Cancer Diary 1: Finding Out I Have Cancer While Pregnant | Cancer Journey

Cancer Diary: This is never a direction I thought this channel would take. I had planned to start sharing about our pregnancy journey and the rough ride that had been. However, there was a bigger reason it was as rough as it was. I have cancer. We found out at 30 weeks pregnant that what I thought were severe pregnancy sinus issues is actually nasal squamous cell carcinoma.
I wasn't sure if I would share these videos or not, but I will be sharing some of my video journal entries from my cancer journey. This was the first video after my cancer diagnosis. This is a road you never wish on anyone. For me, so far, it has been very surreal thinking its myself I am talking about. I am sharing these in hopes that they help someone else along the way.
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[@melaniefostersnavely]

THANK YOU so much for each heartfelt messages! I am doing my best to keep up with them and responding, but if there are any I miss please know that they are being read and felt and the support means so much.

[@rachaelpate6778]

Sending prayers up!

[@DianeVitanza-lg2ee]

You will get through this .

[@susanberdan1626]

You got this ! No need to answer right away , this army is for you , do things in your own time no worries, and that's great snuggling is calming. Well thanks for answering but give yourself a break and enjoy your day ! We got-cha ! Your in my prayers list every night, AMEN.

[@Test-cd8om]

​ I’m sorry to hear about the cancer and hardships you had to endure. I hope you might take some comfort in knowing you are not alone in this. At the end, everyone will face the question of what comes next, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that if you pray to Jesus now sincerely and diligently, to ask Him into your life, He will answer you. If you are uncertain if He is God, pray in this way that He shows you, and 100% He will. Even if humans put in our best efforts daily, the world would not be much better than it is now (filled with pain, suffering, problematic, etc..) which is why God requires perfection to enter heaven. But none of us is perfect - that is why Jesus’ gift and following Jesus is the good news or “the Gospel.” Jesus took responsibility for His creation, and came down in the form of a man and led a perfect sinless life. But though He led the perfect life, He was heavily mistreated and humanity killed Him on a cross where He took on the penalty of our wrongdoings (sin). He rose again to life on the 3rd day and is now in heaven. We now have a path to heaven by believing in (that Jesus’ work on the cross cleanses us of all sin) and following Jesus. But out of love for you I share this next part that you may enter heaven, the type of faith that saves is obedient faith to Jesus that continues for the remainder of your life (see the Bible: John 15, Matthew 7, Colossians 1, Romans 10). That is, you accept Jesus as your Lord (which means Master) and Savior - implying that we follow His commands and no longer live for ourselves. However, He is the good Master who died for us and His commands are rooted in love and honesty. I cannot tell you anything else that makes it more convenient to enter heaven because it be would false. Jesus is knowable, and He can even clearly interact with you if you are willing to follow Him. If you ever want to know if you are in the faith that saves, examine your life against the books of 1,2,3 John. If you are in need of evidence that the Bible is accurate down to the smallest detail, check out the documentary Patterns of Evidence: Exodus. With love, I will be praying for you.

[@user-yg1dg6xm2g]

Consider altering your diet promptly. Eliminate carbohydrates from your nutritional intake. A low-carb diet has shown significant benefits for numerous health conditions, particularly diabetes, where success stories abound. It may also hold potential in cancer treatment.

[@Nicana68]

If I was your baby, watching this decades later, I'd be so proud of my mommy. Your baby has a beautiful mother and I hope you beat this cancer and share many decades to come with her.

[@alisonparsons9609]

Lush comment. There are such lovely comments, some quite sad. ❤xx

[@MrMaddox57]

AMEN! Blessings and to baby!

[@sirbirbalot199]

My mother had Cancer while she was pregnant with me.Instead of aborting me like the doctor suggested she went through with it.Shes alive and healthy now and she’s the greatest mother anyone could ever ask for.I pray you’ll be okay too.A baby needs their mother.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

What a strong mama you have!! So glad you are both here. Thank you for your prayers! I am working hard to make sure I am here for her.

[@amelkendebrant4549]

Your mother is a saint.

[@nycdyke2867]

@@amelkendebrant4549eh not really sounds stressful I’ll rather be aborted than have to watch my parents fall Ill to cancer

[@krystlestevens1056]

@@nycdyke2867 I’m sure your own mother would be tickled pink to see what you’re saying to this woman. Your mother clearly failed at teaching her own child to be kind and compassionate. She also failed to instill the basics of common courtesy… 1) treat others how you would like to be treated. 2) if you don’t have anything nice to stay, don’t say anything at all.

[@1929modelagirl]

​@nycdyke2867 I'm fairly certain there are places where bitter, closed off, negative people (trolls?) like you can go. This thread however, is not the place.

