Men aren't even trying anymore, and why should they?

[@BetterBachelor]

Please make sure to block and report any spam accounts. If I every reply or comment you will get a 'heart' for me seeing it, and no I don't want you to telegram me.

[@han-tengliao2493]

It looks like in China, based on the cubical signs. Can you point to the video source for me to investigate?

[@willowsrandomgarage1940]

I traveled in 2015 and when i returned i noticed so many things have changed, i thought it might have been me who had changed.

[@johnashbaugh4663]

I got two of those...lol

[@johnashbaugh4663]

Telegram replies

[@johnashbaugh4663]

I got two of those telegram replies. Second attempt to put it in your comments comment section. Let's see how this works with screw tube

[@michaelbrinks8089]

If a girl doesn't want to date you because she thinks you don't make enough money. That already tells you, she wanted to take 1/2 of it once she got bored with you.

[@BB-te8tc]

"I don't need your money. I will take it though"

[@MCPunk55]

Aren't Conservatives the ones saying high value men are rich six feet tall chuds built like Kratos? You shit the bed, now clean it.

[@darev6780]

Exactly

[@HaleyStark.]

Then marry a bossbitch who makes enough money for both of you. 🤷 if women dont focus on finances, they need to choose a man who does. This is the world you want.

[@GPS.GhostPirateSloan]

Men aren’t getting married because wahmerns won’t stay married. Wahmerns get married for the wedding- and for the divorce. They have zero intentions on being wives, or mothers even. And best part: MEN ARE SUBSIDIZING ALL OF IT

[@ModMax69]

I had a GF a few years back. She would brag about making $500 a night as a bartender and how it was pathetic I only made $200 a day working in a factory. I tried explaining how I had retirement, insurance, sick days, paid vacation, profit sharing and bonuses. Her car broke down and she asked me to pay for her new car. I said, "Isn't it pathetic you're asking someone who only makes $200 a day to buy you a car?" She was broke and had ZERO credit.

[@davidsandy5917]

If it was real, she wouldn't need to brag about it.

[@misterwhipple2870]

Hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee hee . . . .

[@peter.24.7]

Oooohhhh Snap!

[@brianna094]

She sounds like a loser and a user.

[@robertstanley980]

Moral of the story, don’t date bar tenders and restaurant staff.

[@1notgilty]

"Don't wrestle with pigs. You both get dirty and the pig likes it." - Mark Twain

[@axaygiri]

"Enjoys" the pig "enjoys" it.

[@zo5562]

я надеваю специальный интеллектуальный костюм и свиньи не могут меня запачкать, и мне этот расклад нравится)

[@gravyholicbear]

Also, if a woman ever thinks you're comparing her to a pig, just tell her, "Yes I am, Miss Piggy. Yes I am."

[@DerLobeerkranz]

nice, but its from Bernard Shaw not Twain

[@DougHinVA]

big deal ... so you are smart and well-read...

[@Heritagepostfarms]

Went on a date recently. She swore and talked like a man. Had a bodycount in the high 30s, was drowning in debt and used to be an alcoholic. She was 23. Learned all this in the first date. She wasnt ashamed at all

[@Winterascent]

WOW! At least she told you the red flags right away. Too bad she didn't tell you before you met. I've generally had all the women I know do the same. Here's a secret: they're all nuts.

[@Heritagepostfarms]

@@Winterascent The key is to just let them talk. They will tell on themselves quickly

[@davidbolha]

You probably gave off "Dr. Phil vibes". Hence she saw you as a trustworthy psychiatrist. 🤔😆😅

[@pp-bb6jj]

Did you walk away?

[@Heritagepostfarms]

@@pp-bb6jj After I smashed

[@charliemountain82]

I'm Caucasian, divorced at 38, after 20 years of being married to a Japanese woman. Don't think that Asian women are all traditional, don't cheat, or any other cliche. All women have this potential.

[@krizyamz70]

Some more than others

[@Wadacup]

Would you mind sharing any tips to avoid that?

[@windowguylol]

Hi Charlie Why did you guys get divorced? Can you tell more about your story? Thanks

[@Wadacup]

Wait, you got married at 18?

[@sirpepeofhousekek6741]

@SR Teacup Easy: don't marry. Don't have sex. Don't even give women attention. Learn to be happy single. The freedom is amazing.

[@ChapMeifan]

I've given up dating. Today's woman is proudly rude, has a body count in the hundreds and, despite having 3+ kids and drowning in debt, as well as hitting the wall, they lecture us about what a catch they are. Most are bi or poly and have so many dating accounts they have lost track. They suffer from multiple mental disorders but the minute a man shows his vulnerability they scream that he is defective and undateable. Guys, these women are the product of a society that over-empowered them, nurtured their promiscuity and gave them zero responsibility or compassion. Stay single, don't date and just bask in your freedom.

[@CobraR1993]

Spot on.

[@colinmorgan2737]

Those kids have ADD All different Dad's

[@TheHalcyonAnon]

Yep. Was married for almost a decade. Raised her kids like they were mine. The moment I made less money and looked vulnerable she started fucking everyone else behind my back. What I discovered was that it was a lot of men. Before I caught her red handed.

[@glenfoxh]

Already going that. ^.^

[@westernwinchester70]

Preach King

[@izzykazoo7569]

Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously empowered AND a victim, until something happens, then she chooses which position benefits her the most.

[@hrdley911]

Excellent observation! I'd like to borrow that if possible!

[@josephberrie9550]

brilliant and so true

[@bathysphere1070]

Profound!

[@Thor-Orion]

Very similar to how elves are white in public, but on the internet they’re all discriminated against minorities?

[@CursingBud]

I took that, that made me laugh !!!

[@jeremys2029]

I'm 50 and checked out. Had my wife stuck around instead of monkey branching at age 35 we would both be looking at early retirement. That to me is one of the most frustrating issues facing today's society. Instant gratification is needed constantly. The younger generation, men and women alike are not looking down the road 10-20 years and setting long term goals. The women I see now are constantly broke and looking for a lift and I've just amassed to much wealth now to get involved with the opposite sex. My fiend in Park City was like dude I know so many single women that I can set you up with. I just ask him, are they financially stable with a good paying job, not divorced, zero kids still living at home and zero prescription bottles for anxiety and depression in their purse and I'll think about it. He just stares back blankly and says I guess you will die a bachelor then, and I'm like yyyup.

[@Winterascent]

It's ridiculous, but true.

[@dirankomorov]

I'm 22 and have long term goals but the US (where I live) is going to collapse probably before I'm 30 so I don't expect to have a great future or anything, just keep working towards my current goals and wait for the nukes to fall and the riots to start.

[@spike6487]

Yup. That's where I am. After being divorced twice from cheaters and ending a bad long term relationship with a woman who used me for my resources and also cheated, I'm done. Red pilled. I'll die single and happy. Any women I run across that are doable and willing, will be for recreation use only. I'm no Chad, but getting laid has never been a big issue for me. That is the only thing they are useful for as far as I can tell.

[@trik9464]

@@dirankomorov dude...24. Exact same boat. Godspeed sir.

[@theStepFamm]

yes, the pills are my biggest red flag for women . alcohol and pills turns your woman into a crazy feral beast. not dateable under any circumstance. and they're convinced its ok because its legal.

[@seventhsun1982]

"We don't subscribe to traditional gender roles except when it's men doing all the things that benefit us" - strong and independent ladies

[@LiLBitsDK]

yeah they don't want to cook, clean and do laundry but they damn well expect you to mow the lawn, fix broken stuff, fix the car and all the other stuff women don't want to do

[@Chingakyckaling]

Can't even buy their own tampons.

[@poseidon3032]

Which is why I don't trust 'traditional women'. Female nature doesn't change. No matter what mask they wear.

[@LiLBitsDK]

@@Chingakyckaling was it UK they got em for free because omg female hygiene... *eye roll* men pay for razors too and crap all the time and we do it every day not just a few days a month...

[@muskokamike127]

I literally had it out with a feminist on fakebook when she railed against me saying "you don't need men? you wouldn't last 2 weeks without men" like my last gf: I don't need a man. Oh really? when your car breaks down who do you call? when your roof leaks who do you call? when you need your driveway plowed who do you call? who provides electricity? who makes the gasoline? who provides the heating gas? You don't need a man, you just need to know how to call one.

[@jasonnames]

My mom used to ask me if I was gay. Why are you still single? Why dont I have a grandchild yet? She has no idea what women are like these days.

[@alexandrelebienheureux5474]

It's a common trap to call the son non-straight to push him to give her grandchildren. Being careful is adviced.

[@WaveLord14]

That sounds brutal. I'm sorry man. Some people just really don't get it.

[@matchhunter7012]

Same here.

[@jamesparson]

I got that too.

[@seventhsun1982]

ironic to that comment is that dudes aren't interested in the majority of 'modern queens' because they're masculine and it feels like you're dating another dude

[@tomas.zentrich]

Trust me, it's not much better across Europe either. Gen Z girls are messed up everywhere. Just a bunch of mindless zombies staring at their phones all day.

[@matchhunter7012]

Zombies 😂

[@Whatsup_Abroad]

Europe is just the USA but with less freedom. Go south or to Africa or Asia. If you want your genetic seed to survive abandoned to extend your family line that is what you HAVE to do

[@gameon2000]

Here in Europe we call'em "smombies" (smartphone zombies)

[@phoenixrising4995]

@@Whatsup_Abroad Come live in Cubada with Trudeau. Heck Cuba had more freedom of movement then us during the pandemic. Goes to show, plus they weren't forcing the jab there. 😂

[@katoombaau]

Same in Australia.

