Mike + The Mechanics - The Living Years (Official HD Music Video)

[@marcashley8492]

I called my father one night. I was so stoned. I was crying having listened to this song. I thanked him for everything he had done for me, sobbing like a fool. I asked him what he was doing, I was on speaker phone with my uncles. Haha. I was so humiliated for so long. Then he passed away two years later. I was so happy I said what I needed to. Thank God.

[@ummuhajar558]

So sweet. I’m glad you got to tell him.

[@jeffporter5935]

Ive had those calls many times from one of three daughters. Daddies are a safe place for their girls. I pray many blessings over you, and you are a good girl. Keep reachin! ❤

[@tracyfielding6630]

Sorry for your loss but so glad that you made peace ❤

[@danwaller5312]

You will never regret it and think of the joy you gave him!!

[@KrGsMrNKusinagi0]

a kid stoned AF just killed 6 people in a van in a head on collision.... DUI

[@65dartcharger]

I woke up Monday 21th of September 1970. I was 7 and my dad was 36. We had breakfast together and taked about his work for the day. I told him I was taking off to school at 7.45. He gave me a big hug as he always did. He took off and that was the last time I saw him. At 8.30 they found him dead in a truck caused by a heart attack. My biggest loss ever in my life. God, what I have missed him over the years.

[@brendaroseblade2858]

That’s a very sad story.

[@lorilockridge7881]

I am so very sorry. He was so young and so were you. ❤

[@dennisruby4952]

I was watching a different video when this song showed up. I’ve always loved this song so I listened and read your comment. It brought tears to my eyes. In May of 1969, when I was 14 my father suddenly died from a heart attack too. It changed my life in ways I could never have imagined. He was a great dad and everyone who knew him loved him. I still think about him every day. Every single day. It was the single worst day of my life. My heart goes out to you. Best wishes.

[@irishseagoddess]

I’m so sorry to hear that. When I was 5, July 12 1984, my father, he was 42, he had cancer of the throat, half chance his jugular would collapse inside 50% outside, he bled out. My mother was next door having tea w a neighbor and he panicked and the noise woke me up… I followed the blood to his body. He was a dark italian, he bled out so much they couldn’t have an open casket. When i was 27 my mother was diagnosed w stomach cancer. I remember falling to my knees in the parking lot begging her not to leave me. She died 4 days after her 58th bday, 1 day before their anniversary. She never remarried. Never dated. I just turned 46 on Oct 19th. Found out i have a massive tumor on my uterus. Honestly… don’t even care if it kills me. Life has been hard enough.

[@JamesJackson-yk3kb]

Sorry for your loss, I never got to know my natural father but my adored father loved me as if I were his own even though he was never really capable of showing his true feelings for me. I had to wait until my 40th birthday to finally hear him say he was proud of me.

[@dgpsf]

My Dad was taken from me 10 years ago this year. I never could see eye to eye with him then, but now that I have a son, I have so much more compassion for my Dad looking back, and could not be more grateful for how hard he worked to take care of me the best he could, and to help me grow up to be a good man. I promise I’ll do my best for your grandson, Dad.

[@tonyjohnson3509]

Dude I'm about to leak

[@MickeyDs-mp7yr]

This hits home so hard. Near identical situation. 😢

[@skycannamela9668]

Oh, you know something I lost both of my grandfathers. Ja Ja died Christmas Eve 2015 and my grandpa Paul died January 21, 2017. I thought well this worse

[@raysolis6553]

That hits hard

[@hippie52]

When my dad died in 3/20, a portal seemed to open. I have spent the last 4.5 yrs learning how to see life thru' his eyes. I feel closer to my dad now, than when he was in his body. How many times have I said, "Dad, you told me so!" I was fortunate to help care for him in the end & was with him when he took leave of this realm. I miss him more, the older I get. (now 72) Empathy has definitely expanded. ❤

[@LoriZduriencik]

My father passed while this song was becoming number 1 in the US. It describes our relationship perfectly. I really did love you, dad. I only wish I could have told you in your living years.

[@pierreblanchard6173]

Il veillera toujours sur vous.

[@AwesomeDaysAhead]

Crying. I miss you Dad. You adopted me but YOU were my dad. I’m sorry for our struggles. Jesus has you. I’ll see you soon in Heaven. Thank you Mike for writing this song and helping me grieve. 🛡

[@nikonikolaides5286]

you make me cry 😢 God bless you…🙏

[@ladonnaghareeb4609]

This is LD's partner Bob. I was adopted too, and I can concour with everything you said. This song hits far to close to home for me. I cry like a baby everytime I hear it. I swear I could have written your message myself. Thank you, God bless you.

[@AwesomeDaysAhead]

@@ladonnaghareeb4609 Thank you for sharing this. Very nice of you. Keep going. We’re gonna make it🛡!

[@lynmatthews8252]

It’s just biology anyway. He was your dad absolutely. So sorry for your loss I really am. I do believe you’ll see him again one day. Bless you.

[@tinashufflebotham5326]

I was fostered

[@rebeccarivera-fg6rk]

It was 1988, I was in theJr high school choir when we learned this song. My father was dying from melanoma skin cancer. He was being cared for by Oregon science and health in Portland Oregon. He was at this last concert and I sang this song with every ounce of strength I had. My tears and his flowed freely that night

[@albertmorales7425]

Rebeca Rivera. So Sad. . God Bless your Family. . Love From PUERTO RICO. . Prima. . Take care. 😉😉🌸💝💝

[@chrisgeorgallis7746]

😞🙏🙏

[@keithkalif2778]

I am so sorry 😢

[@tamararoberts9307]

Hugs ❤️

[@pdalaigh]

X.

[@tonyhodgin1158]

My father passed away on Saturday January 13,2024. And it hurts. He was a great man As I am listening to this song I am crying. My father taught me a lot. And it made me the Man I am today.

[@kathycuster1714]

So very sorry for your loss!

[@baretk]

Sorry for your loss brother

[@xXxBl4ckD3v1lxXx]

My Dad died on 14 january. 71 years old. I missed him so much.

[@JanGrime]

So sorry for your loss. My father passed 21st June 1977 when I was 22. I still miss and love him and I’m sorry that I wasn’t there that morning when my father passed away

[@fergalokeeffe8841]

I am sorry for your loss. My father also died nearly 2 yrs ago.

[@shawnsullivan6399]

My father died 3 days ago, on Monday, November 4 2024 and this song is exactly how I feel 3 days later. He was a difficult man to talk to and always grumpy and I didn't want to fight. Now I wish more than anything I said the things I wanted him to know. I miss you dad.

[@tonyhodgin1158]

Sorry for your loss, I lost mine this past January. And it still. But keep him close to your heart, and always remember him

[@JamesWeckert-pe7nj]

Yeah my dad diedtoo

[@sonstarrwordlifebmfrc]

Hang in there God is Great

[@dakotahstr]

I heard this song right after my Dad died. I'm still tear up everytime I hear this. I have no regrets. I was his little girl. Love you dad in Heaven.

[@Bmizzzle1]

He’s still with you. He always will be.

[@richarddeerflame]

Blessings Sister, as has been said. Our relative remain with us and we will See them again. Much love.

[@DDEENY]

My mother used to sing along to this song when it played on the radio. I lost her in 2011 after battling cancer for 4 years. She was divorced and a widow with myself as her only child. She and I were basically all that we had in the world. We were on the best of terms when she passed. I feel your sorrow. Peace.

[@RonD84]

@@DDEENY I hope your ok and living a good life 👍🏻

[@stehenbalfe8196]

Few months after my dad passed- while driving home after visiting mom; a voice internally said" I have to cross over now, but everything will be ok"-- felt ephoric love all over, peaceful... Your dad will be there waiting for you...

[@katiesieboldt2324]

I cannot listen to this song without bawling my eyes out. I lost my dad when I was 13. He was only 39. Now, I’m almost 37 with three kids of my own. He’s been gone for so long, but I still miss him everyday. If you still have your dad in your life- call him up, go visit him, and tell him you love him. I wish I could.

[@paulmacek6563]

So sorry for your loss my friend! Sure hes with you, look at your children...peace

[@jp-mc2bp]

My Dad and Dad in law are both gone. But I pray to them every day' I'm 71 and and remember . Keep the faith.

[@jp-mc2bp]

Keep him in your heart and he will be there forever. That's what keeps me alive. He is listening

[@matthewmartin9656]

After reading this heartfelt statement I have the chills because it's so confronting. I'd better go meet old ye olde man this weekend. :)

[@karenmike8964]

Hi - I'm with you on this!

