Meanest Thing You Have Said To A Man... | ShxtsNGigs Podcast

[@naetrain]

Men hurt women with their actions, women hurt men with their words. Both sides play to their strengths

[@jennytheg98]

took the words out of my mouth.

[@kyrangaunt4644]

That's actually true

[@alondrareynoso3811]

Exactly lol

[@maggiesmith2159]

@TumaH ofc it would be intentional if they are being disrespected time and time again.

[@BlackGirlMarvel]

​@TumaH and dudes actions aren't intentional?

[@footballtalks1291]

The "if your daddy didn't stay, why should I" slapped me into an ad😂

[@kenyasth34]

Did me the same way

[@solhaher9114]

😂😂😂😂

[@moodyblues1265]

Lmaoo samee😂😂

[@editname654]

Same

[@diana-abasietuk6389]

Sameeee🤣😭

[@MelaninCosplay]

That first one about the NFL player wasn't a roast, that was an explosion. There were like 3 or 4 things she got him on, killing 3 birds with one stone. 😂

[@Digitalhunny]

Thinkin' that this is what happens when the "quiet" person holds in _all_ of their emotions, like anger, for way too long. Tick - - tick - - tick - - - - - - - - - - *KA BOOM!* 😂😂

[@cassandramuthleb2486]

She left no stone unturned in her entire statement! She demolished his entire persona he had built up in his head. She didn’t just bring him back down to earth, she buried him. He blocked her because he wouldn’t be able to stand if she wrote any of those things on any of his social platforms. He needed counseling after this!!! Still funny af!!!😂🤣😂🤣

[@roninhubbard9059]

It's really not that bad. Bros in the NFL - she's just some doorknob Remember the perspective

[@ZariDV]

@@roninhubbard9059 Bro sounds like he's barely in the NFL. More like the NFL's foster kid. They sound like they're about ready to send him back any day now.

[@roninhubbard9059]

@@ZariDV doesn't matter. He's in the NFL huge achievement.

[@5184adb]

James’ reactions to some of these like he took them personally 😂😂😂

[@ibepoopin]

Well as a short I can say.. I might not grow but you ain't looking better than you did before the comment( purely a joke for the butt hurt people)

[@imani7832]

Especially the hairline onee😭

[@AodhanBeag]

We’ve empathy we’ve all been there 😂

[@stevendalloesingh]

Watchu mean, James is not the only one! The nerve of this betches to speak these things!

[@Digitalhunny]

James be _feelin'_ these strangers' pain, in real time! 😂😂

[@shomarinangwaya-walker8295]

The fact that you dont feel it as well for these people says everything

[@0Atche0]

facts@@shomarinangwaya-walker8295

[@jessicarichter6436]

@@shomarinangwaya-walker8295you can have empathy without taking it personally like James has 😂

[@shomarinangwaya-walker8295]

@jessicarichter6436 i dont think he takes them personally but he does put himself in their shoes for the responses, as if he didn't we wouldnt BE HERE we could just read the thread's on twitter and Instagram. FAAAÀCTS 😂

[@queenof2kings299]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@LottoLogista]

The vibrator one literally made me shout! 😂😂😂

[@ricaivory6571]

It was GOLD 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@brewalker4356]

😂😂 I died! Mans brought that on himself tho!

[@TheDannytaz]

"I'd choke her with both hands" As she is struggling for air she sneaks in "Should have put that same energy into catching the football"

[@Janary08]

💀💀💀

[@c_m_dylan8150]

I'm literally crying 😂

[@alasiarobbins4096]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@andrewbazzell7137]

Oh Shit that's the final blow 😂😂😂

[@muneebow]

Her neck will snap bro 😂

[@dabiggestbirdthe3rd]

"these lot genuinely believe I wouldn't strike them" James kills me😭😭😭

[@Digitalhunny]

Some ladies deserve their photo in the Dictionary next to the word _treacherous._ Yikers.