[@blakeh6250]

So true my son and 90% of his friends 21-26 don't want to even take the effort, not worth the drama, time or the expense of dating.

[@daddy3484]

I'm 26 and pretty much gave up for now. It's not worth the headache

[@fringestream990]

Same with my almost 40 friends too lol

[@pingeee]

21 and its over

[@unknowncommenter6698]

Ask him if he's into... "Mongolian Basket Weaving Forum". Just in case

[@city_of_coompton6832]

​@@pingeeeit's literally ogre

[@charlieparker5977]

"Why don't guys approach me?" Because we can be arrested for it now a days.

[@FogHazard]

As if hearing "I have a boyfriend" as a reply to "Hello" wasn't bad enough, now they have the law bending to their will.

[@jwarrior9986]

"Why don't guys approach me?" As she points her camera at a man and accuses him of being "feral" for having the audacity for daring to glance over in her direction. So if we approach, creeps. If we don't, cowards. Exactly how is this supposed to work?

[@lestergillis8171]

Another good point...😉

[@nomadronin707]

This is the Brave New World of Feminism, vvomen have taken charge, they should be the ones making the first moves in all situations.

[@nomadronin707]

@@jwarrior9986 it's not, that's the point, humanity is just heading toward Behavioral Sink at break-neck speed is all...

[@Spike-qh2bb]

Not interested in dating any horrible modern women, rather be single for rest of my life and be happy.

[@bucket0rocks]

Yup. Quiet, cheap, and drama free. Focused on retiring early instead.

[@bucket0rocks]

@Thomas wouldn’t trade my kiddos for anything. But divorces suck because family courts haaaaate men. Absolutely refuse to date- not for health, wealth, or fame.

[@jasonzacharias2150]

They are basically black rock sex bots now a days all looking to "travel"

[@joshuabritt5677]

Don't worry gentlemen. It gets easier older you get. They keep pouring the give a shit in my give a shit funnel and it never fills up.

[@DieFarbeLila88]

You know what’s funny, a lot of women nowadays think the same 😂 lets all be single and happy🎉

[@isaacvanderbilt4505]

I already had a sit down talk with my parents about how I've given up on dating in my 30's. I get crucified and harassed when I date younger than myself by both sides. What's my age look like crap, are drug addicts or alcoholics or have multiple kids. As a single guy approaching his mid 30's I'm tapping out on ever having a serious relationship. I'm also not going to raise some other man's baby mama in her 40's either. It's just weird.

[@isaacvanderbilt4505]

Tired of people acting like it's my duty as a good man to help these single moms out in my generation. No thank you.

[@zacatkinson3926]

Im 42 and wouldn't go over 23 year olds.If you can get younger, then do it dont listen to them.

[@strengthandbulkMadness]

Don’t be a Captain-Save-A-Hoe!

[@GrumpyCat-mw5xl]

Why should you raise another man’s seed and many not all but many feel entitled. I know a girl that has 6 kids and it’s alot of work. She is planning on taking a year off work because her boyfriend that is helping her raise the kids is going to get a raise. All his money goes to the family and the 6 kids arnt even his. The real father is nowhere to be found and doesn’t pay a dime for his 6 kids. As blue pill as this guy is he stilll won’t marry her even though she is really pushing for this.

[@eddiewillers1]

Peace and strength to you, Brother - you will prevail.

[@arthurminusii3681]

In a custody battle with a narcissist.... let me translate, "She's fighting to stop a guy she doesn't like from being involved in the life of his child"

[@Thor-Orion]

She meant to say that “my baby’s father is in a custody battle with a narcissistic psychopath.”

[@davidcook680]

I bet all he is fighting for. Is split custody. Guarante she is fighting for sole custody and as much child support as possible.

[@holeymcsockpuppet]

As a guy, what's the worst thing you can do on a first date? Show up.

[@Bennysol]

For real. Sadly I never found this out until I was 29. Everything is backwards with broads. You gotta cause "innocent problems" that annoy her which leads her to end up liking. Girls are attracted to what they don't like. "He's such a jerk but there's just something about him." - every girl ever

[@privateprivate3767]

@@Bennysol yes I hate that, I want to treat women how I want to be treated but I see so many girls in domestic violence relationships and always go back to the guy

[@garethwilliams4467]

@@privateprivate3767 just had a woman with two kids, two dads who said she had a nose and jaw broken by her last partner. She said she stayed with him for the second child, but the first child left because she couldn't stand it. Never took her serioulsy again after that ... can you imagine getting involved in that train wreck haha! And we all know some thirsty simp will treat her like a queen

[@ArantyrDarkhand]

@@privateprivate3767 Thats the worst kind of projection... you think women are functional humans. Youre completly mistaken. They are attracted to evil, they are just animals, hairless chimps, that learned how to speak and use tech... dont be mistaken they do not have the brain capable of human function.

[@Wolfboy183]

on time

[@free_at_last8141]

Dating is a job interview. Marriage is telling a Woman "I bet you half my stuff that we won't break up."

[@FazeParticles]

Some men genuinely think that’s a fair deal which is why a revolution in the western world is inevitable. Now true it may take 100 years or 10 years but you’re a fool if you think a revolution isn’t coming.

[@Stubbies2003]

Yep and half of the time you lose that bet.

[@hyrumwood]

It's actuality more than half of your stuff, and the chance of that happening is greater than 50%.

[@seththomas9105]

PREACH!

[@xMrjamjam]

Its more like 70% of your stuff and theres a 50% chance your woman has a backup guy. 80% for her to initate divorce or 90% if college or university educated. Get your money and get a passport make sire you dont bring your fit feminine and friendly wife to any western countries or she will become corrupted.

[@mrawesomeDK]

I'm 50 and I checked out at 30. The peace and quiet is priceless 😆

[@michaelsix9684]

I quit at 46, don't miss dating, now 67, my life got so much easier when I left, dating after 40 is a total waste of time unless you want a marriage, your dating pool won't be very exciting

[@mlb6d9]

Right there with you - 53, and checked out at 2003. I wouldn't give it up for ANYONE

[@claytonbouldin9381]

Had fun in my 30s (late bloomer) and checkout in my early forties. Peace and quiet and no drama!

[@tevinmoss12]

I'm 30 now I gave up at 23 it sucks at times. But life has been peaceful in the long wrong can't lie.

[@eddiewillers1]

Checked out at 50, right after my divorce - don't need the BS drama and financial drain.

[@danielsnook5029]

My favorite thing is to start a friendly chat with them and right at the point where a guy would normally ask for their number I just pause and stand there. Watching their bird brain trying to jump the hurdle to ask me out is hilarious. After a long preggo pause I say: " Nice chat, see ya" and walk. This is my new fav hobby.🤣

[@adrianafit4098]

LMAO, awesome!

[@TheNegative1]

Tried it a few times in the last year, satisfying indeed

[@areuarealman7269]

You mean you carry the conversation while she says hey and yeah over and over again while asking you about money and what you drive and what can you do for her ...rather beat myself in the face with a hammer .

[@justtony21]

Dani do the same thing! And to watch their brains try to process or figure out why I'm not asking for their number, fawning all over them or even trying to keep the conversation going is priceless. The best thing a man can do is walk away, stay on his purpose and fatten his bank account. When you are reaching those milestones and you have your freedom there is absolutely nothing like it. Leave her in the dust.

[@veng3r663]

A dangerous game you're playing there, especially if it's in those Bars or night clubs...

[@WorldsGreatestVidiot]

Straight men don't want to date other men, which is exactly what the modern woman has become.

[@StarkIndustries80]

Truth.

[@nellzdablackking]

I'm calling it, androids are gonna be the future. South Korea, Japan or China is gonna be the first one to bring this into the world and reap the benefits from it. Androids with functional artificial wombs are gonna be a game changer and dare I say make women obsolete.

[@NarwahlGaming]

I just said the same thing out loud when he read about all women wearing baggy pants and shirts. We want feminine girls, not boy wannabes.

[@1439315]

well said; more from you sir.

[@nzponch]

Ironically the troonsformers are more feminine than natural uterus owner's.... But referring back to your first sentence "straight men don't want to date men" is it so hard to ask for a genuine feminine hetero woman in 2023 that isn't batsh*t from woke politics.. guess so 😔😠

[@mmr4882]

I get called a loser at family events by my "father" because I don't have a girlfriend. And I cannot explain to them this is the dating market, because they are so plugged into NBC, CBS News, Local News, Mike and Molly, The Middle, SNL, Colbert Report that I cannot talk to them about modern culture without either my dad or mom throwing a tantrum. Seeing a grown man throw a tantrum over politics and refuse to hear the other side of the equation is so disturbingly sad when you realize they have nothing but their false ideology to cling onto and there's nothing you can say without completely destroying them. Even sadder when it's the poison destroying their children's future for family and love.

[@dannylaza1326]

Sorry your dad is a liberal

[@MA-wq2ih]

Cut your losses and walk away from them. Nobody deserves to be treated like a pawn for somebody else's benefit.

