Melanie Fiona- Is Breast Really Best?

[@meetthechambers]

I sooo love this! I needed this chile! Thank you for sharing your story. Breastfeeding was definitely a struggle for me and I felt defeated at first when it just wasn't working out for us and I had to supplement. I still continued to breastfeed, but then ran into other issues...mastitis and it was absolutely awfuuul. I just couldn't take it anymore! I am glad I got to breastfeed her for the amount of time that I did. I salute all the moms that breastfeed, but I definitely don't knock the ones who don't. You are so right...it's not the end of the world and we shouldn't feel that way if it doesn't work out for us. I wasn't breastfed either xoxo Keep sharing your stories, you're amazing

[@ellaarkin70]

I knew it was time to stop breastfeeding when my son pointed to my right breast & said this one gives more milk then that one (left breast). Um yeah, that was it for him. Plus he was going on three years old. You are doing a great job. I wish I had these vlogs when I had my children. You are so awesome.

[@tierracullins2656]

I'm not a mom yet and this is so inspiring. Thank you

[@stm2518]

Thank you for making this video. There is too much judgment on women who choose to formula feed! So refreshing to see a public figure like yourself speaking on this topic. I think you've made so many women feel more at peace.

[@marissawilson4644]

A mommy and daddy vlog sounds amazing!

[@danar6950]

I'm the mother of 15 and 6 year old boys with no plans on having more children. I think your perspective and insight is spot on, and I enjoy watching your videos.

[@kallykatsiras8552]

It is so true, there's so much pressure to breastfeed nowadays. I did also attend breastfeeding workshops during pregnancy and was convinced that would be the only way to feed my baby. No one really tells you how different it's is for each mom though...My milk did take time to come in and had to supplement w formula, in the meantime my baby got so used to it that one day just he didn't want to be breast fed and clearly preferred formula. As a mom you can't help but think where you did go wrong and feeling guilty for not being able to breastfeed. It did take me awhile to realize exactly what you said that it doesn't really matter as long as your baby is happy and healthy. Thank you again for sharing, Looking forward to your next blog! Xx

[@latoyalee8961]

This. This video is needed. I have breastfed all three of my girls for about 3 months but had to stop because I had to start taking my seizure meds again. Through out my pregnancies I refused to take my meds because of possible risks to the babies. I felt terrible about not breastfeeding longer, but they are now 12, 9,and 7 and doing just fine! Beautiful girls and are smart and creative people.

[@MelanieFiona]

Health first always! Those girls need their mama around. You did a great job!! xo

[@latoyalee8961]

+Melanie Fiona Thank you for the support! Motherhood is such a gift to cherish but we all need the support of other mothers that understand. The laughs the cries the anger the appreciation all of it! We are here to support you and each other. Thanks for making this platform.

[@MyLivv]

Melanie, I stumbled upon your first vlog the other day and I just wanted to let you know that you are such an inspiring person. As a mom to be, it's a breath of fresh air to listen to the realness of pregnancy and life after. Thank you for your realness and please continue to post more blogs! Blessings!

[@MelanieFiona]

Thank You! I wish you the best on your journey xo

[@TaeGregoire]

I seriously adore you! Your positivity and realness is just amazing!

[@MelanieFiona]

Love. xo

[@vikkild2243]

Great video and very encouraging Melanie. I have three children and had c-section with all of them. My first two were formula fed and my last one I was able to breast feed. I breast fed her for two years and five months. As women we have to continue to encourage each other no matter which way we choose to feed our children. Thank you

[@ABeautifulMess101]

Thanks for your honesty

[@DreamAchieveRepeat]

My son latched on very quickly in the hospital. But I am thankful for the breastfeeding classes I took prior to delivery because I also had an emergency c-section and only certain holding positions worked. Breast is best, & I also supplemented with formula. Thanks for sharing your story :)

[@sheneesie]

Pumping is not an indication of how much milk your breast are producing. If you decide to supplement, you must stimulate your breast by pumping otherwise your supply will decrease. If you are struggling especially early on, please please please see a lactation consultant preferably an international board certified lactation consultant. Women are not failures for struggling to breast feed. Our healthcare system has failed them. There is not enough support for women in the area of lactation.