[@englishjona6458]

Strike 😂😂😂😂 he’s already in court

[@SevenHunnid]

Bro i been tryna make it out the hood so on my KZbin channel i do food reviews while I’m high

[@javidmirza4584]

@@englishjona6458nah he’s in bowling court

[@lalexander7338]

Hahaha assault is so hilarious 😂🙄

[@LM-he7eb]

Love the NFL one. He tried to treat her like an option, she reminded him that he is an option too

[@ronnieking3848]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TimTheEnchanter0]

That part. Why can’t I think of shit like this when I’m insulted

[@shammybarn]

But he is still a NFL player literally being there means u inherently are one of top players in the world but who is she

[@KiraBKADestroyerOfWorlds]

​@@shammybarnthe woman whom he wanted, but who didn't want him. Were you not paying attention?

[@LM-he7eb]

@@shammybarn World? The NFL is only in 1 country

[@agirlhasnoname567]

“If your daddy didn’t stay then why should I?” That’s a VIOLATION

[@monasthoughts9093]

She's evil, that was wrong, on so many levels

[@sadisticwinter8354]

We don't know the whole story. You don't know what he did to her. @@monasthoughts9093

[@kodathepoet.]

I paused my entire life to absorb that💀

[@MandyLovelyDoll]

As a woman, I can confirm. I have a laundry list of things that I have stored for people (men and women) who attempt to shame me.

[@ClaireCorinthos]

Same here! Store on my Google doc!!😂😂

[@ljeans531]

Also as a woman, we be mad brutal to random strangers, but guys don't see the 10 men that came before them that don't take the 5th "no thank you" for an answer. So we just try to be as firm as possible initially so it's extremely clear how we feel. I do feel bad for respectful men in that regard, but maybe try to inform your brothers to not be so persistent...🙄

[@missaxou3834]

​@@ljeans531AMEN 🙏🏼

[@i_li1]

pls share them with me

[@Randomperson16-q4j]

​@@i_li1Seconding this

[@PaigeOfTheSound]

I wanna know how tall James is because he gets HEATED about the height ones 😂

[@mercymueni6008]

They're both 5'9"

[@hindenburg2006]

James is 5'11"

[@beewest5704]

Maybe he is like my brother who was the shortest for 20 years then at 21 he had a sudden growth spur. Now he is taller than most. Lol

[@jayl7231]

Lol. I didnt know that he did

[@spencer4324]

​@@mercymueni6008Fuhad is 5'9" and James 5'11".

[@misslady582]

James says he couldn't hurt someone's feelings on purpose... Something tells me if he saw Fuhad and Tobi hanging out without him... he'd find the words. 😅

[@chakeriamccrary3794]

Definitely 😂😂

[@churl146]

Oh my life LMAOOO

[@sarahvarin465]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@justfuzzyrays4182]

😂

[@Kay-ve7on]

There was this bald guy at my old job who kept bumping into me on purpose because he thought it was cute. One day during lunch time, he did it again and I say " HR told me, if you keep bumping into me, your hairline will keep receding" He was fuming while my 2 supervisors were laughing loud AF.

[@gisellemitchell8620]

Fuhad’s reaction @ 6:09 to the women rolling over looking at wedding dresses is pure gold.😂😂😂😂😂

[@joypista8802]

I had to go watch the movie 😂

[@reggiehigh22]

Well if you just made her a glazed cinnamon roll that still has her toes curled she shouldn't be looking for somebody else right now.

[@Alxssa11]

WOMEN ARE VILEEEE 💀🤣 first one had me creasing

[@shana_sparrow8689]

It's so funny seeing how James takes these so personally - man brings all the drama you would ever need in a relationship, I could never 😂😂😂

[@Petrol_Sniffa]

They are vicious and heinous insults and he's imagining them being said to him. Women take the most random shit offensively because most men aren't evil enough to say it to someone.

[@sydneecabrera6230]

“Youre 5’4 talking to me with a 6’2 attitude”

[@Petrol_Sniffa]

"I'd ask if you think you can just walk away after saying that, but we all know you're rolling away"

[@CandyCreates]

That "if your dad didn't stay, why would I" had them DUMBFOUNDED 💀took a moment of silence 😭

[@Petrol_Sniffa]

your face looks like thomas the tank engine from bollywood idk why you talking

[@sydneecabrera6230]

“Im not arguing with a man thats looking at me at eye level”

[@iscavengersam]

😅

[@Janary08]

Your rather be talked down to instead of seeing eye-to -eye 😢???

