"Men Tend To Be Better People!" Pearl Davis On Feminism And 'Traditional' Wives

[@wannaduckfin]

Disgusting that divorce is 'chic'. As a public school teacher I can tell you that healthier more well adjusted students are from traditional, secure homes. Divorce devastates children. Don't kid yourself.

[@gejost]

If we are pretending that an increase in divorces is new, we erased Gen X and even a good proportion of boomers. Obviously one has to unpack the reasons for a divorce. An alcoholic spouse who steals your money would be incentive to get one

[@SherLock55]

Sure I agree but I would imagine there are just as many children from homes with dysfunctional marriages as well, I knew many myself growing up. I don't think it's a revelation that a child will be more well adjusted if the home life is traditional, secure and happy.

[@lvup7907]

pearl making those good points

[@adventofknowledge]

@@SherLock55 The dysfunction usually stems from economic issues. The adults get this stuck in place feeling, then it devolves into blaming each other for it, then it effects the child and eventually leads to divorce.

[@kelleygreengrass]

A public school teacher doesn't have the credentials to make that assertion. Anecdotal evidence isn't exactly scientific reasoning.

[@shaynesmith3756]

“Am i allowed to talk?” She asks, while she spent the interview cutting everyone off and talking over them.

[@thebram]

right, the level of stupidity is at its heights.

[@johnwilliams3555]

As long as she can keep talking she doesn't have to consider facts or other people's opinions and she can think about what she is going to say next.

[@jamesjonnes]

@Improvements62 They're obsessed with control because they couldn't control the men who used them and then left.

[@8trackregalbeagl3]

Exactly.

[@rebelraccoon9018]

@@jamesjonnes That's not a feminist. Good lord 🙄

[@MRF77]

6:20 she interrupted the entire time, and started her argument with some friend's story which nobody knows if it's true, and then proceeded tell another. A true feminist right there.

[@stokey24]

It's rich to complain about somone cutting off Pearl in a discussion....

[@miguelzapata4288]

Facts.

[@LadyMcGinnis]

I was thinking the same. The hypocrisy...It's always a friend of a friend's story and it's always about unreported "abuse" from the man.

[@leach9622]

The feminist who isn’t letting pearl talk keeps saying let me speak 🙄 typical women that 😂😂😂

[@leach9622]

Feminism is boardline man hating at this point let’s be real

[@james970027]

The one point that nailed modern relationship problems on the head was "too many in the modern day care more about the individual than the family" - exactly the problem why so many relationships are failing, so many have grown up selfish and entitled and do not understand what actual fairness is when it comes to another person in the relationship. Ideologies such as "wifes always right" or "boys will be boys" are nothing but excuses for unaccountability in recent generations.

[@boxonothing4087]

A relationship in which you don't value yourself properly will destroy you, calling it enriching is a nefarious that people have been told for too long. That kind of relationship will feed on you until you die exhausted. Anyone who doesn't care about themselves has things wrong, you cannot care properly for others if you don't value yourself. Otherwise, you're not a partner, only a tool

[@againstthestones]

Women are naturally selfish and egocentric. It's not a problem, it's just the way things are. The problem starts when you give people like that an opportunity to make crucial decisions at their own discretion.

[@flowerpower3618]

Trad wife of 43 years . I loved it and still love being a homemaker. We raised four kids and now have three adult children 7 grandkids . As far as being happy we all have times when we aren’t happy. Life is hard , so many things can happen . You can lose a child, lose a house, be in a bad car accident , have an extreme wayward child. The list goes on. No life style you chose is going to make you “happy “all the time.

[@DarlingDaintyfoot]

Congratulations on the grandbabies & successful children! As a mother of a teenage daughter, it sounds like an absolute dream... Best of luck on your continuing good fortune!

[@flowerpower3618]

@@charloletti adult children are not puppets. They have their own choices to make and they can make bad ones. For example they can be greatly influenced in university despite being raised correctly , they can experience mental illness which causes behavior that is not good ( parent has zero control over an adult child) , they can “ fall in love “ with an awful person who is detrimental to their choices etc. you can homeschool your child and once they leave your home make horrendous , devastating choices , some can even lead to death .

[@flowerpower3618]

@@charloletti ok. I’m not going to argue your personal beliefs. I disagree. Also our definitions of wayward might be different. I’ve seen too many heartbroken parents over the years to put that on them.

[@steveimba]

only respect 4 you... wish u the best for u and ur whole family

[@minor12828]

Wise words here.

[@vegaswithfreddy]

i like how she kept interrupting Pearl but the second Pearl interrupts her she gets upset and calls her out on it.

[@davidsimpson1142]

I was gonna comment this but you beat me to it

[@happyswissjoe]

definitely...the pillar of a woke feminist.

[@RingletsJesus]

The Support of the Sisterhood xD the hypocrisy here was so blatant.

[@visavou]

typical leftist ..

[@Eric-dd8bk]

The audacity

[@ktrap868]

Grace overtalked and interrupted Pearl eveutime she spoke but the one time Pearl did when Grace spoke, she starts ranting at Pearl. Utter hypocrisy!

[@ianswift3521]

that's par for the course on piers morgan's show. the leftist female guests always do that.

[@rafiakram3250]

feminists behavior

[@timz3479]

It's because Pearl is a friggin airhead who keeps regurgitating the same bs. She has no ability to communicate or articulate her points effectively.

[@BaronSpamedi]

​@ianswift3521 true. Rentagob narcissists. See also Ava Santina Evans and Paula whatever-she's-called.

[@ACS402010]

Toxic femininity.

[@sambraham4677]

I bet 99% of men here would love to be with someone like Estee rather than Grace. She reflects feminine, loving, and warm energy. We'd give her anything and everything.

[@CouchtotheSummit]

The trad wife has a beautiful calm warm and kind energy and the feminist is manic and self-absorbed. Says it all really

[@HDGaminTutorials]

Her husband basically does everything besides cook sounds like a shit deal for the man imo while she sits at home and plays makeup and house

[@Pumpkinking64]

They both were fine, calm down. Only insane person here was Pearl.

[@pokedon92]

That trad wife is a fraud. She is clearly just putting on an act for Tik tok views.

[@ManUtdfanshavetinypenises]

​​​@@Pumpkinking64No feminists are not good people! Feminists tend to be very nasty and cruel and self obbsessed and they hate men. Only ones good here was Pearl and the trad lady

[@clintharper5509]

​@@Pumpkinking64how many women have you interviewed? pearl said she's interviewed 700 why don't you listen & engage you're brain for once you might learn somethings.

[@TattooedAussieChick]

I was a trad wife. I loved it. Looking after my house and my kids. Teaching my kids about the world. It’s such a shame my ex liked to cheat and then when he was 38 he ran off with a 23yr old he worked with. We were married 20 years. I didn’t choose divorce. I wanted to grow old together. Didn’t work out that way for me. Oh well.

[@JackNulty24]

Sorry hear that just shows hypocrisy some here that go on traditional women where there like for your comment because shows he still went off the irony of them say women or.modern women and you valued traditional and still wasn't enough but didn't respond to u clearly because its anti women crap

[@drdurden]

Name one thing you did wrong.

[@profanotherletter4346]

no man would leave a loyal woman behind for no valid reason

[@goonerboymuza]

@@profanotherletter4346plenty of men out there just don’t give a damn about how good a women treats them and will cheat regardless, I know many men that have treated a good woman like crap

[@simonavrabcova4646]

The traditional values imply to men too. They also need to recognise their role and don’t be selfish.

[@CorruptKIIWI]

Lol. She constantly cuts pearl off then acts victim when she can’t speak.

[@geetube79]

Feminist behavior in a nutshell

[@nabawi7]

Thats feminists for you. No accountability or respect but they will be the first ones to play the victim card.

[@mdaddy775]

Ah but if it was a right-wing guest constantly cutting off a left-wing guest. "You go, dude! Drown out their nonsense. They don't deserve to be shown courtesy"

[@anacc3257]

Both did it.

