MESSY TO MINIMALIST | WHAT I'VE LEARNED AFTER 2 YEARS OF MINIMALISM

[@tjohannam]

"Happiness is an inside job".

[@ClearYourMindset]

Love this quote! Totally forgot about it but now with my newer perspective it makes so much more sense!

[@unframedminds8204]

Well said. :-)

[@officialspaceefrain]

Happiness can't melt steel beams.

[@skodovkar]

Minimalism made my life more streamlined, more focused, more simple, more enjoyable, more to the point and more conscious.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Agreed!

[@laetitiaborgeaud9599]

Thank you for saying that minimalism doesn't solve your problems. I needed to hear that

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Anachroniquement Vôtre

[@runasto]

Dude.. the organizer thing.. that hit me very hard. I have never thought of it like that, and even though i know im a hoarder, there was a lot more truth to it then i expected.

[@blanez6073]

I listen to this Specific Liasloft PLAYLIST a lot. Its earworm influence is super helpful. I always hear something new or think about something in a different way. I have no idea how many times I've binge-listened to this playlist, but many, many times anyway. So...I'm at a point 3 months out of beginning to LISTEN and DOING while Listening to Liasloft and getting stuff done and it keeps getting easier and easier to keep DOING. While the mindset of my personal version of minimalism continues to improve my life...I repeatedly revisit this playlist because it works for me,motivates me, makes me think... makes me DO. Thanks Liasloft!

[@jashelps]

The feeling when your drawer is empty is just amazing.

[@starfuzzy2]

It’s so much easier to go minimalist if you’re moving!

[@HeyItsBonnieBee]

So glad you're going into mental health! I feel like a lot of KZbin minimalists just try to sell their way of living as the best thing ever which will solve all your problems, but none of them really go into what goes on behind just decluttering. So thank you!

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Bonita I'm glad to see feedback like this. Good to know it's a wanted topic! Thank you!

[@MsSassyMT]

I'm definitely learning that like you said, minimalism has no end. I think it spills over into other areas of your life and even once you have your home fully minimalized, sometimes, you end up still purging some of the things that you were okay with keeping.

[@herewegrow7038]

Me and my husband had to start minimalism. There was one time he was like I DONT HAVE SHIRTS TO WEAR! I counted all his shirts that night and counted 74 shirts and 8 pants. I told him afterwards, he was very disappointed with himself. We started to sort out his clothes, sold some and then donated most. Now he has 15 shirts and is very happy with it. He gets to wear all of them in 2 weeks (just in time for laundry) and we have so much closet space! IT is the way to go. Less anxiety really

[@jennellel7550]

Girl, I relate on so many levels with the organization stuff! I was always like 'I need cute baskets to hold all my crap, imma go to Hobby Lobby right now to buy some!' until I realized I was burying the problems in cute baskets xD I have also gone more minimalist (slowly easing my husband into it haha) this past year and I love how I actually have room in my two bedroom townhouse now. Got rid of all my books (ok, I kept like 5 books) and 2 giant ikea bookcases/storage cube things, and wow what space gobblers those are! That is the irony of Ikea. We thought the storage cubes bookcases would free up some space, but the stuff we put into the bins in the first place was really the problem. Maybe that could be your next vid, the dangers of concept of Ikea furniture lol.

[@jacquielevay4870]

I really connected with what you said about feeling as though happiness is just around the corner once I have this or that, once I get a degree, or get that job or learn this skill, ect. And then not really feeling as content as I was expecting. I think you are on the right path with minimalism.

[@mariaarbotante9067]

Jacquie LeVay

[@LifeSorted]

I definitely think minimalism is an on going journey in your life and relates to so much more than just your physical possessions . We have been decluttering, minimising and simplifying our home for a few months. we will never be traditional minimalists but we are working towards a simpler less cluttered home and life in general.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Amen to that!

[@LathaLukose]

Finally someone who speaks the truth... This is exactly how i feel. Dont organize first declutter Minimalism or anything isnt te end...it might be the beginning to discovering the true you.

