HOW I REALLY LOST MY ARM.

I am finally telling everyone how I lost my arm.......it was a shark. A BIG shark, a scary one too.
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just kidding. No shark. You'll just have to watch to find out!
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[@thekapanetor2496]

Vlog creations brought me here, and she’s so pretty who’s agree’s 😍

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Matthews Fan34 facts

[@Trooper-2006]

Fax

[@pinkyVVRR]

Ross brought me

[@arnoldwilson60]

Wow!! What a story...Well you are a major inspiration to people who have... both their arms and for people who have lost their arm to a ‘great white’ but here’s what I learned about myself listening to your story I think you mentioned something about ADD or something to that effect. I think I have that myself just listening to you LOL.It’s pretty as you are it’s gonna take more than just losing an arm you are gorgeous

[@DanoDev]

Ross brought me

[@its.dayday__]

I was watching hair videos and saw your how to put your hair in a ponytail w one hand video. Then I saw this and clicked on it. Love your positive energy

[@sof_85]

Dayana Briceus me too!!

[@neha_k_sangha]

Literally same

[@its.dayday__]

Haha 😂😂 great minds think alike? 😂

[@leahcollins5074]

Ditto! Lol crazy

[@monikaberndt9164]

Samee

[@re_i_gn]

Came here from Ross. I love your positivity! :)

[@sashabrownpants3979]

Charles brought me here! You’re an amazing person!

[@ellemijnsanders5516]

I find it really comforting to know that your nerves shot down so you don't feel anything when you go through something so painful. You are a very strong person

[@sarawhite1756]

Did anyone else notice how she unintentionally made a joke about having one arm? “I promise my hands don’t normally.. oops.. hand...” lol Do you girl. So glad that you’re still with us! 💙

[@martyjohnston397]

Ross sent me , thank you so much very inspirational. Its so amazing that you're still here after an accident like that. I certainly have all my limbs and dont know what you go through but i hurt my spine pretty bad four years ago and getting around has been a struggle since. You talking about how asking why and what if questions and why me really helped me. I did that for a long time myself. Its great to see your spirit and smile. Really helped me feel not alone and in better spirits.

[@EveCole23]

Well, you are an absolute breath of fresh air in this stale lung of KZbin. Thanks for your story, and thanks for having a great perspective on life.

[@prihaps]

Ross sent me here!

[@ebogar42]

Ross didn't do shit.

[@prihaps]

@@ebogar42 yes huh he did! He told me to. He’s my fwiend and he he said he told me to come here. Go ask him!

[@MeetFrizzie]

I’m having my left arm amputated due to osteosarcoma and I’ve been binging your videos. They have made me feel so much more calm and more hopeful about the future. Thank you.

[@toomuchsara42]

Julia Leigh I'm so sorry you're going through that. It's nice to see the power of the Internet doing good though. Good luck to you!! 💕

[@MeetFrizzie]

Fibercrazed thank you !

[@AllThingsTashy]

Good luck to you 💛

[@MeetFrizzie]

Natasha Holder thank you 💖

[@BettyHorrid]

Julia Leigh stay positive, stay busy, do things you love. Wish you the best!

[@jasmincleo]

Amazing story , amazing attitude 🦋 “It was a really bad week” I feel like I can never use this line again

[@nessarochelle7227]

jasmincleo in 2014 I almost died of an ruptured appendix and the day that I was going home my dog drowned! Definitely a bad week

[@laurencharles4854]

Please make a video about your grieving process. I would love to hear how you were able to come to terms with losing your arm and how you were able to get over it and be happy again.

[@abbycadabbie]

“I don’t have health insurance” 😂 that is honestly me

[@foreverbells]

Wow, I'm the same age as you and from Washington. Your pony tail video was in my recommendations, and I'm so glad I watched it! You are awesome, I subscribed like, 2 minutes into this video.

[@selmaxainey9172]

Isabel Johnson I just came here after the ponytail video..she's pretty awesome

[@abbiekay7505]

This video just popped up on my recommended. You're so beautiful- inside and out! Your story is truly inspiring !

[@Scoopski_Potato]

Like, no bullshit, your outlook is positively amazing. Your sense of humor with Ross is *pure gold!* You are a brilliant example of why I still have faith in humanity. Thank you!

