Stage 4 Diagnosis and What's Next | Cancer Journey Diary The Update We Didn't Want

[@melaniefostersnavely]

This was probably the hardest video to make since the first one. This is not an update we wanted, but I want to thank everyone for your support and continued prayers and thoughts. A few people have asked about the wishlist. Here is the link: www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1VYO3FQR65DTG/ref=nav_wishlist_lists_2 While there isn't a ton on it at the moment, I am adding things as needs come up. Thank you for wanting to care for us along this journey. I am trying to get to all comments, but please know if I don't respond each one still means so much!

[@johanfritz8209]

Not a religious man but this touched med deeply and i will send warm, comforting energy when meditation during this evening here in Sweden; and yo WILL FEEL IT! You are a beatiful human and you deserve so much. All love, friend.

[@Grahamt978]

Oh little momma keep holding on. Your hormones and emotions must be all over the place, I admire your strength. Sending love comfort and blessings to you. Hug that sweet baby girl real tight💗💗

[@lynndinovo3500]

@@johanfritz8209 you are an awesome human 💖

[@debrahubscher2514]

I'm so very sorry & I'm praying for you! 😔🙏♥️

[@maryannbergeron9531]

Have been praying for you all night and will continue today. Heather from Kneady Homestead alerted me to your plight. May Jesus give you the peace you need to go through this journey. ❤🙏❤️🙏

[@kathleenamatangelo3713]

My cousin lost her eye, muscle, etc. from caner when she was five. She wears glasses (no frosted glasses) and looks lovely. She married and has two kids and a successful career in the public. Prayers for healing and for your whole family. Jesus loves you

[@melaniefostersnavely]

@@kathleenamatangelo3713 thank you for sharing this with me! So glad to hear how well she is doing. It helps give me strength and not to feel so alone when I hear stories of people who have walked a similar path.

[@Tdw60]

A lady in my church had the exact same cancer when she was 17!! She lost the same eye! She just passed at age 65 last week but lived for 48 years after 🙏 She also had a baby at age 25,

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Oh wow, thank you for sharing this with me! That gives me hope. A big fear is doing all this and still not getting it all and it coming back.

[@lynndinovo3500]

There is always hope. I hope the best for you and all people with this evil disease. 🤍🕊

[@Tdw60]

@@melaniefostersnavely ❤️🙏❤️

[@jaggirl]

That's really sad that she passed. But it's wonderful that she had a full life. 🙏

[@beverleydabell3241]

Ohhhhhh bless you sweetheart. My heart breaks for you xxx 😪💔🙏

[@annrejda-wolfe6358]

I remember my stage 4 diagnosis. Such a fog of pure terror. I was so afraid of losing my body parts before that day, and at that moment I would gladly sacrifice whatever part so I could live. I know where you head is right now. Boy do I. Unsolicited advice isn’t something I want to push on you. But I hear you and my heart holds you in prayer. Know you are surrounded by love.

[@sarahrupert5320]

I can’t begin to imagine what you’ve gone through, but you sound like an incredibly thoughtful, caring person. I hope you’re doing well, or as well as you can be. My thoughts & prayers go out to you. 🙏🏼 🤍

[@followingbluebird]

Same! Loads of love 💙

[@bobs1356]

I hope the surgery doesn't disfigured her.

[@mariaarroyos2925]

​​@bobs1356 they both are saying their lives are more valuable than any body part. I'm sure it would be same for all us.

[@jesseniavargas6969]

​@@mariaarroyos2925Of course but expressing fear & hurt over loosing ANY body part would also be the same for all of us.

[@marlenerichardson4429]

I’m from U.K. and I just wanted to tell you about my friend Vicky. She lived 31 years after a stage 4 diagnosis and cancer was not the cause of her death. A car accident took her life x I love u vic x

[@akitajapan1651]

That's great, my Bro has stage 4. We pray and hope God can do everything, if it's His Will-

[@joangaither3871]

I can only imagine how many emotions you are going through your brain right now. I don't even know if I have any words to really be helpful. I'm here to support you in whatever you need. I'm here to listen . You don't have to be brave, you don't have to be strong, it's OK to cry and bawl your eyes out if you need to. This is a lot, but the one goal is to make sure that your cancer free so you can be there for your beautiful daughter, your husband, and the rest of your family 🥰🥰🥰

[@lindamastropietro4429]

What you wrote is very thoughtful. For me, if I was ill, I would want someone like you to talk to

[@joangaither3871]

@@lindamastropietro4429 Awwwww thank you so much. I have a dear friend who lings on me a lot who had breast cancer. I also work in home healthcare. I help people that have cancer, ALS, and so much more. I think it's important to have a sounding board even if you don't know the person to be able to just be honest and real.

