Midwest Gays are living in a different universe

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@psremington 5 ай бұрын

No judgement on the others, but the monogamous guy has a better chance at a truly intimate loving relationship. Bravo to him.

@NYWF 5 ай бұрын

The cute guy with the blue top and white shirt underneath was absolutely adorable. When he said he would like to have guys chasing him instead of him always being the one who does the chasing just broke my heart! He should have guys lining up for him with his super cute looks. He was so right when he took the microphone and explained how bad gay guys are at communicating! The guy who was talking about feeing so alone in his stand on wanting monogamy was super cute too. I believe in monogamous relationships as well, so he and I would get along very nicely! Great work as always Art. Enjoyed this very much! ❤

@DWS1435 5 ай бұрын

I have been in a monogamist relationship for 55 years.

@gwenstaff 5 ай бұрын

55 years the same Dic**** ? OMG ..

@alienzardsketter.9076 5 ай бұрын

wow that is amazing I would like to hear more from you ...open relationships are not relationships no Love at all ,,, If someone needs someone else then you are not enough for them , you come short of what they want let them go...find what they need and you protect your need for true Love in a relationship .

@DWS1435 3 ай бұрын

@Bojan_V Thank you.

@merkuri523 3 ай бұрын

@@alienzardsketter.9076 hmm not necessarily

@migbham1 2 ай бұрын

@@alienzardsketter.9076I'm not sure I fully agree. My hubby and I have been in a monogamous relationship for 16 years and counting, but my best gay friend and his bubby play together often. It's not for me, and I love that Tim and I have something that we share with only each other, but it's patently untrue to say that there "no love at all" involved in open relationships. As my friend, Scott, put it, "they ain't nothing wrong with us wanting to ride the same roller coaster together once in awhile." He and his hubby have been together for 7 years and have built a lovely life together. It's just not a relationship ideal that I share.

@adam2dot0 5 ай бұрын

“Who is the queen of gay people?” I’m getting old being disappointed no one said Judy Garland 😅

@alanroig2044 5 ай бұрын

Yes, you are old. All people who would think about Judy Garland are already dead. (BTW she was never. You have to openly support gays to be their queen)

@Buderbukz 5 ай бұрын

Oh come on, everyone knows it's Cleopatra! lol

@robertbeining141 5 ай бұрын

And for me it will always be Barbra!!

@scotthix2297 5 ай бұрын

I’m 70 so far and in San Francisco in the 60s-70s Judy was the coolest gay mom, Babs was the official gay diva and Liza was every gay’s crazy sister. Cher is, was and always will be CHER.

@steveb4662 4 ай бұрын

I would have also accepted Liza Minnelli. I am also getting old. LOL

@philstoll1157 5 ай бұрын

I remember some of them, but there were a lot of new ones to me. This is a lot of fun you did a great job editing 🥰

@duane_f 5 ай бұрын

This has a lot of my "old favorites" among interviews. Thanks for putting it together. 😃😃🎤🌈🌈💗💗

@chad0x 5 ай бұрын

"Are you gay?", "Why do you ask?", "well you're in Hells Kitchen" (grin) brilliant :)

@ThomasBoyd-tx1yt 5 ай бұрын

Awesome. Brilliant Art Bezrukavenko ❤❤❤

@diegom.1803 5 ай бұрын

Those recaps are very fun to watch ! Spencer is a cute guy (can i say that lol 🙈) Also nicee to see how you developing in your interviews Art ! Great editing loved it ❤️

@BreakerOneNine07 5 ай бұрын

The second guy with the hoodie and jean jacket is yummy! Very much my type. Seems just like a chill down to earth guy. 😊

@KerryKerr-t5q 4 ай бұрын

So refreshing to have a video about Midwest gay men. Notice the lack of pretentiousness? Thank you!

@johnwebstre43 5 ай бұрын

This is great content. Interesting and packed with helpful, insightful perspectives. More Please!

@amberforte94 5 ай бұрын

I'm from the Chicagoland area, I'm so proud and happy at all the people that mentioned Chicago. Boystown is the most fun area in the whole city. Very good videos and well edited! 😊😊

@EwaldBarrink 5 ай бұрын

Wauw many nice interviews well done bro 😊. You work hard ❤

@davidcattin7006 5 ай бұрын

Open relationships can fail. Friends brought in a third, one of them and the third went off on their own. That ended. Sad for the original couple. Sorry, but it's disrespectful. If you don't love the one and only you are with, just stay single if you are that horny.