[@lcjr2002]

Hands down one of the best songs ever written. True masterpiece.

[@rebeccachrist2080]

100% agree!!

[@sandycork6196]

Agree! ❤️🙏

[@正和-q4h]

Agree!

[@highdefinition450]

quite the compliment lol

[@darrenkeegan4736]

Agreed

[@glencoles3410]

Im 43 years old and my son was born with down syndrome it broke me to my knees but my dad who is 70 like a real man got me on my feet and reminded me that manhood takes many forms and loving your boy who's different is no sacrifice. I'm so glad my Dad is the man he is and I will keep learning from that man until He is no longer with us.

[@CurlyFromTheSwirly]

You have this life cause you're strong enough to make it.

[@glencoles3410]

@@CurlyFromTheSwirly I think back now and i got stronger smarter and kinder because of my father and as long as he is alive i will never be the best

[@CurlyFromTheSwirly]

@glencoles3410 You don't have be the best, just be your best.

[@jimmycricket5366]

Amen. Powerful encouragement.

[@KatherineMorrow-d7p]

Lost my dad today. I miss him already. I love you, Daddy. I'm so sorry I wasn't there.

[@suecope1923]

😞 😔 sosorry

[@dgpsf]

I hope you are holding up okay and remembering all the things you loved about your dad and all the times you had together. That’s what I try to do. It’s been 10 years almost for me. Sending love and positivity, from far away.

[@reginapustelak5420]

My biggest regret also, not being there. But experience can teach us perspective. 20 years later, When my brother was dying I lived at his house the final week of his life so I could be there. Best decision ever. Grateful my sister in law allowed me to

[@elizabethjerden5758]

I was there, I watched my father die. It's ok that you weren't there. That will just be one of a million things you'll think of in the coming months, and try to beat yourself up with it. Don't. I was young, 13. I would dwell and agonize over stupid stuff like having spent the night with a friend instead of at my dad's. Let that shit go as soon as you're able. No one wants their loved ones to suffer like that, I'm sure your loved one wouldn't want you to either. Your grief will threaten to drown you every time it comes... Let it engulf you, feel it all, and as soon as you're able put it away. It'll come back, you gotta let it. My heart goes out to you.

[@CiderHead]

Hope you're doing ok❤

[@buckaroobaizuo25]

I was with my father when he died .. I stared into his eyes as the lights went out .. Fortunately, I get to see him reflected in my mirror everyday .. Masterpiece

[@oldsoul1187]

May his memory be a blessing. Play this music to keep him within you forever. I played this over and over when my dad passed away in 1992. I am 71 now. He is still with me.

[@amyproudfoot6611]

🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏💓

[@lindarottiers6235]

Na een hypnosesessie was ik gisteren in de mogelijkheid mijn ouders te zien. Maar neem altijd de tijd om 1 seconde stil te staan bij mensen in nood, voor ons duurt het maar even, voor hen een leven lang en ik heb nu het voorrecht gehad om mijn ouders terug te zien om me te bevrijden. Deze muziek heeft me al zo vaak geholpen. Bedankt hiervoor

[@petraanna9272]

@@lindarottiers6235 wow

[@petraanna9272]

Das ist das was Unsterblichkeit bedeutet oder!?

[@Stevie163]

This song will always send shivers down your spine. For anyone reading this if you still have the chance no matter how old you are, never be afraid to tell your dad you love him. Don’t wait till it’s too late. Trust me. Hopefully my dad is watching me write this. Thank you for everything you taught me. Love you.

[@deborahkeefe3389]

I Never Got To Say Goodbye To My Dad. Too Much Bitterness On My Part, But I Have Lost Two Sisters Since He Passed Away and I Believe They Told Him I Finally Grew Up And God Blessed Me!

[@robertSharp-s3s]

Very much the same with me. I had my chance with years to spare. Did not say enough. If your Dad is watching you write, than my Dad is Too. I'll pray for that. God Bless.

[@Stevie163]

⁠@@deborahkeefe3389I’m sure they did but I’m sure he seen for himself.

[@Stevie163]

@@robertSharp-s3sthat’s all we can do my friend.

[@deborahkeefe3389]

God’s Blessings

[@Vashti0825]

My mom died at 62. I'm 62 now and 25 years sober with a grandson Oh, what I wouldn't give to spend day with her.

[@carlamariish]

Don't think about 62. Sending you the biggest hug right now. We grew up in the best time ever.

[@ButlerOTKing]

Blessings to you and yours.

[@haitolawrence5986]

You just did. 😉

[@maryjenkins6056]

Talk to her, she is with you 🙏

[@Vashti0825]

@@maryjenkins6056 thanks. I believe she is the one divine soul that helped me to get sober. It was a very strange experience I could not explain.

[@grahamcooper6538]

In my humble opinion this has to be one of the greatest songs ever written.I lost my mum and dad when I was relatively young. It brings tears to my eyes Thanks Mike and the Mechanics.

[@Juggernaut6359]

agreed. What a beautiful song 😍

[@privateprivate1865]

Without a doubt. I miss real heartfelt easy listening pre mid90s synth soft rock

[@pamwild393]

Totally agree

[@pedrocastellon3463]

OCK SOO PARK

[@mels8990]

@gra…I know exactly what you’re talking about..I too loss my Parents early in life…this song like you said was a very good song..but what gives me some splice is thinking of the time I did get with them..it was full of joy peace and security and they gave me and my brothers their very best…so I’m Thankful for that part.

[@ManuelaDora]

This is, certainly and after 32 years of its release, the most underrated song of the 80s. It's one of my all-time favourites because it's so poignant and remembers us of what is really important. The 80s were, musically, a tremendous experience and I'm lucky enough to have lived it.

[@austinconnor3493]

Hello Manuela how do you feel when listening to this beautiful song.?

[@nicoleschrepfer4701]

I couldn't describe it better... 🤍

[@wesleysimm5419]

@@steventyler7528 fantastic musician and person

[@steventyler7528]

@@nicoleschrepfer4701 Hello, how are you doing? It is nice seeing you here.

[@brentstone1083]

So so true

[@rosehoward8623]

My dad was diagnosed with cancer in 2002. I went to visit him every single day for the rest of his life. One year of "I love you's"! And it still wasn't enough. He took a piece of my heart with him. We will meet again. This song says it all.❤ Tell your loved ones you love them! You can never say it too much.🤟

[@darrenkeegan4736]

❤

[@teresamcilroy8036]

You’re lucky in many ways, remember that! X

[@crazybeerd]

❤

[@Sweepee-v2v]

😢beautiful comment ❤️

[@NicolaEilliott]

Amen ❤❤❤

[@stephenfoster8859]

“I wasn’t there that morning when my Father passed away, I didn’t get to tell him all the things I had to say … I wish I could have told him in the living years” these words will haunt me for the rest of my life.

[@douggodfrey6521]

Apart but never separated Not touching yet always connected

[@JustMe-pe4vs]

This song is a warning. If we resist telling those we love how we feel long enough, the thief known as death may rob us of the chance. Kind words may be fleeting, but regrets can last a lifetime. If you need to clear the air with someone you care about, do it now, because nobody knows what tomorrow holds.

[@jasonk2818]

Specifically father and son. It's a very unique bond

[@joedire790]

Words of wisdom 🙏

[@cliveturner4788]

So true…..and it’s something that some of us dread, but can’t do……..😢

[@prestonroberts6055]

I didn’t say enough to my dad and now I regret it so badly but I’m sure he’s been back in my dreams.

[@mxolisindlovu9194]

no truer words have been spoken

[@elynnefitzmorris7516]

I wasn’t there that afternoon when my father passed away-May 21, 1967-I still miss him. If you have a living parent, give them a hug.

[@SMGAPR8]

Sorry for your loss, would seriously endorse your message, it hurts people when its too late💔🙏🌹

[@Wannabestartinsumthin]

Sorry for ur loss, no matter when it was, it can be as raw as yesterday ♥️

[@kierandevenney5616]

My mum n dad are still alive my mum.has alzheimers/ dementia titaly gone in the head she dosent know us anymore..she is 81 and my dad is 82 and he loves her as when they 1st fell in love..i tell them both all the time i love them n hug them.always

[@ronnieking9089]

That's the damn truth, my friend!!! I hug a ghost, but it still feels good!!!

[@leecowell8165]

You know it! Even if you ain't the huggy type. DO IT!

