No judgement on the others, but the monogamous guy has a better chance at a truly intimate loving relationship. Bravo to him.
@NYWF5 ай бұрын
The cute guy with the blue top and white shirt underneath was absolutely adorable. When he said he would like to have guys chasing him instead of him always being the one who does the chasing just broke my heart! He should have guys lining up for him with his super cute looks. He was so right when he took the microphone and explained how bad gay guys are at communicating! The guy who was talking about feeing so alone in his stand on wanting monogamy was super cute too. I believe in monogamous relationships as well, so he and I would get along very nicely! Great work as always Art. Enjoyed this very much! ❤
@DWS14355 ай бұрын
I have been in a monogamist relationship for 55 years.
@gwenstaff5 ай бұрын
55 years the same Dic**** ? OMG ..
@alienzardsketter.90765 ай бұрын
wow that is amazing I would like to hear more from you ...open relationships are not relationships no Love at all ,,, If someone needs someone else then you are not enough for them , you come short of what they want let them go...find what they need and you protect your need for true Love in a relationship .
@DWS14353 ай бұрын
@Bojan_V Thank you.
@merkuri5233 ай бұрын
@@alienzardsketter.9076 hmm not necessarily
@migbham12 ай бұрын
@@alienzardsketter.9076I'm not sure I fully agree. My hubby and I have been in a monogamous relationship for 16 years and counting, but my best gay friend and his bubby play together often. It's not for me, and I love that Tim and I have something that we share with only each other, but it's patently untrue to say that there "no love at all" involved in open relationships. As my friend, Scott, put it, "they ain't nothing wrong with us wanting to ride the same roller coaster together once in awhile." He and his hubby have been together for 7 years and have built a lovely life together. It's just not a relationship ideal that I share.
@adam2dot05 ай бұрын
“Who is the queen of gay people?” I’m getting old being disappointed no one said Judy Garland 😅
@alanroig20445 ай бұрын
Yes, you are old. All people who would think about Judy Garland are already dead. (BTW she was never. You have to openly support gays to be their queen)
@Buderbukz5 ай бұрын
Oh come on, everyone knows it's Cleopatra! lol
@robertbeining1415 ай бұрын
And for me it will always be Barbra!!
@scotthix22975 ай бұрын
I’m 70 so far and in San Francisco in the 60s-70s Judy was the coolest gay mom, Babs was the official gay diva and Liza was every gay’s crazy sister. Cher is, was and always will be CHER.
@steveb46624 ай бұрын
I would have also accepted Liza Minnelli. I am also getting old. LOL
@philstoll11575 ай бұрын
I remember some of them, but there were a lot of new ones to me. This is a lot of fun you did a great job editing 🥰
@duane_f5 ай бұрын
This has a lot of my "old favorites" among interviews. Thanks for putting it together. 😃😃🎤🌈🌈💗💗
@chad0x5 ай бұрын
"Are you gay?", "Why do you ask?", "well you're in Hells Kitchen" (grin) brilliant :)
@ThomasBoyd-tx1yt5 ай бұрын
Awesome. Brilliant Art Bezrukavenko ❤❤❤
@diegom.18035 ай бұрын
Those recaps are very fun to watch ! Spencer is a cute guy (can i say that lol 🙈) Also nicee to see how you developing in your interviews Art ! Great editing loved it ❤️
@BreakerOneNine075 ай бұрын
The second guy with the hoodie and jean jacket is yummy! Very much my type. Seems just like a chill down to earth guy. 😊
@KerryKerr-t5q4 ай бұрын
So refreshing to have a video about Midwest gay men. Notice the lack of pretentiousness? Thank you!
@johnwebstre435 ай бұрын
This is great content. Interesting and packed with helpful, insightful perspectives. More Please!
@amberforte945 ай бұрын
I'm from the Chicagoland area, I'm so proud and happy at all the people that mentioned Chicago. Boystown is the most fun area in the whole city. Very good videos and well edited! 😊😊
@EwaldBarrink5 ай бұрын
Wauw many nice interviews well done bro 😊. You work hard ❤
@davidcattin70065 ай бұрын
Open relationships can fail. Friends brought in a third, one of them and the third went off on their own. That ended. Sad for the original couple. Sorry, but it's disrespectful. If you don't love the one and only you are with, just stay single if you are that horny.
@ginacort235 ай бұрын
Hookup culture in gay community is extreme lol . The only guy that most likely find a true partner is the one who wants monogamous relationship .