[@supersqueak]

I could never really identify as a minimalist but practicing those habits has helped me so much.

[@MrScotchpie]

I've just found your channel and watched a few of your videos. I'm interested in minimalism as I think it fits well with my interest in Stoicism. I'm 50, and was brought up during the "golden years" of consumerism. I now look around me and think why do I have all this stuff? I've watched a few channels on minimalism but yours is the most honest, down to earth I've found. I especially like your comment "minimalism doesn't solve all of your problems either". Life is multi-faceted and thereby requires a multi-faceted approach.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Glad that you're asking yourself questions about the things around you, and thank you for your kind words! Always feel free to ask questions in the comments too!

[@NiharSavala]

Good to see someone being honest & true to their self first & sharing their experience. Good going gal..

[@goldenghxst]

I love this video. I used to hoard a bit (not as much as my sisters) and last year I decided I wanted to be more of a minimalist. Now every month I go through all of the stuff in my room, put everything that I don't want/need into a box, and give it away. By the next month, I'll have decided to give away clothes that I know I haven't worn in the last few months. There are just a lot of things that I want to keep but I know I really don't need them, so I'm just doing it month by month instead of just throwing everything out and then regretting it.

[@brooke9807]

I totally relate. Decluttering feels so good.

[@ضاد-ق2ج]

I am so glad I came across your channel. You definitely got a new subscriber.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Thank you and welcome to the community!

[@nadiainthesun4521]

Nice insight. This is the first video I have seen if yours but I can relate. I’ve been trying to downsize my belongings in my one bedroom home and have been holding onto the idea that once I have it a certain way I will finally be worry-free and happy. Thanks for pointing out how paring down my belongings in not an end-all to life’s worries and problems. You look pretty young. I wish I was smarter when I was younger lol.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Aw thanks! And I'm sure you were! Everyone grows in different ways.

[@chilledtaho748]

Thank you so much for this! I'm still starting out and have a looooot of things to get rid of. I've also started writing down my expenses and this makes me more conscious of the things I buy. It's made such a huge difference!

[@ClearYourMindset]

That's awesome!!

[@denisecatlett7203]

You are very thoughtful. Very rarely do people who discuss downsizing and minimalism ever get into the emotional aspect of "managing our stuff" literally and figuratively. Life is a process and a series of choices and you are lucky to be figuring this out as a young person.

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Denise Catlett Thank you!

[@ginafuller1654]

This is so powerful and full of universal truths, I’m going to watch this more than once!

[@ClearYourMindset]

Aw thank you so much!

[@eatsforfunsies]

My whole life my mom was a hoarder. Her definition of cleaning is putting stuff in plastic bins, stashing things out of view. Her fav thing is to put everything in the garage. It's sad because I want to see/help her but I can't stand stepping into that house. I've noticed that I have her tendencies and slowly I've been decluttering after I moved out of her place two years ago. I did get rid of my storage unit so I def think I'm making good progress. Thanks for this video.

[@ClearYourMindset]

You're making progress and that's all that matters. What I can suggest is sharing the positive emotions you experience from decluttering with your mom. Rather than telling her, show her. People always want happiness

[@pmorock]

AWESOME insight. I may need to watch this several times. I've felt some of your points but couldn't put it in to words. And some I didn't want to admit. Thank you for yiur clear honesty. I liked your Video and am now subscribed. I'm glad I clicked on u.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Thank you so so much!

[@mae.1233]

my fathers a hoarder and my parents room is a complete mess for over 10 years, my grandma has tried and clean their room but it just stays a mess to where they buy things they don’t need at all, all because they can? This is why I’m going to become a minimalist this year and show my dad he can live without so much

[@deborahdrake4997]

I too, have found the blessing of living a minimalist lifestyle. I could put all of my clothes in one large suitcase. I always know what to wear.

