Middle Class And School Selection For Kids

[@SangoLifeSutras]

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[@RaviMishra-or2st]

आप ऐसे आदमी होंगे ज़ो अपने मां बाप को‌ पानी भी नहीं देते होगेऊ😂😂

[@niveditamenashi2517]

😊​@@RaviMishra-or2st

[@minakshibhateja3560]

Sir, I am agree with you. My thinking is like you and I do the same with my child

[@maharwahab4189]

Great advise

[@pranavjgangani]

I did the same for my kid. I used to pay 1 lakh fees for junior for an international school which was 4kms away. Sab tante the udhar. So I changed that school which is next to my residence which is an old school and more established than any new schools around, has better caring teachers and so less fees. I am doing SIP for him for his college fees to put him in better college. He is more happier than ever now. His society friends are his classmates. And he has more time at hand because he doesn't waste time in school bus and still has energy left. So now he has more time to utilize and he does in a better way. Me and my wife are more than happy as our WFH gets easily managed. Life is simple.

[@monika.chauhan_7]

1 lakh for one mnth is very high sir . Aapne bahut sahi decision liya

[@jagrutichasmawala6179]

Smart move!! Your contribution will be rewarded later.

[@pranavjgangani]

@@monika.chauhan_7 They are increasing fess by 15-20% every year.

[@ShivamGupta-wf5ni]

​@@monika.chauhan_7Aunty year ki hogi month kaise possible hai?

[@NishantSharma-tr6xl]

@@ShivamGupta-wf5ni bhai 4 lakh/month vale school bhi hain

[@LokeshTulsani]

@10:10 bilkul sahi bola.. ameero ke baccho ko bigadne ke baad sudharna aata hai.. middle class ke bacche bigad gaye to sudharna mushkil hai

[@jyotimiho4171]

As someone who went to a school like this I really resonate with your video, all the rich kids get treated better then middle class students in every aspect. Most middle class kids were neglected by the school officials and they didn’t see them of any value. These schools don’t offer much quality education just a way for you to go fancy places and take fancy photos.

[@swetabaghel8726]

Sir Iam a principal in private school...and agree with u very well.

[@mukeshagondh2048]

Mam kon se school me ho ap

[@VerywellPeople-bs7ol]

​@@mukeshagondh2048satpuda valley public school balaghat mp

[@himanshurastogi8891]

Ye sahi tha mam 😀

[@pulkit3943d]

Good evening ma'am, recognised me?

[@VikashSingh-vp6zl]

Tum log lootate bahut ho. Pvt hospital & pvt school logo ko lootne k liye hi bane hain.

[@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785]

I have noticed a simple pattern in terms of selection of school. 1. If you are lower middle class and want your child to excel in STEM field, be clear with him from the very beginning that he has to be the bread winner for the family and has to only focus on STEM subjects like Math, Physics and Science. Don't give that much focus on all round development, if he can crack a good enough IIT/NIT/Good Gov Engg college that's enough. For that take a school near your house which will save his travelling and focus more on his time for tutions. Preferably choose State Board schools because they won't focus on other things. 2. If you have a business and want your kids to take over it later, put your kid in CBSE, he will be a bit of everything. He will be connected to the ground reality of India as well as the corporate world. And also there is a scope of all round development, but not that it compromises on his technical studies. 3. If you're upper middle class and wealthy enough, prepare up your kid for higher education in a foreign country. Focus very well on his English, another Foreign Language, okay enough on Maths and more on organizational work. Put him in a IB School/ICSE School and train him how would he find a job in a foreign country. Contact your relatives in that country, and also connect him with the particular communities in that country. Here he is not only for men, he here means any student irrespective of gender. Pardon me for omitting she here.

[@omanajz]

Lower class should put their kids in cbse school because the syllabus for competitive exams includes ncert books. CBSE schools teach directly from NCERT books while state govt books are derived from outdated NCERT books. Many state govt syllabi have unnecessary portions, state boards don't update the books regularly unlike NCERT. State boards and ICSEs are not helpful for competitive exams.

[@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785]

@@omanajz Agreed. I believe putting them in a KV would help.