[@wariokhabib245]

Wait wait wait wait wait wait... Your dad watches Stephen Colbert and thinks he has the right to shame you?😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Show him this comment next time you see him💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻😎😎😎

[@FazeParticles]

Some normie men are genuinely worse than harlots. At least the harlots can offer you a happy ending.

[@nk_3332]

Simply, you tell them that all modern women are as childish as they are. Then cut them off. I've a sister who's virulently anti-gun, and when she was travelling she demanded to know why she couldn't stay the week at my house. I told her 'I can't trust you.' She was not happy.

[@demonicaxeman7264]

In my experience, a hotter a woman is, the more narcissistic and self-absorbed she will be. When you already avoid the average and the uglies that are getting entitled, dating is an "avoid at all cost" area.

[@LiberPater777]

The Hot/Crazy Matrix is real.

[@19Marauder79]

The ugly ones,(not just the physical), want to be just like the hotter ones and mimic what they do.

[@jlqe3401]

Had a patient the other day, and she was a clinical whale. Morbidly obese, BMI over 40, and yet, she had an active sex life. Goes to show men are indeed settling down for the absolute worst if it means scoring now and then. Dark times indeed.

[@ge3346]

Women stop maturing at the age they start getting male attention.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

@@jlqe3401 disgusting

[@thetruth981]

There is one thing that all women lack. Humility.

[@jayaz9113]

yesss

[@MistyMountainPath]

'Why won't guys ask me out?' Your politics. You made yourself exclusive to someone who must agree with you on provably wrong & harmful policies. That's a brand new problem.

[@MikeBarbarossa]

The average one's article started out saying > It's great when a handsome (top 10%) man approaches you 7:29. So a Chad has to shoot his shot with this numpty 5 and she complains it's not happening? She's finding out the approaches end at about 22 for the fivers. Time's up!

[@thundercricket4634]

I wouldn't bet on the "Made yourself exclusive" part. Statistically, women are a lot higher in the infidelity department than men tend to be.

[@benscampers1818]

Those fake standards are for the "good guys" she won't date anyways, or will use for a bit and discard. She doesn't give a shayte what double digit IQ Chad thinks of her crazed fem indoctrination.

[@bogusmogus9551]

@@thundercricket4634 women always (used to) lower their number of previous sexual partners, Men up their number. I think now they don't care and are even proud of their high body count.

[@thundercricket4634]

@@bogusmogus9551 I'm pretty sure they still lower it. The numbers are just that astronomical

[@teddybeer6206]

If we approach them we're creeps and if we don't we're cowards. Heads they win, Tails we lose.

[@godkingoftoxicity7037]

Depends on the approach tbh anything overtly sexual or compliments just doesn’t work, my favorite is going to a random chick a purposely mistaken her identity for someone else

[@secretagent4610]

@@godkingoftoxicity7037 Nah, the approach doesn't matter, it's who approaches meaning Chad vs non Chad.

[@shanepatrick641]

@@secretagent4610 Yep totally agree! If you don't have the looks you are considered a creep.

[@tmo2798]

@@shanepatrick641 Money looks good. THAT'S what the look for. Not at. Get it. ¿

[@shanepatrick641]

@@tmo2798 ahhh, I see.. 😁👈.

[@ghostiulian1]

When the prize is a punishment, nobody wants to compete

[@Ferrum_Intra]

Wise. I'm stealing this phrase if you don't mind.

[@secretagent4610]

Bars

[@JamesWayne-kn1yg]

Excellent analogy

[@nealmccoy5727]

After 5 years living in Latin America and absolutely killing it with the ladies, I returned to the states in 2017. I went from being an absolute Casanova to being in the driest desert overnight. This was before the manosphere took off so I thought something was wrong with me. Guys like Joker have showed the world it's not us, it's them.

[@gravyholicbear]

It's a long ways down the road for me, but, I've been considering moving to Uruguay. It's good to know that there are women in Latin America that are still ladies.

[@guslaskaris5333]

Dude. You were killing it in Latin America because you were a rich Gringo. It's the same as guys thinking they are Casanovas in Thailand. It is you. Good looking, decent American women have different expectations. Let us not delude ourselves. Most of us have to work at being attractive to women. Staying fit, not being slobs, doing some interesting things, and...most importantly...being able to handle rejection. I don't think I've ever been on a bad date because all women are interesting but I don't connect with every girl I go out with.

[@nealmccoy5727]

@@guslaskaris5333 Most of the chicks are fat, single moms or hardcore feminists. There are some quality women out there, but they are a small percentile. Oh, and I'm athletic and make six figures, so you're dumb assumptions that I'm just a lazy slob are pretty arrogant and ridiculous.

[@daycrow8651]

​@@guslaskaris5333 my black ass works overnight at 7/11 having the same experience in Mexico. Y'all focus so much on money because you don't have personality

[@heroldjaras9909]

f.nism wanted females to be free strong and independent, you removed men from families, you wanted it! now deal with it! 💯🎯

[@Job.Well.Done_01]

But, they don’t want to be told what to do.

[@damascus6480]

Exactly

[@StarkIndustries80]

Enjoy your 🐈 and 🍷 ladies!!!

[@brianna094]

@@Job.Well.Done_01 What should we be doing, that we aren't? Please be careful to distinguish the trash (with no morals) from the women who actually want monogamy and a family life.

[@bolotabr12]

Men keep blaming feminist for everything that is wrong with family arrangement. First of all, back in 1920 when all men had traditional women in the household they still have affairs outside the marriage. Like business men with their secretaries, doctors with their nurses. Yet, the blame will be on the women, even though majority of men were liars and cheaters.

[@chrisgilling543]

Loreal: "Because you're worth it" Men: "No, you're not. You're really not"

[@bogusmogus9551]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@TheBigdog868]

Loreal laughing all the way to the bank

[@tty1975ful]

Lol 😆

[@tmo2798]

After she's in front of the mirror for THREE HOURS. ... Lures on in. He says (the next morning), "What MONSTER is beside me right now?!" It IS worth it. Joke's on both. It gets itchy, scratchy, smelly, and flaky for lots of them. Breaks the nails off. Good luck to those 'Chads' and 'alphas'. Those dudes are in for it. ... And you don't need to be tall. This radio host must have grown up around a mediocracy. The military. Generic. He's okay, though.

[@sekovittol3124]

Worth painting over.

[@pankajparadkar8298]

In chess the queen can be sacrificed, but the king CANNOT die

[@dreadlord7526]

The modern women chess set it's all queens.

[@shadowtail4063]

@@dreadlord7526 😆

[@jasonzacharias2150]

They just hit the big red "I win" button and the board turns into a scrabble board on a lazy Susanne...

[@jasonzacharias2150]

They just hit the big red "I win" button and the board turns into a scrabble board on a lazy Susanne...

[@jesuschristislord77733]

But if you're intelligent, you won't want to lose that chess piece.

[@primeobjective5469]

"Why won't guys ask me out?" You're not the prize.

[@garretthylander2204]

It's understandable when men don't say anything. We don't want to get accused of sexaul assault or harassment and have our life ruined because no one will believe us

[@theelder4797]

Guilty until proven innocent, and even if you are innocent, we will make sure your job and life are as ruined as possible, because HOW DARE YOU be innocent when a whamens wants to hurt you?

[@garretthylander2204]

@@theelder4797 you speak the truth my friend

[@docsavage8640]

You can be accused even without saying or doing anything, sadly, and the system is stacked against you despite the supposed presumption of innocence.

[@roserevancroix2308]

I don't say shit. I have never liked giving away free attention and compliments for no reason. I believe that has to be earned first, and if you give it away all the time and for free and doesn't mean anything. I almost never give that even if I would be in a relationship, it sounds so beta, and makes me feel weak. But also like you say in today's climate it is safer for us to just talk to other guys, and ignore women.

[@acch20]

It seems that men (especially the beta kinds) are the modern scapegoat. Before it was other races or homosexuals etc but now it's not as easy to do it to them anymore they have shifted their hatred to men.

[@wheelzwheela]

“It used to be just the hot ones were rude and crass now the ugly ones are as well”

[@pingeee]

id say the ugly ones are even more rude and insufferable nowadays

[@davidcook680]

Isn't that the truth. I talked to this one chick. Who weight over three hundred pounds. I have always given any woman a chance. If all we do is ever talk some. Im all for it. She said I need it to cut my hair. Change all kinds of shit about myself. I was like you serious right now. You are morbidly obese. Near death. You are not a catch. Your attitude and ego are ridiculous.

[@boydjohnson5062]

Onlyfans would disappear tomorrow if men turned it off and stopped paying for it.

[@1HeatWalk]

A country full of weak men.

[@mikeheaton8424]

100%

[@ZephyrinSkies]

And water is wet.

[@privateprivate3767]

"if men turned it off" no simps aren't men

[@ApexGaming100]

Your not a man if you pay for Onlyfans, your a SIMP. SIMPS are the reason the dating market in 2023 is so f*cked up!

[@LanceEdmunds]

I am 56 and its a nightmare the women my age have hit the wall like a freight train and younger women are a disaster.

[@NoctLightCloud]

as if younger women would want a 56yrs old... stay realistic.

[@NoctLightCloud]

@@kingofspades8411 ? He wrote "younger women are a disaster" why don't you tell HIM to get over himself? bruh...

[@sekovittol3124]

From beautiful to hideous and woke. Quite a mess on that wall. And it's not all just simply aging.

[@emdo.unlimited555]

There was no reason to qualify the ones your age in your comment 😂 we all get it.

