Mean Gays on Baby Showers, Weddings and Funerals

Aaron Goldenberg and Jake Jonez aka the hilarious TikTok sensation “Mean Gays” are here! Sad to inform you all that they’re incredibly nice in real life. First, we get into how they met and started collaborating on their viral and hilarious sketches. Then, we get into the intricacies of straight women/gay men friendships, and why gay men are more direct with each other when they aren’t romantically involved. And SO much more. Enjoy this juicy one!
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[@feralhomunculus]

When I was a girl, I was getting teased for being so short in school. I went home upset, and my mom said to me, "It's okay. When you get older, you can date the short guys _and_ the tall guys." She was right!

[@MorePlausible]

Love the "save the talls for the talls; keep the smalls for the smalls!" discourse. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@adriana27100]

I’m a small 5’2 and somehow end up with the talls… it’s funny bc I use to not be interested in a man if he was over 6 feet… I got over it 😹😹

[@Positive7277]

LET THEM FINISH TALKING!!! 🤭

[@KMKSARQK]

Not arguing, but Heather adds so must humor and funny insights~

[@vanlearrose]

She never will so get used to it.

[@sinnombrenemo4169]

girl, you need to let people finish answering your question, before inserting yourself into it. god damn

[@italtexasgal]

Thank you, Heather, for introducing me to these two brilliantly funny guys. I love me some Juicy Scoop! ❤😂

[@JuicyScoop]

So glad!

[@AaronGoldyBoy]

😘

[@brunom72]

@@AaronGoldyBoy Hey Queens you were both sooooooooo good on JS. and not that you care what I think but can I just share this: every now & then i get *this feeling* (think of what goosebumps feel like but just place that feeling beside each temple ... that describes what i mean by "this feeling") that practically screams 'THESE 2 ARE GONNA BE HUUUUGE!' keep doing what you're both doing bcz your futures are so, so bright. 🤗🤗 to you both -bru

[@butterflybreezy]

"Giving people their flowers while they're alive" has been in the Black community since we were Colored.

[@orianjuarez3074]

Love this. I'm half Mexican, half English. What's the saying? ? "Life isn't a rehearsal". As a 23 year breast cancer survivor. I stop to smell the roses as often as I can. 1 of my 3 sisters died of breast cancer a year ago. I miss her during the holidays. Truth be told. I also miss her made from scratch pumpkin-cinnamon rolls.🎃 Happy holidays to you & those you love. 💝 🌷🎄🌹

[@traceycheking]

This!!!

[@ramarvelous]

I'm glad someone said it! It's literally a black phrase that became popular and more mainstream when Maxine Waters was getting her flowers during that last political era. yTe gays love to co-opt language as if its their own. 🙄

[@mrsMe747]

I was just going to type that out. It was really used in 2020, when we thought all the black people were dying.

[@PsychNurseExplains]

Thank You for sharing, we don’t know each others culture at all😩

[@evijade1]

Heather often mentions how seemingly everyone has a podcast- and she’s right. But very few are funny or sustainable. Juicy Scoop is a rare treat.

[@SmartSass]

I totally agree!

[@BethFed]

@@katjaxxx7353meanest podcaster out there and her followers are worse

[@jillbill1460]

Heather is so right about mean people and how they like to collaborate.

[@kelibeller8096]

Misery loves company

[@SOS-ct9mv]

not debating but positive people collaborate too. lol

[@vanlearrose]

Heather is the mean one here. Lmao you people are very dumb

[@joycedominguez8997]

Heather almost hyperventilates cutting them off constantly. Its true so Dont come for me

[@925Fit]

I love the Mean Gays! Thanks for having them on the pod

[@becciandrulonis3848]

Omg yes I love these two!! I love their skits! My favorite is the one where the girl says” I’m just scared you guys really don’t like me “and then they look at eachother and say “ awww don’t be scared” 🤣🤣🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣

[@AaronGoldyBoy]

😎😘

[@ssmith8758]

Heather, interuptasaurus! 🦖

[@joycedominguez8997]

I hate it.

[@gloomybears31593]

With these gays ill let it pass

[@joycedominguez8997]

Why?