[@kattarshwetabhbhakt6785]

@@Sample-Alok-KZbin Disagree absolutely. Lower middle class people should only focus on cracking good companies/getting into MBBS/cracking something big. Basic skills won't take them ahead. They don't have the edge over upper middle class and rich people. So it's better that they put good work ethics on him and make him excel in stem from the very beginning

[@yourguide1734]

I don't agree with this part of ur answer.

[@rahulroy515]

Thanks for sharing a detailed analysis on this

[@zetorxa]

One more thing which I'm noticing nowadays specially middle class is purchasing costly cars on loans, just to show others that i own a big and costly car.

[@shivkapoor3302]

beacuse Indian society is status-driven aka show off driven not wealth driven if someday Indian society will change direction towards wealth driven then growth of India will touch to next level

[@bhawnasmriti]

100% agree with you, and this is one topic that I figured out on my own before seeing your video. I think schools like K.V and APS are much better options. Save your money in Primary and Secondary Education and then utilise that saved amount in College Degree. In today's world any good college does not just give you knowledge but it gives you 2 things - Thought Process and Networking and that's what a student should expect from his/her college.

[@GarudAtma]

those two are also absent in the colleges not in the tier 1 city

[@shiva.19]

Right

[@shivani5145]

I taught in APS ...do much discrimination with Civilians

[@blessj27]

Please do not put ur children's initial career in KVS , damn worst school!

[@BasantUpadhyay-h6g]

Literally, मौज कर दी । I m in mid forties & holding this view 10 -15 years back. I often offended many whenever I preached this especially to my siblings , friends, relatives & near - dear. कसम से बहुत अच्छा लगा आपकी बात सुनकर क्योंकि हमारे वहा तो रुझान भी आने लगे है और लोग अब भी नही मान रहे ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@deepakdeshmukh545]

Your typical Middle Class terms/dialogues like "Pet Kat Ke" and realistic/practical approch is very connecting to my/our middle class life

[@accessashutosh]

Sir yaha US me bada aaram hai , saare bacche apne area ke gov school me jate hai by default. There is no school fees, but we pay high property tax which indirectly pay for school.

[@smilekapoor]

Very relative topic. Bhed chaal se niklne ki ummid deti hai bhaiyon bahno ko 😊. Sirf school se kuchh nhi hota, homework m parents ko dhyaan dena hi hota hai and chahiye bhi. Tk control.

[@shak1230]

Relevant

[@mayurbharwad007]

चाचा, सोच रास्ता दिमाग साफ़ करने के लिए धन्यवाद। ये बात सही लगी के बच्चे के नाम पर निवेश कर के उसको प्लेटफार्म तो मिलेगा भविष्य में

[@maheshrao-u8w]

Bilkul sahi he mene phele se hi ye cheez soch rakhi thi agar Paisa hi chahiye to phir expensive education me Paisa kyo waste krana agar sahi jagah invest Karo to bacche ke jawan hone Tak ek bada corpus ho jayega phir cahe to job kare ya business apni marji se full freedom 😊😅

[@shelleymarwaha8010]

Very good information, I truly agree with this as I have gone through this with my daughter. And I realised very early and changed her school.

[@u087183]

100% agree…school loot rahey hai…education mey naam pey jhumla hai…and fees has no correlation to actual worth. I think it’s more to do with parents ego…they want to show to their relatives their oneupmanship

[@shivkapoor3302]

kisi ne agar bacche ke dimag ka aisi ki taisi karwani hai toh school bhej do baki kaam school bade aaram se kar dega baacho ke dimag ka

[@PriyankaD1985]

I totally agree with you.. hamne bhi SIP karva di... instead of sending a child to an expensive school.. 😊

[@AtharvaSharma-ct2lv]

Whatnis SIP

[@LalitaMangal]

What is SIP

[@SSinghLife]

​@@LalitaMangalmutual fund me

[@devinderbhandari]

Systematic investment plan (investing in mutual funds or share)

[@kritikamathur1810]

Very very important video made by you. Thank u so much for helping out middle class in making decisions.

[@Proud_Pagan]

I also put my kids in a famous convent school in the city I was posted earlier but after coming to Delhi I decided to put them in a reputed Kendriya Vidyalaya of Delhi and there was an astonishing improvement both in the academic profile and all round personality. Kendriya Vidyalaya offers some unique and great opportunities which one can't afford or get even if one is ready to spend money .