[@Petrol_Sniffa]

"I'm not arguing with a woman that is eye level with me and still weighs more"

[@AndSoWeLaughed]

"I've never said anything to intentonally hurt someone" but you had a whole cheating era?! Siiiirrr

[@fendybendy6466]

He has a whole heap of audacity. A great example of how little self awareness men have where they don't even realise that they have hurt women and think that our responses are just us being evil and unprovoked.

[@Yakisobq]

And in this vid they were so butthurt n shit as if they haven’t said worse things about gals

[@knightwolf2kx]

"If your daddy didn't stay, why would I?" 😢 That was so hurtful. I got hot in the crossfire.😮

[@divinepeneloppe2544]

The “woman can’t conceptualise consequences” had me thinking. I am gasping so hard, cause yeah we really don’t 😩

[@LyricalLover3]

For 😂😂😂 Why do you think that is tho?

[@ktnixon81]

No we conceptualize consequences it’s just that often time the consequences men impose on us are often unnecessary and overblown.

[@ulquiorracifer5493]

When y'all start getting backhanded, that mindset will change.

[@wescon1000]

@@ulquiorracifer5493 Facts 😂

[@shevaunbryant8554]

Not gonna lie this made me reflect...I told my ex he came from a f-Ed family that's why he doesn't know how to be a man...he choked me out...granted DV is never ok but I had 10 more insults in the charmber that would've brought him to his knees if I was conscious...watch your words ladies

[@LM-he7eb]

I actually don't store anything. But, I can come up with things on the spot. Especially when it seems someone is purposely trying to hurt me

[@kiera8102]

The "if your daddy didn't stay then why would I" would hurt!! 😭🤣

[@hellokittygurl3400]

i’m writing that down ✍🏻 🤣🤣

[@Rosaline1234]

Just gonna note that for the most part, every comment they read was a response to a man doing/saying some shit. Maybe these women that say mean shit aren't just going around fucking up men's feelings for fun, but will respond if a dude comes for them. Just a thought. With a strong exception for "if your daddy didn't stay why should I" and "you're a stepping stone for a woman to find her husband after you" because those 2 are crazyyyyy bro

[@Unlockheavens]

Savage😂😂😂

[@jonl1319]

Nah some women just like to be hurtful to men. It's not always a response. The first one girl was just getting approached and she felt the need to talk about his hairline.

[@chewdoom8415]

As a man, while responses like the last two are horrible, I do not think too bad of them of the person they are directed towards are terrible. Sometimes break ups or relationships are just that bad, which is why people need to leave them if they can. I remember my sister would talk shit about her in laws parenting skills right to her husband's face, their lack of education and she almost said that she knows why his mother got physically abused.

[@nytoy8]

The dad one made me get serious. I was like oh no! that is not right.

[@Snowboarding2020]

Nah this is the woman natural state.

[@LifeofMaqueda]

2:54 my favorite part 😂😂😂😂😂 Fuhad saying FACTTTTTSSS !!! I’m so weak

[@sunnni_]

Nah i love that NFL one. She just kept going and going😂😂 PLWEASEEEE the silence and low " Jesus christ" James let out after the "if your daddy didn't stay, why should I" 😂😂😂

[@justritahmoshe3215]

It's how James got offended by the hairline one for me😭😭😭

[@rivers0ng]

I can never think of these on the spot and it pains me 😂It's always 3 hours later and suddenly I can come up with all these genius clap backs

[@AnimeChiqett]

Same 😭😭

[@mobayhottitude]

Same

[@CorporationSKY]

Women are quick to retaliate and late to think about the lasting outcome. Its not funny or cute...its childish. Be the bigger person, tell them what theyre doing is the wrong way to trewt a human, and leave. Verbal or Physically violence is NOT the answer. It just keeps the wound open

[@Petrol_Sniffa]

you do realise you're not supposed to attack people personally right? Women love to act like the more empathetic sex but men would rarely ever say heinous shit like this to another person.