@symbionese23485 ай бұрын
Thirty-two years monogamous, but not stifled. And the answer is: Betty White.
@bluebook7095 ай бұрын
Open relationships are for liars and users. If you want to be in a relationship with a guy and have him do shit for you while you shop around for a boyfriend you like better that is your business, I am not interested even a little.
@billycrouse42185 ай бұрын
I have been in a monarchist relationship. Start 10 years and my husband has HIV Untransmittable, and we have been happy for 13 years 😘
@showyourvidz5 ай бұрын
“Who is the queen of gay people?” GRACE JONES!!!
@larsedik5 ай бұрын
Good one, but there is also Elvira. I met her at Dragcon once, and she was also the Grand Marshall of the Pride Parade in West Hollywood one year.
@waynejkl40353 ай бұрын
Love the love for Heartstopper ❤
@bigjud4544 ай бұрын
Please tell me the guys name that wants to be chased. He had an amazing smile and was wearing a hat!!!
@mikeomalley54075 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoyed my home town Chicago Halstead - Boystown! Amsterdam, Berlin or Cologne are 3 places I’d like to visit. I like leather and sex so those are my gay capitals!!
@richardbarrett-olson59443 ай бұрын
I watched this complete video from the perspective of a gay NYC native and I'm perplexed by the assertion mid west gays live in a 'different universe'.
@Papa_Joe65 ай бұрын
Out of them I have got to say Simon is really my type of guy...Watching them all put together and seeing how young Art was in some of them when he did these interviews, shows that how great these interviews are, and how great an interviewer Art is. xoxo💋
@johnclement93705 ай бұрын
Art is very cute, sweet, and Charming always, humorous and engaging, I ❤ Art. :-)
@ScandociouslyHG5 ай бұрын
You were here.. I wanted to be interviewed, lol.
@Cam-yp7ub4 ай бұрын
Neck, hips, and ankles
@gate84755 ай бұрын
Hm yes, I think we have the whole Pantheon of gay icons, Kylie is definitely for me. The best gay movie id say is Pricilla-queen of desert. Hilarious and amazing. Another one for me used to be Shelter for quite a while. Non-english (French) movie I highly recommend is A cause d’un garcon (the english name is Just a question of love), I discovered it only recently but its such a lovely non cringey feel good gay movie, and the guys are yum specially the top. The gay capital of the world- Prague and LA! where all the good movie industry is😜😂
@robertbeining1415 ай бұрын
BRAVO! Great job Art. Great questions, nice diverse group of guys especially age wise! I agree with @psremington, no judgement of others, but monogamy allows for genuine, focused, authentic intimacy in a relationship. Trust me, I have been in a variety of relationships but for true love and true intimacy, I support Monogamy. They young man in NYC that is a Swiftie, buddy if I was 10 yrs younger I would be knocking on your door and taking you on a real date! Rock On Art! Now go give Pumpkin some man lovin!
@wallyhodges5 ай бұрын
When Art says he is DADDY sometimes and Chris Starts laughing @14:02 lmao
@davidc86945 ай бұрын
Great questions; some great responses. Personally, I only know 1 monogamous couple who''ve been together 10 yrs or more. Hanging out, only sex, I'm flexible, but in a relationship--for me/no judgment--monogamy only.
@anuarvonen5 ай бұрын
With Lovely People!!!!
@anuarvonen5 ай бұрын
Lovely Art !!!! Always!!!!
@gordonpi86745 ай бұрын
Nice story, Chris😅😊
@gegemec5 ай бұрын
I don't get this "Queen" of gay people thing, I have never got it. To me the Queen died recently and her job was taken over by Charles. I am gay and I like men, however I don't put any of them, or women, on a pedestal. Clearly I am not as into pop culture as my fellow gay people.
@merkuri5235 ай бұрын
That 17 y relationship is awesome. More stories about that please Art. How to reach this, what to do, what people should look for, more experiences of these people please.
@Derek-Moran5 ай бұрын
Love Simon and Bros are two of the worst, most cringiest gay movies ever made - total cliche garbage. Mainstream gay movies almost always suck, with exceptions like Brokeback Mountain (2005). I highly recommend these films if you want to watch something intelligent, well made and realistic (cringe free zones): The Sum of Us (1994), My Beautiful Laundrette (1985), The Wedding Banquet (1993), Prayers for Bobby (2009), Beautiful Thing (1996), Hawaii (2013), C.R.A.Z.Y. (2006), Handsome Devil (2017), Sequin in a Blue Room (2019), Of an Age (2022), The Man with the Answers (2021).
