Men are only friends with attractive women to sleep with them

[@mimisummerville1127]

Every male friend that I have is someone I've friend zoned. If the opportunity presented itself, they would take it. I have not one male friend that would say no.

[@Chasin88-89]

Makes sense

[@mrdefinitlee]

But that different.. you said you friend zoned them.. that suggests that they were wanting to be more out the gate..

[@jd2024-]

Same here every male friend I have had has tried it when they thought I was vulnerable like straight after I get out of a relationship or if I’m tipsy. I’ve never been drunk because my dad always said never get to a point where you are not in control of your thoughts and actions so I limit myself to 2-3 drinks max and can be wavy but still in control so many times I thought someone was only a friend I found out then and had to distance myself from them because how can you try take advantage like that when you think I don’t know what I’m doing

[@angeleyes3386]

My dad always told me “He’s not truly your friend baby. He’s just sitting on sidelines waiting to get in the game” and my dad is a very solid, sound guy.

[@priaplush5143]

He is right that's what my father always said too me

[@Lokamotive-j2p]

I say this as a woman that has been a straight up tomboy my entire life at one point I was wearing only boy clothes and yes I’m a lesbian. I would be mistaken for a boy at times and my male friends STILL tried to sleep with me. That should tell you a lot lol

[@Rebel-tw6du]

I had a guy that i considered a bestie for 8 years and we never did 💩 not even hold hands, one day he told me he was in love with me and when i told him im not interested in him like that he stopped talking to me..

[@genovasquez8361]

Smart man, most will still try and keep pressuring you

[@lovesendeavor4052]

Men & women do not view friendship the same. Their homeboys will always be before you & that man is not your friend. Friends don’t ask that. Y’all are long time acquaintances.

[@jd2024-]

Sometimes it can be devastating when you think you have a real friend then find out they just are like all the others when they try it

[@MANEMANL]

This is why I’m so skeptical with relationships because people be in all these weird relationships with other people and try to do mental gymnastics to justify it

[@jayc5756]

If you a man and you cant just be friends with a woman without any sexual thoughts or any attraction in them...that says a lot about yall. FR Now as far as women...I still feel the same. But I learned the hard way, that most women dont really want just a man friend like that. I thought I had some in the past...but Nope! So yeah, it is what it is.

[@beautyinthedark7406]

She needs to leave that man alone and get herself a pet.

[@kipp4199]

They’re not batting over who is your best friend, they’re arguing over who been in the friend lane the longest and who should get some first. MEN ARE NOT INVESTING TIME INTO A WOMAN THAT THEY DONT WANT TO LAY DOWN WITH!

[@daytonchris8351]

this was like the reverse version of the boy is mine with brandy and monica, "the nique is mine".

[@jayc5756]

LMAO!!!

[@deannabarnes3771]

Lololol 😮

[@mrdefinitlee]

That’s funny 😂

[@Mani_Talks247]

17:21 not Nique lowkey showing us she that girl 🫶🏾 flex your worth babe 💪🏽

[@ThePoshMel]

I found out after over a decade that someone I thought was my “brother” actually liked me. Men usually aren’t just platonic friends with attractive women. Whereas as women, we can be platonic friends with a guy 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@TeriMYaki]

There is a saying that men mistake women’s kindness as sxual interest and women mistake men sxual interest as kindness. I dnt have many heterosexual male friends. The ones I consider friends have flirted or pursued me. I prefer to have female friends over males honestly.

[@Mani_Talks247]

1st dude sound like someone who you generally vibe with and he was just naturally testing the waters. The 2nd dude definitely is playing the "friend" game in hopes that one day he will get the chance he "deserves".

[@ccronk04]

Even guys that you haven’t been intimate with can’t just be friends. They always want something more even if it’s just sexual.

[@Mskimat1]

My best friend and I started an intimate relationship during covid. We're still good friends, but the dynamics have changed. He thinks we should continue to be intimate, but I don't.