[@mresilient1641]

Par for the course

[@Katiecatforever]

If you wanna be a trad wife be a trad wife. If you want to be a career woman be a career woman. The point is that we have the choice and should have the choice.

[@sambraham4677]

But Katie, trad wife is the only option for the survival of our species.

[@The_Original_Hybrid]

Fair enough, just don't expect to attract traditional men (i.e. providers, protectors, Chads) when you're a "boss babe". You can't have your cake and eat it.

[@sambraham4677]

@@The_Original_Hybrid 💯

[@0000dexter]

Pearl killed it @6:10 when she said marriage isn't about an individual, it's about family. Unfortunately, not many women think like that these days.

[@visavou]

thanks to karl popper

[@justtrollinalong977]

Like Estee said, we have a really big problem with selfishness and "the self" in America that leads to toxic and narcissistic behaviors - which dont work in healthy relationships. America was supposed to be about individualism...which is supposed to be tempered and disciplined with respect to others.......but egotistic "self love" took over.

[@ulrikjensen6841]

Maybe the divorce rate is so high because of wrong choices by women of men? Women are the ones to consent if a relationship is going to be realized.

[@graemef6852]

​@@ulrikjensen6841actually you are wrong. Women are the gatekeepers of the bedroom fun, men are the gatekeepers of a relationship. Women unfortunately give their value away easily when they are young, when they are older they demand a high price for something that they have already given away for free, and most men aren't interested in women when they hit 30+. It's called sexual market value, women's smv declines rapidly after the age of 26, mens value increases as they get older. Remember, women do nothing to become a woman, a man has alot of work to do to become a man.

[@breadbreaker500]

That was a mic drop moment!

[@DCM2463]

Marriage is not for everyone. However when you are married you have to bring something to the table. You cannot just be in a marriage and behave as if you are single. The more you contribute or invest in your marriage the more you can get out of it. Satisfaction and happiness.

[@craigclermond8001]

That was Pearl's point. Most women today look at marriage solely as what they get. That's why a woman can just wake up one day, say she is bored, and divorce you. To her, all that matters is her happiness 😊

[@flashwashington2735]

Grace Blakeley's Mommy taught her she is special and doesn't have to play nice and share with others. Notice that she had her turn to speak and Pearl honored that. Then she ran her mouth over Pearls turn, even raising her voice and shouting. God bless you pearl.

[@mdaddy775]

Pearl has clearly never been taught anything ever

[@comfortablynumb4003]

I’m afraid she is a product of the modern British Public School in which girls are continually told they can be anything they want to be in life,are superior to men and have been held back by them for generations etc.She will wake up and smell the coffee eventually by which time she will be a miserable bitter middle aged woman with no true friends and a wake of disasters behind her.

[@lavielemond]

@@mdaddy775 Change the freaking record, dude...just how many times have you made this same type of childish (not to mention poorly written & always without any justification &/or proof of any kind) snipe throughout this thread, may I please enquire?! You're certainly not doing your 'side' any favours by doing so, btw...

[@mdaddy775]

@@lavielemond The irony that you scold me for making childish comments which lack proof considering that's all Pearl offers in the above interview (and others) And I would contend my comments are written just fine. I'll stop now though.

[@Saskfinest1]

​@@mdaddy775there's plenty of data to support what she says. You just lazy.

[@IllyaLeonovMorganFreepony]

The problem is society telling people what is acceptable. In the past we were told a woman's place was in the home. Today we are told a woman's place is in the career world. How about we quit telling women what to do and let them make their own choices without being denigrated because of those choices.

[@shuggfilmzandstudio2354]

Selective comprehension is your forte. Society has always told men where they belong too but here you are making it about women. Women these days think they invincible, special and nothing can be said about them not even a joke about them. Gender roles wasn’t only attributed to women it was both gender, but seems like women are the only ppl unsatisfied about their roles. They wanted their careers, they got it now and still complaining. Like I can’t find a single law that stop women from doing what men do, but they still complaining.

[@DaddyC702]

One problem with that is that many of those women choose to try to tell everyone else how everything should be, hence the whole femenist movement we have today! They fight against the 'norms' of society and they are free to do so, but then they want to convert everyone else to their ideology like as if that is the only correct way to do things. Worst of all, they play victim if you say you disagree with them...

[@KevinHollins-i6z]

Don’t let society dictate make your own decisions society can’t dictate what you do that’s only people around you and if you do something different that’s frowned upon

[@1594simonsays]

Yes look at the state of society when they are given free reign and power. Such sage wisdom

[@Fandar]

@@1594simonsays There has never been a female president so you can't make the assertion that women are bad leaders.

[@yamyam3905]

Grace is the type if she and her husband ever fell on bad times financially, she would be off .

[@nabawi7]

Absolutely she would because her "happiness" comes before the stability of the family and the happiness of the children.

[@johnwilliams3555]

She will have to marry a man who doesn't speak.

[@sonsysy4195]

No man would marry her. She may find a simp but she will eventually leave him

[@josephsharp5678]

No real man would marry that wacko.

[@elvisleeboy]

Yes, what a pathetic and weak society we have arrived at where 'I wasn't happy' is regarded as a valid excuse for abandoning one's family.

[@themaharaniscloset]

Narcissism is not empowerment.

[@SenorPenor1337]

Male empowerment is all about self-improvement. Female empowerment is all about bringing men down.

[@kenriddle3552]

Well stated.

[@mattinterweb]

The lady with the flowery shirt is a classic example of someone who can't see past her own point of view and thinks everyone else's opinion is ridiculous or void. I live with the most wonderful woman imaginable. She's strong, smart & independent but also enjoys been dependent on me and puts 'us' before 'me', as I do with her. That's what modern feminists just don't get 'us', before 'me'. The different energies of the three women says it all really. Love the bit when she says "am I allowed to speak" having talked over the other guest incessantly. Entitled as well.

[@blrbrazil1718]

To be fair, I agree with Grace's point that it has to be reciprocal. A marriage won't work unless both parties put 'us' first.

[@Fatima_Garabandal2251]

I think that was the whole point Grace was making - From what you wrote, you are on the same page with her. Husband and wife have to put the marriage first before the self, but the idea of totally negating the self means in fact negating the relationship (because it is your self-worth that you are offering - that is the act of love) that Pearl has the same intense bias you mention as well but tends to also say flat out dumb things.

[@Malayalikada]

Very true ,entitled.Not allowing others to speak.Grace has no grace...

[@Bropapi]

Actually I felt that way about Pearl. The flowery Shirt lady and the trad wife lady were perfectly fine. They both basically said pick what works for you and the flowery shirt lady just added on some nuance about how you shouldn’t be duped by certain movements and there is more to relationships then pure self sacrifice and she was trying to have a discussion about the points Pearl put out there. She didn’t belittle anything she just said that’s an actually really interesting thing to say let’s talk through that. But Pearl just kept steamrolling which made her look like a narcissist.

[@FergusWalsh-dz7mq]

She is a socialist FFS. At least 100 million dead due to the rantings on that racist German free loader Marx. Yeah ok darling ,sorry ms.

[@bryantherocker]

Traditionalism is fine with a good husband, but horrible with a bad one. Be careful

[@lyrajin8815]

I love how Estee wasn't forcing the idea of traditional gender roles on every person. She said it was a choice and outlined why it was a beautiful choice for people who choose to make it, making it clear why it was the choice she made for her marriage. It still agrees with the idea of women being able to choose.

[@steveknight878]

Perhaps you don't understand - women should, indeed, be free to choose, and what they should choose is to be strong, independent, powerful and to control their man, if they have one.

[@lyrajin8815]

@@steveknight878 If you think women should be free to choose, then you can't dictate what choices they make. That's the opposite of freedom. There is no "what they should choose." THEY choose without your input. That's the definition of choice.