@anthonymastrando92995 ай бұрын
Gay Capital of the World- used to be Amsterdam but now it’s Berlin
@gwenstaff5 ай бұрын
i think it´s SF
@anthonymastrando92995 ай бұрын
@@gwenstaff In the 60,70 and the 80’s San Francisco it was. Now I hope in order, Fort Lauderdale tied with Palm Springs. Miami, San Diego, NYC, Washington D.C., Boston, Philly, Chicago, Rehoboth Beach DE., and some of the different places, Provincetown, Key West FL, etc………
@EwaldBarrink5 ай бұрын
Will be nice bro as always 🥰
@neatpaws5 ай бұрын
Why does there have to be a (female?) 'Queen of Gay People'? Why does it have to be a pop-music 'diva'? BIZARRE!!!! And .. sooo .. NOT .. 21st Century.
@SailorGreenTea5 ай бұрын
5:53, ya, basically the same thing, um...
@stevejacobs83755 ай бұрын
Come on Chris, 10 bucks per toe isn't bad.... At least he didn't ask to give you a pedicure... Not that there's anything wrong with that... LMAO
@anuarvonen5 ай бұрын
Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!
@lifeofpantherkat55535 ай бұрын
I am the biggest Wentworth Fan, sorry he was not in the movie Bros.
@sonienuswantara5 ай бұрын
Wish u all have a gayly life in n out ❤
@marvincloud38425 ай бұрын
OMG I forgot Diana Ross my bad.
@billycrouse42185 ай бұрын
Me and my husband are 13 years apart
@chickenitsa3 ай бұрын
Hey Art! At 11 min. you said you would tag him . . . We don't se it!
@tadshea30115 ай бұрын
Dear God I'm 🥱🥱😴😴 bored
@jamesmackey12385 ай бұрын
Welcome to Chicago!
@rc5chi5394 ай бұрын
I couldn't begin to imagine anyone saying Taylor Swift was the gay queen, in any reality? Lol It clearly must be a generational thing b/c if you ask anyone who's been around for a while there would be very different answers, for very obvious reasons. I think that there should be a required Gay history lesson for gay people to be made aware and familiar with our history and the real hero's and pioneers.
@GabrielSilva-qf6qwАй бұрын
He can be a fan and live in a bubble where for him she is... I'm talking for myself, she's "my queen" because with her music she has helped me a lot with accepting myself and loving myself, and I don't really listen to any other main pop singer other than her, so in my bubble, she is
@MeleysRQ5 ай бұрын
Who is the guy that went on about gays being bad at communicating, he was so real for that lol.
@marvincloud38425 ай бұрын
What about (Red, White, and Royal Blue) great movie. Cher, Barbara, Madonna, Whitney, Lady Gaga, Kylie, Taylor all our queens!
@richardherdman2121Ай бұрын
Indeed. But please...it's Barbra. Otherwise someone might think you mean Barbara Mandrell. 😆
@alfredbonnabel70225 ай бұрын
It's better for your emotional life to be monogamous. ❤
@kaylheecarroll31865 ай бұрын
Great street interviews ❤😊
@geraldj36235 ай бұрын
Open relationship is ridiculous. Why even have a boyfriend. If needed a swinging couple but not an open relationship
@larsedik5 ай бұрын
Only people in Chicago think that Chicago is the gay capital of the world. I've met a lot of people from Chicago who left and moved to Houston and San Francisco because there were larger gay populations there, especially in the 1970s.
@shinydarknight015 ай бұрын
The guy focusing on monogamous relationships has his priorities wrong. Me and my husband have been together nearly a decade and open nearly all that time but we hardly ever hook up. It's quite unrealistic in our view to expect a guy to remain sexually committed to you for the rest of your life.
@ondrap9287Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@CharlieGV5 ай бұрын
Taylor Swift is like the opposite of Gaga... She's nothing like a real gay queen!
@Kylesimslover2 ай бұрын
I was in elementary and this bound girl kissed me under my desk we got Saturday school we were the youngest kids there were 36 now bestfriends and still get in trouble together first gay kiss didn't happen till I was 15 I was a cheerleader he was on the wrestling team and football captain and I dated him cuz he was good for my mean girl image
@wjjrwjj5 ай бұрын
Dl closeted are great 👍
@fb6685 ай бұрын
Frank here Detroit 555
@gwenstaff5 ай бұрын
he only offered u 100 USD ?? It´s only ur feet ! What ist wrong with u Chrissi missy
@BattBenn5 ай бұрын
I can't think of the comedian's name @12:54 He had a funny youtube series.
