Menstruation Period Paid Leave Issue | Full Clariry Given

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Guruji From Gurugram

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@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
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@nicksworld6290
@nicksworld6290 Жыл бұрын
Guruji you are so on point. Women pull down each other so much.They normalise pain and suffering for daughters and daughters in law 😢
@preethid1991
@preethid1991 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯
@preethid1991
@preethid1991 Жыл бұрын
Ultimately for wives / mothers as well
@UshaDholkhediya
@UshaDholkhediya Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir , it bring tears in my eyes , becouse being a working woman I faced all these situations during periods and pregnancy, you have very clearly understood the problems of working woman 🙏
@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
Thanks for kind words. Please do share this video.
@PriyankaKumari-nx9ib
@PriyankaKumari-nx9ib Жыл бұрын
"Absolutely agree! Periods can be incredibly painful, and the lack of understanding in workplaces can be challenging. As a former teacher, the constant standing made it even tougher. It's time we break the taboo around discussing this issue openly and advocate for menstrual leave. It's not just about comfort but about acknowledging the real struggles many women face monthly. #MenstrualLeave"
@UrbanLifeChannel
@UrbanLifeChannel Жыл бұрын
Very important topic and needs lot more discussions 1. Women are the biggest enemy of women. Successful women try to be controlling and strict like a man, rather than leveraging their own natural qualities of creativity 2. Woman boss is the toughest for another woman 3. Whatever you give to a woman, she will return it 10 times. If you give love to her, then you will get 10x love. If you give her troubles, she will give you 10x troubles.
@hemangshrivastava9561
@hemangshrivastava9561 Жыл бұрын
I don't agree with point 3. Firstly female bosses are far better for men. they are more equal and unfeminist than male bossess.
@radmedico2496
@radmedico2496 Жыл бұрын
I’m a 22 year old female , got my first period at 12 , it’s been ten long years and still it hurts every month . First 2 days are very difficult . My symptoms include fever , fatigue , body ache , stomach issues , cramps and low immunity . It’s not easy being a woman some days but I celebrate my femininity. I would love to have kids someday . Let’s make this country a better place and support female health so that we can have healthy future generations
@tiffgplu2590
@tiffgplu2590 Жыл бұрын
More power to you 😊
@emailshe
@emailshe Жыл бұрын
This is due to lack of nutrition. You are vegetarian right? Try eating mutton or beef 3 days before and after. for 2 meals a day. You see women in other countries are much healthier and strong during this time due to diet. Even in India if you know meat eating women you ask them, then u know. I blame religion and politics for this
@emailshe
@emailshe Жыл бұрын
@@ajinkya3780 I am a doctor and Sprint runner. You seem to give no concideration into the fact that weather the person is bleeding, running , temperature of the day, age, wieght, gender, height, gut type and pre existing conditions
@YadavsinghSandhya-mf2jt
@YadavsinghSandhya-mf2jt Жыл бұрын
When any Minister utter anything wrong on public domain most of the media channels come to support them, this was been recently seen on the speech of respected lady Minister. We were astonished to notice that the anchors of various news channel were supporting her blindly. It's Minister power and position was been supported by news channel there was a gynecologist who was their in the panel but she was been suppressed and no support was been given to her and she was exactly saying which you are saying on the grounds of Science. I also contradict on the words of our lady minister. I also support that the paid leave should be given to the women for her menstruation. I fill amazed when pad man movie was been released than how our lady minister has become the part of the promotion of that movie now she is denying on this.
@doctorpanigrahi9975
@doctorpanigrahi9975 Жыл бұрын
You might be suffering from Endometriosis. Get yourself checked. Unfortunately laproscopy is the gold standard to identify the problem.
@anushree2136
@anushree2136 Жыл бұрын
Agreed to all the points you said: 1. I'm a teacher and its difficult to work on periods while standing. 2. Aurat hi aurat ki dushman hai. 3. Female boss ne bhot pareshan kiya hua h mujhe bhi 4. Pregnancy, periods, childcare etc takes all our attention and lack of support from people at home and workplace makes us quit. Its been 18 years since I got my first period, and its very very painful since then. My whole body aches like anything. I get severe cramps and feel nauseated. Jo medicine leke kaam karte the usme bhi govt ne advisory nikal diya h. Meftal spas😢
@varshasjain9383
@varshasjain9383 Жыл бұрын
First of all, my only intention of sharing this comment is, so a greater number of females come forward and share their own experience. Yes, today only I have realized you can disagree with elders/authority with respect also. So, I got courage to write this. Amit ji thanks a ton from bottom of my heart. Mallab Koti Koti naman.🙏🙏🙏You have really said it well with logical points covered and in easy-to-understand language and what could be possible solution... Yes, I have severe period cramps on first two days of my mensuration cycle since my periods begun. Around 3-4 days before, when period was about to start, I feel pain in my lower limbs and literally energy is draining down from my legs. I feel tired, I was embarrassed by my mother and my grandmother, on multiple occasions. (Yes, they both love me, and I respect them) My grandmother made me felt like having mensuration cycle is a sin. It has really affected my self-confidence. Some of my friends, couldn't sit or stand on their periods due to pain, some need to take tablet, and yes, for some of them it was easy-breezy. . Amit ji, again, thank you so much. May almighty always bless you and bless us through you. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
Thanks for kind words and your detailed feedback. Please do share this video.
