Men Share Nonsexual Types of Physical Touch They Like | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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[@toosense]

When I was dating my then boyfriend, he came over after a long, bad day at work. He laid his head on my lap and I gently stroked his hair, his jawline, his neck.. he closed his eyes and melted. That's the exact moment when I knew I was madly in love. We just celebrated our 22nd anniversary. He is everything to me. ❤️

[@muqadasa8571]

Aww... That soo cuteee

[@toosense]

@Ko Heymi thank you :)

[@LCmonman]

That’s the sweetest!!

[@shyamalineje204]

Fairytale 😍😍😍😍

[@simply-living8523]

So sweet!

[@cerenkebapc6029]

When a man gently holds a woman's waist while walking on the street. It is nonsexual yet makes us feel so amazing.

[@jordanmicheal4148]

Hello ceren❤

[@ra-benheka7219]

Put it on a post about how women like to be touch.

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

This touch is not sexual. It is very intimate. You do not want that other persons do that either. Not even your parents.

[@aiesecvideos6238]

ı find its sexual for me

[@clairelivefreeordie2551]

French kiss his ears

[@dianaschubert2426]

When we go somewhere and He puts His hand on my lower Back... Its like knowing i have Support, He is with me. Love it

[@paulvictor4609]

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[@paulvictor4609]

Whats app him immediately

[@urmilamuthiah9348]

Absolutely true, they are the kind to keep forever ; soul mates!

[@urmilamuthiah9348]

Lol! Yes it does go into sexual form eventually 🎼better know when to stop.Intimacy💕, agree the jaw line matters so much because medically it's proven.whispering, breathing or burying your self in a no sexual way is so heart 💓 warming, the power Love.😍Thx for sharing and giving vis so many tips without expectations! I simply 💜🧡💚u for your transparency My Love Guru!😷safe take the vaccine & continue to live your Life like there is no tomorrow.TC🎗️

[@lynns8057]

I love that lower back touch......it makes me feel a rush of warmth and I feeled loved.💜

[@christyjoyce4287]

1. Hug from behind. 2.Neck massage -light. 3.Resting your head on chest. 4. Running your fingers through his hair. 5. Scratching his back. 6.High-five hand hold. 7. Rub his ears. 8. Touch his jawline. 9. Breathing in his good fragrance. 10. Couples foot massage. These are in reverse.

[@taylorduvernay9789]

I miss doing no 3, pity I am single now.

[@liveandletlive9333]

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[@soniacanelon7110]

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[@biancadelarosa7986]

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[@iwasnotherekek6189]

I love it when he -joins me when I'm napping or chilling and puts his hand over my waist when he lays down - tucks hair away from my face/volunteers to tie my hair up/offers a hair tie - cups my face and gives forehead kisses -pulls me in for a kiss by the waist - needs to get to something, but I'm in the way and he pushes me gently by the small of my back -lays on me and does nothing -hugs me from behind -smells my hair/plays with my hair

[@Sisterlisk]

Dang

[@theyellowsparks]

Love this! I love how you noticed all the little details. My long distance boyfriend does everything you mentioned on here-and I didn’t realize just how important these little gestures were until we’re apart. The laying on you and doing nothing-just pure simple bliss.

[@rumikarapetrova5540]

you nailed it, girl!😍

[@chantemarais6586]

👌🏻 all of the above

[@Gellybeanb1974]

All very romantic*

[@DanielGreene]

From the way you describe it, I get the sense that although these are non-sexual ways men love to be touched, they only want to be touched in these ways by people they are in a sexual relationship with.

[@Sarachouska]

They are intimate gestures...

[@DanielGreene]

@@Sarachouska they are. Are you equating intimacy with sex, though?

[@deenad3562]

@@DanielGreene no, these gestures are Not intended to lead to sex, they encourage a loving nurturing healthy relationship.

[@DanielGreene]

@@deenad3562 I agree. I believe if straight men would touch each other in these ways it would lead to more loving friendships and a kinder, gentle society.