[@Shadrack16]

I have never liked so many KZbin comments. Prayers for everyone that has lost a loved one.

[@hawkeye1836]

[@ajaypalsinghbhatti8901]

There is nobody who ever has lost nobody.cheers.

[@starmnsixty1209]

A really nice comment. Thank you.

[@tenderpawsm473]

Oh, what good will prayers do, unless you believe in purgatory?

[@Shadrack16]

@tenderpawsm473 Bro eat a bag of dicks. Idk what prayers will do? I was just trying to be nice to the people that's lost loved ones. Too bad one of them wasn't your relative crying over your death. Pray about that cock sucker.

[@godfreymotsumi6458]

Wonderous masterpiece. We don't look for old songs, we look for the memories they carry. 2024 🇿🇦🔥🔥🔥.

[@coryperry9862]

True indeed

[@Rocker1964]

Talk about hitting the nail right on the head.. As a grown up I never once told my dad I loved him until he was on his deathbed... I regret that deeply, he died in 2005 I still regret it

[@godfreymotsumi6458]

@@Rocker1964 what's important is that you told him and that also paves an opportunity to tell your boy(s) how much you love them so that it must also be innate to their being. They will grow up not being shy to tell their dad how much they him. It is well.

[@Rocker1964]

@@godfreymotsumi6458 I make sure I tell my son i love him every chance I get along with his wife & her son. I wasn't there when my mom died which sucks((. Me & my parents had a good relations its just those words never came out

[@jaymclean2604]

Truth. Very well said

[@miketurner3964]

I remember thinking as a teenager, one day this song will hurt - I wasn’t wrong. God I miss my Dad.

[@marcm.523]

I know exactly what you mean, Brother!! 🙏

[@michaelmedina4013]

True that....

[@jacquelinewilliams6289]

I lost my dad 6 wks ago I'm devastated xxxx

[@hooper1605]

@@jacquelinewilliams6289 hang in there love xxxx

[@lisajett4986]

Absolutely! I miss my Dad too. 🌻

[@nomalangaselenje5199]

I am the woman I am today because of my father. He'd say to me you're the daughter I prayed for. I'm an extrovert and he was my total opposite. His smile was always a sign of approval whenever I'd say a speech in public. To this day I'm still rooted in his teachings. 7 years later, he's still very much alive in my heart. I'll forever be daddy's little girl.❤

[@theovanderstap131]

Mooi verwoord

[@brendaburnsskelton2884]

Me too.

[@michaelgreene2920]

He's still proud of you... Believe me....

[@vuyiswamasombuka583]

This is the most beautiful message of appreciation to dad, to remember him in a beautiful way❤

[@BellaXX69]

That's beautiful ❤️

[@samcvets6346]

I lost my hero and father to pancreatic cancer yesterday. They gave him only 6 months and he fought hard for three years. It doesn’t feel real. And I don’t know how to handle it. As a kid in the 80s, this song always brought me to tears. The lyrics are so poignant and I was always so scared of losing my parents. I am just glad I was able tell him how much I loved him in the living years.

[@alanab9674]

Sam Cvets. . Condolences on the loss of your father. In a strange way I hope this song comforts you.

[@lizwildcatmunro2460]

Mate I’m so so sorry - I lost my mother in law(that I knew for 29 years)11 months ago of that same damn cancer, I hope you’re ok

[@mitchellforsythe8482]

God bless you, just lost my father January 28th from pancreatic cancer. This song sums our relationship perfectly. It's painful and healing at the same time. I thank God he was able to pass at home with me there till his last breath.

[@lizwildcatmunro2460]

@@mitchellforsythe8482 it’s such a HORRIBLE damn cancer, I’m sorry for your loss

[@mitchellforsythe8482]

Thank you Sam, sorry for your loss as well brother.

[@tracyperez2341]

My dad passed away Oct 15, 2024. While I was lucky enough to be able to say a lot of things to him that I wanted to say, I find there's still so much more I now wish I could say. I miss you very much, Dad. You will always be my hero.

[@jonnyfrmtheblck]

My Dad loved this song. I dedicate this to you Dad.

[@leecowell8165]

My Dad and I were not close how STUPID could I be. He loved his kids very much and went way out on a limb to stick up for us. Way out. But at the time I did not know that. Its only AFTER his passing that I came to slow realize it. Too late as this song clearly demonstrates. This was written by Mike and a friend that recently both lost their Dads. I miss him now more than when he passed 35 years ago. In fact I miss him more with each passing year because I remember all he gave me genetically and also taught me. You do not realize these things when you're young and stupid.

[@carlportland]

That is what this is. all who walk with us ------ still there - a part of us for all our days. Blessed for having walked with them

[@quantum129]

67 Years old and still cry for a father I lost when I was 12

[@davidsummers2156]

Wow your as old as my dad. I'm so sorry for your lost too. I'm sure he's in a better place now although it would be better if he was with you . Bless you 🙏

[@JarodMoonchild1975]

Same, but I was 9 or 10 at the time. He was only 42, or something like that when he passed away. Now I'm pushing towards 50, and have already lost one of my two siblings, my sister (oldest of us 3), who was also my best friend. She beat cancer, only to die of heart failure at the height of the lockdown, so I was sure it was covid, but nope. She just collapsed on her way home from the grocery store, and called emergency services on her phone for help, but it was too late. She didn't even get to turn 50, which would happen only a couple of months later, had she lived. That was 2 years ago now. R.I.P., sis, I'll miss you until my number is up...

[@dankelley7652]

I’m 60 and lost my mother to cancer when I was 13. It is hard somedays.

[@milo34983]

Sorry you lost your dad at such age, I just lost my dad 3 days ago and I’m 61 and I’m so crushed I can’t imagine you at age 12 that’s so heartbreaking 💔 😢

[@crashoffcial]

Bless you

[@BAR-ct7ti]

Undoubtedly without question, one of the greatest written songs of all time.

[@felixpereiraaraujo9945]

yesssssss

[@macman3175]

Yes , sometimes God chooses musicians to deliver His heart and truth.

[@tinashufflebotham5326]

Especially when they Not your Biological parents

[@beverlydurant4233]

Absolutely agree! I lost my mentor, friend, and role model in 2011, but thankfully, we had no issues whatsoever. Every time I hear this beautiful and poignant masterpiece, I feel so very grateful for that...especially knowing that so many others do. This song brings me to tears every time I hear it...

[@MoniqueThomas-tt3fz]

❤❤❤

[@kerrybrown2890]

Absolutely the only song that brings me to tears every time I listen to it ! Magnificently touching , amazing lyrics that everybody in the world can relate to . Perfectly beautiful song . Bravo Mike and the Mechanics !

[@celinemaple2157]

I lost my dad this week and ever since I was a little kid this song has resonated with me as I didn't want to ever lose my dad with regrets. He died knowing he was loved and I was loved by him. It was all said. I am thankful for that.

[@OldhamSteve52]

God bless. In my thoughts. My Dad is 95 hard work.

[@cameronpillay8050]

😢😢😪😞💓💓💓

[@nancychisholm2880]

Divine and blessed you didn’t let him go before making it all worth it ❤️

[@johnbxtrp31]

God bless and sorry for your loss. I know the feeling I lost my dad 6 years ago last april.

[@leoreim5347]

Thats a great gift! You will always missed him, it is so.

[@glendapeterson1180]

My Dad and I did see eye to eye, and we said "I love you" about two hours before he unexpectedly died. I kept going, Dad. I hope you're proud of me.

[@Karma-qt4ji]

I said goodbye to my Dad the night before he died when I visited him in the hospital. Don't ask me how but I knew I would never see him again. When my phone rang the next morning, I didn't even need to answer it, I knew what it was about. I also saw eye to eye with him and loved him dearly. Not a day goes by when I am not grateful to have had him in my life. Yes, I believe they are proud of us. Stay safe!

[@KershsFMtravels]

Your father will be proud of you. God bless. He will be okay. Love to you. Stay safe

[@robbieedward8773]

me and my dad was like cat and dog, when in my teens. this always reminds me of the good times on the farm.

[@colleenross8752]

He is, he always will be

[@rockylombardo6978]

He is ,rest assured

[@melony9470]

Dad I made it. I'm sober and clean 5 yrs now, you'd be proud I miss you. RIP Dad we miss you so much.

[@BellaXX69]

Your dad would be so so proud of you he's smiling down now saying good girl trust me ❤

[@jilllynn371]

Im so proud of you and positive your dad is as well 💕😊

[@cynthiacornelious3062]

Keep going he is looking down upon you.

