Melissa Auf der Maur: Full Life Interview

[@mlmn3080]

The two reasons I learned to play bass were Melissa Auf der Maur and Talena Atfield (from Kittie). Thank you so much for this. Also, I so appreciate that while she isn't in it for the money, she also recognizes that if you contribute, you should be paid for that labor.

[@spectrrral]

For me it was Melissa and Kim Deal :)

[@markhunter8554]

A laborer is worthy of his hire.

[@AmericanSpyFox]

Talena yes, Melissa no. Melissa is a much better vocalist than bassist. That's why Celebrity Skin has more of her vocal tracks than Courtney's. Kristen Pfaff should be your idol if you're looking for a female bassist to look up to. Listen to her band Janitor Joe. She wrote most of their songs and they are fueled by her bass.

[@shayburton4104]

@@AmericanSpyFoxMelissa is a awesome bassist shut your face and stop exploiting this woman. She is a very private individual and she would hate to be used for your exploitation on Courtney love and accusing her of murdering her own husband. I have contact with Melissa and I will tell her personally what your aim is and get her to copy right striked your channel.

[@shayburton4104]

@@AmericanSpyFoxMelissa did not have more vocal tracks than Courtney’s she’s mainly singing in the background

[@nickthieling951]

I adore Melissa's work. Her solo albums are so incredible.

[@blackphillip8486]

She's the only person who's ever gotten Glenn Danzig to do a duet or even feature on someone else's album. Damn good tune too.

[@MrCt40]

Which are her best solo albums ?

[@MrCt40]

@@nickthieling951 thanks so much she is totally underrated

[@zackb5636]

Waiting for album 3!

[@nickthieling951]

@@zackb5636 honestly 😭

[@warborn_inc.]

Met her twice and she is hands down one of the most level headed down to earth "professional" musicians I've met (and I have met and worked with hundreds in my career) zero pretentious bullshit.

[@Incoreporation]

It’s so satisfying to watch this interview and hear about her experiences. Last time I saw Melissa was in Montreal, just before she got signed, I was only 17, I spotted Melissa a few times in a small bar called Biftek, on st-Laurent. It was a great era, and music was everything for me at that time. I remember being so happy for her, never saw her again until now, i never really knew what happened after, it’s just very satisfying to hear it from herself. All the best Melissa

[@n0kturna1]

Thank you very much for these great interviews with the women in rock who wrote the soundtrack of my life

[@elavoy670]

Thank you so much. I am a french canadian and i am so glad to learn all about her family and how they are important in keeping the french language alive here. Thanks!!!!!

[@FictiveImagination]

she's a legend

[@3340steve]

I have total respect for this woman. She tells the truth about how insulting " business" people are. In the moment of rehearsal, a riff is brought in , two chords, one verse. After six hours or a week, the riff is there but you dont recognize it, there are now ten chords, there is a "song" and an arrangement that has been played ten different ways. Everyone present brings creativity (ideas and energy). When the record comes out, the front woman and the lead guitar guy wrote everything. Business as usual.

[@silverkw]

Great interview with loads of info! Her harmony really made the Celebrity Skin record for me.

[@mel3948]

Talented, generous spirit and great storyteller. Bless

[@raconteurful]

Great interview. Such and interesting person. Incredible sounding upbringing/schooling she had. Thank you both.

[@silvasun5326]

Everything seemed to happen so perfectly for her…never wanted to be in this band or that band but recruited anyway….never cared about money so not getting any doesn’t count as a loss….pregnant at will without delay…everything just falls into place so perfectly. Bless her forever.

[@williamwixon]

It does seem like she was being guided. She could sense the guidance.

[@joejones9520]

and got to go to the unusual school with no social hierarchy or bullies...many people would be better and happier adults if they hadnt been traumatized by the nightmare of normal school.

[@joejones9520]

@@bellabear653 there is no such thing as a professional guitar player/singer who has made it big who cant sing or play guitar, silly to even say it as an insult.