[@deenad3562]

@@DanielGreene Whoa there sparky, although these are non-sexual gestures, they are intended for your PARTNER, not just any friend.

[@aadtie5633]

Grabbing my hand and guiding me when crossing road. Giving me hand when climbing up or down something. Holding me by shoulder and keeping me close in public places Standing behind me and covering me with his arms around me in crowded stores. Lightly tucking in my bra band if accidentally visible when in public places. Forehead kisses Holding hand when driving Back hugs when cooking Pulling my chair close to his when having meal So many more..could type only this.

[@sunshine472]

So true.. can't agree more. 👍👍

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

Very good description!

[@jules.wins.]

Are you describing a girlfriend or your mother?

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

@@jules.wins. The writer is a She. Heterosexual.

[@jules.wins.]

@@heide-raquelfuss5580 is she describing a boyfriend or a father?

[@auntielisalisabopeepsa]

Feeling his breath on my neck, or a gentle hug from behind. Makes me feel safe and secure 💜 haven’t had that in many many years. My late sister a few years ago said to me that there was a such thing as “skin starved”. I laughed at first because it didn’t seem to make sense at the time. It sure does now 😞💔

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[@savannahhaughton22]

1. Forehead kisses. 2. Hand on thigh in car. 3. Backward Hug. 4. Resting on stomach/lap 5. Shoulder rubs. 5. Being spooned. 6. Play fighting. (That’s all I can think of.)

[@cicinomaden]

Love #4!!!

[@Pinkapotomus]

While my husband does not enjoy any of these things(nerve issues), I try to love on my son by hugging, holding his hand when he sits next to me, foot rubs, brush his hair (it’s longer than mine), scratch his back, let him lean on me, etc. Love on your sons as much as you love on your daughters!

[@managingmin]

My husband is the same way, he can't stand to be touched. I often wonder if he's that way due to being born premature. These touch suggestions are so out of the question in our relationship.

[@spacebar9733]

Agreed!

[@marisajurgens3022]

I just came back from babysitting two boys, and just had a talk with their Mom that boys/men are very physical. So this actually makes sense. I have always been a very touchy person, because it's true it's a very deep form of communication. In my personal case: That's my way of knowing how somebody (male or female friend) is really doing, and giving non-verbal support/energy/love. I love doing basically all of them, only three I haven't: couple foot rub, ears rub and the high five thing. A lovely anecdote I have: Once an now Ex tried to argue with me about nothing. We hadn't seen each other all day until the late afternoon. As we went over to his house he still was trying to get into an arguement. Once we arrived, I sat on the Couch and said: Honey, come here please (between polite but firm). He shockedly surprised asked: What are you going to do to me? Me: Trust me, come here now. So he sat between my legs and I massaged his neck and shoulders, until he was melted butter in my hands, LOL. Then I asked him: Could you now please tell me what's bothering you? We haven't seen us, so it can't be me. He just turned the head like getting out of hypnosis gave me like a sleepy smile and said: It's impossible fighting with you. That was a beautiful compliment. Afterwards he told me what had bothered him, and we could go on enjoying our evening together. It turned into one of the most beautiful dates. Lots of blessings to you Matt and thanks for your excellent and loving work

[@marisajurgens3022]

@@biancadelarosa7986 Thanks a lot. It's loooong ago, and he's happily married w/3 children and we live in different countries. Lots of blessings and thanks again

[@Sunnydreamer1470]

So if it is an ex what went wrong???

[@biancadelarosa7986]

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[@64katesy]

What does it mean when your husband of 33 years doesn’t want me to touch him at all? He pulls away from me.

[@donnabethquijano1931]

That’s what I did to my hubby until he passed away last year...he really loves it...

[@MonkeyDLuffy-rr3wl]

As a girl, I love: -accidental handrubbing -hugs -someone playing with my hair - sitting so close to someone, our parts touch -letting me rest my head on their shoulders -highfives

[@romeogoesoverseas]

I love doing these things Now I just gotta find man that I can do these things to

[@raiastravaganza2]

Wish you and me luck with that :)

[@umeshu_2511]

I feel you sister!