[@meganabsten]

Adia Noeta thank you!

[@torriestringer5513]

Megan I can relate to you. I just lost my left arm in July 2019. It was a freak accident. I fell out of bed, hit my head was unconscious n not sure how long I was unconscious but when I was found my arm was purple. I was airlifted to USA in Mobile, AL. I was in hospital for a month. This has been the hardest thing I’ve ever gone thru. I’m still struggling putting my hair up n tying my shoes. I’m trying n this will not defeat me. You’re an inspiration to me.

[@Shulughbar199X]

Anyone else here from ross

[@colevq37]

MooglyOf300 AKA liltoenail yep

[@ISEEORBS]

Yes

[@cranberryjuice3998]

Yep.

[@ebogar42]

What the fuck is that? A place?

[@spencerguy1186]

Yes

[@cristobalcepeda1190]

You were so great in Ross’s video. Very inspiring

[@cami.gina.]

I kept thinking "omg did she die" but she's literally telling the story.

[@maurakay1917]

Clicked on the video because the “she gone” literally made me spit out my tea when I saw it 😂😂

[@DRDJkoolade]

New subscriber from RossCreations! You were sooooo funny on his channel!!!

[@HansBjorgman]

I hope you make more funny videos with Ross again someday! I really enjoyed watching you and Ross together.

[@brittanyguy1400]

12:06 "My hands don't normally...hand... doesn't normally look like that" hahaha, perfect

[@vani519]

Megan, you are awesome! I‘m a trauma surgeon (one of those „See you tomorrow John!“ after about 10 hrs of surgery*lol) and I really celebrate patients like you. Hope a lot of people learn some things from you and how you deal with your story. Well done.

[@christijohnson2320]

You are so lucky to be alive. My nieces husband is an amputee from the knee down from a motorcycle accident. Initially, the doctors were able to save his leg but he walked with a severe limp and was in excruciating pain 24/7. He eneded up choosing amputation and says it was the best decision he ever made.

[@Vei2aC]

your a beautiful human Megan, im happy you are still here to share this with everyone, thank you so much.

[@xMaverickFPS]

came here from Ross's channel. i'm so sorry about your arm, but it makes me super happy to see you have a good sense of humor about it.

[@whiskeywolf8938]

Came here from vlog creations, funny video! About a year ago, the lower half of my arm was detached from my upper arm at the humerus. I liked hearing your story because I had the same experience in shock and with the funny bone feeling I was wearing a sweatshirt so I couldn’t tell my bone came through my skin. I had to go through surgery and all that but lucky I was able to get it surgically reattached, real respect to you for what happened.

[@emilylochauski75]

I’m a nurse and it means so much to us in the medical field that we are appreciated. You are a bad ass girl! And I loved listening to your story.

[@laviniasheenaconrad5686]

You're My Hero 🥰 I lost my right arm 9months ago. Watching your video has been a total blessing. Keep inspiring! ❤️❤️❤️

[@POW8255]

I here because of Ross. You’re a beautiful soul

[@Montauk198]

Came here from Vlog Creations.. Love your positivity.

[@jamiew3604]

Megan, I remember vividly your Dad telling us this story about a week after you chose amputation. In the mist of all of the trama, there was a huge gleam in his eye. He was so proud of how courageous you were in your choice to amputate. He could not quit talking about how proud he was of your maturity in making the decision. Props for making the most of this and staying positive! A true inspiration!

[@KyraWhitlock]

Jamie Whitlock ayyy I’m a Whitlock too!

[@birteschelling8103]

Thank you so much, Megan. You helped me so much during the last weeks. I did not lose my arm, I just could not use it because of an accident. Your videos helped me and humiliated me - the humiliatoin was the bet therapy. Keep going - all my love to you!

[@caitlin1160]

I wanna know the whole story the whole grieving process, how long I took to heal. This was such an unfinished story and I’m so invested! I need the next story

[@stacyhamilton1421]

I want to thank you for helping me so much when I shattered my right shoulder 7 months ago. I had surgery with plates and screws put in and rendering my right dominant arm useless at the time. I couldn't bring myself to watch what happened to you at the time because my trauma was too fresh. I have about 85% use of my arm now and will forever be grateful for your help. You are an inspiration! Merry Christmas!!

