Mental State Check: Growing Up, Stress, Enjoying Gaming, and A Peace of Mind

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[@runNthings]

Just in time, was just in deep thought and realized I’ve been looking to enjoy gaming for awhile now, idk what it is but gaming isn’t fun to me anymore. And I feel like I’ve been chasing that feeling I had as a kid but it’s just not there. Life is just overwhelming I feel like the gaming for me personally is an unhealthy escape from just life. Ima gamer for life. But just the amount of games that are out is overwhelming. I love your channel bro keep doing what you’re doing

[@TheGamer2323]

something I've come to realize as an adult is play games *AT YOUR OWN PACE.* Life can sometimes be throwing a ton of different things & emotions at you at once and trying to keep up with all the latest games, beat them, then play the next one in like a month can get exhausting and make you not even appreciate the game. It's one of the things I struggle with at times *ESPECIALLY* as a content creator. It's all about balancing your time, and in take of what you want to play. Its why I feel we appreciated every game we got when we were younger. They were harder to come by, didn't have access to as many, so we appreciated every one more. All that as an adult is just magnified x100

[@JonBlack413]

Same here there are so many games coming out and games that I haven’t played yet that it’s becoming overwhelming to keep up. I can only imagine how someone whose in a relationship with kids can still game on a consistent basis.

[@Natureboy8383]

@@TheGamer2323 💯

[@yipperdeyip]

It always goes through fases in my experience. Life and your goals have to be in check, you've got to be settled a bit before gaming can be fun again

[@Babynate1000]

Honestly I think simulation games are made for the adults.a quick pick up and play. RpGs def not for us

[@OKBZERO]

Hope Jeremy & everyone in the comments is doing good! Hope ya have a good sunday.

[@MSCLeap75]

Being in my early 30s, I realized that stressing and complaining is a huge waste of time & energy that I could spend being productive & bettering myself. I'm learning to just ignore life issues and just move on with my day to try to get as much done as possible which always makes me feel good.

[@Matt-sf4hi]

Starting to realize this at 23. The sooner we realize this the better. Better late then never my friend.

[@b-41subject57]

I tend to dwell on things. Im trying to learn to not mind the small bull s@@@ lol

[@IISG93II]

You all got this. You can get through anything, men. 💪

[@beanwizzle15]

It's crazy how just meeting up with friends and going out and talking to new people is really what life is all about and what makes me the most happy. And creating a family. We aint any different than a pack of gorillas forreal

[@TheGamer2323]

😂😂 that’s facts tho lol

[@SonofLynn06]

I’m currently 16 and I don’t have to start adulting yet but I started my first job last month but you are the realest mother trucker on here I’ve seen talking about adulting and a real gamer to look up too so i thank you you help me to prepare for this world. So thank you - Noah.

[@bowlesmovement08]

Yea enjoy your youth while u can lol

[@FullMetalZilla]

@@bowlesmovement08😐

[@A1NSTiNCT]

No matter what life throws at you, always remember to stay positive and keep moving forward. You all are strong and capable of anything you set your mind to. Believe in your fucking selves! Have a great day and continue pushing!

[@b-41subject57]

Thank you for this.

[@jamaldavis1352]

Thank you I appreciate it

[@Alex-vv5tj]

I’m at the point in life where I enjoy these videos more than any gaming content related vids you make not to say I don’t enjoy your gaming vids but I enjoy these heart to heart conversations more

[@jerimiahsaiah]

Tryin' to take it a day at a time. That balance is important. A peace of mind is key.

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

Agree 💯 %

[@migueljr501]

These mental state videos literally drop at the perfect time man. I got a lot on my mind. My future and self improving is on my mind constantly. I learned that the phrase “oh you got time” is bullshit. We need to have that sense of urgency. And that’s what stressing me out. Achieving greatness is all I’m tryna do, and I wanna do it asap. Please do these often

[@samuelnjuki8421]

I definitely needed this vid right about now. I have just been going through mentally maturing and its good to hear other people's issues - not just to put into perspective how blessed I am to not be facing the worst but also to see how other people handle their issues. I'm 21 turning 22 this year and I know it sounds crazy considering how young I am but I'm really getting stressed thinking about the future and my life. I've generally been a person who worries way ahead than they should so I worry all the time even now when I should be really relaxed and living one day at a time. I've just never been like that. So this year specifically has hit me hard with the realization of life going on for others while I feel like I remain stagnant. These kinds of videos really help me put my head back on the ground and chill so thank you.

