Men and Women's Internal Struggles

[@lakchaikataweteetham9517]

Love your sharing

[@jordanisminecraft5791]

Hi Leng! I don’t care what story you telling bring it on. I love it all plus your voice thiab lub suab luag mas qab zeb heev li os.

[@L33ya2012]

❤

[@PhajejHmoobYaj]

Thanks!

[@LENGVANG]

Thank you, brother.

[@LENGVANG]

Hey guys good morning. This is not a scary story. I'm hoping to resume scary stories next week. Thank you.

[@tenxiong25]

yet you put a scary picture

[@vanhthor1974]

Kuv mloog koj cov dab neeg tag es kuv npau suav phem thiab tsi tau luag li

[@forevame69]

Please do more videos like this. 😊

[@lets.go.places2gether]

Good stories scary or not. Keep up the good job. I do agree on some of your advice.

[@johncmoua]

Awesome!!

[@kongtzengchang4225]

These stories are more scarier than others you have told because these are real in our society. I have seen them many many times. But I've never seen the other(ghost) type.

[@baoher4277]

Great advice for the Men in their 20s, that is absolutely true plus those are the years when Men are most strong.

[@nyiamnkawgsaiv9748]

Pls upload more stories like these!

[@kennythao9558]

My advice for the first story is don’t be a player. Don’t expect to be with a lot of people and still be valued the same way before you were a player. Your past sticks to you when it comes to being considered a spouse. No disrespect just the truth. It goes both ways.

[@Boomyvue]

Based!!

[@maixiong318]

Wow the last story 😮

[@khouvue4363]

Brother Leng you’re right about men should treat their wife good

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

Hey Leng next time you have a private show hit me up?…I NEVER HAVE ONE BRO!

[@padeeonpurpose]

Love your content! Just wanted to say, women in their 20s who want to find a high value man is hard. Why? Because a 20 some year old high value MAN rarely exists. Most men around that age don’t know what high value even means and they are caught up chasing parties, thirst traps on social media and onlyfans (like story 2). It takes humility, hard work and loyalty to actual commitment to make a relationship work. ❤ Keep it up!

[@PhajejHmoobYaj]

You are right I’m in my 42 my daughters about to graduate college finis high school take couple month then go find a college once hit mid 25 u r good

[@LENGVANG]

Bro I wish my kids are in that age range like yours. Raising a 1,2, and 3 years old all at once is exhausting lol 😂

[@leejmuam1]

Welcome to my world 5 years ago😂. Now my kids all in school. Yay. No more baby. ​@LENGVANG

[@andralee1261]

Honestly, you match these more than your scary stories. I feel like this relates more into yourself or personal experiences. -Peng Sue

[@sirsteve8999]

For those that dont know, if you have kids with your gf/wife and something that leads to you both splitting up. The court will give custody of the kid(s)to your gf/wife even if she's not financially stable, etc.

[@mayseeyang5953]

At this point you might as well plant a bunch of different sages around the house..

[@shoualee-simplicity7963]

Love your stories!❤ Thank you.

[@yayableu]

I think you have to find the right person that fits you. I believe marriage is a beautiful thing because it’s a willing agreement between two person to put up with each other 😅 Sometimes you meet the wrong one in that point in your life, maybe you will meet the right one down the road. Thank you Leng.

[@georgeyyang1995]

These stories are really nice and informing. I would love if you upload more stories for us to listen to and learn from. Thank you brother leng.

[@nusdogg]

Love these life lesson stories, brother. Everyone has a goal in life. Some want a family, good life, some just can't decide what they want to do with their life and we have some just want to be a bum and don't even want to help themselves. But at this age, I'm starting to see that most of 30+ yrs old people (mostly divorced people) rather just live together, no wedding and if it don't work out then both moves on to the next chapter. But you are correct, about finding someone you want to settle down with is best at the age of 20-25 then move forward and build your empire from there.

[@houayang7219]

Thanks you

[@souagyang89]

I actually like your advice stories more than scary stories. The advice ones are more relatable and love how you always put your input into them.

[@alwaysf0r3v3r]

Great job! Love it! Please make more videos like this.

[@kennythao9558]

Speaking on women not being open to men lower than them in status shows a lot about who they are as a person. Yes you’re taking a risk loving and letting someone “lower” than you into your life but if the love is real and if you truly care for them you’ll be willing to take them in as they are. You’ll be the person to support and push them to do better. There’s a lot to be said but I’ll leave it here.

[@maiyiayang6872]

Thank you for sharing these story it’s very good

[@cheexiong1634]

Sometimes in life you can’t have both and you realize as you get older and still missing something… some people may have it all in their life but still don’t have what others have like kids and wife or husbands …or as they age it’s harder to find a partner.. etc… life is tough

[@chouayang4196]

Great stories, I'm sad that they both feel that way.