[@KMKSARQK]

I'm here to listen to Heather. Her guests are a bonus~

[@jenniferfletcher66]

It’s chaotic when you CONSTANTLY interrupt.

[@ejmzadventures8437]

Heather I love you but the Draft King promotions lately have killed it for me. They’re so long and ridiculous I just can’t. Anything else but Draft Kings please!

[@BethFed]

Just minimize screen and press the 10 sec forward a few times. I can’t imagine draft getting people to sign on who follow Heather . We aren’t hardcore gamblers here. They should go to Kelly and Rick’s show 😉

[@MorePlausible]

Also, I love hearing Heather talk about industry insider knowledge (e.g., how naming her show influenced her ad sales). Keep up the good work.

[@lorrainebettencourt8009]

my favorite

[@BethFed]

Interesting about American Housewife. I can see that looking back on show

[@pixiepancake4970]

Omg. The Mean Gays’ improv had me on the floor. Thank you for introducing me to these wildly funny guys. Great show!

[@DK-op3ri]

"Giving you your flowers" ---that phrase started in the Black community awhile back. GREAT SHOW!!!!!!

[@tanyabarboza4759]

That Part.😊

[@I.m_Your_Fave]

Came here for this comment. And it has been around for ages. 😊

[@sinnombrenemo4169]

i was actually gonna comment that lmao

[@kimh4508]

Giving your flowers started being used during WWII -- when the men came back from war--- it is still used in therapy, hospice care, and straight up family convos. My little grandma said it all the time. Lol

[@daniellepruitt1054]

I never catch the episodes when they first come out. I stumbled on this show a couple months ago and LOVE it!

[@alw5101]

Heather’s heated rant was epic the way she threw that in at the perfect time!👏🫶

[@caronbranstetter6095]

These guys are hilarious!! Enjoyed the show so much!

[@user-rb1zr9gw9w]

Please stop telling everyone your former friends are out to destroy you and plotted against you. They didn't sit around a table plotting against you to destroy you. Just go to Sirius and confront Jeff. Megan obviously has issues with you. Justin was hurt by you. Y'all need to all sit down and discuss your issues. You & Jeff go back to college. I want all y'all to make up & be friends again.

[@susanpotts2187]

I wonder what happened between her and Justin. Love that guy

[@Marie1156]

@@susanpotts2187he’s the best! Honestly, it wasn’t a good look for Heather. She liked a pretty nasty commrnt about him, opted out of supporting a drag charity he was involved in and told Jeff to not have Justin on his show.

[@CGC890]

@@Marie1156 not exactly. She supported the drag charity by having Justin promote it on the show. She just chose not to make a video promoting it which is absolutely fine but Justin didn't accept that. Justin made a VERY distasteful "joke" about child trafi@ing and when he was attacked in the comment section he felt Heather didn't stop the comments for him. Lastly, Heather AND Jeff mutually agreed to not share their regular guests on each other's show so to keep the shows not be too much alike. Jeff then was angry at Heather and retaliated by telling Justin Heather blocked him from going on Jeff's show which is not exactly true.

[@Marie1156]

@@CGC890 It’s a friend blocking a friend from a business opportunity- period. I would be PISSED!

[@vanlearrose]

Literally she is soooooo delusional and just bitter it’s seeping through her pores

[@kaseywilliams4398]

Is Spencer ever coming back?

[@tracy2648]

Heather just curious if thinking back you now perceive a shift in your 'friendship' with Jeff after Jenni Pulos did your great rap intro. He definitely seems petty enough to hold a grudge over his 'ex' having a successful collaboration with someone he feels is competition. Always been a fan but even more so after seeing you continue to thrive after the BS you've been put thru this year. You're a winner and no one can take that from you Lady!

[@BethFed]

Jenni did her intro way before Jenni and Jeff want their separate ways.

[@SOS-ct9mv]

This is Heather's therapy session 😂 and its juicy.🙂

[@JS-hn5ld]

HEATHER STOP INTERRUPTING 24/7

[@alim4708]

Dear hater, there are other podcasts to choose from. You don’t need to suffer! Move on.