[@dyrleifunabergs6070]

I needed to hear someone say these things. Thank you for this awesome video

[@Lashlove16]

Love this video !!! Kon Marie teaches that you are organizing clutter... best organizer is a shoe box... I am not a minimalist but have tried to go more towards it ... life is sooo much better....no more a hoarder Retail therapy..... finally I realize it does nothing. I am clutter free since aug 2016

[@ClearYourMindset]

Congrats! That's over a year!!

[@Lashlove16]

Lia's Loft yes and never ever going back .... it was miserable

[@creativedutchess4866]

This video makes so much sense... thank you for this! Just realizing that there is no perfect finish line for minalism and that it is not the key to ultimate hapiness. But it can help.

[@ClearYourMindset]

[@itsme516]

One of the best videos I've watched. I feel like I'm going through a similar state at this point in my life.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Aw thank you!!!

[@aaronq2627]

Clear and concise advice for us on "the road" to try and simplify our daily lives. Thanks!

[@williamkazak]

A great discussion. Minimalism improves observation. Glad you discussed the ways minimalism helps us in a variety of ways.

[@calpiso4114]

Thanks for the advice Lia, not just about minimalism but also about life.

[@ClearYourMindset]

💕

[@vampireturtle]

Soooo real. I really appreciate this video. (I'm almost going through all of youtube's minimalist videos) I feel like the comment on "minimalism solving your problems" was such a call out. A good one though. While I definitely realized it was a tool/skill I right now need to hone at this point in my life I kinda think deep down I'm thinking it'll be the key to my future happiness as well. Sad but true and reality checks are always a good thing for me.

[@ClearYourMindset]

+vampireturtle It plays a large role in emotional health, but at the end of the day I don't want to see people relying on this and being let down when they declutter and aren't magically cured of their problems.

[@FineNaturalHairandFaith]

I love organizing 😊 I don’t have a hoarding of things issue because I regularly will get rid of things that no longer serve me when I want to bring in something new Great video. Wish my mom would catch a clue. She has SO MUCH and swears she needs it all but I know she’s not able to possibly use it all I love how you touched on gratitude 😊

[@ClearYourMindset]

Thank you!

[@blanez6073]

Day 5 of listeningng to Liasloft while I'm actual declutering the cluster-blank of my life. I'm BINGE Listening with the 125 videos of here on KZbin playlist of her videos. I'm listening to Green Day (The one with a grenade on it) Thanks Lia!.

[@57waterlily]

Excellent video, thanks for making it!

[@heavenlyflower_sl]

Thank you for the video. I do love the idea of minimalism and I'm practicing it daily, to the point of whether I need this item or not, can it be substituted with anything that I already have. I threw away waaaaay less perished foods, less waste, spent less money, owned less clothing, and appreciated what I have more. Oh, and I give more to people, because I believe that something I don't need will be other people's lifesavers.

[@anasha1647]

So much insight for a young woman , well spoken !

[@closeddoors0009]

5 years on the journey to minimalistic living makes me feel happier having less

[@latricerebec]

I love the perspective you bring to minimalism. I also liked the questions to ask before making a purchase

[@ClearYourMindset]

Thanks!

[@emailnolongerinuse3157]

i dont buy books anymore. i love the feel of the pages and i read them once and just have a pile on my shelf. if i do buy books or if someone buys them for me i pass them around. my group of friends does this with me, we all read the book and give it to the next friend who wanted it and after everyone has read it we give it to a library or something like that who would benefit from it. ive saved so much money and space and im also able to be closer to my friends and help my community

[@ClearYourMindset]

That's such a great concept!

[@gailmcculloch6705]

Your video is so true. I was doing organising first the same as you. Now I know I need to declutter first then organise last. Love your video.

[@ClearYourMindset]

+gail mcculloch Thank you!

[@cf9707]

wow, your honesty goes through the camera. Been watching several videos on minimalism but you are the first one that didnt feel judgeing (is that a word in english? :P), and actually could explain what have been keeping me from it! Thanks and take care

[@ClearYourMindset]

Awe that's sweet of you! Glad you enjoyed!

