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[@Goldniz]

Some of these men will take any opportunity to ridicule a black woman… She is not ugly

[@lunkee6972]

She isn’t but you cannot deny she does not look like her profile pictures

[@Goldniz]

@@lunkee6972 I swear I am so confused because to me she looks exactly like her pictures, she just has a different hair style and she isn’t wearing as much makeup. If you see Zendaya with a different haircut and less makeup she looks a little different from a red carpet photoshoot but she is still beautiful. She dodged a bullet because a woman’s face will change and he will not handle that, and he is classless.

[@sg5720]

She ain’t ugly- she just not like the lady in the picture - big difference. A man has to like you looking your worst and best.

[@l0111]

@@Goldnizyou’re right. BMs especially are like vultures - just waiting for any opportunity to tear down a BW.

[@faith6575]

At all! There’s only a slight weight difference, plus she looks the same with and without makeup (which is a flex).

[@newstart1847]

1. Yes catfish and 2. This is why I say if a man wants to split a bill on the first date it means he doesn’t like you .

[@BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx]

💯

NO shit. He told her that, genius.

[@mrttamara]

If the guy didn’t like her, he should have left right then and there. Why sit down and eat?

[@MissKashira]

Yeah, why on earth would he order, eat with her and then ask for her to cover the bill. Maybe he was trying to punish her only to find out she didn't have enough money to cover her part of the dinner. RIP.

[@isysslepore72]

Exactly he’s no better than her

[@videofan1010]

He could have eaten with her though because she's a human being. He didn't have to go out on another date with her. I'm a woman and have broken bread with more than one unattractive man.

[@tishtash321]

Maybe he just didn't know what to do in the moment.

[@laurencameron3150]

@@tishtash321I get being shocked intially but shocked enough to spend at least an hour or more with her ?

[@scribblerofdreams]

Feel so bad for her… online isn’t always the place to be sharing stuff like this smh

[@777SO]

Yeah that’s the prb nowadays people be sharing all their business online! People on internet aren’t your friends nor your therapist! Let’s not talk about how people can be mean and cruel online with perfect strangers!

[@gaudylady7]

@@777SOThis is so true & I learned this the hard way. I was on a tiktok dating live & the host announced that none of the men were interested in me anyway. She did so because I said she’s only connecting people from the USA to Africa, which was a long running issue with her show. I told her many won’t connect with someone who is thousands of miles away 🤦🏾‍♀️and that’s why she barely got any matches on that show .

[@TheAlexaLee]

The "California king big back" 😂🤣🤣 2 secs into the video is wild 😭💀💀

[@weareuniqueforareason7503]

LOL 😂 I PROMISE YOU I LAUGHED WAYYYYY TOO F-ING HARD AT THAT! 🤣.

[@autumnskai6383]

😂😂😂

[@cutlyfe]

Y’all wrong smh 🤦‍♀️ lol

[@rosiecheeks.k]

Omg the way she said it! I couldn't help it i laughed so hard 😂

[@cheetahgurll]

She didn’t lie😂

[@OceanisInfinite]

It’s the fact that they didn’t FaceTime or anything before the date. Where was his antenna?! 😳😳😳😩😩😩🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂

[@erobinson5942]

A catfish is when you use someone else’s picture and say it’s you. She didn’t cat fish. She deceived him

[@akiaadams5399]

She's not ugly but I do agree she catfish him period

[@karmAnonymous]

Yeah it sucks because.... at this point, I read don't be just she did it maliciously... I believe she did it willfully ignorantly... what do I mean by that? Well, I've really noticed the past several years how totally... USELESS MOST people are when "communicating".... it is the MAJORITY... like 98% of people... so that tells me it's some kind of collective disconnect going on... what SHOULD BE common sense (obviously is not so common anymore) would be to post full body pictures, no makeup/light makeup pictures.... different hairstyles, if that's your thing ... etc etc .... that's common sense to me because the LAST thing I would want is to make a complete fool of myself.... so.... to use that ONE picture.... confuses me.... but so does the majority of what people do & say.... & often times when confronted THEY don't even know why TF they did something EITHER 🤦🏻‍♀️😮‍💨💀😆

[@nwalden5744]

She not pretty either tbh

[@nwalden5744]

