From Relationship Disaster to Relationship Master - James’s Story

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

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[@Freskko]

I’ve replayed James and Quentin success story interviews the most. Happy for him.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

They're LEGENDS, aren't they? There's so much I can say about James, but I'll let the interview do the talking 😂 After you finish the interview, feel free to share your thoughts!

[@MikaelaStulen]

This is such a good video guys! I've watched it two or three times, and I just love hearing you guys go over principles and reflecting on the program. I do think it feels very different to the other success stories in that it's more of a discussion rather than a story telling. I love both types of videos, but would love to see more of these discussion type videos, since there are many story type videos already. It would be so cool if there were more videos with the coaches and maybe also bringing in A players to discuss a particular principle or subject, everyone just giving input. Anyways, love it! 🤩🤩🤩Keep up the great work!

[@livewithinthedream]

Looking back through the videos this is one of the most useful, relatable and in depth scenarios. They all seems "familiar", but James's actions reflect my own. An dthe fact that there was deep insight given by Saboor and Geoffrey helps immensely

[@cesargonzalez3600]

Hey, I am a bit new here. I don’t know if you will read this or not, but I am really lost right now. My partner dumped me and blocked me from everywhere about a week ago, she told me she didnt loved me anymore, but i still have the hope that i could make her fall in love with me again. I tried to talk with her, but she said she didn’t want to, and as I mentioned, she blocked me. I don’t know if there is any hope. We were about a month away from being together for two years. I really love her and want to give her space, but I’m scared I’ve lost her forever. I apologize if this isn’t well written; I am not using a translator, and English isn’t my native language. I really enjoyed the video, and to whoever reads this, thanks for your time.

[@alecmcd8536]

Guys this is a really dense client interview with lots of gold nuggets to geek out on. 47:45 -> high value is being able to communicate not manipulation

[@lukeleonardrasmussen3550]

I love these longer videos. Learn even more than the short form ones. And hearing from people who've learned and succeeded with it is encouraging

[@ThonThon007]

I haven’t missed a single video upon finding your channel! I’m hoping to be accepted to the program and change my life around! ❤

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Loving the enthusiasm to make yourself IRREPLACEABLE :) Let me know what deeply resonated with you from today's video!

[@xyzpandit]

57:58 Geoffrey, you nailed it! I was thinking to myself, is this paradox of change or something like a prolonged goodbye! Saboor, James & Geoffrey, you are all smiling simultaneously; say it all. We all have gone through it. Geoffrey, you are the man!

[@ahmedshah5922]

Solid interview , saboor did a great job too he seems natural at it doesn’t feel robotic or inexperienced.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Absolutely, he did a fantastic job here. You'll be seeing much more of him in the future :)

[@imagegotbeats]

This is was an excellent I would say pod cast!!! Geoffrey you are really giving me hope during my process!! Please keep this coming!!! 🙏🏾 Thank you brother.

[@sureshm0853]

Geoffrey, Love from India. I've been following your channel for the past eight months, and applying your principles has completely transformed my relationship. While things have improved significantly, I'm still eager to enroll in your program soon. I can only imagine how much more I could achieve by becoming an A+ player in my life

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Awesome to hear! Looking forward to seeing that application from you so you too can become an A+ player :)

[@cell5066]

Such good content here, my ex partner has completely left the building and gotten with a new person. Im using the information i learnt and treating this as fuel to learn and understand better what i did wrong, how i can improve to be better, 10x better than the new person. Knowing my mistakes and how it affected my partner, i never want to repeat them again. The pain is too great. Deep down yes i want them back but, i wish i can have a chance to show my changes. But most of all i never am going to let myself revert and repeat my mistakes

[@Nuez234]

Okay this just gave me insight into building safety on a whole deeper level 🤩. What i usually do to identify the minute details to create safety is to seat with my emotions(SOC) and understand how different events, words, tone, body language, actions make me feel and i try to tweak my response to the response i hoped to have recieved and give that to people around me. But now i see how much deeper i can even go in terms of how much i can feel and reflect and identify. I'm i on the right track in the way i also apply my SOC in creating safety for other people? Thanks Geoffrey, Saboor, James!

[@livewithinthedream]

I like it. Growth should be extremely uncomfortable. Think about growing pains. Even in nature there is discomfort associated with growth. For those not understanding; if something makes you uncomfortable then you do not yet have an antithetic filter for it.

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Bingo, we cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them. If there is no discomfort given our old thinking, are we even doing anything differently to get to somewhere new?

[@livewithinthedream]

Interestingly enough is that I cannot unsee what I notice in my friend group nor the public now. Even couples that stayed together and “work on things” are typically not thriving. I see the old me in my wife, and in my siblings, in most of my friends…the best we can do is provide the right environment and the rest we must untether from. It is the RIGHT path, the more rewarding path, but most definitely also the more difficult one.

[@bruceleehee9267]

The problem is the money. U need to make a monthly payment program please

[@ahmedshah5922]

Geoffrey I have a question, in the past you have said that most of our partners etc don’t have character issues rather they have environment issues I believe that too that a good environment would turn most of us good too but here in the interview u guys mentioned to “settle for low value partners” wouldn’t those said low value partners also have the potential to be high value partners if u gave them the right environment?

[@GeoffreySetiawan]

Low-value partners here = Partners who, regardless of whether it is due to environment or character, do not want to/can value the need for change and bettering one-self in the correct ways. Settle for "low value partners" here = To see your relationship in a bad state, and simply accepting it as the best that it can be (playing victim), and doing nothing about it.

[@ahmedshah5922]

@@GeoffreySetiawan oh got it thank you