Finding Home: Foster Kids and Prospective Parents | Real Families

A look at a summer's day picnic in Mississippi where foster kids between the ages of 3 and 17 and who are available for adoption get to meet prospective parents. Explores the trauma both adults and children experience in the process.
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[@jupiterkid100]

These poor children... it’s almost like an adoption day for a litter of puppies. “Oh this one is so cute”. They are human beings!! Treat them like they are your brother or sister

[@abbyalarid6877]

I was just thinking that too. It's like a cattle sale. I understand it's for a good reason but it feels like a market for selling kids.

[@LLGuerra]

Right!??! I felt an unsettling feeling as if they're auctioning off these beautiful children as if they're horses. Something didn't sit right with me. Especially the last two adoptions.

[@danieldrury1849]

I thought that a bit too.. but then though better that, than being in foster care for your whole life. It's easy for us to judge when we haven't opened our doors to a foster child in need

[@timothycrowley5065]

@@abbyalarid6877 You're spot on just bring them out dressed in yellow to humiliate them the ones that don't get fostered must have their gentle hearts broken in tiny pieces, not far removed from the slave auctions

[@juancasen9776]

InstaBlaster...

[@likeathiefinthenight1333]

God bless his foster mom! She saw that for exactly what it was, a child auction. I'm glad they decided to adopt Chris

[@pattywieder3268]

For the love of God putting them all up on that stage like they're animals being auctioned off or something... that's AWFUL. The rest of the picnic seems like a nice idea but good grief don't make them stand up on that stage like that.

[@junbh2]

Yeah, and that song. OMG. Who okayed this?

[@Nodeal757]

I was shocked that they treat them like cattle at a cattle market 😤 it is defo like their being auctioned off 🤢 sickening 😣 the picnic is a good idea, but please treat them like little individual HUMANS at least 🙈!

[@bingbong7434]

I wish there was something better than this but it’s one of the only ways to gather many people in to creates better life for children 😢🥺

[@daniellemonroe1242]

It’s awful but this is from 1998 so hopeful not they’ve changed that.

[@rachelfreeders356]

Its weird how they talk about them too lol

[@amyd316]

This was filmed in the late 90's and all these kids are adults now! I hope all these kids turned out to be happy well rounded adults because they all deserve to be happy and healthy!

[@lookwhatjesusdid]

My heart goes out to Lacey the older girl. I have a feeling she has experienced things that she hasn't shared.

[@BurntAngel11]

Oh Lacey breaks my heart. I hope her life turned out well

[@533134]

This documentary has to be 20 years old. Power Rangers Space, the hair and clothing!

[@mariekedufresne53]

Jessica B it is.. I remember seeing this years ago!

[@petitecontrebassiste]

it says 1998 on their t-shirts lol.

[@eries77]

I was gonna say, the hair too. lol

[@noahjaybee]

Shirts say 1998. These kids are now in their 20s and 30s

[@vildeve818]

@@petitecontrebassiste Damn, this happened the year I was born

[@samanthahill9367]

Was so glad when they decided to keep Chris. He looks like a very nice boy. If only we could have updates on all of them.

[@stephanies.2557]

I want to foster/ possibly adopt children once I graduate college 😭

[@happilyeversafter-he3hw]

As an adoptee this is hands down the most offensive KZbin video I've ever seen...as an agency they should be ashamed of themselves. We don't need to be saved & you aren't shopping for a puppy.

[@junbh2]

It was made i ln 1998 so hopefully they've learned a lot since then?

[@sistermadrigalmorning233]

@@junbh2 I sure hope so

[@BMarie774]

happilyeversafter2020 I think the picnic is a nice idea. Getting prospective parents to see children, especially some who they may not have considered adopting before (older children, teens), is important. But..Jesus does this remind me of the event we have in our local park every year for adoptable pets from our humane society. I think the fault lies with parents who act like they’re shopping. AND the agency, who propagate that, and seem to herd them around like sheep on auction.

