She Will Cheat on Her Husband if…

[@boejiden7093]

“Everybody is capable of infidelity in the right circumstances” My 90+ year old WW2 vet neighbor got married to his wife when he was 18. He went off to the war, came back, they built a business and a house. Raised 4 kids together and his wife passed away in 2020. Truly a gem of a woman. He was shifted to a nursing home and has a picture of his wife with him at all times to remind him of his love. Loyalty seems to be so hard for this woman.

[@nerored6235]

Reread what you typed that she said. "The right circumstances". That man's wife was never in those circumstances, probably because she didn't let herself, like the woman at the start of the video. Loyalty doesn't just come from saying 'NO' but also comes from not being in the situation where you have to.

[@sw33tialucard]

Good for the man and woman in your example, but at the end of the day, she’s not wrong. Everyone is capable of infidelity.

[@newsciencestuff5540]

just say you have bad self control. you could put me next to the hottest woman in existence. and i will not cheat on my gf.@@nerored6235 seriously you guys sound like like pisslamists who say women **need** to weak a burka to prevent men from raping them. we're not animals such that we lose self control and fuck anybody we want.

[@newsciencestuff5540]

no lmao this is some bullshit. maybe it applies to you, but not to me, not to a lot of loyal men and women. what kind of dating culture do you guys even have lmao@@sw33tialucard

[@sonykent4940]

​@@sw33tialucardthat applies to every aspect of life we're all capable of anything but at the end of the day its still our choice

[@andraeblackwell]

"My husband is on a date with another woman.", "...and why are you telling us?" Those were my immediate thoughts exactly.

[@thatnorwegianguy1986]

Because people in open relationships love telling others they are in an open relationship and then mock people who are actually happy in a normal relationship. This has become a trend now and my uncle being a divorce attorney he is all for it for some reason.

[@JP-xd6fm]

@@thatnorwegianguy1986 Moral relationship!!??? HAHAHAHHA!, you guys are funny

[@binto-c9r]

@@JP-xd6fm sounds like your brain is subconsciously telling you something by you misreading that

[@elsinaattheworkshop]

@@JP-xd6fm It seems you couldn't read properly.

[@jackkraken3888]

To the last lady, maybe if cut your bangs in the front you can see him better and maybe find a connection?

[@totoitutucoco]

😂😂

[@Aneliuse]

Lol

[@Rachietutu]

🤣🤣🤣

[@claire98]

bruh, yu can't force a connection, stop being an asshole💀

[@bleehh]

Her hair is a mess but why is everyone acting like she is crazy for not marrying someone she didn't feel deeply connected with? That would be a divorce in the making.

[@1984Phalanx]

Why do cheaters always say "oh everybody would do it!" Speak for yourself!

[@seijin4426]

Not everybody would do it, because these cheating ass adulterous perverts don't know everybody nor should they speak for everybody either!

[@stevenbell4066]

It's called externalizing an internal issue. Cheaters think that everyone else is a cheater that's how they justify it to themselves.

[@ifthatthenthis3797]

No actually it's just biblical what the first lady is saying to humans are tempted. Everyone who sin in a alot of ways You might last 10 years what about 1000 What about 10000 What about a billions You would cheat kill steal whatever Except for Jesus that's why we need him and his righteousness and new immortal bodies

[@1984Phalanx]

@@ifthatthenthis3797 During my youth I was tempted and I resisted. I grew older and saw the results for those who cheat and upon learning I made the right choice cheating was no longer a temptation for me. Your philosophy suggests that a person who is tempted will always remain tempted, temptation dies. Not all men are created equal, we all have differing qualities and weaknesses. A quality of mine is that I will never do anything that goes against my moral compass. I am genetically pre programmed at birth to be this way and nothing can change it. Bottom line, you tell me what I would do if this or that, you are wrong, period, bottom line, end of story.

[@ifthatthenthis3797]

@@1984Phalanx so given a trillion years you will remain loyal? You say yes because you think you are a good person. Jesus says no one does good no not one. All fall short of the glory If you are confident that you would never no matter what tempted for billions of years then God should have crucified you And we should pray in your name. The point is the wife in the video is expressing Christian theology. Which Christ is real so it's reality And in reality you have folded and would fold That's why Jesus says Keep temptation far away

[@christianwag3015]

"Your honour, if i enter Mcdonalds, i will steal chicken mcnuggets" My bro's always funny as hell 😆😆

[@davidperkins7782]

I worked at one. That's a bad idea.

