Men Age 18-25 Need to STOP doing this immediately

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Denmo

Denmo

Күн бұрын

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@ATRTAP
@ATRTAP Ай бұрын
“Swiping on dating apps is like sitting in a parked car expecting to get better at driving” lol😅
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
hope that analogy made sense
@litpath3633
@litpath3633 Ай бұрын
As a Christian, dating is a bit different. A different religion isn't really an option. Music is whatever etc, but not being Christian will lead to a lot of problems in the future. It's not a focus of sleeping with many women, but choosing one to actually marry. It changes the approach and goal, but the socializing aspect is the same. Being able to be funny, charming, and a provider that is gained through interaction.
@Sagefrakrobatik
@Sagefrakrobatik Ай бұрын
I guess you can visit different churches to find someone
@litpath3633
@litpath3633 Ай бұрын
@@Sagefrakrobatik yeah definitely, dating apps aren't a replacement for being able to socialize in person. eventually you have to go on a date with someone you met online. lol
@SherrickDuncan
@SherrickDuncan Ай бұрын
Just church hope to meet new women bro. Any Pastor who tells you that is bad just wants to not lose your offering money. There is nothing in The Bible against church hoping to find your life mate.
@ethanmorse3860
@ethanmorse3860 Ай бұрын
Met this guy at Queen's homecoming almost 3 years ago. I didn't know who he was but I started watching his videos a week ago and I knew I recognized him. Turns out it was while I was drunk at a house party. This guy is an absolute legend and watching his videos and getting support from others has helped me learn how to cold approach girls and hopefully over time get out of my dry spell.
@vtmegrad98
@vtmegrad98 Ай бұрын
I'm 52, and recently divorced from a 12 year relationship. On one hand, it's so hard when you're older to meet people in person period, so the apps are appealing because of that. But even if you get A LOT of hits on those, you end up with more women that want to meet than you have nights free in a week. Then jumping into trying to remember how to build attraction after over a decade away is like not driving for 12 years, and go straight to the autobahn. If you can get lots of hits on an app...AND convert them into getting beyond a drink, you probably don't need the apps anyway.
@sidoz3541
@sidoz3541 Ай бұрын
Jack’s content is a gold mine for men because everything he’s saying is true and it’s free! He’s honestly changed my life for the better. I’ve been approaching women recently and now I’m talking and going on several dates with multiple different girls. It’s kind of hard to manage lmao. But the best part is since I get to choose who I approach, they’re actually attractive girls. Not the refrigerators on dating apps you settle for because they’re the only ones messaging you back. I know it’s scary but I promise you once you grow the balls to do it you’ll feel like you’re in god mode afterwards. Even the bad interactions are good because I know I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I didn’t try. I’m also an average looking dude and you’d be surprised at how many girls would give you a chance just because you went up to talk to them. Once I graduate college and get a job, I’m definitely joining socializer just to support Jack because he deserves it for helping so many guys out.
@scvm4920
@scvm4920 6 күн бұрын
This dude is the most real homie I’ve ever listened too
@jordyalmonte42
@jordyalmonte42 Ай бұрын
Online dating is only hindering to a man’s confidence and social skills when he’s getting little to no matches, no dates/hookups and lets it get to his head. If he is setting dates and hook ups, then he’s def doing something right. Have a good profile set, and approach women in real life. Don’t just rely on dating apps to date, fellas.
@jaysieBIBI
@jaysieBIBI Ай бұрын
Hi, I'm from Poland and I've been interested in the topic of Male-Female Relationships for a few years now. I've tried many times to talk to women in real life. I've never tried dating apps because then I'd feel like a loser. I've received a phone number more than once but the problem was that whenever I called to push things forward they wouldn't answer. I'm also often so unlucky that I meet a nice girl and after a while it turns out she has a boyfriend or husband. Good thing is that I can find out about it quickly and not get involved in the future. In conclusion, I wanted to add that out of all the videos on the subject of relationships, yours is the most factual.
@MrHaker147
@MrHaker147 Ай бұрын
Hi, I'm also from Poland. It's great that you didn't try dating apps. I tried Tinder, and it really affected my self-esteem for a while. Girls there barely ever swiped right on me (at least in my case), and even when I did get matches, most of them didn't respond or only exchanged a few messages. Keep meeting women in real life-it's definitely the best way to go. Don't give up!
@jaysieBIBI
@jaysieBIBI Ай бұрын
@@MrHaker147 Dziękuje 😉
@trozner
@trozner Ай бұрын
I was born in Poland and raised in the US. I feel like the best way to get a woman is to find one abroad in a non white cointry like in Southeast Asia or Latin America. In those countries as a white male you will be seen exotic based on your white skin which could lead you to more women finding you attractive. The problem is getting out of your comfort zone and traveling solo to a foreign country and the language barrier.
@bh-rf9dd
@bh-rf9dd Ай бұрын
He’s definitely right. I’ve been told I’m an above average attractive guy by many girls, and have really only had success finding girls at my level of attractiveness in person.