[@kakdgdtyuujsdsjskksks]

i’m so sorry this is happening to you, this came across my recommended page and it stopped me in my tracks. i sincerely wish nothing but the best for you and your baby/family.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

💛💛 Thank you

[@amandatakac8100]

😅😅😅😅😅😢😊😊😮😂😂😊🎉😊❤❤❤🎉😂❤😂❤

[@Robin-bv4is]

Same for me on my recommendations. I'm so sorry to hear this. I wish you all the best. My brother too died from an overdose 12/2021, so that is so relatable. ❤❤❤❤

[@TheRapnep]

God be with you! Prayers for a healthy baby and a successful outcome in what you're having to deal with, especially now. You WILL prevail and beat this cruel disease. And you are right. There is a strong connection with the mind and body and your positive outlook will beat this back. We here are praying for you, baby, and your family. And also for the many skilled caregivers who will work hard to get you through all of this safe and sound. I've had bladder cancer twice recently and I know this isn't easy, but you are stronger than you know and you have alot to fight for. YOU CAN DO IT! Say it everyday, especially on those days when you feel you can't, and say it LOUD! YOU CAN DO IT! Two of my brothers also died young at 24 and 26, so I hurt for you tremendously. They are with God in their forever home and so is your precious brother. He is watching out for you and asking God to heal you, if it be His will, and I pray that it is. 🙏 All good luck to you, and everyone who loves you, and prayers, prayers, prayers. 🙏🙏🙏 God hears all. ❤

[@bodhi1462]

Me, too. It came up in my recommended page. Wishing you well. I can't even imagine what you're going through. I wonder if there is a group for this?

[@suetipping4841]

Forty years ago, a coworker was pregnant. She also was diagnosed with cancer. The medical team operated and treated the area affected with chemo during surgery. The baby was born perfectly and the mother is alive and well. The best to you and yours. You will do well.

[@duffystavern894]

Melanie, I have a neighbor in his forties who 2 yrs ago had the same cancer you have. Guess what? He is now cancer free , back to normal and doing great! Please don’t lose hope. You’re going to beat this! Congrats in advance on your beautiful baby girl 😀💐

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing this!! I hope I can say the same in 2 years.

[@liyanam7888]

That is, becouse some of us will have a second chance to live 😊😊😊

[@melissaaustin5082]

My daughter's name is Melanie so I will definitely remember to pray for you and your baby. 🙏

[@Keepnthefaith]

Melanie, you showed up on my KZbin page this morning. I am praying for you, your baby girl, and your family❤

[@wandalester8624]

Melanie, I am going to put your name in my Bible and pray for you! I hope you know Jesus, He will walk through this with you! You will never be alone!

[@anner8416]

I also went through cancer while pregnant. I was 30 years old, 5 months pregnant, and had stage 3 inflammatory breast cancer. Which I found out was a rare cancer also. I was given a 16% survival rate, but I told myself I WILL be OK for my baby inside me, and my other little first born 10 month old son. It's scary, it's something I never ever thought I'd be doing... but I did it!! That was 10 years ago now. Mom's are built different💪 the drive to do things for your tiny baby will make you so tough!! I'm sending prayers your way for strength for you and your little baby girl🙏 girl babies are strong!!! Both my boys were in the nicu, and I commented to the nurse how there's so many boy babies here... they informed me they always have more boys than girls.. so your little girl will be a power house! Just like you will be too!!

[@Buttie2003]

I am so glad you survived and you are doing well. Sadly my Sister passed away with inflammatory breast cancer at age 43 leaving three young children. Her treatment was not good and she gave up in the end. She passed on my Mother's birthday l miss her so much. ❤

[@jacqueline8559]

As a Midwife, working for over 30 years on a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, It's true that baby girls ARE born stronger than boys. Obviously, they both receive the same care and treatment, but she will be a strong fighter. 32 weeks is a good gestation to be delivered! Stay just as strong for both of you. Staff, family, friends and the community of people on here, who are praying so hard for you, your baby and baby's DAD, are here for you ❤ SUBSCRIBED, to ensure I follow and support you with prayer, throughout this time. Be blessed dear ones. All 3 of you x

[@aaron-mo9si]

I'm so sorry about your sister💔 this stupid inflammatory cancer is so, so, horrible!! My first dr. Sent me home with antibiotics and said it was mastitis, and the ultrasound showed milk in the ducts.She told me to come back after the baby was born 4 months later. Then we could actually do an mri at that time to see what the issue is. The only reason I went to a different dr. Was because my OB dr. Said that looks like Inflammatory cancer, and I can't wait. She got me all set up with these top docs, I would never have found myself. That's where they found I had a10 cm mass, and I was stage 3 with infected lymphnodes already. My OB Dr saved me... I wish more doctors understood rare cancers DO happen and I wish your sister had doctors and treatments that worked for her. It just breaks my heart for her kids.. I'm so sorry

[@DoreenBurkey]

​@Buttie2003 - I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and give you peace. It's hard when we lose someone so young. I have an old friend & former classmate who had the inflammatory breast cancer. From things she told me, it was a tough one to fight. Sadly we lost touch after she moved, so I can only hope and pray that she was able to receive the right cocktail to cure her. It's all in God's hands... 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@DoreenBurkey]

​@@aaron-mo9si- Congratulations to you and your awesome OB! My prayers are with you to stay cancer-free and for Mrs Melanie to be able to proudly say one day that she beat it and will be cancer-free as well! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@peg9897]

My Ex had this tumor. Had an excellent ENT and neurosurgeon. He did very well! It’s a scary process but he made it through with no remaining problems.

[@ashleyburbank3129]

My husband actually was born to his mother while she had cancer she had a tumor the size of him next to him in her belly. He's well and so is she! ♥️

[@chapstickdramma8640]

My mom was 29 pregnant with my sister and found out she had cancer. My mom chose to have my sister even though my doctor said my mom wouldn't survive. 4 months after she had my sister. She passed away. My mom is my hero. I was only 5, so I don't remember her, but she was my hero. Hang in there. My Prayers are with you.

[@BrownEyedBeauty2008]

Your mom sounds like an amazing woman. I am so sorry for your loss 🤍

[@zhaviyah84]

That’s weird you don’t remember her. I remember so much from that age :/ how sad.

