Yes my ex fiancè is now like this !!!! My counselor told me to delete his cell phone # He is playing mind games still !! He broke my heart and my feelings now !!!!
@ssyynnn5 жыл бұрын
I just ignore back. Mirror his actions.
@rickimcfarland22695 жыл бұрын
Mirroring works in ALL relationships. At least it works for me. Lol
@eileenluna35152 жыл бұрын
I'm doing it too to my ex fiancè now !!!!
@SoulbalmSpeaksLyfe5 жыл бұрын
Do not pin your tail to a donkey. Move on and enjoy your life. It's not revenge, it's self esteem and understanding you shouldn't put energy into someone who doesn't want you. This is sad.
@michellef42015 жыл бұрын
Causes so much insecurities, feel like your being used No matter if he says he’s not You feel like your not really a priority for him desire what he says. Don’t play games and ignore back. Try to be playful and fun, with your future contact with him change up the energy to fun exciting and just fun. If he doesn’t try or show an effort in return than he’s not worth your time and effort
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Yep, you want something who really wants you.
@budgetrebelgoals5 жыл бұрын
The harder part is dating guys that you aren't interested in to keep from focusing on one uninterested guy.... sigh
@MM-lb9np3 жыл бұрын
Girl. Yes
@monigiselle21405 ай бұрын
Oh my God, I know the feeling
@monigiselle21405 ай бұрын
Ive decided to be alone for some time. I NEES TO HEAL
@jamest6812 ай бұрын
Why would you date men you are not interested in. I don't think he means that since it would not make you feel that you have abundance. You should only date men you are interested in. Then if one guy ignores you, your world is not crushed.
@patriciaearley41775 жыл бұрын
Nobody got time for that there's one magic word to remember,NEXT👌
@christineelizabethhorner58294 жыл бұрын
I want to
@amycherie695 жыл бұрын
I watched one of your videos for the first time, a couple days ago and I'm hooked! Lol I'm 40 years old and feel like I have been just bumping along confused for years. I appreciate so much your ability to communicate in a such a way that helps me to see, realize, identify and make a huge effort to change such behaviors and thought processes. Without making me feel like a fool. Your good people! Thank you! Please keep on, keepin on! Awesome
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thanks for being here!
@AggieMar3 жыл бұрын
The thing is you meet a guy that just has it all and you've never met someone like them before though you're 49... and then you totally lose it, you feel so insecure that every of your steps, words and actions plays against you and they can sense it and treat you anyway they wish... and they months later come back apologising and you think you might actually get them back but you blow it again... until you come to a point that all hope is gone and whether you like it or not you have to walk away... I'm a Christian, so I have given it all to Jesus cause all my efforts were so wrong... The man I love might never come back and I will need to be ok with it. Sending hugs to all of you beautiful women 💙💙💙
@loronna12235 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matthew! This video helped me so much to feel good about myself and validate my feelings in this situation. It relieves so much stress to know what to do and what not to do. I love the visuals, like the concept of the cat. I love the advice to live in a space of being high value and be willing to walk away and not take that because if I just stay around, he’s not the problem anymore, I am at that point for taking it. I can acknowledge that it was painful and give myself compassion for it but then basically be an advocate for myself like I would for someone else and say hey let’s get you into a better situation that you deserve. I also appreciate the idea of not looking outward on the whole situation but looking inward and finding a Takeaway for next time regarding how my behavior could be refined to have a different result with the next guy. I love to own my power and live in abundance. I know what it feels like to be in that space but I don’t always know how I got there or how to stay there. Any advice on that? 😊
@juliaarambula31534 жыл бұрын
Guys know and are aware what they are doing. They just are not being considerate. Bro code . Also who wants to be with someone who is an opportunist to take advantage of someone else. Don't get it twisted. Just let him go and move on. Don't invest too hard and give it alot of time to see his character. If you have to train them to value you, then they are not worth it.
