Message to the Divine Feminine from DM "PLEASE🙏 drop your guard so I can find my way in"

[@hannahsaurusssx3]

Something big is about to shift. I can feel it.

[@queenofclovers]

Very big shift.

[@nikolett8129]

I can feel it too.

[@lost_age]

hannahsaurusssx3 me and my sister both have notived this to

[@sinceresong9907]

I'm consciously guarded! It's his time to be patient with me.

[@marilynnmelissa2664]

Cut off my DM yesterday. Really didnt want to but I felt like I had to because he’s still with the third party and I need to heal from our separation. I need to focus on myself and heal from all this pain 😔 I didnt close the door completely, I’ll still be here if he ever decides to be serious and fix things but for now, Im withdrawing and keeping my distance. He’s hurting me too much

[@GRACEABERDEAN01]

Marilynn Melissa hold space for the relationship and come into balance with you

[@colorfulforesight]

Focus on your inner dm and df instead at this time.

[@zmd9799]

I feel this is me aswell 😴

[@spiritualgrowth8846]

I did the same thing. Hardest part is we have been friends for over 20 yrs. his wife’s sister is dying of cancer and only 40. She has been sick for 4 yrs and is near the end 😞. I know he would never leave during any of this. So I felt the need to let him go I so didn’t want too. I know he loves me but I just can’t continue feeling hurt all the time. Killing me inside I feel I abandoned him. What is with that?

[@heatherhoover7818]

@@spiritualgrowth8846 he may be the one feeling that, its just that you two are still very much connected.

[@ShivaniGrail]

Guard is down. Soft yummy 😋 heart ❤️ wide open. Very peaceful- don’t know where the anxiety and impatience has gone. Sitting and basking. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@AnasCreativeCorner]

Thank you for this message. Because I myself also do not feel guarded...so this message threw me off a bit. But I'll keep looking within to see if I've missed anything, lol.

[@divinelyempathic5696]

That will make all 3 of us then ☺️ I as well did not feel guarded neither. Well, my guard is down. What feels better next?

[@misserene]

Same here 😊

[@jackylobergier3768]

And number 5!

[@RLDRemembrance]

So true!! I don’t know where that anxiety and longing went for me either, as of like 10 days ago I felt completely different

[@angelaartist6263]

Yes extremely guarded towards her. Tired of not knowing not wanting to feel it anymore. I am amazed how spot on.

[@matthewhill6824]

I read some comments in here. I wanted to emphasize that there is a HUGE difference between telling a loved one to let their guard down and move toward their authentic self, and making comparisons of where you are and where they are. If you are looking down on a loved one, there’s something in you that you didn’t learn. Nobody needs to be perfect and then the relationship works out. It’s not a competition. I think it’s just about opening up and coming forward as an open and present in each and every relationship you value. Keep moving forward in flow if you think you’re in flow and the other party isn’t. Send them positive communication, but stop putting your desires on them. Abraham Hicks talks of this in a way I thought was perfect. Stop over analyzing the past and the future and just put your boat in the river from right where you are and go with the flow (of your heart, your true heart and not the overthinking and overwhelmed brain because it will get in step and align to your intuition and heart). If you’re a writer and have writers block, you don’t just keep writing and hope it goes away. You get up. You get out of your head. You go do something your heart gets joy from. THEN you can create and the thoughts flow again. You don’t go yell at your partner that they are the reason for your writers block. Lol Hope this was helpful.

[@qladyx9849]

Well said Matthew, I knew when I started to feel jeolous there was something wrong. So I to step back and reevaluate myself to understand what's wrong with me that I feel this way. I think I get jeolous because I see him posing with people and they get to be near him and with him and I don't.

[@czechaboo]

woke up in the middle of the night in my timezone, brawling my eyes out, as yesterday and monday i’ve been heart aching - losing most faith/belief towards my DM through recent 3D events... so woke up (brawling and catching my breath) to your video. almost creepy it’s so spot on. thank you.