[@harismohammad2005]

@@BMarie774 That isn’t the only reason why this is wrong, in the video they say they hide conditions and consequences of abuse children have. This is dangerous for both the child and prospective family. For example if a child has a behavioural condition they could in one example be disobedient with this being as a result of issues they have in regards to trust. Essentially the children are in a way testing their parents to see how they react. If the parent punished them in a harsh way or worse sends them back to the agency because they can’t handle the child it could end up destroying the child’s trust completely as they were right in what they believed, a child after that becomes very difficult to help and save and all because a family didn’t have the capacity to give proper support for that child because they were misinformed.

[@jaelynn7575]

@@junbh2 I doubt it. This Mississippi we are talking about.

[@saml4004]

Seriously....these are children not animals!!! Saying things like “they have been freed for adoption”, “if nobody takes him, I’m taking him”, and “somebody better be picking him out” seems more like you’re looking for a cute, cuddly puppy or something. These children already likely feel they aren’t good enough, putting them on display like that is just sickening. Honestly, decent idea to help get kids adopted, TERRIBLE and dehumanizing execution.

[@junbh2]

It's horrendous, isn't it. I guess the social workers must desperately want to see those children have families, but the way they're doing it is so awful.

[@amed9476]

"Freed for adoption" is fine imo, because there are so many children in foster care who can't be adopted (even if that is the goal because they can't be reunited permanently with parents) because the biological parents won't sign off their legal rights. He legally is able to be adopted. Freed from legal constraints. That's fine. BUT the rest I entirely understand; it's such an awful, shallow way to adopt.

[@tinamb4746]

My heart breaks for 14 yrs old Michael. I would have took him home. I hope and pray he found a good loving family.

[@juliahelaschorr641]

People, y'all need to remember that this documentary was filmed in 1998, a LOT have changed ever since.

[@jaelynn7575]

Not in Mississippi they haven't.

[@corvidbrain666]

Little Chris’s story breaks my heart. He seems like such a good kid. Hopefully he’ll find a forever family by the end of the video, I’m very hopeful for him :)

[@knory123]

For anyone wondering: this was filmed in 1998, as seen on the yellow shirts the children are wearing.

[@liliagobelet9236]

The fourteen years old beautifull girl don't really seems too happy with her new family... I wonder what she looks like today.

[@carolinestannard5137]

Her new mom looked really creepy and described her as a “ good Christian girl” 🤢poor Lacey

[@gabe-po9yi]

My grandmother was a house parent at a children’s home for many years. All of the 100+ kids in the home could not be adopted, which is why they were there. This was before the foster care system and the only way a child could be adopted is if their parents or legal guardian signed away their rights or the child didn’t have parents or a guardian, and none of these kids’ parents/guardians would give up their rights. We visited my grandmother every year and my parents fell in love with this 12-year old boy, Dennis, and wanted to adopt him. He had been in the home since age 3 and his grandmother had legal custody of him. The home and eventually my parents contacted her and asked if she would consider letting him be adopted, after confirming that there was no chance of him ever living with her or any other relative. My parents asked if we could come out and let her meet our family (mom, dad, four of us kids from ages 6 - 14). She flat out refused to sign away her rights. Her reason? “He’s my blood and I can’t sign away my blood.” Even though she nor anyone had ever visited him in the nine years he’d been there. My parents offered to bring him to visit her at least once a year, to send her pictures of Dennis as he was growing up, to allow and even encourage phone calls and letters, but she wouldn’t budge. Thinking maybe she just needed some time to mull over the idea, the home contacted her again several months later to tell her we were still interested in an adoption. Again, she said no for the same reason - “I could never give away my blood.” Still to this day I wonder what became of him.

[@morganwhitworth484]

😓

[@gabe-po9yi]

@@morganwhitworth484 Exactly. The unconscionable selfishness of that woman to have her “blood” languish in an orphanage for 15 years, when he could’ve had a loving home with two parents, two brothers and two sisters who loved him to the moon and back. We were all so excited at the prospect of him becoming a part of our family and had even begun to think of him as our (new)/brother. I’m not exactly sure what I learned from that experience at age ten - maybe that it’s not just kids who can be selfish and cruel

[@533134]

Poor kids look so scared! My heart breaks for them.