[@darthgamer9468]

@@davidperkins7782 Why's it a bad idea there in particular?

[@zexalbarian9819]

😂😂😂

[@goodboix3528]

People are out here marrying a resume, not a person, and get disappointed

[@D_Pha3th0n]

Underrated comment. That's a great way to put it 👍

[@priscillajimenez27]

That's probably what she realized and broken the engagement

[@TheFatalcrest]

😂 Okay. So. If she said "Maybe." Id be forever paranoid, but if says Absolutely im like "....guess this is divorce court evidence just in case."

[@alone2break]

Anyone who said yes is a liar.. Given the right time and circumstances, anyone can cheat..

[@darkstrider256]

​@@alone2breakAnyone can kill another person at anytime, which is where self-control comes in

[@kurtsudheim825]

I think the was trying to sound smart, & came up with a convoluted answer to make her look good, trying to say that anyone CAN chat, but she wouldn't because she lives him - if I've got her right - but she didn't communicate it well so it sounded horrible.

[@TheFatalcrest]

@@kurtsudheim825 xD I know that's the idea but bruh. Immediately, I'm like "bro now I'm going to be thinking about it because if the way you jumped up with the answer" Lol basically I'd take a "Never" best, Maybe will make me go "Hm. Alright" but that answer would make me quietly double check our kid

[@rolandomota7771]

the cold hard fact is, humans are not meant to be monogamous

[@OverTheHeat1]

The last girl really is stuck on the whole "I didn't feel the spark with this person" despite having everything checked off the list for an ideal partner

[@abilityup6734]

It's crazy that making a spark and keeping that spark going is the most important thing despite checking every other box. Thing is though if she felt that.. why did she let it get all the way to engagement and lead him on? Sounds a bit selfish to me.

[@danielgriff2659]

He dodged a bullet.. that woman was incapable of being happy in ANY relationship..

[@FujoshiBtsh]

There are actually people who would rather choose a less-perfect love than stay in a relationship they don’t really feel for. She was right to leave instead of regretting her decision to stay. Love is complicated after all. This is just my opinion, though.

[@PandorasBox2]

lucky man ran off with his life and mind intact

[@greenfoxes5903]

Its the classic situation where they are using the wrong checklist. She doesn't know what she wants or is withholding the answer from her viewers.

[@sanguinedelight6464]

As someone whose been cheated on,i (almost out of reflex) pointed right to the front door when she confidently said ABSOLUTELY

[@MixedChick1]

Her husband thinks she is joking but she is being serious lol

[@jmacosta]

It's funny how her monologue about how people are prone to cheat apparently to their eyes makes her seem honest when she's simply justifying all her possible bad decisions and literally saying "don't let me alone with a guy, as a matter of fact, this baby is not even yours".

[@boejiden7093]

She speaks for herself

[@alanmlkbanda]

lmao she's preparing her man

[@NoahRoss-yn2hw]

she also said i avoid compromising sitiution that seems pretty good if some one is on the hub and doesn't watch something great but if some one knows they will so they avoided that fine too you use brain

[@beansandrunning]

Well I guess there is some truth in her word, obviously we have self constrain but not putting ourself in situations that might turn out to be conflicting is definetly a good choice. If you know you tend to be tempted when going out drinking than dont do it. If you kind of feel a connection to a co worker than try to keep it as professional as possible etc....😅 I at least hope that was what she was trying yo say.

[@Kvh47]

@@boejiden7093 yes you can tell she cheated in the past and is not willing to condemn her own actions.

[@NLTops]

Lmfao the thing that made me laugh harder than anything is when you said "Awww, here is a banana."...and it wasn't a banana.

[@hendrickswart4122]

.....and then he rightfully claimed it back.

[@MsBluebot]

He did that with two pieces of bread once it was hilarious and he demanded them back too

[@LayllasLocker]

Never cheat! I never cheated in my life. There is one thing called HONOR and RESPECT.

[@TheRealDeal130]

Unfortunately, people like you are in the minority camp, and diminishing very fast.

[@LayllasLocker]

@@TheRealDeal130 i know few folks with the same principles. So I am hoping it is 50-50. 😀

[@rolandomota7771]

its not cheating if you do it one time

[@middayshine6627]

​@@rolandomota7771, one time is cheating, too.

[@LayllasLocker]

@@rolandomota7771 it is.