[@jesseniavargas6969]

👏🏻Beautifully said❤oh my goodness it's so important to hear that because tough moments are daily.

[@suebean3873]

I’m so so sorry you have to go through this. Breaks my heart. I’ll be rooting for you and sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. Big hugs to you!

[@DD-si6qm]

I don't understand why is life so hard on good people. But there's future Melanie, there's surgery, and a life ahead. Take care my dear

[@pjk1714]

Melanie, a lot of hugs to you. Your team isn't probably thinking about reconstructive surgery right now. They just need clear margins. I hope proton is your next course. It's been so promising. If your plastic surgeon isn't on board rebuilding your orbit, forehead and upper cheek bone, don't be discouraged. It can be done. We had a small child years ago that was hit by an unlicensed drunk driver. She is a beautiful woman now with one glass eye. Don't lose hope and know we are in your corner ❤

[@camillajohnsen3345]

Big hug from Norway, you are fantastic and you rock.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you, thankfully reconstruction will be part of the initial surgery so I am grateful for that. Unfortunately no option for a glass eye though as there won't be any muscle structure to hold it in place.

[@nancyellen8006]

Years ago, my father-in-law suddenly lost his eyesight in his right eye. In fact, he woke up one morning realizing he was blind in that eye. Even though laser treatments were immediately used in the hope of restoring his vision, it was unsuccessful. It was not a great situation, but believe it or not, he was able to continue to drive. We care about you and will continue to pray for you.

[@Uprightfossil]

Melanie. This is difficult watching because I want to hug you so bad. I have breast cancer and had both breasts removed on Dec 18. I’m really in pain now and saw what I looked like Friday morning. Guess I was having a pity party for myself. You’re right. Nobody deserves cancer. What keeps me going is the love and support I feel. I hope you feel it too and I hope you have a faith in God. He has you. You’re right, you will have your life. You will still be beautiful with a patch. I will have my life even tho I don’t have boobs. Trying to have a sense of humor helps even if it’s sometimes hard. Last week when I was at the hospital I stopped in the gift shop and they had t shirts that said yes these are fake, the real ones tried to kill me. I wanted it but they didn’t have my size. It did make me laugh and when I get the prosthetics. I’m going to get a cute shirt. Hugging you from Arizona. And remembering you in my prayers. 🩷

[@jaynpenny]

I haven’t seen your removal but I can assure you that you are beautiful.

[@lindad1195]

My daughter has just been diagnosed with an aggressive form of ductal breast cancer and we are all devastated! She’s going to have a double mastectomy.

[@Tomas-major]

@@lindad1195my heart aches for you Linda, I don’t know you but I lost my husband nearly three years ago, he was always inoperable. I truly believe that if you an have surgery and treatment there is hope and hope counts for so much xxxx so sorry o have three daughters and can’t imagine how painful this must be, I just saw your comment and had to say something xxx

[@lindad1195]

@@Tomas-major Thank you so much! Please just pray for her! Her name is CoLee

[@kimfroio2937]

Love you ... from not knowing you 😊

[@jodiehuber7273]

My grandmother had her eye removed because of cancer and was always extremely independent and was still beautiful I have no doubt your beauty and independence will endure your in my prayers I just found your video but glad I did to share my grandmothers experience with you ❤

[@raelemoore9808]

Hi Melanie, I’m not one to leave comments but your video touched my heart. I’m 71 yrs old female from Iowa. And a retired nurse. I want you to know I’ve put you on my daily prayer list. I don’t know if you believe in Jesus but I do, I know he can do miracles and great and mighty things. That is my prayer for you❤. I’ll also keep you husband and baby in my prayers for strength and comfort. I’ll also pray for your surgery staff that God will guide there hands and remove all of the cancer. Love from a great Grammy from Iowa🙏

[@nikkilambert406]

You got this, Melanie. Remember: “You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think, and twice as beautiful as you'd ever imagined.” - A.A. Milne - Sending my love and prayers! ❤❤Nikki

[@fionawatts6523]

I'm sobbing with you. Cancer is utterly cruel and nobody should have to endure this. I'm praying that surgery is successful and that with your wonderful husband, family , friends and all of us here you know how supported and loved you are ❤

[@hydie0079]

My thoughts exactly! ❤

[@RABPWarrior]

Ditto 💯

[@jeaniabratton7200]

So true stay strong God is with you❤

[@OfficialWelshWoman8309]

❤ My cousin lost her eye in her late teens, has made very little difference to her life, still beautiful, still happy, good career, drives a soft top car for posing, she rocks and YOU WILL TOO ❤

[@Catherine3296]

My sister had cancer when she was 16/17 years old and had surgery and her spleen removed. She was told she would have no children, she had 4. She's still going strong at 71. Prayers you have a full recovery.