[@AngelaBaldi]

I wish I could have gone to a school like that....@@joejones9520

[@craighale1139]

I like that comment. It probably rings very true.

[@seanhuntsman7834]

I have to say i just saw this channel. SO SO glad I did. What an inspiring person Melissa is. Obviously introduced to her through Hole, pumpkins and a perfect circle. Ashamed to say I haven’t checked out her solo stuff… which I def will NOW!! I can’t say this often . But I literally was into this entire interview from start to finish. Not only are her chops amazing, so is she !! This has made me want to pull out the instrument and get back into music . .. for myself.. Side note. I think I have that same OuterKnown shirt in a few colors! Ha ha . Keep rockin Melissa and this channel!!!

[@robertmichael7068]

For someone who really didn't have a plan for her life, it's amazing how so many things fell into place as if it were scripted! This is an awesome interview with an amazing woman, amazing musician and an amazing life! MAdM 🤘🎸❤️

[@ciaran3629]

Research who her Dad really was it was all by design Courtney picked Melissa because her Dad is a very powerful journalist

[@Igaveyoumyfakename]

Isn't this the experience of ALL white people? That everything in life just works out and falls into place for you?

[@Liivethroughthis]

@@ciaran3629I heard Billy corgan was the one who introduced Melissa to Courtney?

[@marlakash]

thank you so much to melissa and the people who did this. so inspiring! i could listen to her talk for hours. i feel like a better person from listening to this (while doing domestic housechores which i suck at!)

[@halko1802]

She seems like such a great person. Sucks to hear she got screwed financially with Hole. Also, I had no idea that tour with Robert Smith, Muse, etc happened! And that last tour while she was pregnant sounded incredible! Love her! Such a great interview! 🤘🏼

[@glennoc8585]

I never knew that she got screwed over.

[@tutsybassista]

@@glennoc8585 Yes, how?

[@marsoblivi0n945]

I was there and met Melissa by accident. She was wearing leather pants and they fell off her when she got off the ground to say hello. I just smiled and my pregnant girlfriend got so mad because she was in love with Melissa. Embarrassing but cool at the same time. It was called the cureiso fest or something. Cure played three albums back to back.

[@tim_odonovan]

Equal parts fascinating, inspirational and emotional. Thank you for this, and thank you Melissa 🤟🙏🤟🙏

[@veerchasm1]

I loved her time with the Pumpkins. Coolest chick ever. Super intelligent and articulate

[@colinkulowcreative]

What a brilliant interview. I loved everything about this.

[@Drez47]

I never knew all this. After all these years all this inside info is fascinating. Great interview. 👍🏽

[@666chinchilla]

thanks M.you did your part and thank you for being brave and a white candle in a dark time of music.

[@scratch5191]

The fact she couldn't be manipulated by people who were going all alpha on her speaks volumes. Six hundred a week in Hole? Pitiful. Know your value kids.

[@kurtcobainpizza5606]

You would be amazed how little most musicians mske on the road. Unless youre in U2 or Metallica you better save everything you make.

[@Crosshatch1212]

Crazy now that we no cl can’t even play guitar has guitarists played over her , Her not paying that sound engineer and him realising that vid ,was brilliant ,

[@vintagememories6560]

@@Crosshatch1212Courtney COULD play in the 90s when she was in Hole. She stopped playing after the 90s, and only held the guitar just for the fan service after that. She herself said that. Why do you all who say this act like it’s some secret lol. She can’t play anymore, she has said that multiple times, and she’s said she has no interest in playing anymore. Is it such a crime that someone doesn’t care about an instrument anymore and is doing something to appease her fans? lol.

[@curragh4635]

​@vintagememories6560 are you serious. You just don't forget how to play guitar after you stop playing lol. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. You could put the instrument down for years and pick it up no problem

[@bassrabbit9]

Love her! She steals the stage. I love her style. Hope to check out Basilica one of these days.

[@stitches513]

Awesome, Amazing and still finding out stuff that I didn’t know 26 years later! Longtime fan of MADM & Hole and this interview is just incredible! Immediately subscribed to this channel! Thank you!