[@kimdawkins1]

Humiliation and rejection of the highest level for the kids that aren’t chosen, how damaging is that to them?😡

[@JacqueH411]

So awkward and bizarre. It’s like a puppy adoption event and the prospective parents act like they are saints for adopting, but really have no clue what they are doing.

[@vlogfantasia3424]

Omgosh I feel really bad for them. But I'm only 17. When I grow up I want to adopt a lot of kids because kids need a loving and safe home.

[@dsgrbrowne1]

Damn, I really feel like, the child should be choosing the family....put the parents up on the stage, and let the child choose. The child has already been through so much...it is their choice.

[@nathanr5737]

These parents are genuinely doing such a good thing

[@oliver_honey_bun]

I would love to watch a follow up video to this story. I would like to see how the children and their new families are working out. We've adopted our grands

[@oliver_honey_bun]

Opps, we've had him since birth. Now we've adopted his little half sister. She was almost 5 when she came to us. I have to say she has a lot of baggage to work through. We love our children dearly and can't imagine a life without them. Best of love and life to the children in the video, they are in my heart now!

[@unforgivinglyhappy9697]

OMG! Those poor kids paraded around like show cattle. I know they are trying to get these kids adopted, but to see on their face how terrified they are just brings tears to my eyes. It’s just heartbreaking.

[@SimplyMabotha]

This is heart warming and heart breaking😢💓😔

[@sharonsweeney6015]

Lacey looks so sad and uncomfortable in her new home with her new parents🤔 . Any updates on her would love to know how she is now ?

[@falconeddie4109]

I completely agree, she comes off as a young person who is probably relieved to have stability, but is not meshing all that great with her adoptive family. She wore makeup up until she moved in w/ her adoptive parents, and since the mom is a big Christian, it could be a rule put on Lacey. I don’t think there are other children in this family, so she was most likely feeling isolated, and I really hope she wasn’t simply adopted to be an extra set of helping hands on the farm, who supposed to cheer up the ‘mom’ who may be lonely, or can’t have kids biologically. The fact they adopted her without meeting her first is another bad sign, she’s not a pet, that just tells me they didn’t care about her own feelings, as they should have asked her if she would of liked to have been adopted by them first. Lacey just looked exhausted at the end of this video, I bet you she was more hopeful about the prospect of going to college one day soon (finally being around ppl who are her own age, not having to work a farm anymore, etc), wish there was a follow up to this video .

[@falconeddie4109]

I completely agree, she comes off as a young person who is probably relieved to have stability, but is not meshing all that great with her adoptive family. She wore makeup up until she moved in w/ her adoptive parents, and since the mom is a big Christian, it could be a rule put on Lacey. I don’t think there are other children in this family, so she was most likely feeling isolated, and I really hope she wasn’t simply adopted to be an extra set of helping hands on the farm, who supposed to cheer up the ‘mom’ who may be lonely, or can’t have kids biologically. The fact they adopted her without meeting her first is another bad sign, she’s not a pet, that just tells me they didn’t care about her own feelings, as they should have asked her if she would of liked to have been adopted by them first. Lacey just looked exhausted at the end of this video, I bet you she was more hopeful about the prospect of going to college one day soon (finally being around ppl who are her own age, not having to work a farm anymore, etc), wish there was a follow up to this video .

[@pleaseloveme1829]

I grew up in care which means that I never felt wanted or loved. I felt like a piece of garbage that got passed around . I even got abused by some. all I ever wanted was my family and to be hugged , held and loved

[@shaunna6673]

I hope and pray that you are in a much better place and that you are loved and safe.