[@justangela1684]

I love the moments early in the relationship when you sit close and your shoulders touch and we linger in that moment.

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[@SG-kt3vj]

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[@marymj1986]

Since physical touch is my primary love language, I've actually always done all of these while in a relationship. Good to know they are generally well accepted.

[@Followtheflowers]

Why would any of this sound impossible? Human beings crave intimacy, honestly. No matter gender.

[@raiastravaganza2]

Yes it showed especially last year with quarantine. Sometimes it really hurt to have not been touched for long periods. Touch from friends, family members,...

[@zajacik282]

My bf suffered from insomnia for about 20 years. Sleepless nights or nightmares when he managed to fall asleep. Not long after we started dating I gave him a foot massage. He dozed off several times. He said that was when he realized he would be able to sleep if I stayed overnight. It's been months now that he is a recovered insomniac. Even though not needed anymore, it's funny how a foot massage always gets him so relaxed that he falls asleep in no time :)

[@reikidreams9265]

Im watching my boyfriend sleep & slowly playing with his scalp & hair. I love his long curly hair. We are on vacation in a hotel having our 1st romantic getaway. Thank you Matt for teaching me about men. For him it was love at first sight. Me it was the second date. We met on bumble 😄

[@wshelby83]

Wow! You’re lucky to have the app work out for you

[@marthachristian7782]

Lucky you. May your relationship get better and better.

[@reyiamariemaido933]

I met mine on tinder!..6 monthson & going stronger!..😊

[@reikidreams9265]

Haha! I'm watching this again & didnt realize I wrote this. We are moving together November 1st. We are building a life together & it's been an amazing ride. I have to say that I listened to a lot of manifesting binaural beats before I met him.

[@dmm7736]

So this is why a lot of guy friends end up liking me- I’m too affectionate with them!!! I already know that my boyfriends in the past (and my current one) LOVED that part of me, but I never really connected it to other guys liking me. Ladies, definitely touch only one guy like this.

[@kristen6207]

Does anyone else's man love having their hands massaged?? If my husband is extremely stressed I do this and he just melts. I think it takes him out of his brain just for those few minutes. Men carry so much responsibility and have so few opportunities to set it down. Thoughts?

[@Pinkapotomus]

I do this for my brothers. (My husband has nerve issues so massaging his hands hurts) From a young age my mom taught us all about pressure points in the hands so even now when we are older, we will give each other hand massages. You can see the tension leave their shoulders once it’s done.

[@Eevanova]

Agree)

[@lisaswift5342]

Interesting. Thanks for sharing!

[@jessicamcdonald9171]

My bf and I often do this for each other, especially if we sense the other is anxious

[@gabyruiz5649]

@@Pinkapotomus all the hand?

[@theresalambert3185]

I really love this man’s videos. HIs energy is just so warm and wholesome. It really stands out on KZbin

[@jncsmom465]

When we’re driving, and my husband reaches over, takes my hand and kisses it. Aaaah! 🥰

[@sakuraesther6309]

Aaaawwwwww🥺🥺🥺

[@Preet0118]

Just recently got out of a 6 year relationship. I did every single one of these things but he just was not receptive to it and it felt like I wasn’t even doing anything. Little does he know I was being present with him and admiring him. I always wanted him to appreciate these little things that I did and I also craved it as well :/

[@officialgovernor6358]

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[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

@@officialgovernor6358 Mostly...your ex is your ex for a reason. Never take your ex back.

[@Gellybeanb1974]

You will find the right one & he will feel it deep when you touch him & you when he touches you*

[@sakuraesther6309]

I'm so sorry,praying you find someone who will reciprocatee

[@MsChantae]

Awwww I'm so sorry 😞

[@thepeacefulhappyandbountif2041]

The breathing in your man's scent is really true. Because to be honest when you hate or dont love that person anymore you tend to hate and be nauseous of there scent. You reject it. So when your lover is still breathing you in freshly showered or not, that means she is not disgusted and she accepts all of you, musk and all.