[@jaydubbzit3551]

He would be proud. He is.

[@adude394]

Great for you! Keep it up! 👍👍👍👍👍

[@1FoundSheep]

And I had the privilege of having my arm around my father as he drew his last breath. Me, this once a child of such rebellion, had come to see the wisdom and kindness of my father. My father, who just days before, had asked me what I wanted from the collection of his things gathered while in life. I responded that I just wanted his blessing over my life. My Dad stood up from his sick bed, wrapped his arms around me, and prayed that I would know how much my Heavenly Father cherished and adored me. This prayer is still playing out in my life as I write this almost 20 years later. What a friend we have in Jesus. And what a friend I had in my dad......

[@tommyk6719]

Beautiful.

[@katiesmith7587]

I grew up in a very strict household. My dad and I were not close when I was growing up. The last time I saw him was two months before he died at the age of 97. It was a beautiful and sweet visit. I think of him every day and miss him horribly.

[@payableondeath9091]

His love for you formed who you are and I am sure y'all in your family did your best to build one another up during his life in your family. May his memories support, transform and keep you❤🙏😇🕊

[@muffs55mercury61]

About the same here. I formed a closer bond with my dad after I finished high school and was out on my own.

[@runlikehell_productions]

A master piece of the 20th century. “It’s too late when we die.” People need to understand the seriousness of that lyric.

[@brianvaughan2312]

The bible tells us not to go to sleep with unsolved arguments and bitterness but to put it right before you sleep

[@leoreim5347]

Exactly!

[@ericblom-s2p]

My Dad will be 83 this coming Dec, yet I STILL have tears in my eyes every time I listen to this track. I can ONLY Dread the day that he passes. I've made inroads to bridge the gen-gap, but there's STILL miles to go & a short time to get there......

[@germanchris4440]

Too late tp get saved from judgment and eternal hell - where everyone is headed - without Jesus Christ as their Savior!

[@brianvaughan2312]

You are absolutely right .only Jesus christ can save us from a christless eternity he alone as power to save

[@lynnfox2359]

My mother just passed away this evening, a few hours ago. She liked this song. Dedicated to you, Mom.

[@michellebrown35]

My Mom passed away 5 days ago an I don't think my life will ever be the same without her see I took care of my mom an I really enjoyed those times together that were very precious an dear to me an listening to the music de raised us makes me feel even closer too I love you Mom an miss you

[@LoveandLight8080]

I’m praying for your mothers 🙏🏽 and I praying for you to understand the dynamics that are so difficult to embrace when we lose a loved one. It is a tough request - try to focus only on the wonderful times spent with your mothers. Only the positive and bright things, no guilt, no loss. Only love for what you DID get the opportunity to experience by having a mother. ☮️

[@sharoncontini3284]

🙏💜🙏💜

[@EmilyXiong1999]

I used to not like songs my parents liked. They were old fashion songs. Now I realize so many songs have relevance regardless of the era and this is a beautiful song.

[@kalevcharleston2762]

The part you loved has gone back to God, the body was the container,this is life

[@Magoo1039]

A beautiful, insightful and masterful song. I cried like a baby today when I heard it again after like 25 years. Tears for my now deceased Dad, tears for me. Tears for another wonderful time, that will never be repeated.

[@waynegarton8672]

Arguably one of the most beautiful songs to come out of the 80's, or EVER. The lyrics are untouchable .

[@aliciamcdonald7105]

INDEED!

[@kevinrussell1144]

God's truth.

[@declanmelia7676]

The 80s had the best music..but I think this song is at the top and alot can relate to it..class

[@paulgarbutt8113]

yep you are so right..

[@davewilson4929]

Amen.

[@Joe-uo9wv]

My father said across the dining room table when I was 16 did he love me, his answer was no. Those words were devastating even to this day I'm 70. The day before he died in the hospital he grabbed my hand pulled me close and said he loved me. Those were the last words he spoke. I have multiple homes and plenty of money but I would give it away to here him say those words again.

[@SPAZZYok]

Thank God you were there to hear him my friend. ❤️

[@jessicapearshouse1728]

My father told me he wished I’d never been born and he wanted me aborted.I’m 38 and he as been passed for 6 years now.I never did no why my sister was wanted and I wasn’t

[@jessicapearshouse1728]

I’m glad he did that and did love you x

[@tinkerbell8507]

@@jessicapearshouse1728 that is so hard and will stay with you forever. Good to know that our heavenly Father does love all His children. God loves you and that is something you can be sure of. Feel loved Jessica.

[@reginabina4147]

I felt sick when I read your post. I can't imagine how painful it would have been for my Daddy to tell me he didn't love me. Have peace with yourself.

[@joelcharles5582]

Music that will never die, 36 years ago and it still sounds great in 2024 😢, take me back to when music was nice like this..

[@clivewilliams9914]

Amen To That!!!!

[@fourwingsweepa1705]

Today's music is all rehashed

[@deborahkeefe3389]

Amen Brother

[@sheldonloeb3034]

Amen. It'll be 35 years this year that i lost my father and i still miss him each and every day.. love to all fathers❤

[@SM-qe4wd]

Music died at least 40 years ago, why would you want to go back

[@needaman66]

Lost my dad 50 years ago when i was 13. I never knew what to say then , but since losing my mother and sister in the same year, i am the last one standing. This song brought up so many memories i could stop the tears streaming down my cheeks, and i was never ok for crying. I'll see you all soon my beloved family ❤❤❤❤❤

[@joshshields709]

God bless you,I no it’s difficult but try and keep ur head up,one day you will all be together again👍

[@roybruce3233]

Lost my mom 1st may 2024. It hit like a bomb. We never thought about death so close. I often have days when I look at her photo and realize that she is no longer there. This is one of the songs that often reminds me of her. My father is there, but the fear that he might go too is so great. I feel you ♥♥♥

[@nikonikolaides5286]

You make me cry… 😢 God bless you!! 🙏❤️🙏

[@DugEphresh]

As a father now, this is the greatest song of all time for me now! My son is now 24 and he has never called me father or dad, he has always called me buddy! I am truly blessed, and I want you all to know that I call him buddy too and he gets very upset when I don't. God bless you all and thank you for your time if you read this. Very respectfully, DugEphresh

[@stevenherberts968]

That's brilliant buddy.

[@WISE1]

I greatly admire your "buddy" system! I always wanted love from my abusive father, who himself was abused. Time [and work] can heal all wounds 🙏🏻

[@DugEphresh]

@@WISE1 So TRUE, God bless!

[@DugEphresh]

@@stevenherberts968 Thanks!

[@garyfeenan8143]

I have terminal cancer less than 4 months to live. Went from a 220 pound ripped bodybuilder who ran half marathons to a 98 pound skeleton. Thought I would live to a good age I am only 42. Everybody live your life to the fullest.

[@stevethomas4353]

Call out to Jesus-- you'll be in a far better place!

[@michaelcalmeyn7376]

My thoughts are with you

[@ashleytaylor994]

God bless you

[@j.daniel6357]

Jesus saves ! Call out to him. I did. It was like life from the dead . Depression hit me hard but I prayed to him and was saved. All glory to him !

[@benjaminngubeni5812]

Sending you all the love and light in all the world for you.

[@amyphillips367]

My dad past away the day after my daughter was born. This song meant so much to me! 27 years later still makes me cry. The message is everything!

[@williambryan9087]

Amy, you are so beautiful to have to suffer any pain. Hope all is better for you

[@seancotter9156]

❤❤

[@chrishinch3200]

My dad died just before I found out my wife was pregnant. This news was not as good as it should have been as he did not know still think about that.

[@TanukiSC]

So much love to you for your loss and for your daughter. I hope you share all the wonderful memories of your da with her.

[@larrymercado5689]

😥

[@DavidFernie]

This is a song that resonates strongly with anyone who has lost someone close. The fact that it is sung by a man and we have this inability to express love to other men, even our fathers or brothers makes this song hit home. My advice to all, men especially, say it while you can, then maybe this song won’t bring you to tears every time you hear it.

[@PatriciaFletcher-o7l]

My Dad passed July 28, 2011 he was 97 years old. I think at that age you expect and have tried for a long time to prepare for the passing of a a parent. But you cannot ever prepare for such a loss. It has been 13 years since, and my sisters and I still feel the pain but what comes now is the good memories and all he taught us. Now we are trying to pass it to our grandchildren and hope that we are remembered as we remember dad. We love you daddy, Till we meet again.