[@pablobaccarezza]

Megan, I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my left arm 14 years ago and I remember that during the duel I felt as if I had lost a loved one. I am very glad that you have supreme it and are so animated. I like the will you put on it. Cheer up!

[@EricErnst]

I found your channel through vlog creations video. Funny stuff. You don't need fancy equipment to create a channel. I've literally use my cellphone to film all of my how-to automotive videos. Do your thing and people will follow. I'm sure you already know this, but you're drop dead gorgeous.

[@Joniyah444]

Friend of a friend had the same thing happen, except he died. I can’t imagine what it’s like but that is the bright side you still have a beautiful life ahead of you.

[@ArsiniC11]

Saw you on Vlog Creations. What an amazing story. I had to keep watching because there were so many details and events i wanted to know.

[@julhoeff]

Hey Girl, LOVE your channel!!! I was in a bike accident a couple of weeks ago & kinda destroyed my left hand. Your “how to videos” have been super helpful! Thank you for sharing your story & everything else…you are now one of my heroes!

[@mariaxo3588]

Lmfaooooo "I promise my hands...hand.. don't normally look like that" hahahaha you're too cute. love your personality and outlook

[@MrTaylor709]

Just had reconstructive surgery on my shoulder after having the exact same accident in the the exact same senario , and !!! The exact same make and model of side by side ! No shit. I dont know , just thought I'd throw this in here . I like your spirit Megan and you're a pleasure to listen too ! Take care and all the best 😊

[@jmnc05]

I don't know why this video was recommended to me but wow what a crazy story, love your inspiration and ability to be positive from this experience. You seem like such a beautiful person inside and out.

[@juliepayne4113]

I was in a horrible car accident (with fatalities) 5 years ago. My right leg was 95% pulled off and i broke 25 bones. I had the option to amputate but decided not to and after 13 surgeries and months in the hospital i was able to keep it. I am still in a wheelchair and in pain. I regret not being brave enough to amputate. My question to u is do u ever regret making the choice to amputate?? Also, u are SO brave to make such a huge choice at 14!!

[@benfrazer5290]

I retired from being a Flight Paramedic and a Trauma PA and you are an amazing young woman! You surely do have a guardian angel! Your very brave and well adjusted! I lost the use of my left hand to bullets and I know some of the struggles you face, but your Wonder Woman!

[@Lillyparkernewsom]

Ben Frazer Thanks for your service

[@jbbevan]

I know you made this over 6 years ago, Megan, but (apparently for a first effort) you did it so well. I can't imagine having to go through your trauma @ age 14. That is when "aesthetics" become the center of your life and "popularity" is what people live for. So to have that happen to you....wow....yes, I'm sure the grieving was even more intense than the physical changes. I am old enough to be your grandfather (and then some). I have been widowed twice and thus understand THAT dimension of grieving....but that heals after a few months....whereas you carry around a constant reminder, so I can imagine that it goes on, for you, in quiet alone moments. God bless. PS: Yes, I have guardian angel stories of my own. The pinched artery is classic !!

[@nickwood1062]

You've given a 32 yr old courage today. I'm getting my hand amputated and I was scared to go through with it but not anymore. God bless!

[@stanpitman2820]

hope your operation went well homie

[@nickwood1062]

@@stanpitman2820 thanks. It did go well, and I really appreciate your comment.

[@stanpitman2820]

@@nickwood1062 great to know!

[@jalisawilkins3900]

Your video was recommended it was super random and I'm happy it was cause this is so uplifting and you have a beautiful spirit and outlook on life

[@sav6695]

Jalisa Wilkins I agree! :)

[@tiffanyj5977]

Please update us on the grieving process and how it felt losing a limb. Thank you for sharing your story is so inspiring and interesting

[@happymimi5668]

I was sitting here with a broken arm feeling kind of sorry for myself til hearing what you went through. I now have a better perspective on my situation. So thank you for sharing your life story with us. Also, I found you because I searched for how to do things like my hair with 1 arm. I’m 67 yrs old and I broke my left arm. I am left handed, and inept at doing things with my right hand, but I’m learning, and thanks to you I’m pretty sure I can get my hair up now. Thank you, and God bless you. Sheri