[@estellehalford3697]

I was a child in care an was put threw similar situations like this! It’s bloody horrible, soul destroying and ur competing because ur all hoping to b picked! Oh believe me the rejection is massive and I was in care from age 8months till i was just over 12 yrs old so now i live with so many insecurities and anxiety,depression

[@gabe-po9yi]

Estelle Halford Yeah, I was trying to place myself in the kids’ situation. Standing there on display, seeing other kids get chosen, adults breaking off conversations with me to move on to someone else. For a long time after, I’d be asking myself what is wrong with me that I didn’t get selected. Why did no one want me. Talk about a complex involving one’s self. How could a child possibly emerge with any sense of self- worth? It’s horrible you went through that and are still suffering from it to this day. I wish you well and hope that one day soon your torment will be lifted.

[@morganwhitworth484]

Me too pass from place to place getting kicked outta one at 12am at night

[@Bisi323]

Always thought of adopting or fostering a child for years now. Let's see how life goes, maybe I still would. Love the idea of making an impact, loving children that need love.

[@alex73217]

Same, though I am only 21 and a college freshmen at the moment, so it'll have to wait a while

[@introusas]

I would love to see a "where are they now." Find out how the parents did.

[@mildredmelusine6970]

That white dad who is so excited to meet prospective sons is heart warming. “I might just pass out”

[@mildredmelusine6970]

LMAO they shade that sister shows her “bratty” brother is hilarious.

[@LLGuerra]

I felt saddened at the end. God bless all children. We all need to feel the security and love.

[@carlsmith7796]

Im glad they adopted Jeffery, thats awesome and I'm very glad the family kept Chris & adopted him

[@jpeopolis]

I don't know if anyone remembers that animated classic "The Rescuers", but the premise involved two erudite mice who journeyed about the bayou to save their orphaned human friend Penny from...okay. Plot's not important. Anyhow, at the beginning of the movie, the orphanage spoke of an event like this one where the children were paraded about and after the "show-and-tell", poor little downtrodden Penny comes back to her room to report back to her mice friends that her prospective adoptive family "picked the little redhead girl instead". Something about those words always broke my heart. It was a silly cartoon, but I felt horrid that this child, fictional though she may be, felt inadequate because the livelier, prettier girl walked away with the family. Sorry for this bizarre diatribe. Covid cabin fever is real! lol

[@tillie1749]

jpeopolis that’s my favorite Disney movie, i felt terrible for penny

[@jpeopolis]

@@tillie1749 Right? Who does that? Did you ever see The Secret of NIMH? I really think you'd enjoy that '80s animated film.

[@jamiebeasley767]

I would love to see where these kids are now x

[@kel2700]

WE NEED AN UPDATE. Part 2 would be great too see.

[@ladypamela8269]

I've done 5 great things in life. My five children. The last one I adopted and hes amazing. And was it easy? No not always. But it was worth it! And I would do it all over again.

[@keeshlon]

One of my sisters and her husband have 4, now grown, biological children. They had a professional punching bag they hung up in their basement. Whenever anyone got angry, they punched the punching bag instead of each other or damaging the home. That thing must've weighed over 100 pounds, but it only lasted a few years! 😄 They are a close, loving family to this day.

[@JDsVarietyChannel]

That's a good idea. The family anger outlet. Haha.

[@debbierosinger2396]

Hope most of children will find homes loving and caring homes for lifes my prayers go out to these precious children always amen

[@lisal8984]

I am so happy for Lacey. That truly was a perfect family and home for her.

[@kaitiesanders993]

As a perspective adoptive parent (my husband and I are currently in training), I’ve been watching a lot of videos and interviews to try learn as much as we can and understand more about what adoptees experienced which must be why this popped up. I realize it’s quite old at this point but wow the beginning of that picnic was horrifying! Making them line up while that song played was absolutely dehumanizing.

[@mlmj1994]

I remember the older upload of this 😢 16:34 His story gets me every time 😢

[@kaitlynamira3916]

That was the one that got me too. I haven’t finish the video but I hope he finds a family and I hope they are good people. This was filmed like 20 years ago or more so these people are all adults now.