[@ganjabobby]

“the demonic energy” lol so accurate

[@michaelh7638]

I have a feeling if there was a bit of drama she would have changed her mind

[@seijin4426]

Demonic energy, the very thing that I absolutely despise and abhor more than anything else in the universe!

[@NS2456-u3y]

They want the stereotypical "bad boy." 🙄

[@yarenot9878]

That one got me real good

[@EDM_2905]

"Shakalaka boom them" had me dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thegreatgamingkid8252]

Ts

[@PeoplecallmeLucifer]

"HE is not WiFi" Why is that such a perfect line?

[@lockekosta9014]

Only people who think everyone cheats are typically cheaters. A thief believes everybody steals.

[@inigo137]

correct

[@Heather-ip8sd]

Yep

[@BlackJustice2637]

As far as the last clip goes, that guy will be fine. Sometimes, you just don't click even if they tick every box. Men and women are equally prone to that. The only real mistake was letting it get to engagement because she almost certainly knew earlier.

[@Thisisjustname]

Yeah, she wasted that man's time. But he will probably be happier with another woman.

[@muscacholi]

Very true, sometimes everything works out but there is no sexual attraction. Or there is extreme sexual attraction and nothing else. The fact that she let him propose, said yes, and then decided that she didn't feel a connection when the dude was madly in love is as cold as ice. No man can hurt another man that badly no matter how hard he tried.

[@sirick93]

Thats why you will be forever alone. There is no connection and not a perfect guy/girl. In this life you compromise. The sooner people realise that the happier they will get.

[@crptnite]

If she didn't feel the Spark of Attraction, she should have never accepted his proposal.

[@crptnite]

​@@muscacholiyet men hurt women who genuinely love them this badly all the time & are never forced to face the consequences. Welcome to the Consequences.

[@savagejx1]

Third man dodged a bullet.

[@claire98]

The last lady, the one that didn't feel the connection, I 100% agree with her. You shouldn't be with someone you don't feel love for in that way. Even if they're the right person on paper. She'd be doing a disservice to herself and to him if she stayed. She saved them both from being trapped in a loveless marriage, and hopefully they both will find someone who's right for them.

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

I understand but I can see her thinking she can find another guy that checks all the boxes AND with whom she has a "connection", whatever that means. What if she doesn't?

[@chummidixit6433]

​@@JaySmith-pv2mw that's her problem , why do you worry as if you want to date her lol

[@kiran9s]

Like most of the Indians, I had an arranged marriage. I "met" my wife once before the marriage was arranged, which was basically seeing her. Met on the engagement day, where we basically stood beside each other for three hours. Then started talking on phone, then a few months later got married. Never met in between. For the first six months I felt no connection, but now we are in love, deeply, with each other. You have the freedom of choosing who to marry. Use that freedom wisely - not everybody has that freedom.

[@zin6730]

So true! And am so happy to hear you and your wife are in love ❤❤

[@aerovelu4677]

Its like my story from another person... 😊❤

[@Durio_zibethinus]

People tends to forget that marriage is not all about a wedding day. It's a long journey to find your peace in this hectic world, together.

[@corys7604]

I think your lesson is that arranged marriages from parents actually works better than choosing yourself.

[@mattyh6837]

Wait i dont get it. Youre saying you have the freedom to get married and yet you had an arranged marriage

[@SamiUddin13]

"That doesn't mean you should shaka laka boom boom them" that part got me dying over here 😂😂😂😂

[@sandlyalteon8246]

He had me lmao when he said, “the demonic energy” 🤣🤣🤣

[@victorlinares4137]

At least shes acknowledging her weakness but massive L to normalize it.

[@hollyfut]

L??

[@hollyfut]

@@varanisshouyou4379 massive lose so meaning its not good right? Ok

[@hollyfut]

@@varanisshouyou4379 thx

[@themed7434]

Not lose it means loss .

[@stevenbell4066]

Yeah what she's really saying is she's not to be trusted

[@nerored6235]

I see several comments about the first lady "not being loyal" because she might not say "no" or "not having self control"' but they don't realize that putting in the effort to not end up in the situation where she would have to say "no" in the first place IS her being loyal and implementing the means to control herself. She wants to be loyal so she's trying to minimize the possibility that she could even be tempted. Because she's not wrong. No matter how much you might deny it, IF... IF... the circumstances are right, you would cheat. You might regret it. But if you don't cheat, the circumstances weren't right. Your mindset, the situation, the person, the interaction, the state of your relationship, etc.