[@steveknight878]

@@lyrajin8815Um - yes. I was being sarcastic.

[@edforbes1563]

​@@steveknight878 Yes mate, I totally agree. Woman must be free to make their own decisions, but if they choose to stay at home, cook, raise children and look after their family, then they have obviously been indoctrinated by the patriarchy and have no control over their own decisions. They could gain their independence and earn ridiculous money by selling their bodies and find happiness by receiving positive feedback and compliments from anonymous strangers online. All we need is affirmation. So be free ladies, and choose only fans. It's the way forward.

[@armstronglaborde]

​@@lyrajin8815Steve's comment was based on sarcasm showing how ridiculous the previous comment was. People are looking for the easiest way out. Either way there is a price to pay either short term or long term. You choose.

[@GoodLiving7181]

23yrs of a traditional wife. Still IN love, still happy, the family is close knit...never regretted it. It hasn't always been easy, but worth every minute of the good and bad. The only thing I ever dread is the day "til death do you part" becomes our reality.

[@C87-q9j]

Cool but that life isn't for everyone

[@GoodLiving7181]

@@C87-q9j Marriage may not be for everyone. Good thing I was referring to my experience instead of trying to speak for everyone.

[@Notme-tq4xs]

@@C87-q9j why not ?

[@adityaBorPhukon2170]

@@C87-q9j Get some help.

[@tinasheroy]

@@GoodLiving7181 If your husband passes away (God forbid), what are you going to do?

[@levi5073]

"You don't need no man" "He's no good enough for you, girlfriend" How many times do we hear this kind of stuff from modern women? Pearl is 100% correct.

[@aituk]

Beyonce sings about "All the single ladies", yet she stays with her husband after he cheated on her multiple times lol

[@wyleecoyotee4252]

Because it's true

[@gejost]

Hard to tell. They keep shouting each other down. A Trump button, which shuts up the other person while the other is allowed to make her point, would really improve the dialogue a lot. I agree with both of them; there are advantages to both choices and there are disadvantages.

[@violett000]

Those sayings were from older women who grew up in a time where they or their moms didn't have any financial or social rights, and thus had to put up with men and their shitty behaviour. It was deemed more shameful to be a woman who left an abusive husband than to be the husband who hit and cheated on his helpless wife, because God forbid you're a divorced woman because your husband beat you blue, it must've been your fault either way (think of the stereotypes from that time about women poisoning their husbands, says a lot doesn't it). Many parents didn't even want to take their daughters back after divorce because it was so shameful - mind you it's still like that in some European countries (where I'm from) so this isn't ancient at all. When the woman was financially free, she no longer needed a man to survive. Of course we all need companionship, but now women can choose you because you're likeable, and not because of your money or because of pressures from family to get married and have babies all before age 20.

[@violett000]

Also, as a woman, girlfriends are VERY HAPPY and excited for you when you meet a man and you seem happy with him. At least in my experience. Women still idealise marriage and being mothers. It's when women go on date after date with horrible men or learn that their long term boyfriend is so lazy, messy, inconsiderate and selfish once they move in, get married or have a baby that it starts to feel hopeless (I'm happily married so don't come for me), because apparently a lot of men aren't raised to be somebody's husband, just fuckboys with no responsibility. And lots of men are stuck in the past where they think their money is enough.

[@kenkelley417]

Gods definition of marriage is taking two people, two halves, and creating one. That means giving up your identity and becoming a new identity as Mr. And Mrs.

[@MD-jq8dm]

amazing..

[@criticism_is_not_hate]

Youre assuming that everyone is as stupid as you are and believes in a made up concept of some deity used to control people. There is no such thing as God and you don't need to do anything you don't want to do if it doesn't feel right. Stop butting into other people's lives, focus on yours and stay out of other people's relationships, it's none of your business.

[@Camilian66]

Omg she won't let pearl respond without talking over her.

[@NzakM]

Grace- speaking over pearl 5 times.. Pearl being polite.. Pearl- speaks over grace 1 time at the end of the interview Grace: "be a polite woman and don't speak over other people!" Lack of self awareness..

[@Malayalikada]

Entitled - Grace

[@SrbendaNo1]

Narcisism

[@lucasp1185]

It's quite ironic that Pearl is the sole individual on the panel who isn't in a relationship. Perhaps it's time for him to heed his own advice before reaching the age of 30.

[@misturatokunade66]

Pearl being polite 😂😂😂

[@lucasp1185]

@@pamanudavy All I'm saying is, according to Pearl, any woman who is over 25, single, not married, without children, and is focused on her career is considered unsuccessful or a looser..hence PEARL...

[@kgh065]

Guys I guess we can all agree that Estee is the kind of sweetheart you want to hold onto forever right!

[@mostwantedsol]

Yeah she is the dream woman simply by the way she carries herself, just from her sweet voice it's clear she's a loving and nurturing woman. These are the women that society needs to protect.

[@waleedsharif618]

100%

[@Aryaba]

What's not to like, she exudes femininity which it's mere rare presence demands respect, kindness and protection.

[@NyCzAcEpLaYA]

Hell yea that’s wifey for lifey

[@minimotleymomof3]

I'm friends with her and she's literally the sweetest soul ever, I love her!

[@SP-ml3bs]

I am a Feminist who loves my wonderful husband and I enjoy cooking and cleaning for us. Also, I am independent, have a career and hobbies and interests of my own. I take care of myself first and that gives me the health and energy to take care of my husband and our home. The whole idea of Trad Wives is to give away your power and be submissive to your husband. As much as I love my awesome husband (celebrating 23 years together next month) I will never be submissive to him or anyone else! That just grosses me out. I love being in charge of my life and being an equal partner with my husband!

[@ajo2384]

Ephesians 5:22-23 KJV Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. [23] For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

[@wolfdvart1605]

​@@ajo2384 good thing some of us aren't religious and dont follow what your little book says :)

[@ajo2384]

@@wolfdvart1605 so what do you follow?

[@sterdezy1569]

Crazy feminist

[@ajo2384]

@@wolfdvart1605 who created you?

[@maddiemaddiee]

The rude lady doesn’t allow Pearl to talk and cut her off many times because she’s scare to hear the truth. Pearl let her finish her nonsense because it’s nonsense.

[@chris7_uyahshgs981]

If you really want to see how intelligent pearl is go watch her interview with h3. She was visibly annoyed at the fact h3 brought up her own quotes and simply asked her to elaborate

[@zigzig9938]

Why people idealize Pearl? She claims feminism is bad, but because of that movement she’s able to work, not ostracized for being a non virgin, not married, and gives many opinions on tv.

[@princessunicorn669]

@@zigzig9938Shame on you 😡!!! Don’t Be Raycyst 😤

[@AbzScotland]

Imagine identifying as a socialist and arguing me, me, me. True colours. Evil enabler, if not evil herself.

[@Mikecorsale]

Great comment 👏🏽

[@James_36]

Because she is not even a real socialist she is a thick one who doesn’t even understand her own ideology

[@georgemanners2575]

Fantastic comment !

[@johnnydragongaming]

She's, in a word, vapid

[@jumes_20]

kaka comment

[@RationalNon-conformist]

“Not speak over people” - she was literally speaking over pearl the whole time! Wow.

[@JimmyStruthers1000]

WHOLE SHOW

[@Dhuxul9]

Typical feminist of course

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Interesting video content. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@linamoon-mi7wd]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@michaelfischer-xp4cw]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@thebargainshack6901]

You sound pathetic. Man up and move on. Women aren't attracted to needy little kittens.

[@LionKimbro]

10:46 -- I loved the piece where he said, "I love the sound of this." I felt that. I'm not a traditionalist, at all. If society goes back to traditionalism, I will never have a wife, or anything. I will be out in the cold. And I am okay with that. But I was very moved when he said, "I love the sound of this," the way he said it.