[@jeffshort1811]

You see the train coming, and you know it will come. Even expecting it, it hits hard just the same. Whether it's even a blessing or not, the moment impacts and the feelings wash over. With time, the warm memories and the love takes over, healing our hearts. This song, so expressive and says it all indeed

[@fergalokeeffe8841]

So sorry to hear that. 97 is some age. My father 👨 died 2 yrs ago at 83. Only for my mother 👩 looking after him he could have died 20 years ago.😢 😊

[@davem8129]

This song will always have a special meaning to those of us who have lost our mum's and dad's. "Grief isn't a sign of weakness or a lack of faith....It's the price of love."

[@lynellvickerman893]

soooo true

[@davem8129]

@@lynellvickerman893 Painfully true Lynell 😢

[@alisoncasinelli565]

I agree

[@johngurnhill8743]

Lost my dad still miss him

[@jimp.1934]

I don’t think I have ever read anything more true.

[@DENISTHEMENACE77]

What a song, older u get more you realise the meaning

[@ronnierussum4530]

Absolutely 💯

[@pamkammann1176]

And no matter what age , life is to short with our loved ones .lost my mom last year at age 92 and this makes my eyes leak bad…

[@ronnierussum4530]

@@pamkammann1176 completely understand young lady, hoping you have a lot of family support because of what I experienced with losing my mom it took me about 10 years to understand and accept passing away I was 23 at the time I just didn't understand. Cling to someone who loved her as well that will help. Peace ✌️ and blessings.

[@hermanthetosser4219]

i knew when i was young when i heard this it was important and as i get older and in a few weeks i turn 34... and have read the comments that this is incredible song and should be on of those songs to reflect on time

[@marieakendall5354]

AMEN TO THAT.

[@johnschoonover5914]

I was born in the 60's great tunes and still listening. MY dad passed away a few years ago cancer still miss him!!! I'm still here July 26 2024

[@joannaspeakman9724]

This song was played at my dad's funeral on the 17th March 2021. He passed away on the 18th February 2021 from dementia and parkinsons. This was one of his favourite songs to listen to, because it reminded him of the relationship between him and his father. RLP dad.

[@hawkeye1836]

Rest In Peace--Dad--Grand Dad and Joanna, no matter where your are !! 💕

[@goochmonster78]

My father passed away on the 26th of April 2021, i didnt have the chance to say good bye. He was a great father. Miss you Dad, always in my thoughts and prayers. I still cant believe he is gone, i guess i just lock things up inside.

[@nancyt8247]

so sorry girl......Peace be with you

[@amandajogaddy8825]

I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Parkinson's is a vicious disease. I am calling my dad.

[@bonniebennett9621]

Ahhhh, Joanna! So sorry! Lost my Dad as well!

[@pricklypear7497]

One of the most profound songs ever written.

[@evamajok07]

❤️❤️

[@heatherchartrandleduc6377]

Truly.

[@detrich2009]

this song will forever stand the test of time, an absolute classic

[@bettinahansen7630]

Yes!

[@rickbaier1042]

Real truth spoken

[@robbiepoulin920]

Yes, I lost my dad when I was 14 in 1978, but reading all of your comments here is making me realize just how similar our lives are. I'm sorry for your loss brothers and sisters. We are all in this together.

[@truckerray7533]

So sorry for your loss as well! Those of us that have had a special, loving, relationship bond with our fathers/dads/pops & they unfortunately passed away for whatever reason & left us all behind. . . . . .we all share a special, unique, bond that we all truly & are able to understand what that is, & it goes beyond love & what they taught us in life. . . . . . we have to lift one another up & encourage one another & to stay strong & keep our fathers/dads/pops alive in our memories & in our hearts! God bless each & every one of ya! Stay strong! We all will get through this! Let the Good Lord guide us all each & every day!!!🙂🙂🙂

[@paulfisher5501]

My dad too in 1978 just a month after my daughter was born. I took her to see him in hospital and saw him cry for the first time ever. That still destroys me.

[@AmericanVeteran7]

Lost my father in 74 and my mom in 78. I'm 58yrs now and when I hear this song I wonder what could have been.

[@alwayslogoff6735]

Thanks for sharing with us🎉😂❤🎉😂❤❤❤

[@suellensheppard9734]

@@robbiepoulin920 be well

[@zebedeedoodaah6454]

I sent this to my 20yr old son 2 days ago with a msg of love and humility. After more than a year and anger,he just msgd me to say "hi dad,I'm going thru some shit,but will call you soon when I've organised my head". Sooooooooo good. Thankyou. Zebedee from Oz. 👍

[@stephaniefain1863]

I got to share this song with my dad well before he died suddenly at 65. I’ll never have the chance to tell Mike, but what a gift this song is.

[@richhunter5013]

I wish I had a daughter that cared for me

[@stephaniefain1863]

@@richhunter5013 I wish you did too. My dad was a hero. A quiet, honorable, generous, kind man. He taught us, “ If not me, who? And if not now, when?”. The worst thing I ever heard him say about anyone was “ He don’t know nothing, and he don’t know he don’t know nothing”. 22 years in the air force, but teaching was his love. He retired with honors from over 30 years teaching young sight and hearing impaired people trades. 30 years as captain of our local volunteer rescue squad. The world lost the best when he died.

[@achriscilley3965]

He l feel writing these lyrics came to the realization that in one way or another we all have difficult moments with each other dad,mom, brother,...whoever one verse is deeply upsetting and in the next it is forgiving. What a beautiful piece of work one that for many will go down as a truly touching song that in one way or another is one of the greatest masterpieces ever brought forth to all of us in one way or another.

[@BarneyDuncan-gj1og]

The chap singing in the video is the actual writer Paul Carrack. He sang and wrote the hit "How Long" for the group "Ace" in the 1970's

[@BellaXX69]

Isn't this about Mike and his father so I was told that's why hes in the clip but it was too hard for him to sing it himself

[@catherinec6691]

My Dad listened to this song just after losing his father. I'm now listening to it after losing him. I miss him very much.

[@notlob23]

So sorry..x

[@aa-xy4hg]

may he rest in peace 🖤💙 Im sending you love

[@flyingphotography5770]

Catherine Cross Ms. Cross, we are of different times, you and me. However, the pain of loss is not unique to the generations. Blessings to you. Never, ever forget him!

[@danielimemmoli3812]

I lost my father 11 years ago and this song explains it perfectly

[@michaelsullivan79]

My dad did the same thing for his father and now here I am two days after my dad passed

[@mwt3567]

Profound lyrics. I'm 64, and this reminds me of the relationship between my father and me. He died when I was 17...I regret that I didn't appreciate his love, hard work, and sacrifices. I wish I could have told him in the living years.

[@weirdgirl7475]

I know this is a late response, but don't beat yourself up with regret. You were 17. A lot of us don't or didn't understand or appreciate what our parents did at that age. 😉

[@grantgilbert6359]

Listen... Life is full of regret,but also feelings that are not shared... Your loved one knew how you felt... Never doubt that...XXX much love

[@davidbarber4709]

Am almost 67 and a wish a could av told my Dad that he was the greatest man av ever known after many mishaps he was going be Grand dad and then gone av never got over the loss of my Dad possibly never will the nicest man ever a true Gentlman

[@rickwaggoner8479]

Me too

[@airwolf5826]

@@davidbarber4709 Ttuth is you most likely will never get over your loss. I'm still missing my Dad nearly 9 years later. You have to keep the great memories,their yours and His.

[@mikegalvin9837]

My mum and dad had to handle a very difficult period of my life and when dad was in the last hours of his life I wished I could have said ‘Thankyou’ for everything he did.

[@iBunZz360]

Lost my dad when I was 17, I'm 31 now, think about him every day. This is one of the most beautiful songs ever written. Miss you Dad x

[@charlesmacdonald4490]

An amazing song. I lost my dad in 2005. I think of him every day.

[@Scottsteaux63]

@Helen Robson My Dad was my best friend. He left us much too soon; I still think of him.

[@phillipkennedy508]

😢😢

[@j3nny3lf]

I was also 17 when my Dad passed, 40 years ago now. I miss him every day.

[@davidsallette1698]

Was

[@derekmoore7656]

I loved my father so much, and I miss him every day. I'm crying at 64 remembering the greatest man I have ever known. I hope my 2 sons' feel the same when I pass. Thank you, Mike & The Mechanics, you said it all.

[@davidlilley2068]

I'm sure they will .

[@RonSneary-cr4ps]

I'm 74 and feel the same. My father was patient & understanding for all the crazy things I did as a kid. Thanks dad, I miss you.