[@jayaz9113]

but what do you notice with the women your age who have hit the wall? Are you talking about women close to you or friends, relatives?

[@Thefloorsspeakyiddish]

Women are so undesirable nowadays that it actually feels better to say “I’m single” or “just dating casually” than it does to say “I have a girlfriend”. Those poor guys trapped in relationships are afraid to leave because they might not find another girl

[@brianna094]

"Poor guys"... they sound like weak guys to me.

[@Jaapst]

@@brianna094 was I a weak guy when I had a girlfriend from 2015 tot 2018 ? I was 18 to 21? But yeah 2023 I don’t want a girl no

[@brianna094]

@@Jaapst I don't think you're weak. I'm alluding to the idea of calling anyone "poor". I feel like it takes the power away from someone and I don't think men should be pitied

[@jimmyballer192]

Yep most on an off until the chick eventually finds a better deal which most don't but need something new

[@wariokhabib245]

Might not find another girl? Sounds like Heaven to me😌😌😌

[@Whatreally123]

I'm Indian and trust me all this feministic crap has spread here as well. Not to the extent of how widespread it is in the west but it is present. Dating or marriage has become really difficult and huge spike in false abuse cases in marriages in the last 2 decades or so. Just unbearable.

[@steveredstone1711]

Corruption spreads everywhere. Thanks to social media.

[@thundercricket4634]

Gynocentrism is the Wests biggest export.

[@allseeingotto2912]

Woke and feminism is the real pandemic.

[@Mr1998Brandonify]

Thanks for the intel from across the pond!

[@ethosterros9430]

@@portnut7610 I'm sorry to hear that man. Sounds like she had a chance to show she was a unicorn and completely fucked it up. No way she's not miserable today.

[@sergeipohkerova7211]

American women (and Western women in general) are basically fatter, lazier, less feminine, yet more entitled and selfish than women in other parts of the world. French women tend to be better than English women in terms of avoiding obesity, but they have a lot of the attitude too. At least with women from other countries, you get what you see and vice versa. You have your role and she has hers. In America you still have to do your male role but expecting the woman to do anything or contribute or support you in any way is somehow toxic. No thanks.

[@jasonzacharias2150]

🎯

[@mikesteelheart]

Women's attractiveness timeline: 1988-1993 = Peak 1994-2003 = Very good but worse overall 2004-2007 = Last hurrah 2008-2014 = 1/20 women are bangable 2015-present = 😞

[@someoneelse9059]

I figured this out 20 years ago. Needless to say, the last 20 years have been the most fantastic for me.

[@legrandduca687]

Im french, you're lying. ALL french women are overweight, we call them "Magalax" which kinda sounds like a monster gozilla would fight. They are fat, they don't shave, they shame those who take care of their appearance, yet on only date guys with the best physical forms. Avoid french women at all cost, im learning russian to move away from this socialist country.

[@Whatsup_Abroad]

Absolutely. There are exceptions but they have their own issues and men shouldn't settle for it. Been seeing a 32 year old Christian virgin republican woman. In great shape, hot body, sweet, fairly submissive and supposedly I was her first kiss. I almost believe considering how bad she was at it. But even she fucked up. Sent me a message one day telling me a guy was about to take her on her first motorcycle ride (a woman doing ANYTHING for the first time with another man is cheating, the action of letting her provide her a new experience is cheating, especially something where she places her safety in another mans hands), rejecting and disrespecting my hobbies, says she is 30 so she doesn't want to try new things much and is set in her ways , said she had a problem with me having a son (single dad and he lives mostly with my parents while I work tbh), and she's 32 and only wants 2 kids but a year or two of being married before kids. Plus being raised Christian I've seen how that false religion just absolutely destroys men. It neuters them and encourages them to go down that destructive pathway. Why should I as an attractive 31 year old man with a career and travel experience, and speaking multiple languages settle for a woman a year older than me, who will essentially need to be provided for and knocked up right away if there is any hope at all of me having as many kids as I want, doesn't even agree to having that many, and would essentially immediately burden my life with far more pressure than I am ready or willing to take? I shouldn't. That's the fact. Despite her being a "good" woman, her taking too long to find me is a great enough sin to disqualify her. Her lack of time doesn't equal a time rush on my part. I can work another 10 years and still marry a 20 year old from Asia and easily support the 6-8 kids I want over there financially while still being able to spend freely? Even finding a good woman in the USA won't necessarily save you, and you can't tell if she is good until you are stuck with her anyways. If she is too old her mind is already broken even if she has no trauma. No woman is flexible in thought or attitude at that age anymore unless they are mentally deranged. So even if she was always a good girl, by 30 she is still a bad choice. America sucks

[@bathysphere1070]

A man needs a modern woman like a fish needs a bicycle.

[@AdmiralRamirez7]

It's bad when even my own mother 66 years of age says "yeah just don't"

[@justinkennedy3004]

Why doesn't she go to bat for men then? Even mom's would rather take the easy path than stick up for their sons.

[@ZackSNetwork]

@@justinkennedy3004 This is very tue mothers will even encourage their sons to date terrible women. Like single moms, promiscuous women, women with mental and physical problems. Telling their sons you can help them and make life better for them. Then turn to their daughters telling them to never settle and always go for the best man period.

[@DemonsCrest1]

my mum (born 1957) was a traditional stay-at-home wife (until she got divorced). today she is just like the strong and empowered wahmens of today. sure she traditional in many ways - she likes clearing things and cooking for people - but the lack of respect she has for men is exactly the same as modern wahmens have. i dunno what she was like when she was younger, but I suspect that even if you find a "good one" there is a pretty good chance she will turn into a bad one in the future. no one gets married thinking they are going to be divorced 7 years later, but this is exactly what wahmens do 50% of the time

[@Mr1998Brandonify]

@@justinkennedy3004 if I read his message correctly, it sounds to me his mother is sticking up for him by encouraging him not to participate.

[@justinkennedy3004]

@@Mr1998Brandonify no, she isn't. At best its a warning, at worst shes telling to give up. Sticking up for someone involves a third person or more to stick up against.

[@final353]

When a women say Narcissists I don't believe them anymore.

[@beneficent2557]

Bingo. Its "selfish" to maintain clarity of purpose and to prioritize our self interest.

[@GeraldM_inNC]

narcissist = a guy who doesn't treat a woman like a goddess controlling = a guy who gets suspicious when his woman participates in activities that lead to cheating abuuuuusive = a guy who refuses to let his woman have sex with other men

[@FriedPi-mc5yt]

It’s projection.

[@MultiWeen]

They are humanoid projectors. It's either bullshit or them claiming their intrinsic faults or beliefs as coming from someone they feel the need to attack, typically a dude.

[@grantwithers]

5% of males diagnosed narc

[@ahhhsurewhatever3479]

I’m a 36 year old male. No kids, never been married and the longest relationship I had was for 4 months. I’m so lucky to have made it to this part in my life stable with little to no baggage in my dating life that I couldn’t even imagine myself sharing my soul and time with a women now. Funny, I think I would have made a wonderful boyfriend/husband because since I was a kid, I understood that dating/marriage is more about sacrifice then receiving. Hence knowing that about myself, I have no regrets giving up on love. It an amazing feeling for me and a shame for others. Welcome to the 21st Century.

[@inneswood7711]

Brother make money forget woman the now just watch them suffer

[@tonydiesel3444]

Me2

[@tonydiesel3444]

I got home 4 trucks machines businesses rental im a big dik dadde fux them 304s mob

[@jaconova]

@@inneswood7711 is there real satisfaction in that?

[@OldManAndTheSeaOfTooManyCats]

There are millions of incredibly loving dogs, cats and other creatures out there whose very lives depend on finding a good home. Start taking them in.

[@amandabosebar1985]

As women, we tend to forget how influential we are. Not in a "boss girl way" thats bs. Im talking about being beautiful ,kind, giving, etc. If women tomorrow decided to become this way, more men would be more than happy to jump into the dating scene. The feminist ideology says that if men were to change, the dating scene would be fixed. NO! its the other way around! Lord have mercy

[@msc8382]

In my opinion this whole channel is obscuring a far more problematic theme. I want to add something to your message, but not addressing it directly. It was never supposed to be ONE sex having to do all the work (initially). This has always been about doing the work that is needed in the right order, and negotiating with our partners to make known what the right things are. Of course people speaking sometimes literally different languages, that may be hard to achieve. The dating game is understanding that and playing into it. And while culture helps us assume what that could be providing a starting point to talk from, the reality is that nobody has so much control they have a complete understanding of what the important things are and when they're relevant in a relationship. Needless to say, this has always been about men and women being too childish so that they cannot talk together to just.. figure it out together. Sometimes its single-sided even. People stopped being patient and become incompetent and assuming, thinking that their time is more precious than their ability to use it. You're not a product, you're a human. And products always lose their value over time, so don't sell yourself as such if you do. Too many options is a consequence of not knowing how to pick. Not being an option is a consequence of not representing anything of value (be it your physical looks, or cognitive abilities, or other resources). Adaptation is the only key to stay relevant to an ever-changing environment, even if that environment consists of a home, a man and a woman. To think nothing will ever change is naivity; your body is changing as we speak, or you'd have no bowel movement. You'd have no energy in your body as nothing would be converted from one sustance in your body to another more useful one. We grow with age. To me, everything is rather straightforward. You want stuff, and other people want stuff. What we want keeps changing slowly. But there's only so much you can manage together. What's the part that make both of you happy and keeps you alive consistently so you can keep holding onto that happiness? That's the way to go. If you've figured that out, you've got a great marriage ahead. Culture is a tool for the incompetent to connect with other incompetent people. Claim yourself and see yourself rise to the top. Sex (gender) only determines how you play into culture, not what your options are. Other people may make it seem like you don't have certain options though. The question is how far are you willing to go for some options, if they are not compatible? How far is someone willing to negotiate to find a common ground to make someone incompatible compatible? How much of a drain can you withstand before successfully forging the foundations of a meaningful connection? That's respectability. And if you keep doing that somewhat consistently by values clearly shared, that's trust. You'll find the most compatible person is always the person who negotiates with you for your stake, as you do the same for theirs. Most people don't know how they got someone compatible to be with them in some fashion. That's the lost wisdom of the generations. They're half asleep over all the important things, and once they're forcibly woken up because its yanked from their hands due the consequences of lack of negotiation and no adaptation, they cry about their powerlessness and demand compensation. This is not reality, that's a child's fantasy over a lost imaginary friend. And this fantasy has no gender. You all do it.