[@airianbattle9758]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey from labor to breast feeding. I'm one month postpartum and I'm struggling with producing milk. I was doing good at first even had a stash and then after 2 wks i noticed my baby was still hungry. I've considered formula but I'm so determined to make breast feeding work so I've been pumping extra hard and my baby eats almost 3to4 oz so I breast feed as much and give her breast milk through bottle to finish. But I've cried so many nights and this vlog made me feel so much better about the pressure I've been giving myself about breast feeding and formula. Nice to know I'm not alone. Side note: she loves when I sing "Johnny" to her when she gets uneasy

[@deedeejames3722]

this is so great, I'm literally sitting here breastfeeding almost in tears because I'm struggling with my supply and no one around me understands. but I know God has a plan, I'm trusting him. everything I give her formula it breaks my heart but your right feeding her is best. so thank you so much

[@MelanieFiona]

Surrender. All you can do is your best. Don't get down on yourself...A stressed out mommy is a stressed out baby. xo

[@deedeejames3722]

+Melanie Fiona thanks, and I do put alot of pressure on myself to be super woman. and I don't allow others to help sometimes and that could bring on stress as well. I also didn't know being stress can hurt your milk supply.

[@etjfan32]

I love and appreciate these vlogs. My son is almost 9 mos old and was breastfed w/ supplementation up to 5 mos. My husband & I got clear on one thing very early on...we are parents to the child WE have not to the child anyone else has/had. We don't allow anyone to impose their expectations for our parenting on us. The job is challenging enough on its own. Continue walking your path! Blessings!!

[@MelanieFiona]

Amen! Xo

[@bdawson0716]

I am so happy you posted this video. I went through the same thing and THIS is my exact routine. I'm content with formula and breastfeeding my son although I felt awful at first, my sons health Is what's matters the most

[@aliya24]

You're beautiful, Melanie. Very informative!

[@marissawilson4644]

I don't have kids yet but I welcome different insights on breastfeeding. Love you Melanie F. #NotificationGang

[@CRCL20]

Thanks for sharing and being so honest. As a new mom of a 3 month old baby girl, I had to supplement when I went back to work in order to keep up with her appetite. As moms we have so many things to worry about; most importantly the well-being of baby and ourselves. We have to do what is best for our individual situations. Thanks again for uplifting others who are also on this journey.

[@MelanieFiona]

Love. xo

[@ronisharichards1338]

Thank you for sharing Melanie! I'm due any day now and I want to try nursing and I appreciate you being open and honest about your experience!

[@shametris01]

this vlog is everything you are so much more emotionally healthy in this situation than i was. it took me maybe 6 months to feel good about having to pump. and kudos to you for pumping, nursing and bottle feeding that is round the clock tripple work.

[@melocotones30316]

Thank you Melanie for your story! It's always interesting to hear what mothers go through to do what's best for their babies. I have 2 kids I have breastfed with one on the way and for each child it has been a different struggle. I'm all for breastfeeding your child, if you can, but if you can't, or choose not to, then THAT'S OKAY. Thank you for that message!

[@MelanieFiona]

Love. Thanks for watching xo

[@CCbyDominic]

Your videos are very inspiring! I'm not even a mom yet (maybe in a couple of years) and I feel so excited for that journey whenever if comes lol! Thank you! I would love to see a Mommy and Daddy vlog post.

[@MelanieFiona]

It's so fun... all the ups all the downs. Thanks for watching xo

[@DeighyAynne]

keep em coming Mel we love u

[@satnadc12]

I had the preeclampsia, the emergency scary c-section. My milk came in late and it wasn't enough. I was supplementing by day 5. Lord, I had a uti and I needed to have two teeth removed within a month of giving birth. I just quit bc I was on so many meds I didnt want to expose my LO to that. So now Im thinking about relactation. I appreciate your testimony. I cried for weeks about the breast feeding and my crazy birth experience. I know now that Im not the only one going through these emotions. Thanks. I have a beautiful baby boy thats healthy and happy that's what matters.

[@yasminvillanueva3141]

Stacey Anderson yea That's what matters

[@JMyers2210]

When I had my daughter It felt like other moms would silently judge me for not breastfeeding. I use to constantly have to defend my choice to formula feed. I wanted too breastfeed so badly but My milk wasn't coming in at all after my C-section, and my daughter lost a pound! in the first 7 days after birth. Once I made peace with the fact that i was feeding her even if it wasn't from the breast things were a lot smoother. I no longer cared that I was being judged. I made sure to compare labels and ingredients then watched how my daughter reacted to the formula. Like you said. Feeding your baby is what's best!