[@jameshong4190]

Wow.. same here, she's intelligent and polite with her words, expecially I like her styles

[@kvstrickland]

Wow… just finished this … goosebumps. So wonderful… thank you for sharing this… really needed to hear it.

[@ex_centric2933]

Very interesting interview conversation! I adore her 2 albums which I have. It would be great to release the first record on vinyl. Maximum respect to this amazing musician. Great human person Melissa.

[@italiacameron]

She is such an incredible badass, saw her at the Commodore with Hole during 'Live Through This', probably the best bas player I've ever seen, honestly she is just soooo cool

[@sirtachyon4647]

Great interview! Hopefully someone is going to make a biopic of this interview alone. Loving it.

[@davidjonorato3554]

The best interview of the whole series!

[@angelacino194]

Excellent interview!! Thank you so much :)

[@karenlima_the]

Omg this is so fantastic! I love Melissa so much! Her first solo album was my first powerfull contact with a female rock role model and has changed my life and the whole thing for me. Thank you, Melissa! Keep being lovely and amazing and much happiness, art and love to u and your family! ❤❤❤🙏

[@asharpbflat7179]

Great interview! Saw her in 2004 in Vienna. Always adore her interviews. (Also love how she always credited Courtney. - Eat sh*t, haters.)

[@adammercysystem6450]

Really interesting story and an inspirational person. She seems very contemplative, a deep thinker.

[@heynowls3058]

Excellent. Thanks Melissa.

[@adb9231]

Wow, what a great listen that was. And how refreshingly honest of Melissa to say those things about not getting Hole or Courtney ay the time. Met her a few times and she has always been very approachable and engaging. Loved her song-writing and Auf der Mar work too. And kudos to the interviewer who didn't butt in all the time like a lot do and just let Melissa talk. I was at Reading for that first big show she mentioned - it was an extraordinary time and performance from a deeply emotional Courtney. The great John Peel said the same.

[@anfrankogezamartincic1161]

She really loves music and is not in it because of money. Let's be honest, we all work for money, but i really like her attitude, money is OK but it isn't everything. Greed kills art. I like this ladys view of the world/life

[@csurname]

A living legend. Thanks.

[@phoenixivyroots7084]

This was SO interesting and powerful! It's amazing to hear about Canadian musicians since they are still seen as less significant than USA musicians, unfortunately. I didn't know Melissa was so hippy, witchy, and feminist! I feel so inspired! I can say that Melissa, Courtney, Hole and the women of the 90s DID make an impact! They greatly influenced my life and perspectives, so I grew to know my voice mattered and that I could make a difference in the world! I saw them perform in Winnipeg at one of the festivals, and I will never forget it! I am so excited to see what the younger generations bring - they don't realize how lucky they are to have Melissa mentor them! I wish I could have been at the Courtney tribute as well! I now have to go look up all the things mentioned in this interview. THANKS for this!!!! Also, Tonya - could you PLEASE ask the interview questions using a microphone moving forward for accessibility reasons? Subtitles help, but it would be great to hear you since you not only ask questions, but comment and share as well!!!!!

[@aaroncarson1770]

There's also quite a list of women rockers from Canada. Starting with Joni Mitchel, Buffy Saint Marie, Alannah Myles, Alanis Moressette, Sarah Mclachlan, Nelly Furtado, just for starters. Also big bands like Crash Test Dummies, The Tragically Hip, Blue Rodeo, Screaming Trees, Barenaked Ladies.

[@Joolz1982]

Brilliant interview thanks so much.

[@jackshittle]

She's cool for many reasons.

[@Pokav1deo]

Recently stumbled upon your channel. This is absolutely excellent content. Thank you for sharing. Looking forward to watching all of these videos. Keep up the great work!

[@carmelo7237]

I'm not happy without her music!

[@RavencrowProductions]

What a fascinating story. Loved hearing her talk. I've always loved Hole as well as her solo work but never knew the full story.

