Michael Singer - The Spiritual Path - From Needing Love to Being Love

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If you would like to learn more about Michael Singer’s work, here are a few suggestions: - Every Sunday, Monday & Thursday, he releases talks at www.tou.org. - Every Sunday, Monday & Thursday night, he gives a live talk at his Temple of the Universe in Alachua, Florida. Anyone can attend for free.
He’s written several books. They are phenomenal, even the ones written in the seventies. (We will receive a commission if you purchase books through these links.)
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If you’re wondering what Mickey’s saying at the beginning and end of each talk, it is:
Jai Guru Dev, Jai Masters. Jai Guru Dev is a traditional Hindu phrase that means Glory to the Great Teacher (the most accurate translation would be glory to the shining remover of darkness), where the great teacher here is generally considered to be the Divine Soul, while we, as human beings, are considered the individuated Soul. Jai Masters means Glory to the Masters, some of whom Singer refers to at times.
Thank you for visiting. Peace, my friend.

[@taniaargiri5578]

Years on the path of spirituality and today listened to this and a shift happened just like that. Thank you

[@johngarrity6687]

Can you say more pls? How is it playing out?

[@jenmdawg]

Singer was also the One that made years of meditation, study and sincere seeking “click”. The pay off is real and ongoing. I slip backwards but not for long - the bliss he refers to is now part of my experience.

[@taniaargiri5578]

For me,the process is slow,but gaining more and more insight,deep understanding, it goes and comes but I am aware of even that. Sometimes I just get it!! Then loose it again...Sorry it is difficult to explain, but the above talk gave me a deep insight.

[@jenmdawg]

@@taniaargiri5578 I know you are not replying to me but your description is PERFECT. My glimpses get longer - I even have whole days of clarity - but I do lose the thread and find myself in fear again (or annoyances or resentment).

[@patriciajones111]

Same here. This might just be the most beautiful thing I have ever listened to

[@yrgarcon]

In simple terms: attachment is the root of suffering. Attachment is fearbased and fantasy, and conditional. Connection is something else, connection is without attachment.

[@Denise0752]

From experience, I find your statement to be 100% true. And I had to learn that the hard way.

[@yrgarcon]

@@Denise0752 Me too

[@ReneeKnightYogaRani]

Basic Ayurvedic / Vedic / Yogic philosophy!

[@ReneeKnightYogaRani]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@plusbonus1165]

I'm attached to a roof over my head and food on the table. Makes life both simple and challenging.

[@miriashar8099]

Don't beg other people to behave a certain way so that you can be ok❤

[@phyllisgermany2563]

So much fun! Thanks for the depth with humor and clarity. ❤️👍🏻🥳🙏🏻😇😉

[@SourceNectar]

I just happened upon this video…and it’s exactly what I needed right now. I think everyone could use this insight, but only when they’re open to it. good god. brilliant.

[@CynthiaCaresse]

Same thing just happened to me. It was on my homepage this morning and its exactly what i needed to hear.. down to a T 💛 these synchronicities are off the show its amazing

[@jeannieotb8491]

Me too. Helped a lot on my healing journey. At 69, as daughter of a narcissist, i only realised in the last 2 years that I was supposed to love me first. That's how screwed up so many people are out there. My journey has been 3 years long and still so much to learn. ❤️🙏

[@msamy2129]

“Love is a place inside of you, don’t imitate it from some place it’s not” 💥🌟❤️

[@jhall2281]

Micheal usually leaves out the part about how hard it is to relax while in pain/anxiety, and once started how much scary stuff comes up. This work is deep.

[@SeatsofContemplation]

You are so right!

[@waakkeuppp]

Yea, it’s a breaking apart and putting back together process to truly heal. It’s not for the weak. This is why most people don’t truly transform. In my experience, creativity is the only thing that really helps me. And that involves literally ‘rewriting’ rewriting yourself and rewriting reality from the soul. Trusting my spirit and cultivating that relationship with my spirit and finding that safety and trust there.

[@jamich3]

Challenge yourself with the weather…..let your hair frizz…..love it!!!! 🥰

[@zion367]

In some cases removing ourselves from situations or people has nothing to do with a lack of love or not being okay. Sometimes these choices actually come FROM love. Take the example of a person who chooses to leave an abusive relationship or someone leaving the room when a person is yelling and namecalling. In these cases we do not remove ourselves because we are not feeling okay, but because the treatment we receive does not align with our selfworth.

[@TheReetchou]

❤

[@kristinebennett2228]

Amen. Awoman. Layers of response upon layers of response. The flow upwards is always beautiful !