[@laxale]

What a miracle! 🙏🙏🙏 I have breast cancer started chemo a few weeks ago, I'm 41 years old. I pray to God everyday I can have kids and still make it till I'm really old. I hope God will listen! 🙏🙏🙏

[@charlotteralls8477]

Dear Melanie, I watched your video here because I saw the prayer request on Kneady Homesteader’s channel. I am praying for you now and will continue praying tomorrow through the course of your surgery and for your recovery! May God grant you healing and a peace that surpasses understanding. Praying for your husband and baby girl too. 🙏🏻

[@terishumaker7461]

I've been quick to point out when I see bravery and heroism. I have to say, as I fight back sobbing, you sweet girl are beyond these things. I can see your spirit shining through in the midst of huge adversity; there is so much light. I am praying this surgery does what it is supposed to! You are loved!!!❤❤❤

[@Smokey_Pz]

Today is Wednesday February 7, 2024, I just came across a video of you in a car coming home from eye removal surgery, You seem so emotional but it’s still very clear how strong and brave you are, I hope you document as much of this journey as you can, the strength and vulnerability you are documenting is really a very special thing, I am not religious, I don’t pray, but you will be in my thoughts, and I absolutely will support you on this platform and in any other way needed. You are strong and beautiful, Thank you for sharing your journey

[@wishingyoupeace]

In awe witnessing you rising to the highest level of grace and my heart is with you and trembling as your voice continues to speak through such fear & grief. So beautiful & brave. 😢 All of my prayers 🙏

[@Nan-59]

Well said! ❤❤❤❤

[@vickithilges3497]

Bless you. I pray your surgery will go well. I HATE CANCER!!! lost my husband to pancreatic cancer. You’ll have a lot of prayers coming your way honey. ❤

[@edwardandkari1010]

You are a true warrior!! Take as many pictures before surgery as a family and with your baby! You will love to have those to look back on!! Praying for the surgeons to get every ounce of cancer! I have one more round of chemo to treat Non Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. It hasn’t been easy but I can’t even imagine what you are going through especially having a newborn! My kids are 6,4 and 2. I have spent many nights away from them but it’s worth it to watch them grow up!! Prayers for you and your family!!!!

[@joanpotanko6351]

Prayers for you also.🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@gigiw.7650]

From Kneady Homesteader- prayers coming your way for safety through surgery and complete restoration. 🙏 Courage before you go through that door! 💕

[@AngiesPantry58]

🙏

[@bayanya8724]

I have gone through cancer myself so I can imagine how hard it is for you. The most important thing is to stay alive. Your daughter needs her mother. You are strong, you will survive this. Modern medicine and plactic surgery can make miracles.

[@raymilland3413]

Go look up Dr. Thomas Seyfried on KZbin. Everyone should be armed with information in case they get cancer or they know someone with cancer. A Ketogenic diet, anti parasite drugs and a drug called DON. Starve out the cancer with a metabolic ketogenic diet and safe drugs and keep your organs healthy. Cancer cells can only use two fuels and they are sugar and glutamine. These drugs and the ketogenic diet address both fuels and at the same time don't do damage to the body.

[@conniewilton6809]

Your surgery is on my birthday. I want my present to be for you to have a speedy recovery my friend. My heart is breaking for you. Please stay safe and strong Melanie we all LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU EMOTIONALLY.

[@monicamanzano3458]

Same here, my birthday is this week and I'm wishing with all my heart that beautiful Melanie, and everyone who is struggling with their health, a complete recovery and healing. Praying for a successful surgery today 🙏❤.