[@caleb0388]

Love the response from the Trad wife. She said everyone doesn't have to do it, but women can choose.

[@JollyGoodJewWitch]

Being a traditional woman doesn’t mean you can’t work, or go to college, or own your own home or cars. It doesn’t mean being a on beck and call for your husband. It means caring for your family, home and yourself. It means working to stay connected to your husband. I raised my son. I was there for all his needs and education. I am now self employed as he’s in his teenage years. I’ve had my husband’s support every step of the way. ❤ I don’t feel burdened raising my son or having to think about what pleases my spouse because he does the same for me. It’s a healthy relationship.

[@vanessad.2625]

Good for you, congratulations!

[@mariem.6042]

@@coconuthead0417your question and the laugh emoji says everything about you. Women have always worked, on the farm or elsewhere. You need to be married rich to not have to work, so it’s a real privilege.

[@MarcIverson]

@@mariem.6042 Nailed it.

[@oreoluwaoluwade7607]

Why can't you be at your husband's beck and call? I'm sure you expect men to be at their wives beck and call?

[@KlaweKlapki]

Being dog doesnt mean you cant be cat xD

[@brianbertenshaw5150]

Why would women have to loose all of her friends and not have her own life (hobbies, friends, hopes and dreams). Every relationship is different and both women and men need to set boundaries and discuss what they want with each other and if they do not gel then they should look elsewhere for what they want. A very simple solution that is made to be overly complicated for no good reason..

[@ezgi6392]

Yes, and this mentally ill person named Pearl simply says that if a problem occurs in a relationship it's noone's but woman's fault. It's always her fault, that's mind blowing

[@mifeke6149]

Trad women: I'm a trad woman and I expect a trad man Other women: I don't want to be a trad woman but I still demand a trad man

[@Nachoprobl3m2]

Nope. Why would I want a traditional man who expects a woman to stay in a kitchen

[@starkid9736]

add.. after the wall hit

[@donquijote6030]

Yep. You cracked the code!

[@blessos]

Feminists like her don't want a trad man. They want to "have their point of view" and argue about every little thing. They have convinced themselves that they want a simp but will leave them out if frustration, dissatisfaction, and resentment. They are so deluded.

[@lucasp1185]

It's quite ironic that Pearl is the sole individual on the panel who isn't in a relationship. Perhaps it's time for her to heed her own advice before reaching the age of 30.

[@irinavalovet4393]

As a married man to a housewife I was emotionally moved by the blonde traditional wife.God bless.

[@vin7786]

Ya she's like 1 out of a million 😅

[@sharonodom6423]

I like that the blonde said it's not about going back to 50s & 60s, SHE just likes the aesthetic. Common sense should make that obvious. It's a lovely style, but of course these liberals wanna add their nonsensical thoughts. --Last year I went shopping with my kid & they had those pink ladies jackets & 50's style dresses next to bell bottoms?! Looked like fashion mags from every decade threw up in the store! --I love that they keep bringing back styles, but they blended 70's style with 80's color schemes & ruined it all. --My daughter wore an elegant, BACKLESS flapper dress to prom. The sheer over slip was made with such delicate details 1 snag & the entire dress would've crumbled, lol. I thought it was a bit risque' to go completely backless, but all the other girls had their top & bottom hanging out(for PROM)!!!!

[@denxz_999]

@@sharonodom6423 who tf asked for a story time

[@sharonodom6423]

@@denxz_999 who tf said you've gotta read every comment on the thread?! Have a blessed day.

[@iveyhealth2266]

@@denxz_999 Sounds like you are jealous. Did you go to the prom with your bumm hanging out??

[@myside963]

I was a traditional wife for almost 20 years. I'm working part time now from home because I have to with the economy. When your wage doesn't go up (but yet new hires are getting paid far more than you) and groceries cost you $100 a week more you do what you have to do. I loved it and miss it. I hate that I have to work "outside of the home". Being a housewife and stay at home mother is the best (for me anyway). Been married 24 years now.

[@paulclinton6414]

These feminists aren't independent. They just submit to their bosses who couldn't care any less about them. At least your husband and kids love you back.

[@Semirouser]

That doesn't make sense. How are new hires getting paid more than you who have proven years of competence, experience, and loyalty?. Something doesn't add up there. Are you omitting some crucial details?. I have heard of no job where new recruits get paid far more than people who have been doing the SAME job for years. It all depends on your job title. For example, an engineer will get paid far more than people who operate the machines. You can not expect to be paid the same as him. Same as you can't expect people higher up above you coming into their new position to be paid the same as you.

[@richardmclean5913]

What you said there is key and vital.

[@eliesh3833]

@@paulclinton6414 First of all, not all bosses are male. Second of all, if working for a boss makes you less independent, why is it okay for the man to do it but it's not okay for the woman? Thirdly, do husbands pay their wives any of the work that they do? You are making a false equivalency. And at this point, I think you're just complaining that, nowadays, women have the freedom to be more than just childrearing housewives.

[@alaalfa8839]

When you are a man and a woman, it may not be a recipe for a happy successful relationship. If you are a gentleman and lady, you have a chance to have a happy successful emphatic, grateful, and decent relationship, loved by your neighborhood. Being a gentleman is a choice and being a lady is a choice. I read a quote: "Being a male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. Being a gentleman is a matter of choice." The same is about women. I wonder if a non-gentleman marries a nice lady, how the job of a lady may be fulfilled properly if he isn't acting accordingly. Or if non-lady marries a gentleman, how the role of the gentleman can be fulfilled, if she doesn't give enough empathy to the gentleman. Maybe better is to not talk about it but start to learn to be ladies and gentlemen, so more marriages will have chances. Stop being just thinkers and start being a doer, lead by example, or be inspired by nice relationships.

[@nortoro1]

I love that the British woman complained of being spoken over but spoke over Pearl the entire time she was speaking

[@deedee3614]

Happily married, working and being a trad wife at the same time! Loving every bit of my Union 🙏🏽

[@Rgraceful1]

When a man feels like he has the best wife in the whole world .He won't even look at any other woman . He will give his all to keep her happy which keeps him happy .

[@louloubrow2171]

​@Alix-yu8rq you imagine he has more free time?? No explain why??? And he works full time maybe in job he hates long hours and physically hard work 😢 stop being so one sided 😮 you would not last in a marriage as your so self serving

[@RingletsJesus]

​@@Alix-yu8rq you are literally no better. You only want a marriage you get more out of than him. From your argument. It's OK for you to be selfish, total hypocrisy.

[@user-et1xp6gv2g]

@@Alix-yu8rq Huh how did you interpret all of that? Are you stupid?

[@Soldier_Sean]

Good now make him a sandwich

[@L1Ght_67]

Being a mother is not "just being a mother and not willing to do more", it's more than anything else, bringing children to life and taking care of them is the most beautiful and prestigious mission ever and the biggest contribution to the society on a multitude of levels and certainly way more important of a contribution than just working an office job to generate some rerources.

[@mrlawilliamsukwarmachine4904]

💯 👍

[@Cheddar_Cheese_767]

Well said!

[@andreasstavrinides6980]

Except why should men have all the power? If women don't work then men get to control them through being the "breadwinner" and that's what this is really all about. Women should be able to shape their lives as they wish. If they want to be a "trad" mother, fine, and if they don't, also fine.

[@MrGutfeeling]

100%

[@Ariana-wv4pf]

Well, I have to work an office job because, guess what, not all men are good men or can afford to provide for both me and my child. Like, 90% of men don't make enough to provide for both wife and kids. But good for you you found a good trustworthy rich dude. Enjoy while it lasts.

[@fredoran]

People must really not like talking to their partner about this sort of thing because you shouldn’t be getting these sort of ideas online from people you don’t even know. Do what you want. Stay home and cook and clean if you want or don’t. Let people make their own decisions about this sort of thing and don’t force the “modern day” life down people’s throats. It’s not a bad thing to be traditional.