[@hero41109]

Yeah, I agree with you the older you get the harder it is for gaming that’s why I like to go to the gym and of course having my job helps me stay more busy

[@aLoneFox19]

This adulting phase is NOT it…one of the dumbest things I said was I can’t wait to be an adult. Yeah…that was goofy ah take, lol. But things are just so different and we’re definitely not going back. Stuff’s just so out of whack with this world it’s insane. On another note, I personally wish I could have discovered you a little sooner Gamer. I forget how I found you and this channel but yeah, regardless I’m happy to have found you when I did. You’ve put me on to so many games and music through your streams. Again sorry for not popping in as much as I have in the past, life’s been a bit outta control. But 🙌🏼 we’re gonna be alright!

[@TheGamer2323]

Much love sista fox. Stay up ❤️❤️

[@danteshollowedgrounds]

Well said about the adult part lol

[@JosephWitty]

Definitely know the feeling 🙁💯 People think this life sh*t is a game and its not. Stay up my brother and keep striving!

[@dwightsmith9716]

I just failed a test in med school for the first time and probably got the lowest grade in my entire class. Was feeling miserable but this vid honestly cheered me up, just need to control what I can, thanks man.

[@2Kool4Hyrule]

I'm studying computer science and I just did my final exam and I feel like I absolutely flunked it...really depressed rn too but just gotta keep goin'. We got this.

[@dwightsmith9716]

@@2Kool4Hyrule thanks man, i actually passed my last test of the year yesterday. Officially an ms2! Keep grinding bro and wishing you the best of luck

[@2Kool4Hyrule]

@@dwightsmith9716 That's awesome dude, congrats! Thanks man, and all the best to you too!

[@illumeni]

Recently I came out of a really hard break-up that was nearly the end of me. Been having a stoic mindset lately and just chasing that best version of myself and honestly I've never felt more content or confident. Glad to know you been good Jeremy.

[@Gxbbzee]

"Things can always be so much worse" is the exact mindset I have now and it works wonders. Just thinking of small things I'm grateful for throughout the day really grounds me. A lot of people have comfier lives than almost anyone else in any given point in history.

[@b-41subject57]

People are definitely meaner these days. Alot of adults who never developed mentally and are just rude and unpleasant to be around. I stay to myself at work. Im grateful for my small group of friends and girlfriend.

[@echos9396]

Honestly man, as a man that goes through mental health issues myself I really appreciate these types of videos. Shows the human in you and you should do more of them. Much love man and stay safe out there.

[@bowlesmovement08]

I agree with everything u said in this video. From going from a 10 yr relationship ending to my mom having a stroke within 6 months..yea its been rough. So yea I understand and living with bs everyday. Just take it 1 day at a time. Thats all we can do at this point😊

[@b-41subject57]

1 day at a time brother. Please take care.

[@BillySpenc]

Life can always get better but you gotta keep going even if you don't feel it, you have to for yourself.

[@das-jakku.]

not doing da best but these uploads never fail to brighten my day. keep chasing yourself 10 years from now, brotha jeremy!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@originalguero]

Mental health is actually good this year so far 🙏

[@ThugNinja]

💯💯💯

[@felixnascimento7045]

Your viewer from Ukraine here. THere is nothing more valuable than a human life. Until you are breathing there is a way out. Just do your best and keep pushing. Be thankfull for having peace above your heads bc its a blessing.

[@TheGamer2323]

appreciate your comment a lot man. So sorry for what's going on over there for you guys :( try to remain strong and know we have you in our prayers

[@Elix1rify]

In this with you man, been following for years. We’re sadly living in a empathy crisis. Keep on keeping it real bro! your laugh still cracks me up lol

[@zman8164]

We love you gamer. Stay strong and stay healthy family

[@tornizzythegreat749]

We two different people, yet I feel like we living the same lives brotha. Just know that you’re not alone. You got fans like me who understand and appreciate you bro. keep pushing forward❤️🤝🏾

[@finalkill44]