@ritzmarcos7733
@ritzmarcos7733 Жыл бұрын
I understand. My friend goes through the same pain. Some days are physically tiring for her. And I know she is not making it up.
@shivangi1315
@shivangi1315 Жыл бұрын
You are correct First two days are really difficult , my back hurts severly My grandmother always taunt me that you should not sleep in daytime and should get up early before anybody else wake up But my mother denied her and insisted me to take rest My mother is a working women, and I always saw her that she is unable to take proper rest on those days of months, it hurts me deeply I always get up early whenever my mother is on her peirods to help her in household chores but sadly I cannot drop her to office, she has to drive scooty herself. But I always consider my mother as the stronget women Atleast for me she is strongest😊
@prachi.pallavi
@prachi.pallavi Жыл бұрын
I am a banker, for me it's very difficult in the first 2 days especially the 2nd day.First of all, When you ask for leave in these days , you have to give explanation why you are sick every month 😂and your boss will act as if you asking for their kidney. And even if you get one, you are made to feel that you are not efficient enough or a kamchor because the other lady in the office says it's not that difficult to work in these days, it's a natural process.
@gurvinderjeetsingh7735
@gurvinderjeetsingh7735 Жыл бұрын
SBI wale toh Saturday Sunday bhi bula late hain.
@debayanbasu8964
@debayanbasu8964 Жыл бұрын
Private bank or public bank??
@friendshiprocks8673
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
​@@rajeshrai8295This is not the solution. Why only men will have all financial burden??? Let the women share. And what she is asking only 2 days leave in a particular date 😅, common man
@mriniii
@mriniii Жыл бұрын
That's right but Aaj ke time par itni inflation mein do bacho ko padhana, paalna,ek decent life maintain karne ke liye jabtak dono log kaam nhi karenge tab tak possible nhi h .I agree ki bahar ki jobs problematic h for females but kya kiya jaaye jab jobs hi vhi h toh @@rajeshrai8295
@sureshbala8637
@sureshbala8637 Жыл бұрын
Topic touched the heart......I am a teacher.....first 2 days are very difficult with heavy flow.....my sincere thanks to you for discussing and empathize
@rina783
@rina783 Жыл бұрын
Well said Guruji 🙏🏻 you are the first one to raise this issue with deep analysis. I suffer a lot in first two days. “Aadhamari” Rathi hu in first two days, aur kyahi batau. And noone supports and believes that’s also a fact. Yes but my husband does support. Women vs Women is true.
@sanujk676
@sanujk676 Жыл бұрын
Sir I have watched many of your programmes but today's video literally made me to salute you wholeheartedly.... Being a man on behalf of every women aapko namam karta hoo .... I will share this with as many as possible... Woh guru ji ur family is blessed to have you... U proved us male has a chromosome of X &Y... That's y male understand this pyscology of women to some extent...
@nishantnikam2996
@nishantnikam2996 Жыл бұрын
Sir, great topic you have initiated. I request to all listeners to share in tons. Thanks
@adornis0078
@adornis0078 Жыл бұрын
U are right... I have a daughter and I once scolded her for being lazy and not doing some housework that day I realized later she was having periods and in immense pain and cramping....I felt very bad after that...Leave women helping women as I a man I am sufficient enough to bring about change in the ecosystem for my daughter wife and women.....Men are sufficient enough we will change this , after all male chauvinism and male ka ego toh well known hai... yeh bhi changes le ke ayenge...jab dil pe le liya toh kya sochna ! JAI HIND
@snehaagarwal77
@snehaagarwal77 Жыл бұрын
This is the bestest video I have ever seen. THANK YOU FROM BOTTOM OF MY HEART. YOU JUST BROKE IT.
@gursharandhillon2931
@gursharandhillon2931 Жыл бұрын
Very sensible discussion. In our company, sick leave has been renamed as initially wellness leave and then self care leave. One can avail any number of leaves on a year basis by his or her requirement. This is a flexible approach as everybody has a different requirement.