@@karmAnonymousyour comment don’t make sense

[@karmAnonymous]

@@nwalden5744 dude... I'm laughing so hard Right now 😆😆😆 I am SO sorry‼️ I have been having so many issues with my auto correct lately. I mean, straight up will take correctly spelled words... then change them to entirely different words but with the same starting letter... lol just nonsense... I keep messing around with my settings trying to get it right though. I'm seriously chuckling right now because I am not entirely sure of what I was trying to say..... at least not in the beginning 💀

[@akiaadams5399]

@@nwalden5744 beauty is in the eye of the beholder...just means she's not for you...move on

[@TheTracy0605]

Not gonna lie, I am curious about what he looks like.

[@isysslepore72]

Sadly a man can still be ugly and still have the nerve being judgmental 🥴

[@bigelowkaryn]

Probably not even handsome 😅

[@shaypope4732]

3:59 probably like him

@@bigelowkaryn Why would he be handsome if he chose her to go on a date with? DUH...Us handsome guys dont have to do charity like that.

[@nikkilong7377]

She definitely catfish him. he went through the whole date. I don't think he should get the money back. They're both wrong.

[@ksis86]

Girlll 💀 i have selfies i love from only 2-3 years ago but i do NOT look like that anymore so i stopped using them on my profiles. People can change a lot in short amount of time! You cant just use a decade old photo because you were “confident in them” and be surprised. At least her date was honest and told her she didn’t match the photo lol

[@The1GeminII]

This is why I prefer to meet organically.

[@mrttamara]

@@The1GeminII Exactly! No online for me! You never know what type of creep you will meet!

[@elizabethhinton6781]

That last dude was shameless but not wrong 😂😂😂

[@Longhairdontcare34567]

The last dude is hilarious talking about catfishing hours. 😂😂😂

[@nwalden5744]

For him if he want the money back….He’s broke

[@Emo2heart]

I'm about to send my dating app pick to my friends and family 😂😂😂 just to make sure I still look like that.

[@nynygurl]

😂😂😂😂 OKAY

[@MeltingOnYourMind]

😂😂😂........ 🤳🏾👀

[@videofan1010]

Good move 😂

[@deeee777]

Bring back shame! She should have taken her L in private.smh

[@hayaq9991]

Catfish hours 😂 lord have mercy!

[@sinovuyobudaza7167]

Some men want to be bitter about being rejected by women when women get rejected all the time, too.

[@tanyagivens4338]

I want to know what he looked like, expecting an Instagram model. This is a bunch of vanity and foolishness.

[@reesecup95]

She refuses to take accountability about misrepresenting herself on her dating account. She knows good and well that she doesn't look like those photos anymore. Instead of learning from that experience to show her true self upfront next time, she chose to go online and play the victim. I don't feel sorry for her.

[@imeldangadzania5212]

Thank you and people are defending her. She looks nothing like her pictures on the dating site

[@shaypope4732]

So true

[@blaqwabbit]

I don't think she purposely catfish him but...I do think it was a STARK difference in the pics and how she showed up. I'm just wondering y she even asked for ppls opinions if she just gonna argue about what ppl thought. She did look very different! So sorry about it.

[@MissKashira]

Like you said, she doesn't think she catfished him. So she posted thinking people would agree and support her and while most people don't agree, they have been supporting her and helping her put together more accurate pictures and a profile.

[@FancyFallon]

The California King Back and the Catfishing Hours sent me 😂😂😂

[@justacutie5201]

I honestly think it would have gone differently if she wore a straight short wig and put in more effort in her makeup. ......Also I think their is a difference between cubby , overweight and obese.

[@LimeGreen]

Me either

[@Frugal637]

People also have different ideas of chubby.

[@CuirPhotodotNet]

.....i can hardly believe that she CAME BACK on the INTERNET looking like she JUST ROLLED OUT OF BED....BIZARRE....

[@BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx]

😂

[@rickiesmith413]

She needs some social cues and a nice person to teach or train her about online dating.

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

I’ve never heard of BLK😂😂😂.

[@ambasd733]

The dudes on Blk are corny and a solid 3's in looks and behavior

[@latebloomer177]

I never heard of it either lol.

[@mommieofdos]

It's dust Chile...whewwwew

[@mommieofdos]

​@@ambasd733 This is also an exaggerated compliment at best! The best ones are 3s! Most are negative infinity!