[@jayaz9113]

I hear you and agree but that word "influential" is very toxic and needs to go. It should be something natural with labels

[@davidshoyt1979]

I lived in australia for years. Its up there with the usa about 1 out of 4. I was dating a single mom who had an adorable little boy who deserves so much more in life than the women gives him. its literally a tragedy. The saddest thing I've ever seen in my life and it still haunts me is one evening we were all having dinner together the mom, myself and the little boy. He was five. he said. My friend have mum. he have dad. I have mum. I have no dadda. You dad? It broke my heart. This is a fucked up world we live in and I hate to say it but a lot of these women are doing a lot of the damage in it.

[@awolgeordie9926]

That's pitiful man. Breaks your heart.

[@bros4654]

Good grief, that's brutal.

[@secretchefcollective444]

Hate to say it but this is another very good reason to not date single mums. They say that we're not emotional but jeez that brings a tear to my eye, you'd have to be extremely callous not to be affected by that. They're completely innocent for f's sake and caught up in this world not of their making.

[@josephberrie9550]

I cried when I read your post sir...genuinely so sad

[@bogusmogus9551]

Sure the mum didn't prompt the kid? women are devious you know, especially desperate ones.

[@BritishEcho]

It's just all the baggage.... -They are emotionally damaged. -None of them can actually bond because of the CC. -They are ridiculously entitled and narcissistic. -None of them actually care about you, only what you can provide. -They are masculine. Combine that with the whole f movement and the don't talk to me that's harassment and the mepoo crap, is anyone surprised guys are just like "I'm out".

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

The "mepoo" was funnier to me than it should've been.

[@JoeSmith-nu8oo]

I'm sorry but these women deserve a round of applause, a standing ovation! They have saved me more money than Geico! Because I don't meet their standards I don't have to buy expensive clothing, shoes, colognes or buy gas for my car to go on dates! Thank you ladies my wallet is happier without you🤗

[@MickeyMishra]

BRAVO!

[@robertandover5085]

Great perspective!

[@DB-sy6xc]

Why do you need money if you have no family though. If you don’t have a family you don’t need much money. It doesn’t matter if you’re homeless because you can take care of yourself. I’m a woman though so maybe I’m more interested in people. I just can’t imagine what good the money is unless you’re spending it on charity or something.

[@ponderrous2659]

@@DB-sy6xc Buying toys like fancy cars, a nice place to live, nice computers, travel, early retirement, start your own business?

[@OctopusDanceParty]

@@DB-sy6xc Surviving. Have you been homeless before?

[@Yggdrasill8]

For women, their life is like a movie, it's all about them, they are the star and everyone else is props or actors to fill in roles that they envision they want. If a guy doesn't fill that role she envision, she will try and get another actor to fill that role, so essentially the guy doesn't matter, only the script. It's who can play the role of Ken the best. If her life goes astray, she will recount the events that lead her in that position as a script she had no control over and just followed, leaving her absolutely blameless as the main protagonist cannot be the antagonist.

[@zephyrr108]

So basically shes a program in a matrix

[@mynameismyname8366]

Best description of a modern woman I’ve ever seen.

[@jayaz9113]

@@zephyrr108 no, it's not that. it's just pure entitlement and lack of self-accountability.

[@AverageAngel]

scarily accurate for the majority, self-serving

[@Gunsight-One]

In the past dating was used to vet someone to see if they would make a good potential partner for marriage. Now it is a being used recreationally to go out and have casual hook ups and free meals at a guys expense. I have completely checked out of the dating game since there is a severe lack of any potential long term prospects in the current modern dating landscape.

[@justaprogrammer3764]

Me too, thank god im bi.

[@johnnymidnight2982]

Well, you know I'm a monk, SDF, so I don't care either way where all the good men are at. It's only gonna get worse, and I can live life on Easy Street without them.

[@Gunsight-One]

@@johnnymidnight2982 life is on easy street when you dont have a nagging entitled wallet vampire sneaking every dollar and dime from a man's pocketbook.

[@mikesteelheart]

Women used to actually bring things to the table so the effort was justified. Nowadays it's like interviewing for a job and even if hired you won't get paid yet still have to show up and do the work.

[@kojack635]

Me too

[@imopman]

All my friends are now single after divorces and spending tremendous amounts of money dating. All of them wish they had saved their money and grief and simply opted out of the scam dating and marriage has become.

[@bucket0rocks]

Yeah… of my friends and family… only one is married and his situation sucks. The entire rest of my circle doesn’t date. Some proly would, but can’t find a cute and sane and single chick.

[@Bennysol]

@Brandon Letzco dating apps 🤢 are brutal. Such a joke

[@riggitydoo5116]

@@TruthPoliceLegend they dry up. Estrogen goes to zero, "love" is gone.

[@riggitydoo5116]

@T Mac I never chased. If you saw me you'd guess I'm still a virgin. After my last ex I shut it down as well. Not worth the time, money or risk.

[@filthycasual9381]

The fact that very few men are getting married anymore has motivated women to create a dating paradigm that basically extracts attention, love, resources, etc. from men the same way as in irreciprocal marriages. There will come a point where most men will understand dating to be nothing more than very short term sequential marriages that drain your dignity, self-respect, and well-being.

[@akantorage]

Jumped back into the dating game after 7 yrs of being single to gather and self improve on myself. The moment I tried dating again this past year, really came to the acceptance that modern women are just dudes with bobs and a vag. None of the actual traits men want, but most of the traits that we men already learned to control. It really is a going to be a show to watch it all come down when it does.

[@TheRelen222]

It’s funny that when women emulate men, they only adopt the negative traits of men and none of the positive traits. I guess because hard work, self-control, sacrificing yourself, taking responsibility, and self-reflection actually take effort.

[@TontoBongRonto]

For real though, they know they jig is up though. They will bury their head until society collapses and they are begging men for help again. Life is artificially easy for everyone.

[@wariokhabib245]

@@TontoBongRonto I'll never help them.

[@josealexi5141]

The asteroid can't hit the Earth soon enough for me.

[@nealmccoy5727]

The innate instinct to help, provide and protect for women has been completely driven out of men. It has ceased to exist. Therefore, when things really do start to burn and women are completely on their own, men will watch passively or laugh as they beg for our help.

[@joe9042]

They have broken down society, but the consequences are bound to follow.

[@rolandhawken6628]

Women destroy nations ,they are a paradox They are always the first to betray the tribe ,are drawn to the exotic nothing is every enough they are continually longing for change . At yet as a heterosexual man to me they are the most desirable thing on the planet nothing compares to their magic .

[@docsavage8640]

"I earn more money and have a better apartment than you!" appealed to no straight man of quality ever

[@michaelmurphy6869]

I'd say to her, "good to know" meaning: I don't give a sh*t.

[@bogusmogus9551]

"then take your spoilt ass out by yourself next time"

[@conicEllipse]

"Women aren't worth it." 'Nuff said.

[@FazeParticles]

They were never worth it. It’s our human nature that allows us to love women if at all. Once you understand the female nature imperative from a neutral perspective you understand how treacherous they can be if left unchecked and western women have been left unchecked since 1960 at the very least.

[@ZackSNetwork]

@@FazeParticles Seriously I don’t understand why our creator made them to be such terrible garbage beings.

[@FazeParticles]

@@ZackSNetwork i know. but if we don't find a way to check female nature then their nature will consume us and we can already see the effects around us.

[@robbenvanpersie1562]

@@ZackSNetwork exactly

[@waynebollman]

I'm 58. Been watching this shit show unfolding my entire life. We've been steadily marching toward this depressing nightmare for decades. I've been told by older men (and sometimes women) that what's being described here has its psychological roots in the 60's. And something about the Covid pandemic seems to have sped up the process and emboldened a lot of women to take that last step into an abyss from which they will make no effort to return from until they are 50, impoverished, covered in cellulite, and have 12 cats - and many will remain there still. There are many things that I do not like about modernity, but the increasing lack of love, sweetness, accountability, and self-awareness in the western female is hands down my least favorite. After my last screwed-in-the-head, "woke" girlfriend left me a year ago because I wasn't becoming as woke as she was and she couldn't stop looking for things to be unhappy about, I feel like I have finally thrown in the towel. They win. We suck. It's over. What a fucked up time to be alive and be a hetero male with a healthy libido and an innate desire to pair bond with a good, wholesome, supportive, trustworthy woman. It makes me wish for the whole world to just burn down.