Shoutout from Texas . My gamer I been thinking the same thing . I am in my late 20s and I can tell you . Life from hi school to today has been one big dummy thick action adventure game of life that I think by now has made me reevaluate and rethink a whole Lotta things in life . I’ve watched some of my friends get into worse outcomes . And nowadays I’m just focused on myself being a better person on all fronts leveling up my skill tree so to say . And counting my wins wherever I can . The grind is no joke . It’s good to know I’m not the only one out there thinking the same thing as you are been watching you since 2013 a.k.a. the last of us lol love you buddy

[@godssalvation87]

I really appreciate these type of videos that you have created. I suffered lead poison as a child an i been suffering mentally for 23 year at this point an started to give up on life. But i been trying to find some peace in my mind, body an spirit. But it good to see theres people like you an others who go thru the same mental issue but finding ways to escape this stuff. I really thank you for these videos.

[@ebuggs212]

Maaaan the timing of this video. You speak in this vid as if you're reading straight threw me. Really appreciate the reminder of sonder. I can hear the wisdom that's grown in you from life and take that to heart. God Bless🙏

[@TheGamer2323]

Keep your head up my brotha ❤️🙏🏾

[@stepmack35]

I find the older I get the more I dislike social media (I was never that huge on the idea of social media to begin with) I feel like social media has cause more harm to society than good. I feel you on how fast life goes. It's like once you're done with college life just starts to speedrun itself lol. It's crazy. And I also make sure I try not to take the little things in life for granted. I feel the stress and overthinking thing too. I need to remember that about worrying about the things you can control.

[@KeepingItFishy]

Always love these talks, just got back from my first ROAD TRIP, really needed that getaway! Got my license this year, rented a vehicle and took to the road! 800miles round trip. So proud of myself. Staying stress free

[@DialgaReaper]

I’m 22, and I needed this video. Thank you

[@tamago2474]

Appreciate you bro!

[@ShounenHeroEX]

Man I'm thankful I still have a good group of friends since high school.

[@hcmlm19951]

Bro your character and integrity the fact that you flaws and you don't care makes your channel successful

[@czrmalone4441]

My sister is not doing so well, y’all please please pray for her, she’s in the hospital for liver problems 🥺

[@TheGamer2323]

best wishes to your sister and family my brotha 🙏

[@czrmalone4441]

Thank you brotha!! We just went to see her, she’s doing better today 👌🏾

[@b-41subject57]

I hope she will be ok. Sending a prayer

[@fab1279]

Thank you for dropping this video man. I been going through some stuff lately. This motivated by a lot and made me feel hella better.

[@ML-ze1ji]

7:18 I can relate 100%. When I play all day I feel bad for some reason

[@Zee140.15]

Currently watching right now, but man wanted to let you know I've been trying to keep my head up, staying positive, and continuing to work hard! Your vids have been helping out a ton man, appreciate your content!! It's true what they say once childhood is over, you really appreciate the old days 🙏 keep up the positivity Jeremy, and I cannot wait for that 2023 Twitch Comp! - ZeesTwitchin

[@IGeorgeMakar89]

ye as a kid we didn't have to deal with stress or worries about the future although even as a kid I was different. As an adult there feels so much pressure to get your life together. As someone with depression and anxiety, I've never had my life together. Everyday is hell inside ur mind. I wish people were more accepting but even at work I'm treated like a ghost for no reason just because I'm an introvert. People don't realise how much their ignorance and demeanour towards someone can affect them, they're so narrow minded to comprehend that someone could actually be dealin with stuff behind closed doors as we all have a story to tell, this is what's wrong with society.

[@koltonsteel]

That settles it. We need Biking with the Gamer. Been watching you for years bro, keep up the great work!

[@tomwylie9298]

A lot of this hit home Jeremy, I got out of a relationship a few months ago and I’m at an age where all of my friends are in serious ones. Suddenly my weekends are just me Gaming by myself, not because I want to but because there isn’t much else I can do. All I feel like I have sometimes is my job, but now that I have this money I have no one to spend it with or on. It sucks but this video really helped. A lot of what you were talking about especially the stress section made me think. “Worry about the things you can control” that’s great advice. Thank you

[@TreSwayy]

Become a passport bro.

[@b-41subject57]

​@@TreSwayy whats a passport bro?