@kristinaldridge17125 жыл бұрын
The cat came back the very next day. The cat came back. I thought he was a gonner, but the cat came back 😽. Some of you may remember that Nickelodeon short.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
It was a folk song before it was ever a short on Nickelodeon dating back to the late 1800's. (yes, I'm nerdy like that)
@jackiemolinar8715 жыл бұрын
It's hard to date when you want this particular guy and he could care less
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
That's why you need to date
@repentbebaptized14214 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha
@killerbell27565 жыл бұрын
Great advice, my guy sometimes ignores my texts but i can understand when he is sick or his life is going to hell in a handbasket as it has for the last few weeks, but we text and call at least once a day so we know how each other is doing, we have a mutual understanding and we both love each other a great deal so neither of us is worried. 😊
@mariateresitacaibigan91884 жыл бұрын
Good for you both.
@heleendekreekscentsyheleen66095 жыл бұрын
I think that he must realize that he is destroying the band he has with her ..she will go away..and find a better and sweet man. He is driven away because I have tekst him back and ask him to treat me like a human ? Then...Go... And I wish the new woman good luck with this man...because when she is smart and sweet ? She will not a accept this behavior too... And NO I am not dating an other man....before this relationship is over.. And an other thing...I as a woman ..is the cat in this story... The man wants the woman back ? he has to take action by starting to talk and tekst back .. My experience with this kind of men...? He will not change...
@findingdori4424 жыл бұрын
First and foremost, always know your value and add tax! Secondly, I don’t have time for games!
@jozi945 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this post math 👍🏻👍🏻 didn't see you for a while you look different with this hairstyle
@Soul_Latina5 жыл бұрын
This is NOT true Not to be bragging (but we all know how it is for women online). I have a lot of men trying to talk to me. I even gone on dates and it doesn’t work when you’re stuck on someone i cant get the one man that doesn’t want me out of my mind. Its like an obsession and its causing me so much stress. Pray for me 😭.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
I don't think that saying you're obsessed with a guy is bragging... but you definitely need to create more interest with more things in your life. It works if you do it that way.
@ivy38394 жыл бұрын
You are not alone and dating 6 men does not replace the one you want ... silly is in it !! So angry with myself !! Don’t get me wrong I am very busy with my life .
@Soul_Latina4 жыл бұрын
Matthew Coast - Relationship Advice I meant bragging for saying “i had a lot of men trying to talk to me “
@cynthiab83774 жыл бұрын
Matthew Coast - Relationship Advice does this work on getting back with ex who doesn’t reply my texts?
@mariateresitacaibigan91884 жыл бұрын
Same thing happening to me.😭
@TaNkGuRl-sh3zs4 жыл бұрын
Love yourself first and the rest will follow.
@monigiselle21405 ай бұрын
Great video. It's old, but a good. You should do a newer version ❤❤
@donnarolfe99012 жыл бұрын
I love listening to all your videos, you explain things really well and I really appreciate all your advice! Thank you 💙
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them! Thanks for being here, Donna
@nurshuhada15875 жыл бұрын
Thanks Matthew... I'm going to listen from 11.10 on repeat.. Like a mantra. Till I can digest that.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Great idea!
@lihong93892 жыл бұрын
His hair is cool 😎 Matthew is like a therapist!
@joyluzgannaban10075 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt ,Im watching from Philippines.Your video was amazing,love it.
@dawnewhobrey9841 Жыл бұрын
Hi Matthew coming in from Vancouver, Canada....love your kindness and encouragement, thank you!❤
@MatthewCoast Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@cplunk765 жыл бұрын
Can I just send him this video? Lol cause I'm so tired of being not a priority at all
@lv2243 жыл бұрын
Hi. I'm in London. You say the most amazing things! So insightful and simple. Thank you!
@NicolesReviews3 жыл бұрын
From Georgia. Watching this from North Carolina, 2/17/21
@griselhernandez77633 жыл бұрын
Im in a similar situation now.... so hard dating in the 21st century... Ive learned so much from my past relationships... I don't stress it...I don't chase... I have so much self love... I don't have time to waste ..
@jelizabethpetrie66565 жыл бұрын
Treat me like that. When you hardly know me? Cause you think that create's chaser incentive? Your loss.
@daniellelowrey78053 жыл бұрын
That’s so funny I love the story about the cat 😂
@findingdori4424 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mathew for helping so many! My Hero!
@robellapanlaan505 жыл бұрын
You're welcome Matt.