[@aguywhocanfly1335]

Couldn't have said it better. It really is disheartening to those of us who would've more than likely been in great relationships and building successful futures for our families by now if things had just remained as they were before all this insanity took over... no one is winning here and mostly the innocent will pay the price for this "progressive" nonsense

[@jaconova]

Plandemic was deployed for social engineering and technocratic purposes

[@brianna094]

There are women who haven't been affected by all of this, but I guess we're in very small numbers... The future is indeed depressing. The nuclear family has been torn to pieces and recycled with some androgynous, unrecognizable slosh and we're reminded of this every time we turn the TV on. Just let the weak and stupid die off and stay as strong as you can

[@lestergillis8171]

It IS burning down, but slowly...🔥

[@mikeheaton8424]

Soon to be 59 ,smart phones and Covid bs has really accelerated the decline .

[@richardjamesIII]

"Every girl wants to be approached by an attractive man..." Either she's flattered by being approached by an attractive man, or she'll be creeped out by a man she deems unattractive. There's no middle ground with most modern women.

[@oceanhedonist265]

I've lost track of how many college aged to middle aged women i've met that have the emotional maturity of a middle schooler.

[@pingeee]

might as well date a middle schooler at this point

[@Lyle_918]

If a DeLorean with a flux capacitor actually was a time machine there would be a long waiting list of married men.

[@misterwhipple2870]

I'd take a gunny-sack with $20 million in it, hop in, set it for 1924, and go back and marry Joan Crawford. It'd be fun for three or four years!

[@StarkIndustries80]

Divorced guys would fight them for the front of the line.

[@lestergillis8171]

"The Flux Capacitor is what makes time travel possible".🤔

[@FriedPi-mc5yt]

Sign me up. I’ll get early access because I have seniority.

[@StarkIndustries80]

@@lestergillis8171 I figured it out. Time travel.

[@deejay7060]

I’m proud to say that I have 2 kids (1 boy, 17 yo and 1 girl, 19 yo) and neither has ever been on any medication. About a year or so ago my daughter was telling her friends that she was not on any anti depressants or adderall. They looked at her like she had 2 heads, as all of them were on some type of prescribed medicine

[@loganblackwood2922]

All her friends are dysgenic offspring.

[@jamesparson]

Dang

[@mshell1959]

Wow!

[@b14m23]

That's exactly what the medical and mental health industry want. They have more than half of society diagnosed with something and everyone makes lots of money.

[@jonjacobjingleheimerschmid3798]

My now adult daughter When she was growing up under her mother's roof., Was on all kinds of things,many that I disapprove of , plus glasses and contacts Dental work ect... Amazing how sickly they are when the sucker has to carry the insurance Plus 75% of what that don't cover .. Oh! She's out grown most everything And is in good health now!

[@Histerix]

"I reminded him that I earn more then him and have a better apartment" This is probably the key point that summarizes everything you need to know. 1) She thinks men care about this crap, thus reflecting how modern women know nothing about men and what they want 2) The fact that she had to "remind" him is evidence of a combativeness and inability to handle rejection and extreme entitlement and narcissism in that she thinks this makes her "better" , also a display of classism. Modern women are vile.

[@WC3fanatic997]

For me it's less all the "Emotional" stuff, insecurity, anxiousness, anything else they claim that we're just avoiding them over, and far, far more about the fact that they seem, quite literally, inherently incapable of genuinely caring about us as people. They dont care about what we do, or who we are, only what they can provide for them until their next big thing they can throw us into the trash for. We are objects to them. Why would I want to shackle myself to that?

[@theelder4797]

They're incapable of the love a man gives: selfless, protective - all they care about is what they can get from you, or if your social status can help them climb the social ladder, and they only want that so they can get access to men with more money/status so they can steal it from them too. It's obvious why they've been kept in their place for so long, once they get freedom and power they just want to destroy.

[@lestergillis8171]

Very good point...😉

[@gwynnapnudd702]

You get to the heart of it. Some experienced men say that about 10% of women are capable of caring. Don't know if that's true. But I assume they get taken early by the really smart guys, so even if true, how many are available?

[@justinkennedy3004]

One the most hard to swallow redpills.

[@nomadronin707]

@@gwynnapnudd702 I'd say that kind and caring vvomen make up about the same percentage as the men they find desirable... About .01%...

[@Thynqikan]

I stopped trying in 1996 so this has been going on for a long time and it is far worse than ever thanks to cell phones. Every girl I see is holding their phone and in love with themselves.

[@metalhead5707]

American woman, stay away from me American woman, mama, let me be Don't come a-hangin' around my door I don't wanna see your face no more I got more important things to do Than spend my time growin' old with you Now woman, I said stay away American woman, listen what I say

[@josephberrie9550]

great song from the sixties/seventies great times that will never come back

[@bogusmogus9551]

Sounds a bit like Billy Furys' 'Dont knock upon my door' from 1959 Don't knock upon my door Don't want you anymore Don't love you as before You gone and made me sore You're the fool, I ain't your fool no more Don't wait around for me I warned you, can't you see Well, I got somebody new And she ain't mean like you You're the fool, I ain't your fool no more, (it carries on) It's such a pity, cause you're so pretty. I'll keep you on a string, honey I'll give almost everything. And then the chorus, Dont knock upon my door, etc.....

[@stoicmanfromearth]

That movie American beauty has a scene with this song. Amazing how the movie sums it up perfectly how things are today. His wife is a typical western modern vvahm4n, chronically unhappy, infidel and selfish. I like the part when he just quits his job started working out and working flipping burgers, and caught here there on the drive thru with the AP. I found his life so miserable, but, ironically I've been through the same path. I thought my ex was a few of the damages goods out there when I came back to dating. Boy how wrong I was, apparently, c0v1d wasn't the only epidemic that happened worldwide, but wahman in general are completely far from sane today. I'm checking out. Still hitting a few here and there but I don't even bother having a conversation if sex is not almost guaranteed.

[@atmosrepair]

Masterpiece isn't it!? "Go, gotta get away, gotta get away, gotta go go go."

[@jessesdomain444]

Society will either collapse or self correct. If a woman wants me she will have to simp and win me over. You don't chase cats...you wait for them to come to you...

[@stevestruthers6180]

I think we're well on the way to societal and civilizational collapse. There seems to be no way out of this mess. Stick a fork in it, it's done.

[@cptcosmo]

I say let it collapse. The social contract has been violated.

[@evilemperorzurg9615]

Thousands of years of cultural and technological development to bring women to the same level as men. Less than 3 generations to realize it was a huge mistake.

[@dylgoat6734]

Dancing around your words so as not to upset them is a massive problem now days. Walking on eggshells to keep them calm so you can have a easy day. Feelings over common sense, facts & logic.

[@theelder4797]

"HOW DARE YOU insult eggshells?!? Don't you realize they are shells because they are BROKEN like ME??? WHY ARE YOU A RACICICIST?!?!"

[@boobah7815]

It’s called dumbing yourself down to their level

[@VROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOM]

Walking on eggshells Is the worst part, you have to watch every dang word you say, all the time, even the smallest thing triggers them, and then they ghost you. The SMALLEST thing, or anything you disagree with them on, anything and they stop talking to you. No matter how good the dates have been going.

[@ApollosLight]

I have reached a point that when I randomly talk to a woman and she asks me what I want in a woman I tell them that I never date women under 5'11" (1.80 m) because they are too short for me (I am 6'5, 93 kg but not really muscular or Chad type, I am also getting bqld). Their faces are priceless; one English 30something woman accused me of "shortshaming". It is really amusing, but sometimes i am afraid that I will be falsely accused one day from a crazy one.

[@wariokhabib245]

Shortshaming🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I've heard it all now🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ApollosLight]

@@wariokhabib245 I think guys should start using it to women that demand guys 6'3" or so. A sip of their own medicine.

[@tritiumeye]

Keep up the great work

[@Thor-Orion]

Shortshaming coming from any woman is fucking rich. I’m 6’3” and I know for a fact that if I was under 6’ I wouldn’t have the success rate I do at getting girls to drop trou.

[@Mr1998Brandonify]

Shortshaming?! That’s a new one. I’m 6’1” 200lbs athletic build and I’m concerned about false accusations or baby trapping. I keep records of all the convo’s I have with women just in case. Oh, also I’ve mentioned to women their weight is an issue. They lose their damn minds.

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Look at it like this: Has a woman ever wanted to get to know you? Has she ever asked you to grab a coffee, asked about your interests, family, etc. No? Well, why do we bother making the effort then? They obviously have no interest in us.

[@bradsq]

Those who want to "settle down" do want to know you. They want to know how which Fortune 500 company you're working for, what's your salary, what model is your sports car, how many houses you got etc.

[@RoboKSim]

I'm late Gen-X, single, and finally reached a satisfying level of success personally and professionally. I'm so glad to not be partaking in the insanity and madness of dating and relationships anymore. The only thing that's really worth it nowadays (and always has been) is task, purpose, and improving oneself.

[@sammencia7945]

Oldest Xer here and things are so much worse than the 90s it is shocking. Phones did it. Decline started 2005 to 2007. Joker mentions change 2014 to 2016. In 2016 first Zoomers hit 18, had phones since age 8. Everyone in HS grew up with phones and IG. Now everyone under 30 had a phone for all of high school. It will only get worse. It is over.