[@GarudAtma]

only central govt emplyees can send their children in KV or throguh by connections. not all Any KV at random is same as or better than top 10 private school in Delhi

[@Shankhanil_Paul]

KV RK Puram is really good

[@GarudAtma]

@@Sample-Alok-KZbin yup, agree

[@dineshgupta8988]

​@@Shankhanil_Paul what about KV saket??

[@batmannots]

​@@GarudAtmano bro even jobless person can send his children to kv , first have some knowledge about admission processand then you should talk.

[@parmodsheoran2525]

dhanaywaad guruji.Thinking on same line but now got absolute clarity.

[@divyahluwalia3082]

Saraswati Vidya mandir is best for personal well being. Education is not only for earning money but for being a good human while contributing in society in specialised field. SVM let you know about your country, culture and religion. If your fundamentals build up you can touch the sky with glory.

[@puneetwazir1084]

My child is studying in KV and i am completely satisfied with the level of teaching and other extra curricular activities which they made the children to get involve into on regular basis...If your child is sincere , there is going to be all round development of his/her personality while studying in KV....and he/she would definitely make a mark in life in the time to come....Teachers in KVs are recruited through all India competitive exams, so are obviously much more capable and knowledgeable than the teachers teaching in these so called fancy private schools, which in true sense, schools are less and money minting machines are more...

[@lord_veda5610]

Clarity Giver for a reason!! Thank you, Sir!

[@vidyabhushansao6267]

Useful video . We need to understand this and rethink before choosing school for our kid. Never take any step just to showoff others.

[@durjansingh2709]

Bahut Achcha bataya Guruji Dimag ka gubbara Nikal Gaya kyunki middle class ko bahut Gumrah aur Takrana Hota Hai

[@surakshapaulinelakra2321]

I usually don't comment but was compelled to. It hit home...so resonated with me....point taken....thank you so much. The video was hilarious at the same time.....my husband could not convince me regarding school selection 😂😂.....I'm so glad I came across your video....thank you again.

[@manishpandey3433]

Bilkul sahi bat hai sir. Main bangalore me rahta hu, normal private school me bhi lkg ka fee 1 lakh se jyada hai. Manage hona muskil hai

[@amolkhare9683]

Aaj ke jamane ki sahi situation batai hai sir aapne bohat helpful hai aapki guidence thank you sir

[@achievegoal1586]

I salute sir...maine pahli bar aaj aapki video dekhi ......aur mai in sabhi batok ko zaroor follow karunga ..

[@agk1109]

Sir You are absolutely correct 100 percent I totally agree Going to Hi fi schools creates inferiority complex Going to school which is far from home wastes a lot of time. You are right one should go to near by school. I didn't gain anything by going to a hifi school. My 2 hours were wasted in going and returning.

[@priteshkirdak9347]

Sir, dil ki baat bol di❤❤,,, sahi or sida,, saf saf dabaya...🙏

[@rahuldhandore2359]

Jaise santo ke pravachan sunte hai waise hi aapke lecture India me sune Jane chahiye hamare naye samaj ke nirman ke liye aapki bahut need hai. Thanks Sir

[@fightingspirit675]

Baat sahi boli gayi hai iss video m wo 100 percent thik hai lekin tu santo se tulna mat kr kisi ki bhi warna gaali sun lega

[@vipinpanwar660]

Sir aapki baat sun kar bahut achha laga aur bahut sari chijen clear Hui thnku sir

[@pradeepkhandekar4267]

Grateful for the education from Kendriya vidyalayas ❤

[@poojabhagawat3920]

Absolutely correct sir, and thank you for your guidance.

[@deeptiahuja181]

My husband sent me this and I am your Subscriber now 🤭 maan gaye guruji 🙏

[@jaivirdahiya3328]

Aap ka bhi bacha padtha h

[@shyamjiki]

Maje v aayenge dard v hoga...but you will feeling crazy

[@flyupp]

Yes Sir,, This was very clear to as we all complaint about Indian Education System.. Either we go to metro city or any town or any small city every school have near about same curriculum..