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[@manomoneysubramaniam254]

i am 71 now n been married for 45 yrs to my late hubby who pass on 6 yrs ago n still hv fresh memories n as i type this message my tears is rolling down... whatever u mention i hv done n that keep us going n tk u for sharing with others is need wonderful n it worked all the time but i just did all this on my own belive or not n hv learnt how to cos i was a match make had no ideas about the bees n butterflies as come a very different culture n back ground n he was an orphan i loved him the way he was n i treat him like a child sound crazy but i did it !! til death do us aparted 😪!! i hv son n he in States will soon be with him n single. tk u for sharing n keep up yr good work n my regrads to u both n may all is well n blessed n safe too!! 🙏👍⚘😊🇸🇬

[@kanumakan5938]

Do not let anyone come in between you and your love,you can actually win their love and make it too deep that the ocean are jealous

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[@ph413gurl8]

All but the foot massage are just natural for me. I love showing my man I care for him and these things just come naturally. I LOVE it and the short acknowledgement "sound" he makes is satisfying. I'm nuts about him and I don't even have to say so.

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[@nancinew8288]

Same. I love all these except the foot massage. I don’t touch feet LOL. But I applaud those who courageously do😂😂😂

[@dashiajames1882]

Love to be touched: 1.from behind on my waist/stomach 2. Both foreheads together(no kissing)just playing around 3. If we're only have a conversation, I love when he lays across my lap

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[@ojala5555]

Stomach from behind- yes,yes,yes😇😊😻

[@davajo3868]

I already do the neck rubs, playing with hair, hugs from behind, back scratchies, massage arms/back/shoulders, and breathing in the naturally calming scent of my very closest family members. (Heck, I even sniff my food on my fork before eating it. LOL) Personally I love it when a man gets up to leave the room, he'll briefly touch my shoulders/upper back in passing. It's just a whisper of a touch but it carries all the weight of a good warm hug. It's a no-brainer that I absolutely adore a man who plays with my long hair for no reason and unasked. Back hugs are so sweet, especially if he pulls me into them! I never get massages of any sort, despite my giving them out freely to family members, so getting a nice slow shoulder/scalp/back rub would be just fantastic.

[@BlankCanvas88]

For me (and it may be true for other women) doing these things, I get just as much enjoyment out of it as the man. It's like scratching and petting a cat/dog. So soothing. :)

[@alexislaura9487]

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[@raunwyncotogna4732]

Hand holds where he’s moving fingers around and playing are my favorite also hugs from behind and forehead kisses... adding when we are hugging and he gently placed his hand on the back of my head

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[@martarousselet6432]

A soft kiss in the neck. Heaven.

[@mehere2005]

I love it when I meet my bf and he looks into my eyes while touching my cheek and chin and says,”My baby looks so beautiful today.”Then bends as he is tall😁 to give me a kiss😍

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[@Thenoobestgirl]

Awwww that's adorable!

[@jessicabutterfly8598]

Let him be the little spoon. He can feel all comfort and love you have for him

[@gissellel663]

LOL yes this is actually my favorite way to sleep my man is a big guy 6’3 I’m 5’3 and he’s always the little spoon Lol

[@c.s.hayden3022]

I love when a girl touches my back or traces on it. It doesn’t have to lead to anything sexual, it’s just so calming.

[@huamhuamaaa7486]

Oooh yeah, they realy feel so good 😍😍 thanks for collecting them together Matt

[@wendysea1693]

Thank you!! I've been married for 30 years and do most of these. My husband really loves it. Such a nice video.

Yes, these are great. I teach tantric massage and men love the nongenital touches. We always focus on the genitals, chest and mouth but the entire body is a huge erogenous zone so when we massage the jawline, feet, ears, hands or entire body men love it! Thanks for this video Matt!

[@genomeara6922]

When he puts his hand firmly on the small of my back and guides me while walking 💕 The hug from behind is pretty good too!

[@TheMartinFamily2000]

this makes me want a husband🥰

[@lucialefay1]

I do these with my bf. I already do this so having this in a video as the results of a study is very affirming and supportive.