@shwetak1052
@shwetak1052 Жыл бұрын
Which company.. I hope government also introduces a flexible leaves approacb
@Manoj8641
@Manoj8641 Жыл бұрын
every women should given such leave weather she is working or Housewife. Because every women feels depressed and pain during periods. And during this man should do all her work. So every working married man should also given leave so that he can work at home at that time. 😅😅
@prajaktak9134
@prajaktak9134 Жыл бұрын
Spot on observations Sir. But each coin has 2 sides. Period leave is needed due to lack of clean washrooms at workplace and long journey due to traffic. And if you formalize this leave like maternity leave then many small and midsize private companies will hesitate or stop hiring women due to this reason. Work from home is option or providing clean and safe rest rooms is option Thanks for video on this topic
@anirbanchowdhury1654
@anirbanchowdhury1654 Жыл бұрын
Yes miss thanks for clarity.
@kashishkishore6844
@kashishkishore6844 Жыл бұрын
Thank you gururji, for speaking up on this issue and many other issues in which no one is talking about but everyone is addressing it silently in their lives. My sincere thanks to you !!
@poulamimukherjee7832
@poulamimukherjee7832 Жыл бұрын
Truly you have brought in all points
@TheArshiathakur
@TheArshiathakur Жыл бұрын
Well said sir, we suffer a lot during first two days and thank you for analyzing this topic in our society.
@karanwadhawan9012
@karanwadhawan9012 Жыл бұрын
Really awesome video Power packed, eye opener but will only be understood by actually your audience. I hope others understand it too
@shalinisrivastava4236
@shalinisrivastava4236 Жыл бұрын
With this video you have raised your own pedestal. No one could have given a better clarity on the subject. It's true, a woman is the biggest enemy of another woman. There is more patriarchy in women than in men. Those who have risen to power in an organisation, are so bitter about the fact that they had to fight for their place that they cannot be empathetic towards another woman. Teachers have the worst jobs. The reason being that there are all women and they are each other's worst enemy. I have worked in a school for 3 yrs, with a BEd degree. Had to leave my job because I couldn't handle standing all day during periods. That too during perimenopause when it became irregular with heavy flow. We had a discussion on invigilation during exams too. It was given to 1 teacher, 3hrs paper and 15 min reading time and collection of paper and submitting to exam department. Almost 4 hours, and no break. No one could sit down during invigilation. The school refused to consider splitting the time between 2 teachers. Another point is that teachers can't take holidays during that time, until and unless hospitalized. It's the worst job according to my experience. Even doing a housemaid job has more freedom. I now prefer sitting at home than joining another school. Women bosses behaving like mother in-law, 😅 so bang on. You are marvelous. Only you could do it. 👏
@agnik1837
@agnik1837 11 ай бұрын
Exactly, jab main periods me hoti meri saas mujhe kitchen me jaane nhi deti thi. Mere second baby k baad , mere husband k liye tea bana di toh boli kitchen me kyun gyi. I always took stand for that afterwards. Maine kaha aapko itni problem hai toh apna khana khud banao. This is normal process and the purest form of blood. Par ladies ko family me untouchables jaise treat kiya jaata hai. Meri mother ne kabhi mujhe aise treat nhi kiya. Meri beti ko bhi ab hote hai, aur main kabhi usse kuch bhi karne se mana nhi karti , if she is comfortable in those days. Infact , being working lady i was able to provide her stressfree period by introducing her to period panties. She used to b very stressed using pads. I got her panties. As a working lady 2nd day is always difficult. Even i switched to menstrual cups to avoid staining and also being govt teacher we dont have hygienic changing atmosphere.
@dulachakraborty4781
@dulachakraborty4781 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it.. I have been part of work force since last 9 years. Over this period, I have worked under 2 female bosses and believe me they had made my life hell. But all male managers were really cooperative and supportive and allowed me to work peacefully.. Unless we acknowledge the fact as a society,only then we all will move forward..
@SK-df9kl
@SK-df9kl Жыл бұрын
Same experience in IT . I worked under female project manager and she made my life hell I had to leave my job to get rid of me. I only choose company which have male line manager I have rejected offers in which line manager, project manager is female
@preetitby3930
@preetitby3930 Жыл бұрын
HATS OFF Guruji. Almost cried, every word was true. My first two days are difficult,dont even want to talk . I used to take medicine for pains to go to work .🙏🙏
@ushabhat4568
@ushabhat4568 Жыл бұрын
Omg! what a video! Thank you for standing up for us. Thank you for speaking about teachers. One of my friend left the teachers job for the same thing. We have to take this forwarded strongly. A big salute to your empathy and analysis.
@DSingh96
@DSingh96 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the acknowledgment I prefer to take leave during my menstrual cycle. It is difficult /painful /irritating / low mood for ALMOST EVERY FEMALE, at least for the first 2 days. Some females go through nausea, vomiting, headache, extremely painful cramps that may require medical help( oral medication or injectables) . Due to lifestyle changes, current generation of reproductive females suffer more due to menstrual cycle than the previous ones.