[@faciaw771]

Dude used to call me randomly and get mad that I wasn't on his line like the other girls, so I asked him, "am I a cure for your boredom, coz you keep whining about a woman who's already bored with you."

[@mahroutabesh]

He took me to a café and bought me the cheapest thing on the menu for the first date. Later that day when I said no to the second date, he told me to pay the money he had paid for the coffee to a charity! I paid 10 times the coffee price and sent him the receipt and told him he can now stop asking the next nine women he would go on the first date to do the same.

[@esteracasprovici8533]

Absolutely brilliant 😂

[@mariams3879]

Why would he buy you something expensive

[@mahroutabesh]

@@mariams3879 firstly because he bragged knowing the best coffee in town and secondly I offered to pay for myself

[@JellyBean0776]

When women are being mean, they've had enough and feel you've been mean, for a long time. They're hurt and trying to hurt you BACK.

[@randobando8354]

Or your could express yourself before a fight and not repress shit

[@rickylukecage4215]

Nah bruh you can just be at the wrong place at the wrong time and women will be on some loaded lux timing.

[@TheBlkKat]

@@rickylukecage4215 that comes from people not being taught to not redirect their frustrations towards an innocent party. I grew up being taught to be upset only at the offending party thinking this is a common lesson only to find that the majority of people will absolutely take out their bad day, fights, arguments, frustrations, etc on everyone regardless if they had anything to do with the problem(s).

[@JellyBean0776]

@RT-zn9bj Often times, a man knows his inaction is hurtful and chooses to do it anyway.

[@JellyBean0776]

@RT-zn9bj The reality is so the woman saying so lol. This is why men are told to stop being a pos by women. They like to act like they've done nothing wrong. How about trying to be more intentional for the one you claim you love and maybe listening to women and acting on it instead of just saying they're wrong. 🤷‍♀️ Men and women speak a different language, and if you want a healthy relationship, you better start learning it. Men don't, hence, no market for men's relationship advice and more market for shit like this. While it's hilarious, it also paints a really sad picture of men. By time a woman is that pissed, you've already made her feel far worse. That's probably the part you should be listening to instead of pulling shit out of your ass for why you think it shouldn't be that way.

[@chy8427]

James’ facial expression’s in real time is THEEEE funniest shit ever 😂😂😂

[@BT-jm3ww]

These were brutal lol......especially the water on his head so he can grow one. VIOLATION! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@alexbertucci5238]

As someone working through my own avoidant attachment healing, James' ex is 100% spot on. The impact your parents have on your ability to healthily confront, feel, and express your emotions can not be understated. She still shouldn't have said it like that...

[@munab3666]

Especially because if he called her emotional and she wasn't actually being emotional, her response may have been a factual answer 😬 but yeah, throwing something someone said at a vulnerable time isn't right

[@keishajones3830]

Maybe it’s a cultural thing (I’m American 🇺🇸) but I didn’t think her saying he wasn’t emotional and why was all that bad. If she’s trying to get thru to him on something, maybe she was pointing it out to explain why he wasn’t understanding her. Idk…

[@sandrameesala6804]

Yeah I dont see an issue with what she said. He admits that he called her "emotional." She just got him to question how he himself measures emotion. She said it like it was. I thought men liked that? Oh wait... only when THEY do it.

[@sandrameesala6804]

@RT-zn9bj but he called her "emotional" 100% it was because he didn't approve of her reaction to something. You can't really be saying that he is allowed to call her hurtful things because he's mad but she isn't? Please.

[@NotKekePalmer]

Nah the vibrator and hairline ones are my favourite already. I love a good passive aggressive and calm clapback... with a smile. I'm just a girl

[@FreeOfCharg3]

That hairline comment is RUTHLESS 😂😂😂

[@sydneecabrera6230]

He was starting to sniffle about me breaking it off with him for the second time, the first time I empathised with him but THIS time I was just like “i just need you to man up for two seconds while i get all this out” 🙃

[@Digitalhunny]

Wait, I think we heard his brain break, from over here... in Canada! 😂😂

[@azurtierna]

when i was 19, i was with a guy who was super manipulative and took advantage of me in every way he could. i reached my breaking point and went off on him and then blocked him on everything. a few months go by and he had his sister try to reach me so he can talk to me. i unblock him for a little bit and he calls me saying that he missed me so much, he thought about my every single day and then asked me how i felt about him. i flat out said “i haven’t thought about you at all.”. i remember hearing him painfully exhale and trying to hold back tears. it felt so good.