[@withoutwords8136]

but it is a bad thing to be modern

[@rohi1255]

If women are allowed to do what they want so should men, why should the work and provide why are they asked to do it?

[@fredoran]

@@withoutwords8136 depends what you mean by modern. They way the one with the extreme feminist views is wrong but there’s nothing wrong with moving forward. Just not in the sense she’s thinking

[@fredoran]

@@joebadger6969 I’m guessing you aren’t seeing my point.

[@fredoran]

@@joebadger6969 that’s not my views whatsoever. You’re blinded by your own ignorance and stupidity that you fail to understand what other people are trying to say. You’re so blinded that you cannot see that I actually have an agreement to your views and statement. It’s just you shouldn’t have to rely on the opinions of someone else to decide what you want to do. Ridiculous.

[@rosethompson1737]

This was actually a really good closing statement from Piers. In my 20s I was very much on the self love, feminist version of love. 10 years down the line I am really agreeing Estee, I think it is quite natural to want to care for your children and husband first, and the difficulty is finding someone who will reciprocate that. And if you do then you will actually be happy

[@TheCruxy]

The trad wife is the ideal/idealistic Pearl is real/realistic And the feminist is just annoying

[@clintharper5509]

Spot on you couldn't of characterised them better. The feminist, a man wouldn't have no peace with her.

[@jziffi]

And you're a virgin

[@markfindlay8636]

She is AAF

[@sammyb1651]

🤣

[@jziffi]

@@clintharper5509 "Couldn't of"? "Wouldn't have no peace"? Oh dear, Clint - maybe you should spend less time worrying about feminism and more time brushing up on your grammar!

[@clardanky9776]

We needed this debate years ago. But glad it’s happening now. We need more of it. Feminists vs trad women debates.

[@nabaninandi4140]

Duh we dont care...trad wife life is weird...second classy....why we want to be slave when we can be boss....? Why...give me a good reason

[@sethbingman1]

​@nabaninandi4140 If you think marriage is about "being the boss" over the other person then good luck ever having a successful one

[@byungpark8228]

Imagine being 80 with no family. Sounds like hell.

[@2NDPO67]

love how at the end she didn't want to be interrupted, but interrupted everyone else during the entire debate.

[@avismoon]

It's so fun to see someone speak over Pearl for a change. 😂😂😂

[@karenjobagy5822]

Sure it does,when they nothing say but just want to interrupt common sense.

[@efstathiamarouli1183]

True! 😂😂😂

[@mrade5321]

The key thing here is "UNIT". If you have a strong family unit that works for you, then what's the problem? Team work makes the dream work and all that. Pearl is exactly the ideal woman for me. She's so open and honest, it would cut out all the bullshit arguments over who should do what.

[@drinkwater9891]

true but she's old

[@TopHatNat]

@@drinkwater9891 Pearl (the lady in the red dress) is 26 y.o. She's only "old" if you are under 21 y.o.

[@drinkwater9891]

@@TopHatNat wow 26 is youngish, looks in 30s

[@TopHatNat]

@mrade5321 Did you mean your ideal woman is Pearl (red dress) or the Trad wife Estee (black dress)?

[@Kai_Mx]

Pearl is literally the opposite of what she preaches, she claims modern women are focused on careers, sleeping around and not getting married before 25 ( in their prime) but Pearl is very career driven, she uses her voice. She is almost 30 and has not settled down yet

[@VinnieDAmico]

My wife felt like she was a “slave” to her job and her boss before she finally quit working and we learned to live smaller. But the kids got out of daycare and we feel are giving them a better life. It’s really about the children and if you haven’t seen in societal decline from lack of parenting you aren’t paying attention. Find a man who isn’t as ass. Go to premarital counseling. Make God the center of your family. Turn this country around.

[@Fatima_Garabandal2251]

100% Everyone has been lied to - the only winners are corporate world, globalists, universities, media and government/politics.

[@alaalfa8839]

I very much love that you dont say just opinion. But you say things from a real-life experience. We should stop being just thinkers but be doers, start being inspired by nice relationships or find tools. I like Coach Lee's videos. He explains things in a way that its easy to understand the psychology of "confused" people and help them to navigate them.

[@alaalfa8839]

When you are a man and a woman, it may not be a recipe for a happy successful relationship. If you are a gentleman and lady, you have a chance to have a happy successful emphatic, grateful, and decent relationship, loved by your neighborhood. Being a gentleman is a choice and being a lady is a choice. I read a quote: "Being a male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. Being a gentleman is a matter of choice." The same is about women. I wonder if a non-gentleman marries a nice lady, how the job of a lady may be fulfilled properly if he isn't acting accordingly. Or if non-lady marries a gentleman, how the role of the gentleman can be fulfilled, if she doesn't give enough empathy to the gentleman. Maybe better is to not talk about it but start to learn to be ladies and gentlemen, so more marriages will have chances. Stop being just thinkers and start being a doer, lead by example, or be inspired by nice relationships.

[@Salsaroja1]

word homie

[@squeaker19694]

I love being a traditional wife, but I live on a farm so in addition to cooking and cleaning I grow my own food, take care of the ornamental gardens, preserve food, take care of chickens, mow lawn, take the bins out, paint the house, make fences, do minor renovations. Take care of orchards and harvest. And when my adult children and their partners come to visit I cook up a storm. I sew, mend and knit my own clothes. I also homeschooled for 3 years. Ive had a busy and rewarding career adding value to our household and farm economy. If I was a trad wife in the city I would be extremely bored, unless I decided i I was going to make everything myself, bake bread, wash by hand etc. You cant blame women for wanting something else, especially when your children are no longer at home.

[@Captain_Misogyny]

In my opinion this is what a traditional wife was. I mean how is this little blip post industrial revolution where women could stay at home and do nothing (and it wasn't even close to the majority of the population), I just call that a kitchenaid housewife. Before the industrial revolution the majority of the work took place in homes all around the US, there wasn't a Nike or Reebok, labor wasn't centralized under corporations. Back then work was harder and it took both to get the basics done, today any one person can take care of a house and home by themselves, though this requires a lot of relying on corporations to provide things, food for instance is so contaminated from Apeel to cattle being fed 10% beef fat and pumped with gmo corn ect. So growing your own food is as far as health goes optimal though it takes a ton of work. That being said, women back then worked for that family unit, but that isn't needed to get by today, women don't need to work as a team to have a house or home at 19 or 50. The idea that women were oppressed by some patriarchy is false, they were oppressed by nature, even men who struck out on their own had a hard time if they lived and lived on very plain food on repeat. It would be even harder for a woman and definitely not ideal for anyone. That to say, what I define as traditional is not where a women works, but if she is focused on building that family unit and making it flourish just as the man should. How that's done depends on their values and hopefully they agree on those.

[@ashcom8952]

this sounds more of an independent woman living as a traditional wife

[@rebeccalavanture9741]

I love his genuine response .. you can tell from the tone of his voice..

[@gman1880]

Pearl nailed it, there are so many women that put themselves before family.

[@tabbush7]

If you don’t put your family and children first don’t bring them to the world to abandon them, and this goes for men and women 👍🏻

[@osmosisbless]

do you know the difference between a man who put themselves before family and a woman who does the same? Nobody sees the man being selfish. But every body and their Nana sees the woman

[@PowerPawaa]

@@osmosisblessbut men aren’t the ones putting themselves first before family it’s the women. 70% of women initiate divorces when there are no faults (American Sociological Association).

[@gman1880]

@osmosisbless That's bulkshit men get called out all the time if they are not being responsible to their family duties. Sounds like another woman cope out. But hey that's the world today.

[@RingletsJesus]

​@@osmosisblessEven if a man cheats... if he's paying the bills. Keeping the family going. He's not putting himself above th3 family. You only do that when you LEAVE. Which only woman are doing. 78% of filed divorces are woman wrecking their homes.