[@kalayawang4171]

Brother Leng sage is good strong for supernatural at all. I have something I can feel it but I can’t see in my real eyes so thus kind of plant just help you like miracle.

[@meehlauj9595]

Great job... You should start with this topic again. Love listening to all your stories. Thanks

[@simonyang775]

First story: karma.

[@dohcvtecboy]

304 around with mens and found out. lol

[@mayyang4756]

You are so right,( u'r 2 cents)

[@maithao7320]

Can you share the link to purchase white sage?

[@Mmamicx]

Dammmmm make more of these. Bring it back to when I 1st stumbled on your channel.

[@TemporaryAccount123]

Keep it up brother. I enjoy that you give your opinion without being judgy, complaining or yelling at the listeners. Sometimes when I listen to other Hmong channels that share life stories like these, the story teller tends to have a harsh voice that sounds like they’re yelling or nitpicking the story. I appreciate your life view and can’t wait to hear more of these from your channel.

[@2Cenery]

This is the downfall of our societal construct today. Gone are the simple ways of a relationship due to “Miss Independent” movement. Be independent BUT have some humbleness and drop the ego. When women behave as such then men start to dovetail accordingly which in return, we have this circle jerk of everyone continuing to “mess” around versus be serious. Good advice bro and on point.

[@mxxyooj1125]

Leng, very good advice I need to shared this advice with my kids!

[@HSAnt963]

Do more of these stories from time to time and sharing your 2 cents. Love the scary stories but this is a welcomed departure as well ❤

[@touaher2150]

Brother Leng, you are 100% correct

[@xiameevang9131]

Leng, everything you talk about here is 100 right. I’m totally agree, because I had consider on both side. I was an honest good looking women married had kids at very young age, so are my kids. But my grandkids are in their 25-30 age and still going through life playing around.

[@ellenxiong2103]

I like the change. It’s good to hear that individuals can come to you to help express their situations they’re going through. I’m sure it’s also a good break for you from your typical scary stories. 😂

[@fatttydevine]

It's good to take breaks from scary stories for a bit, but don't take too long, lol. I like listening to your scary stories 😊. Thank you for sharing these kinds of messages/stories/experiences/advises.

[@aaronanderson3601]

That first story is more common than usual. So many (pretty) women really are just side piece release for married men with power authority only for the manager resource. Then peb modern hmoob men lacking passion.

[@nubt537]

More please!! And Stay Safe!!

[@chuevue1628]

What was the thing you use to burn after telling a story??

[@hmongguy4573]

Leng, please share the clip of the baby swing.

[@skylee6530]

Hais txog ntawm tus poj niam es nws tau hauj lwm zoo muaj nyiaj tab sis nws raug dag tag li xwb. Txawm koj yuav muaj hauj lwm zoo muaj nyiaj los koj hnub nyoog siab lawm ces tus txiv neej muaj hauj lwm zoo ib yam koj lawv tsis xav tau koj lawm. Tus txiv neej xav tau koj ces yog tus yuav los siv koj li nyiaj thiab tos koj noj lawm xwb thiaj xav yuav koj lawm xwb

[@yvang5145]

The only one thing I would disagreed with you is, you're claiming this video to not be a scary video, but LIFE is scary, so do more of these videos if you need a break from ghost stories. Us listeners like to learn from other's mistakes.

[@ourherfamily7582]

bay leaf also good too, I used them both❤

[@maiyiamoua355]

Thanks for your story they are great some are so real but if you have that what you feel and what you have said then on my opinion I would recommend you to be a believer of God it’s the only way can help you and benefit you for the rest of your life. God is the created of every things the Bibles told the details how when? beginning and to the end The instructions tell us how we do, how we live but no one see that. Think and what you like it or not I just give my thought and advice to you. I have a lot of story that I have been trough too thanks keep up the good work for you enjoy todo but be careful.

[@kengy9861]

Need more of these kinda of story

[@janesoyaj]

I enjoy these more than the scary stories 😊

[@BB01138]

Interesting from both view, men & women. Sorry Leng, lol. I always, always listen to your scary stories... and half way, I don't even understand anymore. My mind wanders while I'm still listening, so I have to repeat your stories at least 2-3x. Lol. I want to support you since I love scary stories, but these topic.. I was not side-tracked. 😅 I support all your videos either way. I enjoy them all.

[@Dtt4]

Why is Men “wired” like that you say? Well, you already answered that question yourself. It’s because younger women are generally more fertile and a lot more physically attractive. It’s apart of our primal instincts to survive. 👍

[@panhiayang9029]

I like scary and this kind of story… thanks

[@nightowl7261]

Women in the first story did it to herself. Plus she is home wrecker cheating on married men. Used and abused by 30.