[@danielcrafter9349]

omg THIS so much

[@andycrusher2312]

Yea shes wasting her efforts i mean her saying all of that to justify the "absolutely" indicates under the right circumstances she would. Try to deny that

[@RobertTowell]

I agree with the lady talking about boundries 100%. The same thing for men. The best way to reduce the risk of infidelity is to remove temptation. I would never go out to diner, or hangout with a woman, without my wife there.

[@jeffstewart7439]

Thank GOD another logical and sensible person is here! You understand what she is saying! I concur! I do not understand why so many do not understand what she is saying! It's preventative measures to keep self accountable!

[@MarcelOramas]

'People will sometimes break your boundaries, that doesn't mean you have to shakalaka boom boom them' 🤣🤣

[@MarcelOramas]

Every single one of his comments is pure gold, i'm rolling on the floor laughing 🤣🤣

[@louieo3]

I understand where she's coming from. She was making a point before saying no. Boundaries

[@TheEllod]

I think one can interpret her vocabulary in such a way that self cobntrol is one of potential boundaries one can set. it is the emotional control boundary and one can furthr argue that it can be seen as knowing the specifc boundary of self control and making sure ones actions are morally consistent even beyond that particular boundary by setting up others.

[@MorganHill-v7z]

If it is an open relationship, then it isn’t truly a relationship. It’s basically saying you are with someone whilst having zero true commitment and loyalty.

[@Fx_Explains]

I agree with the first lady, i just think she should have chosen the right words. In other words people are intentionally misunderstanding her. What i believe she basically meant to say is, she might cheat in the wrong situation so she avoid those situations to make it impossible for her to cheat. While on the other hand people who will claim they'll never cheat and go hang out with the opposite sex, Wil most likely end up cheating basically they are the real hypocrite here not her. Yes temptation do exist and that's what many people nowadays are trying to pretend it doesn't as if all cheater go out with the intention of cheating, No most fell into temptation because they thought they'll never cheat.

[@stutter4064]

Ya agreed. I think that's what she was saying which is a more realistic and mature perspective than saying "I'll never cheat!" and then going out for a drunken bachelorette party in Miami and get's d'ed down in the hotel bathroom after her 9th tequila shot

[@ninad.7152]

​@@stutter4064ummm that's oddly specific 😂. It's giving personal experience 😅

[@Fx_Explains]

@@varanisshouyou4379 well she did say that's why she avoids such situations and her conclusion was "I'll never cheat on you". Like I said she should have chose better words instead of the "i will absolutely cheat on you" etc...

[@MatthewJarvis-zw2sz]

Huh.....so I guess self control isn't a thing any more? Speak for yourself, but I think I'm more than capable of hanging out with women without having sex with them.

[@Fx_Explains]

@@MatthewJarvis-zw2sz that's exactly my point, people like you like to pretend temptation doesn't exist, and people like you like to argue her facts because you want to hang out with women. I'm not saying simply hanging out with women one time you'll cheat but when the relationship start to become rocky and the women you are hanging out with start to show you more affection than your partner then the temptation Wil start to set in. The difference between this woman and you is she doesn't lie to herself. All that being said what if she had no self control and she knows it but decided to take measures to protect herself from cheating? How is that in any way wrong or pathetic? In actuality we need people who know their weaknesses and take the right actions to protect themselves.

[@Mlogan11]

She didn't say "would cheat", but "could" given the right circumstances. She was being honest - many folks that say they would "never" cheat but wind up cheating do so because they were overconfident in putting themselves in situations that could spell trouble, then suffer a moment of weakness at the wrong time. The woman who admitted it's possible but will do her best to not put herself in a compromising position is far less likely to get in trouble than someone who thinks they can withstand any situation.

[@ZechsMerquise73]

nah, it's an evangelical youtube page setting up the man's pretense that his wife never hang out with a man

[@eleethtahgra7182]

True. But that "absolutely" is devastating...

[@oldbot64]

She shouldn't have said absolutely though lol. Very bad choice of words to start with

[@Naucturna]

Yeah I still don't get where she handled this correctly and 99% of the time if the shoe was on the other foot oh god the reaction. Standing there holding their child talking about "absolutely". As for what you said about people saying they would never and end up cheating? That's just what is called a lie. This woman as long as it's real just set up her marriage for.second guessing for the rest ofnher life.

[@marknc7546]

I think you're coping or have been hurt. There are plenty of normal people who "couldn't cheat" It's just about personal morales and being an adult. If you mean like scientifically is my body capable of it? Sure? But any other way of looking at is very high school teenager mindset.