[@theparkers9656]

Cool, can I tell you my story. Ok. At age 11 I had to go hospital twice to save my life.. I had a pocket of poisonous fluid on my kidney.. the first trip was to drain it out. I was in there for a week and a half.. the second time I had mayor surgery to completely remove it. It was successful... But I get how it seems like a dream

[@daddygromlegs1044]

Here from ross! You were absolutely hilarious hahaha, definitely earned a sub. Keep up the good work congrats on 50k subs

[@Welyn]

motivational! Inspiring to see that you have such a positive outlook! It shines through! Thank you so much for this video! :)

[@GoldenGunsGamesGGG]

What is the professional rust god doing here?

[@whatdadogdoin6178]

O shit welyn

[@travis_1]

Ay yo bro what ya doin here?

[@Docmiller4425]

God truly allowed you to live when in reality most people would have been gone. You have an inspiring story.

[@shilamarie4094]

Wow your story is truly miraculous, and you for sure have a guardian angel!

[@kevinmg161]

Honestly first saw you from Ross's vid and saw how funny you are about everything but just now realized how amazing you're story is. Hope to maybe see some content in the future 🤙

[@corinne2142]

I found you while looking for a tutorial about how to apply makeup one-handed since I have hand surgery coming up. Once I saw the makeup tutorial, I looked for more information about you and found this video. Holy cow! You are an inspiration! I won't be wasting any time feeling down during the 4 months I won't have use of my hand. Thank you for putting your story out there and for giving me a huge dose of perspective. I'm glad you're alive!

[@Mariaamorts]

This is the first video I’ve ever seen from you.. I am so happy I came across it. My dad lost his arm 4 yrs ago in a car accident, he passed away a few days after bcus of other issues from the accident.. but watching this brought me a bit of closure since I wasn’t able to see him at all during all of his hospital stay since this happened on their way back from vacation in Mexico... you’re an awesome lady 💓

[@bellanovia1648]

Wow I'm so glad I found your channel, I really needed to see some real stuff I'm tired of going on KZbin and all I somehow keep tracing back to is pranks and "I try following blank's tutorial" . I feel like it's making me stupid seeing all the same recycled mediocre content when I try going on here. And your videos are really interesting and meaningful some are really educational. I feel more motivated listening to your story, I'm only two videos in but I'm definitely watching more and subscribing!!!!! That's crazy you had such a scary life changing experience at only 14 years old I can't imagine how big of a change that must be. But you have a very lovable personality and I think it will take you really far and bring you great success for sure. Your positivity is very inspiring. It's refreshing to see genuine, meaningful and helpful content. It's hard to find that because KZbin keeps throwing trash in my face I have to go digging for the stuff I actually enjoy watching. I find myself sitting there clicking on stuff and halfway through I'm like this is so boring and overdone what am I even watching rn but like thats all I see in my feed. Thanks for making KZbin a better place 😂❤❤❤

[@veigaropequenomagosupremo8333]

Bella novia hey beautiful girl, can i have your Instagram?

[@AcroSstMe]

My name IS Amanda Elizabeth though😂 and I've had Drs mix up my charts with another patient during a life threatening situation at the hospital. Sorry if this is random but i had to share. You're a miracle and absolutely stunning BTW 💓💓

[@underthestarsoverthemoon4259]

The thing you said about the nerves shutting down, when I was in a go-kart with my brother, he was swerving on purpose and I was laughing because it was fun and stuff. But I flip over the rail on the go-kart(I had a seat belt on but if I didn’t I feel I would have fell out completely) but my arm started rubbing against the back wheel. After my brother pulled me up I thought my arm was gone. I couldn’t feel a thing. My eyes were watery from crying but when I would blink they cleared a bit so I can see and I looked down and saw that my arm was still there but I was touching it but I couldn’t feel it at all. I had a huge like “burn” type thing from my shoulder to my wrist. Hurt like a bitch. I’m really glad I didn’t lose my arm and I’m REALLY glad my hair didn’t get caught in the wheel.

[@Menoetius.]