[@anjalivs4517]

Yes, my DM is back and I could clearly see how guarded I was today. I felt very uneasy all day and I could not understand what happened to me suddenly. After back home and having huge cry and I now remembered your message. And while crying, clearly got message that it was all for my past relationship. Wherein I could not stand and protect myself, was a people pleaser with low self esteem and those wounds are stopping me from opening my heart. But in my heart of heart, I know I won't let DM go this time. I release and let go of all past for I deserve to be loved. Thank you Erika for all your support and wisdom.🙏🏼

[@fionawebb1893]

111 comments after deciding to do more work on my inner feminine energy. 👌

[@anajung8420]

OMG!!! Thank you so very much, Erika!!! I know exactly what it is now. And this new command (I work with thetahealing- we get into theta state and give commands to energetic shifts) popped up in my messages - I will do it now and want to share if anyone else wants to do that: "Spirit, God, source, universe, whatever you call it, I command that all drama, shock and trauma related to THIS event and THIS person, in all times, past, present or future, be completed, released and sent to the light of God, and substituted for unconditional love". I believe that it is a great time to do this releasing. ❤🙏

[@theartsyintuitive]

Guard has been down..actually the past weeks ive reached a new level of detachment and surrender Interestingly he started communicating with me nearly every day!!! Hes showing appreciation of our connection

[@spiritualbalance3297]

So true. He came forward with a public apology on social media

[@RealLadi228]

Took my power back for the last and final time...focus is on me myself and I No more crumbs the whole loaf or keep it moving this lesson eliminated all of my body aches and pains...I'm grateful! Codependency no more if you are physically and emotionally unavailable there is no alignment for our connection...#3rdparty Thanks DM🥰

[@allisonleafay2361]

I hadn’t even watched this video until today, but I was feeling all these energies last night. I came to the conclusion that I wasn’t being as open with him as I thought I was and he has shown me nothing but love and acceptance and patience, and it helped me realize that I’ve been keeping some walls up. I thought he was being guarded with me, but it was actually me that was. So I communicated all this to him last night and he made me feel so loved and comforted. I have a lot of fear in my life that I’m working through and he’s helped bring down those barriers with grace and I definitely feel a major major shift in a positive direction. 😘

[@katharazz5163]

These readings are undeniably so accurate for my life. I have abundance I'm building and I have been guarded but we are in connection finally in the 3D since June and He is asking me out to eat a lot and it's as if he knows he is edging out the guard I have up. My inner masculine is working on connecting with my feminine in total harmony and it's such a blessing that both abundance and my DM are headed my way but it's a lot sometimes for me all at once which creates (FEAR). Thankful my DM is truly helping our situation and my inner masculine is so ready (materials and education) I'm ready because my abundance ties into helping the collective feminine, my abundance is my purpose. LOL... writing this comment as you said "Arc Angel Michael says, write it". Your readings have had deep meaning for my journey. I just returned from dinner with my DM again. And, not kidding you at all, (wouldn't want that karma) as we were eating I was thinking, he keeps asking me out in close range of days to break through some of the guard. Yea... he's still working on his inner feminine too but he talks to me through the songs he purposefully plays. Yes, I'm thankful he is finally here. Thankful for Spirits lovely guidance so very much and Thank you Erika for being Spirits divine tool for both the DM and DF!!!!

[@misserene]

I feel he is afraid … I don't think I'm guarded, at least much less guarded than I've ever been before. But then again, it's a work in progress. There are still residues of fear, naturally I would say, but I'm not shutting him out. I'm embracing both of us. I finally got my courage up about ten days ago and wrote him a message and said not to be afraid to contact me if and when he wanted. Since then I've felt peaceful and I felt he was happy to get that message. I was in a more guarded mode for a day or two, thinking "this will never happen" and yesterday I got a message in a reading here on KZbin that he had decided to leave … But I feel peaceful again now and I feel it will turn around in time and I will just continue my own healing, I am in hermit mode right now. I wrote a lot when I was on vacation recently, and many shifts happened there. I will get my journal and write right now, thank you!

[@maryanderson611]

Can feel your heart. I am praying you two come together with as much ease as possible. You love him...it is strong in your words. I'm on my own TF journey so Namaste and rooting for us both.

[@misserene]

@@maryanderson611 thank you for that lovely comment 💗 I'm rooting for you and your TF too!