@sinking1902
@sinking1902 Ай бұрын
Women have horrendously high and unrealistic standards on dating apps. They all looking for Brad Chad. Brad Chad doesn’t even really exist. 😂
@lawrencerubin8719
@lawrencerubin8719 Ай бұрын
I love how you made a Radiohead reference! I have a girlfriend and I love Radiohead so I must be an anomaly 🤣🤣🤣
@suryanarayanan5158
@suryanarayanan5158 Ай бұрын
I believe an average guy should do both dating apps and cold approach. Both should complement each other. Most people don't know how to use dating apps and waste their time. I've gotten success from them in the past. Having said that, cold approaching is an amazing skill which every man should have.
@d.k.borelli8267
@d.k.borelli8267 Ай бұрын
absolutely. It's one thing to only rely on dating apps. But if you're a real player of the game, you will utilize both. a lead is a lead
@JohnnyWalkerBlack142
@JohnnyWalkerBlack142 Ай бұрын
I think the problem is that a lot of guys download a dating app and then have one bad experience and give up. Really what you should do is keep your profile up for like a year and continuously refine it. It might take you a while to start getting success through it, but it’s at least better than being inconsistent and never getting any results. Use it as a supplement to in person interactions
@AceWhatAGuy
@AceWhatAGuy Ай бұрын
If good looking guys are not getting attention anymore even. I guess I'm stuck alone the rest of my life.
@viswagnya
@viswagnya Ай бұрын
Say hello to your first comment Mr. Denmo And also great work!
@AmbientClassical
@AmbientClassical Ай бұрын
Man, your videos are insanely helpful. Thanks bro.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Ай бұрын
If you don't use dating apps, then you are effectively withdrawing from the biggest part of the dating market. Also these apps don't just make you feel unattractive. They are actually showing if women really find you to be attactive. There is no better tool to test your attractiveness.
@mangomight7938
@mangomight7938 Ай бұрын
Well by using dating apps you remove the element of mystery that's so important when you meet and interact with a woman for the first time in person. Making a strong first impression that evokes positive (sometimes erotic) emotions can leave a lasting impact, helping you stand out from the competition. The next time she experiences those feelings, she'll naturally be reminded of you. A blurred memory of a good profile picture won’t cross her mind in daily life, and even if you succeed in setting up a date through dating apps, you've already sacrificed a lot of leverage by making your intentions too obvious.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Ай бұрын
@@mangomight7938 If what you stated would be true, then women would naturally prefer to date offline. *This is not the case.* You fell into the trap of romanticizing offline dating, while not understanding that onlinedating *leads to offlinedating.* What you call "mystery" is nothing else but attractiveness. The overwhelming majority of women will prefer meeting an attractive man, of whom they only saw a picture of, compaired to an unattractive man, who is standing a few feet away. Test it out if you don't believe me.
@mangomight7938
@mangomight7938 Ай бұрын
​@@nocturnaljoe9543Alright, let’s use a physically attractive man to compare both approaches: the online dating method where he matches with a woman based solely on his dating profile content and vice versa, and the offline method where he starts a conversation with another woman without making his intentions immediately clear. Imagine he encounters a woman who is alone in a public space, making the initiation process more comparable between online and offline approaches. In which scenario do you think he will have the most leverage to arrange dates and other interactions by the end of each approach? Additionally, consider the value both parties gain by observing each other's verbal and non-verbal cues during a casual conversation where neither has explicitly stated their intentions.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 Ай бұрын
@@mangomight7938 If what you stated was true, then why aren't women prefering to date offline?
@mangomight7938
@mangomight7938 Ай бұрын
​​@@nocturnaljoe9543According to the stats mentioned in the video, women only make up 30% of the user base on online dating platforms. So, saying "most prefer it" wouldn't be factually correct. I’m arguing that the offline approach gives men more emotional and mental leverage during the attraction phase, if it leads to attraction at all. It's a win-win either way I would say. While initiating offline presents greater challenges, it can also offer sweeter rewards. For example, a man might approach a woman who is alone, with a friend, or in a group, each requiring different strategies. In every case, he must show his value and ability to influence others, which reinforces both his self-image and how others perceive him.
@DenshaOtoko2
@DenshaOtoko2 Ай бұрын
As a Christian you can't choose someone to marry because no one wants to marry me. Also it's different in the West compared to the rest of the world where you can still pay a dowry for a wife in many countries.
@trozner
@trozner Ай бұрын
Man I wish I was born in those countries where as a guy you could pay to get a girl to be with you unlike in the us.
@DenshaOtoko2
@DenshaOtoko2 Ай бұрын
I live in an antisocial city and was fat, and I am short and Asian.
@XTheBeast10
@XTheBeast10 Ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. I (really) delete all my Dating Apps.
@forestcityexoticsco.307
@forestcityexoticsco.307 Ай бұрын
Jack, thank you for inventing the wheel so we can drive cars. You are a legend🤘
@BS_Profile
@BS_Profile Ай бұрын
If women showed interest and talked to me in real life the same way they do on dating apps, I never would've downloaded them in the first place.