[@mofirminhosadiosalahrobert4904]

this women is unbearable , didnt stop interrupting pearl then says, am i allowed to speak now , i do wonder if women like her do it on purpose

[@brumtownmiller6130]

They both interrupted each other the whole time. Neither were “lady like” like the trad wife

[@mofirminhosadiosalahrobert4904]

@brumtownmiller6130 pearl was a perfect lady until the other started being insufferable, watch it back , you will see

[@brumtownmiller6130]

@@mofirminhosadiosalahrobert4904 no but even if she was, she shouldn’t let others dictate her lady like behaviour. She was opinionated, loud and she was the only person on the panel that swore. Not very lady like at all! Shows her true colours

[@anacc3257]

@@mofirminhosadiosalahrobert4904 No she wasn't. You must not know much about her if this is your point of view.

[@mofirminhosadiosalahrobert4904]

@@anacc3257 are you a Liberal?

[@richyaxl1151]

Oh wow. Such a beautiful closure from Estee. 💯🙏🏽✝️ She literally nailed what marriage is truly about, perfectly. She is a jewel in this world and represents those values and morals spot on.

[@youngredpill5014]

😂

[@rayrwyr]

She repeated what Pearl already said.

[@alaalfa8839]

When you are a man and a woman, it may not be a recipe for a happy successful relationship. If you are a gentleman and lady, you have a chance to have a happy successful emphatic, grateful, and decent relationship, loved by your neighborhood. Being a gentleman is a choice and being a lady is a choice. I read a quote: "Being a male is a matter of birth. Being a man is a matter of age. Being a gentleman is a matter of choice." The same is about women. I wonder if a non-gentleman marries a nice lady, how the job of a lady may be fulfilled properly if he isn't acting accordingly. Or if non-lady marries a gentleman, how the role of the gentleman can be fulfilled, if she doesn't give enough empathy to the gentleman. Maybe better is to not talk about it but start to learn to be ladies and gentlemen, so more marriages will have chances. Stop being just thinkers and start being a doer, lead by example, or be inspired by nice relationships.

[@alexlang2086]

Pearl is better

[@richyaxl1151]

@@alexlang2086 I prefer an actual wife. Lol

[@lancersbowchuckle960]

Notice the “Feminist” doesn’t say anything about selflessness, or self sacrifice… unless it’s the man who should do it. Honor, loyalty, devotion, trust, these are the traits of the traditional wife. Strength, honor, duty, discipline, honesty, wisdom, steadfastness… these are the traits of a traditional husband. Love, happiness, care, tenderness, these traits are the things that evolve from the purposeful lens of Family. Personal happiness only comes from reaching an understanding, and acceptance of the place you have worked to create for those you love. Isn’t it strange that the Man has the bulk of responsibility for that creation…?

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Absolutely love that my lifestyle as a traditional wife and homemaker is becoming more mainstream! ❤

[@paulclinton6414]

But you are supposed to let the daycare raise your kid as you act highly masculine, competing for peanuts.

[@pyrology101]

All I want to know is the body count of a trad wife vs non-trad wife.

[@Jtplaya28]

Awesome, I'm not married. Have 2 kids with my spouse. Iv tried to mold her in this way. But she doesn't want to. I'm going threw a separation with her. Hopefully I can find a women with moral values like you.

[@nahlahmahmoud8620]

Be real this generation is too far gone to go back to traditionalism😂 of stars are the norm now

[@laurenjones2909]

I'm glad that your happy as a wife n mother but not all of us women want that I certainly dont and theres nothing wrong with that either! A woman should choose her own path neither is wrong as long as the woman is happy

[@captainshakesbeard2453]

Estee Williams is the ideal high-value woman

[@tf2368]

Simp

[@daTribbleMaker]

her children will have ample milk supply, and I am totally wanting 2 jugs of milk right now.

[@mresilient1641]

I'm sure her cats will be well looked after

[@TommyVercetti-xp4xy]

She's a white women

[@daTribbleMaker]

I'm sure her kitty will.@@mresilient1641

[@okerror1451]

God I hate the way that teal coloured dress person is engaging in dialogue. She wants to be listened to, but when others speak she is rolling her eyes and being generally stupid and disrespectful. I agree with the person in the red shirt.

[@harryrob8221]

You mean Pearl? She's the bomb

[@universityofnowhere]

@@harryrob8221 It was Grace (British political commentator) in the teal shirt with red flowers. Pearl is an American youtuber and she was in red.

[@harryrob8221]

@@universityofnowhere That's what I meant

[@poohbeartube]

One issue I have with the issue of "to be or not to be" a mother is that having children is not a try it and see if you like it endeavor. Sure, many things can go wrong but at least make your best effort to know yourself, your partner and your future together and ignore all pressures from society, culture, religion, family, friends, etc. The child's life is paramount.

[@alephmale3171]

Society is just becoming the whatever podcast

[@bravoanane]

HAHAHAH this is so true and funny. FnF started this nonsense

[@pommiebears]

I’m a Trad wife, I suppose. I have never been unhappy, or feel reduced, by my role in our home. We have raised three children, one working with the police, and the other two in the military. We run a small business and I help with that. My husband works like a dog, and I definitely got the better deal!

[@shanenolan5625]

Bravo

[@comfortablynumb4003]

As a bloke I loved working like a dog for my little family and am sure you’re husband does as well (with the odd day when he doesn’t).

[@SP-xg4ok]

❤

[@nizaral-olovy1584]

respect ❤

[@SrbendaNo1]

You are normal.

[@Itotallyagreewithu]

The best way to beat a feminist in a debate is to let them talk.. they end up making themselves look like idiots very quickly

[@mdaddy775]

Did Pearl say one smart thing in this interview, or any other?

[@sarina5352]

😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@frankzapata24]

Pearl sounded ridiculous.

[@delvidstanley-coker1303]

Epic 😂😂😂😂

[@Captain_Misogyny]

Notice the typical feminist talking theology completely incorrectly. "Here let me use what I think is your religion as a weapon against you while being completely incorrect and using stereotypical anecdotes and clinically proven truths." Yikes bro! 😂

[@FLSTFB103]

My wife mows the lawns, chops the firewood, changes the oil, and services the cars and bikes, she also cleans the spouting and fixes things that are broken in and around the house the other day she was changing the cladding on the south side which was slowly rotting away., puts the baggage in the boot of the car when going on holiday while I change the nappies do the grocery shopping, cleaning make the meals, and take the kids to school, pay the bills online, etc we have been happily married for 23 years and are in our 40s.

[@EgoExit]

Narcissism has to go, that is clearly the big issue here. The world is now narcissistic and that cant work in every aspect of life. The happiest people ive known are those who are givers of their time or money or anything that involves helping others. Picking the right spouse will give u much greater shot at a successful marriage. Find someone with the same values as you.

[@themodfather9382]

ok, how are you planning on doing all this?

[@eavesdropper0]

@@themodfather9382 how old are you redpiller?

[@cody1844]

As a man, Estee is everything a man wants deep down! She's amazing. Also the traditional look is beautiful

[@jgunner94]

Yet there’s quite a wide spread joke for the women wanting to be that, the “get back in the kitchen” joke so i don’t if it’s something a lot of people value.

[@liamsmusicalbrain]

​@@jgunner94It is a joke. Society doesn't value men who actual run all the infrastructure and do all the hard jobs to keep the lights on and toilets working.

[@sterlingarcher2366]

​@@jgunner94Bollox. Huge admiration for them women. Making a joke does not dissolve that.

[@jgunner94]

@@sterlingarcher2366 Just pointing out if it’s something every man wants. Why is it men that make that joke towards women quite often as a jab at them?

[@victoriasp41]

Could not disagree more, my Husband would love to be a house husband but we cannot afford it. He could not wait for me to get back to work after maternity leave, I ger to bored when I am home and think of lots of projects that he needs to participate in around the house.