[@shaddowmystwolf]

Real Gen X I hope, yes? Last ones were '79, none were ever born in the 80's; those are the ones, those horrible things called... Millennials.

[@RoboKSim]

@@shaddowmystwolf 78, on the cusp

[@TheRelen222]

I think 78-82 are considered cuspers. The official cutoff for gen x varies for that range. I’m in the same age range being born in 80, so I guess it’s whatever you identify with more.

[@phoenixrising4995]

@@sammencia7945 Nah its Social Media. Social Media did it. Tiktok is like their crack and the Chinese as usual are the suppliers.

[@joemachine4714]

RELATIVE: "Why not remarried?" ME: "because i don't want to feel lonely in a relationship."

[@godscommandmentsaretruthis2837]

“I used to think that the worst feeling in life was to end up all alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is ending up with people who make you feel all alone.” ― Robin Williams

[@joemachine4714]

Exactly 💯

[@kurt6410]

That thumbnail is your best ever 😆 🤣 😂

[@Justamandoinghisthing]

My ex cheated on me, fine. Our daughter wasn't happy I let her go. " It's ok for women to cheat" said my daughter Infront of her BF, to late they already had a son, I feel for the guy.

[@Josh-fp2qn]

Sure it's okay for women to cheat. There are no consequences or anything called accountability for them.

[@emdo.unlimited555]

Should have yelled at her on her BF's behalf since he can't risk being "verbally aboosive"

[@SgtKilgore406]

At 26, never had a girlfriend, and zero intention to ever pursue a relationship. Red pilled near the end of high school and been strengthening the knowledge ever since. Myself, family, pets, and friends are my priority. I have no time nor respect for today's modern American woman.

[@ApexGaming100]

Im gonna be 25 next month and i feel the exact same way as you. Only important thing to me are my hobbies, stacking my money, eating good food and travelling.

[@blackmirrormusic8868]

how pathetic.

[@gabriellang7998]

@@blackmirrormusic8868 At the age of 40 he will get himself a 28 from the new generation that will hopefully be saner than his current one, marry her and have kids and happy life. Until then, he will build up his wealth and care for his mental and physical peace. That is pathetic how, exactly? I am 8 months since breakup of my last ltr, 6 years in. My last 12 years were four, almost non-stop relations with chicks that in total costed me about half a mln just for their expenses. This is a cash I could invest and multiply, buy decent home, the time I could spend on my own and progressing my career further. These two young men in comments above are lucky to have that wisdom at young age. They will excel and possibly succeed in life. All they need now is to not give into shaming language from some random npcs on the internet.

[@blackmirrormusic8868]

@@gabriellang7998 you red pill people are part of the same poison that's ruining society. Just as bad as the entitled feminists. Decent women exist, you guys are all probably overweight losers who get rejected a lot and so you've found this niche community online and are using it as an excuse. Avoiding women is the most beta male stuff I've ever heard. Talk about not fulfilling your purpose as a man. Weak. Pathetic. Losers.

[@andrewevans7992]

Im 26 to and im sure as fuck never dating an American trash bin! Im going overseas and actually get my money’s worth

[@chaserj9989]

I’m checked out. Never married no kids no sex . It’s not ideal but I’m pretty happy and shocked when I hear stories. I like my house and bike

[@assassassin187]

keep your house and bike

[@bucket0rocks]

Focus on retiring early, so you can watch the sh!tshow from the sidelines at your leisure.

[@chrisapocalypse4915]

Asian massage parlor, my dude. Best thing you will ever do!

[@Whatsup_Abroad]

Dude.....seriously other countries exist. Countries where you can go there, pay all the bills, easily keep around a hot 20 year old no matter how old and ugly you are, she will cook clean and do everything just for the chance to have a man give her a roof and groceries, you will never have to marry her, she'll pump out as many kids as you want, and she will follow your every command, as long as you don't marry her or bring her to the USA. Yes she will still be a gold-digging hoe at heart looking to get the best man possible, but in her eyes, you ARE the best man possible. You sir are a goddamn 10, and there is a cute dominican, or Columbian, or pinay girl who will treat you like the center of her universe. Don't let these American bitches get you down. They are waiting for white knights and men outearning them that simply do not exist anywhere in the world.

[@chaserj9989]

@@Whatsup_Abroad I’m staying in my rich town near Manhattan where I grew up I want medical and my social security one day. I have a passport but I don’t see any need to leave the NY area or my Architecture firm. I don’t really want sex anymore. Doctor said I had low T and he wanted to monitor now that I’m 55 and I said no way I don’t want any T because then sex drive might come back. I’ll never leave this house unless it’s feet first

[@TMA62]

I have noticed over the years that women tend to set an increasing number of ultimatums in requirements just to be with them. Everything from activities, to interests to beliefs and even political views. They are increasingly outspoken about it. I look at all that and realize that it will only be a matter of time when I cross her and there will be trouble. Hence, I pass her by.

[@ZephyrinSkies]

Bruh. " Activities, to interests to beliefs and even political views" are pretty normal things to seek in common in a relationship. Activities you could maybe ditch, but if you have completely different politics and beliefs how do you expect to be compatible. That's like the original point of dating.

[@twrecks6279]

@@ZephyrinSkies Yeah well he's doing it right then.

[@CookieManCookies]

Red Flag list will double by the end of 2023!

[@garethwilliams4467]

@@ZephyrinSkies not really. You cna still be compatible but disagree on everything. That is maturity - how you allow someone to be themselves and don't have those immature requirements. My mum and dad had diferent political beliefs and were married for 50 years

[@a093423848238819]

My sisters are 8 and 11 years older than me, happily married with kids. They use to tease me, berate and belittle me for not settling down. After some time, they have seen majority of women are not not dateable let alone wifey material.

[@veng3r663]

Correction, *WESTERNIZED* women. All those horror stories coming out of Australia & England on animosity towards the White Male are truly terrifying...

[@jayaz9113]

if they were belittling you something's off with them as sisters

[@demigodluis]

Peace of mind and freedom are priceless.

[@velveetaslingshot]

I lived in japan for four years from 96-2000. It broke my attraction to american women forever. And no, not because japanese women are "submissive". But because they are humble, loving, loyal, and kind. They genuinely want you to be happy. They are not perfect, there are fights and anger and sadness and all that shit. But at no point in time do you feel like you are the simp in the relationship. Its a beautiful thing.

[@taylorx2]

what's the cost of living like? I've been thinking of going to Japan an other parts of Asia

[@stevec3526]

Cost of living is high in the major urban areas areas. My wife is Japanese. I gave up on American women 40 years ago.

[@velveetaslingshot]

@@stevec3526 Does she have single friends?

[@nonjaninja4904]

So they act like actual humans are supposed to.

[@BalboaBaggins]

I've been to China and didn't have that experience at all. The girls I met were just as rude, passive aggressive and with hypergamy the same as in the west. Maybe you got lucky.

[@irish14500]

It’s easily summed up by saying “men do NOT desire liberal women”. Also “men do NOT desire diversity and inclusion”.

[@jsims1617]

amen !

[@anthonymark2516]

Both of those statements are bullshit. Remember it's not only right wing people here.

[@joemachine4714]

@j sims

[@Omega935FTW]

Truer words have never been spoken

[@gwynnapnudd702]

Men's rights. White rights. Bill of Rights. The Sacred Trinity upon which American culture stands or falls.

[@aarontracy5160]

Over the last few years I've had women ask me to * buy them a house *buy them a car * pay for enhancements * pay their student loan debt off *do home remodels etc. I haven't ever had those expectations of women. I have zero desire to raise kids or fix financial disasters.

[@michaelvasquez6342]

I got tired of trying to get myself into shape because no matter what I did I got the same result and that I was still invisible, like I am 5"9 and have a full head of hair and my teeth intact but still nothing really changed. Did it for 2 years straight and I got tired of it and since then i limited my workouts and only do it for personal health so I can have more time enjoying my hobbies and dog. Coming to that realization sucked but now I don't have to worry about tiring myself for days on end just to get some attention. It's a damn clown world and it's only getting worse.

[@JohnDoe-xk1dv]

Don't think he's just saying physically tired Brandon - probably emotionally tired too. Gymmaxxing is a waste of time, if you're an ugly guy facially to most women, or if you're too short: it's just seen as trying to compensate. 5'9' is not too short, so guessing it may be the facial factor. I'm 6'2, but seen probably as a 6 at best in face by a few women - maybe 3 - 5 by most. It's tough out there if you are, and not rich/famous. Options are far fewer, and more likely to be shorter term, sadly.

[@blunt2416]

I had a similar experience & outcome, but the main reason why I stopped is when I begin to notice the entitlement of fat chicks or below avg looking chicks. I seen the transition & did the math about 8-10 yrs ago & it hit me like a ton of bricks. It was like stepping into what Seinfeld calls "Bizarro world"...& I can't completely abandon my standards just for some Vag.

[@secretchefcollective444]

Although I agree on the diet and getting a checkup - sometimes it's also the try-hard that is a turnoff, if you're not genuinely doing things for your self and not to 'get girls' then that can be very obvious. I get way more attention from women I walk past (and check out girls, waitresses etc.) when I just am out doing my own thing, buying wood or art supplies or whatever than I ever got going out to 'pull'. Figures.