@ginacort23 5 ай бұрын

Hookup culture in gay community is extreme lol . The only guy that most likely find a true partner is the one who wants monogamous relationship .

@symbionese2348 5 ай бұрын

Thirty-two years monogamous, but not stifled. And the answer is: Betty White.

@bluebook709 5 ай бұрын

Open relationships are for liars and users. If you want to be in a relationship with a guy and have him do shit for you while you shop around for a boyfriend you like better that is your business, I am not interested even a little.

@billycrouse4218 5 ай бұрын

I have been in a monarchist relationship. Start 10 years and my husband has HIV Untransmittable, and we have been happy for 13 years 😘

@showyourvidz 5 ай бұрын

“Who is the queen of gay people?” GRACE JONES!!!

@larsedik 5 ай бұрын

Good one, but there is also Elvira. I met her at Dragcon once, and she was also the Grand Marshall of the Pride Parade in West Hollywood one year.

@waynejkl4035 3 ай бұрын

Love the love for Heartstopper ❤

@bigjud454 4 ай бұрын

Please tell me the guys name that wants to be chased. He had an amazing smile and was wearing a hat!!!

@mikeomalley5407 5 ай бұрын

Hope you enjoyed my home town Chicago Halstead - Boystown! Amsterdam, Berlin or Cologne are 3 places I’d like to visit. I like leather and sex so those are my gay capitals!!

@richardbarrett-olson5944 3 ай бұрын

I watched this complete video from the perspective of a gay NYC native and I'm perplexed by the assertion mid west gays live in a 'different universe'.

@Papa_Joe6 5 ай бұрын

Out of them I have got to say Simon is really my type of guy...Watching them all put together and seeing how young Art was in some of them when he did these interviews, shows that how great these interviews are, and how great an interviewer Art is. xoxo💋

@johnclement9370 5 ай бұрын

Art is very cute, sweet, and Charming always, humorous and engaging, I ❤ Art. :-)

@ScandociouslyHG 5 ай бұрын

You were here.. I wanted to be interviewed, lol.

@Cam-yp7ub 4 ай бұрын

Neck, hips, and ankles

@gate8475 5 ай бұрын

Hm yes, I think we have the whole Pantheon of gay icons, Kylie is definitely for me. The best gay movie id say is Pricilla-queen of desert. Hilarious and amazing. Another one for me used to be Shelter for quite a while. Non-english (French) movie I highly recommend is A cause d’un garcon (the english name is Just a question of love), I discovered it only recently but its such a lovely non cringey feel good gay movie, and the guys are yum specially the top. The gay capital of the world- Prague and LA! where all the good movie industry is😜😂

@robertbeining141 5 ай бұрын

BRAVO! Great job Art. Great questions, nice diverse group of guys especially age wise! I agree with @psremington, no judgement of others, but monogamy allows for genuine, focused, authentic intimacy in a relationship. Trust me, I have been in a variety of relationships but for true love and true intimacy, I support Monogamy. They young man in NYC that is a Swiftie, buddy if I was 10 yrs younger I would be knocking on your door and taking you on a real date! Rock On Art! Now go give Pumpkin some man lovin!

@wallyhodges 5 ай бұрын

When Art says he is DADDY sometimes and Chris Starts laughing @14:02 lmao

@davidc8694 5 ай бұрын

Great questions; some great responses. Personally, I only know 1 monogamous couple who''ve been together 10 yrs or more. Hanging out, only sex, I'm flexible, but in a relationship--for me/no judgment--monogamy only.

@anuarvonen 5 ай бұрын

With Lovely People!!!!

@anuarvonen 5 ай бұрын

Lovely Art !!!! Always!!!!

@gordonpi8674 5 ай бұрын

Nice story, Chris😅😊

@gegemec 5 ай бұрын

I don't get this "Queen" of gay people thing, I have never got it. To me the Queen died recently and her job was taken over by Charles. I am gay and I like men, however I don't put any of them, or women, on a pedestal. Clearly I am not as into pop culture as my fellow gay people.