[@janeeyx5672]

Girl, he wants to be with you.

[@Mskimat1]

@janeeyx5672 LMBO... He's been trying to be with me forever. He says I'm the love of his life. But honey, these men be tripping. He's never been disrespectful or anything. We get along perfectly. His attitude and demeanor are very chill. But I don't know. Maybe in the future. We're old AF 😆. We don't have much longer to play around. We're in our mid and late 40s.

[@Blacksireen]

Sounds like a similar situation with one of my old best friends minus the trying to talk part and it totally ruined our friendship because he fell in love and was jealous and passive aggressive all the time even though we said we were just gonna be friends . So if you are gonna be friends with a man , don’t sleep with him at least 😂 and just because YOU feel like you can be friends still doesn’t mean he does ! And he tried to sleep with me again so sleeping with them ONCE is enough for them to ask again so that’s not surprising at all .

[@NiqueatNite]

yea pretty much

[@ishapeach]

Ive never had a male friend that's didn't want more. Im usually not attracted to them. But we get along the most & easy to converse with. Ive known this since my teen years. If a male friend never tried anything with the lady friend that means shes not attractive to him. And she usually wants more.

[@peeweecrawford3349]

Yessss Niecee HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO EVERYONE…. let’s Gooooo 😊😂

[@janeeyx5672]

I had a male friend in school. Then when it came to us graduating, he came up to me, hugged me tight, and told me he liked me. I immediately shut it down and told him that I wish him nothing but the best. Ended the friendship right there.

[@Misscoco4346]

I'm sorry yall conversation did not sound like best friends that sounded like yall were flirting with each other

[@laticiaxo6538]

All this talk just makes me sing "Best Friends" by the Weeknd 😂 Fits perfect for the most part LOL

[@lyndiaj6038]

My best friend is my ex.....but i can tell he still wants me but just quiet about it...i can feel it when we talk about our own relationship

[@dreedwards6859]

You’re bf shouldn’t want to f*** you sounds like you’re desperate for a friend

[@staciadanielle3946]

I couldn't be friends with someone i messed with in the past. I do have male friends but my hubby thinks they are waiting as well lmao

[@erock9594]

If your husband isn't comfortable with it, why are you still friends with them? You don't respect your husband?...

[@genovasquez8361]

Yes those guys are waiting

[@BigBlessed9135]

Or maybe she respects his opinion. My question is do you want a woman with a profile picture as revealing as yours is? Why don't you respect yourself? ​@@erock9594

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

I’m surprised my bf doesn’t allow me to have male friends! But he’s also not allowed to have female friends. Tbh it doesn’t bother me but it bother him so we made it a relationship rule !

[@Mr.CEO888]

Is that you in the picture? Tell your husband, he’s good. 😂

[@noonieb4454]

My best friend told me he was in love with me. From my eyes I never saw it AT ALL. So I do believe that when you're attractive it's hard to GENUINELY have male friends. The feeling will be different

[@mrdefinitlee]

I’m mad i missed this.. this is right up my alley.. I like to talk about stuff like this

[@tyleciacom]

This can really go either way.. I had a female friend that was secretly inlove with me and admitted it which ended our friendship.

[@Lucky_Gurl-Luna]

So basically she was gay and u weren’t ?? Or was it bc y’all were friends??

[@ilenhalogram]

You haven’t popped up in my algorithm for a while for some strange reason but Im glad you’re back and I LOVE your new hair 💚💚💚💚

[@Itty-xq1ze]

Yeah nah….My male best friend and I been friends since we was 18 ,20 years old until he passed away this year…I’m 42 years old now ….Me and that man slept in the same bed and not once was the line crossed,never even had a conversation about crossing the line….each other partner can’t take yall seriously as friends if the line was crossed in the pass

[@chakra1634]

We can be hitting that like button in advance while we wait 🎉🎉🎉🎉thanks

[@AnishaJaNae]

I have 1 really good male friend from like over 10years & he literally never tried anything. The ones that try are not your friend idc because they’re always gonna wait for a weak moment to get with you.