[@Petrol_Sniffa]

imagine admitting some monstrous shit like that and thinking you're morally right.

[@CrimeMaMa91]

You gotta be able to fight like Tyson to speak like this 😂

[@husamzaheer5415]

That pouring water on his head is an absolutely violation of human rights 😭🤣

[@ericapaley1579]

Meanest thing I’ve said (which I still stand by btw) was to my ex who had lost 2 jobs in 4 months and stopped paying his half of rent. When we broke up & he belittled my plans for the future, I told him “unlike you, my plans just might work”

[@mikween8657]

The first one made me not feel so bad about telling my ex him buying magnums is like a anorexic buying a 2x shirt.

[@moniqueanderson7127]

😂😂😂😂

[@salliegal8932]

Oooooohhh My!!!!

[@mimilewis3653]

Bravo 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@georgieeve2026]

😅

[@mikween8657]

@@tuscan4174 after he cursed me out 😆

[@michelleandrea5481]

I remember telling a man "ya mother raised a bitch and ya father was ok with that" he never spoke to me again and had to fight his cousis

[@petrab.7780]

I once had to pull aside a coworker for being an asshole and he tried to use the “you don’t know where I come from, what I’ve been through” and I answered “neither do you.” I don’t think it was particularly mean or clever, just that it was frustrating that he thought his supposed struggles let him disrespect other people, or that he thought no one else had a tragic past. But the look on his face was like I’d broken him. I’ll never know why.

[@arianam6430]

Cause he's hurting. A lot of folks need to talk to a therapist, get things off their chest and start recovering from past pains. I used to be quick with the comebacks when I had a lot more hurt I was dealing with. Not so much anymore cause I've been able to heal from the past and move on- not stay replaying all my grievances, ready to hand them back out. Hurt people, hurt people. Not saying I'm perfect, but ik I'm in a lot better place when things just slide off the ego now and not staying constantly triggered

[@Janary08]

So he was basically using his backstory as an excuse to hurt people. Perpetuates the cycle

[@leewilliams4852]

It's because we can't fight you physically

[@nichellecarter4184]

This!

[@shomarinangwaya-walker8295]

Yeah but you then take it too a point where naturally to man next thing is hands and then act surprised with the men who do. Its actually the same but in reverse from men to women

[@missaxou3834]

​@shomarinangwaya-walker8295 Attacking someone verbally is not the same as attacking someone physically. I don't even understand why you're trying to normalise that here. If we got to the point that we say those things, that's because of MEN, after all. Be mindful with your words and actions, and we have no reason to butthurt you.

[@theshenanigans545]

​@@shomarinangwaya-walker8295I hope you never raise a son with these mindset ,only weak people get violent over words maybe when it happens to your daughter you'll learn to raise better men. No amount of words should ever take you our of character otherwise you'll go beating everyone

[@jessicarichter6436]

@@shomarinangwaya-walker8295there’s no excuses for abuse. Words don’t warrant violence. If you don’t like what someone said leave or block it’s that’s simple.

[@TheeTage]

That first one is a delicious read 🤣👏🏾👏🏾. It could be used as a verse if we being honest.

[@joseless892]

5:00 That wow after the pause said everything tho😬

[@Mama_Toni]

9 minutes of these two on a rainy Friday morning, elated🎉🎉 Thanks for the great start to the weekend❤❤❤

[@ashleyjames1158]

1. Fuhad is fine. 2. This was a quiet one, due to the intensity of the responses. 3. I feel like James deserves hugs. 4. It’s so evident that they’re best friends. They communicate without saying words quite often. 5. I want to give James a really good southern mama hug.