[@Tomas-major]

Dear Melanie,, I have messaged you a few time and you so kindly commented back, I lost my husband just under three years and you were so kind to me, when I said I was praying for you and your gorgeous family. When I watched this with shock and a really choked up feeling of absolute devastation, my brain sometimes doesn’t get the cruelty of this disease. I will continue to wish a huge miracle, and even though I lost my husband is till believe people get a different outcome and especially when operations and treatments are available, sadly my husband was inoperable. There are mo words to sit here and watch you cry and so full of obvious and natural anxiety. You are a gorgeous and brave brave and stoic woman and you have such a beautiful sense of humour. I think you could rock any look, that allows you to be with your baby and husband and still here talking to your supporters on here. Much love Carol xx This time next year on New Year Eve, we will be discussing the year that saved your life and your baby being over one Xxxx

[@bozekblack]

Melanie, whenever you find yourself feeling crushed over the loss of your eye, tell yourself that your little girl still has her mom. And in the long run, that’s more special than any eyeball out there! 😉😊❤️❤️

[@melvinsmum2012]

Hello Melanie, I am a 74yr old mother and grandmother over here in the UK. I am new to your channel so dont know the whole story, I will watch earlier videos to catch up. But I had to let you know I will be thinking of you. This situation will be difficult, but what can we do in these situations. You are young and have the greatest reason to fight this awful cancer, your lovely baby. There will be hard days but you will not let it beat you. Do what you have to do for youself and your family and try to get some enjoyment where you can. I wish you all that you wish for yourself.

[@dianebellitti4590]

Oh Sweet Melanie. Please everybody let’s all pray hard for her. She needs prayers more than ever. Sweetie we are all here for you. You will still be beautiful with or without an eye. God bless you and your family and much love. 🙏❤️

[@ClareMBrowb]

Much love to you Melanie. I am stage 4, lost alot along the way since 2015. My womb, my left breast and my right shoulder and been stage 4 for 2 years. I'm praying this is completely successful and you recover quickly. You are amazingly strong and I wish you and your family a Happy new year x

[@melaniefostersnavely]

I am sorry to hear about your own journey. Thank you for sharing your story with me. You will be in my thoughts as well.

[@rockstar4444]

@@melaniefostersnavely , Please read me : Guy TENENBAUM's case about cancer and his protocol : - a low-carb diet outside the fasting period (total elimination of carbohydrates/sugars) and eating OMAD (One Meal A Day) crucifers, garlic, onions, avocados, walnuts/almonds, olive oil and oily fish to avoid losing too much weight (avoid meat and cheese) - taking specific food supplements that Guy TENENBAUM has called TCC (The Cancer Cure) which correspond to his 5 essentials, with the dosage he took: * High-dose melatonin 30 mgr before going to bed (Phycocyanine or Lithotamne, but the most powerful would be melatonin): inhibition of SCOT (to use pure phycocyanine and lithotamne to increase the volume of SCOT inhibitors in addition to melatonin) * Allicin (either as a 2400 mg quality concentrated pill, or with crushed raw garlic): up/down stream of SCOT * Matcha green tea (with turmeric and ginger): up/down stream of SCOT * Metabolic treatment (metabloc): Alpha Lipoic Acid (or Sodium R Lipoate, 600mg 3 times a day, 1800mg in total) + Garcinia Cambodgia (Hydroxycitric Acid, 600mg 3 times a day, 1800mg in total) + CoQ10 (the transporter, 100mg morning noon evening) * Omega 3 in a DHA - EPA ratio (500mg DHA/200mg EPA): to fight keto paradox during ketogenic diet or the fasting phase * Bromelain (850mg to 5000 GDU) and Quercetin (500mg) for nodules * Berberine and Curcumin to block additional metabolic pathways - Alkalinise the body with a combination of baking soda and cider vinegar - if the body allows it: long fasting then the following month by short fasting and intermittent fasting + taking nutrients and minerals to avoid deficiencies (vitamin D3, Magnesium Bisglycinate and multivitamins)

[@lisamcguire8058]

As a cancer patient, sometimes other’s cancer stories on KZbin catch my eye. I am so so sorry. Yes, what you are facing is absolutely terrifying. When I was waiting for surgery, I benefited from a couple acupuncture sessions for anxiety. I was amazed by the medical professionals that cared for me and how our bodies heal and compensate for changes. I’ll send you some prayers.

[@janfraser8681]

Praying for you ❤

[@tomnewhouse7782]

My heart hurts it was not what I wanted to hear. You are a beautiful mother who needs to be here for her daughter. Sometimes it includes being brave and facing a scary surgery but you got this we all believe in your strength. Sending prayers to you. Cancer survivor Kathy Erie pa

[@Kristen10-22]

Melanie instead of crying for u I am so full of hope. I can see the light behind the tears & your little one will know mama as a warrior. Yes it’s scary as heak! Plz do me a favor… give yourself a great big hug. That’s from me. You’ve got this!!! My or was super long too. Plz ask the surgeons about possible clots after surgery. Will they have u on a low dose blood thinner? I feel a sense of calm while watching. I am so sorry you have been dealt this crappy hand. I pray 🙏🏻 everyday for yall. You sound like you have the best team as well. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share. I’m not going anywhere… Sending positive hugs and tons of prayers to you!

