Mental Brakes to Avoid Mental Breaks | Steven Hayes | TEDxDavidsonAcademy

How can we best deal with difficult or negative thoughts? Dr. Steven Hayes discusses language, cognition, and the science behind putting on the mental brakes.
Steven C. Hayes is Nevada Foundation Professor at the Department of Psychology at the University of Nevada. An author of 41 books and more than 575 scientific articles, he has shown in his research how language and thought leads to human suffering, and has developed "Acceptance and Commitment Therapy" a powerful therapy method that is useful in a wide variety of areas. His popular book "Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life" was featured in Time Magazine among several other major media outlets and for a time was the number one best selling self-help book in the United States. Dr. Hayes has been President of several scientific societies and has received several national awards, such as the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy.
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[@CableAnna]

Four years later I still remember the numbers 😂

[@rsalehin]

Tools for mental brakes:

[@smokymtpotpourri4760]

What a LOVING, CARING, & *BEAUTIFULLY-GIFTED speaker this man is!! I'm blown away by his ability to make such difficult & complex issues so easily understood! Those 30 years of dedication are some of

[@ninjettifire]

Self-help and Behavioral Health recovery 101: We are not our thoughts. Beautiful and illuminating speech. Thank you, Dr. Steven Hayes.

[@MTIvancic]

This Ted Talk from Steven Hayes is superb. I have seen similar talks where he is more engaging because it was personal, but this is the most useful one I have seen so far because he showed you (1) the powerful influence ( and science) of language, (2) the moment of that influence, and (3) multiple, practical ways of dealing with these events. I have never heard this explained so clearly in such a short period of time. If you are a scientist, notice the importance of RFT. If you are religious, notice there is more to what you notice than who you think you are. If you meditate, this is another way to consider what you have already noticed is quite important.

[@json7598]

Thank you for Acceptance Commitment Therapy (ACT). I tried various cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), but they did more harm than good in stressful situations. I ended up fusing my thoughts so often I trained myself to have general anxiety disorder and panic attacks. ACT and a few other things helped me reduce and eliminate panic.

[@onlyallegra]

My mom just died and I am beginning to burn out doing so much. I was skipping meals until I completed stuff and and tired from driving my dad around and dropping things off so we can cancel things. I am 35 but have a life that feels like a 60-year old. I put off doing laundry for so long that I started buying new items. No one dropped off food yet, and it has been a week since mom died. Local elections are Tuesday. My family flying from California aren't coming until later. And, my uncle's anniversary of his suicide is the day before mom's funeral this Friday. So much won't get done until I do it, but I might have help later. But, I cannot push it all off because I have no idea when my brothers are flying from California. They won't come until the tickets are the cheapest. They can't afford hotels and plane tickets, so they will stay with us. I am having to make room.

[@BriansImaginarium]

ACT enables me to live the life I want. Thank you Steven for all your research and work. It's literally been life-changing.

[@maxhalliwell]

hi Steve I followed your link and watched this and did the exercise at the end and I wept with relief. thank you. the power of the internet, I would have had to travel miles and pay a therapist a mucho dinero to get anywhere near what I experienced. today is the day in my life that I know I have found the right path, thank you from the bottom of my heart my friend.

[@naranjasss]

you re changing my life, Steve. And my patients` too (I m a psychotherapist). Thank you.

[@jasonsands5881]

I just finished reading Dr Hayes book A Liberated Mind. Good stuff. I’m already using the tools to tackle my anxiety.

[@drcunda1]

Very beautiful, down-to-earth presentation by a wise guy 🍀👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 thank you Steve.

[@JENK9TRAINER]

Thank you. This helps a lot with my panic disorder. I watched Psychological Flexibility first and then this one and I feel hope. I have always hidden my injured child away - shaming her for her weakness, but after watching, I sat back and listened. I looked at a picture of myself as a child, closed my eyes - and embraced her. I felt her tears on my cheeks; her pain in my heart. When I was 13 (over 30 years ago years ago) I wrote:

[@gayliajohnston1991]

Oh my goodness. I cried through most of that. Thank you for doing the thing. And what a storyteller you are too.

[@UrbanFoxalicious]

I LOVE this TED talk so much...I’ve seen it so many times. I love the ideas in it and also how it’s presented; Steven is knowledgeable, kind, and funny. Thank you for posting :)

[@vrd5911]

Genius! Thank you Dr. Hayes for your inspiring talk! Fighting with anxiety i can tell coming onto practice is not as easy as it sounds but does do the work... Thats how our mind worka indeed from time to time and thats when we have to put the breaks on! It scares me a bit that ita a lifetime journey though (thats my mind speaking now) but i hope i can turn my life towards values and volunteerism where i think i find happiness most otherwise without my panic attacks i would be intersted in just being a modern way of life fashion victim! Thank you again Dr..

[@kbaccari88]

I've watched this twice already. So righteous.

[@taslimtharani31]

Thanks Steve! Awesome metaphors, wonderfully expressed in such a short time frame! Very impactful!

[@gc7234]

love Steven already

[@SA-mp5vs]

Best talk! Thank you Dr. Steven Hayes.