[@EastElbow]

​@@zhaviyah84trauma does weird things to the memory. So it's understandable.

[@betsybabf748]

My 28 yr old friend did the same when expecting her twins, and passed when they were 4 months old.

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Wow, your mom was a hero and she made an incredible sacrifice ❤

[@AStemmer1]

As a cancer survivor, I'm sending positive thoughts your way. ❤

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you! Glad to hear you survived and are doing well!

[@liyanam7888]

​@@melaniefostersnavely you will be good as well, beautiful Lady ❤

[@rachaelpate6778]

As a cancer survivor myself, my heart goes out to you! I remember being stunned at how my body had betrayed me. I was only 15 when diagnosed. I want you to know, cancer isn’t who you are, It’s what’s happened to you. You stay strong in your fight! Cancer is a bully so stay strong! Your in my prayers!

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for that encouragement and advice. It can be hard not to get wrapped up in cancer being part of me now, but you're right it is NOT who I am. I am so sorry you had to deal with it as well. I am happy to hear you are a survivor and hope you are doing well!

[@yoop177]

Tks for these words, I needed to hear this today❤

[@gwennblau8371]

Well said!

[@mayaluna11]

More than 10 years ago my sister shared her cancer journey online. The support we both got out of kind, compassionate people was and is a gift. I now try to repay that by supporting others in the hope you may be lifted up in the same way. I'm so sorry, but know there will be a community forming on your channel. May this journey be as gentle as possible and end with healthy, happy baby and mom ❤

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you so much for sharing this! I pray she is well and healed. Thank you for sharing your support. The amount of people we have had in our corner and strangers reaching out to share there experiences or support is just overwhelming us with gratitude.

[@cherylnull9890]

❤

[@terri5757]

🙏❤️🙏

[@mayaluna11]

@@melaniefostersnavely My sister passed away Melanie, but please know that cancer was not the primary cause. Her cancer did not respond to chemo or radiation and needed multiple surgeries that weakened her. The last surgery caused sepsis, and that was an extremely rare situation. I'm hoping you find as much support from your community as we did, it's the least you and yours deserve.❤

[@lorenarivas5485]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😢🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@kimmiehuffman9225]

Stumbled upon your page by accident. You’re in a strangers prayers tonight. 🙏♥️

[@RABPWarrior]

Hi beloved Melanie, a granny here sending you Gentle hugs. You said it! One step at a time. You and hubby spend quality time with baby by talking, reading stories, play soothing music (not the big butts song😮). ITS YOUR TIME TO BE CARE RECEIVER NOT CAREGIVER TO OTHERS. Journaling this bump in the road will remind us to practice empathy, love and kindness. Your journaling is already a blessing. Standing by to cheer you on!

[@JulieR73]

Beautifully said!

[@swedeheart214]

Thank you for saying what others are thinking but unable to put into words.

[@dawnportousa]

I just wanted to say that I love your comment that was really a nice message! 😊

[@tammytenbrook9404]

I found out I had a rare form of Cancer in 2007 and had a baby and 2 other children. I was only given months to live and 16 years later still here. My heart breaks for you as it is a lot with a baby. Fight for you and your family as you are stronger than you know. Many prayers sent to you ❤

[@CMC5070]

As a cancer survivor I am praying for you through your pregnancy and cancer journey.❤🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@MarthaGarrett]

I have cancer… but I’m 65 and not expecting. You are in my prayers. I’ll be watching your updates. We need each other in these times. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Rachel_D03]

Praying for you right now Martha! God is faithful ❤

[@joannpignataro4813]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Catherine3296]

🙏🙏

[@rickkonesnii]

Martha Jesus saved my life he's so good sending prayers your way ❤

[@GA-hu6qm]

Saying your situation out loud is a necessary progression. My heart aches for you and your husband. It's not game over - you're still in the info gathering part.

[@snowbunny1285]

My baby boy was born at 32 weeks. He was 3 1/2 lbs. he spent 2 weeks in the hospital. that was 30 years ago. He is doing great He owns his own IT business and a genius in electronics. Your baby will been just fine. And yes I was scared for him.

[@bwillsboys]

❤

[@MrsJulieannG]

I opened up KZbin and your video was recommended. I subscribed to show support. I am keeping you in my prayers and sending gentle hugs sweet girl. You’ve got this. ❤ Julieann

[@aqua6613]

Same here ❤

[@eddiesaenz7144]

Im soooooooooo sorry! Hugs and prayers❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@willowyone5695]

This says it well. Kate

[@dawnportousa]

Me too!

[@ddsmiles6382]

Same here! #cancerwarriorsunited #neveralone

[@joannpignataro4813]

I know two woman who had cancer when they were pregnant. Both went on to have healthy children and survive their cancer. I am praying for the same for you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Alchemystic_Ama]

I’m just a stranger from London, UK. Your video was recommended and I just wanted to send you my prayers of healing, strength and courage ❤ I’m sorry that you’re going through this 😔

[@DragonPlush_YT]

You popped up on my feed 🤷🏻‍♀️🙌 I’m a breast cancer survivor. I was a mess when I was diagnosed. I’m also a single mom and my son was only 8..he’s going to be 10 in a couple weeks and I am cancer free!!!! Hang in there. It changes us forever but not always in the ways we think. You’ve got this mama 🙏🙌💕🌱

[@melaniefostersnavely]

So sorry to hear you had to fight, but so glad to hear you are now cancer free!! That gives me a lot of hope!