[@LeezaFlips]

Melanie, my heart breaks for you after hearing your story from Kneady💔 I am watching this video and pausing it to pray over you. I will continue to pray for you and for this surgery, for your Hubble and Baby Girl. Looking forward to hearing a good report from you post-surgery when you’re ready. The Lord God Almighty goes before you and behind you and around you and within you and He IS with you and has such a deep and abiding love for you. Praying you feel His presence in a supernatural way in the days ahead❤

[@wrennknits6048]

Here from Kneady also, will be praying specifically for healing, better than hoped for results from surgery. Many prayers for this sweet family❤🙏🙏❤

[@bevfitzsimmonds3382]

AMEN. ❤🫂✝️

[@Kristen10-22]

I had a DIEP flap It’s kind of amazing what they can do. Taking ear parts to make other parts. The hardest part is allowing someone to help. I understand all of it. You are going to be amazing 🤩

[@wendyburston3132]

Heard about you from Kneady Homesteader. Your courage and faith is amazing. I pray that God guides and strengthens the doctors to perform their best, that all the cancer will be removed and that your body heals quickly. You have quite a cheering section rooting for you. Most people have been touched by cancer either personally or through friends or family and feel it deeply when they meet someone that is struggling with it. Listening to your pain has touched me. You've stirred up my own fears and brought up painful memories of my mother, mother-in-law and father-in-law. Seems to be the 20th and now 21st century curse! But God is greater than any cancer. We go home when he calls us and not before. Praying for your full recovery and the comfort of the Holy Spirit.

[@stargalaxyuniverse761]

I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope for a great outcome from your surgery, and successful treatment going forward.

[@myheartsdesire643]

Oh Melanie I just came across your channel tonight! My husband and I have been fighting his esophageal cancer for now 14 months so I can relate to many of the feelings you are having. It IS scary...but as you said at the end of this video...maybe this is what its going to take to be able for you to be here and watch your baby grow up. We are big into faith and prayers here and we will definately be praying for you and your family.

[@Phoenix-sk1gx]

My bought beat that cancer 22 years ago. She still here with me. I hope it gives you hope. It can be beaten. ❤prayers.

[@kateroro6024]

Oh my dear what a difficult option you face. Praying the surgery goes exceptionally well and recovery is rapid.

[@RobynMercado]

I’m praying in earnest for wisdom for the doctors and strength, comfort and peace for you and your husband. Also, for complete success with the surgery and healing. All this can only come from the Lord. ❤

[@RABPWarrior]

Today first, then tomorrow, and so on. You’ve got this Mel beloved. You’re a mama and wife and it’s in you to climb the steepest mountain. Remember, you are not enduring this entirely on your own strength…..

[@rebeccamarcus8750]

Your video came across my feed and my mom went through an almost identical surgery for her cancer in the 1990s. She is 80 now and it was curative (she had radiation as well post surgically). It was hard but she is here. At the time she was one of the first to have such extensive surgery- it cured her of cancer and saved her life.

[@somersetflower]

Melanie... I am so angry with Cancer it takes no prisoners and you are such a lovely human being you should not be going through this, especially as you have worked so hard so far to combat the beast. I will be using all my spare energy to pray hard for you to kick Cancers' butt and also to find the courage to endure the treatment. Please be kind to yourself and let your loving husband care for both you and your darling baby while you go through this fight together. Hoping all our love and blessings will help sustain you. If you can ask someone to keep us in the loop so we can follow your journey . Love as always. Janice 👵 🇬🇧 xxx

[@northerngirlhobbies]

Kneady sent me. Big hugs, prayers and strength.

[@karefreeman2000]

I want you to know that myself and many, many others will be praying for your full recovery. I don't want to imagine what you are going through emotionally but you are right, nothing is worth losing your life. I believe you are making the right decision.

[@purplgrits7916]

Oh sweet Melanie ♥️. Your surgery will be an exenteration, my father had one 20 years ago. After all treatment is concluded they absolutely will be able to make you prosthetics that will be beautiful and amazing. The technology is so advanced now. You will do very well and prayers are with you and your family 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️

[@jodeming5088]

Melanie, I am without words. One thing I do know is that you’re strong and can beat this. I was hoping it would be better news but you’re right. Watching baby girl grow up is the goal. Don’t loose your sense of humor as it will help you during difficult times. Please know you all are always in my thoughts and prayers. Reach out if there is anything I can do. You will rock the eyepatch. You’re beautiful no matter what. I am happy to hear baby girl is a camper too. Focus on all the time and fun trips you all will have. Much love, warm hugs and heartfelt prayers your way.