[@annemarine]

We realize how silly we are when we listen deeply 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️ Thanks 🥰 What a beautiful background 💚🌱🌿 I have so many blockages sometimes 🙈🙈

[@tanja0411]

Amen 🙏💜

[@tanja0411]

@@AdamJamesEarlyChasebliss-ru8tq ?

[@angelaroloff118]

You are awesome ❤

[@michele9612]

🙏❤️This one is amazing! I am laughing at myself for how I never realized any of this stuff before. Thank you! My life is getting better every day 🦋🐍

[@jamesk8s1]

Man what a tough amazing teacher....no holds....just a good crack between the eyes, POW 💥!!!!!

[@shassengupta9439]

Right said!

[@Mztia25j]

Divine timing. I needed this. Thank you

[@emdesigns206]

I needed this message today. I tend to hold on tight. But Life knows what to do when we let go. Of course! Thank you!

[@cornucopiafoundationmediak2834]

Thank you for this! You made me laugh at myself again and again and again 😊

[@hugosmits9720]

It is possible to live like he said but it isnt the easiest way of life, it is for most of the people very hard to be gratefull for everything. I can understand what he is saying now because I had to go true the worst...like living hell on earth. I try to look at things diferently but it is not so simple

[@vibrantvoid8568]

The more I realise the inherent Love of my being the more I feel out of place almost everywhere I go. This talk helps me remind myself that I'm very ok and don't neeed to fit in with everyones drama.

[@markc1234golf]

Wow how interesting I've just realised that I AM love and this pops up. Neville Goddard brought me to my realisations. 😊💕

[@phyllisgermany2563]

I too love Neville. While reading one of his books some years ago, it suddenly became totally clear that I AM GOD!! It made every other teaching so clear as to INNER awareness or conditional OUTER distraction. 👍🏻🥳🙏🏻

[@markc1234golf]

@@phyllisgermany2563 😇🙏yes totally you have an epiphany 💜 😄

[@isaa1431]

🙇🏻‍♀️Great truths, unfortunately conveyed in a tone of judgment, mockery, ridicule, and even a certain cynicism and condescension towards those who have not yet awakened, a style very characteristic of Singer. If I had the opportunity, I would ask: is it absolutely necessary to position oneself above others to assert one's intellectual/moral authority?🤔

[@ma1102]

I thought I was missing something. Made it 10 minutes in and gave up.

[@roser6674]

maybe something he is saying is bringing up a blockage for you, I was finding myself resisting at first as well.

[@theophila214]

​@@roser6674 Not all resistance is blockage. Some "resistance" is *inner intuition* and *healthy boundaries* .

[@debbiebrown9791]

This is amazing!

[@karent2288]

I AM always in Divine Right Time. Thank You for the shared wisdom, my pool is rippling outward and inward......Namaste

[@debbiestaite3184]

Geepas - cut to the chase for goodnesses sake. Basically hes saying we need to learn emotional regulation. We need to feel to heal, to become more in tune to notice when stuff affects us and not store it. The issue i see is that if weve been abused etc we dont like feeling. They are the things we try and stay away from. It is a huge commitment to learn how to stay in our bodies when we are being triggered back to for example a 7yr old but it is possible to learn. A feeling lasts 90 seconds unless we perpetuate it with our thinking. Its a long road but worth it

[@Heart-Core]

Everyone needs loving relationships with other people for a happy life❣️ The same as you need a loving relationship to yourself! 🤗 To love is the most beautiful and intelligent ability living beings have. And therefore everyones basic need. It's our natural inner compass for a beautiful and happy life with each other. And not accidentally synonymous with 'human'ity and its evolution towards social intelligence!♥️🕊️

[@sandbar3000]

Every body needs to WORK & EARN ENOUGH MONEY In order to not go homeless, maybe if I was married. I wouldn't be talking about this, but I don't see a husband or a wife supporting me and because I live alone. I'm the only one that could work here. I don't think an aunt you can go to work for me. I can tell the aunt. Can you go to work for me and? Pay my rent for me Why is it that Michael singer only talks about love? He never talks about work. He never talks about money. He never talks about people that can't work. And they're disabled, and they get off Scot. Free. They don't need to pay their rent. They have somebody else paying it for them

[@christinabruce7245]

Thank you Michael for these beautiful teachings.