[@TreSwayy]

@@b-41subject57 Collect a big bag, get passport, and hit RD, Colombia, Thailand. Or somewhere out of US. Meet someone, or enjoy countless thots

[@7_philk]

Yeah I’m making sure I don’t let depression get me anymore 22 finish my GED go into the military get myself together Boxing Acting I’m not wasting no more time God bless y’all hope your 2023 is great!

[@Redheadkingpin27]

That's true the respect is gone and ppl forgotten the love of ppl and using there heads

[@rud3b0ygaming]

So very true about meeting people. Back during university days you'd meet classmate's or random peeps on campus or at events. But once I graduated and started working my circle became the friends I stayed close with but the only new people that come into my life are mostly from coworkers or people you meet at activities like I play football (soccer) so I've met a few people from that. Cheers for always doing these chief, and yeah people on the internet now be taking those behaviours into the real world 😂 it's hilarious. Keep up the great work as 👊🏿

[@markese8683]

I don’t why but I’ve grown to like this series all ❤jeremy

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

So helpful

[@beanwizzle15]

I love you gamer. Keep ya head up ya got a good head on your shoulders brotha. Your time will come.

[@GeeFamous92]

Bro dead ass I've been watching you for 10 plus years nows, I'm 30 going on 31 this year. It's crazy when I think about gaming, I use to put hours and hours into gaming, nowadays I have to find balance. I get out the house work on my cars, suv. I've been building things and just taking on new things in life. My family and kids are growing. It's been a crazy ride but I'm still pushing on. I hope you're well and feeling good brotha. Your videos truely make me happy when watching, just letting you know. Appreciate you 100%

[@chisha8415]

16:20 I've recently moved to a village on the outskirts of town and one thing I've noticed is people are a lot friendlier the further away from the city you are

[@mdg]

Can relate to what you’ve said here so much. I’ve been watching your channel since 2016. Now I’m 23 and life is just kicking my ass. University is a struggle due to the travel and money constraints, job wise things are still the same. The world is scary and I’ve been feeling more and more lonely the last two years now. Your channel genuinely makes my days a bit better. Can’t ever turn away from a Gamer video. Gaming as a whole is the only thing that really keeps me the happiest aside from when I actually do go out to see my friends. Thank you for that, Jeremy

[@onlywiigame.]

I’m going through the same thing Jeremy was right things do change

[@joppekim]

I'm good but things are getting really expensive here in Europe. It does raise some anxiety, but i'm just trying to enjoy the moment as much as i can.

[@Perseus5]

I just got an apartment in Colorado Springs and it will be my first time living by my self. It’s going to be tough but im glad i have a supportive family whenever i need help financially. And to just have around when im down.

[@TheGamer2323]

good stuff brotha. keep doing your thing

[@danteshollowedgrounds]

Hey man well thanks for sharing and yeah I don't like a lot of things but it's the little stuff that counts and that I'm thankful for in life.

[@glory2yah51]

This was a wonderful video,man! Seriously. We all need to hear a message like this. I enjoy watching you stream as well.

[@wewumboyouwumbo2438]

You’re videos always help me put so much dude. I just wanted to thank you. I’ve been on the verge of blowing my brains out and your videos help me push the the depression.

[@razzprince2877]

Ngl I miss the old intro (even though I like the new one). I've been repeating that intro to myself since high school.... I'm 28 now 🤣 good to get old with you Gamer

[@parlin12]

love these check up videos bra

[@swiz437]

Just turned 50 and still trying to figure out what life is about 😊😊😊

[@TheGamer2323]

We never stop falling on our face and learning from our mistakes brotha

[@TheJeffjoseph92]

One of the realist vids bro appreciate you talking about it.Definitely know how you feel especially when it comes to gaming family etc. Just keep sane is a feet these days I ain’t gonna lie

[@kofius]

Jeremy I’ve seen you grow through the years you’re doing just fine bro! A true inspiration

[@thatssotubby]

I constantly overthink and question my existence at times, but these videos help me realize that I’m not alone. There’s some really bad ppl out there but there’s some really good ppl out there as well like u Jeremy. And those are the kind of ppl who keep me going. Dnt let anyone tell u who u are, u ultimately decide how u feel and act. Hope everyone stays strong and keeps pushing forward. It’ll be worth it ❤

[@shanestalker8872]

Love you too Jeremy thanks for the advice and yes I’m trying to be best version of myself

[@DurrellDT_]

I've felt that. So true regarding the twenties flying by.