[@billcrane2015]

💀 thank you so much for bringing these incredibly funny mean gays to my attention. I just watched EVERYTHING 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@finleysmom-ou1mp]

Same! They're SO funny!

[@neworleanss96]

SUCH a good interview!!!!! The Mean Gays better be back soon!!! Good job guys!

[@taylorc146]

I love them! You’ve been getting great people. Can’t wait for more Guy and Brandy and Julie.

[@BethFed]

@@katjaxxx7353troll

[@taylorc146]

@@katjaxxx7353 same Justin was actually my all time favorite.

[@zuitsuit80]

I agree with the hairy one… These two guys definitely appeal to women more than other gay men.

[@katherinenutter9626]

I screamed when I saw The Mean Gays were on your show! I saw them a few months ago and I’ve introduced my closest friends and family to them. They’re the best! The cultural diversity friends is the best video ever! I’ve watched it over and over. They’re so clever and their timing is excellent! Love them! 💖💖💖

[@AaronGoldyBoy]

😍 thanks babe

[@veronicasaintpierre]

I need them to come back. This was such a great episode.

[@jeng.6232]

My college bf gay friend of 35 plus years and I are no longer friends. Unbeknownst to me he was traveling through town where I live and expected me to be available last minute when I had already made a commitment with a group of girls. He blew up, yelling and screaming and then hung up on me. I was relieved to let that friendship go after that drama.

[@ashwilliams6080]

Moby is looking great!

[@raechelbrazeau6595]

Please let your guests talk more😂 love you but….

[@joycedominguez8997]

Heather stop sneaking in these ads!

[@BethFed]

Damn , that free content!! Easy to minimize screen and go 10 seconds ahead a few times

[@vanlearrose]

She is a cash cow. She’s never going to change.

[@saraha6629]

This was my intro the the mean gays I love them!! this interview was so fun and I love seeing other sides of you Heather in different interviews !!

[@Radiantcentury415]

Wonderful episode! Love y’all together ❤❤❤ come back soon mean gays 🎉🎉

[@ChrissyCAGirl]

Thanks for the quick update! Love you Heather!!

[@rosemarymcbride1583]

Loved these two. Great that you are having new 'guests' on the show. Of course we still like Chris Fanjola and Brandi & Julie!

[@princess2upretty]

and Sarah Colonna!

[@BethFed]

@@princess2uprettySarah is in the Justin category. Occasional laugh but look almost annoyed they are there

[@pqm2012]

are they still friends? I find it so shocking she went to JLL

[@BethFed]

I think our answer will be in 2024 and if she is a guest again @@pqm2012

[@KB-nr3ls]

​@@BethFed I disagree about Sarah. Heather and Sarah & their husbands are friends outside the show as well.

[@heatherm1070]

Love you. Love Juicy Scoop butttttttt this one was hard to listen to when you constantly won’t let the guests speak. It’s definitely the passion you have about the topic (which is understandable) but why have a guest if they can’t get anything in.

[@ashleighchoppa2761]

GREAT SHOW! Love them, please have them again.

[@susanlyonfineart]

Very fun, I love all the new people you are bringing on

[@josepinheiro6064]

Mean gays are the most mean with other gays that don't meet the ideal in our society, whether that is your appearance, your career or lack there of or how well you pass as a straight man.

[@jess4reallyreal]

Love the show! Welcome to juicy scoop world Mean Gays 😂 ❤❤❤

[@carloslopez2234]

OBSESSED!! Omfg Heather got this so right! I cannot

[@danamaria80]

Great episode! Different and interesting. Happy Holidays lovelies 🎁

[@SurrenderDorothyForever]

They are so funny and cute, definitely checking out their content!

[@tiffanyv931]

I loved this episode. The only thing I do not like about Thursday episodes - is having to wait until Tuesday for another Juicy Scoop . The Mean Gays were amazing . Your most recent guests have been a delight - keep it coming, please !

[@michellefg792]

Love these guys! Literally got so excited to see you had them on I had to comment on every platform!

[@Miss-Interpreted]

This was hysterical! These guys are greatness. I came to the comments looking for girls that protest the platonic girl-boy thing. My personal experience is that the married straight men are the most desirable. I struggle with the single girls hanging with my man because OF COURSE he’s a catch! That’s why I caught him! Go hang with the strays 😊

[@stacyhunter2710]

Love them! Great show Heather!!!