[@borgadmin]

Initial weight loss is perfectly normal even with a good breastfeeding start. One pound in the first week is not necessarily unusual, depending on the birth weight. In the first few days, the so-called collostrum is still being formed, which contains hardly any fat. Get to grips with the basics.

[@MiVidaBellisima]

I've never had a child but I really appreciate these videos! Our views are very similar I want to have my kids natural and breastfeed as long as possible but I've never considered alternatives in case life doesn't go as planned. Thank you for sharing your story and educating and inspiring women!!

[@StrawbericaStrwbrrys]

LOVE THIS VIDEO!! I will be a first time MOM in 4 weeks. GREAT information based on your own experience. We all have our own journey into motherhood and its nice to hear that its not all glitter and gold lol but more so trial and error as well as finding what works for YOU

[@MelanieFiona]

Good Luck! Xo

[@soulamazen7849]

i also had a c section and i tried breast feeding. unfortunately my milk never came down, even after a few months. i did feel like a failure at first because everyone seemed to force breastfeeding down my throat. so i had to take the formula route. but my son is one now and is as healthy as can be. at the end of it all, it's about what's best for the baby. im loving these videos, mel! 💜

[@MelanieFiona]

Success!!! You raised a healthy child... You did great! xo

[@FlyWon]

I researched sooooo much about breastfeeding during pregnancy, and my experience was so different. I was expecting this "engorgement" my mother and every other mother and lactation consultant told me about. Although i could produce some drops of milk. I never felt engorgement! I was waiting waiting waiting and weeks later nada. I offered the breast every two hours logged minutes on apps etc. i supplemented for 2 weeks while offering the breast and constantly pumping trying to "get my milk to come in" in hospital she lost more than 10% off her birth weight. I Tried fenugreek, mothers milk tea yadda yadda waiting for this engorgement then she began to gain weight and i realized even without engorgement she was getting what she needed! I nursed and pumped (at work) for 15 months! So proud of my mini

[@FlyWon]

Oh i had an emergency c section as well

[@sxylilvirgoshortie653]

I love the video please continue with them. I had a very hard time breastfeeding I never knew that my c-section played a part in that. so thank you so much for that info.

[@portia24cooke]

orange juice made my milk come in, my grandmother told me to drink some.. It was late coming in too and I was elated when it did. fenugreek also will work for letting it come in or increasing supply. I used the fenugreek when I had to go a week without nursing and my supply went down. It worked really quickly.

[@MelanieFiona]

fenugreek is great! xo

[@brittanystibble7807]

People spend too much time WORRYING instead of spending time knowing your body is going what it's suppose to do. As difficult as it is. Nursing every hour is normal it's to help increase the milk by the stimulation. I'm still nursing a 15m preemie baby. My postpartum hit me hard because of my child being premature but dedication is key after 2 months I had over 1000oz. I didn't let the concern of not having enough milk become an issue. Just stressing over that will decrease your supply let alone. If you have to supplement then do so, but don't give up. !!!! It's completely worth it.

[@dionnecroker1922]

But breastfeeding is sooooo worth it stick to it as long as possible! My son is 16 months and I breastfeed for 4 months but he doesn't suffer from nearly as many colds as other kids in his class. And the bond that you are creating oh goodness girl I could go on and on. Best of luck!

[@fatimatoure2664]

can you imagine a single mom going through this

[@keeshrenee6314]

Loving these mommy videos!!! keep them coming!!!! please do one on how you guys handled sleep deprivation. I'm currently pregnant and I'm a little worried about the expected decrease in sleep that's expected to come.

[@MelanieFiona]

Great idea! xo

[@72kmc]

Yes someone tells the truth. It hurts a little bit but it is worth it. My 23 yr old never gets sick but has intestinal issues.

[@lionloxs]

I 💜 these blogs. You & Jared are awesome parents. Great topic. My favorite comment was "feeding your baby is what's best".. Yay to including Jared & the daddy perspective. Be blessed.