[@humblebeast9813]

What doesn’t kill you shall make you stronger. Whether it be physically, mentally, or emotionally. It’s likely you will have more bad days then good days in your life, as negativity will always be more present than positivity, but that’s what life is. Gotta go through the bad days to get to the good ones, then you actually appreciate the good days a lot more.

[@LohxLoh]

Peace and love Jeremy I will always appreciate you for helping me in my darkest of days. God bless you and just know I’m always wit you bro.

[@NikkoKnight703]

I love when you do vids like this

[@whywegame70]

Been watching you for years bro your videos get me through I appreciate ya

[@Ollyb2106]

Hey Jeremy, I just want to let you know that I appreciate you making this video so much because it resonates a lot with what I’m going through right now. I feel trapped in a lot of ways; in a job which I absolutely despise which is making me miserable but I’m actively looking for a new one, there’s family drama at home which creates a tense atmosphere and I struggle with self esteem in general. I’m looking after myself in whatever way I can which is putting energy into working out at the gym mainly so I can get out the house and making plans with friends so I have something to look forward to. As a long time subscriber, your videos have me helped tremendously over the years in giving me escapism from my problems in life and being able to have a laugh. So I really hope you’re doing okay yourself, we all care about you.

[@HBKScottiee]

I remember , when I watched you when I was in 8th grade when you unboxing ps4 , cause I wanted one baddddd. Now I’m a senior in college 24 smh 🥺 coming back to you bring memories hope everything is well fam!

[@ChristopherToro]

Yeeaaahh that new Adult patch needs some more work. 😅 I can see why my parents had so many complicated relationships. Life around adults is just so much pressure and stress, living on my own for around 7 years was the best and worst thing. It’s definitely scary and stressful. At the end of the day we all struggle, these videos help me get through my week/month knowing somebody else has these troubles too. Stay strong and stay safe.

[@zamo1087]

Yep, i started watching you when you were my age and now I'm your age.... Bro life is crazy

[@nicholasdoucet673]

Been watching you for years, I love your content. I can relate when you were talking about how miserable it can feel if you game all day. It actually started to make me feel depressed and I realized it was holding me back from accomplishing things in life. So I took a year off from gaming and realized how much more time I was giving myself to work on specific things in my life. Now I’m at the point where I’ve completely desensitized myself from gaming and when I try to go back and play I can’t get more then a half hour in without wanting to do something else with my time.

[@MackCruz28]

Thank you for this video Jeremy I needed this 🙏 prayers up to you brother

[@SCHDH77]

I really love your mental health check vids so much. They give me a perspective check every time and especially with the difficulties I have to deal with on a daily basis. Adult phase be tiring as hell most times. I hope you and everyone in chat have a great rest of the year.

[@dead_marker377]

So far this year has been really testing. In the first 3 months so far I’ve lost my dog, my uncle, and I’ve moved back to my parents house to save money. I’ve been going through easily one of the hardest times of my life rn but I’m hoping everything in my life will be better and positive soon. Hope all you suckas are doing good and I hope y’all achieve y’all’s goals soon.❤

[@bowlesmovement08]

Keep your head up playa

[@b-41subject57]

Hope you are doing well. Please take care.

[@carnage3208]

Man you be spittin so much facts Jeremy lol definitely has been interesting growing up with you and the channel. Started following you when I first started college back in 2016. Now I'm on the tail end of college today and I'm 25 now. I haven't quite hit that "real world" phase yet but I can see it on the horizon lol with that being said these past 2 years I've worked extremely hard on myself and its been great. Today I feel like the best me I've ever been. So while adulting can be scary, I wouldn't wanna go back to the past because I know that was a lesser version of myself that had no idea what he was doing. I'm so smarter now

[@TheSlayerV1]

Jeremy is one of the realest YTubers out there. Appreciate these type of vids. Reminds us that we are not alone in our situations. Stay up brothers

[@ricardobelmont5984]

Always enjoy these updates. You are right on friendship part. You be seeing folks and thinking, "this person will destroy my peace of mind."