[@pulithesouthafrican7869]

1. He’s too fine 😭😭😭

[@ashleyjames1158]

@@pulithesouthafrican7869 girrrrlllllll every time I see those hands and lips I blush. 🤣🤣🤣

[@godrules3596]

Once back when I was in colly (college) a girl I liked rejected me in a very rude manour and I said *"relax yourself and watch how you chat to me"* and she said *"you know what?, I'm not gonna go there your boys told me your soft and now that I've seen you they were right you don't fit the criteria for a man"* I stayed silent whilst everyone erupted because all I could think is how my "boys" spoke shit about me to a girl I liked.

[@AmorDia-GOAT]

Aw man on their behalf I apologize. Perhaps you will forgive them and yourself, if need be. Sometimes people don’t think. I’d hope you’re still a lovely person. ❤❤

[@godrules3596]

@@AmorDia-GOAT Thanks 🙏🏾❤

[@jessicafoxx3355]

“😡 I AM A HUMAN BEING!!!!😡” James is hilarious!😂😂😂😂😂

[@HALOSnHORNS]

8:29 true friendship is hearing a new story one time and know exactly who we talking bout 😂😂😂

[@bighomieJ5X]

Hairline jokes hit different 😂😂😂

[@malehu]

I love how we know a lot about James previous relationships and nothing about Fuhad’s 😂😂😂

[@aishariel9924]

I had an ex guy friend insult me for weeks. I kept my mouth shut to keep the peace. But when I decided I was going to cut him off I told him the real reason why I would NEVER date him. I told him he’s so freaking ugly, just the thought of being with him disgusts me. I feel like vomiting just thinking about kissing him. He would insult me like if he was the sexiest man in the world. I had to bring him down to earth lol

[@Gumbier_Than]

I worked with a lady who said to a very sexist and crass co-worker: "looking at you makes my stomach hurt". 😂

[@CharlesNunoo]

Nah! The vibrator guy will be needing therapy 😅

[@adwoaasisi8908]

I caught an ex chatting with a lady when we were together. He tried to gaslight me I said "wow was she the best you could do? You just made me realise my standards are way too low. I can-do better than this(him)" Till date he still asks why I said that 😂

[@Boots_Alexander]

It's weird how some people can say hurting things first. Then when someone responds it's "out of nowhere" 🤦🏾‍♀️ I have said to this guy "I'll f*ck your dad and give him a son he can FINALLY be proud of"....but that was only AFTER he called me the n word when he lost against me online in Mortal Kombat. After that, he started crying about how his dad left and he never knew him 😒🙄🤦🏾‍♀️.

[@Carpathianpixie]

Oh hell no! I hope you never talked to him again!

[@Boots_Alexander]

@Carpathianpixie195 it's online gaming. Unless he sends me a friend request or is on my team, I rarely come across the same players. I would have to stay online, and rank up to MAYBE fight the same people in the SAME day. Other than that ......

[@galaxylucia1898]

OMG I think you dropped these🏆🥇🥇🥇 Cuz that was BRUTAL😂😂😂😂

[@Janary08]

If you can't take the trashtalk in gaming, then don't start trash talking. The dude kinda had it coming for that lol

[@chillaxboi2109]

Aight, I feel you since it's MK, the fatality is thematic. But damn, talk about the punishment is far damaging more than the crime. What do you think about the new one, you still play, will you play?

[@mimilewis3653]

I had a similar situation where a NFL guy tried to belittle me then I told him “Sir you’re an undrafted free agent, humble yourself”

[@dozergames2395]

On one hand i dont get why that would hurt. Hes still literally one of the best athletes alive On the other hand thats a dude that's probably played the sport since he was 5 or 6 its a literal part of him and though it may seem trivial he isnt quite where he wants to be for the work and time he's put in. Basically whike for most it would seem like a scratch on tank armor its likely a bit more to him

[@YeYo.ON2]

“They can’t conceive consequences”. This was it for me. Think you can just get away with that? 😂😂

[@JB-hq8ym]

I firmly believe that these men had it coming because each and every woman was taken there. Men don't realize the harm they do to women on an everyday level. Each and every one of these men deserves it!