[@MelanieFiona]

Thank you! Xo

[@miszlo21]

yeah I breast fed only for 8 weeks till I had to go back to work and I just couldn't keep up with pumping a day supply of milk so while I was at work I supplemented formula. I felt bad but after a while I had to come to an understanding this works for me and my life style and thank God my baby was and is still healthy. My advice is find what works for you and your baby. Your mother hood is your journey and stay strong it's all worth it when you see your little ones progression 🤗

[@Marissa_Hope]

I am a new mom to be I have estimated 7 weeks left... And these videos are giving me so much insight on to just go with the flow ... Everything I have planned just might not be what pans out and I'll be okay with with that as long as my baby is healthy... Please do the video about the bottles and formula ... Trying to learn as much as possible ❤️

[@nateawilliams7309]

Beautiful testimony. Thank you for sharing!

[@MelanieFiona]

Love. xo

[@lovejay3157]

I'm so happy that you made this video.. My son wouldn't latch and I was so for breastfeeding him but that just didn't happen the way I wanted it to and I had to give him formula.. I felt bad for a while because I knew that breast is what was best for him and all the nutritional benefits from it. But I had to do what I had to do to make sure my baby was eating and not hungry! Thank you for sharing your story for those of us that just couldn't do it the way we necessarily wanted to and not to be so hard on ourselves! GOD BLESS

[@naturalhairbliss]

Having a good lactation consultant on hand in those early days can also shape the type of nursing experience you will have. Someone to give you tips on the correct latch (which doesn't hurt) and giving you extra support from a pro in those early days when you're not sure what's going on as a first time mom.

[@MelanieFiona]

Great Advice! I've seen several lactation consultants... they were a great help! xo

[@jsanchez-williams2115]

yes to ALL the blogs. yes yes yes.

[@lashawn711]

I don't get why people feel like breastfeeding is an all or nothing thing. If you can do only once a day then great. If you can do is 6 times a day for 2 years that's great too! I'm so so so happy that I'm able to breastfeed my 10 month old twins but honestly for my family it was more for financial reasons that I wanted to breastfeed.

[@tashamar1117]

I don't know if you were told this but if you nurse him when he is hungry you will produce the amount of milk needed to fill him up. supply and demand. plus if you pump after you nurse that also helps increase your supply. I nursed until he was no longer interested. what I mean is if we sat down for a feeding and he was more interested in TV, I assumed he was not that hungry. anyway he was a 1yr old by then. bottle less to produce more milk. I hope that helps

[@JuicyBee2013]

I am glad you posted this! I just had my baby by c section on May 27th. I had a bad experience.My baby was hungry and loosing weight. My left breast would not produce hardly any milk. I had a fever.I made the decision to stop Monday June 6 by using the cabbage method. :). my mother in law made me feel guilty about not breast feeding. After seeing this video, I feel a lot better. I would like to know what kind of formula you use.

[@MelanieFiona]

You did great! Be proud of your efforts xo

[@lovely1190]

SHE IS PERFECT ..........................SO BEAUTIFUL

[@stacemoney1]

Breastfeeding is one of THEEEE most rigorous things a woman can push through after pregnancy. My LO did well the first 2 days, and after it was severely hard! I had backup sample packs of formula (GentleEase), which I used for 2 days, and cried my eyes out because I felt like a failure. I had a vaginal delivery, but my milk didn't seem to flow alot until a week or more. Then became the issue of my LO not latching. I immediately contacted a lactation consultant, and I took weeks of practice for her to learn the correct way for her to feed. So I became a "pumper/breastfeeder". Then after came the issue of closed milk ducts. I went to the ER and not one doctor knew what to do, and even gave me the wrongs meds. I went through a week or more of hell trying to get my breast to unclog and it became a nightmare. My mom pleaded with me to stop because I was literally leaking puss from my breast. BUT I keep pumping through the pain, (throwing it away of course) and months later she's the best nurser! But I still compensate with gentle ease as she seems to like it. And I'm pumping 10oz or more even after she feeds!

[@MelanieFiona]

Wow!! I hope everyone reads your story! Our stories sound so similar. I'm working on building my supply back up as I write. Way to stick it out mama...xo

[@stacemoney1]

Thanks! It will come, just stick it out as you said!