[@donnamichelle4294]

This has resonated. I vacillate btw being open hearted and being fearful bc we are not together now. But when you pulled the final Goddess butterfly card- and spoke of transformation- I knew I was moving into this energy bc I have been seeing 55, 555, 5555 continuously - everywhere and all the time. It has been following me for over a week maybe 2 now. I also know that I have truly healed my abandonment issue. - I have not heard back from my father- no response. Which is how he has always showed up- by not showing up. But I’m so good. I know it’s his own journey and that my self worth and self love all come from me which comes from Spirit. I wish my Father well, I send him love bc I know he is still operating from a wounded place. I have never felt freer in my whole life. And here I am writing it all down to you Erika- just as AA Michael has guided. Thank you for your gift. Much love ❤️🙏

[@corinablank9085]

I wrote my masculine counterpart a letter as we are in no contact, i know intuitively i have to send it, but i recognize my fears in doing so! I have nothing left to lose and i know by expressing my complete truth in this letter will liberate me, i do feel it may result in an unexpectedly positive way but im not sure im ready yet to find out if that means im just closing the door to a cycle or if it means opening up to a possible reunion! I know i need to do it....its just a matter of when! Thank you for your reading as it really did clarify things for me and what is actually holding me back 💖

[@phillipsprangiii3112]

It's the 4th, her birthday(DM)...Today I get it ! the blocks are down, I am there ! (got the deep chills of spirit presence, helping remove the fear) Woke at $$$...just realized that's her birthday, Tripled as angelic TF, DM, DF to go ahead, you are guided and supported...and on the right path !! Thank you for the reminder...I am that I am The message to be in Balance has been shouting at me for days, now

[@wendybiondo9223]

I feel this confrontation with our fears right now is very much a part of the process and right on par. the trick is to not add a story to it and feel defeat, but to trust it and know that on the other side IS the blessings we desire and know are rightfully ours. Going willingly underground knowing that it is necessary, even if this passage came as a surprise and feels like taking 5 steps backwards!! Allowing our inner DM to hold the other end of the rope while we go down...supporting each other and knowing that all is well. Always. ❤️

[@inuvegfan]

I was just thinking of journaling again. Thank you for confirmation. I do need to let my guard down because I need to let go of fear and hurt from past experience.

[@AAPAI_24]

This is so in point...I’m going through a phase of being impatient and often have the urge to block him. I realised then that I am closed off and he can’t come in until I start to relax and lose they fear of him playing playing my heart. I have periods when I’m calm, then I feel his energy strongly, then I close myself off ... I know I still have work to do and no action until I’m fully clear. Interesting thing is that someone I trusted and considered a friend broke my trust and crossed a boundary and in typical Capricorn fashion, I completely shut her down too. She feels it and has reached our but u haven’t even responded. I’m fully in my Queen of Swords energy but I do want to open up to him, whatever the outcome so that I can have some peace. I’m seeing lots of synchronicities and I am keeping y up with my daily meditation ...

[@34ginanicole]

Haven’t watched yet but right before my phone alerted me to your video posting, I was getting major heart chakra “symptoms”. I can feel when my DM is anxious. I get palpitations or heaviness/shortness of breath. Nuts!!! Gotta watch now!!! 🙏🏼💜

[@ewanyoike100]

Me too. Feeling heavy hearted. What do you do

[@patod5392]

I also feel him that way. Even if he's just focusing on me. He says he physically feels me sit on his lap or touch him...that blew my mind! This definitely resonates with my inner masculine. Have been shutting off and not wanting more hurt and disappointment. Guess we'll all figure it out of we listen

[@edytaf4404]

Always on point

[@janinekleerup7936]

Loved the deep insights from DM and the questions you asked. Will have to meditate to see if this applies subconsciously. Thank you Erika!

[@Marta43505]

I've been told this in readings repeatedly. And I feel his energy more often. Not too focused on this but it was impossible not to notice it

[@gabyvanbienen]

Seeing this with 7.7k views and 55 comments... 😳 This message deeply resonates! Super synchronistic too, received a message yesterday about fear of success... I know I am blocking myself but I have NO idea how or how to shift it... lots to think about! Thank you so much for sharing 💙 EDIT: so I tuned into this a bit later, took out my journal as well. Holy cow I had an entire dialogue with my DM. It all boiled down to forgiveness and trust... and then it took a cheeky, unexpected turn 😄 It was intense! Feels like I finally started the healing process. Now to follow through on the guidance I received... that’s going to take a looooot of strength!