[@cassiopee26]

Right?! Men really don’t care about our feelings, but we do + we have to care about their fragile egos. So if we’re letting things out like this it’s because they had it coming for a loooooong time!

[@danielakinyeye253]

You can't really blame someone for something when you don't know the full story. Maybe some deserved it, maybe some of these women are just evil

[@naaaadoley]

"They can't conceive consequences" That's so true. We definitely have no fear of consequences 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@with4tt477]

No James we’re not “evil” we play chess not checkers😂😂😂

[@mchbmp]

as someone who has gotten into a physical fight with a dude over shit i've said about them, i can confirm that it only made me meaner. if i'm gonna end up fighting you anyway, i'll give you something to fight about. *edit:* full disclosure, i know the shit i say will start a fight. if i'm going out of my way to say it, then think about what you had to do for me be down enough to potentially engage in fisticuffs with someone.

[@BeepBopyoureaHeepHop]

the silence after “your daddy didn’t stay, why would i?” it got silent at my house too-

[@binaboop1]

Where does it come from? Being tired of being harassed constantly and just taking it, and then some old dude comes up and slaps your ass, and you're like "OK, he chose violence".

[@LaceyLeeLovesMakeup]

"These lots genuinely believe I won’t STRIKE them" took me out

[@gnelove3601]

As a woman with a very slick mouth, I say things I know will hurt you cus I’ve been pushed to the point where I genuinely do not care about how you feel anymore 😂

[@yolandawilson6619]

No, you just say things to hurt someone. Don't justify weaponize offenses to tear someone down. I have a slick mouth but i don't weaponize it bc the power of the tongue is serious.

[@gnelove3601]

@@yolandawilson6619I said what I said, Yolanda. I have a slick tongue & hold it unless I feel like it’s what you deserve. We all have a breaking point & do things in retaliation so don’t compare yourself to me nor try to speak for me. I said exactly what I meant, thank you.

[@yolandawilson6619]

@@gnelove3601 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stop practicing!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@brookelynnenewcomer943]

​@@yolandawilson6619nah fam. We get tired of being pushed around. Yall fuck around and you will find out. Don't pretend to be a victim when you throw shit going to catch shit

[@yolandawilson6619]

@brookelynnenewcomer943 Who's getting pushed around, and who's doing the pushing?

[@d3lusi0n_312]

that 1st one was clearly a 4th degree burn... that burn that roasts your soul...

[@tiah5881]

9:12 this is an interesting one especially when he said the thing like "I won't hold onto something waiting for the moment to use it against you, and also that means I hated you the whole time". Women actually don't do all that most of the time it's a 1+1=2 moment. You behave a certain way they will be like oh damn no suprise you have emotional expression issues as your parents are just like that and treated you like shit. They will say that because they had literally just figured out where your issue stems from and because your in a relationship with you will tell you straight up.

[@yelzified]

They can't conceive consequences 😂😂😂😂

[@rujeruby]

James always has the best reactions! We go for the jugular when men burn us! We pay attention to too much and have concoctions in our head ready! I've seen wayy too many men act like they don't care about how their women feels soo when it comes to comebacks, we go low down, hellish cusses! I've said some awful stuff but my brain just flings these words out my mouth and even I'm shocked sometimes! 😅 I grew up with a mother who had a fiery tongue! Practiced comebacks in the mirror for yearrrss!

[@TheUnwindingPath]

The way I listened to this without AirPods so my man who pissed me off today could hear 😂

[@ghosty_sa]

01:17 felt this in my soul😭😭

[@Gumbier_Than]

Serious negging.

[@forevrose]

the hairline one was JARRING man😭😭 would never recover icl

[@kenetrice]

You don’t think women have trust issues with men? & we’ve heard some brutal things said to women by men on your channel many times. Humans in general can be cruel. However, in every instance mentioned, the men had said something mean to the woman to try to belittle her so of course she responded with some brutal truth for his ass. 😂 being quick witted is a gift we women usually have.