[@constancewilliams760]

​​@@ambasd733 It's a dating app like tinder but supposedly specifically for black people I think it was founded by ice cube

[@imeldangadzania5212]

Let’s learn to stop defending the indefensible! This lady definitely deceived him, she looks nothing like her pictures. All the makeups, wigs and filters come nahhhhh. Stop misrepresenting yourselves, if someone likes you, the person will like you just as you are.

[@BlackNella]

Neuro-spicy is my conjecture as well.

[@cosmicbrownie333]

I didn’t feel like she was catfishing (she looked the same just less polished) as much as you could tell that she wasn’t in a good place mentally before she went on said date. That’s the conclusion I came to based off her appearance before date & how personally she took it when the date didn’t go well. She confirmed my hunch in her response vid. I agree with everything you said at the end. Desperation, lack of confidence, etc are things people can pick up on very quickly which can work against you (attracting narcs and abusive people in general). Dating should be fun and spark your curiosity. If you start feeling like you’re “auditioning for men” it may be time to take yourself out the game by spending more time nurturing yourself/spirit.

[@cutietae247]

Yeah she was chubby in those pictures- she became more so obese between then and now… it is what it is but she doesn’t look the same by a long shot. Guys aren’t evil they just aren’t as polite as women are in these situations

[@am-harris7458]

Dude is giving broke dusty vibes! Classy men pay the bill and move on in regal silence!😒😏😒😏

[@kamikazekyre6101]

And real women post real photos themselves! Unfiltered!

[@am-harris7458]

@kamikazekyre6101 That's not the point..the date was a bust..pay for it and move on! Charge it to the game!😒😏😒😏

[@ohhaiJess96]

@@kamikazekyre6101😂😂

[@LiveEventsTV_]

@@am-harris7458with your logic woman (or man) can have unlimited free meals by just catfishing.

[@am-harris7458]

@LiveEventsTV_ Well that's the gamble you take while dating, right?! 😒😏

[@ace89min]

Not the gutter snippes 💀

[@teoleno4019]

She looks pretty much the same, minus the straight hair.

[@The1GeminII]

I was ready to be team her. The first picture no, but the second picture was closer to what she looks like. This is why I prefer meeting organically.

[@younoticedme]

I'm thinking she really felt she was being herself and showed up au natural. She appears genuinely shocked, and I dont know anyone who deliberately catfished someone going online to talk about it.

[@OceanisInfinite]

She’s delusional. That’s not an excuse.

[@cjwilliamsvi]

Do men know what a 30in buss down is?? They keep saying that but sis didn’t have a 30in buss down in any of those pics. 😐

[@ohhaiJess96]

How many straight men actually know what any wig style is called? 😂 I don’t know any men who know the difference in women’s wigs and hairstyles let’s be fr

[@cjwilliamsvi]

@@ohhaiJess96 Right. So why did they keep saying that? 🤣🤣🤣

[@voyageswithshyeasha1398]

1am-6a catfishing hours lol😅😂

[@Pooh1608]

Im.a plus sized black woman who loves makeup and I can see what she did. She definitely knew.

[@Goldniz]

I hate that all these people are roasting her appearance she is beautiful

[@videofan1010]

She's average. Which is not an insult.

[@Goldniz]

@@videofan1010 So you think average people are not pretty ?

[@ten25.]

Beautiful? Lol f o h

[@Goldniz]

@@ten25. Bet you look like a movie star hum , and you probably look as elegant as the vocabulary you use 🤩😒🥱

[@ten25.]

@@Goldniz I actually do

[@akyanajanay]

She does look different but watching her facial expressions in both pics not extremely. The hair, makeup and filter is a lot. Unfortunately , especially as black women , we need to have all kinds of pics on our profiles. They say they want natural but we know they may not be satisfied without the weave and makeup. I wish she would of left when his attitude changed!

[@Finesseiona]

Not a California king!!!😭 💀

[@LoveK1]

My stomach hurts from trying not to laugh at work.😂

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

That’s bigger than a regular king😂😂😂. Humans are a mess!

[@winning3329]

This comment is why many women have eating issues.

[@winning3329]

This is why women have issues with food.

[@Finesseiona]

@@Seeingisntbelieving Fr!