@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
Thanks for feedback. Please do share this video.
@GreenDriveIndia
@GreenDriveIndia Жыл бұрын
But my wife supports Smriti Irani statement.
@tiffgplu2590
@tiffgplu2590 Жыл бұрын
​@@GreenDriveIndiaand what's her reasoning
@DSingh96
@DSingh96 Жыл бұрын
@@GurujiFromGurugram As a doctor who is in touch with females/pregnant females on daily basis, it is usually hard on them and it won't hurt to acknowledge their pain ( Basic Humanity).Also, spreading awareness about females who are on contraceptive pills, intra-uterine devices and various other birth control methods as It may be much more worse for them with the added side effects of the birth control method .In addition to this, the tablets we prescribe for pain relief itself have added side effects ( eg- Tablet Meftal Spas and Tablet Diclofenac). Little empathy won't hurt anyone. :) :)
@GreenDriveIndia
@GreenDriveIndia Жыл бұрын
@@tiffgplu2590 2 reasons: if periods are painful then there is underlying malnutrition or some other health issues, which should be treated on priority. So once solved hardly any severe pain, there will be mild pain for sure but won’t be much. 2 nd reason; if government mandates these leaves then hiring of female employees will drop further as companies will be reluctant to provide every month some leaves. Women have already difficult rejoining workforce after having kids. This menstruation leave will further create barrier in private sector. I can think of 2 solutions though, increase 5 extra leave for whole year for women and if leaves are more than 10 days in a year then better only govt sector have it.
@sbigdata2929
@sbigdata2929 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Sir for raising this topic. All girls /women go through the pain, discomfort and stress at some point in their menstruating years. If no pain and heavy bleeding in early years then peri- menopause and menopausal years are dreadful!. Some solution of workplace leave must be worked out or else ‘Beti padhao, beti ko naukari karvaoh, beti sey bacche bhi, beti sey kacche dhulwaoh or aakhri mey beti ki menopausal years mey saas- sasoor ki din- raat seva karwaaoh! Iskaa aakhri solution hotaa hai hysterectomy!
@friendshiprocks8673
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
O my God that's hilarious
@galpergayna
@galpergayna Жыл бұрын
Lovely point highlighted by guruji regarding the fact that teachers have to teach the entire day and do not even get a chance to sit in the class because private schools these days do not provide any chair inside the classroom. My mother is a teacher and now she’s in her mid 50’s. It’s too difficult for any lady to strain her legs for such long hours, especially when she’s on her periods.
@friendshiprocks8673
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
Why not providing chairs?? Teachers are another form of God , but we r giving this kind of respect to our teachers, very bad
@jazzjk9106
@jazzjk9106 Жыл бұрын
Sir mera bs chale to apko is desh ka Prime Minister banau. Aap ek aurat ka dard bhot achhe se smjhte ho. Hats off to you. Mai bhi ek mahila hu. In sbse mai gujar chuki hu. Thank you sir for the beautiful video
@meghaseth5815
@meghaseth5815 Жыл бұрын
This video must go viral. Great video. Completely agree.
@geetachoudhary7224
@geetachoudhary7224 Жыл бұрын
Guruji aap great ho ,,, sare kaam left karke aap ke views par comment karne ka mann hua,,, How could you know these things so deeply that we even cannot share n discuss 😊😊😊
@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
Thanks for kind words. Please Share with friends
@Capt.Gagan.Boparai
@Capt.Gagan.Boparai Жыл бұрын
It is a sensitive topic and we need to address it in real life with compassion. I have been traveling to China for many years and observed 80% shops and restaurants run by women, I asked out of curiosity and got to know from them that consuming Soya milk reduces the bad effects in those days. I have conveyed to all women in my family, hope it helps..
@drjyotimishra9282
@drjyotimishra9282 Жыл бұрын
As a woman and doctor can relate every words of ur sir..ministry must consider this issue...to improve our work force participation..
@shakthithemusicchannel2966
@shakthithemusicchannel2966 Жыл бұрын
Completely agree. Woman need rest during periods
@harshkant8217
@harshkant8217 Жыл бұрын
I am fan of your ability to describe any topic with 360 degrees approach. I find lot of learning points and loopholes in my personal opinions and thinking. Guru sakshat param brahama! 👏👏
@Humanmodes9876
@Humanmodes9876 Жыл бұрын
❤ You're the real godfather 🤩, sir! You're a social reformer for whole society, but the only challenge is that everyone's not developed HOTS due to wrecked educational background. I can totally relate with it as we both are 28 & working. My mom's faced a lot of physical & mental harassment from my grandma, and she's doing the same with my spouse. Due to this reason she wanna leave the joint family. Hence proved that mahila hi mahila ki biggest dushman hai. And I'm paying the combined home & car loan of 10 million. Life is hell & wanna go to jail, but it'd be boring too. Taken term insurance of 1 cr. & waiting for death ☠️ to welcome it with open arms. Women's have made their & others life hell in all the classes because of their ego. Thank you Take care May almighty creator bless you! Jai Hind.