[@xandrasarfo1416]

Hey great video..very informative...love your vlogs x

[@shielajp36]

and girl you look fabulous

[@MelanieFiona]

Thank You! xo

[@cshawdie]

I had a c-section as well with complications due to pre-eclampsia and my milk came in by the second day. Unfortunately I wasn't able to breastfeed till almost 2weeks later (baby and I were hospitalized). During that time LO was fed formula. Felt like a failure. I was too weak to even pump milk. Pumped the day I was discharged but ended back up in hospital a few days later. When I finally made it home, I tried breastfeeding and it was a struggle but I was determined. Didn't know if baby would like the taste as well. But his pediatrician encouraged me to start cutting back on some of the formula feedings and eventually baby weaned himself off lol. So, everyone is different and I honestly didn't wanna give in to the formula feedings. We're at the 6mth mark and I'm proud to have made it this far with all the challenges we faced :) Some people also forget that within those first few days if baby's life, they do not feed much and this is why docs allow the little"drop" in weight until baby is a little older.

[@erinnbrown833]

Totally needed this vlog!

[@NewMediaMaiven]

I never understand why ppl use books on breast-feeding, potty training on & on when we can just talk to our mothers and grandmothers. We are all living proof that their methods work. I feel another reason to put away those books and videos is trust your instincts and listen to your baby.

[@FlyWon]

I wasn't close to any moms that had breastfed

[@baneshabaker5241]

I feel like we live in a day and time where we are lucky to have videos and books to assist with motherhood. Not everyone has a mother or grandmother to go to for answers or support. Each one teach one. :)

[@NewMediaMaiven]

Thank you both for sharing your points.

[@brittneyaladetohun778]

Thanks for the resources. I think I might really join a LLLI group in my areat.

[@staciefoster25]

I'm a FTM and also had a C-section and I was determined to breastfeed my baby like you very stubborn not to give my baby formula. I would say after a week my milk supply came in and it felt uncomfortable and hurt like hell at first lol. But my baby girl in about to be 10 months and we're still going strong with breastfeeding. It's really a bonding experience most Moms I talk to stop breastfeeding at 1 years old however I think that will be hard for me.

[@MelanieFiona]

Do the best you can! xo

[@truecaramel3]

Yes more vlogs! I'd like to hear Jared's perspective and to know more about the formula and bottles you use. Also I'd like to hear more about the process of choosing bottles. It seems like a number of people buy different kinds of bottles and sees which the baby likes best?

[@chenice14c16]

love this video thank u so much i had issues breast feeding as well and i had to supplement i felt so bad but i realize that a fed baby is the best baby. i am now doing both. thanks for sharing

[@MelanieFiona]

You're doing great!! Way to go mama!!! 💜 Xo

[@yourebeautiful0207]

I struggled with my first baby as well. I increased my milk supply by using fenugreek, mother's milk tea, and eating oatmeal. Also look up lactation cookies.

[@MelanieFiona]

Great Tips! Did all the same things. xo

[@yourebeautiful0207]

+Melanie Fiona oh ok. I pray everything continues to go well with you and baby. I'm currently breast feeding and supplementing as well!

[@karlene622]

What brand of formula did you end up using?

[@desp9734]

thanks so much for this Melanie. our stories are identical i swear! i supplemented and breastfeed til around 8 months. i wish i could go a lil longer but my supply slowly dwindled and i let it. i feel my little got the benefits o the breastmilk so i was fine with that. finally somone on here being real. even women mommy shame...if your whiping out the formula its like oohh shes not breastfeeding. babies can and will thrive on both. #feedyourbabiesisbest!love that. keep up the great work

[@MelanieFiona]

Mommy shaming is unacceptable. No one has the right to judge.. You did great!! Xo

[@desp9734]

+Melanie Fiona aww so much for that and so are you. Looking forward to more videos from you!

[@drewslife4429]

I had such a horrible delivery that ended up in c section and me and baby staying in hospital 8 days. My milk came in but I couldn't breastfeed while in the hospital because I was on a lot of medication and not allowed to eat or drink for 4 days. My milk supply decreased to almost nothing by the time we made it home. Had to supplement with formula

[@MelanieFiona]

Unforeseen circumstances can be disappointing, but all thats important is that your baby is healthy. Take care of yourself xo

[@amburj16]

My son is 9 months and im still going strong on the breastfeeding im going to try to do it up until he is 1! thanks for sharing your experience you be blessed!