[@Goldniz]

Catfish is when someone uses another person’s identity

[@sg5720]

No it don’t

[@akiaadams5399]

Catfish is to misrepresent who you are and what you currently look like

[@Goldniz]

@@akiaadams5399 Oh so if I am 75 and I show you my old drivers licence with an old picture of me, it's a catfish ?? That is just ridiculous. Is makeup a catfish ? Is getting a hair color a catfish ? Is cutting my hair a catfish ? Getting a tan maybe ? Where do you draw the line ??

[@akiaadams5399]

@@Goldniz like I said misrepresenting yourself is catfishing so yes if your license pic is the only one you show me and it's not what you currently look like duh

[@Rene-cn4jc]

Catfishing is misrepresenting yourself. If you’re sending a picture of yourself from 10 years ago, when you had hair, knowing you don’t now, in hopes the person finds you attractive, you’re catfishing. This woman is not ugly..but her pictures do not represent herself well. If the guy couldn’t even tell that was her, that’s because of how she represented herself.

[@naturallykiera5063]

Awwwww damnnnnnn it gets worse?!?!? Yoooo for those who are saying she didn't catfish and she looks the same.....her live; doesn't even look like the picture!! Stop lying!

[@KevonnieElaine]

LMAO😭! Stop lying!

[@patescortez88]

Yea I seen her man. Life is harsh on some

[@ohhaiJess96]

Girl🤣🤣 the dress was way too small and she could’ve done something with her hair stop the BS 🤣🤣

[@tiffanypayne6124]

Objectively, sis, you didn't look like who you presented yourself as.. I'm sorry he was rude, but the truth is you are catfishing...🧐💯

[@jenmar9428]

I always tell women STOP posting super filtered photos. I know many women that do not look like they look on their damn photos. There are so many women with great wigs and fully makeup. When they take off the wig and makeup, it is a whole different person. Also for overweight women: Please put a photo of your whole body. My cousin always send me photos to check if a woman photos. Why? Because many overweight women only put photos from of their face and with some breasts. Also, heal before you start dating. My male friend was dating a woman who got divorced. The poor woman’s behavior was unhinged. She seriously needs therapy. She was m0lested as a girl and her marriage was horrendous. She’d always talk about her ex husband. It was obvious she was still hurt. 😞

[@nolabelz]

I think I missed the memo where chubby got redefined. I thought chubby meant "slightly overweight". Chubby matched the pictures that were in her profile but that isn't accurate in her current depiction of herself. It doesn't take away from her beauty; it just isn't current or accurate. This does not excuse the date's behavior. He should have walked away the moment he felt duped by her. Yes, she still would have been hurt, but he wouldn't have been out of any coin, either.

[@lattedee2523]

Right... It's like a realtor telling you a house is charming which usually translates to its a small house that needs work.

[@PettyIsMyMiddleName]

😂😂 I MUST say that these men were pretty descent with their responses. Some of the responses were funny AF 😂🤣 All I have to say is men are visual . He thought he was getting a 30 inch bust down , then she showed up. And AGAIN this is 2024 , I need people to video chat FIRST 🤨

[@ineedavaykation4016]

She's actually very pretty girl. That said, the dating apps encourage member photos to post recent photos that are a representation of who the are and what they look like right now. We have to be mindful and show up with the aesthetic we have in the photos. Blk now has a verification process for photos so if there's no blue check mark whoever is swiping right is proceeding at their own peril....

[@madmann1000]

I honestly think some people are exaggerating the catfish narrative because she honestly doesn’t look that different from the filtered pictures.

[@antasiashaw8815]

She did catfish him because she doesn’t look like that in person. You can call it filter fishing which is just a sneaky way of catfishing someone

[@THEdemetrishigashikata]

The picture she had up was a decade old....👀

[@Khadiyah01]

You are a liar.

[@Khadiyah01]

Complete madman Pun intended

[@snatched.4513]

It’s ppl like you with this toxic positive b.s she def catfished him period point blank she doesn’t deserved to be shamed for it but she indeed did catfish and doesn’t look like her pics in person she looks the the much older aunt of the woman in those pictures.

[@Cantetinza17]

Hun, men don't read the bios. You need to post current. Get your glam on and take new pics without a filter. If you can't feel confident without drastically filtering, then you have bigger issues. I agree, I want to know what does he look like?