@sindhumenon7383
@sindhumenon7383 Жыл бұрын
So truly you have discussed this menstrual time. Actually this topic is not discussed openly during my time. As you pointed out period problem is not discussed.period pains varies from woman to women. First two to three days pains is more. Yes teacher conditions is very bad they have to stand for long time. Women is the enemy of women correct yes i agree.
@_ekjot
@_ekjot 6 ай бұрын
U relate family and politics 🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏽🙏
@swatigulyani1
@swatigulyani1 Жыл бұрын
I m teacher Sir , i really really appreciate for the sensitivity you have shown on this topic .. i m in awe of how much clarity you have on social topics 🙏
@zindagi_ki_doar
@zindagi_ki_doar Жыл бұрын
Yd.. Female manager is a very stressful for other female to survive in the team.
@ankitamishra0405
@ankitamishra0405 Жыл бұрын
Mangers irrespective of gender are 😂😂 bad generally
@akankiagrawal3313
@akankiagrawal3313 Жыл бұрын
YD... & yes! First two days are hellish & torturous. Some consideration & compassion required genuinely on this matter. I cant thank you enough for raising this issue with such authenticity & candidly.
@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
Thanks for feedback. Pls share this video with friends
@avinandadutta1030
@avinandadutta1030 Жыл бұрын
Each and every point is right.
@ShubhraAstrotarot
@ShubhraAstrotarot 10 ай бұрын
I feel like crying and feeling happy at the same time!! Thankyou sooo much for addressing it 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@geetachaurasia6992
@geetachaurasia6992 Жыл бұрын
Very true Sir. I have the same feeling. Female on the top has not done any Good to the other females of the society. Only Male whether on the top or not have done the best to the females of the society. Very nice Sir. Too Good. The best topic you selected for the discussion ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
@vdglam5468
@vdglam5468 Жыл бұрын
One of the best video on this topic.......as I hav experience this pain so I can totally relate and agree that paid or unpaid menstrual leave should be granted moreover it's a Natural process it has nothing to do with equality n opportunities......as if ur in pain u can giv ur 💯 ur proper involvement in work .....lastly ur words are sad but true till. Now in 21st century when we are educated n empowerd still mahila hi mahila ki sabse badi dushman Hai....sad reality 😢
@pujasingh7907
@pujasingh7907 Жыл бұрын
Nice sir, Ghar me kissi ko koi fark nahi parata. Chahe Mai period mein hoon , fever hai, ya bhir thaki hoon😢. But ab aadat😮 ho gai hai. Thanks to understand 😊😊. Sir Mai apna dhaya khud rakhi hoon and not expecting anything and not even feeling others to be sensitive for me😅😅
@Rose-k5p9h
@Rose-k5p9h Жыл бұрын
You are right sir.. female bosses are worst for female employees.. I have faced same situation..she used to tell me to take pills and come to office 😑..its so inhuman for a woman herself to say that..the problem is that the women who don't face such extreme periods often considers it as an excuse or what's big deal in that as she is not going through this hell of pain, mood swings ..this is so sad that even other women are supporting this thing of handicap..its not about handicap..it is what it is..Thank you sir for touching such a sensitive topic🙏🙏 that women avoid to discuss..
@soumyaroshan8131
@soumyaroshan8131 Жыл бұрын
100% on point Appreciation and Gratitude 🙏
@shweta-dj5zp
@shweta-dj5zp Жыл бұрын
Sir aapne teacher se judi baat bilkul shi boli ....mujhe pura din khde rhna pdta h ....mera school gov h aur wha koi strict rule to nhi h ki hmesa khde hi rhna h ..fir bhi 60-110 bacche ek class me hote h to baithna impossible ho jata h ...jiski wajah se meri heels bhut dard hoti h ....kabhi bhi mera heel touch krti hun to unlimited dard hota h ....
@meenakshityagi9
@meenakshityagi9 Жыл бұрын
Yd..yes, absolutely amazing video, aapne jitna effort lagaya h video mei its commendable sir, people should listen and talk and do something for this,periods pain hurts a lot , to some females it varies but all in all its very difficult and irritating to work during that time, thank you for talking about this so nicely sir....
@AimCA2025
@AimCA2025 Жыл бұрын
YD.... What a women go through when her periods come Back pain Mood sewing Stomach cramps Lower body weakness Irritation Continue pain in stomach 24×7 in first 2 days (in my case) Have to go restroom in every 1-2 hr Feeling low mentally Feel very Emotional (eg. Crying) This is much needed topic. Every person should be aware about this before judging a women.. Like why is behaving like that, oh she is taking for granted.. Etc.