[@a2ina2]

Totally smitten with the Mean Gays! Thank you for introducing us.

[@reekachristina4288]

Omg!!! My favorite gays!!! I'm so excited! I literally screamed when I saw this!!

[@duvangonzalez7192]

Very talented guys. I have been watching them for like a month now.

[@JillianHamblin-px6uh]

Heather, it’s okay not to move on right away. It’s relatable to have friendships end. Whether you want to talk with Dr Drew or someone else, I think the audience wants to see you confront your feelings directly, without being funny. Having a “Mean Gays” topic seems like how Oprah had over 40 shows on child predators. She never had personal therapy but made the show topic a form of therapy. We as the audience love your Lisa Rinna dance moves but we also need therapy for our similar issues from friends hurting us. We don’t often get it and that’s why we tune in to your show and Oprah . We often don’t have any recourse in our lives and definitely don’t have a popular show to tell our ex friends how they hurt us. I think you could do a powerful show on this topic. I hope Tuesday’s show isn’t “Mean Blondes”.

[@PizzaVoodoo]

💯 I guarantee these two don’t have a gay fan base. This felt like 1990s straight men playing gay for a skit.

[@tallyho101]

Love love loveeee them! Love that you had them on!

[@deidremuphy9735]

Love the show girl, HOWEVER “ Give you your flowers, (specifically now before they’re dead)” is a phrase started in the BLACK community. 🤍

[@gillgreig2633]

LOVING this episode Heather ! Xx

[@grlgrl7047]

I wish Heather would let them speak.

[@062691z]

OMG HEATHER BRINGING UP MARKUS KELLE ON THIS EPISODE IS ICONIC!

[@karenlamb2434]

I will be sharing this with my oldest daughter. She’s a professional actress (USC grad), has a wonderful gay BFF, lives in Atlanta (Piedmont area) and was forced to eat at Chili’s aa a child, lol! 😂

[@user-oo3uq5pi8m]

It's difficult to listen because the 3 of you talk over each other.

[@deeporter3860]

Heather is back. The spark is back honey 💅

[@biancabarnett7903]

The toast! I’m dying

[@Charley0213]

Omg the friendship betrayals are the worst. I remember having that happen to me and i felt so betrayed and stunned. I was there in so many bad moments for this person and the crazy parts is that there were red flags but i always saw it from her point of view and thought she was just reacting to the situation but then when she did the same thing to me that she had done to others , i realized she just knew how to use people. She got what she needed from them and literally disposed of them. She had asked me to be her maid of honor and said this speech how i meant to much, only to find out she had asked someone else to be maid of honor and didn’t tell me i would be a co maid of honor. And when i asked her about it she said she was postponing the wedding and needed to think about her relationship but she actually just wanted me to go away. She continued with the bachelorette cruise i had organized for her and told the cruise line she was the new point of contact. Never gave me a reason and i can only think i just knew too much about her and she got what she needed whatever that was.

[@KB-nr3ls]

That had to be horribly painful at the time, but when you finally reach the other side and have healed, dontcha wonder how you you could have given someone of her caliber so much grace? And you must know you are but one of her many victims, past, present, and future.

[@tanyabarboza4759]

This was delightful surprise.

[@orianjuarez3074]

Good looking group. Delightful guests. Thanks so much for all the laughs.😅🎄🎁

[@jennhansonxlove]

Appreciate the early drop!!

[@lauren_mcgowan]

Jake has such a smooth voice

[@botticellichick6393]

Helloo Juicy Scooper's and to fellow insomnia Scooper's 👋 Luv, luv, luvvv this chemistry!! I hope to see them part of our favs' like Chris Franjola, Brandi & Julie, Pratt Daddy😃 Love you Heather and love to the Juicy Scooper Family! Virtual Hugs Everyone!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@andrealee8561]

These are the friends you want @ ur funeral for sure to not only lighten up the mood n give you some moisturizer

[@ashwilliams6080]

I'm sorry I swear this is my last comment. I HATE the Draft Kings adds. Your better than that Heather, please please please stop promoting gambling. I know you make alot of money from it but all money ain't good money. Please let them go, you can get someone else I swear. Just think about it. Love the show these guys were HYSTERICAL!