[@nutgeb]

But if you made a move would he say no? That’s the question.

[@PaniniWasteland]

I have the exact same story. Known my two best friends, both whom are male, from college. Never did nothing with them and they got their own girlfriends. So it's very possible to have real male friends.

[@krimezofkolor4683]

I never had a male friend who didn’t try to sleep with me . And it’s hard to be a friend to a male after sex it changes the dynamic . 😭 sometimes I wish I never did it because our relationship is so weird now . It usually doesn’t work . Friends don’t have sex

[@PaniniWasteland]

I absolutely disagree. My male friends and colleagues would be disgusted at the thought of being intimate with me 😂

[@roccash1289]

😂😂 to funny but nall i dnt want nothing but friendship i aint wating 20 years for no cat 😅

[@LyneseTheDame]

When the video first started, I thought this was serious but now I’m listening to you talk to your so-called best friends. I figured it out. You got friends like my mom have friends I’m Gen X. I made it to that level yet.

[@vashtikelly6837]

I have solid male friends who have been in my life since childhood and they have proven to be my true friends ❤❤❤ I don't stay friends with lovers or ex's once we're done, but my male friends are blessings from God 🙏 . To even think my friends and me desire each other is saying i desire my brothers which is a insult 😮😮😮😮

[@Ytremz]

Y’all ladies don’t really be understanding how patient us dudes are fr!! 😂😂

[@1111KO]

...He's just cashing in his "Benefits"

[@sidneycunningham4306]

You might look at him as a friend GENUINELY but from the story you told it sounds like he doesn't and what the responses were to your story might be valid. He's friends with you in hopes of hooking up with you AGAIN. Males and females that are friends in most cases have a different perspective of their friendship and most women don't understand that.

[@peeweecrawford3349]

ITS POSSIBLE NIECEE, BUT 8 out of 10 WILL FAIL . Personally I Regret One Male Friend I had🤦🏾‍♀️ NOT ONLY IS HE A “DOCTOR “ look 👀 EVEN BETTER😮 Anyway key word thoe (ITS TRUE FRIENDS ARE FRIENDS) your Ex is just that (EX) and in our Culture we’ll SLEEP WITH OUR EX’S😂

[@jayc5756]

True

[@pinkstress]

sideeye 9:00 i dont see what he saying but ok lol All of my exes still tried to hunch after we establishes the friendship rule. Until I meet one I dont believe they can be friends with u theres always a sexual tone somewhere lol

[@Khalilkonneh-q2d]

Lets get into it!!!

[@jayc5756]

Nique is the GOAT FR. Lol 😂

[@Gettingback2God_ABW]

I be trying to tell people this!!

[@MrBollocks10]

That's not true. It isn't just the attractive ones!😊

[@aprilsmith8339]

I have a lot of male friends and always have. I have tried to be friends with someone who I had a past with and, it didn’t work out because he expected more.

[@Gia_Anise]

Clearly he wants more than u do. It proves the point. He showed u what the ultimate goal is.. now can ppl be friends platonically, yes.. but u may be a bit delulu love

[@LyneseTheDame]

My mother never let her friends talk to each other. My mother never let her friends meet each other. Her men best friends so young lady you messed up doing this lol

[@NiqueatNite]

Why the friends can’t meet if they truly friends 🧐🧐🧐🧐 what momma up to

[@jayc5756]

I thought ya'll knew each other longer than 6 years. Mann How did ya'll meet? Did you come out here to NY or was he out there when ya'll met...or elsewhere? I'm just curious.

[@kato-1110]

That not try I got a few female friends! They are intellectual with me they give me the insight

[@shaie2hot476]

A men told Mr a long time ago men not just friends with a women They are only around hoping she realizes he the one

[@sagittariusque8932]

Today is my birthday!!

[@augustG.I.F]

Happy Solar Return 🥳🎉

[@ShanyShannon]

Happy birthday!!