[@Haabsa22024]

I cannot believe people are misunderstanding the first lady. It's a good message. Every person who ever cheated thought they wouldn't ever cheat. It's basically saying prevention is better than cure. Don't put yourself at any risk to do such things. It's like driving safely. Half of it is just avoiding taking unnecessary risks.

[@govegsaveanimals1972]

"What in the Adam 22 is going on?" 😆

[@helendancelot]

Respect her honesty and awareness

[@dankaczor8965]

There always a “but”. I’m haven’t subscribed *but* I am now. You’re hilarious. Keep it up.

[@anitamichael595]

My mom’s friend had a relationship which ended in her 20’s. She’s now 60, moved on but never dated again. She considers him a husband that passed away. That’s loyalty folks, not saying you’d cheat when you’re in a relationship.

[@Magi_H2U]

For the first lady, the best reasonable response I can say about it is this: "She is out of line but she is right."

[@Six3rdy]

I get where shes coming from. I think she could've worded it better tho.

[@ARCAD3BLOOD]

@@Six3rdy NaHBrO she's barely not for the streets. That's just one level above, not whole lot is defending her from becoming a hoe. If you can't keep it in your pants, then maybe marriage is just not for you.

[@stevenbell4066]

The first lady is out of line and her man is out of his mind if he stays with her

[@Magi_H2U]

@@stevenbell4066 The ironic thing about that is how a lot of ladies you shouldn't be married to wouldn't be this honest about their intentions ngl.

[@humanhafezi7602]

first clip I agree with both of them .🙂have self control.have boundary

[@Lbplayz14]

1:44 what even funnier is it wasn't even a banana 😂😂

[@zefirazuskis6541]

she is being honest. This is why religions have rules about being alone with the other sex, about modesty etc. because humans are humans...

[@gazellehelene5380]

You are still so funny! I am always so glad to see your videos and hear your hilarious take on things😊 Stay safe and God bless❤️🙏🏾

[@barryirlandi4217]

I live in Saudi Arabia and have never shared a workplace with women I must say it really helps my happiness and strengthens my marriage, avoiding temptation is makes life easier and happier

[@RedX-tk4iq]

bro my friend introduced me to u since we were teens. i have no idea where she found u but your videos are always hilarious man, your accent makes it even funnier, great videos throughout the years. love your content bro

[@keiko909]

That Adam 22 comment was outta line! 😂😂😂😂

[@nisoshahabibzadeh]

Nuh, Maxim, chemistry is paramount to have a romantic relationship! In fact, we are STILL trying to work out how and why we are attracted to particular individuals? 🤔 The last lady didn't have that, and it's understandable why she broke off the engagement.

[@shirin8609]

That's BS. She was _engaged_ to the man, so that means she had a _serious_ relationship. If she didn't feel a spark, she should never have dated him in the first place.

[@FuriousEevee93]

@@shirin8609💯

[@axel_r_]

If you are not able to hurt, cheat or lie, you are a weak person. If you are able to do all this and still choose not to do them, you are the strongest a human being can be.

[@LevattWolfheart]

She's actually right... very smart. She knows everybody can succumb to temptation, so she establishes proper boundaries out.of respect for her husband. We can all have bad days and make bad decisions, but the ultimate bad decision is only the final one, we too often ignore the steps that brought us there

[@rohanshah7559]

Yeah woman at the start of the video is actually lowkey based

[@dragonriderabens9761]

if she lacks the self control to not be alone in a room with another man and not cheat, she shouldn't have gotten married to begin with or be in a relationship

[@LevattWolfheart]

@@dragonriderabens9761 You aren't immune to temptation. No one is. If you don't see that, you are more vulnerable than most.

[@ARCAD3BLOOD]

@@LevattWolfheart If everybody is such vulnerable animals, then my mother is not the same specie. There are people worthy of marriage and then there is this lady. Don't blame "temptation" on your own actions. Temptation may be excuse if you're an animal.

[@LevattWolfheart]

@@ARCAD3BLOOD All this tells me that you are low in cognitive awareness and unaware of how your brain actually works.

[@Smartmovesstayingahead]

Maximbady please stay consistent with the videos all over social media thanks for always making me and many others feel better with all your videos

[@CanInThePan]

1:44 I love this SO MUCH I can’t stop laughing bro

[@afau1non]

Tbf the first lady is just extremly rationnal and pragmatic and she's 100% right

[@jeffstewart7439]

Thank you! Another person who understands! She is 100% right! She is talking prevention and telling the truth that most didn't want to hear. But even her own husband agreed that she was right!