[@emvaldini524]

i'm so glad i living my life in love and truth and not like this ❤❤❤😂after many ur are a of growth i've learnt my lessons and i finally happy with it without anybody ! I am love ❤

[@tracyj2886]

Extremely helpful instructions. Many thanks. ❤

[@shy6299]

"im trying to get it the way i need it to be to feel okay" - ahhh the first 10 mins just sums up everything you know you do and you can't fully clear out in words why you do it. When you're in love, you dont worry about disapproval from anyone else because loving them is enough to make you feel good. But when you're not feeling love, you try to do or control things that dont matter or worry about external things because you're not okay inside.

[@kalishiva4427]

Loneliness is a modern epidemic… not a good idea to blow it off with words about how “we are enough”… as though longing for community and companionship is some kind of problem. Spiritual bypassing!

[@loreensdh1500]

I see too that this can work theoretically, but in reality things seem more nuanced to me. Like the part of liking everything, everything has it's function and for example if some guy is touching you without permission you don't have to like that and to have boundaries and set them is totally okay. Also in relationships.. of course the foundation of love is very important but there has to be some sort of a match? otherwise everyone could be with everyone, how does that work? But I do think to learn to love who you are and accepting how your life is, is a good base to work on instead of staying dependent on others / factors in your live.

[@ceeeceee8753]

@@loreensdh1500Yeah and I’m wondering about one sided (platonic) relationships too. That’s what’s going on in my life at the moment.

[@jeannieotb8491]

What's the point in living if we don't remember our life's lessons and learn from them. That's not attachment is it? The point is, not to hold it inside so you don't get triggered, just keep it as a memory.?

[@BreakThruAbuse]

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[@Beeatrix]

Good stuff

[@rachelh7079]

“Dig that your hair frizzes” 😂😂✨🙏🏽♥️

[@salimi.sheriff7608]

You are the ocean in a drop , you are the Universe in ecstatic motion , that is why it is only in movement and Locomotion that life exists philosophically ❤

[@inesbezjakkoznjak2163]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for this... It helps me to find my love inside myself again, not a need not an urge...I am again asking myself: what would love do? Bliss, again bliss, that I lost because an ilusion of needing love from others. I found it again in myself.

[@lisaperez8276]

Thank you so much. This clarified so much for me. Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏼💖💖💖

[@yusrasameerullah2781]

I’m not sure why teachers say we don’t have soul mates. The day life is a dream or game and in the same teaching will say we have no soul mates. Yes we do . Well whoever choose to play that role. We still need to purify our needy love, but not their isn’t a soul mate. In ultimate reality nothing exists. Otherwise, I fully resonate. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@anders28]

Thank you so much. People places and things. I try hard to keep things into perspective and to be intact with my feelings...... And jot judge or be judged. I've had to cut off sooooo many toxic people in my recovery past years. X love to you and everyone listening

[@deborahmontgomery7881]

Such a fun loving little meditation. And so easy to take accountability for ourselves. Good stuff.

[@benterinaldo8491]

Beautiful and wonderful ♥️

[@anna-lisastevenson9331]

Beautifully spoken words of wisdom❤ Thank you🙏

[@patreeseeahhh1606]

Inner agony 😩 WHY!😬am I ‘SO’ SENSITIVE? 👀! Relax 😌 & LET-GO 🙏

[@rivermama5701]

Thank you for sharing this beautiful work. 🙏🏽❤️

[@crpggamer]

I often feel sad because I'm going nowhere and feel that the people around me are mindlessly following the crazy wheel of people in power. They seem blind to intelligence and seem to prefer social games. They also like blind positivity. None the less I also realize that my issue is more me than them. They can do what they want. It shouldn't be making me sad. My main issue seems to be with my inability to let go of what how I perceive things should be vs how they've ended up. I seem to be seeking others praise, popularity, control, and other things that I know won't solve my issues. I feel like I let go of such petty concerns once, but am finding it very hard to do so right now. I had more support in the past, but I shouldn't need it.

[@kristinebennett2228]

I struggle also with the way it appears out there. I just now wonder if some innocent, ideal part of me has had a naive, precious, unrealistic pov, that has kept me stuck in dissatisfaction. I have resisted accepting the 'human condition' experience, ( based in free will to continue forward in). Ultimately, I choose to transcend that conditioning from the bs I downloaded from a chaotic childhood. I appreciate the references he makes to the higher and lower chakra energies, and their manifestations in my life experiences. Clear and spot on. Every day is a new opportunity !

[@crpggamer]

@@kristinebennett2228 I feel that I'm conditioned to resist things that happen. I label them as bad and good. Right and wrong. If people and things don't fit into my idea of those things I get depressed. I think my way forward is to let go of all of that. Things may happen that I don't like. People may do things that I don't agree with. None the less it shouldn't bother my inner peace. That is their way. I also should let go of my need to have certain things. Thank you.