@melarboleda61744 жыл бұрын
Thanks.. for the advice. I can relate into this.. watching from Dubai
@StephaniePrincipal Жыл бұрын
Does moving on even make a difference? All men do this
@rosenblau5 жыл бұрын
What if you are exclusive with him for almost year? Can't just date other men. The first 5 months were perfect, but then he changed his job and that seems now his priority... we have a strong connection, I just wish he'd prioritize me more instead of working, gaming, friends, etc... I tried giving him space, but it didn't help.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You need to build a life outside of him
@shellslaraine92952 жыл бұрын
If he is putting gaming etc before a relationship with you...then his not prioritizing time for you or your relationahip. Move on. Why would you want to be with someone who clearly doesnt want to be with you. Be the leading lady of your life...
@gertygordon334 жыл бұрын
Watching u from South Africa. Thank u for the advice
@maloumiranda93425 жыл бұрын
Hi Matthew! Good advise, thanks - from Philippines
@robellapanlaan505 жыл бұрын
Hi Matthew ,nice to see you again.im your avid listener,im always watching to your love advice..
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you. Thanks for stopping by!
@canarygordon86182 жыл бұрын
Hi. From GA. I really like the cat illustration. It makes sense.
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@magicalmoonstarot5 жыл бұрын
So what do you do if he reaches out again? After ignoring you?
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Do you still want something with him?
@magicalmoonstarot5 жыл бұрын
@@MatthewCoast there is still a connection there, i feel something between us so yes i do! Idk what to do!
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Make him earn his place back with you
@Miko-yw5xt3 жыл бұрын
Yip I've made these mistakes, never ever ever again...x
@trisharunnallsakavictorias47673 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure what to do, my boyfriend"friend" went from loving me and telling me we'll probably end up married to im not in love. How do I get him to be in love with me again but for always being in love with me.
@pamellamougin7565 жыл бұрын
Ooh really 😍 thank you sooo much for those things 😍
@lyssabloom39642 жыл бұрын
I agree. I like gods advice to us .
@mariaqumayo94425 жыл бұрын
😂 Where did the cat go?
@godsgurl81775 жыл бұрын
I feel old tapes...my Dad used to do this..he was too busy. I felt ignored.
@dragonzodiac785 жыл бұрын
God's Gurl ?
@gemmalouiserowledge5452 жыл бұрын
I cut away because I'm clueless then I feel guilty because I don't know the reality of what that Freind thinks feels . I get so confused not playing games just don't know how to respond our sh*t like that
@asinsasina79355 жыл бұрын
Watching from Uganda EAST AFRICA nice video
@StephaniePrincipal Жыл бұрын
It sucks that I wanna hear more about him but he takes hours to reply. He lives in another state, so the only means of communication we have is texting.
@nazaninboroumand5465 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this post 🙏🏻
@luxuryqueen424 жыл бұрын
I guess if you understand how manifestation works, you can mentally get a person to text you and to behave the way you deserve. But for those who do not understand manifestation, it will be easier just to mirror the person’s actions and ignore them as well if they don’t text you.
@BeccaSmith1245 жыл бұрын
What happens when you know you're a powerful woman and abundant but a guy still won't step up to the plate to invest and turns it around as if you should be?
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
A guy or no guy will step up to the plate?
@gemmalouiserowledge5452 жыл бұрын
People say boohoo I say sh*t I'm clicking when I click I blalb
@christineelizabethhorner58294 жыл бұрын
Can we use the abundance principle when we don’t know anyone to date?
@lindseyhebert55685 жыл бұрын
This is happening to me pretty much 😭from New Iberia Louisiana
@jackiemolinar8715 жыл бұрын
This is so messed up why cant they commit with so many games
@cokerainbows3 жыл бұрын
Zaya: If a guy is playing games and being a dickhead, move on. I don't care how hard it is. You cannot force someone to like you. Also, remember this, most couples look VERY similar to each other. No one ever fucking mentions this which drives me insane! They are attracted to women who have very similar faces, if you don't look like him, don't bother(also, google this, its destroyed what i thought love was all about lol)
@sweetii0983 жыл бұрын
I wanna get back at him, find a NEW and see him suffer lol but what I truly want is to not care anymore tbh
@ursulabienkowski54472 жыл бұрын
Hi Matt. I love to listen to you.. Well I’m dating with man for 6 months and all was working great until , last week I ask him how serious he is about us. His answer was, he need more time to answer this question., which I absolutely understand. But now I can see it some distance between us, Reason : Quick update : He is divorced twice and so I am. I told I him I don’t want to waisted my time . We are the same age 67 still working. We both have bad marriage experience , my gold is to find some man who I-can spend rest of my life. Do you think it was to early to asked that questions ? Help me please. We both look very young for our age and we are very good health condition.