[@dharasoni8859]

Are sir.. kahaa the ap😄 first vdo dekhi hai apki.. ekdm point to point baat👍 mere bachche ka admission KV me krvaya hai.. husband privet school me bhejna chahte the., pr maine nhi krvaya. Mere mind me jo chal rha tha, apne wahi bola hai👍🙏

[@abhishekragarwal28]

Gazab ka gyaan hai sir.... It was really helpful...

[@asoulonjourney...4468]

Mere dil ki saari baatein bol di aaj aapne 😂. Thank you so much

[@rachnadhamu4617]

M middle class se hu or mere papa ne mujhe top education di cbse school se lekr top clg. But ye kabhi pta hi nahi chla ki actual m krna kya h. Education ke bad m fir se self study krke sb pta kiya jo mujhe 15 sal pahle pta hona chahiyw tha. Or m final kiya ki mere bche govt school m padhege or sari scholarahip lenge or enjoy krege. Kisi b school m bhej do tution to deni hi hogi. Or tution ki jrurt nahi kyonki m science background se hu or bcho ke liye m arts or commerce sikhi h bcho ke liye.

[@sankyppp]

I was sent to a school that has good teacher, a big playground, computer lab(a luxury back then). Mere building mein there were families jinke bacche paas wali school mein jaate jahaan zameen pe baithke seekhte. Lekin aaj hum donon mein koi antar nahin hai. Unke bhi acche jobs hai, acche ghar hai, acchi life hai.

[@Trainmanager_Vipin]

Kya lecture hai hats off

[@sparshroy525]

hello, please talk about the parents who made it big so that they can afford spoiled kids

[@uchatila1053]

Amit Sangawan Sir.....is middle class mesiah......great guidances!!!

[@gauravgusain-108]

India me 5% school college hi thik thak education de rahe hai , बाकी सब कचरा फैक्ट्री है

[@gauravgusain-108]

​@@Sample-Alok-KZbinथोड़ा खुद भी मेहनत करके देखो , सबकुछ दूसरा ही बताएगा 😂

[@Geekyvlog]

The best explanation can be given for this thing.

[@cavijayagarwal1531]

Sir, first of all, thank you from the bottom of my heart for understanding me so well. This is the problem of every middle class today, which will change by watching this video. Each and every line of you are correct. #Don't compare others child#

[@MyBachhu]

I completely agree with you I've observed this very closely

[@PradeepSingh-fh6pw]

Gem of a person protect this men at any cost u are great sir ji

[@occultguidancewithsabrina]

Love this channel.❤You are such an intelligent man! 🎉

[@Relaxdrip]

Kendriya vidyalaya mei humare time bahut zaida teachers students k beech discrimination karte the..only apne favourite students ko he har jagah aage

[@vihaneditz123]

😮right. Humare Sath b esa hua

[@akhilchalil1585]

The best part is, whoever goes to their tuition are their favorites

[@kcc1984]

The time is over now for that tendency .😂😂 I am also from kvs ... and accidentally now a KVS teacher 😂

[@jpmukherjeefinance]

Face the same situation in KV

[@I_know_everything_at_once]

Perfect, I had studied in a normal shishu Vidya mandir school, near my locality.

[@kksivakumar6878]

Sir, you are absolutely right..

[@mukulagrahari]

Saraswat Vidya Mandir Schools,KV and JNV are best schools.. Amd parents should also indulge their self with the children

[@theuniquecoachingclasses3567]

Best video very informative sir .thank you for the effort sir

[@DHRUVAMUKHERJEE]

I am a KVS alumni and a teacher in Navodaya Vidyalaya. I can understand what this gentleman is speaking.

[@triptipant3719]

Very well said sir..don't do it just for the sake of doing it should give value to the kid...

[@triptipant3719]

Put kaput to kya dhan sanche..put saput to kya dhan sanche...

[@steadyhorse1]

Pls make a video on the trend of multiple activity classes and tuitions since nursery nowadays..

[@archanarandaye1689]

Very good video. Mindset to change specially of middle class is so difficult. Hope this video enlighten cattle class .

[@pradeephawaibam4975]

Sir, thank you for this information. I have been discussing about this with my wife for admission of my kids. My son is going to be in class 1 and am searching school for his admission. Now I got the answer

[@Sonny0276]

Great Video. Thank you for posting.