[@melissab77]

After watching this video, I really sat with myself because this fear at the subconscious level really resigntaing with me. For me, I experience pain in my body when I'm about the release something. For the past week, I was experiencing pressure in my sacral area of my low back, This morning, when I woke up, the pressure had intensived. As I was reading the book Erika recommended 'The Way of the Superior Man' (and ladies if you haven't read it, I highly recommend it! Not only does it give you insight to the masculine energy but I'm also learning a ton about the feminine energy!), I decided to look up onine what this pain was telling me, I knew is was about not feeling supported (and honestly, that is a little of my fear) but as I continued to read, it said it was due to fear of lossing my FREEDOM! Then cue the tears, because they came flooding in because its true, I've been on my own for the last 2 years, and when we were together, he wanted to control what I did, when I did it, especially when it came to work. Logically, I know he will support me in my dreams and I know he has changed, I can feel it. Also, for majority of my life my distorted mascuine energy would do the same. So, DFs, I encourage you to sit with yourself listen to what you body is telling you, you have the answers. And Erika, thank you so much for making this video. I feel so free!

[@田中克美-g9c]

Perfect amazing reading resonated to my situation thanks ,

[@Heavens_touch]

Im choosing to drop my guard. I TRUST the universe so I trust that this man on my mind is a BLESSING from God & I have NOTHING to fear or no reason to be guarded. Im now open to receiving love & want to take things to the next level. I SURRENDER to my TF/the journey, our mission & am ready to LET him be the man & to stop living my life as if im single & commit

[@connectwithBettina]

Thank you Erika .. once more you put words to what I am experiencing ....I am on this journey ... because I love my DM but most importantly because I finally love myself enough to go within and heal all this heartbreak I've been carrying around for such a long time.. Because I finally have the courage to acknowledge my spirituality .... Every time my twin and I are in separation I feel so balanced and good on my own but also think I am ready if he was to come back ... He came back again and it took me a little more than a week to "manifest" the fears I thought I had conquered ... you are so right Erika ... I was very guarded and I am not finished dealing with these fears ....Sending you so much love 3

[@shelbymay70]

After your last reading, I asked for guidance with my internal masculine and what I needed to learn. I then dreamt of him and tonight he contacted me after 2 weeks of no contact. He wanted to come around and as I am fearful of us entering the Knight of Wands stage again, I said no. He asked if I was afraid... I said yes. But I told him I miss him and kept my heart open... I still feel guided to maintain the boundaries for now. I then listened to this reading ☺️

[@personallisajackson1121]

Timely!

[@melanie20237]

I am realizing that I am getting myself a new tattoo ( design is about karmic inner balance ) exactly at the shift towards libra season . Didnt realize it, till jou mentioned it. The waiting list was long for this appointment. Wow, it all falls perfectly into place

[@falyt8318]

Wow my synchronicities have been crazy lately! About an hour before watching this video somebody asked me if I could try something and not feel what would I do?! That is really sticking with me now. Thank you so much! 🙏🏻💖

[@cherylevans1339]

It's all new to me DF / DM I'm excited to learn thank you xx

[@PaulatenBosch]

Thank you Erika. 💝 This reading was so resonating, I had to listen twice to all and FEEL the messages and the fear. I know I have to work on this. Many blessings! 💜💙

[@sarzi80sarzipop86]

I was colouring a picture with basically the same description of the "hiding mermaid" today! Very very uncannily similar and I chose that one out of many.

[@lemezedemaine4881]

I dreamt about my masculine last night. He texted me and wanted to know what he should do. This reading is spot on. Thank you. ♥️

[@pattystardust5986]

A very illuminating reading, it resonated 💯% with my inner masculine/feminine, and 3D situation with my divine counterpart. Thank you ✨

[@CrystalWaters4444]

I’m wide open right now. I can tell my masculine is having a hard time opening up. His heart is blocked. Trusting Divine timing and flowing. 🤷‍♀️

[@pvasava2]

Thank you so much!!!

[@bethfry9397]

I have lived in my masculine energy for over a decade. I’ve been trying and learning to be in feminine more. He is very masculine energy and two strong energies in that area wouldn’t work. A balance between the two we would be fireworks 💥. I think he’s guarded more.