@merkuri523 5 ай бұрын

That 17 y relationship is awesome. More stories about that please Art. How to reach this, what to do, what people should look for, more experiences of these people please.

@Derek-Moran 5 ай бұрын

Love Simon and Bros are two of the worst, most cringiest gay movies ever made - total cliche garbage. Mainstream gay movies almost always suck, with exceptions like Brokeback Mountain (2005). I highly recommend these films if you want to watch something intelligent, well made and realistic (cringe free zones): The Sum of Us (1994), My Beautiful Laundrette (1985), The Wedding Banquet (1993), Prayers for Bobby (2009), Beautiful Thing (1996), Hawaii (2013), C.R.A.Z.Y. (2006), Handsome Devil (2017), Sequin in a Blue Room (2019), Of an Age (2022), The Man with the Answers (2021).

@anthonymastrando9299 5 ай бұрын

Gay Capital of the World- used to be Amsterdam but now it’s Berlin

@gwenstaff 5 ай бұрын

i think it´s SF

@anthonymastrando9299 5 ай бұрын

@@gwenstaff In the 60,70 and the 80’s San Francisco it was. Now I hope in order, Fort Lauderdale tied with Palm Springs. Miami, San Diego, NYC, Washington D.C., Boston, Philly, Chicago, Rehoboth Beach DE., and some of the different places, Provincetown, Key West FL, etc………

@EwaldBarrink 5 ай бұрын

Will be nice bro as always 🥰

@neatpaws 5 ай бұрын

Why does there have to be a (female?) 'Queen of Gay People'? Why does it have to be a pop-music 'diva'? BIZARRE!!!! And .. sooo .. NOT .. 21st Century.

@SailorGreenTea 5 ай бұрын

5:53, ya, basically the same thing, um...

@stevejacobs8375 5 ай бұрын

Come on Chris, 10 bucks per toe isn't bad.... At least he didn't ask to give you a pedicure... Not that there's anything wrong with that... LMAO

@anuarvonen 5 ай бұрын

Lovely One!!!! Always!!!! With Lovely People!!!!

@lifeofpantherkat5553 5 ай бұрын

I am the biggest Wentworth Fan, sorry he was not in the movie Bros.

@sonienuswantara 5 ай бұрын

Wish u all have a gayly life in n out ❤

@marvincloud3842 5 ай бұрын

OMG I forgot Diana Ross my bad.

@billycrouse4218 5 ай бұрын

Me and my husband are 13 years apart

@chickenitsa 3 ай бұрын

Hey Art! At 11 min. you said you would tag him . . . We don't se it!

@tadshea3011 5 ай бұрын

Dear God I'm 🥱🥱😴😴 bored

@jamesmackey1238 5 ай бұрын

Welcome to Chicago!

@rc5chi539 4 ай бұрын

I couldn't begin to imagine anyone saying Taylor Swift was the gay queen, in any reality? Lol It clearly must be a generational thing b/c if you ask anyone who's been around for a while there would be very different answers, for very obvious reasons. I think that there should be a required Gay history lesson for gay people to be made aware and familiar with our history and the real hero's and pioneers.

@GabrielSilva-qf6qw Ай бұрын

He can be a fan and live in a bubble where for him she is... I'm talking for myself, she's "my queen" because with her music she has helped me a lot with accepting myself and loving myself, and I don't really listen to any other main pop singer other than her, so in my bubble, she is

@MeleysRQ 5 ай бұрын

Who is the guy that went on about gays being bad at communicating, he was so real for that lol.

@marvincloud3842 5 ай бұрын

What about (Red, White, and Royal Blue) great movie. Cher, Barbara, Madonna, Whitney, Lady Gaga, Kylie, Taylor all our queens!

@richardherdman2121 Ай бұрын

Indeed. But please...it's Barbra. Otherwise someone might think you mean Barbara Mandrell. 😆

@alfredbonnabel7022 5 ай бұрын

It's better for your emotional life to be monogamous. ❤

@kaylheecarroll3186 5 ай бұрын

Great street interviews ❤😊

@geraldj3623 5 ай бұрын

Open relationship is ridiculous. Why even have a boyfriend. If needed a swinging couple but not an open relationship

@larsedik 5 ай бұрын

Only people in Chicago think that Chicago is the gay capital of the world. I've met a lot of people from Chicago who left and moved to Houston and San Francisco because there were larger gay populations there, especially in the 1970s.