[@coeurenpoche]

I searched Jeffrey on fb and he's all grown up now. He seems like a nice man. I also searched his mother "Paulette Hutton" on fb and found many pictures of her, her husband and her children that were born after Jeffrey. No where was there a picture of Jeffrey to be found. Either they're not in eachothers lives anymore or she's not allowed to post pictures of him. I hope he had a good life. He had a rough start and deserves everything good there is in life.

[@sarrco9927]

He has a few videos on youtube & if you Google him theres a few updates. They did keep him until he was 18. He says they were the best most loving parents he could've ever asked for, he just went through some rough years around 18 & became distant with the family until recently. His past is incredibly sad. At first I was upset at her reaction to his file, but anyone would've been when you hear him tell the stories. His bio-mom & dad killed 2 of his brothers through abuse. They tortured him in many way. He had been through 11 foster homes in a very short period before they adopted him.

[@senoravandervyver976]

Hey under what name did you search him

[@coeurenpoche]

@@senoravandervyver976 Jeff Hutton on youtube. In another comment you can find the link I posted to his youtube channel. There he tells about his past and opens up about his life and how jezus helped him. I link it here to make it easier to find. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qanUgZyFeadgqtE

[@sissyrayself7508]

@@coeurenpoche why would you spell Jesus like that? It's quite disrespectful.

[@lakennedy569]

@@sissyrayself7508 Could have dyslexia or have a different spelling

[@5rgyyuyrgg]

Please do update videos with all these children and adults.

[@michelebritt2555]

Philip is AMAZING guy..

[@memoriesforyouelliestorm]

Poor Lacey looks so sad

[@scarwolves5317]

Wow I did not know there were that many foster children

[@tillie1749]

Scar Wolves there are hundreds of millions around the world

[@kaitlynamira3916]

Something about Lacey’s adoptive parents strikes me wrong. Why would they not talk to her at the picnic but adopt her after. I hope they are ok?

[@Nodeal757]

I found them abit off aswell tbh 😅

[@Nodeal757]

I'm hoping it was just nervous or awkwardness with the cameras and all the people 🤞🏻 but to adopt a child based purely on just seeing them not talking to them is abit strange to me 🤷

[@ginagreen3121]

Yes

[@maxinechivers1312]

It is an excellent idea to have a picnic. I hope the children all found a lovely home.

[@christinaeaton8733]

Most demeaning thing I have seen.

[@stephanieurbina4441]

I'd adopt all these kid's if could ❤...I love being a mother!

[@stephanieurbina4441]

Soon as I win the Mega the millions Mama will be pulling up with a bus to bring my children home... ❤ seriously breaks my heart to see kid's treated like cattle.

[@cherokeerose9124]

My mum and auntys were in a children's home and some foster carers when they were little. They were never told why. My mum said she came home from school and social worker told her to pack. It's sad. We used to argue alot me and my mum but we get on alot better now and tbh I see now as a mum of 3, that parenting..it doesn't have a handbook. If you care then your well on your way. The rest is just a matter of doing the right thing. No two days are the same either

[@kaitlynamira3916]

It’s very weird to watch some thing filmed in the 90s because I grew up in this era. This would’ve been considered completely normal and good behaviour when I was a kid. Now looking back it’s terrible. Absolutely horrible! But for whatever reason these people thought it was OK and it was a kind thing to do.

[@morganwhitworth484]

I was in a abusive foster homes for 6 yrs i know what some kids go thought note:this kinda reminds me of roots where they show u a slave like picking a animal that can talk this is so effing disgusting i also hate the way social workers look at you every single thing they're evaluating and judging you I've been through it I know

[@lookwhatjesusdid]

I am so happy! Thank you to the families who have the God given ministry of adoption. Blind love- love by choice not merit is a gift. God bless you all. I pray that your families are strengthened throughout the trying period of adjustment.