@sumantaneja733
@sumantaneja733 Жыл бұрын
YD- Amit ji, I am surprised..aapka analysis kitna gahra hai..you totally rock sir..aurat hi aurat ki sabse badi dushman hai 😢
@tejaswinijagadaleshinde2590
@tejaswinijagadaleshinde2590 Жыл бұрын
When I first joined my job my senior colleague told me nothing is worse than a female manager.. my first pregnancy was during covid first wave and I had to travel 150 km approx daily on bike and my manger ofcourse a lady who was also pregnant then refused to co operate which lead to complection.. after delivery i had applied for transfer near my home so when I went to HR.. she said you have to join as maternity leave is over.. I refused..she says everyone adjusts..l have children and I have also done the same so should you.. it's really true,really sir grateful for the video
@bhartiluthra482
@bhartiluthra482 Жыл бұрын
Sach mein mother and mother in law ko hi nhi samajh mein aata toh husband ke liye bhi yeh koi bdi baat nhi hoti........ you're great ki aapko exactly 💯 samajh mein aaya
@binuvarghese09
@binuvarghese09 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you come up with this topic on top of it thanks again for ur thought process n guts to initiate a discussion on this topic...n stumped to see why all the womens are not vocal against this minister they shud have protested against her
@nawandeepkalra4319
@nawandeepkalra4319 11 ай бұрын
Sir ji incredible. Every word is truth
@letsgovlogslifestyle
@letsgovlogslifestyle Жыл бұрын
periods ki taklif to sah li par bacchon ki education aur health se compromise karna mujhe pasand nahin aaya isiliye job mein bahut stuggle karna pada mujhe
@ruchainamdar748
@ruchainamdar748 Жыл бұрын
This video was empowering in so many way: 1. If i am in position of power in future, why will i hesitate to take decisions for women and because I'll understand the reason why i am refraining, i will at least not - not take them - for those reasons. 2. I havent asked many women in my life how their periods go. 3. I have seen no influencer telling men to talk to women in their lives about periods with such force.
@ruchika1002
@ruchika1002 Жыл бұрын
This is a need of hour. As a working woman I can relate every single point here. Use to take medicine on 1st day of my period & attend office. People in office are so insensitive towards situation even I heard men saying ohhh u are going on 6 month holiday. Men & women can never be equal but opportunities should be level played. I have a 3 yr old daughter & scared to grow her in such a society, how to explain & justify these discriminations at every level
@Sahiksha
@Sahiksha Жыл бұрын
You are real gem of society 🙏🏻
@nid2861
@nid2861 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking on this topic with thorough analysis and understanding. The government should hire you as a consultant.
@SumanSingh-wv4ue
@SumanSingh-wv4ue Жыл бұрын
Baat m bohot hi damm h aapki sir and logical topic bhi lia h aapne....yha mostly 3 din to every women ko rest chahiye. Mentality hi badal jati h shuru k 3 days to......pta nhi konse dunia m jana h sbko mahine k 30 din kaam krke.....ye BJP mhotrma ko jra bhi dimag nhi h....kuchh b nhi socha bolne se phle...shi m dushman hi hain mhilaaye aapas m...... please people come forward and talk about this topic
@AnoopKumar-sy5bn
@AnoopKumar-sy5bn Жыл бұрын
YD, very sensitive topic discussed with reality, practicality and in balanced view. All points from different aspects discussed with positive direction🙏 Salute for raising right cause,
@parulc85
@parulc85 Жыл бұрын
On point! Irritability, unexplained insecurity, bloating. I avoid any important decision making during my periods.
@JDevasena
@JDevasena Жыл бұрын
A relevant and important video that everyone needs to watch. I agree with all the points you made. The choice can be left to businesses but policies should be enacted so all workplaces need to offer some sort of alternative every month for women for a couple of days. A blanket 10-12 unpaid days can be offered annually ( restricted to 3 in any month) that women are free to take if they choose( similar to Japan?). Will benefit not just women but improve the country’s productivity. Better working conditions will keep women in the workforce.
@rimashah3901
@rimashah3901 Жыл бұрын
You are the godfather sir . Bringing so important topics which no one brings in light.