[@BreakThruAbuse]

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[@georgescheuchenzuberiv410]

Singer is amazing… almost all revolves around “surrender” to self, love, peace, balance, kindness, inspiration, and life .. flow.. surrender Peace be with all of you just as you, and then all of us, as a collective 🙏

[@davinaross6625]

in gratitude 🙏

[@Bijou_248]

Wow . . . I knew this but didn't know how to put it in words. **It is said and believed that our gut (lower centers/chakras) acts like our 2nd brain. The heart is the center bridge. I know what to do to make my bridge better equipped for life, wellness. Thank you so much for bringing better clarity of love to the table. 🙏💕🌈✨🙋‍♀️

[@MXVan]

Thank you. 🌿 deeply transformative ❤

[@JLZR1]

This one’s a keeper .. many thanks.. Namaste 🙏🏼

[@michaelbonanno7476]

This is true! Love this so much! Thank you for posting this!

[@cynthiarobinson2279]

Didn’t expect to laugh so much 😂. Thank You, I’m actually doing better than i thought💓 ⬆️

[@tinabendz7501]

Omg 🌺🎶🔆❤️ so true and you deliver so f….. funny 😂 thank you 🙏🏼

[@sarahfaith6531]

I do believe some people have easier lives than others. Not that we don’t all experience great sorrows but that trauma is much harder to overcome than it seems. I’m always happy to hear Michael singers thoughts and then left with the feel that he doesn’t have great trauma to leap through and beyond:

[@paolamillo4913]

Who defines “hard” or “harder”? Guess who? YOU What does that say? Just let it go!

[@hdskl2150]

@@paolamillo4913 hmm attacking someone for trauma, what does that say about you?

[@Unitewithourcreator]

Wonderful productive amazing speech.. thank you so much

[@mantvydasluk9522]

Thank you so much! Amazing speech! ❤

[@ReneeKnightYogaRani]

Nice talk, Michael!

[@AVita_9]

Oh so beautifully explained

[@sannelind9259]

☀️☀️☀️

[@sushmitamukherjee3290]

I love Mr Singer but please could someone tell him to slow down a bit. Sometimes I am struggling to catch his words and I know they are priceless so plz request him to slow down so that Indians like me can get the full benefit of what he is sharing so lovingly 🙏

[@SeatsofContemplation]

Hi, did you know you can slow down the speed of KZbin videos? Click the Settings button on the video. Then select Playback Speed. Select whatever speed works best for you. You can also set a Custom Speed. Hope that helps!

[@carolinasoulshine8949]

This is so on point. ❤

[@georgia-carolinafrenchbulldogs]

This was very helpful ❤ Thank you.

[@annlacorte3787]

Best talk 🙌❤

[@nehaatwal3237]

Recently came across this channel. And what a blessing it truly is. 😊

[@kerrybergen7657]

Praise the Lord I'm so Greatful for you!

[@kellygdotart]

That is how I'm feeling right now ❤ I feel so free 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@dewaldsteyn5233]

Thank you for this! Wonderfully perceptive and clear teachings, if tough to follow through on. It's time I start being okay with myself, to let love flow.

[@jeremycranford2732]

Thank you. 🙏

[@smallsteps3801]

22:00 reminder to myself :)

[@Lioness_of_Gaia]

This was articulated in such a useful and clear way! ✨💚

[@trulahudelson8118]

Wow. ❤

[@yappish2.062]

Amazing stuff,

[@user-kt3jf6st7y]

❤ Thank You❤

[@aida.e420]

I agree with what he is saying but I believe moments unfolding can be altered before and after they happen. Matter changes with frequency, and as humans we have the power to change our frequencies. When you start to see everything as energy, everything changes. I agree with what he is saying but he is missing that moments are energy and we are energy so we can learn to manipulate it if we want to

[@kiahrae]

Wow ❤

[@bijouxglass]

So soothing thank you 🤍

[@rebeccaknebel7763]

Thank you ❤

[@ilovebeing]

Thank you so much❤

[@kimulm0619]

This is good .❤

[@DENISEASTUNO-ow1qz]

❤Thank you ❤🙏😇

[@abelz04]

Thankyou ❤

[@femmefatale55]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@maysaraali5772]

❤❤❤

[@meloneymoore8856]

Thank you sooo much for this insight💡💡💡-Xclusyph Icon

[@danielj5266]

Hi Matt ❤

[@trishf2184]

Who are you Seats of Contemplation???? Thanks for these. But who are you guys?