[@bezzerwizzer6448]

This children are grown up's now. I would love to hear how they are ! And how it feels to se this old episode. If they react like me,this unsettling feeling because it feels like a puppy marked... "This one is sweet and look at those,oh how sweet,i want that one..." I know the pupose is good. And the idea that the foster parent dont get to know nothing about the child can be good in some ways...it just felt a bit...off. Idk how to put it. I hope they all got good familys and lot of love and support.

[@cherokeerose9124]

I remember being in the hospital with my 3rd and the lady across from me her baby was prem..we got talking and she said the social worker is coming taker her daughter soon.. I asked if I chud ask her why.. and she told me it's cuz of her past of drugs..her other kid had been adopted..didn't know where put my face really

[@Respawnd_Again]

This is awesome, hopefully it’s still happening! Minus the treating it like livestock sales vibes.... they’re kids not cattle.

[@sansational15]

While I do not want to have my own biological children, I am completely open to foster care or adoption.

[@Kteanhle]

Same with me. There’s so many children in need

[@sansational15]

Yeah, it makes me sad that there are so many children in need of a loving home. I'm asexual, so I'd be very proud to adopt and/or foster children who deserve a loving home.

[@sylviavinsant578]

I love the respect you children's doing I have to keep my eyeson the world for all of our safety pea e love and happiness.

[@suzannev334]

I wonder if everything turned out Good for these children. It’s an older documentary, and I hope that they are doing fine. Maybe have a family of their own. Hope that they have found the love and family that they deserved and needed.

[@baby5968]

I saw an update on Jeffrey and his family. The mom and dad went on to have two biological sons. As an adult Jeffrey was estranged from the family for awhile, but he said it was nothing that they did, just a lot of trauma he was was dealing with. I don’t think they see him very often. The mom has tons of pictures of the bio kids on her Facebook page but none of Jeffrey. Jeffrey is only friends on Facebook with one of the sons, but neither his mom or dad .

[@suzannev334]

baby5968 aww that’s sad to hear.

[@coeurenpoche]

This is a really old video.I watched it many years ago on another channel. It was filmed in the 90's if I'm not mistaken

[@knory123]

This was filmed in 1998, as can be seen on the yellow shirts the children are wearing.

[@yeet_ellie3267]

I feel bad for Micheal 😔🥺

[@oliviahurley79]

My heart is breaking I want to adopt them even though I am a minor

[@caitlinlyons8376]

Seeing them on stage and everyone watching them is really creepy, they’re not dogs at a dog show

[@VanillasteaGorl]

I wish we can see updates!! Even though they’re probably grown up I just would like to hear from them!! and I would like to see new videos of the kids today

[@denisebard2474]

Please don't call them damaged. They already feel that way and they are looking for someone who will make them feel otherwise. (I am an adult who was in foster care).

[@sistermadrigalmorning233]

Yeah that whole like paragraph with that in it was just an awful way of looking at it. They're hurting and need healing, but people can heal, they're living people not like a broken toy.

[@klashkat]

What ever happened to Michael? :(

[@sistermadrigalmorning233]

I don't know but hopefully he had already been selected by another set of parents and that's why these ones went with James? I dunno. I hope he was adopted too.

[@billpiccolo4245]

What an amazing idea

[@kimdawkins1]

My first thought was of the slave auction blocks 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@zippyducky1704]

Yo, does that McDonalds they went to have a train?! Toot toot XD

[@traceywilliams3550]

Sadly speechless!

[@cherokeerose9124]

It's so sad. Poor kids having to be picked and if your not... The heartache. Everyone needs a loving home. Don't forget people..not all the birth mum's and biological dad's are on drugs or left them cause they don't care. We all assume it don't we. Wish all of them can have a loving home and family.

[@lildramatic4760]

since it’s obvious from the fashion that this is old, I checked the copyright date at the end. this is from from 1998, so those kids are way past adults now. Not that the foster system has necessarily improved

[@tayahosullivan5659]

Awwww 💕💐☀👨‍👩‍👦‍👦

[@annalloyd6180]

awhh i just want my parent to adopt them all!