[@11seconds26]

My husband is hunting for diseases 😂 so we can have more things in common 😂

[@rizztraininghamster]

First girl already cheated, she just tried to find a justification of her actions

[@rohanshah7559]

No, first girl knows she has a lot to lose and knows that she isn’t perfect, so she avoids risks and situations that could test her resolve

[@Nafid_]

3:30 "Ze Bluethooth Device issa Discunnected"

[@paramedic2172]

"But there was still something missing" Yeah, specifically that fringe. It's horrendous.

[@rinaldigunawan5891]

0:17 Wait a second THATS THE FILO MUM WITH THE NIGERIAN HUSBAND

[@proxper001]

You know what's real? Some women always take the good men for granted and then cry when they are hurt by the bad ones. The third lady is gonna have a reality check pretty soon

[@LizaFitness]

I kind of understand the first lady. She is a realist. She understands that no one is beyond temptation.

[@SuperJamu]

Well, everyone is able to swim but not everyone does. Being tempted by sin does not mean you will do it. I have never cheated any woman in my life.

[@zakosist]

But people can have principles and self control to not give in to that temptation

[@elsinaattheworkshop]

Ppl can be tho

[@yourmum69_420]

there's a difference between being tempted and actually doing it. Self control is a thing.

[@VoiceOvaGuy]

There's a lot more truth to "Demonic energy women are attracted to these days" than most realize....

[@RoganGoneRogue]

First girl is gonna say, "Oops, it was an accident." one day.

[@jameswatson5807]

The first woman that is a skit she is happily married, she and her husband make these thought provoking vides. Not all what you see on KZbin is real. This African guy need to do better research, most of what you see is not real on KZbin i se it al the time people get mad over a video, that really was skit.

[@oldbot64]

@jameswatson5807 bruh it 's tiktok. Who tf gon waste even more of their time to research on the people who post there.

[@marknc7546]

​@@jameswatson5807they almost divorced so I think that kinda thing goes both ways. Obviously we don't know the whole story but they put this vid out there so it is what it is.

[@jameswatson5807]

@@marknc7546 really are you sure.

[@Slyj]

typical western woman trash. the mental gymnastics was wild LOL

[@DevendraMahendraSingh]

This guy cracked the code of what women want. Guy With Good Qualities: ❌ Guy With Demonic Energies: ✅

[@FirstAttempt_01]

The banana joke got me..... very good

[@Ludwigr-u1v]

I thought i was the only one who saw that 😂😂

[@BaptisedDorcas]

You were ahead of your time with Nika Diwa. Some KZbinrs are currently making money from overanalysing everything and anything she and her husband ever did or said. I hope they are okay

[@keiko909]

“There wasn’t a connection” = he didn’t punch me in the face regularly / peddle narcotics

[@belloq4506]

She just gave him a "Get Out of Jail" card.😆

[@eaa231]

1:08 bro😂💀

[@shinlucifer6933]

To the last girl, she lost a precious diamond right there. Be safe, my brother. There is always a bigger fish in the sea who can feel a connection.😊

[@sasi5841]

Haven't watched the full video yeat, but she actually has a good answer. Avoiding a bad decision starts with avioding compromising/bad situations. If you want to avoid infidelity, start by avoiding situations that may cause lustful thoughts/emotions to flare up. If you want to stay safe, start by avoiding dangerous places. If you want to reduce spending money, start by setting up a hard budget that you can't easily violate. So on and so forth. Self-control starts with thinking ahead of time.

[@DrFranklynAnderson]

This. I have enough self-control to avoid pigging out on the ice cream in my freezer. But if I never went to the ice cream store in the first place, then I’m SURE I won’t fall to temptation, and my doctor can be sure of it too.

[@tariktiro6411]

Her brain didnt connect with her! Well he dodged granade. Good video my man, keep it up.

[@Assembled-Saints]

Man. It doesn't matter who's around me. I'm not going to cheat. And if someone feels like they will, then they're just a cheater

[@marknc7546]

Only sane person here.

[@OxnardRailfanner69]

1:40 AWWWWWWW here’s a banana 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@diegopansini3152]

She actually makes good points. In a relationship, you will have to avoid some positions in life you would’ve put yourself in when you were single. Her phrasing could’ve been better, buts she’s not wrong

[@NRX25]

But we are still speaking about having full control about your body and mind, yes?