[@Keesh73]

Very insightful and genuinely honest video! 👍🏽👍🏽❤Thank you for sharing this!

[@CrisOnTheInternet]

I'm still having struggles to let things go but on the bright side is being easy not to buy anything I don't need. I hope this year I'll be able to declutter.

[@Xanduur]

I just turned my office/man cave into a guest room and only had so much time before the in-laws came for a month. So, I took eight banker boxes full of books to the local half-price book store. After that, I filled another 22 boxes with a video game collection (consoles and games), DVDs, CDs, MORE books, magazines, and a box of cables. Sheesh. My goal is to get rid of everything that will not fit on the dresser/TV stand and in the small bookshelf after the in-laws leave. It cost me extra money to buy the boxes, but SEEING all those boxes really hit home that I was a hoarder. My question is what is enough to keep if you want to keep something?

[@ClearYourMindset]

Sometimes time gives you that answer. Put it in a box. If you don't use it after a month, don't even open the box, just donate it.

[@JetbBlue747]

Joe Edwards do you LOVE it (not like)? Do you need it? Does it bring you JOY? If your house was on fire would you rush back in for it? Then keep it :)

[@trygveevensen171]

That's exactly what my room looked like a couple years ago, I can't believe how I could sleepe in that mess, now I can actually use the room, I totally would recomend cleaning up your room😃

[@trygveevensen171]

I also baught a couple of these to have on my desk, they look really good on my white desk😋 m2.ikea.com/no/no/p/dracaena-marginata-potteplante-drageblodstre-1-stamme-80177170/

[@angelyademiry9146]

I love your video and mindframe thank you for sharing!

[@HuiyingKoh]

Oh gosh thanks for the inspiration for the open house sale idea! I'm so gonna organise one! I've been thinking how should I sell my unwanted furniture and items from the previous house owner because I really don't like to sell it online and I don't have the vehicle to transport them as well. Open house sale is such a brilliant idea! As I'm still new in my apartment, it's a great chance to get to know my neighbour as well. How wonderful!

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Huiying Koh Yayyyy I love that it's helping you!

[@Bellinissima]

Thanks you I have tons of stuff And I am slowly trying to get rid of stuff and have them not return to my closet/bedroom/bathroom. So far I have been successful with them not returning to their previous living space. My goal is to have less and have more visual empty space. So I am really grateful for your video. Most posts are end product Or steps Which are helpful But Not many explain parts of their journey And that is what I've been trying to find. As inspiration So thanks!

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Bellinissima Thank you! I'm happy for you!

[@fatfirebender]

Whenever I'm about to buy something I always wonder okay do I have something that I already use that similar to this that works just as well and I won't really be able to notice a difference and I always wonder if it's just like a collection like a new t-shirt or something that I want that I take into account whether I would wear that over what I already have my favorite more than something else that I already own and most of the time I don't end up buying anything because I just think I'm satisfied with what I already have and I never feel like I'm limiting what I allow myself to do I just feel like I just don't eat any of that stuff that I used to get all the time

[@MonMirek]

Thanks for the video, I really appreciate the fact, that your telling the truth about minimalism and your experiences! In middle school I was struggling with depression a lot. I started to play punk music and I dyed and cut my hair. I always said "if I'll have a new room and furniture I'll start to tidy it up" But nothing can really heal you mentally until you let God come into your emotions and memories. He healed my depression, transsexualism and emptiness. Telling Jesus "Come into my life and heal me" is the best way to organize and declutter yourself! 😁

[@elaineevans7126]

Nice calm, humble advice.

[@candyluna2929]

I can't get myself to buy stuff for Christmas or and seasonal decor. That's completely unnecessary

[@apeleesmith]

Great input - do you have any videos about living in Scotland?

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Mrs.aprilmilburn not specifically no but you can always message me on Instagram if you have questions

[@viyahta]

THANKS! EXCELLENT LESSONS.

[@agapecreates]

YOU are the real thing!!

[@ClearYourMindset]

Aw thanks!