@user-cw7nm5qf6e5 жыл бұрын
Excellent thank you
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You're welcome!
@BidenSucks20204 жыл бұрын
The guy I’ve been talking to freaked out and asked me what was wrong and why I’ve been distant. I told him it’s because I feel alone when I’m around him. He won’t put his phone down. His response was ignoring me. I haven’t heard from him in a full day. We’ve been through a lot in the short time that we’ve been talking and I’m shocked his now ignoring me. What could he be thinking and why is he ignoring me? I appreciate and value your advice 🙏🏼
@MatthewCoast4 жыл бұрын
He thinks that you're trying to change him and/or that you don't accept him as he is. When you say, "I've been distant because of YOUR behavior" you're taking no responsibility for yourself and your actions and putting the responsibility for how you think, feel, and act on him. And that never ends well.
@BidenSucks20204 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@dianalereve54022 жыл бұрын
@@MatthewCoast If he never puts down his phone, he HAS the responsibility for her getting distant... Should she not say that? If not, how can he know it and change it in case he wants that? What is the alternative?
@mariateresitacaibigan91884 жыл бұрын
Hi Tess from Philippines 🇵🇭
@vickiebickford92833 жыл бұрын
Hi from Colorado (Pueblo)
@rubaroshid75402 жыл бұрын
Good job 👍👍👍
@MatthewCoast2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Joycelang24955 жыл бұрын
God bless you 🥰 🥰
@Joycelang24955 жыл бұрын
You are amazing thank you so,much 💝💝💝
@judyjb23055 жыл бұрын
Very solid advice. Question. If you decide to bring more abundance, even if it's just guy friends, is it okay to let him know. If you're wondering if you should post activites with them, or should you avoid posting anything with other guys?
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't be putting it in his face but you also shouldn't be intentionally hiding it.
@rozbyskswiata67755 жыл бұрын
Dear Matthew, thank you for you videos! You're great! I love the advice of "dating many guys in one time", the thing is nobody is asking me out, not even one, not to mention few. I am quite attractive in the terms of average, in mind and body, and I smile (I have friends and intrests, not a crazy grumpy lumpy). This is just not happening nearly ever. Even after nice date from internet guy is taking my phone and asking if we can meet again - then just unmatch me with no word. Any tip how to meet with many guys in one time when not even one is asking me out?...
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm going to be doing a full livestream on this topic soon.
@rozbyskswiata67755 жыл бұрын
@@MatthewCoast yeyyyyyyyy!!!!!!
@miguelindustrialable5 жыл бұрын
Hey men love This tip of videos, i have a quention That i never seen on here , why the women That i talk we seem to have a good time and all The suden She stops talking to me.. i dont get
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Are you in a same-sex relationship?
@lovep14744 жыл бұрын
Matthew Coast - Relationship Advice I think he’s a dude lol
@isabelladarin-zanco3415 жыл бұрын
Hello Ottawa Canada My guy is doing that now even though we had a close relationship but online I just did all those. Things that you said not to do!
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
It happens to the best of us
@nuheilah5 жыл бұрын
Hello from morocco :)
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Hello!
@lynxoxoxo5 жыл бұрын
Just the problem is he seems super interested in me cause we went on a call like three times, but sometimes he just decides to ignore me so I’m just like should I keep the conversation going or just leave it alone cause I don’t wanna bother him. Is he showing me he isn’t interested in talking me? Like idk so if anyone knows what I can do pls tell me!
@lizvalenzuela43965 жыл бұрын
I loveeeeeee your videos!!!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍💗👍👍👍👍👍
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I'm glad!
@deborahwoodyard88953 жыл бұрын
Hi I am Deborah from Arkansas.
@jozi945 жыл бұрын
Im josie from albania 🇦🇱👋🏽
@josiehatchy26245 жыл бұрын
Im also Josie!!!
@patriciaviii5 жыл бұрын
I like the old hairstyle
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Which one?