Here from Vlog creations. And omfg what a story! Love the part about your beautiful paramedic❤ and that main artery being pinched so you didn't bleed out. Loving your energy and your positive vibe

[@marcelloenriquez395]

Such inspiring story. I just saw your video on IG and the fact that you “make fun of your disability” helps people to understand how we should face tragedy. Thanks for sharing and for having such wonderful soul. ❤️

[@cherylcarlysle1629]

Even though this is a video about how you lost your arm...I was just drawn to your voice and your style and your beautiful hair. I barely noticed if you had an arm or not. What a difficult decision you had to make at 14. Congrats on making your life positive.

[@alexnrachel1234]

Literally so brave, so cool, so chill and down to earth, wow girl you got the perfect attitude IM JEALOUS. the positivity you have about something that could seem so detrimental like YES you are inspiring girl

[@catesmommy2006]

Everyone: Ross sent me Me: CuRIoSiTy sENt mE

[@PBKreviews]

Wow, love your personality. If only more people in the world had such a great personality and self esteem like you do, would be a much better place to live. I'm glad I came across you in Ross's video, made my day. He's really lucky to have you in his life and I feel you become a part of many viewers lives, if even in a small way. Keep living it up!

[@drndrfnz8786]

People like you who go through trauma and then talk about their experiences show me how strong you truly are. It doesn’t matter how similar or different our stories are, you are an inspiration to anyone who has dealt with pain and/or loss. I went into science/medicine because I wanted to help people but you are just helpful if not more. You give people hope. If you’re like me you tell yourself you’re just being honest when you share your story but I hope you know that it means so much more to everyone else.

[@TheZombie13777]

This woman is absolutely gorgeous

[@DA_BOID]

TheZombie13777 Yup.

[@ruthiekonrad5470]

14 years old when this happened?! Holy shit, I am amazed by your courage at such a young age.

[@bro9217]

No she said when she was fourteen not fourteen years ago, but thinking about it true, very true.

[@avabargeloh1869]

That is what her comment said

[@Nik-pr7ox]

Lil' Spy I think you read his / her comment wrong

[@chrissykitty3281]

"She gone" in the thumbnail 😂

[@TachySteve]

Came over from vlogcreations I am a Bradenton native I used to work out with Charles at the youfit on manatee. He is a good dude. I couldn’t imagine loosing a limb. You are definitely a strong person.

[@themollyrich]

“she gone” lmaooo damn. You have such a positive attitude! Good vibes 💕

[@smlbean2380]

Molly Richter OMG I JUST SAW THAT AND WAS WONDERING IF ANYONE ELSE DID TOO WTF GURL UR SO TOUGH AND POSITIVE❣️

[@alystairmabloch401]

So much strength and positivity. You're a beautiful person in every way

[@g3wb]

Came here from Ross you’re hilarious and beautiful

[@illiteratecup9094]

same

[@LiLNitr0us]

Saw your awesome attitude on Ross creations. Really inspired about what Ross had said about your perspective and how you live your life in the end of the video. Anyways, just wanted to stop by and say you’re an awesome person and thank you for motivating me mentally. You rock 🙏

[@Jimbozz230]

Charles' vid brought me here. I had chills throughout the story. I've had my tendons on my collarbone shredded from a major car accident so I couldn't use my left arm for a while, but never using it again is beyond me. Especially with you making the decision to. Big ups and subbed

[@darleneklonk9128]

So glad you were given a second chance in life..you have a purpose in life to encourage others who are going through really hard trials to fight for their life! God bless you..love your channel!

[@pba1219a]

Holy cow, I was sitting here mesmerized by your story. You seem like quite a remarkable young woman!

[@ryanradowicz4982]

I just saw you on Rosses channel and you have to be the best person I've seen on here yet. Your sense of humor is so amazing and your personality is the same😇🥰 I'm 500# and your inspiration just made me want to do better for myself. Life has not been easy but I'm not going to stop trying to do better. Thank you for being you😇💞💞

[@SecondPlace92]

You are such a strong person. Most people would just give up and just let an accident like this bring them down forever, but you have so much positivity. It really makes me smile for some reason.

[@beccabean5770]

Hi Megan, Your video came up in my YT feed. Thank you for sharing your story. I was born & raised in WA state ( Bellingham) & was an RN at Harborview Medical Center from 2008-2013 . Hearing your story brought back memories of working there & cases we would see. I found myself saying- yep PCA ( patient controlled analgesia) , & compartment syndrome. You mentioned saline & that is given to keep your blood pressure up from blood loss, trauma, shock etc. yes the hospital is a trip. Praise God the decision was easy for you & that you are alive! God bless you & I can tell your experience & channel is blessing many others.