[@viridescentchanneledguidance]

I literally have no idea how I’m being defensive lmfao

[@gabyvanbienen]

Viridescent Tarot Same! But at the same time I keep getting this message... it’s driving me nuts! 😩😄

[@777Asta777]

Yeah, I kind of get it but does it mean that he wants me to make a move towards him and open up my feelings to him, again? Is it really what it means to be sacred feminine to make a first move all the time? Because just sitting here with my heart open does not make him do anything. I really want this balance and union within. As I try to open up a bit he acts like he doesn't care so of course it keep me closed off. He wants signs that is safe to come forward but himself not accepting any.

[@gabyvanbienen]

~WaveTogether~ Actually, for me it is the opposite! I was always forcing things, chasing after guys, making the first move... never worked. I have to let it come to me (especially because I’m a projector). Surrender and trust that if this person is meant to be in my life, it will happen. Let the universe figure out the how. Soooo difficult though!

[@MsGantz89]

after a longtime not resonating, it's back again. Me and my potential twin flame

[@lachumelita]

In this video , beautiful as it is, I feel like I’m the DM and he is the DF because I’ve done everything, he’s the one I feel is the one who’s closed up . How can Figure this out?

[@bethfry9397]

So if I’m holding back on expressing my feelings because he hasn’t stepped up expressing his am I being distorted?

[@Nancy_B6240]

Not at all. I understand you. I'm going through the same thing. The DM has issues he has to deal with aswell..it has to be fair

[@rubybains4392]

I'm so open. DM is guarded

[@mariamalins1934]

so helpful in my current situation - your reading has been very RIGHT!! Thank you! 😘

[@MessagesFromAurora]

Gratitude

[@Deery_lou_0fficial]

55 comments. I shed tears a few days ago. I felt like there was this crazy pull then need to release. Now I am clam and focused on self and trying to find ways to make extra money.

[@modernebioniteliving501]

Fullllly resonate. Great work

[@Nick-xd5yk]

I've mainly been the divine feminine for all my life but now I've shifted and became the divine masculine today so this really resonated with me. My inner fem n masc are balanced, my divine counterpart inner fem n masc are balanced as well however my counterpart is now the divine feminine.

[@Jengc877]

wow best reading so far 😱

[@Tiffer1515]

WOW, I just sent my DM a message saying this and I haven't watched the video yet.

[@foreveryoungpisces7426]

I'm guarded because I haven't met my DM up close and personal yet. Will in Nov. We're now more like friends than lovers, and it hurts, but seems reasonable. He knows I love him, flying 8,000 miles to meet him. He's become distant, due to lack of $ is my feeling. Thank you Erika!

[@SanaAngel786]

Beautiful reading resonates and a confirmation from angels about blockages not being the real self and hiding... one of the crystal on your right is glowing in certain chakra colours like prism effect just caught my eye. Tysm lots of love and light stay blessed 🤗 ♥️

[@deboraha.friedman8724]

I cant speak to my DM, he has me blocked,why?

[@calledtoserve1600]

I love your energy and readings!🙏🕊

[@polkadotplaid]

holy shit this felt like a personal reading!

[@amygomez9061]

Wow the dm has been guarded and shut down. I feel I have done my work but when you mentioned doubting my intuition, I have. I feel ready but if we mirror each othere there must be something I am missing?

[@juliereminiec4937]

Ericka, could the DM be the one who has his guard up? My guard has been down for years

[@gaia7277]

Good question!

[@juliereminiec4937]

@@gaia7277 thanks

[@km9729]

Thank you as always feel like the energy you’re tapped into is in alignment with the flow I feel I’m in. I’m feeling very open so it’ll be interesting if there’s more subconscious work to do or if it’s on the other persons end as I know there is for sure a bit of that going on. ❤️🙌🏼☀️

[@markcrabb3701]

Not closed off - everything is shouting at me - from the rooftops" I am shouting at myself - just don't seem to be able to make the leap - being battered from every side - yet still don't make the move - this now to the point - regardless of the possible union with the most beautiful person - she won't say anything because I have to leap alone.

[@grazdoe7363]

I just don't know how to drop my guard anymore 💔 I'm anxious and it hurts. Trust is gone and don't know how to open up again

[@jaytaylor4618]

Wow I loved this reading so different

[@coralee4226]

yes I been feeling guarded, but I care about him. I also feel at something wierd is happening like for me to stay away from the DM,, But my intuition tells me whats going on,, I know what it is but its not going to get the best out of me, by walking away from him. he is my best friend and I will not abandon him. I know what it is,,, But I am working on letting my guard down. Thank you so much great reading! Love how you read, so intuitive!!!