[@CR0SH-m5z]

And this is when women and men think differently. I as a women give myself to my husband when he wants it and still get cheated on. One is never enough for some men I guess.

[@kingboji958]

Im sorry to hear that. I agree that us men are very horny scums. Some men can control and turn a blind eye on other women's, and some decides to act up on their temptations. From my perspective as a men, men are wired weird. When a men gets something to easily all the time, he tends to not appreciate it anymore. But if a man doesn't get anything at all too, we tend to give up and look for other solutions. I use to date this girl and I did everything for her and eventually she cheated on me and the reason was "i was to easy". So I'm pretty sure this goes both ways for both gender but like Leng said, if you gave everything you got in the relationship and the other person doesn't appreciate you. Its not a you problem, its there's. So don't have any regrets. At the end of the day, there will always be a better looking guy or better looking girl than your partner, but commitment. Commitment and loyalty is what keeps people together.

[@kennethvang3424]

🫶👌👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@CrayZJo3Davola]

Independent women are angry 😠

[@the-onethatgotaway5257]

Response to 1st topic - That is why I trapped my husband at 18 😆😝 I regret it tho, shoulda trapped someone else in my early 20s. Topic 2 - Marriage is lifelong committment. Temptation comes along and the weak takes the bait. Men and women are the same. Men are just more careless to hide and women are better at hiding.

[@HiTuab]

Someone been watching fresh n fit. Brother you been RED PILL 💊

[@jenniferlee8709]

You can get your sage at any smoke shop if you don't have time to order it.

[@youtooonelee9177]

Leng when that happens at work, make a stop before going home so they don’t follow you home.

[@zeryang85ify]

Lol, good cover up at the end about your wife 🤣 I was going to say us millennials are aging well fine 🤣

[@phiayang5952]

brother, i totally agreed with you :D. men is just like that.....If i'm a established person, think i probably want someone that is younger that I can groom, just my opinion for myself :D.

[@user-vm8kl1uk3m]

Kuv zoo siab thiaj kuv kuj yug kuv cov nyem tag ua ntej kuv muaj 30 xyoo lawm os.....now my oldest is 41 and wb zoo li muam nus xwb...hehe😊

[@madamtokyo1]

Brother you gotta take care of your mental health first.

[@MegaBev]

A majority of Hmong women stop taking care of themselves when they get married and have kids. Vietnamese women on the other hand take cares of their health and they seem to not gained weight like Hmong woman after marriage and kids. Your wife is indeed beautiful.

[@nightowl7261]

Maybe it's the food

[@leejmuam1]

That's because Hmong women are busy being Hmong wife. Vietnamese women don't need to be a Hmong wife. She can be herself, and she can have demands, and her husband will comply.

[@420Trader]

These topics are okay too. don't have to be scary story. Life advice is always good. Will always be a student in Life.

[@hmonggodmother7154]

Me tub, the more you talk about the dead, you attract them. When you talk about dab, they get excited too 😊. They come and listen to you too when you talk about them. Sage gets rid of them for awhile but it can also activate the activities as well.

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

Rather stay single and sleep with everyone

[@ShellyCha]

I still think that if you've got the look, sexy, hot and got money too ... girl they will always come find you. It all depends on what you choose and how you carry yourself.

[@meganxiong3324]

Leng if you keep telling scary stories they will effect your life you need to stop before it is getting bad to your family

[@mengyang8067]

While i understand the first woman, she didnt take accountability for the fact that she was home wrecker and used her beauty to advance her career. Victim mentality goes hard. You reap what you sow.

[@Mizzlezzlee]

If you still don’t believe in the paranormal yet..how can you not? Lol anyway yes take a break and stay safe.

[@ginamoua9989]

You shouldnt push people into getting marry because that will be their only happiness. You need to know what you want once you have gone through good and bad experiences. Either knowing you want to find someone to be with forever or enjoy being single n mingle. But you lady did not know what you want and sound like you toxic thats why u find guys like that only. There are men out there who wants a strong independent successful mature women. But seems like you are making excuses by being in your 30s is “like the worst”. I think and know its you. How anybody going to love you cus it sounds like u dont even love yourself. At least now u know beauty dont last and its not everything to everybody.

[@lor6760]

Wake up, people. The heart of mankind is evil continually. No one will escape the judgment of God the creator. Jesus christ is the savior.

[@peetv531]

First story 1. She was full of herself 2. She probably had a good one, but she was full of herself and she let him go. Karma comes back like a bitch, now she ended up with what she didn't want, they may love each other but it wasn't her first choice as a High value women. Having an education and making a lot of money doesn't make you high value It is nice to mix it up now and then

[@johnbarron4843]

Bro, just stick to Hmong when telling your stories. The broken English feels weird when you transition back and forth.