[@nitinjain6836]

Sir, 100% sahi bolaa aapne..... Meri beti kee nursery fees 1.6 lakhs per year hai!! Mujhe khud yahi lagtaa hai kee itne paise kee fd yaa sip karvaa lo...... Zyada kharchaa karne kaa koi point nahi hai..... These pvt schools are over rated

[@yourguide1734]

Sir although I agree to this view but to be honest, since I was put in a good school, my perspective is better than my parents.... May deep.down my parents knew that.... I am not saying put your childr in ultra rich school....which are above your means but a decent school which are at par would do. My mother is a state govt. School teacher, we all know how pathetic the conditions of those schools are. Though at my level, I would definitely put my kids in KV,DAV etc and put more efforts in home schooling which my parents could not have afforded well.

[@priyankakumar4548]

Sir, thank you so much... you actually answered all my questions... thank you!!!!

[@shiprasajwan9835]

Sir mere husband bolte thw k baccho ko acche school me padao but main nhi chahti thi main bolti hu pass k school me hi thik hai or aaj aapne mere liye ye video bna di thank you sir u r my favourite youtuber thank u sir

[@shiprasajwan9835]

@@Sample-Alok-KZbin baat aforde ki nhi hai acche mtlv 10000 rs.month ki fees ho jiski

[@shiprasajwan9835]

Abhi mere dono bacche pass CBSE me pad rhe hai mere husband chahte k main ICSE me addmission karau meri beti 5 th class me hai or beta nursery me to mujhe lgta hai yhi best hai or main bhi unko padti hu ghr pr

[@souravmazumdar1688]

100% accurate analysis even I had this same thinking for my future kids 😅

[@Beingsimpleisanart]

I agree

[@atultyagi5595]

The best topic ever...sir saluted...

[@prashantkumarsingh7113]

Should middle class send their children to inefficient and dysfunctional govt schools where there is no scope for learning at all ? There may be defects in private schools, but bitter truth is that, they've saved the Indian education system from total collapse. Sir, ask 1. How much money does the government spend on improving govt schools ? 2. Is the expenditure on govt schools equal to the expenditure on MPs, MLAs, sarkari babus ? 3. Inspite of collecting education "cess", there is no single govt school which is equivalent to DPS,...and such schools. Where does that tax money go ? 4. How many teacher vacancies get completed on time without legal dispute just like IAS, or elections ? 5. Why there are contractual teachers in govt education institutions ? We pay through the nose for private school, tuition fees not bcoz of our choice, but bcoz of lack of sustainable option.

[@PankajKumar-zd3ux]

Guru ji, I have no words to thank you for giving million dollars advices. Your contents are really unique.🙏 please keep making these vedios.

[@meerarajamani77]

Bulls eye analysis Sir. The main issue is that middle class parents are treating school education like computer coding i.e. if you give a certain input then you will get a certain output. Middle class parents are thinking that if they put their children in a certain type of school or a particular board then the children will definitely become something spectacular or whatever the parents are imagining. Unfortunately very few parents take the trouble to understand their children. I feel that the parents' focus should be on raising a mentally and emotionally healthy child. Such children will then definitely do well in life on their own terms.

[@jash923]

Sir, I've come across numerous motivational videos and quotes advocating for investing more in finding the best school and coaching than in other expenses. However, this particular video has presented a different perspective. I've already taken that approach, and now, I'm feeling quite apprehensive 😳.

[@amitduhan09]

amazing eye opening video in today times...really loved it

[@PKS_tech37]

Genuine video..but what is solution, middle class never opt govt school. afforadable housing ke sath affordable school bhi suru ho jaye to middle class ko pet katne ki naubat nai ayegi specially in city like Gurugram.

[@rashmiverma7761]

Sir please homeschooling ya online homeschooling k options pe bhi video banaye please...u r eye opener for society...wish India ka har 40+ person thinks like you..

[@Newcreation2650]

Sir thank you so much i have the same dilemma .i also have view that i should send my daughter in best of best school since my parent sent me in best school of my area but my mind keep on saying that send them in kv or aps since we are in defence. But now thanks to you i am clear where I have to send my daughter.