[@india1422]

This time last year I was facing a9-hour surgery due to ovarian cancer. I still have many of the emotions I went through. Wishing you all good things

[@kimkelly9046]

You got this!!! Praying so hard right now for you and your family. God holds you in the palm of His hand. Believe it!!! God bless you

[@Jessicajohnson50099]

Praying does not work ! She needs to take action asap!

[@kellyconrad5449]

Your miracle is coming, I know this was not the route you wanted to go, understandably so, and it’s scary, but the miracle will be that your here for your beautiful baby girl and your husband, free of cancer living your best life, sending you a virtual hug, and lots of prayers for a speedy recovery, and you will soon be fully back to your self so you can take care of your sweet baby girl ❤

[@followingbluebird]

When I was first diagnosed stage 4 it was hard to digest but now I rearlise people can live with stage 4 cancer for many years !! I think looking after your immune system, eting well, getting enough sleep, dojnh thjngs you enjoy and trying to stay positive are totally underrated. I'd love to give you a big hug 💙 Loads of love fellow warrior xx

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you! Yes, feeling hopeful in that and trying to do all the necessary things to help support my body in a healthy way as well.

[@princessmeis]

I have a friend who had the same cancer. She had the surgery including part of the brow bone. She also rocks a nice patch! She has been cancer free for over 6 years now…..It’s possible! Prayers for your recovery

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing this with me!

[@Lisa_-td2qe]

I’m so sorry. Every step of my cancer journey was driven by being here for my daughter. Wishing you all the years ❤❤❤

[@flyingcaptain7298]

Hi Melanie, It broke my heart watching you crying about the baby. Just remember, this is what you need to get through to have a chance at being here for the baby in the future. You are so loved in this corner of the Internet❤.

[@Transitlady59]

Aww God has you sweetheart❤ Hope is like the sun, which, as we journey toward it, casts the shadow of our burden behind us” ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@cathewings2335]

This is the first video of yours I've watched and I am so sorry for what you're going through. You seem like an incredibly strong woman and you will look beautiful no matter what. YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS X X

[@Kristen10-22]

Your daughter is so blessed to call u her mom. At the time we don’t understand why things happen. Looking back now at 2012 I see what I’m made of. The big “C” nobody says yeah I want to be part of that group. It’s scary however I lived through it and so will you!

[@pam164]

I can imagine how you must have felt hearing you will lose your eye, but it means you will live for your beautiful baby. Going be praying really hard for you ❤

[@Dranma51]

Melanie, all I can say is that CANCER SUCKS!!! Sounds like a very extensive, scary surgery. You’re so brave but this is a lot! We are here for you!

[@megannoe2057]

I've been here since your 1st video. You were still pregnant. You've been so brave throughout your journey. You've shown streagth, grace, and fear. I couldn't imagine the storm of emotions that you've experienced. You'll keep fighting hard and come out of this stronger than ever and finally be able to be fully focused on being a new mother. I'm praying for you, your family, and your recovery.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you so much for this support and encouragement! It means a lot.

[@hilthomas802]

Praying for successful surgery and swift recovery

[@mrs.lisamaness2647]

Continually praying for a miracle! Praying for the best outcome!

[@susansvensk5215]

I know this is a terrible surgery you are going to have to go through. I can’t imagine dealing with the shock of losing such a critical part of you face and vision. I am so, so grateful that you have a path to surviving this. It’s going to be very hard but you have that baby to keep you going. Hopefully next Christmas you will be on the other side of this and be in the process of putting your life back together. God bless you and keep you.

[@victoriafranco6216]

Keep fighting, dear Melanie. Your daughter will be so so proud of her warrior mom!!! dont give up!!! Sending hugs and prayers from Budapest ❤

[@Gingersplanscraftsbeauty]

I cannot imagine how you are feeling and what you are going through right now. So I won't pretend that I do. I just know it is a lot and super hard right now. I wish more than anything that I was close to you so I could come and help out and be with you. I just want to reach through the screen and give you a hug and squeeze your hand! Every time I think of you and it is a lot I say a little prayer for you and your little family. As I have learned in my journey of life is to hang on and that we can do hard things. And I can't wait to see you with some snazzy new eye patches! ❤

[@mamaacres]

Many prayers are going out to you and your family and team of doctors! My husband had an accident that caused him to lose and eye they were able to put what they said was coral under the muscle and he wears a prosthetic eye and has for 25 years! He was 55 and he will be 80 Jan the 8th! He continued to work retired in 2005 and still drives and plays golf, pretty much does whatever he wants! There will be adjustments in the beginning but you can do this! The main thing in your situation is that they get all the cancer! Prayers now and in the future are that you will come out healthy and stronger! God bless you through this journey!