[@gaia7277]

I did drop my guard down. I reached out to him yesterday. Nothing serious just a nudge though to clear up the path, something told me to go for it.. He seemed grounded but kind of awkward if I'm not wrong. Maybe he didn't expect me to contact him as it always been him who did the same in past! Hope things become normal soon 🙏

[@donnadickerman9620]

Thankyou bless you

[@LoveBeliefTruth]

Well, the masculine could stop being so concearned about "coming in" and stand back and hold space for the feminine for once. The feminine can also "came in" or "go out". The feminine can also stop her eternal waiting.

[@bethfry9397]

I write poetry yes I’ve been afraid to give him the love poems that he would run. Guess I should.

[@judithstith6378]

Thanks a million!❤️❤️

[@pj2.085]

Somehow, I can’t even imagine my or any DM thinking this way. Maybe I’m totally in the dark about these energies.

[@FK-tr9mw]

Working on it, working on it. Give me some time, man :D

[@intuitivesativa]

How do I open up

[@pandaprophetable]

Girl that is the MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION!

[@Trust11Faith]

Energetically call on AAVyamus

[@clowy9052]

Divine nonbinary here..sometimes I feel both traits of the masculine and feminine apply to me. Thank you for your videos.

[@clairebear629]

This is our reading💞 ♍💞♑💞🙏

[@SweetSerenadeG]

I feel like despite being the female in the rs, my male partner is taking on this guarded feminine energy. Tho of course, these messages wld apply for the both of us.. so I'll take it w a grain of salt. I've reached out to him, waiting for when he'll be ready for communication. But perhaps in my energy of waiting, I've closed myself off from potential abundance for another partner to come in.

[@kimeddo4282]

something pretty major is brewing....got a text msg yesterday from my DM, he wants to see me, possibly this weekend (I live in NY & he lives in NC) so HOLY STARS! Haven't seen him since Xmas last year, so I'm expecting it to be an explosive meeting!!

[@BS-mi3yr]

Haven’t spoke to my tf in a month or so and I’m not looking to reach out at all. I watched the video concerning my own inner dm and df. How would I open up to my inner dm? Im starting a new job in a week and a half. Does this have anything to do with inner dm? I do feel like I’ve been waiting to work and I’m not sure if that’s a problem concerning my inner dm balance? Anyone have any advice about this?

[@laurishaw8488]

Beautiful!! Thank you 🥰👍

[@imthearchitect]

Thank you!! Amazing!!! BUT HOW????? How do I open up to the (inner) masculine?? How do I do that??? - how does my inner feminine open up to the inner masculine?? How how how? I WANT TO do that, I’m committed to doing that but I don’t even know where to start??

[@plamenakireva8852]

How do you open intuition

[@tusneldabloch6909]

Thank you 🙏🏼💕🦋

[@SadhanaaYogaRochester]

I’m really reflecting hard on how to lower my guard down. I saw this on his sm post. What does this mean??? 🤷🏽‍♀️ 🤷🏽‍♀️ 🤷🏽‍♀️ “I see myself forever and ever as the ridiculous man, the lonely soul, the wanderer, the restless frustrated artist, the man in love with love, always in search of the absolute, always seeking the unattainable.”

[@LisAndi1111]

Hi, I tried to buy the extended and it says on your site that my e-mail has already been used (I know I've bought an extended before) when I try to finalize with my paypal. I'd like to purchase this extended. Please help. Thank you.

[@ErikaElmuts]

Hi Lissette! Please visit my help page consciousalchemy.mykajabi.com/help

[@Twiseshalanda30]

Well I need your help..He reached out,I finally responded back meet up with him briefly..And he has yet to say anything ???So I am totally confused and lost

[@sofia-tx1zy]

Iam here

[@christinahall5083]

On point always

[@jennieguido]

100^resonating with me, WOW, i couldn't pin point what was going on with me! You just confirming my behavior 🤔 I get it, yes im , this is all about learning to work through my deep fears!!! I thought I had , his ex of 20 years makes me think when we don't communicate, i think he likes his old comfort, not wanting change.. Anxiety , becsuse he has cancel so many times.. i have to trust and take tha leap, like I want him too.. thank you for the wisdom, im going to direct my focusing on God and Selflove ❤✌🙏🏼

[@MSilvetti]

I have placed some boundaries but to respect and love myself but 🥺🥺🥺 im missing him so much today. Feeling very emotional today. Just seeing 3333 as i type this from the length of one of your previous videos. Thank you, Erika! 💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Rainingcoldheart]

Yes Yes Yes, I can't forgive or heal for um awhile now.