[@Farzanak-r3m]

Sir apne Jo bola 100% correct hai..lekin ek baat aur hai Jisse middle class darta hai normal school bhejne apne bacche ko wo isliye ki waha Aanne wale bacche bad language use karna bad words use karna..ye sab se bhi darte hai ki kali unka baccha aisa na Bolne lag Jaiye..ispe ap kya sochte hai

[@debrajmukherjee2721]

Thank you for the discussion Guruji 🙏🙏🙏

[@RAhlawat9255]

Thank you, Guru Ji.. Its really a eye opening video..

[@anshumanshukla217]

Sir, I saw after 1 year but it is really worth it to me because I want to choose school for my daughter

[@anuragchaudhary8797]

Agree sir.. reason that ppl sending their kid because they think this way their kids will develop a rich boy mentality.. infact its opposite and kid will feel inferior.. parents should teach their kids to accept reality and should promote for organic growth

[@opahuja3582]

Certificates of schools Whether from open or Govt.or pvt are acceptable in govt service throughout the country.

[@snehhalvarma3687]

Thank you so much.. Hm bhi pet kat kr Saturday ko admission le rahe the Thank you

[@drnavneetgill1978]

I am a proud navodayan

[@mohsinashennaart]

I am trying to stretch my pocket for admission of my daughter and very confused today and suddenly saw this video… you are right sir.. I’ll not do this now

[@koushal.361]

Moral of the story “दिमाग़ में थोड़ा देसीपन होना ज़रुरी है ”

[@ramantyagi7953]

Amit ji - you have been consistently producing high quality and thought provoking videos. Thanks for the efforts you have been putting into helping awaken ppl. Fantastic content!!

[@nishisaxena1169]

I agree with you Sir!

[@manshaanand5760]

Maza agya...bot hi sahi video👏

[@fightingspirit675]

Sahi baat boli sir aap ne yahi mai bhi sochta tha pata nahi kyu log baag itna stress paalte hai apne sar par...... Self respect sabse jaruri hai

[@PreetiSingh-by5wf]

Dear Sir please make a video on the dilemma on which is more peaceful and satisfying/ sustainable of the following options regarding work: A. Stable job regular increments/promotions + Lots of leaves + Good professional growth + 40x2= 80 Km commute per day B. Better starting salary + okayish increments/promotion + 5 working days of 8.5 hrs + okayish professional growth +

[@JitendraKumar-sw5pf]

प्राइमरी एजुकेशन वहाँ कराना चाहिए जहाँ आपकी लैंग्वेज मे पढ़ाई होती हो, उसके बाद 6-7 मे इंग्लिश स्कूल मे करना चाहिए

[@Shoma25]

Totally agree with guruji a " PET KAT KE " .....

[@HM-js2uz]

Shi kha sir maine husband ki jaan kha li ki bache kv main kyu lgae jb hm ashe school main pda skte the. Aj apki baate sunke apni glti ka ehsaas ho rha hai

[@DeepakKumar-bl3qd]

Thanks guruji, iam so confused about my kids admission, actually i also thinks in a same way but its a peer pressure of society, friends and relatives which makes us dumb. Now i have full confidence in my decision iam spending adequate money to kid education and aim for lonterm investment and savings.😊😊

[@ionafernandes3681]

Dr Sir, I truly agree wit U here. Treatment fr Rich is way beyond measures as compared to Middle Middle Class. In real world only d Rich r favored n r given high preference in all they do whether they r capable or not. Still Middle Middke Class suffers n strive hard 2 cum up. It's really no joke n a lot of effort is put into 2 achieve success. They treat Middle Class differently n d full fly including d child suffers to attain their goals n reach d top. Wat a Bad privilege one faces in life. The rich will move only wit d Rich Class n the Middle Class gets neglected in all their life. Wat a TRUE Story!!!! I ♥️tily reciprocate d same in all I say. Best Rgds♥️🙏

[@Mr.Neelesh_Saha_]

Pranam Guruji 🙏

[@diauser3327]

better to choose a school close to home and much within budget, finally what the kids do or achieve later in life is their own destiny, parents should stop making themselves responsible for their kids future and worry too much, am not a parent, but this is what i feel to do in future, if have my own biological or adopted kids ever,

[@kdhd100]

Best video..... This guy is way ahead of the curve.....

[@AkshGandharv]

This video helped me a lot. Thank You, currently going through admission process.