[@juliebedard479]

This song is the best ever to describe that your parents are the most important 2 persons in the world. I lost my dad 2 years ago and now, my mother has Alzheimer and she barely recognize me. Tell them often that you love and thank them for what they do for you before they go away for always.

[@squonk86]

Same here my father was 72 and passed away from a brain aneurysm,I was 50 but you would think I was a little kid and for 8 days was a living hell watching my best friend and the best father anyone could ask for and miss him everyday and always shed tears when I think of him.

[@VictoriaShezi]

I'm 35 yrs my father passed away last year December 25 .my dad was everything in my life ooh god I cry every day since he passed on .lalah uphimule skhakhane mboma

[@bernard48]

Got a call from the Hospital one Saturday morning, to say my dad was in a bad way. When I got there, my greatest man ever had left me, then I realised, he is with me forever,

[@-MrRichBiker1967]

help me believe my dad, is with me. lost him only 4 mnths ago......going bat shit crazy.

[@myramuniz584]

Sorry for your loss, May he RIP 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@soniacoutinho7083]

Same happened to me 3 weeks ago. My beloved father is gone but with me, my mom and my sister. A Grest human being. I love him so, so much..

[@sharoncontini3284]

🙏💜🙏💜

[@isabellbyrne5528]

So sorry for your loss may your beautiful Dad Will Rest,In,Peace Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@rickbadwey1754]

My father is 91 and admitted to hospice to spend his final days in comfort. Since I married 25 years ago, we didnt have a relationship due to his nonsensical beliefs about my life (for example I shouldnt get married until my older brother is married....he has no interest in marriage or a relationship). It took a friend to mend that relationship and bring us back together. Everyday I thank God that He sent someone to intervene and heal a broken relationship. Although he is neurologically not aware of anything or anyone, I praise my Savior Christ that he allowed me to know him his last year!

[@iiilll7256]

lost my Dad 6 days ago, in about 2 hours is the service for him, Im sitting here at his house in front of his computer listening to the song. He was the best man I ever known, I do not mourn, I honor him, and his memory by trying to be a good man everyday, he will be missed, thanks Dad for everything you taught me

[@jennyperrio4887]

O.Livia 8 I am so very very sorry for your fathers death I hope you made it through the service ok I will hold you in my heart and prayers You have a pal in me always 😊😘🌟✨

[@kevelliott]

So sorry for you. There is no 'feeling better' magic. Grief is just there. I had no issues with my late Dad but this song is not just about yours or my dad, it's about grief. We all have unresolved things going in with a person who has passed. And their passing shuts off any possibility of squaring our differences. Being a better person is the best thing you can wish for in memory of your dear Dad.

[@scottmcgill2127]

0ur Dads passed about the same day, #respect, agree 100%

[@jennyperrio4887]

@@scottmcgill2127 Im so sorry to hear of your loss I have been there The pain is raw The only thing i can say is hang on in there It really does get a little easier to cope Bless you I will hold you in my heart and prayers 😌💫🌟✨

[@stfjesusfreak]

Big hugs and my condolences! I lost my Father 4 years ago next week. God bless you and your family!

[@mumumaxima]

My partner passed away 4 years ago but I miss him still. He was not a biological father to my daughter but he was the greatest daddy for her ever ❤️ thank you for everything you taught us. We love you.

[@nickhill8612]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending nothing but love and prayers your way.

[@catherinenduku4151]

God bless you sister

[@CreativeCreatorCreates]

Bless you

[@tomace7793]

I'm sorry for your loss. Think of the good time. Were Praying!

[@realreviews4017]

Sorry for your loss, but they do come to you sometimes. Never really gone. x

[@gruntyboy]

After you lose your parents, this song takes on a whole new meaning...

[@ronmullard5718]

certainly does ...

[@stephencoopet7860]

Also your grandparents

[@deloisbynum5835]

Amen.

[@joan-mariacbrooks]

...or a beloved niece or nephew... it covers every emotion and then some...

[@KnuckleheadParker]

It really does Thanks for the reminder

[@ConnySedibe]

My dad made lots of mistakes but He loves me and my siblings like no one has ever loved us. He is still alive... What s wonderful dad. I love you dad.

[@davepeters6861]

Greatest song ever written. I lost my best mate (Dad) on 02/02/2003. When I went to see him in hospital he looked at me and saw my tears and he said “ Don’t cry son ive had a good run” I still cry when I hear this song.

[@garyvenn]

My dad was my best friend. I lost everything when he died. I feel you brother.

[@janinemartin9045]

I lost my dad 35 years ago and my brother 26 years ago and I still cry listening to this song.

[@clay3205]

Mine looked at me like a 4-year-old child and asked me " Am I about to die?" Hearing that come from your hero will crush your soul.

[@delisaseale5881]

Yes, I lost my father 23 yrs ago but I think about him when I hear this song as well. It pulls at my heart, especially the part about not being there “the day he passed away.” I would like to have been able to have held his hand at that time. 😔

[@j.c.8493]

I was born on 02/02. This year 02/02/2024, on my birthday my dad was admitted to hospital. He was suffering for many years with multiple sickness. Imagine my shock and pain when he died 4 days later just after we took him home. He told me he doesn’t want to be alone. We buried him a few days ago and I wish I could die too. The pain and grief is indescribable.I miss him so much. Hugs to you ❤

[@danwaller5312]

Im 72 and cry every time I hear it! Miss you Mom and Dad

[@RobertGraziose]

I cry also. I wasn't there that morning when my father passed away. My family never called my apartment, they kept calling my job knowing full well that I worked the night shift. My boss very ticked off at the number of calls they made told me when I got in that I had to call home. I never got a straight answer as to the reason of this blunder. My doctor, who also passed, came to the house to sign the death certificate, assured me he went quick in his sleep. We lost two great heros of mine in the 90s, my dad and Dr. T.

[@wickedout2010]

This is a timeless masterpiece! My mom passed away in 2019. I’m so thankful for her blessings and the love she showed me growing up. I’m her youngest of 3. She was my hero! My dad is still with us in 2022! Be sure to tell them you love them as much as you can. Love conquers all! I miss you mom! ❤

[@viktoriyaarnaudov]

My mom also died 2019. I was pregnant with my lovely twins. So sorry that she didn't saw them at least ♥️💙

[@marion3386]

I know . ❤

[@57hodja]

love. always love.

[@anthonyanthonymorones4226]

The first time I heard this song I was four years old and that was in 1988 my family cause this song, the Christmas song and also this song goes out to all the people around the world not just to the USA but also to people who are living in United Kingdom God bless you guys and ladies stay safe and let’s have a great 2023

[@LittleSuzi86]

Sad some don’t see what they have with you while you’re living.They need to open their eyes and grow up. See what you do have and be grateful! 😪💙

[@Mkds123]

This is a rare song that makes us reflect on our personal experiences with our loved ones after they have gone. It can be particularly significant to men as a lot of men have negative experiences with their father figure. It doesn't matter your gender, the message is the same. This song makes me resonate with my mother and everything i needed to say to her.

[@torch8922]

I lost my father when I was 10 - he was killed in an accident at work. I still remember the policeman at the door, telling my mum that my dad had died. This was way back in 1960 (I’m 72 now). This song hits so hard, in so many ways. 62 years since my dad died, but this song fits and still brings tears to my eyes.

[@rafart6936]

im so sorry brother ....,i lost my dad cancer...stil hurts...

[@konradrosgen1791]

My father died in 2004... Leukemia... He was 56 years old... I will be 52 next Thursday... I miss him every day... But I know he's always with me... As long as we keep our deceased in our hearts, they are never completely gone...

[@ronaldstephen6354]

@@rafart6936 m

[@kevinbeck6785]

💔💔💔

[@scther4938]

Ha

[@theinspiredentrepreneur5441]

My father passed away this morning. I'm dedicating this song in his memory.

[@MetalMaiden52773]

William Pruitt I'm so sorry, for your loss, this damn song. made mom lock up the brakes and burst into tears I was 15 (1988) this is just one of those songs like a hand granade. In a strange way it kind of was the reason my mom reconnected with her family.

[@mitchellrobinson5021]

this morning f me r you clearing the house out and sharing the item's and planning a funeral and wake instead of wasting ya time with strangers on KZbin. A week's a good time to get over all the things that I mentioned?