[@jaguedes100]

what an amazing interview! this lady is so smart and so cool. glad she's well.

[@heartofthorns9245]

min 11:33 first musical instrument min 12:40 sin expectativas, sin plan, estar en el momento, sin miedo, con corazón la aprobación de dios o la voz afirmativa de dios, sin querer seguridad min 15:05 min 32:26 gut reaction min 39:18 min 10:59 min 43:39 música y dinero min 46:58 stay with music min 42:20 insane contract, intuition and speak my mind min 1:16:40 min 1:17:21 min 1:21:00 witchy man and landscapes and the amazing life min 1:21:53 min 1:24:33 min 1:29:02

[@WesleyGravolet]

Her commitment to the arts is phenomenal...its a rare trait and very admirable!

[@ladygodiva4141]

Thank you for this 🖤

[@pernordstroem6270]

One of my favorite musicians and individuals❤

[@pereldh5741]

What a great interview with a cracking artist! Saw her w the Pumpkins and listened to her ever since. Amazing she mentions Cooper Temple Clause, one of those great forgotten Liverpool bands

[@joshuawilson112]

i love melissa. Her and kristen make bass look beautiful and it is

[@dambrooks7578]

This is a fantastic interview, I wholeheartedly agree with the idea of music not being a corporate business; not just because I would shout at audiences not to clap me as I am not a commodedy. Then I got into a street drumming (samba) band that took to the streets to keep protests happier than drudge.

[@BarbaraT.]

Her mother sounds like an amazing woman!

[@kthurlbut]

What an extraordinary woman!

[@thedeepblueskys]

Excellent interview.

[@andreaorofalo]

Melissa is a very nice person, a very good bass player and a talented artist. I consider her first solo album her best effort so far. Her complete body of work, even considering all the bands she has been in, is indeed impressive.

[@Liivethroughthis]

She is so intelligent and well-spoken

[@vertigo2930]

I can listen to her forever..

[@tvd1188]

I love Melissa's solo work, seriously underrated. I recently visited Hudson for the first time and the only thing i wanted to see was the Basilica! It was closed but what a beautiful building.

[@RaiderDelic]

😲 Wooow 😃! For me, about 4 years ago, with Pandora, the bass-line 🎸 in Hole’s Celebrity Skin WHAAAAPED ME 🤩. Now, I’ve learned more of, and waaaay dig Melissa 🤘🏾❤️.

[@Quarantineism]

Terrific woman. Nothing more to say. Although unlikely in the near future, I still hope there will be another record.

[@redhotone1]

Outstanding interview

[@lisamarie15]

Amazing interview!

[@ryanthomas5507]

She is awesome!

[@tylermiska8380]

Such a good interview

[@MarthVaderxvida]

I do not have a strong maternal drive, but hearing her talk about her daughter's birth story made me so verklempt. You could see her radiate on another level.

[@lordrex71]

Love Melissa and always wondered what she got up to after the solo records. I know this is a old video , but it filled in a lot of gaps and was very informative - going to dive into more vids and subscribe to this channel! Thank you

[@nevermind6406]

she's so inspiring!

[@BookerT555]

Great interview

[@hemihead68]

Amazing woman, utmost respect

[@bpsutherland]

Some of the questions, I wish I could hear them.

[@reidfarrill3917]

Incredibly articulate. An amazing long form story. Well worth listening to.

[@foodog777]

I ran into her in 2005 when the Pumpkins were reforming. I asked if she was going to be part of it. She said she would if Billy called her. His loss that he never did.

[@OriginalAsherella]

58:30 as a lifelong hard-core Smashing Pumpkins fan I love and appreciate Machina so much! I don’t think Melissa is giving the Pumpkins fans the credit they deserve… 🤷‍♀️

[@wantutosigh1117]

Except for the part where she said Pumpkins fans are too hard on a certain album.

[@AvecPoesie]

Melissa seems a quietly-intellectual force of nature. 🖤

[@Spice99857]

I knew there was something about her I couldn't stand.