[@Redheadkingpin27]

I know man at 39 almost 40 year feels like the mess around us feels like a bad movie or game holy crap hold on yall stay calm and strong

[@danteshollowedgrounds]

Real talk man you've got to have some kind of balance in something you love to do etc.

[@stevenrobinson7827]

Thanks for taking the time out to look out for us man. Appreciate it.

[@zayzo-k3v]

Yea I thought about getting martial arts classes learning to defend myself

[@rubenr5649]

When I was 19 years old my family got hit with some hard ass times. I was the only person working in the house. I was working damn near 70 hours a week. Just so we can pay all the bills. I felt like shit especially seeing my friends go on trips, go to school, driving new cars. Felt like I was missing out on a lot. But I managed to get a better paying job saved money went to trade school. Which helped me a lot financially. It was tough our situation lasted about 3 years. All I can say for anyone struggling with anything is to keep fighting. Cuz at the end you going to come out a stronger and better person.

[@undergroundvgt]

i think its the opposite for me. as a adult i didn't have time to game as much and recently started to find the time to play. also i think people started to realize that most people aren't really happy with themselves so why bother even adding new miserable people to your life? as kids it was easier to meet friends because of your surroundings but most of those people were only situationships. i decided to go back to college to finish and i found out that if i wasn't in this class with these people they probably wouldn't even speak to me on the outside. protecting your peace and being healthy is the most important things as an adult. if you have good people in your life then u are lucky. as for me I'm my own best friend and I'm cool with that.

[@rodneywilliams6954]

These kinds of videos are sooooo important. Keep making great content man.

[@brunobb1]

Agree with the gaming as an adult topic. I usually game like 2 hours after dinner before going to bed and I feel like it's a system that really works for me; I have time to go to the gym, rehearse with my band and be with my girlfriend. When I try to game during the day I rarely really enjoy myself as opposed to gaming in short but consistent bursts.

[@gregski2514]

Checkn in from cali dawg much love bra

[@kadabur]

Love these type of videos

[@LordSiah]

I ain't going to hold you bro as I keep trying to pursue this music and all of that and mean you know it's struggling and I love the process and all I've gotten way better at My craft yk but man do I hate existence I just don't like breathing sometimes you know and being a 18 no college just working and coming home and working on the goals as well I guess I was just hoping when I got out of highschool these feelings of offing myself would go away and I keep having these bouts with my brain that is telling me to just keep going and keep doing what you doing but then in my feelings in my gut I'm just like why don't we just jump off a bridge on some real shit But I keep dancing with pain and with the struggles of life and I'm not even a hundred percent an adult yet if I'm being honest with you man the only thing that has been keeping me alive especially in the last two months literally just been my music..... Can I please have that beat at the end of your videos cuz for like the few years I've been watching you still I can make some craziness with that lol 😂😂

[@nVdarrius]

love these check up videos, nice lil switch up once in while 🐐

[@sheriffshereef]

I'm totally on the same page in life right now! It's time to lock in

[@GameFreak4Ever]

J I'm happy for you. I totally hear you when you say a lot can be going on. Only worry about what you can control. That's it. (I'm 44 years old and those words can't be more true.)

[@chriss8070]

Your fam watching this 👀 wishing you the best man, have been watching you for years, you're a real one! 😌 Greetings from Germany, Chris

[@shaunsaddler]

I feel you bro great content. Year has been pretty good and stable for me personally and job is productive. Better than a few years ago.

[@katanamack]

Amen Brother.. Been watching your content for years and years. You’re so right. The real world is a trip. Plus things are so different these days. You can’t say anything. Cold world.

[@zayzo-k3v]

Hell yea I just started skating with my cousins recently they the one got me into it it’s crazy that I go every week now with them

[@theoriginalfat]

We love you too Jeremy... greetings from Costa Rica Bro 😎

[@millionaire25]

I like these type of topics from you 💯

[@DLPTHE2ND]

I really appreciate these videos and your honesty. People need to hear this. Sending positive energy to you and your family.

[@danteshollowedgrounds]

13:07 Oh yeah and I feel like that coming in along with time or like my folks use to say or like everyone's folks and grandparents would say is that you will learn in due time, keep living, or simply that you'll understand when you get older and like sometimes those things don't really click for you until you get older passed that age and then like you finally realize wtf they were saying and all of that.