[@NikTheDecorator]

I LIVE for your reactions to any and everything. I could watch a mashup of nothing but facial expressions and different octaves of "FAAAAAAAM" with no context whatsoever. 😂😂😂

[@denyshadials5702]

James reactions are just sending me 😂😂 he took that short one so personally

[@juangarcia2007]

I love the way james and fuhad say FAAAAMM in that high pitched voice always kill me 🤣🤣😂😂

[@meganakamae]

Seriously, this is an example about how amazing women are. We aren't mean in nature, but if we have to be, we go straight for the jugular. I'm the nicest person on the planet until I have a reason not to be lol

[@0Atche0]

it's scary that you believe that about yourself and also basic as hell, every single girl I have ever met in my life has said that they are the nicest person on the planet about themselves, self proclaimed while also becoming the worst when the slightest inconvenience occurs

[@meganakamae]

@@0Atche0 I'm sorry my comment made you feel such a way to make you need to take time out of your day to spill your feelings about women. I hope you feel better soon 💜

[@uriahreed9363]

@@0Atche0see she is nice ☺️❤️

[@salliegal8932]

@@0Atche0 And the common denominator is?

[@justuravergekpopluvinfeminist]

​@@0Atche0She killed you with kindness

[@Sweet_dumplin]

This has been my FAVOURITE EPISODE 😂😂😂😂😂 Got some nice tips thanks 🙏

[@puffee17]

Why are we so mean?! We used to be nice when we were younger but learned through experiences that men are brutal is how they treat us….so…. We have words… and your feelings are more fragile than you think.

[@FutureBillionaire1111]

Oh baby, this question was MADE FOR ME😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm a DIFFERENT kind of petty

[@c_m_dylan8150]

Do tell 👀

[@abbyerry4282]

Men say and do stuff to hurt women and most times don't realize so we snap back with something that we know will hurt just as much. Saying something about a female emotions when everywhere women are being told they are too emotional was a bad move.

[@Menooy22]

James is such an empath 😂

[@marupuccino]

this vid made me feel so bad for James 😭😭😭 i wasn’t expecting such a story

[@Candy-vv6ob]

As soon as I saw the title I started smiling ☺️

[@19YOURSDEARLY]

Jame couldn’t hold it in the time. These girl are ruthless. They came to make the men curl up In the corner😂

[@giagood1435]

"they can't conceive consequences" "FAAACCTS" took me out😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@missaxou3834]

Did you notice that these comments usually came to this BECAUSE a man has been a jerk ? We usually take a lot of sh!t from men. Even more from the men when we try to date or those who try to woo us. If we get to the point that we try to verbally hurt you like that, that's because men pushed our buttons.

[@tayadorsaint6527]

Can we add them here too? I once told a man to focus on his finances the way single mothers do when the next check is a week out 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kimyearwood2]

I feel like these guys took the comments personally, and also couldn't see the truth in them or understand why the women were saying these things. The comments are savage because they're complex, beyond surface level and insightful and probably true. Its like guys dont think women have any ounce of intelligence and are shocked they can also lash back.

[@heyhellohi_]

“they can’t conceive consequences.” lmao and don’t. going for the guzzler anyway.

[@ciyannesmith]

Yeah, I had a man i was with call me too emotional and i did something similar, I loved that man but he constantly acted like people Expressing anything but joy was a weakness and honestly after 3 years of being told i was the problem for simply feeling my feelings, i snapped. I told him that with an upbringing like his and family connections like his he needed to work towards being emotionally available bc they didnt teach him and his refusal to grow and work on it was going to leave him an very lonely man and left him. I hope he learned for his next bc that was like trying to be with a robot.

[@bluefun22]

This is the thing I quote the most, it's from a movie called "drive me crazy." "When men fight you just throw punches and you get over it, when women fight its art" This video perfect example, these words have no other meaning then to hurt you geez

[@sam4lemar]

I want to give James a hug, he looked like he was offended by all of these.

[@TheSlightestChic]

I think it is genuinely hilarious that James doesn’t think that a woman would strike back.

[@DarlingNikki_97]

Caught my ex cheating. He flipped it and accused me of cheating bc we never recorded together for my OnlyFans. I said “bc recording with you would be like making a TikTok!”. He cried 😂