[@anothergenericgamer_]

@@NRX25how many times have you known what the right thing to do….and still do the opposite? Every human being has done that. Self control has its limits…..and if you make dumb choices and expect that “self control” is going to save the day…..you have no self awareness

[@NRX25]

@@anothergenericgamer_ sry, no. I am very aware, that I don't cheat on the person I love. And I think, that is an easy thing to do.

[@marknc7546]

​@@anothergenericgamer_I don't think you know what self control is honestly.

[@marknc7546]

Nah you avoid those things out of respect not because there's a chance something in you would cheat. I don't understand how sex obsessed some people are. It's like they never graduated high-school

[@samawathe]

No. that filipino is gold lady, i trust she will fight her tempation. but she keeps the boundaries. all the power to her, great lady

[@jeffstewart7439]

#FACTZ

[@Lethal_Bite]

I got a tip for the last lady. When it comes to social connection, a big part of it is being able to read faces. That includes eyebrows for facial expressions. I don't think anyone is going to be able to connect with you when we can barely see your eyes.

[@eranmor8640]

That last woman will never find another guy in her life. She will always compare other guys to him, and once she will understand that most of what out in the dating world is absolute junk, she will try to get him back. But good men remember what they gave and what they got in return. Good luck

[@trublgrl]

"Keep tabs on me, because I might cheat," is actually way more honest and forthcoming than "I'll never cheat."

[@decwow]

Honest.. which is good.. But.. Why in the hell couldn't she tell him this BEFORE marriage and baby?

[@platinumdemigod1322]

but at the same self control?

[@danielgriff2659]

nope... shes a cheater at heart.. nothing honest about it. She has likely already cheated and now she established her excuses for cheating.

[@fraz006]

Sounds like a cheater. Manipulator gaslighter princess

[@illgoat]

@@danielgriff2659 a cheater at heart will lie that they'll never cheat on you. And they will tell you not to worry about them being with the opposite sex because they have enough self-control to avoid cheating. They'll make sure you're relaxed enough not to suspect a thing. If you do suspect anything they'll become the victim and tell you you are insecure. That's how cheaters move.

[@linnatbu5603]

"he didn't have the demonic energy......"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

[@miwikotel6251]

😂😂😂😂😂 she tricked me 🤣😂🤣

[@casasthi3866]

1:46 "oh sorry here is a banana " ...IT'S NOT A BANANA

[@Animekirk]

Pay attention to the question that was asked. He asked her if she ever "Could" cheat. not if she ever "Would". those are two completely different questions. her answer is actually very accurate and humble. no romantic nonsense, no lying, no sugar coating. everyone is capable of it if they put themselves in the wrong situation, so "absolutely" she could. but she didn't say that absolutely she would.

[@ulissesmendoza8752]

She's literally saying she would if the circumstances are right yes she's telling what she would do not to cheat but if the situation were to occur she would

[@SleepBeforeYouThink]

Everyone wouldn’t. But to be fair, men imagine whatever celebrity crush you have is right in front of you naked on a bed. She wants you SO bad. You are married to your soul mate a good women. What would you do? Even the guys who say they wouldn’t cheat, gotta admit it’s hard as hell to be faithful in a situation like that.

[@Thisisjustname]

It's still a stupid answer that didn't need to be given. You could do anything given the right circumstances.

[@jeannebye8153]

Are you serious? Firstly don’t speak for “everyone”. Secondly, what do you mean “put themselves in the wrong situation”. You either CHOOSE to cheat or you do not. This is precisely rapists mentality; “The woman enticed me” 🤮 Would = 95% Could = 80% It should be 0%. Nobody should cheat on their partner. Period. You can play with words as much as you want but come on!

[@theYoutubeHandle]

na, she sounds like a cheating addict. "oh, I must stay away from temptations, or else I'll relapse."

[@thanhdo1963]

I think the first women has a valid point, if there is no temptation, there is no need for self-control.

[@kielhawkins9529]

Uh the first First Lady was exercising self control by not putting herself in a compromising position to begin with. She cares about her husband and their marriage enough that she doesn’t even want the appearance or opportunity for infidelity to exist. So her answer was spot on.

[@marknc7546]

You do those things out of respect not because you might actually cheat.

[@yehldyehld]

To be fair to the first girl, at least she is honest and aware that she could be swayed easily and that's why she doesn't go into stupid situations like alone time with another person. I respect that. A few years ago I too could be swayed by others possibly if the right person came along but these days I'd never ever cheat. I don't like people lol. I am happy with what I have.

