Meet James - She Left Me For Another Guy, Now We're Happier Than Ever!

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@nealsnikeris6962]

No way in hell I can afford 3K for the program, but the videos, Masterclass and guidebooks alone have helped me so much! Thanks Geoffrey!

[@stew1755]

This program is 100% legit but is hard work. You have to decide if changing yourself to better your life is worth the work. The difference for me was when I decided that my relationship problem was my fault because that is the only thing I am in control of. She wanted a divorce - told everyone it was happening! She now wants to reconcile and I am heading in the right direction and she is taking notice. Thank you

[@bryanwood8334]

What if you didn't do anything wrong and she wants one anyways. I mean there were some things I did but nothing on the level of most of these guys I hear. I didn't cheat I didn't not give affection or attention. Doesn't always work no matter how many classes you take.

[@stew1755]

I hear what your saying but at some point communication broke down. At some point she didn’t feel 100% safe to share how she felt. I don’t think you go from being happily married to divorced overnight. It is typically a slow burn over time. This is only my 2 cents my friend. Remember you can’t control another person but you can get them to change just because you change. I have first hand experience. @@bryanwood8334

[@zombiekill25]

Fuck yeah, that is awesome! I joined the program about a month ago and stories like yours really help! You're right, it is a lot of hard work. But I HAVE to change if I ever want to achieve happiness and prosperity in life - excluding my marriage. This is for me.

[@andrespico9613]

@@bryanwood8334 I know exactly how you feel. I told myself the same thing and felt the same way myself. However, I have since learned there are a lot of things I did do that I had no idea. I cringe now thinking how I used to be! I'm not reconciled and it might not be in the cards, but for myself I refuse to go through life being the same miserable guy that drove my wife away!

[@Knojeal]

geoffrey. when is your book coming out?

[@JimRickenbaugh60]

The book to cover this program would be 8” thick! Lol

[@PokeDaBearUSA]

Man, if I’ve learned anything from this channel it’s your situation is not unique. And if this hits home for me entirely…. So many of the same things. Makes me wanna be better. Thanks, Geoffrey.

[@oliverrichardson4186]

Thanks James for sharing this. I am currently working through my victim to hero exercise in P1 M2 Step 4. James’s story has helped me to rethink what my standards should be regarding being “irreplaceable” from my wife’s perspective. The process has helped me get out of the illusion of thinking I am, or need to be, the perfect product. I will focus on having the perfect process within the programme. Thank you Geoffrey for your programme from across the pond in England, UK.

[@KEYBOARDTHAWAVE]

Thx u for post even though I'm going through a divorce I'm learning the things she needed from me I didn't have before I walked down the aisle

[@rickycarter8892]

I promised my wife I would change 5 or 6 years ago, all I could tell her was I had the wrong tools. No excuse as to why I didn't change. I flat out had the wrong tools.

[@SkinnyMidwest]

I love James! He was the very first member I talked to after joining RR. We still keep in touch. He joined around the same time I did. We talked every day for months because we were so new and were trying to figure out some of the intricacies of the program together. The information in your program changed my life Geoffrey, but the network of relationships I've built within the program are really the cherry on top. Congrats, James! Well deserved, buddy. I never doubted for a second you'd have a massive champagne moment. 🍾

[@RohanDas-z3t]

Hey can I have little chat with you ?

[@darrylvillarreal]

Geoffrey I have my call with James tomorrowZ This video here, this is the exact situation i am in. We are not married but still live togetherZ I was like a child. I bullied her, i made fun of her, aftwr so many years she found a man online. And im devastated. I see that THIS IS 100% MY FAULT. IF I WAS THERE FOR HER EMOTIONALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY, SHE WOULD BE LOVING ME AND NOT HIM. GEOFFREY IM READY. I DONT WANT TO LIBE THIS WAY ANOTHER DAY. PLEASE HELP ME GEOFFREY. I DONT KNOW HOW TO CHANGE

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

James's story is a lot like mine to be honest

[@modifiedyuki6552]

Wow this is my life story thank you very much for this video I am still going through hard times but I have been changing I feel better every day again thank you very much

[@alecmcd8536]

This is a great interview, I have been learning to be more antithetic myself. This video stresses the importance of the antithetic mindset to avoid being someone who does not accept any criticism due to always thinking you are right.(Which ironically will prevent any growth.) I too am guilty of this flaw, but with an antithetic mindset I can see how others ideas and thoughts have value and can now see that I too have flaws I need to work on. This is an important leadership trait, an effective leader must learn how to listen to their peers and truly understand their thoughts and opinions in order to better guide them towards a common goal. (Goal alignment.)

[@imagegotbeats]

I’m happy for this brother!!! I wish him and his family much success!! Geoffrey well done brother 🤝

[@williamshula2495]

Hi. Thank you for the videos. I wanted to understand how someone can be ok with a devorce and losing out on seeing your kids? I think I could live with devorce but I am devoted to my children: my family is my purpose. How can I disconnect? I can't afford the thousands of dollars for the coaching at this time. Can someone help and give perspective? Also I love my wife and at this point I just want her to be happy and heal.

[@tb87670]

This opened my eyes, I was toxic like James with the bullying aspect. And my insecurities had me "picking" on my wife, this is something she mentioned. And like James my wife took it for 6 years. I wasn't present enough. Too many similarities to my story.

[@Dooood24]

My girlfriend and I are taking a step back and giving each other space. She is stressed with school and work at the same time as she can barely talk in our convo since she can sleep easily after coming home. She is in japan studying and working so she is having a hard time, "She wants to work on herself so she can be better for me". We havent officially broke up and I know it might be a red flag but I have to respect her decision as I can understand how hard it is to work and study at the same time. Its been 3 weeks since we last talked to each other and Im expecting the worst to come and time will when I accept it.

[@hotcarrotsoup7372]

How has it gone for you?

[@hdshjs]

You know this is not true. Not talking for three weeks is not a relationship. I hope you didnt stay in this no contact nonsense?

[@hocphung5072]

This is exactly my situation! I am new in the program and I can't wait to get the same results as James. Thank you to you both for this video.

[@variable7833]

This is almost EXACTLY my situation its chilling. Geofferys videos have helped me try and get my marriage back the right way and in a healthy way. But its still very up in the air.

[@cpensiri3]

Do you only help men?

[@vooligan9499]

Every single tip that he gives also applies to women, it's just either that men are stereotypically happier to be comfortable (I fall into this) and appreciate little things, or that women are seemingly becoming more selfish and appreciation of what is done for them swiftly becomes expectation. Of course, this goes both ways, but even if the point isn't coming from a female, the experience is ultimately the same.

[@glennwilliams4003]

Amen to that. Love this dude.

[@glennwilliams4003]

There is no if only do