[@CantaloupeSwitchback]

I stumbled on to this video, and what a compelling story! I enjoyed your brave matter-of-fact determination. Since you seem open to questions - I noticed you still articulate your left shoulder at times. Do you still feel your arm making certain gestures? I'm aware of phantom limb syndrome, but I'm asking if you feel the gestures as your shoulder seems to move in relation to those movements. That sweater is also gorgeous! An interesting choice - off-the-shoulder, both highlighting and covering the residual limb. But observations aside, you're cool. I'm glad I clicked on the video

[@sydthekid69420]

The shark comment in the description killed me. I’m missing fingers (since birth) and I always joke and say it was a shark lol.

[@Centerstrain01]

You are an inspiration to us all!

[@TooHooWrong]

Oh, as an EMT I can tell you what they meant when they said there wasn't enough time to stabilize. They meant stabilize your arm into a neutral position onto a make shift arm cast. It's a process where they could tie your arm onto a hard rod like thing that EMTs have on their rig

[@bombadeer8231]

Megan! Dear god you are brave. You have me in tears. You almost bled out twice. Nine years ago and it seems like yesterday. Happy 2018 to you, too! Old guy here (69). Raced motorcycles. Lucky to be in one piece. Greetings from NJ. ~Bomba

[@kateelizabeth8905]

“Felt like I was sleeping with a wet Shih Tzu” I just laughed way harder than I probably should have 😂 you’re awesome

[@amandawatson5931]

Hell of a decision for a 14-year old to make. Strong woman.

[@josrob9488]

Omg you were 14?! Damn. You’re so beautiful and strong I admire you. That whole experience I’m sure is traumatizing but you pushed through and didn’t let that control your life. New sub I love you already

[@lailabranwyn5786]

It is so wonderful to hear your story and how you survived! Actually, my uncle is an amputee, only he lost his right arm when he fell 80 feet and him loosing his arm is what saved his life!

[@deathsmiles4745]

Megan, i love you the way you are. Never change that. Keep on fighting. keep on smiling. Been clinical dead announced. Been through hell and back as well because of physical issues. Had a motorcycle accident back in 2007. Broke my hip, shattered wrist. some other things. Woke up 2 hours later in the hospital. remembering 3 vague moments. Then my fight began. it's now 12 years later. when i look back.. and look at the man i have become. i get a pretty big smile. people around me would have never though i would came out of it this strong. The strength we humans get when we suffer a pretty big fight about life and dead. our own life.. and there is no other option then to fight for it. It's a gift. Most people will not understand such strength. I love it, to see the way you accepted what happend. It's your history. it made you the person you are today. all i can say is.. i am proud of you the way you fought through it. and respect to all the support that has been there for you. when you look back. look back and smile. Your way more powerful than you think. there's way more pages to be written in your life :)

[@michaelh.9686]

Wow the fact that you didn’t bleed out is incredible. You are VERY lucky considering nobody tried to prevent you from bleeding out before the paramedics arrived (from what I could tell from your story). And if the arteries weren’t pinched I feel it would be nearly impossible to stop the bleeding long enough for medical assistance. Incredible story

[@tyasialaze5104]

I like... have no words. Im just glad you are ok

[@gklinger]

Great video! You're a natural. Well spoken, funny, and engaging. You should consider becoming a professional broadcaster.

[@amyhawker9516]

Megan, I'm so sorry this happened to you so young but I want you to know that I appreciate your how-to videos. I'm 62 and only have the use of one arm. I'm growing my hair out because a short 'do requires a lot more styling and two hands, you have already helped me a lot. I appreciate your tutorials!

[@nsk370]

Damn. This is terrible! I'm glad you have been able to recover both phisycally and especially mentally.

[@oxbrizzlemynizzlexo]

Side note: you’re amazing at accents!!!

[@courtneymoreau4695]

My younger sister is missing her arm, She gets to go to this camp for kids with limb loss called Camp No Limits, It is an amazing camp I suggest for any amputees out there.