[@my-4th-cancer]

Dammit lady, that is devastating news. My 4th cancer is also a SCC, metastasized in the groin area lymphnodes. But I am not pregnant. The lord works in mysterious ways. I wish you good luck both with pregnancy and cancer. But you are young, you can make it, you must make it. ✊

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you! I am so sorry to hear about your own journey. Wishing you healing and strength!!

[@UltimateGoldenGirl]

Melanie, I am so sorry you are on this journey. My husband and us as a family have been on this journey so we understand. To give you words of encouragement my husband was diagnosed at end stage Lymphoma. Long story short he is 100% cancer free. All they could do was chemo which he had a "truck load" of. We then went on the strict keto diet and one supplement. He has now been 100% cancer free (Pet scans, blood work, no trace of the 8 masses) for one year. We are praying that is the same results you get as well. The emotions that flood through are like a dam being broken and it is such a shock. I got sick during that time from all that he was going through. I am fine now. He is fine now. We are grateful. We are praying you will be 100% well.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing your story with me! I am sorry to hear what you had to go through but am so glad to hear he is cancer free and doing well. We are looking into the keto diet as well! Would you mind sharing the supplement he is using? I pray that once we are through with chemo we will be able to maintain health with a more diet focused, whole body health path and am open to any options that will help us do that! Praying we will be able to say cancer free soon. Glad you are feeling better as well!

[@UltimateGoldenGirl]

@@melaniefostersnavely Hi Melanie, Yes, he gets the supplement out of a healthfood store. It is called Graviola. It is an Amazon leaf I believe. That is the only supplement he takes. Everyone is different and responds differently to different things. We are not sure what cured his cancer beyond a miracle. He is cancer free. I pray the same for you.

[@joannemcmurray1361]

Hello Melanie, I’m going to pray for you. I’m sorry this is happening. Waiting to hear good news

[@gizzbeth]

My heart goes out to you dear. I’m battling aggressive breast cancer too at the moment. Every part of it sucks. I’m grateful for every day that I’m here. Just know that we are part of a community that is very supportive and beyond strong. We are here for you! Sending prayers and positive thoughts to you 💗

[@Naturalicity]

🙏🏽💐🌹☘️☀️🌈🎉🙏🏽 for you, my dear.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

So sorry to hear you are fighting as well! My thoughts and prayer are with you

[@jenniferhuff2566]

I hope sharing your story helps you realize there are many people pulling for you and praying for you and you’re baby. I can’t imagine what you are going through!

[@melaniefostersnavely]

It has definitely helped. We have had so much support and we are so grateful!

[@sandiehutchinson9575]

Please know we are all here listening, caring and sending 🙏 and love X let your baby come next week 💝 you will be a Mum achievement one ! Then deal with the cancer throw everything they offer you this is really an unbearable situation 💔 but you can and will do this for your baby 🍼.just take each hour get through that .I have had cancer, family had it .....I'm here for you anytime I'm in UK .

[@sandiehutchinson9575]

Eat ,drink ,sleep , rest do what ever it takes do what ever you need to do Huni ..your head will be mashed I'm so sorry you are dealing with this 😢

[@cushlabarnes1445]

Melanie and family, I had a similar story, SCC on my tongue, 22 weeks pregnant with my only child, now 10 years old. Keep the family and support network close, that is so important. I found being mindful of the energy I gave to those I had not seen for many years (and not seen since) visiting for their own needs. Save that time for bonding with baby 🥰 stay strong. Prayers and healing vibes from New Zealand

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing that with me! Yes, we are really trying to protect our space. We are home now and have not had many visitors come, just trying to soak up as much time with her before our next dose of treatment starts. I hope you are doing well!

[@Kristen10-22]

It’s SO HUGE to advocate for yourself!!

[@inspiringsimple]

I am 29 weeks pregnant and man this makes me just cry for you. I’m praying for your complete and total healing and YES for a super strong and healthy baby!

[@ellenh9381]

Oh, sweetheart, I’m sorry you have so much to handle right now. I’m sending hugs and prayers. Be strong - for you and for baby. Keep us posted if you feel well enough so we can support you. 🙏🏻❤️

[@TheQuietWitch]

I’m so sorry that this is happening to you. I was diagnosed in may with stage 3 gastric cancer. If you need a friend to talk to I am here for you. Sending you all the healing vibes.

[@lnewbury1]

Hey Melanie, I’m just finding you. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I simply cannot imagine. All I know is that God is with you and will never leave you. Praying for a complete healing and that delivery and baby will go well.

[@swilson5346]

I’m 34 weeks pregnant and just can’t imagine what you’re going through. I’m so sorry this happening. I pray you’ll be heal and well soon. Sending you positive energy and strength. ❤🙏🏾

[@itistheofficialanimeboylimited]

Sending prayers to you that your cancer will go away 🙏

[@michellelanigan1964]

I am new to your channel. Just came across it and am thinking so many things. First, I’m a rectal cancer survivor and it’s a hard road. You’re pg…almost the same as my daughter with all the same sinus problems. Then, I really want to hold you and be there for you. This is NOT supposed to happen like this! As a mom, a grandmother, and all the other hats I wear, my heart is breaking that you have to go through this. I will be here, quietly, praying and asking God our Father to watch over you and your family. To make things ok in your heart and give you peace.

[@mjb9176]

Your words are beautifully full of grace.