[@sz871]

Grace is so lost in her own nonsense it’s unreal. The family unit is and always should be the priority and not me myself and I.

[@nonsensetalk8953]

The one lost in her own nonsense here,is woman hater,Pearl.

[@donquijote6030]

Amen. I could not agree more. The health and stability of the nuclear family is what is most important.

[@shikonseshu]

Old school feminism is about women having the right to choose for themselves the way they want to live, just like the men have had since the beginning of time. That's the MOST FUNDAMENTAL tenet of feminism. Why are people so confused?

[@KL-os2sr]

Yup… that’s all it is

[@YahnathanThompson-rv2hr]

Those who put family before self are happier than those who put themselves first. Doing your duty even when it's inconvenient makes you more happy in the long run than pursuing happiness at all costs.

[@BlueEyes499]

Me and my kids’ Dad decided I would be a ‘trad wife’ ie the full time carer of my daughter. I thought it would be amazing to give myself to my daughter fully until she started school so I gave my job up. I am now pregnant, my ex kicked me out because I wouldn’t have an abortion as he only wanted one child and I am now left to care for 2 children on my own with no career. I have to start from scratch with a baby and young child. Ladies, don’t give up your career, even if you just work part time. You never know what your husband will do in the future, you could be left without a pot to piss in like me. Men are not ‘generally better people’ what a ridiculous comment. Some people are awful, some people are wonderful, regardless of sex.

[@victorrelmek2889]

Agreed. That is a ridiculous statement. You better be damn sure when you give up your career that he is going to take care of you. I'm sorry he left you! Messed up

[@AnzuBrief]

@@WilhelmEley-lr4gl Accidents happen, you know?

[@recs5351]

@@WilhelmEley-lr4gl Lets be honest here - if they could afford to live on his wage alone then he's got to be pretty well paid, now she'll get 50% of assets and child support. at the most she's given up 4 years so she's lucky in comparison to women being divorced after 40 years, if she can't get her career back to where she was after 4 years off then I'd say she probably didn't have one to begin with.

[@giftedmisfit105]

A lot of people are going to wanna be trad wives by the time we start realizing the effects of what they’re programming into our kids at school today.

[@danieln.6097]

Your response demonstrates the issue with most modern women. You are so self centered & cant see outside of your own personal situation. 80% of divorces are filed by women. Women are the ones leaving the majority of marriages & relationships NOT men. Your anecdotal exceptional case doesn't what's happening the vast majority of the time. Traumatized women like you project fear into young women's minds because you can't see outside your trauma.

[@isaiahross6562]

Is it me or is Pearl on this show more than any other guest

[@marshallsaundersmusic]

She brings home the bacon

[@SJ-ru4ej]

She absolutely loves attention.

[@johndiaz7680]

Maybe Pearl makes good points that stick?

[@archonicon]

​@@SJ-ru4ejThank you Captain Obvious but EVERY KZbinr and television host loves attention.

[@toffeetv24]

It's nice change from all the radical feminists ye see, pearl wouldn't have a place on bbc itv channel 4 or 5 let's be honest about it

[@romeoalisonsuperromeo7184]

I just love listening to Pearl talk and this Adorable Trad wife makes you see the real power of a woman.. she’s glorious

[@squeaker19694]

She has such a beautiful loving energy

[@mypillowguy445]

Insecure men love demure, quiet women.

[@fezmancomments]

A very good discussion; warm hearted, respectful and understanding.

[@MikerBiker55]

Me and my wife both work, similar salaries, 2 kids. I shop.l, meal plan, cook, all the meals, clean the kitchen, bathroom, toilets, empty the garbage, plan holidays, fix anything that needs fixing, provide IT support for the family. She, keeps the house organised, tidy and clean, does the laundry, organises the kid's activities and our social life, plans any home improvement, and provides a moral compass for the whole family. It's hardly trad wife, or husband, but it works pretty well. We also argue and often feel like leaving, but we don't, cause we're based and are a team with a common goal.

[@Captain_Misogyny]

That's kinda what trad is though. Before the industrial revolution women had to work from home and they worked a ton harder without the modern tools we have today, work was taken from the home and consolidated into factories and grew from there to what it is today. Only for this tiny blip in time did a small percentage of women have the luxury of being stay at home wives/moms and that has grown since as well. Traditionalism is not about how or if you work a job, but rather being focused on the family to improve the state of the family, which sounds exactly like what you've got going on to a degree. I say to a degree because at least in the west men for most of history were the teachers of their sons (moms the teachers of daughters) and fathers were the spiritual leaders. Obviously educational systems were used and developed but not widespread for the majority of history. Aside from that it sounds like what you have going on is quite traditional, just not as 1950s metropolitan housewife as has been spun to be traditional.

[@brahmabeharrysingh5287]

Every time I see a feminist in a discussion they are always interrupting and talking over the other participants while they try to make their point. And she has the gall to tell Pearl not to interrupt HER!

[@ljmrecords2564]

I decided to stay single for the rest of my life after my last relationship ended 7 years ago .......then i found pearl and i have hope again❤

[@tariqjoseph3562]

Yep, you sound like the type of guy pearl had in mind when thinking about grifting to make loads of money.

[@abalamdepaimon6891]

@@tariqjoseph3562 Rather have pearl do her thing and get money then hearing screeching man-hating creatures /shrug

[@ahmedhammoud9039]

@@abalamdepaimon6891how about neither. Why is it you complain about these women yet say you would rather pearl who is a clear grifter and chasing money. The answer is you would prefer neither. Don’t try and justify Pearl by comparing her to feminists

[@danielheholt4104]

Been single.for ten and made the same decision..... hold the line my brother no desertion

[@HenryCavill-cv3kz]

What a sad man. Find your balls and then go find God and your life will not be as miserable and pointless as it is currently. Who the hell says Pearl gives me hope? What are you a little boy? Man up

[@izifaddag8221]

Pearl dead on again. The feminist constantly interrupting and talking over her. A living example of why I gave up on marriage years ago. Women have forgotten their biological function. Either you want kids and a home or you don't there is no inbetween.

[@Biohazard1999]

I wilk never understand how you shill for this walking embodyment of hypocricy. She is literally everything that she preaches against.

[@anacc3257]

Pearl, the girl that not even traditionalists agree with, kept cutting her off and spoke over her. They both did it. You gave up on marriage because women spoke up and "forgot their biological function"? What does that even mean?

[@kdog4587]

Sorry but pearl is an unmarried working woman. How is she not subverting traditional roles? Hahaha she's just a mouthpiece for what certain men wanna hear, she doesn't follow it herself it's hilarious that people believe what she says.

[@harken_cycles6477]

​@@kdog4587she's trying to save all women short bus clown

[@JackNulty24]

​@anacc3257 because women have right to opinion he didn't like it

[@Lobtoy82]

Grace accusing Pearl of talking over her.. couldnt belive that. ...

[@Opinlinz]

Well yeah Pearl was cutting her off. It's clear to see in the video

[@MommaMe5]

Grace spent the entire first half of the interview talking over Pearl that's the point.

[@NeilRockTV]

@@Opinlinz Grace literally spent majority of the video talking over Pearl actually

[@divinecrime]

@@NeilRockTVNo, she didn’t. Pearl is the one who won’t let anybody speak, and she does that at almost every interview I’ve seen her on.

[@divinecrime]

@@MommaMe5No, she didn’t. Pearl is constantly talking over everybody she’s in a debate with at almost every interview I’ve watched her in.

[@nunezgirl4]

TBH: I *almost* left my husband who I’ve been with for 13+ yrs out of a “me first” mindset. It wasn’t until I took a moment and thought, why don’t I first try killing him with kindness, TRY to overlook his faults and HELP him with his struggles instead of nagging, and praise his virtues? That I realized that even if I wasn’t the biggest problem in the relationship, I was still a big part of it. The problem with many young women now is we often don’t stop to re analyze the problems in our marriage - it’s always the other person and if they don’t cater to our whims, then the MUST not love us and we HAVE to leave.