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing his story with me! It gives me hope. We have discussed a prosthetic but at this time are planning to go with patches. That would come down the road after the flap has time to heal and we will see if we will go that route at that time. Yes, we just need the cancer out! It's hard to wrap our heads around but good to know there is an option to try to get it all!

[@Dltp259]

I foresee you coming thru this and rocking custom eyepatches, bling, matched to your attire!!!!You will move thru this and be the most amazing mom ever! ❤❤❤

[@ataylor340]

I'm a cancer survivor and I know how terrifying this is. Sending love, and prayers. You got this, even if you don't think so. ❤

[@Jinxs-Journey]

Oh no hugs, I will be praying for you this coming year, my mother passed away peacefully on 16th December this year it’s been a sad Xmas, I pray for healing for you and also for peace and comfort without pain. Sending love to you always x

[@cathyl.......]

sorry for your loss Christmas is always tough being older you remember those fond memories mine were from the 70’s wish I was still there hugs

[@Jinxs-Journey]

@@cathyl....... mine are from 70s and 80s also those have given me comfort recently. I’m dreading new year and the funeral etc as I don’t get on with family at all, but hoping to say goodbye in my own way soon. You never expect it do you. Always thought she would be here forever.

[@ardormorte]

wishing you all the health and faith in the world, you're such a strong woman! ❤ also, rocking that shaved head 💌

[@SquirrelTrapper]

You are one of the bravest people I have ever seen on here. I am praying for the best for you.

[@margaretagundes-collins7709]

I don’t know what it is like to lose an eye or anything people can see, let alone have cancer. Last year I lost my eldest brother to cancer. I hope you live a long while and while you are alive you live well. Please don’t care what people think about what you look like! Your family still loves you and that’s all that matters. Take care of yourself. 🙏🏽😘❤️. I do know what it is like to lose a daughter when she is 31. Please take help from family and friends. I have lost lots of family to to cancer, drugs, alcohol, diabetes, Alzheimer’s… all ages. Even lost mom 3 weeks after my daughter. So please be strong and confidant and know you are loved. I am will pray for you.🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@judithharper6731]

Eyebrows and a patch. You’re gonna be a diva. I know you’re scared. I would be too. You are bigger than cancer and we all are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. ❤. You are brave AND So strong 💪🏽

[@cariethomas-zz2ld]

Sweetheart I’m so sorry … prayers to you ❤️❤️ going through stuff as well ! You are beautiful no matter what!!! Yes you need smoke fun eyepatches! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@WumboDoctorate]

Your daughter is going to look back on this and think how BRAVE and BEAUTIFUL her mama is. I am giving you the biggest and tightest embrace. 💖🌼

[@jennieosborne3530]

I'm sorry that you may lose your 👁. I hope & pray you get better. Cancer runs in my family. I had uterine Cancer & then I had breast Cancer started in my right breast. I was Cancer free for 8 years then I had a recurrance. I have seen people with removed parts on their face. I was crying when I got the breast Cancer. I'm scared of going blind I have been having floaters in my right eye. I am proud of you for being strong.

[@kathyfromtexas952]

Dear Melanie, I will be praying for you throughout this period. I know it is hard to believe that there will come a day when the surgery will be finished and you are home again, but, there will be. I hope this time goes by quickly for you. You are so amazingly bright and have so much to give to an untold number of people. I always go straight to Our Blessed Mother Mary - a mother who is so understanding and so kind. I am going to Her to ask for Her graces for you, Melanie. 🙏💙🙏

[@colourfulcrafts5492]

Shut up. Maybe this person doesn't want to hear about God? Maybe they're not religious. The true thing that will help will be medicine and science not pie in the sky nonsense, sorry

[@anniecrowther8423]

I don’t know you but I’ll be praying for you. You’re amazing.♥️♥️♥️ And you are so much more than any body part.