@naturalvillagelife2788
@naturalvillagelife2788 Жыл бұрын
Shukar hai kisi n teachrs ka dard samja , prgnant woman ka soch k bhi dar lagta hai ki kaisi 8 hrs standing pisition main kam karti hogi
@Hemmoniea
@Hemmoniea 11 ай бұрын
Sir, I am 23 years old and you are so good , most unbiased analyst clarity giver on this KZbin aap ek soch jagate ho ans nai dete
@SanguineSonam
@SanguineSonam Жыл бұрын
Great thing of you normalising this discussion. Thank you so much. Nai toh humare minister ne toh hume khuu me daal diya h. It’s a shame to see her saying such things
@simplesaluja4871
@simplesaluja4871 Жыл бұрын
Like toh bahut baar kari hai aapki videos but aaj dil se comment karne ka mann kiya Aapne jo baatein kari, ek ek baat saachi hai 1st and 2nd day pe har kisi ko problem hoti hai Ek point or add karna chahti hu ki agar period days mein toilets use karne ki option na mile ya toilet mein pani na ho toh or bhi problem hoti hai ladies ko, but kisi ko complain nhi kar sakte ,na complaint karne ki. Option hoti hai Jo aapne mandir na jaana etc( according to ayurved) baat ki usko elaborate jaroor karein kyuki hum sharm bhi karte hai kisi ko bataane mein and isko hygiene relate hi samajhte hai, iska koi or reason bhi hai ye hame nhi pata I'm a house wife but mere aaspaas kafi log( ladies, girls) bahar jaate hai is duraan unki problems yahi hai jo aap bta rahe ho. Even mujhe bhi kabhi kabhi is time period mein bahar jana ho toh problem hoti hai
@shivangi1315
@shivangi1315 Жыл бұрын
Thanku for raising this issue😢 My perception about men has changed I want to cry 😭
@manikyum
@manikyum Жыл бұрын
What was your perception about men
@homebeagleandmore4813
@homebeagleandmore4813 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely agreed...pain levels differ from women to women...and consideration is definitely required.
@urmilapatankar9505
@urmilapatankar9505 Жыл бұрын
Thank you amit ji for discussing this topic. More discussion required
@priyaraj4330
@priyaraj4330 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir ji for your support and awareness
@manjuBaalaa
@manjuBaalaa Жыл бұрын
So true sir, I really appreciate you raised this point. I feel such leaves should be granted.
@AllrounderIndies
@AllrounderIndies Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir god bless you all ladies will always be indebted to you for speaking on this topic
@archanamishra2275
@archanamishra2275 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir, very valid points. It is very true also subconsciously we women are only enemies of each other. As I felt bad when maternity leaves were increased from 3 to 6 months as I didn't received it. But now looking from new perceptive I understand and want to become a different person and observe my subconscious for any such bias
@JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat
@JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat Жыл бұрын
Rightly said sir 🙏
@bhartiparihar007
@bhartiparihar007 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to u sir. Whatever u said is 100% correct. We do suffer starting 2-3 days. All ur videos are very thought provoking. Thanku sir.
@PriyankaSharma-vo8to
@PriyankaSharma-vo8to Жыл бұрын
Maine phli baar aisa koi person dekha jo teachers ka dard samjhta h Kisi job main full time stand rahne ki majburi nhi hoti lekin teachers ko respected job hone pr bhi Stand rhne ki zarurat na hone pr bhi hr time hr roj stand hona hi pdta h Main teaching nhi krna chahti thi lekin girls k liye teaching k alava koi option hi nhi bachta job ka Parents allowed nhi krti kisi aur job k liye Aur pati bolte h k teaching sbse aasan job h Ab kisi ko kya smjhaya jaye k teaching ko ajkl kitna tough bna diya gya h Hr type ka pressure teacher ko jhelna hota h Syllabus Students behaviour Principal Coordinators School politics Parents Student's Record maintenance Poor students performance.... Question paper Correction work Result pressure... Etc 🤣🤣🤣
@Sigmaalphab
@Sigmaalphab 11 ай бұрын
Superb monologue
@SB-uc8ph
@SB-uc8ph Жыл бұрын
It makes sense 🎉 Its true ❤🎉 Dil se thank you so much ❤❤❤
@mousumichowdhury4435
@mousumichowdhury4435 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Guruji..🙏
@JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat
@JaiHind_SamruddhaBharat Жыл бұрын
Travelling during menstruation is worst experience and especially if they have to do household chores ,drop the kid at cresh and then travel in public transport then come to office n return back by train n work at home ,keep self and home extra clean during these days .. It's inhuman . especially in crowded cities . Some people are saying ancestors worked in farms .But that's false ,women were made to sit away so that they could take rest and were not disturbed by any issues at home and also alway from husband's demands . Our culture has always protected women in every best possible way . Unfortunately it's misinterpreted now . Women don't need to prove that they are equal .They should be treated equal . As such very few women are promoted in corporate jobs ,so let them atleast get leaves. The excuse that they won't be considered for promotion is not right . The company should have someone to replace women during those days .
@vijendersingh1537
@vijendersingh1537 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes 2 days are worst and sometimes all 5 days are worst. I think we women get atleast 2 days leave for each month.