[@trudgingtheroadofhappydest3983]

🇨🇦Dear Melanie and family. Thanks for sharing. I have gotten through cancer with all the bumps in the road. It isn't a straight line. I used God First, with God I have no fear and I can relax. Second. One day at a time. Finally. Family, friends and trust that the doctors knew more than me about cancer. It's turned out pretty good. I let it be an interesting journey not a scary one. Watch out for depression. Deal with it as quickly as possible. God Bless.

[@dorothywalters7448]

Also watch for anxiety, don't miss any doses in order to control panicky times. You're in my daily prayers. Lifted up in Holy Mass with all your family and friends.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thaank you for sharing this with me! I am really trying to lean in and have faith through all of this. Definitely watching out for any signs of depression. It can be so hard not to want to dwell in the negative, but I am really trying to stay as positive as possible and when I can't then pray that He is with me and will see me thorugh.

[@theclassymermaid449]

Just said a prayer for you and your baby. ❤ May god take your cancer away so that you and your baby live a long, happy life. Sending hugs!

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

Nasal cancer is one of the tougher ones. Hope you respond well to chemo and then can have it surgically removed. Hope they caught it early and its early stage. All the best to you and your baby.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Yeah :/ Unfortunately surgery isn't an option yet, but it seems to be somewhat responding as I can already breathe out of my left nostril again for the first time in months. So I am hoping thats a good sign that it is shrinking! We are hopeful they will at some point be able to remove it. Otherwise it will mean radiation as well.

[@cathymarble3283]

​@melaniefostersnavely depending on the stage it can be very curable,!

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

@@cathymarble3283 hope it is in her case

[@toniscaglione7451]

Thinking about you and praying for you and little one 🙏🏻❤️

[@loveoracle8797]

Please only positive comments

[@clairebear1808]

My nephew was severely premature and had little chance if survival. It took 2wks to get a diagnosis via a doctor in Germany. It was so rare that he was one of certain few. My sisters water was leaking into my nephew’s lungs and his lymph nodes were not developed and couldn’t pump the water out. NICU for months and more isolation via tents when he came home. Well he just landed a job with Disney as a composer, producer and sound design effect. MIRACLES HAPPEN I Think you’re in line for a miracle! ❤

[@janisc.5135]

I’m so sorry this has happened to you. I feel your pain and fear, I was diagnosed this past January with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer, stage III. When they told me, I felt a sensation like the blood was draining out of my arms from the shock. I will have to get a stem cell transplant. Cancer is so scary! I will pray for you and your child. 🙏❤️

[@jeanword6985]

I pray in the name of Jesus for your healing and your faith in the Lord and praying for protection over your baby.The Lord healed me stage 4 colon /Liver cancer .Stay away from sugar and carbs .cancer feeds off of it .Lots of Love and prayer to you and family .❤

[@MikuMarmalade]

My heart goes out for you. I hope you and your upcoming miniature human finds peace. I couldn’t imagine being in this situation. Sending positive vibes. ❤

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you

[@natalietaylor9848]

As a mother I can’t imagine getting this news how scary it must be. Im so sorry 💔. Being pregnant should be the happiest most exciting time of your life. We’re all with you girl! ❤❤️❤️❤️

[@karenknight9565]

Melanie, Your video was recommended to me. I’m so glad as I share a similar story minus your precious baby. I was diagnosed with a very rare/aggressive breast cancer. Treatment options are pretty limited. I did a year and a half of treatment and am almost two yrs into remission/surveillance. I know it’s scary and that you have a new baby makes it even scarier. But I can promise you that you will be okay. I have a new normal than before cancer but have faith that new treatments come out all the time. My only advice is to try and take care of your mental health. My anxiety became worse than my actual treatments. Reach out to the therapists at your cancer center if u feel yourself spiraling. I waited way too long. I wish the very best for you and your family. You’ve got this!💪🏻❤️

[@mjb9176]

This advice is a blessing

[@michelleleppard1882]

I’m a cancer survivor. My dad had cancer for 16 years. I know it feels pretty scary and there’s a lot of things you processing on top of having a baby. Just try to do one day at a time just so it’s not so overwhelming. I tried to be strong for me and for those around me but found Emotionally It’s ok to not be ok too. I hope you are back to full health quickly and you get to have a long happy healthy life big love to you ❤

[@littlesotis5315]

Love and hugs to you! I found out at 19 weeks pregnant that I had cervixcancer. That didn’t end well. Baby and uterus had to go followed by cystic treatment. I choose me and my life. Don’t regret the decision and I’m happy I am cancer free now for 10 years.

[@avarose316]

💔💔

[@deborahevans1052]

That had to be tough but glad you choose life ❤

[@cynthiaholland13]

Where did baby go? How were they able to deliver the baby at only 19 weeks?

[@Gigi-kr6ek]

Once I started having problems with my pituitary gland, I could no longer be in a regular MRI machine, I can only do what's called an open MRI machine. Your video just popped up in my feed, I subscribed to your channel. I'm so sorry you are having to go thru this. You and your family will be in my prayers. Congratulations on your beautiful daughter. ✝️🙏🌻

[@barbsams7774]

I cannot even imagine going through what you are experiencing. I’m so sorry for you and your family on this terrible journey. Prayers to you all.

[@laurieanne.]