[@Patrick-wc7nj]

Men (and hopefully some women) love reading comments like these. Good for you. Hopefully he’s doing his part as well. Good luck to you.

[@Discoveredme]

Traditional family is where I come from. My parents are still together happily. I’ve seen them, sometimes they go through tough decisions and argue over this or that, but in the end, the family comes first. If you care more about your own happiness, relationship will be difficult for you.

[@schrapnellcotton3413]

Exactly. As if the relationship won't change or the individuals within it won't change as they age, have different experiences, learn new things, go through challenges, etc. The people that use these changes as reason to leave their spouse never really valued that spouse in the first place and were 'me' first. The 'me' first works for single people but not relationships.

[@ambition112]

0:49: 💔 Divorce rates are increasing, with some women getting divorced before the age of 30, but there is nothing wrong with being divorced and in your 30s. 3:06: 👩‍🍳 The video discusses traditional gender roles and the choice women should have in pursuing their desired lives. 5:15: 👫 The average marriage is no longer lasting as long as it used to, with many marriages ending in divorce due to unhappiness and the ability to easily leave. 7:32: 💡 The discussion highlights the negative impact of an individualistic mentality on relationships and marriage. 10:02: 😬 The speaker believes that women are leaving marriages more easily because they think there is something better out there, but they are finding out that is wrong and going through multiple divorces. Recap by Tammy AI

[@skeginaldp1533]

How many people get married & raise their kids with them in their home full time from 0-18. Not many & I think that’s what most men have in mind as there vision when getting married.

[@dhananjaymalhotra7854]

Nothing wrong with divorce but leaving men completely bankrupt after it is totally against the concept of feminism.

[@Zeiel9704]

I would love to have a traditional wife and to be a traditional husband for her, but I'm just a white male so I have to apologise my toxic masculinity.

[@juana4668]

Masculinity is a beautiful thing. Don't ever apologize for being a masculine man.

[@wannaduckfin]

We love our alpha males.

[@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878]

​@juana4668 love the sarcasm! Nicely done 🤣✌🏾

[@192837qwert]

@zeiel9704 you sound so but so young. You shouldn't be here

[@tasfiatanzila]

If you want a traditional wife then I’m assuming you have the income to completely support her?

[@MioszMichaowski]

2:06 I think we can end the discussion there. If someone wants to be a stay at home mother and finds a man who wants a stay at home wife... then what's the problem?

[@melanierenshaw7228]

We need to teach children that marriage is good but in that teach them to pick good partners that are mutually respectful to each other. There are a lot of selfish woman in the world but also a lot of controlling abusive men and when paired with either, it can lead to divorce.

[@neoglacius]

nah, the laws to favor fems in splits must stop, because now is nothing more than a transactional operation

[@questioning.societyuk]

I agree to a point but unfortunately we live in a world where being the man-of-the-house and having authority is considered to be "toxic" and called "abusive and controlling/manipulative" so whilst I don't feel being genuinely abusive is acceptable for either gender I don't buy into the "radicalised feminist" definition considered normal nowadays.

[@melanierenshaw7228]

well authority is the wrong word to use and by abusive I mean a man who is jealous and controlling to the point where you aren't allowed to do anything..you try to stand up against it and he will push, grab you, twist you wrists, squeeze your arms and legs leaving bruises, push you to the floor or bed, choke you. I escaped after 13 years of abuse. I saw the signs on our first date but am kind and wanted to help him, support him...I didn't realize that there was something wrong with him and absolutely nothing wrong with me. I'm in a happy relationship now, to a man I support and take care of completely and he treats me with love too. I deserve it. @@questioning.societyuk

[@cdo...49283]

​@@questioning.societyukBro, you got serious incel vibes..

[@mkhatame86]

Divorce occasionally is a necessity, but never a good thing.

[@kimberlyaddis6194]

I agree. We've been taught in society that our own needs should come before the kids or the husband's needs! It's wrong on so many levels!

[@solimine1007]

Well technically the wife's needs is supposed to come before the husband's needs. A man is supposed to be of service to his family. The submission only follows as a result of the sacrifice. However the man is supposed to sacrifice first. Submission is the act of following.

[@Captain_Misogyny]

​@@solimine1007for thousands of years corporations weren't a thing and Amazon wasn't delivering to your doorstep, women have for the vast majority of history worked like mules and men had to do the heavy lifting, but women's work was 1000× harder 300yrs ago than it is today. That union worked well for each other, a man could scrape by on his own sure, but with no time to spare to make a home. A woman would take that house and make it into a home with no small effort, but that is not why she was submissive. A woman cannot love a man she does not respect. If you tell a man he is responsible for something, but do not relinquish control of that thing, who holds the accountability for that thing? Girlfriends don't get wife benifits, if they don't like that then that's totally OK! Best of luck! But don't go on saying you want a man to lead and be decisive whilst simultaneously being to insecure to follow, if you don't trust or respect him, that is what you need to address and decide if that is a you problem, or if he is not a respectable man.

[@nurulmaru]

to people who didn’t examine Pearl intelectual behavior: to pull up is much more difficult than pulling down… Pearl pulls down…

[@thebargainshack6901]

99% of women can't do one pull-up.

[@laurennicki4991]

Estee is a class act, love her so much!

[@leeqskyy]

I love the trad wife. Didn't engage in any unnecessary banter, didn't judge others for choosing different lifestyles. Just stayed her opinion and was there for the experience of others opinions as well in the most classy and feminine way. Pearl and the other girl on the hand.. At loggerheads. Very interesting for sure

[@impudentdomain]

It was very evident that the feminist was just spewing out toxic garbage.

[@HeidiGolff]

"I like the sound of that" says Piers Morgan. Love that~ love you Estee!

[@remainertears]

Pearl is awesome, her radical views are traditional.

[@bentonxavier5094]

and those traditional views are supposed to be awesome?

[@Fandium]

yes. just ask modern women if they are happy and see what they say@@bentonxavier5094

[@remainertears]

@bentonxavier5094 correct, the new ways are hardly successful..women doped up on anti depressants and men hated for being men

[@chandanv8769]

​@@bentonxavier5094Yes being selfless brings more happiness in life.

[@MXxx-g1i]

@@bentonxavier5094 Ask your grandparents, before you pop that anti-depressant.

[@DougMPA]

Pearl is amazing! let’s goo Pearl!

[@marshallsaundersmusic]

Pearl is Piers’s ATM machine

[@southernbelladonna78]

Lol! So accurate. 😂

[@MXxx-g1i]

Most betas rely on females to cover costs so checks out

[@twstvan93]

She is one yacky woman, but Pearl is a breath of fresh air to listen to a woman who speaks and is in control of herself.

[@dougweaver9148]

This was a classic . The modern femanist was consumed by the idea that she had to “win” the debate , so much so , she had to interject over Piers wrap up to have the last word . Totally insecure and self absorbed .

[@alih6953]

God bless woman like pearl and Estee

[@coreyharris6998]

Pearl!?😂😂

[@Paul-dh3ps]

The lady in red is so correct , the my thing

[@GrimSower]

Estee is the most clear in her speech.

[@m4rr15]

If she carries on thinking life is all about ones self, I honestly believe Grace will be miserable when she is in her 60s. Imagine being elderly & knowing you didn't want kids/ a family just because people told you being single was empowering.

[@impudentdomain]

we don't have to imagine it there are literally thousands of tic toc videos of aging women who are alone crying on the internet. And like Pearl said there are more 40+ age women on anti depressants than any other demographic

[@supremepeace.]

She is already miserable, she just don't know that, o don't accept it.

[@comfortablynumb4003]

Totally agree .

[@MakeSense71]

She didn't say life is all about ones self. She said Love thy neighbour as thy self (biblical verse) And love in a relationship should be reciprocal. You heard what you wanted to hear to build a strawman.