[@louisditomaso8947]

Im so sorry bro...lost my dad in march...u can't express to people how the loss of a father affects the son....its a timeless bond....rip pop...cya on the other side

[@jp-mc2bp]

you are not alone. Mom and Dad 40 years ago and it still hurts. Cry it helps

[@anthonyscull8804]

God bless you and your family

[@KEITHNALUMANGO]

One of the greatest songs ever sang. I lost my dad when he was 97. I'm 68 now, and each time I hear this song, I cry, cry, and cry. I wasn't there that Monday morning when he died at my brother's farm. And I will miss him until I die.

[@gersie777]

my gran (she raised med) died at 97, that was 2012, im still crying

[@blackthornknives]

God bless you my African brother. God bless your family.

[@CanIbeFrank]

Very powerful words

[@charlesmarkell5221]

Likewise my good friend

[@charlesmarkell5221]

Thank you for sharing god know

[@Bronncohowie24]

This song always makes me cry. I wasn't around when my father passed and I've regretted it all the rest of my life. I've always tried to show my children how much I love them and get involved in what ever they did. If you're a father, it's never too late.

[@nursedjones]

GOD and your father understand from the spirit realm. The perspective is different and there is no judgement but understanding and growth.

[@moiramoore7645]

This wonderful song came out around the time that my Mom died. She was 52. I was 26. I was devastated, and this song was a reminder to spend as much time as possible with loved ones while they are still with you. Take heed of this people. ☹️😢

[@cionieslangen]

Indeed! Life is too short. We never know when death. Comes. So enjoy l life with loving kindness.

[@dougs57]

I moved back home from San Diego in 1990 to help my parents out. Was going to move to Las Vegas after college in 96 but for reasons that never happened. I continued to help my parents. My dad died in 07 and I was taking care of my mom . She had a stroke and died in 2013. I was lucky to spend all that time with them. Even though I had some issues with turning the machines off for my dad and I saw my mom’s stroke which both left me with with some mental issues I wouldn’t change the time I was able to spend with them. Miss them every day ❤❤❤.

[@jenniferdow5733]

I'm sorry for your loss. I've been seriously, melancholy since my Mom passed away in 2020. But this song reminds me of the relationship with my Dad. It makes me cry, love him dearly, however we never see eye to eye! So to be healthy mentally, I must adore him from a distance. TRULY SAD!

[@albertmorales7425]

Moira Moore. God. Bless hoy. . Take care. . Love From a Gentelmen From .. Puerto Rico. . Moira .. Soo cute.

[@jeanlane3971]

Me too. Mom had cancer in 89 and died in 90. I actually talked to her about this song. Wrote out the words to it. Never let things go too far and then they die. Always put others first.

[@ericfairchild5431]

It goes both ways. I lost my son in April of 2023. He was 25, and i miss him every day. So many things i thought I had time to say. As dad i tried to be stern yet loving. Never miss an opportunity to tell someone how much they mean and how much you love them. He knew, but there was still more .

[@alexandraasbury9974]

I'm so sorry for you, but I bet he knew you loved him. Sometimes, we forget all the times we showed love! And being stern isn't always bad if necessary. We don't let our children run into the street or put their hand on a hot burner. A certain amount of discipline is what gives kids direction. They need & like that bcs it shows them that you care. Be blessed, ericfairchild5431

[@mandycoleman3206]

My son also died aged 25 😢 so tough to handle. Sending you some love ❤️

[@jenzerbabiee1]

🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@tenderpawsm473]

Can you elaborate on stern but loving?

[@kevinjackson3332]

My deepest condolences. And my utmost respect for carrying on.

[@angelicjohnson5757]

I lost my Mom 43 days ago,the hardest and darkest days of my life! This song hits the nail on the head, you truly DONT know what you have got; until you do not hear their voice again

[@suziesuvajac312]

So sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you I lost my dad as well

[@klemmetvaagenes7935]

💖

[@lyricmannixon1793]

today is exactly 2 months since my mom died from dementia . no one around me understands that grief does not go away instantly . drinking gets me through and brings back memories that help me cry more to get the pain out of my heart . my mom will always be with me . i feel so alone and lost .

[@gisvid]

I lost my dad four years ago. We were never close while I was a kid, but we became closer when I had kids of my own. Just before he died my son, an adoptee, held my father's hand and talked to him as if he could hear and understand (and maybe he could, though medical science said not) - something I regret that I could not do. More power to the younger generation! This song is for my dad! Luv ya!

[@egelund1976]

@@suziesuvajac312 Sorry for your loss

[@ruedikarrer2770]

Really one of the most profound songs ever written!! Talk and take care of all your close people as long as you can. I always cry when listening to this song

[@douggodfrey6521]

Hear ! Hear !

[@goldwinger4356]

My dad passed away , alone, in some hotel room where he was working at the time. I wasnt there that morning...there was so much i did not understand about the man. He fed me, put a roof over my head n shoes n clothes...i owe him so much...the greatest man i never knew. This song makes my eyes water every time

[@mottthehoople693]

My dad died 5 years ago with dementia.He was a loving dad but I knew little of what he really was.My wife died suddenly a few months ago from a heart attack out of the blue. No goodbye nothing. This song just came up and gee I regret a lot of things.

[@terrycallahan8349]

Please know this….as a dad who travels…..your dad knows about your love and appreciation…..

[@mottthehoople693]

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[@ms.j.hakala215]

Try listening to "The Greatest Man I Never Knew" by Reba

[@goldwinger4356]

@@ms.j.hakala215 ...where I got the phrase from...

[@robertcronin6603]

My mom is about to pass...we hadn't seen or spoken to each other for 14 years due to the destructive affects of my alcoholism...I flew up to PA from Florida to see her in hospice a few weeks ago... suffering from late stage Huntington's disease, she wasn't able to speak to me much but I had the chance to tell her I've been sober for 10 years and that I'm a different person now...and that she was a wonderful mother to me...that I love her and that I was sorry for putting her through so much pain...my mom forgave me on her deathbed...I can't express enough how grateful I am that I had this chance to make things right between us before time ran out... *don't wait* - say what needs to be said while you still have time because it really is too late when we die 🔥🔥🔥

[@bonniemariedavis2909]

SO glad you got to see her. Keep coming back. May her memory be a blessing to you, Robert. God bless.

[@eugeniekhay8548]

F***K I'm a mess😢😢😢

[@ledoniapope275]

Do it, i promise you will get through it better,

[@cgat1955]

Robert Cronin you’ve just made me cry with your comments, I had a friend who died many years ago with the same disease. I’m so glad you managed to speak to your mother and make your peace before she died. As you say it’s so important to put things behind us, we all make mistakes in our lives but we also forgive any misgivings.

[@robertcronin6603]

@@bonniemariedavis2909 thank you, Bonnie 🙏

[@tomasrosenberg3430]

How can a song sound so warm or kind and yet have the tip of a spear against ones heart? A masterpiece...

[@barbararobinson244]

Well said.

[@ThePossumfan]

Very well said Amen! ❤

[@nancyborth2785]

Well spoken❤

[@phineasrumson3116]

My dad passed away in 2020; I miss him every day but I got to see him every week up to that point, I still hear his words of advice in my head every day.

[@TeddyBears.]

"I wasn't there that morning, when my father passed away" gets me every time, 💙

[@curtisharrison5809]

I hear ya

[@jamesfullarton4766]

I think a few of us have went through that experience

[@rickwaggoner8479]

Me either sadly

[@lawrencecaswell7156]

It tugs at the heartstrings, I lost my dad in 1990, I’ve never got over it, my mum died inside that day, our lives were never the same, I’m so glad he got to hold and know his grandson this song instantly takes me back to that day❤️🥲🥲

[@SamSam-df4xp]

It was just evening for me...I hear ya..

[@ameliapond1916]

I saw Mike + The Mechanics live in 1990. When Paul Carrack sang "I wasn't there that morning," the entire theater spontaneously stood up - for all the fathers.

[@kittensanddaisies5615]

Wow, that must have been a beautiful and very emotional moment. I lost my dad two and a half years ago and miss him so much. My dear mom passed 6 months ago and though i miss them both every day, i take comfort in knowing that my parents are together again.

[@DepDawg]

@@kittensanddaisies5615 my deepest condolences 💐 ❤️

[@kittensanddaisies5615]

@@DepDawg thank you

[@caroldozier1956]

Truly a masterpiece, I took care of my father after he was bedridden after living 16 years with a heart transplant, we were oil and water while I was growing up, couldn’t cope with him and moved out 3 months before I graduated high school. Years later while I did everything a nurse does , we became so close and dissolved all our differences, I cherish the memories I have of him that my three other sisters will never share! CHERISH LIFE - you get one shot, I was fortunate to make peace and friendship as well as nursing my dad through hospice. He went home peacefully and I was the only one in the room at the time because I think he knew and God knew my name couldn’t bare it- make peace with family members- before it’s too late! Thanks to the Lord I did!!!!!❤❤❤

[@caroldozier1956]

I luv you daddy, Rest In Peace my navy vet!!