Hi Melanie, my heart goes out to you & your family❣ Our Father in Heaven loves us all immensely & believe that through the power of prayers, miraculous healings occur! I had my youngest daughter at 32 weeks, 33 years ago. She weighed 3lbs 12oz & was 17 1/2" long. She did really well, breathing on her own & only stayed in the hospital 3 weeks, to get bigger. I will pray for you to be healed & your daughter, to be healthy! Lots of Love to you & your family, stay strong, knowing you have an army of prayer warriors behind you❣🙏 🥰🙏🏾

[@jennycarbajal6787]

I'm so sorry that you're going through this my mom has brain cancer and she was diagnosed when my little brother was 16 months old and she wasn't even done breast-feeding him. She was stage four when she was diagnosed and we for sure thought that she was going to die last year and it came back really aggressively as she had to get surgery again but a year later almost exactly she still here with us, the doctors gave her a prognosis of literally five years or less. And she has surpassed that. Cancer is literally just the word until it happens to you or somebody that you love and I just want to tell you how sorry I am that you're going through this but we're going to be praying for you. Prayer is so powerful I truly believe that the more people you have praying for you than my prayers God hears and I truly believe and hope that you are going to be OK and you will get through this. You are so strong I don't know you but I'm sending you a huge virtual hug that just know that you're not alone in this.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

I 100% feel this; until you live it it is just so hard to understand the weight behind the word. I am so sorry to hear about your mom having to fight, but what a fighter she is!! I truly believe in the power of prayer as well and pray she continues to prove the doctors wrong as she continues her journey.

[@Natalie-hg9vt]

My twins were born at 27 weeks and 32 weeks was a great gestation to be born at with limited issues! Mine are totally fine even being born at 27 weeks. Hope that helps!

[@jeanettebarritt2938]

I had my little boy at 32 wks and he is now 6 foot 2 and a wonderful young man and gosh I really do wish you the best ❤❤❤❤ xxx

[@ketowithstacy8882]

I have a very dear friend Debbie who was diagnosed with Breast Cancer while pregnant and she had a healthy baby girl and beat the cancer. And she went on to have 3 more children and is alive and well today and has Grandkids. You will beat this! God is way bigger than this. Hang in there and keep your head up.

[@pass4pets434]

This is so so heartbreaking. My heart hurts for you. I'm stage 4 lung, so glad your sharing. Thank you. Can't imagine what your going thru. ❤❤ God has you and the baby

[@GlassPickles]

I’m currently 37 weeks and randomly came across your video. Can’t imagine what you are going through but from what you say, baby is ready to come and for mom to begin to heal. Subscribed to follow your journey and I know you all will make it through this. ❤ Prayers to your family and the doctors taking care of you!

[@chrystalotterstedt5308]

Praying for your healing and for the baby’s health as well!

[@maryreynolds5310]

Darlin’, don’t you give up hope, on yourself or in faith! Of course it’s hard to stay positive during all this, but I promise God wants the absolute best for you and the baby. You got this, and I believe in the power of prayer, faith and will. Our minds and our bodies are incredibly powerful and strong, and can take some pretty tough beatings yet still bounce back. So you do what ever you have to to kick this thing in the butt…you got this girl! I pray Cancer, the word itself, and it’s disgusting existence can just disappear, it’s not welcome in or around your body! Our Heavenly Father please heal this beautiful woman’s body of this awful invader, this sickness she wants no part of…please heal this daughter of yours so she can be a happy and healthy mother and wife!🙏 ( not sure if your married, it’s possible I missed it, my assumption) Thank you God for our life, the air we breath and the safety of your arms…In Jesus name we pray, Amen 🙏 Rest well darlin’ and don’t ever give up hope XO 🤗

[@DoreenBurkey]

Amen... 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@donnabankstahl2457]

Melanie your video was recommended . I just subscribed to show my support. I too live in Fl and you are in a great hospital. I will keep you and your husband and sweet baby in my prayers. My heart hurts just listening to your story. Learning to accept help with grace is hard when you are the one that is always has been the caretaker. I live about an hour from where you are and if I can help you guys with please reach out. Hugs and prayers Donna🥰😘🙏🙏

[@JR-kz2xn]

Melanie... You've got this. I just came through the chemo phase of my treatment on my journey with Stage 3C Triple Negative Breast Cancer. Trust the process, put yourself first on your care list and accept all the prayers offered and don't believe everything you see and hear online. I have won this battle but not the war...YET! I will keep fighting and I know you will as well!!

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing your story with me! You've got this! We've got this!!

[@sonnysnavarro6860]

You did it ❤you got the words out ,I see the pain in your face and the hurt in your eyes ,and I’m sorry ,I wish I could take your pain from you I hope to continue this journey with you

[@cindyzweifel7980]

I had cancer in 2030-2021 I stayed positive thinking. Prayed. You can do this. God has go you.

[@lucyfritz3232]

This video was suggested to me by KZbin. I am an enneagram 7 too. 😊 I’m so sorry you are going through this. How shocking it must have been to find this out. So much to process, especially when hormones are going crazy. I always have them put a washcloth over my eyes when in the MRI. It really helps me-and I have panic disorder. Will keep you and your baby girl in my prayers!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@MAX-cm6hs]

From this granny ,will be adding you to my prayers! Sending hugs and love to you and family. Your new family is here to give you support everyday. Sending love.🌺

[@ash29287]

I’m so so sorry. How devastating. You’ll be in my prayers. Healthy baby & mama 🙏

[@Mary-momof8]

So very sorry about this news!😢😢😢 Remember, God is in control. May He completely heal you & keep your baby safe!!🙏

[@wrightjulie9042]