@Sagefrakrobatik
@Sagefrakrobatik Ай бұрын
Ive decided to take a couple years off dating apps. Right now im using malls and stores to meet women.
@LeviBakerMarketingCoach
@LeviBakerMarketingCoach Ай бұрын
like you said they thrive on men and the type of they attract doesn’t make it any easier.
@Camontheedge
@Camontheedge Ай бұрын
How are you doing jack? High spirits, I hope
@Youngsparky95
@Youngsparky95 Ай бұрын
At this point I think I’m going to be single for life. All I do is work and stay at home cause I’m too tired to do anything after my shifts . I basically have no friends and I still live with my parents at 29 because I can’t afford a house yet. No girl wants a grown man that still lives at home. I’m alone 99% of the time , it’s hard to meet women on your own. I also live in a small town which is horrible for dating.
@trozner
@trozner Ай бұрын
I'm in the same position as you are. I'm 29, live with my parents, work and go home afterwards and repeat.
@litpath3633
@litpath3633 Ай бұрын
im totally not browsing videos right now
@trozner
@trozner Ай бұрын
I feel like the best way to get a woman is to find one abroad in a non white country like in Southeast Asia or Latin America. In those countries as a white male you will be seen exotic based on your white skin which could lead you to more women finding you attractive. The problem is overcoming your fear of traveling solo to a foreign country and the language barrier.
@ChadCawleyYT
@ChadCawleyYT Ай бұрын
Im banned from the top 4 dating apps anyway hahahaha 🤣
@SherrickDuncan
@SherrickDuncan Ай бұрын
Jack make a new video on how to build a social circle of high value Men and super attractive women from scratch fast with no money and no starting point (like in a new city). Like Michael Sartain Men of Action type stuff but Denmo Style.
@zackanderson2298
@zackanderson2298 Ай бұрын
From ages of 18-23 I’ve only used dating apps and met hella girls lmao.
@seanmarks219
@seanmarks219 Ай бұрын
I couldn't disagree more with this video. Dating apps have improved my dating life. I've been on over 30 dates in the past year solely by using them. I lost my virginity because of them and I've slept with quite a few women since. Most of my friends' crazy dating lives come from dating apps. Cold approach is more of a sport and the time spent maintaining a social circle isn't realistic for super busy work horses. It's good to do all of them. Apps. Cold approach. Social circle...etc. For context, I was a virgin until last year. Average-looking AT BEST. I was getting ZERO matches on all apps until I put in WORK to improve my profile and actually took risks to fight my anxieties and mental BS around women.
@DjangoUnSkilled
@DjangoUnSkilled Ай бұрын
Same
@admiralakainu5188
@admiralakainu5188 Ай бұрын
Must be amazing being born a chad. Enjoy your genetic gifts.
@DjangoUnSkilled
@DjangoUnSkilled Ай бұрын
@@admiralakainu5188 it’s not genetics. I am not a good-looking Chad. Being not picky to get experience and learning that way is the way to go. Also, work on yourself mentally and physically. Very good profile pictures are more important than looks
@Bropiller-gb4ws
@Bropiller-gb4ws Ай бұрын
How'd you improve your profile?
@DjangoUnSkilled
@DjangoUnSkilled Ай бұрын
@@Bropiller-gb4ws 1. pic: You, in good clothes alone, where they can see your whole body. 2. pic: You, doing your favourite activity 3. pic: You with a dog or cat in a moment of trust 4. pic: You, in a social setting without doing something fun without showing your friends faces. 5. pic: You again in a suit, or looking at beautiful nature. 6. pic: Your favourite photo you took or something you're proud of. Very good quality photos matter! Description: Confident Gym Cat & Dog Ambition Honest
@DenshaOtoko2
@DenshaOtoko2 Ай бұрын
It's taboo to ask girls out on dates in the US except for at a bar or a night club and those things aren't popular anymore. So dating apps are the only thing.
@bigz5262
@bigz5262 Ай бұрын
It’s not taboo. Women aren’t going to get mad at you for saying hi and introducing yourself
@Shane.C
@Shane.C Ай бұрын
@@bigz5262quite literally false
@JohnnyWalkerBlack142
@JohnnyWalkerBlack142 Ай бұрын
Bro I literally met my ex in the gym wym
@huyhritter1724
@huyhritter1724 Ай бұрын
*I love the grounded reality of this channel!!!* *Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, $47,000 weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD*❤️
@huyhritter1724
@huyhritter1724 Ай бұрын
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
@GeorgeRiggs-t3y
@GeorgeRiggs-t3y Ай бұрын
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
@GeorgeRiggs-t3y
@GeorgeRiggs-t3y Ай бұрын
I'm 35 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
@huyhritter1724
@huyhritter1724 Ай бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Scott) who suggested Mrs Maria Angelina🙏.
@huyhritter1724
@huyhritter1724 Ай бұрын
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
@arizonagroyper
@arizonagroyper Ай бұрын
Second
@Tarunuknowbitch
@Tarunuknowbitch Ай бұрын
Nah I JUST HAD AN DATING APP ADVERT-Bumble
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