[@marietorri]

Awesome video, I love what you're saying I feel the Same way.

[@makaylar.mr.23]

I love this video and actually took this into account when my parents asked what i wanted for christmas this year. I asked for two things that ive been wanting for a year. My mom has actually also thought about an open house sale lol. We are going through and pricing things to sell.

[@Lashlove16]

Makaylas beautiful life lol my mom would do the same.., she actually rearranged the lounge furniture in the mall while waiting .

[@ClearYourMindset]

The open house was actually so much fun, as long as you have enough people to watch your home and stay safe.

[@makaylar.mr.23]

Lia's Loft of course lol. I wouldnt be unprotected. 😊

[@kelticenigma7987]

Very good insight and advice. Thank you for the video.

[@CrystleDragon]

I understand the whole "my happiness is in the future" idea. I still think, if I can just create something life changing I'll feel fulfilled. Not that doing big things is a bad thing, but I've been trying to fool myself there, because I just want to prove I've been doing something with my life. I want to matter in some way, and I want to have left this planet better than I found it. But I won't feel satisfied, because there's always something more I could achieve. I'll never really feel like I've completed my mission here. And I don't know how to deal with that. I don't want to settle for merely existing, but I'm barely keeping my head above the waters of despair by dreaming so big. Urgh. I don't know what to do.

[@TheNicoliyah]

Crystle Rose everyday day is a different day so it helps to take each day as it comes. I find that it is good to have goals/dreams that you can take action and work towards but it's also good to try to enjoy the journey and ackowldege/celebrate milestones. Good luck and remember these feelings of despair like most things in life (including life) are temporary.

[@CrystleDragon]

TheNicoliyah thank you. I really need to work on that. I think I have trouble partly because I am a planner more than a doer, but my dreams seem intangible, so I have trouble connecting them with reality. I did realize something a little while after writing that comment though. For the first time in a very long time, I tried digital drawing again. It felt so right! So I think I need to get back into doing that, and use it to connect my dreams to reality. Thank you for inspiring me, as I didn't think to do that until I read your response ❤

[@TheNicoliyah]

Crystle Rose Your welcome! Stay strong and keep going. U got this!

[@ClearYourMindset]

I know the feeling too well. It's hard for me to respond without launching into an essay but I may make a video dedicated to just these thoughts alone - these thoughts have led me through depression, happiness, heartache, passion, etc... so I know the roller coaster you can feel when you're trying to find your place in life by looking through your future achievements.

[@CrystleDragon]

Lia's Loft I'd really like to know more. Feel free to respond to my comments with an essay anytime, or make a video on the topic. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. Thank you.

[@fyi3696]

Holy shit, she's so relaxing to listen to 💕

[@ClearYourMindset]

Aw thanks Hahaha

[@zoraidarodriguez1761]

Hi Lia, hope you are well. Miss you and your videos. Take care and stay safe.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Just following up on comments now, thank you for checking in!

[@bmwvintageprincess]

Never try to possess happiness always try to make others happy. Everybody will then Be

[@ClearYourMindset]

There's truth in that!

[@marwaelghamry7585]

Minimalism is part of the happinese puzzle. .humanity is puzzle. .every thing in it is connected somehow.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Interesting way to look at it!

[@courtneyelizabeth4710]

Where is the video where you react to your old hoarder pictures? I didn't see it linked.

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Courtney Elizabeth I have to repost it due to monetization issues. Coming Sunday most likely!

[@courtneyelizabeth4710]

Thanks! I'm looking forward to watching it.

[@TT-gw2pg]

It’s still not posted

[@blanez6073]

So...I'm starting at the top of this playlist on auto play. I'm listing to you and Hole...I made my bed I'm lying in it lyrics...I do need to make my bed...but first I gotta do those dishes I've been threatening to do for days. brb back...switched the CD to Green Day...the one with a grenade on the cover cause I need the angst...not the whine. So I'm going to war on De-cluttering/purging today. For over a decade with my TBI I've had to fight to be understood, to be heard, get stuff done...to live. (this ain't a pity party...it a fact.) I've been fighting for so long...the reality is a NEED a war and today I'm gonna kill those dishes and because I was a US Army Seargent...I'm gonna kick my own ass thru this cluster-blank and I'm not doing it alone...I'm listening to you ,Lia and your positive ear worms help me continue to ...getting it done. Thank you.