@patriciaviii5 жыл бұрын
When you brush it to the side. I like your face.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for telling me
@ramonaedwards53384 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@margotmendez1293 жыл бұрын
I was doing this but I have stopped the smothering
@kimmyscott85565 жыл бұрын
Oh k.My name is kimberly ,and i lived in guam....I love this video ,and i just want to asked question ....So,what can i do that my boyfrirnd apologizes to me ,and said call me or text me whenever i wake up.Cuz,im tired of working..And then i waited till night time i messaged him,and calling but it is say it is unaivalable.What is that supposed to mean is he cheating on me or what.Keep calling him,but it does not go thru.I keep calling him all i see is unaivable.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
You need to lean back
@kimmyscott85565 жыл бұрын
Oh k.What should i do next?
@SoulbalmSpeaksLyfe5 жыл бұрын
Kimmy Bafney say goodbye and find out how amazing you are so that you won't sell your diamond at the dollar store
@SoulbalmSpeaksLyfe5 жыл бұрын
Block him. Simple.
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Many times, that's the way to go
@reshmaramharack40175 жыл бұрын
Trinidad
@mariateresitacaibigan91884 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matthew. He ignores my texts/calls. He’s hot-cold regularly. We’re more than 2 years in a relationship. Live together for 2 1/2 months when I visited US last year. We’re in LDR. Pls help!
@victoriamonteiro19983 жыл бұрын
Salut Mathew, shares and gross bisous from 😘🇨🇵
@Miko-yw5xt3 жыл бұрын
what if it's not a romantic attachment? mines is an acquaintance. I did like him initially but I found out after a misunderstanding, (it was an i rejected his actions/timing, he rejected me scenario) it was clear he wasn't interested in a relationship and I'm not interested in casual so it was a non starter so professionally is proving a problem...x
@shiva4ever5 жыл бұрын
This was just too rambling.
@gemmalouiserowledge5452 жыл бұрын
Heeheehee yep I f*CK up on that I just worry Im maybe some people talk to much because you start understanding more things change and the way you think feel change so you worry come across sh*t more so you try more and you f*CK up more that's just as freinds
@vaaniaryaki28293 жыл бұрын
Why does he take so long to get to the point???
@hoiliswu60704 жыл бұрын
Yeah women is mistic but guy you are other lady very happy with to injoy to your life what women came to your love don't tray to women go to lady injoy to your marriage women finish my relashinship i am impossible pls . don't description okay. Hi guy my future plan is stop
@hoiliswu60703 жыл бұрын
Now i come back to you please meet me and call me dating time over and over time
@jayakolachalama5623 жыл бұрын
No Iam some work Sergent work please that man that way tell please don't otherwise talking
@isabelladarin-zanco3415 жыл бұрын
Ottawa Canada. I made those mistakes ... After being someone that always contacted me But lately he is ignoring me About 3 years into this but all online As he is indifferent country We were planning meeting and are in process of trying to get visa 2nd try..I have given a lot of money including latest towards getting his passport stamped With more to be sent after a certain expected part of this is done But hw suddenly went strange....?
@gnulaiemap98835 жыл бұрын
He must be a catfish. Be careful
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
He's scamming you. Cut your losses and stop talking to him immediately. You're being played by a scammer, he's not who he says he is. Watch the Dr. Phil episodes on catfish.
@marieki15 жыл бұрын
Let me guess - is he young and from Africa? You are being catfished. Are you really that desperate that you need to "buy" love? Respect yourself more and be honest with yourself. If you are an old lady enjoy with grandchildren and friends and forget about that kind of love. Maybe find some older gentleman in your town for a little company. Sorry but I am just being honest here.
@jackiemolinar8715 жыл бұрын
Why don't men text you?
@MatthewCoast5 жыл бұрын
Because they don't want to text you
@sitmengchue40772 жыл бұрын
👍
@FITGAL19683 жыл бұрын
He doesn’t completely ignore the texts at times. He reads it and it may take a long while for him to answer it. Very annoying
@FITGAL19683 жыл бұрын
He is also unhappily married
@sasakia92865 жыл бұрын
Maria Ganados from Philippines 🇵🇭
@chaeyeonwoo18645 жыл бұрын
gazini te? haha
@sasakia92865 жыл бұрын
Haha Ganados po talaga ang family name ko
@lilmar17105 жыл бұрын
I realized that you were a man when I opened up the video 😬😬 Sorry 😐