[@MelanieFiona]

Way to go!! Xo

[@TheSmithHousee]

I had a c section, my milk came in really quick! And I also didn't go through sore breasts thank god

[@antoinettexxxGOD]

Hey Melanie if you could do a video on the formula and bottles you use that would be great! Thanks 😀

[@MadLaserGaming]

Yes, I think his side from the beginning should be told also to get his perspective and everything that was running through his head.

[@MelanieFiona]

Coming Soon xo

[@arseniomoney6716]

im sorry that go through that

[@SongwriterHeartOfThePen]

You are an awesome mother. God Bless You

[@MelanieFiona]

Thank You bxo

[@dariyamoah]

I had a vaginal birth and i still struggled with my breastmilk coming in up until day 7. my mom was in town and so she helped me cook foods and juices that helped bring down the milk faster, but i definitely understand that pressure from everyone else to give in before you're ready.

[@gigiajavon122]

Love it! Looking forward to more

[@313teejay]

I swear your baby videos are deja vue for me! Were you spying on me?!?!?!? And my advice is get all the kisses you can because I have to bargain and bribe for my "Baby Time" with my 4 year old. TIME FLIES when you're having fun!!!

[@tjcksn1]

This was a great video! I am the mother of twins and while I was pregnant I just knew I wasn't going to breastfeed I mean I was just not interested. But I was young only 20 so I wasn't educated about the benefits of breastfeeding. But when I had them 7 weeks premature and I saw them for the first time I knew I would breastfeed them. ☺️ I don't know it was like when I looked at them that's what I felt like was the right decision for me. But they were in the hospital for 3 weeks so I had to pump and bring their milk up to the hospital daily so they never really got comfortable latching on which was ok with me as long as they got my milk. And I ended up nursing them until they were 1 years old! I had such an abundant milk supply that other mommies in the NICU would as what am I doing and honestly I don't know I just tried to eat right drink lots of water and fruit juice. And that's it. 😊

[@MelanieFiona]

Twins?!?! Way to go mama!! Xo

[@MorningSun7]

Who are you? I stumbled upon your videos and I absolutely love you! You are so right on! My breastfeeding journey was crazy and I love that I could finally feed my son directly from my breast after 5 months of committed exclusive pumping. Breast is best, but you are so right, it does not always go as planned. :)*hugss*

[@lovejay3157]

This is a message for all new moms! DO NOT lay your baby down for to long on their back because it could cause a condition called "flat head" you can bring this up to your baby pediatrician! DONT put them on their stomach because you want to prevent sudden infant death syndrome (sids) but you want to do yummy time and have them up through out the day instead of laying for hours on their back!

[@crystalhadley4690]

Had my baby girl in March and she didn't latch at all. I got tired of pumping and switched to formula, i wanted to breastfeed but it didn't work out, the only thing that matter is a happy, healthy baby :)

[@MelanieFiona]

Latch issues are so common with breastfeeding. You tried... Way to go. In future, A lactation consultant is a good resource to have. Xo

[@Mila2kool]

What formula if you don't mind 😊

[@7287283]

please give me any ideas on the best natural/organic formulas that i can supplement with...i too just had a baby just 5 days ago & I'm so distruaght that i have to supplement at this time...thanks in advance

[@shykolls1536]

Keep Up The Good Work Melanie

[@FormosaFantasy]

which formula do you give the baby?

[@TheChelseaNicolee]

I'm 7 months pregnant now and I plan on breastfeeding but I have nipples scarring from piercings and my doctor said there might be an issue with feeding. Can you please share the type of formula you used just in case I'm not able to breastfeed?

[@calmingspirit1]

Great video!

[@rdavismooreful]

Hey Melanie!! I love your videos!!