[@Enlightened77777]

I had a boyfriend that I was always the one giving physical touches…yes of course he loved it, problem was he never reciprocated and us woman love all the same stuff these men are mentioning. Seems to me most guys want all the above, but only give the woman physical touch when sex is expected. Can you give the men a shout out about THAT?

[@sassafazz]

You may yourself teach them to do that.. it just don’t come to their minds but they’ll love it once they learn) you will also make happy all their girlfriends after you ))

[@hannahberlinpetry450]

@@sassafazz if that’s the case, then men can teach us how to treat them 👍

[@randomperson360]

1:50 one of my favorites to do!! He loves a light hair rub, scratch or massage too!!! All of these tips are so true and always leave a smile on my mans face and even a giggle from time to time!!

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[@cheriedavis1257]

I do all these with my husband. He loves foot massages!! I don't really like being touched as much as being held in his arms. I feel safe and cherished.

[@m.6852]

Just popped up in my recommendation at the right time I really want to touch a man badly in a 'platonic' way ❤️🌹 Bless your channel

[@ilovemondays4663]

love this. I'm glad men love these. They come naturally to me when I'm with the man I love

[@hummingbird7885]

I didn’t realize it before but I actually do all of these (minus the couples foot massage) frequently with my boyfriend. I’m very touchy feely 🥰 our relationship is amazing and I’m sure all that plays a part.

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[@RebelKat321]

This info put a tear in my eyes. I used to do this. I miss being able to touch like this. I know that he loved everything about me the more I hear a man's point of view. Unfortunate that he chose fear over love.

[@huamhuamaaa7486]

I love cuddling , its heaven ♥.

[@brianmyers157]

"Having someone rest their head on my chest. Bonus points if they put one leg over my body as well." An act of possession , a great way for us guys to know how important we are to you .

[@jennifergray292]

Mat, I love your energy. Listening to you makes me happy!

[@davajo3868]

Nobody on either side of my family is really quite as openly/readily affectionate as me. If I know you well enough personally, or I'm comfortable enough, I could randomly say hello anywhere and give you a hug. I already do at least 5 or 6 of these things with my closest family members, let alone the only 2 (so far) boyfriends I've ever had up until now.

[@chinyamachona8704]

The nineth one did some trick, my man and I sort of had a low moment and I did it, it improved his mood and before we knew it we reconnected

[@katemiller5990]

I love my face being cupped with one hand, and my cheek lightly stroked with a thumb. Stray hair being tucked behind my ear or smoothed back is really special...there's something intimate and tender about it.

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[@lindsayulich2786]

I’m almost through your videos so forgive me for not finishing before putting this comment. But the 2 to 3 things I do agree with and the rest I will try. The two things that I always always do..... for my boyfriend is scratch the back of his head and play with his hair because he’s got long hair. He loves loves when I scratch his beard and just run my fingers through it! He says it’s very relaxing and then I always scratch his back because he’s always itchy lol!! 😆 but I definitely have to try giving him a hug and all your other ones that you sound so sweet And loving thank you ❤️

[@FlamingCockatiel]

I'm someone who thought she'd never really get into physical contact, but then I started dating and found that I craved being held close and holding hands.

[@michellegriff13]

I've always been a back and neck scratcher (to everyone I'm close with, male and female), it just comes naturally. But I never had partners that would reciprocate or initiate towards me. Now I'm with someone that wants my legs draped over his lap whenever I scratch his neck. When I scratch around his ear and jawline his head falls into my palm. If I scratch his head he has to hug me around the waist. It's nice. Really, really nice.

[@MsThunder11]

A really beautiful list to implement immediately! The giver & receiver both benefit…Lovely💖 Thankyou Matt…

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[@heyitsmae9057]

I was smiling the whole time while watching this video and I was day dreaming that Im doing some of those to my bf.I will definitely do some of it actually when we meet.What I really look forward to is rest my head on his chest 😘😘

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[@Galemor1]

I am a really touchy person, I love being close and just give.. (do to others, what you like others to do to you) I will do this to my friends too, it's automatic, if I get within touching distance, unless you show that you don't want to be touched, I will probably start doing something.. If I stand next to you, I might stroke your back.