[@jaesuell1079]

This is so archaic. Like this is how we are trying to recruit families.

[@samanthaanderson4185]

Are they any updates on the children and families?

[@mirjamvv145]

Crazy.. Pick one, choose me. Really? Children aren't puppies

[@RachelARBlack]

This is dreadful!! I knew it would be when the woman running the show flashed the photo of little Jeffrey around, lying through her teeth about wanting to take him home. For the sake of all things holy, sack her and stop those picnics. No child should be lined up for people to decide whether that child is suitable for their family. Those not chosen, what happens to their self esteem? I am astounded that this is allowed to happen. I feel so sad for those kids.

[@sylviavinsant578]

Thank y'all again for spending much time .I now have to go .stay safe keep your head up to the sky everyone

[@hafsabb]

Isn't the biggest problem with adoption not because there isn't enough families to adopt but the adoption process is too difficult.

[@HeatherDVA]

i know this is from the 90s be would be great for a flow up episode on them

[@harismohammad2005]

Apart from the implications this has of children being treated like animals, attracting people based on a picnic to adopt children so they can see them in a different light because they have ‘problems’ is wrong. Those children require proper support and letting people adopt based on a picnic is ridiculous. The file that you are given on a child of their life is important as it shows what they have been through and what the result of that is. Most children can ‘behave’ well for one day but the consequences of their treatment show over a period of time you spend with not a day. Also labelling them as problems is atrocious, as it suggests the issue is the child’s fault when it is a consequence of abuse or neglect. Before adopting a child you have to understand everything about them more so than your own children not giving people awareness of the conditions a child has can be a downfall ie with Jeffery he has behavioural conditions as a result he could tend to lash out when he is put under stress. If these parents choose to punish him because of that and harshly it could cause his condition to become worse. In order to solve a condition such as Jeffery’s patience and kindness would be required. If they can not support him and ‘return’ him he would end up worse and maybe lose hope.

[@krystalbilliot564]

This looks like it was filmed in the 80's or 90's just by their hairstyles. I'm in Louisiana so right next to them. I don't even know if they have these anymore.

[@jupiterkid100]

Is there an update?

[@pixiecrystal8455]

They look so sad to be put on a stage like puppies being auctioned😭😭😭😭 I watched this because I plan to adopt in the near future. I assume this is very old.... Times have changed

[@poohpaola]

My dream has always been to adopt an older kid... Unfortunately I got married to a wonderful older man and is in the age limit for adoption ☹️

[@dsgrbrowne1]

This is so disgusting! These orphan children are human beings.....picking and choosing a person based off of behaviour etc

[@dragonfly8936]

I see a lot of comments about how they are parading these kids and making it seem like an animal adoption event. What I see is a very underserved, underfunded, and strained system. The case workers are doing everything in their power to find these kids homes. And yes we are feeling some secondhand embarrassment but just imagine how these workers and kids feel? Knowing that the chances are slim and still trying to do everything in their power to find these kids homes. This is what a last resort looks like; not plan A, B, or C... this is plan V. Foster youth need our help now just as much as they needed it then.

[@alicetheegreet]

Any updates?

[@elizabethmarchand9194]

Based on clothing and hairstyles, this looks like it was filmed a few decades ago. Is that right? If so, do a follow up video

[@SHAWNA499]

Is an old video.i saw this years ago

[@cherokeerose9124]

I think the harsh truth about older kids being in care is that for some people..maybe most (just a guess) can't have their own baby's so adoption is the only thing for them to be able to raise a baby from the start. It is still sad though

[@VanillasteaGorl]

Lacy’s adoptive parents seem kinda slow. Hopefully she had a good life with them. Any updates???

[@hospitalqueen4047]

I want to adopt kids from the foster care system

[@zinnia3684]

I’m really concerned for the children.

[@teresabyrne8963]

What a lack of respect for these children. What a country

[@naomivantonder5344]

I cannot think that I would be able to foster a child for 4 years and then do not keep it. It would break my heart.