[@BornAgainFitness]

❤️

[@albertmorales7425]

Carol. So Sad. We Love you and your Family. From PUERTO RICO. Take care. . Please.

[@LindaHuff-n9x]

This song taught me say it before it's too late. You never know. I saw my dad cry four times in his life and two of them were after I had my first son and then a few years my twins. This meant more than all the "love ya" I hear people say constantly. .

[@robinjessop6607]

I started crying as l listen to this song. My youngest son died 3 yrs ago at age 20 in his sleep from an epileptic seizure. He also had a rare form of autism and couldn't speak. I just wish he could have talked to me in his living years. Such a loving beauty soul. I still mourn him. We all need to share our love and cherish who is right in front of us. Please don't let

[@hughmooney8765]

My heart is with you Robin stay strong.....

[@migrationfuntimes303]

I'm sure he would have understood you.

[@helensheehan1141]

I’m so sorry robin. I can understand how you feel. I lost my daughter to suicide 6 years ago and as her mum I dearly wish she had spoken to me. I’ve always liked this lovely song but now it has a different and painful meaning now. Still great music 🎶 👍👍

[@forextom101]

There is nothing like a good cry!

[@marthamann7685]

Thinking of you today. You are so right... Live where are feet are, and we can listen, as well as we hear. This song was written by a man in a lot of pain. We all can learn from it. I am very sorry, you have lost your son. Prayers for you today.

[@troyburress4979]

People who didnt live through the 80s can't possibly understand the sheer volume of music that was created in that decade.

[@Jodoi1]

Yes, and the sheer volume of BRILLIANT music!

[@Freesoler01]

They also don't understand what our music was about. Most of it has a deeper meaning than the obvious lyrics. This is the music of my childhood, and I return to it now to sooth myself.

[@CarlosCruz-iy6dw]

❤

[@rickeymiller6184]

Damn right. Release the hounds on this shit that passes for music today. It’s all shit. And they wonder why we are pissed off. Can’t believe what this world came too

[@ferenchick87]

False

[@MichaelJohnson-tr4ke]

I loved my father dearly. Didn't know how deeply until he passed. I mourned him for years. This song makes me cry everytime I hear it. I wish i am considered half the man he was.

[@albertmorales7425]

Michael. Amigo. Lamento . . de verdad. So Sad.. Love From. PUERTO. RICO. . lo lamento amigo. .

[@bernard48]

I know exactly what you mean, my Father was the best man ever, for me. His Father is a close second, love them both and miss them so much.

[@idid138]

And I bet you don't know how deeply your dad loved or how proud he was either!

[@jeremysayers7400]

Truly one of the most beautiful songs ever written

[@louisehills5480]

My mother knew the words to this song. Lost her 4 years ago. Lost dad last July. This song makes me think of how much I miss them now

[@howiedewin3688]

We're not really gone, until we're forgotten.

[@ace2adrian]

May they rest in peace 🕯 So sorry for your loss. Please accept my sincere condolences and deepest sympathy.

[@louisehills5480]

@@ace2adrian thank you so much

[@dedehoward5648]

I lost my Father to Cancer, watching him go from a strong man, to nothing to be skin in bones, got the diagnosis, and within 4 months he was gone. Forever changed my life. I miss you daddy, and we love you ❤

[@kevingabel7315]

Lost mine to Dementia. I totally understand

[@cameronpillay8050]

😪😭😢😞 RIP too both of your wonderful fathers 💫💛 theyre watching and guiding the both of yall , always .

[@tommyrivas4244]

Lo Siento. I tripped the same way. They are in a better place.

[@tommyrivas4244]

I blamed my father. I didn't understand. The effects. Of cancer. I love and miss you pop.

[@tommyrivas4244]

I blamed my father. For his sickness. Forgive me dad.

[@craigweaver1115]

This song played on my car stereo the same moment that I heard my father was diagnosed with terminal cancer... A few days later my beautiful daughter Kirsten told me she was pregnant with my second grandchild Joshua. Not long after that my father passed away peacefully in my arms. Very little more needs to be said. This song, my daughter and my grandson mean more to me than words can ever say 💕

[@kellyrn6014]

This song came on the radio in 1989 as my husband and I left the hospital where my Mom passed away at 58. I was 29, with 2 little boys and a baby girl. I had to tell my boys their Nana had gone to Heaven. This song breaks my heart everytime I hear but I love it so much.

[@deborahquai9703]

Craig Weaver this song is amazing so powerful.....the words are so so true x

[@felroberto]

How old are you?

[@jasonjohnson3424]

Beautiful tribute to his memory!

[@toms3737]

Craig Weaver I know what this feels like. My uncle was diagnosed with stage 3 lung cancer on 1-28-18 and I lost him on 5-27-19. It hurst everyday. Not a second goes by with me not thinking of him.

[@Diamondbraclet]

My father died in 1968 at the age of 45. I was 17 and I wasn’t there when he passed away. That fact didn’t seem significant then but it does now. I’m in my 70’s now and I miss him more than ever. I’m sorry dad for not saying I love you and I’m sorry I didn’t appreciate you in the living years. I wish I could have watched you grow old, I wish you could have seen your grandchildren. And most of all I wish I could’ve thanked you for all you taught me and the little ways you influenced my life. I understand so much now. I love you daddy and I’ll see you on the other side. RIP

[@AndyArnold-uz5yo]

I think of my wife when I hear this song. It was her favorite song before she lost battling cancer. I wish I could change the hands of time. She was always there for me and our lovely daughter. Life can be so unfair most of the time, but sometimes I wonder why bad things always happen to good people.

[@rreid9012]

Diamond, we have a lot in common. My father passed away when I was 15, and it was 1975. I was told he was coming home from the hospital, and I wanted to go, but my mom said to hang out with my friends and you can talk to him when he gets home. Sadly he never made it home. I still think of that day like it was yesterday.🥹🫶🏻

[@andybrook9518]

"I think I caught his spirit later that same year. I'm sure I heard his echo in my baby's newborn tears. I just wish I could have told him in the living years." No other song lyric has ever been as much of a tearjerker as this.

[@jonlim4989]

This song never fails. It always brings me to tears

[@steveashby2266]

@steveashby2266 1 second ago i just read this and burst into tears. DAD died in 1989 and i still miss him. I"m 69

[@leswalker2639]

@@steveashby2266 we will always miss our loved ones but it won't be long we can see them again. Not only that , they know exactly how you feel and where your heart is. It is part of their job to guide you through this life without banging your head on the table too much. People don't realize even though they didn't get this be there with their parents or loved ones. They know your feelings because they do communicate with us when the time is right. Just remember they love you. You can talk to them and tell them different things, but learn to listen and a quiet surroundings. This is not impossible even though Hollywood makes it seem that way.

[@SH-ws1wg]

Same Same😢

[@WilfBond55]

Same here. My father was always so busy trying to provide for the family that we rarely did things together, and we were never close. I would have liked to have had one decent talk with him about a lot of things, but when he fell ill at age 73, it was sudden and he never regained consciousness. He's been gone for 21 years, and I miss him.

[@HyenaEmpyema]

The very last words (as the song is fading out) are the ones that resonate with me the most. "Don't give up, don't give in, and don't wait till it's too late"

[@richiebarrow5495]

I didn't know how much I loved my father until I lost him,So please everyone tell your dad as often as you can how much you love him,every chance you get xx

[@logan_e]

I'd love too tell my dad that every single day but he won't talk to me, I tried many times to call, he hangs up. He's 71 now, drinks a bit and it makes him mean. 9 years ago he confused an old issue from twenty six years past and now thinks it was me who did him wrong. It was one of his employees. We were so close before that, he is my idol of course. But my father is the hardest most stubborn man I've ever known, I'll never get to repair this before he's gone, that hurts!

[@SeemplesCL55]

My Father passed 40 years ago this year 😢 Still missed every day but thankfully we both knew it was happening and we did ‘talk’ but sadly not enough! Now I see that he has missed so much, marriages, Grandchildren and now a true love that will last a 1,000 years for me….. Life goes on no matter what 😊