[@MissKashira]

Even if he read the bio, "chubby black girl" covers A LOT of ground.

[@supervyk]

Destiny you look good girl! Glowing ✨

[@DestinyUteh]

Thank you!! Sis 🫶🙏😍

[@duchesseebene1273]

With her dating app pics, she may have attracted a man who liked EXACTLY what he saw: a slightly chubby woman, with straight silky hair, wearing flattering makeup and clothing. Perhaps he didn't like what he saw in person...or he might have a been having a bad day and an even worse attitude completely unrelated to this lady. Kindness is free, and respectfully bowing out of the date would have been kind.

[@IntrovertedEmpathINFJ]

I never post my best pictures. Ever. because i don’t want them having certain expectations. I like people being pleasantly surprised at the real deal. Be honest people. Be honest about who/what you really look like. No filters, full body pics/video calls. what is the problem?

[@susanmarks305]

2:40 She has some damn nerve, deception in using old, outdated photo is ok, if the description is "transparent". if she truly believe that, then why post photos at all then? Chubby is not transparent, it's vague because chubby could 20lbs overweight to 100lbs overweight. It's varies among people of what they consider chubby. 7:10 I disagree, do put your best foot forward, BUT your best foot rn, currently - at this moment. She crying playing victim, but at the same time refuses to use current photos. So she thinks it's okay to deceive her dates. She actually questions why should she use current photos that show who her dates will be meeting FFS! What else will she have no problem lying about if you date her?

[@jaebyrd4608]

“30 in bust down” to a woman with a side part bob

[@S.M412]

it wasn’t the filter or even how old the picture was . it was the angle of the picture and the fact she takes her pictures from the chest up . the honest truth is , he was not expecting the body that showed up . yes , her profile says chubby , but chubby to most people means “curvy” or “thick” with a little extra roll here or there . most people equate chubby with the weight in “the right places” with a little stomach/gut that comes with it . chubby , to most men , does not equate to overweight / obese and it does not equate to her specific body type . this is no disrespect or in any attempt to body shame her , but to be realistic . he was not expecting the body that showed up . she did catfish him . you should but full body pictures on your profile so people know what to expect . she knows what she’s doing taking pictures from that angle . she also didn’t show up looking her best , either .

[@busisiwedlamini437]

This lady is gaslighting the internet and needs to take accountability. She presented herself as something she’s not cause of her insecurities . This guy should’ve told her they’d be splitting the bill.

[@rivermoon8682]

She said she posted the best version of herself but it's not the current version of herself

[@jamarjohnson6077]

I was catfished once just three years ago. I failed for all the usual lines. I can't video because my cell phone has a data plan. My home internet signal is weak. I should have known before the date she asked how I felt about someone having a good heart. I got to the date she was rude to the waitress and bragged about money. Walked her to the car and ensured she got home fine. Never called back

[@MrOCPR]

The last dude was hilarious 😂

[@Blacksireen]

The crazy thing is that I look good on Instagram and I look even better in person. Some of us look better in both with that and said there was a pretty decent difference between how she looked before and after.

[@luckydonnee7185]

Poor girl, she is very beautiful though

[@user-iy9pg9ie4c]

I doesn't matter how you describe yourself with words, you showed pictures that didn't TRUELY did NOT show your appearance NOW. Why can't you understand that ? What if the man did the same thing to you ? How would you react? He shows a picture of himself with a 6 pack and a head full of hair, then shows up with a gut and reseeding hairline ?

[@theiswithin3649]

Exactly she decived him.

[@jasminelaine1003]

The guttersnipes!

[@jasmnethorpe8887]

Just video chat a couple of times before the date More importantly be honest with yourself and love yourself

[@Fatima-zs3mo]

Men, if you don’t like what you see politely say what it is and leave. Ladies (black women since that’s my pov) show a natural pic, braids, wig, online dating, so they know what to expect. Be honest of your weight, occupation, look. I took communion in college and i know how to market myself and others. Looks are first personality is second. That’s how American society is. Whether it’s right or wrong.