[@niag9950]

I love it when helping me on with my coat, he moves my hair out from under the coat. Pushing my hair to one side, then smells my neck, from behind, and whispers something meant just for me to hear.

[@gloriamadrid1468]

Neck, shoulder, back, and foot massages are great. Sometimes all you need is a long hug, one that makes you feel loved and safe and like you’re relieving stress with just that one hug. Also when his hands are entangled with your hair, but his fingers are massaging that soft spot on the bottom back of your head, heaven.❤️❤️ Also the hand on the small of your back when walking into a restaurant or when moving to the outside when walking in the street or on the curb. Gently lifting your chin/jawline when going for a kiss. In doing that, it seems as if it heightens your awareness almost, but makes you feel loved at the same time.

[@trudyvalkyr3005]

I'm a massage therapist and always massage the ears. Most people love it. They have a lot of vagus nerve relaxation points.

[@virgiltheodore4206]

Wow ! I loveeeeeed this video. Very insightful indeed!

[@karentranter7806]

Hi Mat, What beautiful things to do to a man. I think I'd like most of them being done to me too. Thanks Mat great video xxx 💝

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[@eichiemichael8247]

Hello friends do you need help??

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I just got my ex back now am happy 😍😍😍😍

[@dawnsellner8163]

This was good info - thanks for sharing! 🙏🏼💞🙏🏼💞🙏🏼💞🙏🏼💞

[@armidacatampatan9129]

Thanks Mat I will surely remember all this top 10

[@allainesy4612]

1,4,7 & 8. Just because it also makes me feel happy when i do those things. I never knew men appreciate those simple gestures. My ex never told me that.

[@bu4459]

Omg, the ears... apply generous, gentle force, and you can gradually realease tension in the fascia, under the skin. Feels surprisingly good, no fear, your ears won't, pop off. 😘

[@bu4459]

Move the direction of the pull, on a large circle, including all directions and releasing.

[@johnnanelson4264]

I do all...love to do them. Men appreciate the woman you have.

[@danielleemch8991]

Thank you for another amazing video love it 😍

[@sreerekha6907]

I would like to add "hug from behind and long sniff on the part of head just below the ears while morning coffee" 💖 I feel we both get energy for the whole day💞💞💞

[@gloriabauer2392]

I love it when he's driving and he reaches over and puts his hand just a little above my knee and leaves it there for a minute.

[@anabella4296]

Amazing info, thanks Mat! A Blessed weekend and holiday to you and your family. Also the community 🌞💚

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[@LifeisAisha]

This is greaaat. Thank you✨

[@elenacuadradonunez6853]

I love a hand in my lower back just to allow me to walk just in front of him for a moment. It feels so gentle and protective at the same time. A kiss in the shoulder while driving. He holding my chin, looking into my eyes.

[@matanochondo3328]

Mat, you are doing a good job. I like you explanations. They are very realistic.

[@dreamweaver8210]

I love it when a man, kind of slowly and softly runs his hand from my upper arm down to then holding my hand. When he comes up behind me nestles his head against mine, arms loosely around me and begins to gently sway with me, and lastly, When he runs his fingers across the side of my face, into my hair and then putting my hair behind my ears as he’s looking lovingly in my eyes. I’m very sensual so my list is long but these are just a few of my favorites. Lol

[@evelynmaru9770]

Ohhhhh its great thanks for sharing these, i love it.

[@johannahodgson2967]

Whow! That was great!

[@barbdixsonbrown5973]

Great advice Mat and Luke!

[@ICWFO]

I couldn't help but eventually laugh towards the end. 😂😂 It's a very insightful video but most of these things, are things we humans do to dogs coz they love them!!! 😂 😂 😂

[@bolodelicioso]

My husband doesn't like none of these types of physical touch. I love all of them! It's very hard when you have a husband you can barely touch him.