[@NiqueatNite]

happy birthday

[@sagittariusque8932]

Thank you all 🥰🥰

[@LyneseTheDame]

But you can only have one best friend you can have acquaintances you can have a lot of close friends, but you can only have one BFF, but listening to baby boomers. You can have a lot of male friends. Lol

[@Chasin88-89]

He wanted to borrow some, buns I don’t see a problem.

[@dob3233]

Yes

[@mrdefinitlee]

Yes people can be friends and yes people can be just friends after they had been intimate in the past.. yes attractive people will have seggual tension.. and guess what.. ugly people do too. When ever you want I can break it all down it too much to write

[@LyneseTheDame]

Is this a real video or is this like a joke video? I don’t think this this video can’t be real this episode just asking.🤣

[@Nineto_5]

I don’t recommend it. Simple lbvvvvvvvvvvs

[@nki5ikni5i45]

6:51 ok whelp... ppl can have different definitions / creteria for the relationship titles. Straight people of the opposite sex that call that each other friend often don't share the same definition in criteria of the friendship. And it's not the title a friend that matters it's someone you think you know so well have known so long to come out of the blue Off the Wall and taking you completely by surprise. And It's that part that reveals you are not as close as you think you.

[@jaguarblack4332]

It's true. ..but it ain't gotta be to sleep with. Just with thought as I said that I'm like, shiid, fk that! I want that ass, but it can be anyways lol. I also have "a friend" that's eel built and not to good looking. ..funny built at that. ..but she is so wonderful to me that I just can't diss her. I literally don't want her sexually, but she does. I swear I don't even have a woman, but I tell's her "we're still together" knowing me n my child's mother isn't. Smh it's alllways that way. It's always the (figure of speech) ugly ones that will say or do to u that u want "the pretty" ones to. I know beauty, trust me I really do. I'm not conceited but as handsome as I am I should be with someone but I'm not. "They" think I am and I just let them or it's they don't believe me.

[@Therealissa98]

Oh shoot lollllll

[@genovasquez8361]

Just tell her upfront you want to sleep with her. If she is DTF you have a friend If she is says No. Then cut off all contact snd give another woman a chance

[@JoaquinAcostaPerez]

So friends are people you sleep with?

[@flybyky820]

Doesn’t automatically make you friends. Some men just want one time

[@genovasquez8361]

@flybyky820 actually most women just want a one time thing when your HOT or Fine. i been in shape and i been FAT. Women typically want a relationship, but its harder to find women looking for one night stands. When you got abs, and nice body: Most women you meet either just want to hook up, got husbands, or got a boyfriend. The best you can do is be a side piece. Its rare you find a woman who is confident enough to want a relationship. When i was in shape the only women i could pull for a relationship were women way out of league looks wise. Everybody else just trying to smash and dash.

[@genovasquez8361]

@@JoaquinAcostaPerez if im not sleeping with you, i dont take you seriously. If we not intimate we not friends in my book. Im not wasting my time with folks who serve no purpose in my life nor add value.

[@KJaBz1]

I think you should link with the NY dude. You ain’t got a man and he ain’t got a girl. YOLO. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@504rayfisher]

👁️

[@KiaFlow]

Are you still in a relationship? Edit: You said you've been dating, so that's a no. Because I was going to ask what does your dude think?

[@NiqueatNite]

I’m single as a Pringle but he thought they all wanted to sleep with me also

[@EricMuhammed-i8t]

Not True not with All Men some want an attractive Wife and ain't nothing wrong with that is it ?

[@Khalilkonneh-q2d]

😂

[@EricMuhammed-i8t]

@Khalilkonneh Seriously but is there anything wrong with that ?

[@amani7625]

It's weird, though, to play the "nice guy" tactic and be her friend to expect a romantic relationship later on. It's not genuine and lustful behavior.

[@EricMuhammed-i8t]

I didn't mean Lust at All .