[@karmAnonymous]

am I trippin' or doesn't she look better natural than that filtered, all done up kinda blurry-ish 2014 era picture? people need to do the inner work & start realizing the beauty they hold! I promise that loving & being comfortable with yourself ALONE is attractive! you don't have to be conventionally beautiful in order to be desired &/or attractive!

[@caramelapplejollyrancher]

i agree completely

[@hellodiamonds]

I don’t think she catfished him, at least not intentionally. I think her pics are her highlights just like most everyone else is posting their highlight reel on sm

[@RealTruth_]

Nobody Deserves anything. Life is harsh. You get what is given to you, or what you can negotiate. No one deserves more than anyone else and life isn’t fair. Many factors and gateways determine what you get in this very short life. I suggest you live life to the fullest and be happy. Don’t waste time chasing money or people. Just be happy

[@bertha8893]

The guy with the black hood was hilarious 😂

[@iridescentwings144k]

I love ur videos ❤

[@777SO]

Well if she wants to keep being on dating app she better put some recent picture! Because I don’t think she catfish him intentionally,BUT there is a need to more natural pic. With your natural hair if you rock them,with make up/without/full body picture etc! Cause at the end of the day all the filters can literary change the way you really look! She’s beautiful,but seams insecure to me. Let’s be honest you cannot tell me there is no difference between her pictures and the picture of her going to the date. There is someone for everyone,love yourself first if you want to attract love. You cannot attract what you don’t have or feel not deserving.

[@butterscotch2086]

11:37 Facts, I’m sensing a whole lot of audacity on his part too lol

[@PrettyRoger]

So you mean to tell me.. if you use makeup, a different hairstyle that you don’t use everyday.. and on TOP of that.. a filter that manipulates your features .. it ain’t catifishing/deceiving? I hope she presents herself the way she is, she deserves someone that loves the way she naturally looks. That’s like if I were to strictly post myself back when I had a bob haircut then them having zero clue I walk around w/ a pixie cut.

[@pratkier]

I knew she thought she was being transparent by saying chubby in her description cause that used to be me and I don't think she's ugly just because of the reaction she got. I believe it's more about showing up as the person they see on the profile. I'm sure he expected her to be a big girl but he wasn't expecting a totally different look and style. It's not that he thought he was getting a skinny girl or even a girl that doesn't look anything like you. I think he was expecting a different "type" of girl based on the pictures you provided him.

[@Redfern4]

15:00 😂😂😂😂😂 like some clothes out of the dryer okay 😂

[@chilloutdude1000]

I think it's very possible that she honestly believes that she looks like her pictures. People are delusional nowadays.

[@sg5720]

As a woman she definitely catfished. She should have let him see her without the “dress up”. That is why I believe in meeting people regular first and let them be in awww when you do dress up. I ain’t mad at the guy. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@The1GeminII]

Me too! When I was in the military, this girl brought a guy she was dating over to my side of the room, knowing I was sleeping. She was like, look at how you look. I said, he’s not here for me, he’s here for you, and besides that any man you’re with should know what you look like when you wake up, if he has any intentions of being with you long term 🙄

[@LittleMissDeeDee]

I think she lacks self awareness tbh some people just aren’t very socially aware of how people perceive and react to them.

[@rakishaeverett4636]

That guy was being nice I’m still waiting to see if he will post a response 😁

[@adrianwillis66]

These guys are going toe FAR. They did not have to insult her

[@BlackIsBeautiful-qg1lx]

Right the contoured faces , filters, wigs and makeup shows a different person … ijs in my honest opinion.

[@bigelowkaryn]

It’s clear that she has self-esteem issues (i.e. saying chubby instead of plus size; not having current photos that she can post and feel confident). I hope she works on that for her own sake

[@butterscotch2086]

It was obvious that there were heavy filters on those photos. He definitely should have FaceTimed her before the date if he was very particular about how she looks.

[@teedasawaneh471]

You can expect a description to be the same as a full body picture. We all want to present ourselves in the best possible way, but she needs to put more realistic photos to avoid these in situations. Realistic photos are still beautiful.

[@julesa2894]

Just ease off the filter and have decent pictures of how you look like on a regular basis. Saves a lot of headache

[@florindagonzalez5700]

I immediately tell a man, who is interested, I'm fat and give them my height and weight lol. They back off most of the time.