[@elizabeth4614]

Just started and these men are fabulous!! Loving this episode🩷🩷

[@MaleOrderBride]

They're so shiny!!😁

[@joycedominguez8997]

It's all that skincare. I hate it, they look oily.

[@RachelHilz]

Omg I’m dying I love them. I want Chilis now. “We’re gay and mean.” 😂😂😂😂😂 from the jump

[@kimgarciacruz2983]

Love love love them!!!!!!

[@lisathompson7966]

Thank you for bringing new talent to us. You have the best instincts for what is worth following.

[@donnalantz4222]

Vow renewal - the kiss of death for a marriage!

[@jamesmaezan2523]

OMG!!!! ❤ I LOVE TO HATE THESE GUYS!!! 😮😂😂 GREAT EPISODE!!

[@JCFlynnCT]

Isn't this the guy that 'outed' Carl on Summer House? *Carm said something to him in confidence, but he went on camera and blabbed it

[@RaisedEyeBrew]

The mean gays are fun. Subbed to both.

[@lizmorrison9393]

Great show, Heather. When is your sister coming on again? She's a delight.

[@JuicyScoop]

Soon

[@robingrl23]

Love it when your sister is on JS.❤ it’s all so good.

[@lizmorrison9393]

Cool@@JuicyScoop

[@vanlearrose]

Flops

[@cherylstuetzle4436]

Sorry I can’t w these two😢 Love you Heather❤

[@kellyhansen4071]

What a fun episode... The Mean Gays were so much fun and hopefully will be back!

[@aliciacabrera-thomas9705]

OH MY GAWD I LOVE THESE TWO SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH !!! Heather You are the BEST!!

[@Missy-fo3mv]

Fun show, loved them!😂😂

[@rikkitraynor5477]

Heather what a great choice. I love the mean gays

[@evelyndeleon3571]

Love the way Heather interviews ❤

[@BethFed]

The end summary of their visit was funny! And you absolutely need to go out and be mean and bitchy gays together. Film it!

[@mjttoo]

Is it just me, or are they mean gaying heather the majority of the time? 😅

[@kemayj]

I love them! The mean guys are hilarious!

[@juliansmith4987]

The moment at 17:00 where the one on the left that looks directly into camera.

[@umeshvaghjiani822]

It's nice to see some gay influencers that are a little more down to earth and real.

[@PizzaVoodoo]

39 yr old married gay man in a 10 yr relationship here and I found none of this “gay relationship” talk relatable. A lot of us do value monogamous relationships and family traditions. I also haven’t slept with any of my friends, just want throw to that out there 🤪 💚❤️

[@kristab6981]

These gays are so cute lol love em ❤

[@reyanna650]

Yaasss Queen !!!

[@danid3718]

Loved this episode!

[@greekre]

i would like to know what the mean gays think about Martinel being mean to heather and trying to have the qwueers cancel her.

[@divineappointments7797]

I'm 5'2" and my partner is 6'6"... One less tall for the talls... Guilty as charged! Lol

[@dinajacobs535]

I love a tall guy as well! Something about being tall is so enchanting when you're short!

[@ejmzadventures8437]

lol I’m 5’10” and in heels well over 6’ and I have no animosity for the smalls taking a tall. I can reach every thing I have to but ya’ll need help too! Lol!! Go on and keep your talls I can do everything I need to without them🤣🤣❤️❤️

[@dinajacobs535]

@@ejmzadventures8437 🤣🤣🤣 lucky you! Blessings

[@divineappointments7797]

Yep! At the end of the day it doesn't matter. We Love who we love❤️🙏

[@divineappointments7797]

A single mom of many kids for YEARS, I appreciate CONTRAST to who and what I am. After doing EVERYTHING by myself, I don't mind help with painting, reaching, or anything else! 🙏🙏🙏

[@thesexynun1749]

Chilis salsa is THE best!

[@heatherjohnston5763]

Soooo funny I love the three of you together