So sorry to hear this!! I also have cancer not pregnant but a rare type of mesothelioma!! I am in St Augustine so we’re practically neighbors!! I hear the word cancer more and more everyday and I’m so sorry that you have to go through this!! I feel your worries,and everything your saying about how your brain processes such news!! I will be 🙏🙏🙏for you pls keep us updated!! This is so important what your doing because it is so rare!! Thank you for sharing your journey

[@KrazyDaysofKalyn]

I just found your channel last night right before bed and I instantly felt I needed to be there for you in whatever way I can offer… You are incredibly amazing and so is your family… I am sending you a lifetime of prayers, love, positive vibes, happiness, health, adventures with the baby, and joy among many other wonderful thoughts for you all!!! Xoxo ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🌈

[@kimbeeau]

Sending prayers of healing from Australia 🙏🍀

[@joleneplourde9885]

I think your video came across our feeds for a reason. Please know that you have outside support as well. I’ll be praying and sending good vibes for you , your husband and baby girl. 🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💞

[@ew7512]

There's an incredible community of support here on KZbin. I'm certain you will be showered with love. Thank you for sharing your story. Btw studies have not found "staying positive" to improve cancer outcomes. So go ahead and grieve when you need to. ♥️ Stay positive when you can - for your own mental health - but do not feel guilty when you need sad time.

[@tonyawhitten5199]

Well, I do know that stress can weaken your body's ability to fight so staying positive is a good thing. Having said that, you do go through a grieving process when you first get your diagnosis. It is a shock and you are never prepared for it. I was asking why me for the first few weeks and then I got down to business and went into a fight mode.

[@gregmacdonald3559]

Positivity absolutely improves your battle, I know it does. I am proof , wasn’t suppose to last a year, 20 plus and still here. It’s your overall outlook that is positive, your initial breakdown is completely part of your healing journey. A good cry is very good for your health, and this will be one of many. CRY let it out!!!

[@brilliantbutblue]

Appreciate your kindness but the cancer "influencer" space on YT is TOXIC

[@debroahisaacs2452]

Please if you feel like it and want to.....keep doing videos.....your utube family is here for you.❤❤❤

[@kenzierocks1240]

Your video came as a recommendation and I’m so glad I decided to watch. First of all, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Just remember, you’re stronger than you know and baby girl will be OK. My best friend had quads and had to have them via C-section at 32 weeks. She told her OB to get them out! She was miserable and it was getting harder for her to breathe. They all did well in NICU and 3 were able to go home after about a month and one of the girls had to stay about 2-3 more weeks, as she was anemic. It took her a bit more time to catch up but they all did really well considering the situation. Also, this was 25 years ago. Things have advanced, medically, within the past 25 years so your baby will be OK, I just know it. I’m sending so many positive thoughts your way during such a difficult time. I thought about whether to do this or not and decided to. I’m going to quote you a Biblical scripture that’s one of my favorites and I think it’s the best advice that Jesus gave, in lieu of this present world and I try very hard to apply it, as difficult as it can often be. It’s found at Matthew Chapter 6, verse 34 and this is what Jesus said: So never be anxious about the next day, for the next day will have its own anxieties. Each day has enough of its own troubles. You have more than one thing going on that you’ve made and will continue making decisions about but it seems that you’ve made some good, sound, and wise decisions. As difficult as you might find it, try very hard to apply that scripture and try to let it be your resolve, as you move forward. It has, personally, brought me a lot of peace and, at least, a lot less anxiety, as we can only deal with one day at a time, on any journey that we find ourselves. You are such a sweet person. I have subscribed because I want to “be with you” on your journey, however much you take us on. Your baby girl will be your bright spot and your reason to get through this. I’m rooting for you both!

[@lisakelly2194]

I wish I knew what to say, everything seems so inadequate. Just want you to know sending tons of prayers, hugs and positive vibes. It sounds like you have a good plan in place. Try to take day by day and not get too overwhelmed.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you so much!!

[@toliveischrist950]

Ever since I saw your video last night God’s put you on my heart to pray for you and I have been. I pray for your healing and well-being and for your precious daughter too❤

[@vilmavelazquez1979]

Sweet Melanie, I feel for you. Stay positive. I just had a mastectomy after chemo. My diagnosis came 5 months after I moved by myself to another state for a great job opportunity. This is some unfortunate news but please stay positive, celebrate the small wins. So happy you are having a baby girl ❤ congrats!! Keep us posted. You are not alone!

[@StrawberryBanana86]

Praying for you sister in cancer! I had lymphoma when I was pregnant. It was different than any other cancer stories ,I believe because I was fighting for 2 lives not just mine! My baby was fine,thank God because I had blood cancer witch can go to the baby.

[@evajohns3217]

Noooooo that’s horrific! Sending you love and strength.

[@lauraearly5444]

In so sorry this is happening to you. Prayers all around.

[@joannayoutube]

This popped up for me and just want to let you know that my heart goes out to you. I was in a similar situation last year, found out I had an aggressive cancer at 20 weeks pregnant and did 4 months of chemo during pregnancy. It was so hard, but my baby is doing great now and I’ve got no evidence of disease. Praying you have great results. Reach out anytime. 💛

[@Tracey7370]

Awww so pleased for you and hope this gives Mel some hope and reassurance ❤

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Oh thank you so much for sharing this!! I am so glad to hear there is showing no more signs of cancer for you and that baby is doing great! I hope I can say the same this time next year. Thankfully baby girl is so strong. She spent about 2 weeks in the nicu but we are both home now and she's the brightest light through all of this. I start my second dose on Wednesday and looking to her for strength.

[@joannayoutube]

@@melaniefostersnavely so happy to hear that she is doing well!!