[@cutlyfe]

I want to know this guys description

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

7:16 wannabe Derrick Jackson

[@zero1188]

This is why when women post pictures, it should be one with makeup, one with out it. And with hair, one with weave and one without it. Basically show different sides of yourself so you dont get no surprises.

[@The1GeminII]

I kind of laughed because I don’t wear makeup nor wigs or weaves. I so want to though 🤣.

[@breezbree7464]

I don't know why you felt the need to do a male follow up? Unless your intent was to humiliate her further....the women already dragged her by the edges for Catfishing.....ijs She's already been shredded

[@TheNaturalStateTX]

Honestly, the men were a bit more delicate in their reactions than the women.

[@proudblkqueen1067]

@@TheNaturalStateTXyes and I was pleasantly surprised, because men have no filters when discussing the looks of the woman THEY like

[@latebloomer177]

@@TheNaturalStateTX This is true and they were all decent looking. I notice that men that look the opposite tend to try to pull women down.

[@rosiecheeks.k]

I agree I think the men in this video were actually trying not to be mean! I found it rather refreshing in a way!

[@AudelizAngiePerezNJ]

Her best foot forward did not show up the date, and she's telling us/him that he should have read the fine print ... I think she mentioned in her profile that shes 'chubby' and that alone should mitigate what happened. It doesn't. But the dude does not need to sit/stay ... he is free to leave if he feels deceived. Asking for cash app ... no 👎 you continued the date. That was your choice. Take the L ... both people.

[@Bea_B]

I thought she had someone else's photo when I saw the title. The photo's she had where a different hair style and make up. She was done up! I don't call this catfishing. Men do not look better in person than in photos, that's a damn lie.... from experience. The guy that said she should post various photos, I agree. I hate when men show up with a catfishing wallet or catfishing representative. ninjas out here catfishing with man weaves, lace front beards, make up, tight pants, and rental cars.

[@Dee_Da1]

I don't feel sorry for the guy at all. If this story is real, it's giving fake. He should have just taken that L like a man. He's probably just mad that he couldn't convince himself that he could sleep with her to make up for paying for the date. He wasn't tricked, just disappointed and probably embarrassed. Online dating is hit or miss

[@lajoycelewis795]

I REPEAT. Ma'am! Men do NOT read your profile. It is rare lol. I online dated for a decade now and have fussed at them about that issue. U my dear are a catfish and already outed yourself and I'm a 3mins in. I stopped online dating. It's so much more fulfilling having men step to u in real life!❤

[@ciaramist9435]

In my opinion I feel like she did Catfish him in a way, because the pictures were older and not up to date as they should have been( she could threw a newer one in the mix) but I also feel that she should not be dating right now, it's pet time. She's Clearly in a bit of a vulnerable state and is Clearly looking for some companionship. Instead of dating she's need to focus on herself and get some help. There seemed very little effort put into to an extent. But I do hope she gets help or at least a friend she can talk to and help boost her self-esteem.

[@patescortez88]

She can't do that no one checking for that lol

[@spongegar7588]

I was super skinny, and most of my pictures are from that time. I don’t use those pictures after I gain weight (went from a small to a large) because I do not want to be misleading. I’m working on losing weight and when I am at my goal weight I will take new pictures that reflect how I look now. You can’t just use your best pictures even though you don’t look like that any more.

[@shygirlcomplex]

I wanted too see the date picture.. her face looked a bit fuller but what was throwing me off was her hair because it’s not done …. it was just a starting date and it’s not that serious the guy could have politely told her he didn’t think things would work out and have a great evening…these bm just want any reason to go in on black ladies

[@THEdemetrishigashikata]

What i will say is this... i think she may have been shooting above her level and i say that because on her profile it seems she was reluctant to show what she actually looked like modern day. Like who like you (meaning show the real you and if they like you then there you go) 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@MissKashira]

I am willing to bet money she wasn't shooting above her level. I bet he thought he lucked out and was shooting above his level only to find out he wasn't. I bet this same guy would have willingly gone to her house, but was mad he almost spent money on her.

[@Vee_Davis-wb9wd]

i can see right now alot of yall missed the "catfish" era ...yall didnt watch the show didnt pay attention to anything that was going on around this whole issue...men be out here catfishing and i dont see any uproar but this is a problem lol oh well idc how men feel they catfish in soo many different ways lol