[@sheilabedford4385]

Time to go. He's getting it somewhere.

[@Thenoobestgirl]

So how do you make it work?

[@Deanna_mechael]

My ex husband hated to be touched. He was a strange one. You can have a marriage without touch.

[@PerfectPicture2012]

I do all of that just naturally, he gets ‘paralysed’ when I touch his neck n hair n ears he loooves it.

[@OceanLove]

Strong squeezes where I’m tight at top of shoulders to neck. Gently massaging my hands or feet makes me feel cared for and nurtured.

[@skewdtchr85]

My boyfriend just got a haircut and he told me he can’t wait til I run my fingers through it. I have done every one of these except the hug from behind. And I got my boyfriend from using your advice Mat! I have never been so happy in my life! So thank you!!! 😁😁😁

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[@Sunnydreamer1470]

Happy for you!!!

[@matboggs]

That’s so awesome Sarah! Thanks for sharing👍🏼❤️

[@secretshaman189]

Great information Mat, love it. Keep up the great work!!

[@daniellehammer3048]

(In mo particular order) 1. When he puts his hand on my thigh in the car 2. When he kisses my neck 3. When he gently touches my lower back while we stand in line or cross the road 4. Hugs from behind 5. Super gentle backrubs (almost tickling it's so gentle) 6. Wrestling around That's all I've got!

[@missyjessen2934]

When he lightly strokes my hair and tucks strands around my ear . Or gently brushed his fingers to sweep my bangs out of my eyes.

[@hanshansen1140]

OMG Matt you're sooo right!! I crave this!!!!

[@jignakher5712]

Good day Matt boggs. 🌸 Thank you for sharing. Your physical touch perspectives/ideas become "sexual"instead of "sensual" in East/ middle East continents of world. 👍 Love from India. 🙏

[@DanetteSWhite]

I've been doing #10, #9 and #4 for years.

[@camilly4lyfe]

These were great! I love neck kisses, when he comes from behind or a hug. Hand on the small of my back as a protective measure when walking in a crowd, scalp massage.

[@abetaledon2266]

I do them all often...I didn't realize that these are all nonsexual...his so happy and lucky man b'coz I love doing this to him.And I do facial massage every week...thanks mat for sharing this video...all of these 10 nonsexual physical touch consider as the spices to both couple...give a good feelings to the one you love most.Stay safe and healthy...God bless🙏🙏

[@maxscot4236]

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[@chelseajackman7730]

Having dated neurodiverse men, can confirm you MUST be careful approaching cops and neurodiverse men from behind. Use this one with CAUTION. 😕 Also my last boyfriend did NOT like me to run my fingers through his hair. I was starting to think it was my fault for not knowing how to be physically affectionate in a way guys like. These are almost ALL things I have an instinct to do. Also both of my past (serious) boyfriends HATED it when I touched their ears. Generally their face, now that I think about it. They also both hated the idea of foot touching at all. I'm starting to wonder if they liked ANYTHING I did. Did--did I just--not do a good job?

[@FlamingCockatiel]

I dated an ASD guy, and he touched me very little, but we did get into hugging upon departure. I did reach up once and stroke the back of his head, as I wanted to send a signal. I did want to do some of the things (fingers through hair and jawline) mentioned in the video but felt it might scare him. According to a relative, he was touchy about touch when he was younger.

[@karinafoster6974]

All men are different, just like all women are different. With that being said, maybe you liked them more, than they liked you. So is good they are your ex. Now you can find a man, who appreciates it when you do these things for him

[@priscillarobertson6574]

Awesome! I love this.... I'm thankful to say that all ten are very high on my list for my beautiful man! Thanks for this

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Whstapp him

[@jordanmicheal4148]

Hello Robertson❤

[@vaughanbaker1177]

All of these touches are very satisfying between male partners as well, in my experience. Loving, validating human touch is a powerful way to reinforce and deepen love.

[@SageandStoneHomestead]

Literally all of these can and are interpreted as a sexual invite from some men.