@shinydarknight01 5 ай бұрын

The guy focusing on monogamous relationships has his priorities wrong. Me and my husband have been together nearly a decade and open nearly all that time but we hardly ever hook up. It's quite unrealistic in our view to expect a guy to remain sexually committed to you for the rest of your life.

@ondrap9287 Ай бұрын

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@CharlieGV 5 ай бұрын

Taylor Swift is like the opposite of Gaga... She's nothing like a real gay queen!

@Kylesimslover 2 ай бұрын

I was in elementary and this bound girl kissed me under my desk we got Saturday school we were the youngest kids there were 36 now bestfriends and still get in trouble together first gay kiss didn't happen till I was 15 I was a cheerleader he was on the wrestling team and football captain and I dated him cuz he was good for my mean girl image

@wjjrwjj 5 ай бұрын

Dl closeted are great 👍

@fb668 5 ай бұрын

Frank here Detroit 555

@gwenstaff 5 ай бұрын

he only offered u 100 USD ?? It´s only ur feet ! What ist wrong with u Chrissi missy

@BattBenn 5 ай бұрын

I can't think of the comedian's name @12:54 He had a funny youtube series.

@artiomboy 5 ай бұрын

Drew

@markgordon5387 5 ай бұрын

Good interview.

@SailorGreenTea 5 ай бұрын

1:45, nice

@anders1621 3 ай бұрын

07:18 What the hell is that thing ?

@Philip-ll3ds 8 күн бұрын

Dubuque ?

@FABWaldorf 5 ай бұрын

Fergus Dublin Ireland European Union E.U Brilliant Art. Thank you so much for that! Love Fergus x x 😍😙😙😙

@damikey85 5 ай бұрын

Good ole Belmont

@JordiSal-p9q 5 ай бұрын

R u talk about Belmont str??❤

@damikey85 5 ай бұрын

@@JordiSal-p9q yes

@York22 5 ай бұрын

Ivan is extremely hot and has amazing voice. I would totally go out with him.

@wjjrwjj 5 ай бұрын

Closeted and dl best

@SailorGreenTea 5 ай бұрын

11:59, nice

@AvitaBeckling 4 ай бұрын

3:25 guys hot

@adampauley1916 5 ай бұрын

COME TO AURORA!!!!!!!!!!!!

@markharty9772 5 ай бұрын

Oh Art.

@Fabianotavio 5 ай бұрын

Funny how the north americans thing his country is the center of the world. Better saying, of the Universe! That's it just sad!

@عبدربالنبيعبدالمجيد 5 ай бұрын

Allah (God) says in the Holy Quran: (And [We had sent] Lot when he said to his people, "Do you commit such immorality as no one has preceded you with from among the worlds [i.e., peoples]? Indeed, you approach men with desire, instead of women. Rather, you are a transgressing people." But the answer of his people was only that they said, "Evict them from your city! Indeed, they are men who keep themselves pure." So We saved him and his family, except for his wife; she was of those who remained [with the evildoers]. And We rained upon them a rain [of stones]. Then see how was the end of the criminals).

@nibblebytes 5 ай бұрын

OnlyFANS 😂

@KFF-jf8bc 5 ай бұрын

I LOVE U 😍

@SailorGreenTea 5 ай бұрын

14:38, interesting

@dubon9999 5 ай бұрын

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@dlg5485 5 ай бұрын

So separate but equal? Been there, done that. It didn't/doesn't work. A healthy mature society requires mutual respect between ALL of its groups, forming a unit that is stronger than its parts.

@dubon9999 5 ай бұрын

@@dlg5485 In case you do not know it, there are many divisions for people. For example, divisions between men and women. It is for respect of our differences. If you understand differences between men and women, you can understand differences between straight people and LGBT people.

@dlg5485 5 ай бұрын

@@dubon9999 You just want to silo yourself away from any possibility of conflict and I think that's a lazy and anti-intellectual way to live. The real world is complicated and people have different perspectives on things. Maturity is knowing how to engage in the real world, all of it.

@dubon9999 5 ай бұрын

@@dlg5485 No