[@andradeb2695]

For me last year i worked at a labor job and went to the gym regularly and got surprising results from certain women! By the way im not Chad im just a 5"8 light skinned mexican with a bloated face nothing special. I got a good upper body (chest) (Pecs) and Triceps were on point. If i added a workout program and diet and went after it i would definitely gotten me a 10. Genetics play a factor as well. I got looks from women of all races especially White Women. Flash forward to NOW i lost my appeal when i stopped working at the job and going to the gym. It's not like i gotten fat just negative energy from dealing with some depression right now. Baggy eyes from not getting enough sleep. Im just emotionally exhausted! Maybe im dealing with low T levels?? Gotta get back in shape again

[@bogusmogus9551]

Dont give up on it completely. Keep it in your daily/ weekly schedule, like taking a shower etc. dont have to max out every day but keep it regular. You'll thank yourself later. I just quit some years back and my great body turned to crap. now permanently ill with various conditions because i let myself go. Keep at it.

[@phoenix5054]

"Improve yourself, yes. Blame yourself, no." This is actually a good advice.

[@PinkiemachineStudios]

Hearing all of this just breaks my heart. I grew up in a household that valued femininity. My mother was what you might a call a proper lady, and she did her best to teach me and my sisters to be ladies too. I hope that one day, if I have daughters, I’ll be able to teach them what my mother taught me. I refuse to let real women disappear completely, despite the current culture’s best efforts.

[@FriedPi-mc5yt]

That’s what girls are supposed to learn from their mothers. Not the toxic femininity that rules today.

[@justinkennedy3004]

Good step would be to organize a womens only protest defending men's rights and our place in society. For some reason I have yet to see that.

[@ZackSNetwork]

Unfortunately good women are long gone. Know the leftovers in the flames are calling themselves traditional women. The only difference is they don’t want to work vs the modern women that do want to work and be taken care of. There is no real difference they are all bad know and are well over the 90% know. Which is why this is a global problem everywhere. Men should not have to become famous Millionaires to meet decent women and possibly get a wife.

[@ZackSNetwork]

@@justinkennedy3004 It’s because women are always on each others side and the vast majority of women do not care about or hate men. Even women that do not engage in the debauchery will happily defend other women that do and at best call them victims to a corrupt society. Don’t expect women to ever do anything beneficial for men unless it’s for their own bottom line.

[@gaminbeast1999]

Way too late it's over

[@Gaboochee]

You don’t need a woman to be happy. Solitude and abstinence. No porn, no fappy fap. Take back control of your mind and life.

[@jayaz9113]

this is it !

[@rickwaters3592]

😂 Fappy fap

[@curbozerboomer1773]

Nope...the "fappening" is a very normal thing for a man to indulge in...Fantasy is OK, folks. Especially when the horrible reality of modern women is taken into account. My wife died 12 years ago, but my penis did not! I am 76yo, and still "varnishing the cane". Totally normal to do so, guys.

[@jayaz9113]

@@curbozerboomer1773 sounds creepy somehow

[@ukchris64]

@@curbozerboomer1773 Varnishing the cane, that made me laugh out loud, cheers for that, sorry for your loss, as for the pornthing whatever floats your boat,either way it's cheaper than dating🤣

[@Goldsamurai7777]

Social media destroyed the dating market I remember before it was like way different.

[@FogHazard]

Unsocial media

[@beneficent2557]

Social Media disrupts the Perception of the Self, and Exacerbates the Negatives of Hypergamy.

[@StarkIndustries80]

It's not social media. It's womanism.

[@wariokhabib245]

You know what amazes me is how everyone thinks women were so awesome back in the day. That's not how I remember them! They've always been C U Next Tuesdays, it's just now their 💩💩💩 behavior is caught in 4K.

[@invalidaccount2315]

@@wariokhabib245 exactly this has been going on forever specially when u cant understand normal thinking.

[@nabzy28]

I am thankful EVERY damn day that I, somehow.. some way... figured this out 2 decades ago. I refuse to waste more than even 10 seconds on them. I'm telling you guys, you have to learn how to KNOW what mannerisms to look for. I disqualify them in less than a second. Ink, piercings, how they're dressed, how they interact with other people, how they speak, lean left, attend college, pursuing a 'career', vices, insane social media presence... etc. The list is long and 99% are EASILY disqualified. Chase only health, wealth, hobbies and happiness. You will not find that in nearly any westernized wmn.

[@Token_Black_Guy]

Based noticer

[@marcusr3795]

I would agree on everything with just the exception of chasing a career because this is unavoidable due to culture I believe they prefer to have a family but genuinely believe that a man will leave them destitute.

[@jonessoda4me1]

I look at their shoes 👠, they tell me everything I need to know

[@spike6487]

@@marcusr3795 I agree to a point. They have some legit concerns I suppose. You can't begrudge someone for not wanting to end up alone and destitute if it all goes to hell. But, if they're one of those women who are crazy driven to be a boss babe or CEO, no thanks. I mean, that's fine. Do what you have to do, but they aren't going to be solid wife material. They won't have the time or inclination to be the kind of good wife or nurturing mother to the kids that a traditional, masculine man holds in high value. They will prioritize their career advancement over such less important things. This type of mindset in a woman is a big red flag.

[@donaldlewis2506]

“Feminism liberated women from the natural dignity of their sex and turned them into inferior men.” ― Francis Parker Yockey, Imperium 1948

[@BalboaBaggins]

1948? Damn wtf

[@donaldlewis2506]

@@BalboaBaggins a brilliant and perceptive man filled with courage and honour. Targeted and destroyed by the Noseferatu and their Renfields.

[@bogusmogus9551]

Damn, that's prophetic

[@jollypolly1686]

As Rollo Tomasi says, Feminism turns women into defective men and men into defective women.

[@loulou7194]

@@BalboaBaggins You should read "The Fraud of Feminism" by Ernest Belfort Bax, published in 1913 !

[@Ynffy]

I always disliked or hated dating. Like in the article it feels like a chore or a job where I have to prove I have status enough to be worthy of her (and then pay for the dinner, drinks or fancy coffee). Now I just say "no thanks" when I am asked out on a date. It's never enjoyable.

[@radiohobbyist13]

No thanks to pop culture, the various media outlets and the lopsided legal system, I won't even consider it. My #1 priority is protecting myself. I'm not lonely, miserable or desperate. Life is good. 👍

[@aahzmandiaz2767]

Yes, life is good. Peaceful and quiet on top of all that. And I am able to do what I want.

[@Stubbies2003]

To me the lopsided legal system is the end all for that game. Until that is fixed I won't even give the briefest of considerations to a LTR as it isn't worth the risk and talk is super cheap.

[@radiohobbyist13]

@@Stubbies2003 And all of this is literally being done on purpose to discourage relationships between men and women so that they don't procreate. Because the ultimate goal is.......DEPOPULATION!!! We gotta get those numbers down to make more room for the elitists.

[@eibbor171]

i was happy with windows XP, then fucking vista came along

[@clanwargods]

Don't even get me started on Vista.

[@alexrain1188]

Yeah, I’m checked out for sure. 44 years, divorced, and very happy about it.

[@joeplem5329]

42 year old here, checked out of the dating game about 7 years ago. I've been married and dated before that obviously but had the wherewithal to not get any of them pregnant ( thank God). Zero debt plenty in savings and 401k and working part-time. Stay single if you want to retire/semi retire early 🤷

[@WC3fanatic997]

Just remember; when they condescendingly ask why you're "so bitter" all the time, remember, and perhaps even (futilely) remind them as well, that Bitterness, like any emotion, is a tool, and is not meant to control your life, but instead to inform you of something; in this case, to remind you of all the hard-won wisdom you have acquired.

[@teddybeer6206]

A lot of the time, they're bitter themselves.

[@nomadronin707]

Amen! I might not like being bitter but it keeps me from acknowledging their existence in any way, it must suck for them to get exactly what they said they wanted...

[@gregoryunderwood4121]

Undatable, hell you can't even have a simple conversation with them.

[@beerman204]

From 1970 to 2000 I had a few good relationships with women, then things just stopped. No more girlfriends.... now I believe I did not change- women did.

[@BB-te8tc]

"Emotional incontinence" is gold. Gotta remember that one.

[@phileas007]

It used to be called simply "hysteria" and women who overdid it used to be institutionalized 🤣

[@hushingsilence]

I can't blame you guys for wanting to stay single. I tell all my guy friends do *not* get married. Those who are married, talk to me endlessly about how unhappy they are. All of my friends are men. Way more straight forward, down to earth, and zero bs. I get it.

[@gaminbeast1999]

No you don't

[@garethwilliams4467]

all your friends are men ?? Red flag right there

[@cool08player]

@@gaminbeast1999 He doesn't what? Tell his friends not to get m*rried? I'm shocked he still has friends after stating his views on m*rriage.

[@Ffoo_ffighter]

​@@cool08player it's a she, bro.

[@Harbinger_of_nurgle]

I was gone from December 2016-December 2022. I got back to the United States and tried a dating app and I’m pretty sure it gave me cancer. Glad it’s not just me

[@andrewevans7992]

I do so much better with foreign dating sites.. I gotta escape this 2024. I wanna explore and meet different people, screw American broads

[@mintoxace5571]

Guys don’t approach because women act like we are creeps for saying hello.