[@williamphillips24]

@@Spice99857 god forbid that a woman should be well spoken, educated, and confident....

[@Spice99857]

@@williamphillips24 Look, if you really want to know the truth, I'm just jealous that she was Dave Grohl's girlfriend and I never was.

[@Chipper6560]

She is so smart, articulate and with it. So impressive - her body of work and the way she's lived her life is so authentic. A complete bad ass in such a good way and a real role model for anyone - man or woman.

[@instrumentsmrti]

she's so beautiful

[@sweetcell8767]

Celebrity Skin, great record. And Melissa is right, her harmonies make the album so damn good!

[@aisle_of_view]

I like Melissa!

[@chouchoue]

This was 2 years ago, but finally, someone in entertainment openly disliking LA.

[@Yalter777]

Love Melissa and her english is good.

[@arcticmonkey3]

Why wouldn’t it be ?

[@deathkampdrone]

Melissa always was and always will be one of the coolest persons in rock. When D'arcy and Pumpkins broke up, I was absolutely gutted. This woman was the only person who could step in without everything being completely fucked up even more. She is just a solid human being, and super cool. And a great bass player of course!

[@scottymclaren3582]

My childhood crush! Still my adult crush! 🥰

[@obfuscated3090]

Many musicians are musically articulate in song but incoherent off stage. MAdM does not have that problem and is exceptionally intelligent.

[@boydontherocks]

1:06:19 a turning point

[@eddykidd]

Hmmm. 18 is and was the drinking age in Quebec. That's why us Ontario kids would go there on the weekends

[@gordonmccracken1209]

The Smashing Pumpkins need her back w/ the band.

[@tutsybassista]

No. They need D'arcy, the original!

[@jucarcan]

She is fascinating.

[@maxdagg-heston4962]

Epic epic family the Auf Der Maur's - think shes got a little daughter so the legacy continues! Tarzana on le bass.

[@boydontherocks]

47:30 when it gets good 📝📝📝

[@timberbytucker5601]

This was probably one of the more interesting things that I have accidentally stumbled upon in quite some time.

[@PipeChoir]

What an interesting individual...very cool....

[@andyperkins7226]

I love how she tells her story with historical elements and context. Such a beauty and HOT in all videos she was in

[@MikeBodo]

Hole's lineup when Melissa was in it was the best. They were at the height of their powers when Celbrity Skin came out. It's unfortunate they didn't go on to bigger and better things, but that was all Courtney's doing, as she got wrapped up in they hollywood machine and making movies. Would have been interesting to see what could have been had she simply stuck to music and focused all her energy on Hole.

[@arcticmonkey3]

Great comment. It’s too bad she wasn’t into Hole 💯 %. Oh what could have been….

[@MikeBodo]

Actually, Melissa loved Hole but saw Courtney being pulled away from the band by her handlers who thought she could become this big Hollywood actress, which left the band in a lurch. In addition, she never got paid what she had coming to her, which made it an easy decision to leave.

[@arcticmonkey3]

@@MikeBodoyes that’s what I’m talking about. Courtney wasn’t fully invested into Hole.

[@thomasbarchen]

I never heard of this women but she sure is solid.

[@aprilized]

How cool, I went to FACE as well and at the same time as her. I was in 7th grade and she was in 3rd grade from what I can tell by date of birth. Great school for sure but zero direction which is shitty for kids who need some framework

[@jso19801980]

still my crush

[@Grandizer8989]

My favorite back up singer next to The Edge

[@hanajinks1044]

I still love bands like Motorhead and Tool, but for me, Stooges, Pistols and Hole are on a completely 'nother level again. What gets me is her realization of just how great a lyricist Courtney is, no matter how belated.

[@rpvaneyk]

Wow!

[@cyberghost4043]

I love Mellisa she is so cute🥹😊

[@spyretto]

She was candid and when she started talking about heavy metal in terms of the feminine side of witchery she totally blew my mind. I guess Courtney Love is our only hope of getting her out of retirement. 😄