[@blove8361]

Yes shes a litlle unbalanced rigtht now .and he knows. Already told him i need time to heal. Thank you.

[@verabelsclair]

gently, what if your energetic block is watching youtube videos? or is self-critique?

[@reneprivatemail.3303]

lol this is what i was thinking of i had a sort of guard ( to save my heart and soul as being hurt by many) x love now i gonna listen without judgement . as i am FM in a DM gay body. """ so i watched this reading and yes i agree a lot my change is on its way, i gonna travel again a lot and into my hobby also i am leaving the app gay world and even bars as there,s so much just sex and sadness feelings ( i am a empath) i never brought me real love , just fun was ok but i would just like to have a great gay guy as friend ......who i thought was him my TF ....if it happens your first to hear as i am open for love as i love myself ... xxx love will win.... as i still believe in the imposable .....

[@mazza893]

Erica I feel this so much but when the masculine has hurt you for so, so many years and time after time you forgive them only to be hurt again. When does it stop if you continue stepping back in. Time for my masculine is running out, my masculine is nearing the end of his existence just now. With sadness I know this and yet I feel open, I have forgiven and love has remained even though the cycle is I feel and my children feel the pain of his actions. I am confused and the time is running out I can not give anything more and so cut off a short while ago. As I tried to help my masculine my whole family would be affected by the happiness and the sadness which followed, a cycle of me needing a feeling I had to close or stop this cycle. Erica what more can feminine do when she even accepts his way of living and other women. What else am I closed off to, this brings more confusion with inevitable sadness as the time approaches 💐🌹💖

[@heatherhoover7818]

well after 10 long years i can say this is still where we/ I AM AT with the process but he still doesn't seem to be growing to me. but if your telling me all i need to now is open up i will work on it again just if he rejects me or act indifferent this time i'm gonna close up again. and yes he is like a child and keeps hurting me emotionally with his ways when it doesn't even make sense to do so. i feel like i've outgrown the relationship but i guess ill try opening up again maybe i just perceived the wrong thoughts again. idk but i do feel i am growing and i want to stick with him to but just don't like all the pain he brings with him like no validation whatsoever and hes a bit of a player i might add. sad to say but im learning and that's really what matters to me right now

[@heatherhoover7818]

funny though we get what we give in life and before him i was kind of a player myself. maybe that is the other lesson is basically how to open up to him first so he knows how to open up to me? since he is my twin then im basically dealing with my own problems twice and before i stopped doing bad like cheating the way he got me to be better was by treating me better for sometime before all the real fighting started but now i think he is doing it to me and im so avoiding this but it has already hurt me so much that i need to let go of the past and like the cards said i prolly am imagining most of negative and blocking out the positive stuff him and i do together. thank you for this. needed to hear it

[@donnadickerman9620]

Don't know how to unblock my email

[@kerriemills1310]

Ericka, thank you,🙂 but with it all being so much sub, deep and un_conciousiness. How? Do we release it?

[@backtobasics3003]

This resonated with me like hell ! I’m all ready for the union but his mother is still in the way how will I allow myself to get in to that environment where she will be living with us and in between us. It’s not what I want... And my DM is against having separate lives.. he always wants her by his side and I can’t get in to it .. neither do I want to force things upon him.. how do I handle this problem.. and yes.. getting in to that third party situation is all my fear !

[@GRACEABERDEAN01]

rashmi raghu maybe just surrender to the situation? And let it work out?

[@patod5392]

I'm in the same situation with his ex. The excuse is he feels responsible and she's just had a heart attack six months ago. At least yours wants to include you, mine just keeps me seperate from his other life. I also know that I'll never accept his ex living in the same house with him. It's been back and forth for 7 years. She doesn't want me in his life and I know this is her way of manipulating him. Stalemate...and I'm really wanting to move on, but keep getting pulled back.