[@renemurphy4244]

Dearest Melanie, I am so very sorry. There are no words to make any of this better. It just sounds terrifying. I am praying for a miracle fir you. You are so brave ❤

[@Rena64105]

God has your back young lady🙏🏻🙌🏻☃️ “I’m asking,when you see this little post please, please send Melanie a set of prayer hands🤲🏻!This will add to this beautiful young ladies prayers🙏🏻🤲🏻 she has thus far amen ❤Thank you in advance ❤️

[@darlenepietzak9847]

I am at a loss for words, Melanie. No one should have to go through what you have gone through and still have to go through. Praying for you and your family. 🙏❤🙏

[@joleneplourde9885]

My heart breaks for you, Melanie. I’m praying this surgery rids you of cancer once and for all. 🙏🏻💗🙏🏻💗🙏🏻💗🙏🏻

[@yvonnemarie57]

Prayers for complete healing. ❤❤

[@cindym3340]

Praying for a successful surgery and your strength. God, please guide the surgeon to remove all the cancer. I am here for you and will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.🙏🏻💕

[@jdavis3129]

Your daughter, husband and family will just want you to be here, no matter what the surgery takes away. You are an inspiration to us all. Love to you. 💜💜

[@lnewbury1]

Thanks!

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you 💛 your support means so much to us! We are beyond grateful

[@lnewbury1]

@@melaniefostersnavelysending love your way. I would rather gift through another avenue as I never know if folks get the money from YT without them taking a percentage. Not sure how it works. If you care to share Venmo or cashapp, PayPal….I’d send it that way too. I would like to send as I can each month. Hugs.

[@kyms9390]

I am so sorry your going through this, I know its hard to think right now but you will get through this & come out the other side. Im a nurse & cancer outcomes keep improving & people can live for years even with stage 4. Sending you love, prayers & hugs from Melbourne Australia ❤

[@denisescott34]

Melanie, I am so heartbroken to hear this update. I've been praying for you and will continue to do so. I can't even imagine what this all must be like, but I'm grateful that you have a supportive community around you, as well as this KZbin community. We love you and are sending wishes for a smooth surgery and rapid recovery.

[@joyadderly7805]

I’m praying for you and your family and praying for you on a successful surgery 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@conniekraemer4845]

I am literally crying 😢 in prayer for you. Keep your faith in our Lord. He will bring you thru. I will be here...praying for you. God bless you.

[@danamama6766]

Sweetheart sending you lots of love. Sent over to you from Kneady homestead. Lots of prayers for you starting now and all day tomorrow and then through your healing. Sounds like you have a great team looking after you. Much love and hugs. 🙏🙏🙏🌟🌟🌟

[@shellyl.7653]

I’ve also been sent over from Kneady Homestead…praying for you so much Melanie 🙏🙏💕

[@rockymom624]

Kneady sent me and I'm praying for you!

[@mindyshewmake4318]

I’m so so sorry sweet girl! I have no words except to say you are the strongest woman I’ve ever seen! Hang in there sweetheart ❤️

[@AliG-qp4fy]

Many prayers for a successful surgery with a quick recovery!! May god bless you!!2 years ago I got extremely sick with Crohns and my only options were to remove my entire colon & rectum and have a permanent ostomy bag or die. I couldn’t fathom living with this before, but now I have accepted this and am grateful for my ostomy. I pray that someday this can be in your past and you can enjoy your life. ❤

[@CindyMansfield-zr8li]

Thank you for sharing your health journey! My heart breaks for you in what you have endured and now your upcoming surgery. Praying 2024 has only good things for you!!!

[@auntteadeetechroadscholar]

I hate cancer. Praying for a speedy recovery. ❤️‍🩹 your courage and your strength. May God be with you.

[@ADRCATS]

Melanie I cannot even imagine what this is like for you🙏🏻….all I know is your baby girl needs you….you got this Melanie we are all here with you!🙏🏻❤️🦋🌸

[@suzypos4571]

God bless you pretty mama..may God wrap his arms around you and give you strength for your surgery. Please God help Melanie come out of the surgery and give her hope for a healthy recovery. Prayers for a healthy recovery 🙏 and a chance to live life fully for your husband and daughter. May the angels watch over you and protect you. Blessings sent to you from afar ❤ sent with love. Kneady homesteader let us know a friend is in need of help..hugs and warm wishes.

[@mayaluna11]

This is hard to hear, so I know it's harder to deal with than I can even imagine. Laugh when able, wail when you need, rage when it comes up. On this New Year's eve I so hope that 2024 surprises you with how well surgery went and how quick cancer becomes something in your rear view mirror. Bless you and yours Melanie.

[@grandmaletta1432]

Kneady sent us over to cover you in prayer. In Jesus' name 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