[@zoemma7665]

Love this

[@viennajones935]

This was really wonderful- thank you!

[@ClearYourMindset]

Thank you for watching!

[@kaisjdionisio]

This is so helpful to me. Thank you!

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Kai Senhuan I'm glad to hear!

[@gr33neyes1000]

OMG thats me, I have so many "organisers" :-O OK pre-Christmas super clear out, starting NOW

[@ClearYourMindset]

Woo woo!!

[@TheRisingIcarus]

Decluttering is so hard. I have so much stuff that I can't seem to get rid of and I just don't know where to begin

[@MissTaviBaby]

😔✌✨ I'm trying to get myself together. Great advice, I appreciate the information!

[@apolinary29]

i like your decluttering videos the best ;0)

[@CalmVibesVee]

Great topic Lia. Contentment is key.

[@ClearYourMindset]

Yes indeed!

[@TerenceTang83]

Oh I thought I am alone til I watch your video.. thats what I am right now.. buying containers and organizers but after awhile the organizers become the contributing factor to a hoarder's home

[@candacekieper4354]

A stuffed one bedroom makes you a hoarder really .... a hoader means you have to climb over stuff to get in your room

[@unaamena1998]

Thank you for your honest video 🌹

[@ClearYourMindset]

+Alexa Alexa Thank you for watching!

[@TheArmchairracer]

Great video. Try mindfulness . It does help. Good luck x

[@astgoddess]

Somewhere in the middle of these is what I'm aiming for. Lol

[@lindareynolds659]

Awesome 🙌🏻 I subscribed 😊

[@delicacyasmr8023]

I need to do this, is there a playlist on how to start and how to stop hoarding :)

[@ClearYourMindset]

I can try to build one!

[@christynelong5357]

I have a shelf of empty organizers starring me in the face as I watch this

[@darlenejones3354]

Great insight

[@ClearYourMindset]

Thanks Darlene!

[@jesusmota5158]

Excellent communication!!!!!

[@jenniferh.7219]

I hope only a few more things will be added to this desk because it looks painful but then again, to each his or her own

[@BartolinoCat]

Great video!

[@learnlovelife420]

Youre so intelligent and enlightening

[@ClearYourMindset]

+basshead024 Thank you!

[@jasonbean7296]

Terrific! thanks for sharing.:)

[@putheflamesou]

YES careful of organizers and shelves. HATE the thieves that take the most loved things. Love engineering, the place I am. Need to engineer completely so you can totally minimize....kind of like when young, except the sunglasses collection, the one my sister lost/broke, etc......could be how this all started? Thieves...hate them even more being a minimalist.

[@secretninja247]

The advert before this was hilarious XD It was a monster job finder, he was so adorable, like a cuddly King Kong :D I don't really care about the advert itself per sa but I do want to now see him as a film hehe :P

[@MinimalJon]

Dont know how i would cope with eveyone coming into my Appartment and taking everything i own! Extreme but effective though!

[@ClearYourMindset]

Well it was stuff that I knew I wasn't going to be taking with me to Scotland, so it was either going to them or I was going to have to take loads of items to the donation centre. It ended up being a much faster option haha

[@Pufc.]

Loved this

[@monkeymoonky7900]

Jesus Christ. You need to talk to my mom lol. She buys SO MANY organizer

[@flamingowilliams9664]

"We are all trying to buy what it's impossible to sell."

[@ClearYourMindset]

[@MissSimplyImperfect]

love this vid! thanks for sharing your own experience about this. :) - John 3:16 Jeremiah 29:11

[@KathleenJean53]

Lovely.peaceful.