[@rohanshah7559]

Yeah the first woman is actually pretty based cuz she doesn’t lie to herself. She’s not sitting under the delusion that she’s perfect and infallible, she knows her pitfalls and makes an effort to avoid them. If I was her husband/boyfriend, I’d be pretty satisfied with her answer

[@gazellehelene5380]

Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture. Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteous reward shine like the dawn, your vindication like the noonday sun. Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes. Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret-it leads only to evil. For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the Lord will inherit the land. ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭37‬:‭3‬-‭9‬ ‭NIV‬‬ Jesus loves you so much and He wants you to make it to Heaven! Today is the day of salvation. Come to Jesus today and be saved!❤️

[@anothergenericgamer_]

You can tell who’s emotional based on their reaction. She is 100% logical. Everyone has the capacity to cheat. Knowing that is how you guard yourself. “I would never cheat” is someone that doesn’t have a grip on reality Emotional people will interpret her 100% correct words in the worst connotation possible 🙄. Humans are so aggravating when rejecting unfiltered truth

[@oldbot64]

Nah she just chose the wrong set of words. Good intentions but bad communication.

[@war13death]

You are incorrect about "I would never cheat" being said by those without a grip on reality. It could be that they have integrity and like the woman said not allowing themselves to be put in a situation where they could cheat or it could be that they'll never be in a relationship thereby making it impossible to cheat, for example"I would never cheat because I'm not stupid enough to be in a relationship in the first place".

[@MrSalmon6]

"aww im sorry, here is a banana" this was just so funny not only with the delivery of the line but also the fact that he held up an apple "give me back my banana"

[@laur83]

i can kinda respect the first woman. she was painfully honest about how challenging it can be for some people to resist temptation and thus she’s careful to not place herself in situations where things COULD escalate and boundaries can be crossed. a person with solid self-control should be able to handle all manner of situations without being unfaithful, but she recognises that she is fallible, as are all people, and doesn’t want to put herself in a scenario that could lead to her taking actions she wouldn’t be able to take back.

[@StyvebrandonFeunou]

If you can't respect your partner you don't deserve him and you're wasting his time.

[@laurenw.8178]

Him saying “that’s good” in different languages 😂

[@Wahinies]

4:07 you and a lot of dating aged men

[@letsmakeithapncapn5536]

I don't know where her self-control is but her honesty's right out front and center

[@gurugru5958]

Not going to lie, this lady is actually based. It's easy to say you would never cheat, but in a compromising situation, you might give in to temptation. Don't put yourself in that situation.

[@zenkalt]

That last one... It's like she has an actual check list of qualities she's looking for in a man, but will only go all the way with him if he checks all the boxes. Surprisingly enough he does check them all, but... There's a problem. The very last box at the very bottom of the list... It's been torn off... She knows there is one more thing she needs to check, but because it's not there anymore, she doesn't know what it is... But she needs to check it... But she can't, because it's impossible to know what it was... But he's good at everything else... But the list... *malfunction*

[@timakrav2159]

To be fair, the first lady is absolutely right in literally everything she said. It isn't even controversial, she's just on the spot

[@OtsuDC]

The first girl is actually very healthy. It’s not about trust or a lack of self control at all. It’s about not planting seeds of doubt in your partners mind, being accountable for the situations you put yourself in and how that affects the relationship. My ex also conflated this issue with a lack of self control when I told her that I wouldn’t put myself in compromising situations, not because of a lack of self control but because of respect for the relationship and what we were building together.

[@awaski977]

Haha, "Lady! He is not WIFI" haha, man that was funny.

[@flixitall777]

I think we heading back to the cave man days! 😂

[@striperking6083]

This host has got to be the funniest guy on you tube that tells truth and facts 😂

[@atuahenegodwin3339]

@maximbady, what the hell is Cenanese?😂

[@_nuance]

It's better to be self aware and honest, so he can hold her to those boundaries to maintain the relationship, and she's right, if the right circumstances align most people would cheat, most people are weak to their emotions and desires. People who acknowledge this reality would avoid putting themselves in compromising situations if they have a good character.

[@kurtsudheim825]

I get what the moon was trying to say, i think, trying to give some convoluted answer to say went PEOPLE can chat but SHE won't, but it didn't come off right, she didn't communicate what she thought was a smart answer in her head well to most nof the public

[@HadaMadrina]

Bro, you're a legend. Like fr