[@ladygodiva32man]

Hi Mel can you do a vid on formula and bottles. I checked out Honest brand and it looks ok but want a few options. Thank you n take care

[@TheRealTMoon]

you're such a queen

[@shametris01]

have you rented a hospital grade scale to weigh him before and after to see if he has an issue with transferring? that can help determine if he mayw have ties

[@kya119]

Hello! Melanie my name is Kya I'm 29 year old mother and you inspired me to share my story about breastfeeding I gave birth naturally but because I had pre-eclampsia my daughter was taken 6 weeks early so my milk didn't come in right away this was my first and still only child and was only 20 years old when I had her so it safe to say it was a lot of cry both ways lol 😂it took only 24 hours for my milk to come and my baby latched on the first time perfectly but I have large breast and they were all so engorged and my baby was a premature she was only 5lbs 5oz one of my boos was bigger than her hole body the first time I over feed her and one time I was eating while she was feeding and dropped my boob on my baby's face lol😂😂 it took about 2 months but Zia and I got it together I chose to breastfeed because my child was not only premature but she had a genetic blood disorder Samosa the first year of her life was traveling there for both of us but now she is one of the healthiest opinionated 9 year olds that I have ever seen in my entire life and I would just like to say thank you for giving women a platform to share their stories and to share motherhood I love your music I love you keep doing what you do

[@abbeyjohnson79]

What milk did you give baby in the end as a top up?

[@tiffanylashawn5348]

Fed is BEST !! Xoxo

[@DivaAllMyLife]

The more you supplement with formula,the less milk you will make. I also had a csection and my Milk came in 2 days later. I exclusively breastfed my baby for 2 years. Feed on demand. Breastfeeding is hard,but it gets easier.

[@xovicki891]

I'm going on almost 13 mo of breastfeeding and it was such a struggle the first 3 months.. Now I struggle with the changes in my breasts from breastfeeding and my chest is so uneven

[@MelanieFiona]

Man! If its not one thing its another!! I feel you. You're doing great. Thanks for sharing xo

[@xovicki891]

+Melanie Fiona thank you!

[@NaturalJournee]

I gave birth 9 weeks ago, had c section bc baby was breeched. I totally expecting to have a delay in my milk coming in but by the end of day 2 I was completely engorged...to the point where she couldnt latch anymore :-/ Lactation consultant and nurse had to help hand express and massage (very painful) but hardly anythng was coming out so we had to supplement. I felt like crap, like I was doing somethng wrong. But at the end of the day, you have to do whats best for baby in the moment. Eventually I was able to fix the issue and we have been good ever since;) Painful for 1st 6 weeks, but now we hv our rhythm!

[@540kaya]

Everyone is different, yes. You were engorged which happens to A LOT, majority or ALL women. Hurts like HELLLLL! lol but I got through it. My baby is actually 3 months now and is straight breast. She was a preemie baby and the breast milk made her chunky.

[@MelanieFiona]

Great Job Mama! xo

[@540kaya]

+Melanie Fiona Thank you thank! 😘 Same to you.

[@icequeenasmr5958]

I'm due on thanksgiving, I hope I'm able to breastfeed

[@MelanieFiona]

Wishing you the best! xo

[@jasanysteward]

My second child she has been doing so well latching even after having the bottle the first Week. when my milk came in she xidnt want the bottle no more cause I didn't allow here to hAve it unless out in public.

[@shametris01]

thissssssssss is everything my babzy had lip and tongue ties that prevented her from transfer milk from me. wish i would have known about lip and tongue ties early on. she had a laser frenectomy to release her ties. have you looked into that?

[@mschangingthegame425]

I had my baby march 7 th and i tried so hard to breast feed. First my baby had a hard time latching on to breast second my milk didn't come in until 2 week and when it did i never produce much so i had to supplement with formula. three only to 5i find out my baby has a tongue tie and could latch until her tongue was clipped. So after months of giving my baby what i could pump my dry up. so now she completely formula fed. i took some time not to feel guilty for not being able to breast feed

[@MelanieFiona]

Don't feel guilty. You are feeding your baby well... that is most important.xo

[@allnaturalproductsqueenren6428]

breastfeeding is the best for you and your baby, it helps you loose weight, but be careful, you can gain weight if you eat more like i did lol.... it made me more hungrier; but i lost it after working out hard for 1 1/2 hour 5 days a week..... all the stuff that women go through... we have to start be treated the best in society.... we do the hardest job ...... i breastfed only for 4 months & continued with a mix of food for another 4 months, to a total of 8 months, i tried for 1 year though, but my daughter stopped wanting breast-milk at 8 months, she would turn her head away lol

[@Itsellasky]

What's the name of the formula??