@anvitanjay
@anvitanjay Жыл бұрын
Love you sango❤😊
@swaroopa4uable
@swaroopa4uable Жыл бұрын
I completely agree that schools need to provide teachers with chairs,it is so inhuman that they fo not get to sit even a few mins during entire class
@shailjagoel3
@shailjagoel3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much sir for raising this topic...its very important and much needed...By profession I am professor in a Govt college and relate to each and every word of yours...I am facing this problem since I was a school going girl.. taking that 2 days leave has always been a compulsion and I always used to do so...but being a student and taking leave from school or college was entirely different than being a teacher ...now i can't 😢.....the pain is same hell like experience but the situation has changed ...its the need of the hour that there must be sensitization for women and this issue and provision should be made for the same....and yes completely agree with yd too...thanks again...hope our cry and voice reaches at its destination soon ..🙏🙏🙏
@letsgovlogslifestyle
@letsgovlogslifestyle Жыл бұрын
I have 1 question sir, agar lady ka work time 6 ghante ka karen regular office mein to 2 ghatne mein khana aur bacche ke liye mil jaaye to desh ka future jyada sensible aur accha nahin hoga kya?? bacche hi future hain na desk ka fir to unke strong foundation ke liye ye 2 ghante kaam aa sakte hain ki nahin, main puri life job mein yahi struggle karati rahi aur bacchon ke future ke liye baar baar job chodati pakadti rahi,,,,,,,
@mayurakshi21
@mayurakshi21 Жыл бұрын
Rightly brought up.. 👍 First some days are hard and degree varies from woman to woman
@priyankabalwanshi4880
@priyankabalwanshi4880 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree sir ....plz share this with every one !!!!
@triptikmalhotra
@triptikmalhotra Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Sir for such a detailed picture about this issue. We as women suffer silently as if we tell our husband about our pain and issue we are forced to take medication and continue with our work.
@Akkulife8087
@Akkulife8087 Жыл бұрын
Sir I'm a working women and i also have history of painfull and worst period cycle. When i was a teenager i was not even able to move or sit comfortably on first two days of periods. I would also like to say something about people's mainly mens attitude towards women getting any facility or rules are makjng for them. i.e. 1. One of my male co worker said jao madam maje karo when i was leaving last day of my work before maternity leave. Do they think we do maje with a newborn with sleepless nights and stitches on our body. 2. If u came late people says inke to maje hain, bhaiya hm peeche se ghar bachcha aur bahut kuch manage karkr aa rahe hain road side khade hoke ciggerate nahi foonk rahe the. 3. I have heard many mens and boys talking with eachother bahut badhiya maja aa gaya dekh k inko bhi to pata chale k line me lagna kya hita hai, when they saw women in long metro line. Bhai tujhe kya maza aa gaya. Tu to abhi ja k nukkad pe ya chai k thele pe time pass karke ghar jayega womens ko to ghar ja ke khana bhi banana hai bachche bhi dekhne hain unko padhana bhi hai. Sir definitely sare sudhar mens ne hi lagoo kiye i agree but aise bhi log hain jinhe mahilao ko suvidha milti dekh k achcha nahi lagta.
@anjalirani5826
@anjalirani5826 Жыл бұрын
Sir maine apki puri video abhi dekhi nahi...usse pahle hi likhna rok rahi pae..apki ek ek word bilkul sahi hai..Im a female officer in a reputed Institute..Female boss is worst.
@GurujiFromGurugram
@GurujiFromGurugram Жыл бұрын
Thanks for feedback . Please Share this video
@nidhigupta3016
@nidhigupta3016 Жыл бұрын
My company provides a provision of sick leaves for both men and women which women are free to utilise for menstrual leaves too. And at the same time it provides men also opportunity to use same if they have health issues. This is how it should be and equal to everyone. Labelling it as menstrual leaves can cause discrimination while recruitment and promotions. Same is true for maternity leaves, am proud to say that my company provides equal paternity leaves in order to avoid this discrimination. No matter how much we debate as a human it’s somewhere in mind of leadership about the leaves women are entitled to take extra then men.
@friendshiprocks8673
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
Which company????
@bhavna1446
@bhavna1446 Жыл бұрын
So true. We have a colonial mindset and exploit employees. YD MOM JI EXPLOITED ME.
@SURESHKUMAR-oz4wy
@SURESHKUMAR-oz4wy Жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Leave provision or Work from home should be given on those days
@simibarman6994
@simibarman6994 Жыл бұрын
I am quite energetic. I mean I was. But as my monthly period would set in my energy level drastically changed. Bleeding used to be on the heavier side. I wished for some rest during those days. At least the first two days. I told many times at home. Finally I decided to remove my uterus when I was around 50 years of age. I wish I could avail some more paid leaves besides the casual leave. Removing uterus and its company is very painful emotionally. My heartfelt thanks to you for bringing this important issue to light. God bless you.
@aspirant9845
@aspirant9845 Жыл бұрын
Why u want paid leaves though, why not unpaid ??
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