[@stephaniewalsh67]

It must be terrifying to be facing two very huge things, new baby and treatment for cancer simultaneously. So sorry for this news and continue reaching out for support. Take this one moment at a time.

[@jeannebrumbaugh7969]

I am praying for you and will continue to do so every day, several times a day! The Kneady Homesteader channel is where I learned about you! This prayer warrior is covering you! ❤

[@laureloneill7244]

Prayers to you! I also had cancer while pregnant. I had my first ultrasound on March 30, 2020 and told my doctor about a lump on my breast that day. She sent me to have a biopsy of it. April 1, 2020 my doctor called and said it was indeed cancer. I had just started my 2nd trimester. I had my port placed on April 9, 2020 and started chemo April 10, 2020. I finished chemo September 11, 2020 and my daughter came September 17, 2020. I had my double mastectomy October 7, 2020 when she was 3 weeks old.

[@kathy2940]

Squamous cell carcinoma is what my friend died from she was 55. She had it in her rectum and felt the tumor and that's exactly what it was. She didn't even make it two years. She decided not to go with conventional treatment and go holistic and it didn't work. I miss her dearly. They're poisoning us with food and water that's why so many people are getting sick. So sorry to hear you also have it especially while pregnant!

[@susanmarchisotto2995]

Im so sorry. You are stronger than you think. Your in shock so lean on your loved ones. Im a 2 year cancer survivor. Aggressive is such a scary word, dont dwell on it. Take one day at a time. Blessings to you.❤

[@hilthomas802]

Healing Prayers for you and baby.

[@claraalgranati]

A friend of mine had breast cancer while pregnant with her daughter. At the time the news was very terrible but she underwent surgery and received chemotherapy while pregnant. The girl is now 11 years old and they are both perfectly fine. I wish you luck. Sorry if I have mistakes in English, I'm from Argentina

[@carolg.6838]

Your English is perfect.

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing this with me! That gives me hope. I am so glad they are doing well!

[@renhoek3687]

I know this is scary - sending love, light and prayers. 🙏✨💛

[@joycecochran4575]

Love and prayers to you Melanie and family. Just went thru a similar situation with my 32 year old granddaughter. She was diagnosed with Hodgkins Lymphoma stage four when she was 3 months pregnant. Happy to report she carried her baby girl 32 weeks and she was born healthy at 4lbs, 2oz. She is now cancer free and her beautiful baby will be 2 years old in February. God is still in the miracle business and I pray for a healthy baby and a cancer free Mama. Thanks for being so brave and sharing . XO

[@Mercyforthewicked]

sending love and prayers - stay hopeful there are many cures and treatments out there!

[@TheKayc136]

Oh lovely lady! I couldn't believe it when I saw your video! Sending you huge hugs! I had a pre cancerous womb polyp and I know how scary that was! I hope this reassures you about your baby girl. My lovely Auntie Margie was born here in England in 1940 at thirty two weeks. She was born at home and considered too fragile to move to hospital. The nurse took out a drawer in the dresser, lined it with cotton wool, then a sheet, put in Auntie Margie, another sheet then more cotton wool. She weighed two pounds, was feed breast milk by a teaspoon as she was too weak to suck. Yet she survived and without all the wonderful intervention your precious baby will have. She lived until great old age, and became a mother, grandmother and great grandmother. This stinks! It's not fair, and it's really hard. My heart aches for you but I get a really strong feeling that you will get through this. Just breathe, take one day t a time and think of all the good times ahead watching your baby grow. There are tough times ahead but I am sure wonderful times after all your treatment. You are in my thoughts and prayers xx

[@melaniefostersnavely]

Thank you for sharing this amazing story of Aunt Margie 💛 what a wonderful lady she sounds like! Is Margie short for Margaret? That’s our sweet girls middle name and we hope she grows to have a life just like your aunt. She’s a little fighter and is doing so well. We are home and getting in as many snuggles as we can before the next dose of treatment starts for me. Thank you for this sweet support!

[@suziedowning8829]

Melanie, I am in your corner and praying for you, for your family, and for the precious little one on the way. Hang in there! Keep your faith! Healing hugs to you all. 💖

[@teresa4244]

This is my first time watching one of your videos. Thankful you showed up on my suggestions… now I can pray for you. May Gif give you the strength and steadiness that you need to go through this journey. Praying for your husband as he travels this road with you. Praying for baby… strong, and healthy. God’s ways are not always our ways. He knows every detail. Hugs.

[@lucymaty4545]

Thank you for your vulnerability. I am so incredibly sorry to hear this! You are strong and I have no doubt you will finish and win this journey!

[@user-gh3rg7fn8p]

Sorry that you are experiencing this. I will pray for you and baby. 🙏

[@karenanderson717]

Oh, Melanie, my heart goes out to you. What a joy your baby girl will be and what a beast your cancer will be. I pray your baby is healthy, as i am sure she will be. After your baby is born and you start on your chemotherapy, you will feel as if you are taking steps to fight it. Prayers and love to you and your family.

[@rosebudadkins6803]

Sending you healing Ravens and strength. Hang in there. ❤️🙏🌹 Do you have anger and unforgiveness in your life? Those can cause issues in our body. I’ve learned to quickly forgive and not hold anger. Talk to your body. Our body loves to hear from us. I have SLE and quite ill many years. I talk to my body and it helps. 🙏🙏🙏

[@kristinepersen7145]

So sorry this is happening to you! Big hug from Kristine 🇳🇴