@artiomboy5 ай бұрын
Drew
@markgordon53875 ай бұрын
Good interview.
@SailorGreenTea5 ай бұрын
1:45, nice
@anders16213 ай бұрын
07:18 What the hell is that thing ?
@Philip-ll3ds8 күн бұрын
Dubuque ?
@FABWaldorf5 ай бұрын
Fergus Dublin Ireland European Union E.U Brilliant Art. Thank you so much for that! Love Fergus x x 😍😙😙😙
@damikey855 ай бұрын
Good ole Belmont
@JordiSal-p9q5 ай бұрын
R u talk about Belmont str??❤
@damikey855 ай бұрын
@@JordiSal-p9q yes
@York225 ай бұрын
Ivan is extremely hot and has amazing voice. I would totally go out with him.
@wjjrwjj5 ай бұрын
Closeted and dl best
@SailorGreenTea5 ай бұрын
11:59, nice
@AvitaBeckling4 ай бұрын
3:25 guys hot
@adampauley19165 ай бұрын
COME TO AURORA!!!!!!!!!!!!
@markharty97725 ай бұрын
Oh Art.
@Fabianotavio5 ай бұрын
Funny how the north americans thing his country is the center of the world. Better saying, of the Universe! That's it just sad!
@عبدربالنبيعبدالمجيد5 ай бұрын
Allah (God) says in the Holy Quran: (And [We had sent] Lot when he said to his people, "Do you commit such immorality as no one has preceded you with from among the worlds [i.e., peoples]? Indeed, you approach men with desire, instead of women. Rather, you are a transgressing people." But the answer of his people was only that they said, "Evict them from your city! Indeed, they are men who keep themselves pure." So We saved him and his family, except for his wife; she was of those who remained [with the evildoers]. And We rained upon them a rain [of stones]. Then see how was the end of the criminals).
@nibblebytes5 ай бұрын
OnlyFANS 😂
@KFF-jf8bc5 ай бұрын
I LOVE U 😍
@SailorGreenTea5 ай бұрын
14:38, interesting
@dubon99995 ай бұрын
This is why it is important that we Gay men have our own spaces to talk about affairs that affect us and connect with other Gay men; in the same way that straight men and women have their own spaces, and straight men and women must respect Gay spaces and respect our differences 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️ At the end, all straight people must understand that we are different and respect Gay spaces and Gay men 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
@dlg54855 ай бұрын
So separate but equal? Been there, done that. It didn't/doesn't work. A healthy mature society requires mutual respect between ALL of its groups, forming a unit that is stronger than its parts.
@dubon99995 ай бұрын
@@dlg5485 In case you do not know it, there are many divisions for people. For example, divisions between men and women. It is for respect of our differences. If you understand differences between men and women, you can understand differences between straight people and LGBT people.
@dlg54855 ай бұрын
@@dubon9999 You just want to silo yourself away from any possibility of conflict and I think that's a lazy and anti-intellectual way to live. The real world is complicated and people have different perspectives on things. Maturity is knowing how to engage in the real world, all of it.
@dubon99995 ай бұрын
@@dlg5485 No
@AshaDisco5 ай бұрын
God ai Just LOve watching these! ❤ I Hated the movie Bri's. Awful, Terrible
@radagast25a5 ай бұрын
I am certainly monogamous
@احمدالمراني-م9ش5 ай бұрын
هل يوجد ترجمه عربي
@ratiwiasti9875 ай бұрын
Lesu aku kalau ke Amerika. 🖐 🙏😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇 gak suka di injak injak 👣.
@peterndeti2615 ай бұрын
Stop it come To Jesus for salvation
@djenob420Ай бұрын
15:50 is that sterling archer lol?
@mumbulog5 ай бұрын
It’s ok to try to impress, but drag? Has tendency to over do it! Makes it unrealistic! Just dress to be comfy! Not disgusting!
@bigjud4544 ай бұрын
Please tell me the guys name that wants to be chased. He had an amazing smile and was wearing a hat!!!
@SailorGreenTea5 ай бұрын
1:42, nice
@bigjud4544 ай бұрын
Please tell me the guys name that wants to be chased. He had an amazing smile and was wearing a hat!!!
@bigjud4544 ай бұрын
Please tell me the guys name that wants to be chased. He had an amazing smile and was wearing a hat!!!