[@shelleyjames4329]

I wish I could keep up with how fast he talks. I'm really interested but can't understand most of it :(

[@SeatsofContemplation]

If you go to the Video Settings, you can slow down the playback rate.

[@johnnyt.sollitto512]

☺️❤️🙏🏼

[@yishaishasha8690]

Love is not a thing , it's the essence of your being . It's your deepest identity. Sadly most humans are disconnected from their essence. Because they're hooked up by egoic mind.

[@mollyhungerford3071]

So beautiful! Thank you! Ps- the subject tonight is love was Hafiz, not Rumi.

[@SeatsofContemplation]

Thanks so much for pointing that out! "The Subject Tonight is Love" by Hafiz: The subject tonight is Love And for tomorrow night as well, As a matter of fact, I know of no better topic For us to discuss Until we all Die!

[@kierantudorhair567]

I have had some thoughts listening to Michael Singer lately about what he says about the moment in front of you having nothing to do with you, and how that fits in with ten latest consciousness theories and quantum physics, for example Tej observer effect does have a real influence on an outcome of an experiment. I get it that it’s not personal but I’m struggling to grapple with what he is saying and what other people are saying about simulation theory etc

[@SeatsofContemplation]

I think of it this way. There have been 13.8 billion years of observer effects influencing outcomes. Any effect I have had as the observer is pretty insignificant.

[@larryritter5741]

Yes..!! Don't absorb just observe....I'm working on this ...😂 26:16 26:19

[@reveallovelightflow]

I have a question. What is that I need to let go. What if I have an image that probably is reason for blockage?

[@SeatsofContemplation]

You let go of the disturbance. When you notice that something has disturbed you, you remain centered in the Seat of Awareness. Simply watch the internal disturbance. You relax and lean away from the disturbance. You don't jump into it with your awareness. You release it.

[@christinalizzi6534]

Does anyone know which course he is referring to that he mentions in this? Powerful talk.

[@SeatsofContemplation]

It's an 8 hour course offered through Soundstrue. You can find a link to "Online Video Course" on Michael Singer's website: tou.org/books-inspiration/ Further down the page, you'll also find a link to a free 3 part video series which is a high level introduction to the full 8 hour course. The course is great. I took the course 8 years ago and I think I got more from the course than from initially reading his book. The talks he releases today cover much of the same material, but the course seems more structured, more organized. It would be especially beneficial for a beginner.

[@InnerBloomAcademy]

Stop trying to get it to be the way you need it to be so you can feel ok wow

[@christinaforras]

Let’s start calling Maya “country music, etc.”

[@PersisP]

love is not: I will swim the ocean to be with you, to share my life with you. Thats romance and still dependency. You want nothing in return, you just love them for who they are, not how You feel around tgem

[@wolfmansrabbittrails136]

What is the phrase he says at the beginning of all of his talks, and what does it mean?

[@jeanmitton4287]

Glory to the Great remover of Darkness❤

[@jeanmitton4287]

Jai Masters

[@charleywalker9272]

Devine timing,✨🫂🙏 and you made me cack up laughing at some of the expressions you used. You're a great dude. And thanks for the video. ❤😂 This did change my time line as I've learned in believe in lies and let go. I'm currently on a journey using moldavite crystal and synchronicities and release is spiraling up. I'm learning to love life.

[@thomasshy7996]

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[@daniellejordan8753]

What is wrong with not liking things ? If we just liked everything it would be pretty boring place to be.

[@SeatsofContemplation]

I don't think he's saying to just like everything. I think he's saying don't be so invested in your preferences that if they don't happen, you suffer. And if your mind is saying "If this happens, then I'll be ok", it's probably wrong.

[@kalishiva4427]

These are just words that sound fancy and deep. Humans are wired for companionship. That’s just the way it is… nothing mysterious about it.

[@jennie39105]

The only thing thats true here is talking about removing. 21:01 blockages/needs and moving up to your higher center. Desire is not a 4 letter word. We are built w desire - for air water food love joy...and hes basically saying to want these things is wrong. I keep trying with him..but it feels so counter to what I believe/can be verified as true. Detachment I understand but he's talking about total apathy.

[@JaneP-ah44isgrea8]

Calm down ❤

[@waakkeuppp]

Powerful message, but his energy gives me anxiety 19:16 24:58 29:40 34:12 38:23

[@theophila214]

I dont even need the timestamps. Just, lol, yes. He seems to have dissatisfaction, annoyance, etc. I dont know what all. ... I havent watched a lot from him, so I dont know if this is a new tone/attitude for him. Maybe he's having "a day" ?? Anyway, yup. Not calming energy, from my perspective. So, not as easy to take from it.