What Happened When The Husband Found Them!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@mrwilliamwonder]

Don't you get it. The couple are just playing separated, in order to separate Chuck from his money.

[@Area51-is6vg]

😂Chuck choses to be with her. Chuck choses to pay $200 a month for her children to be taking care of. If he is in America he won't pay for his girlfriend day care, but he would go to PH and pays $200 for her children to be taking care of.

[@peter-pg5yc]

absolutly they are. americans are rich suckers. read above comment

[@mrwilliamwonder]

@@Area51-is6vg Because she's younger and puts out?

[@roswo]

@@mrwilliamwonder very possible ...it's a extortion play ...no doubt ..but we don't have enough info to know with certainty...so best chuck just get out of country ..this protect him most from either one of the possible scenarios ...shakedown or detention...

[@mrwilliamwonder]

@@roswo It's just a scam to shake down this old man from his money.

[@vgshwk]

If he would’ve cut it off after the husband contacted him he could’ve claimed he didn’t know she was married. By continuing the relationship he knows and makes it worse.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Your Right about that!

[@Mikeyyyy_L]

He had his chance.

[@Kitiwake]

Agreed. The jail sentence is about 14 years. The other problem is how long it takes to go to trial. Maybe 3 years or more, then the appeal, another year. So, about 20 years. Death in prison is likely. . Chuck, get out now

[@roswo]

@@vgshwk and by ignoring the husband makes it worse too.

[@lindawilson795]

Wow! This is serious! 😮​@@Kitiwake

[@tonyp6474]

Filipinas who are unmarried and have kids identify as single moms, not separated. She deceived him on purpose.

[@JoeBidet-yb5er]

Unwed mothers

[@peter-pg5yc]

yes,poverty does just that.. seen it all too often

[@Imold774]

@@JoeBidet-yb5er The majority of people call them “single mom”.

[@znzmanager]

Usually, a Filipina identifies as separated if she is married but not with the husband any longer. She didn't deceive him.

[@tonyp6474]

@znzmanager You didn't watch the entire video. He didn't know she had a husband even after their involvement. Also, why did she want to move away and wouldn't say why? He learned about the husband after the husband emailed him.

[@vince1012]

She lied to him about being married endangering him. That's not acceptable

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Lied to him and now has him hooked to her like a bay

[@vince1012]

@mikesphilippineretirement I was having breakfast with a girl at McDo in my building and her hubby sucker punched me giving me a perforated eardrum. She never told me that she was married and I'm guessing she told her hubby where I lived! What games do they play?

[@waterbug1135]

Yeah, and then when he found out he made an informed decision to continue breaking PH law.

[@3777177]

@@vince1012 Yes, you cant trust what filipina tells you who is desparate, which are most of them..

[@peter-pg5yc]

thats life in poverty, like you have never experienced before.

[@redlord-blacksigma2795]

Just leave. There are 1000's of women in the Philippines who can take her place.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I think sending her home and then looking for someone new

[@3777177]

You wont escape all issues, there will just be new ones in PI...that with new lady you dont know about. Women we meet here are the cast offs, pinoys dont want them for most part...but can be completely beautiful woman....

[@lynmendez6164]

Exactly leave her She just want his money. That's a problem with some Filipinas just want to take advantage with foreigners

[@redlord-blacksigma2795]

@lynmendez6164 Unfortunately, this goes for the majority of women in the world, no matter where they are.

[@lynmendez6164]

@@redlord-blacksigma2795 I don't look down to Filipina cause I'm Filipina too but some Filipinas is just to much. All they can think about money money 💰

[@Mikeyyyy_L]

As soon as Chuck found out she was married he should have broke things off with her. Like you said Mike, it’s different with a married woman in the Ph.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@3777177]

Well, most good looking young filipina married and have kids, that is the truth. I think woman okay, but you need to get out fast, bring her, but get out no matter what....change island, okay then...

[@MosheMasha]

Once u enter her .if she's married u r fxxked:) Best to always get a ceremony from am attorney to check woth zphil office of statistics to see if they are married. Always do this without exception and u won't have this problem. Also go to the local baranguy and ask them but the first way is the best way.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@haroldholton1246]

Hire an attorney! Get away from her! Before you go to jail. Send her home. You will find another woman.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

sound like the right thing to do

[@Dutchy-1168]

Wise words !!!!

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

Criminal Penalties If convicted, the penalties for adultery are severe. Both the wife and the man involved in the affair may be sentenced to a prison term ranging from two years, four months, and one day up to six years. This penalty is uniform for both parties, with no distinctions based on who initiated the act.

[@Koza480]

Don’t bother with hiring an attorney. Get a plane ticket to the U.S. immediately and get out of the Philippines while you still can.

[@TRICK-OR-TREAT236]

HIRING AN ATTORNEY WILL NOT GET HIM OUT OF PRISON WHICH IS WHERE HE'S HEADED. IT WILL ONLY SUCK UP MORE OF HIS MONEY WHICH HE'LL NEED TO PAYOFF THE HUSBAND.

[@danvain]

Seperated means married...period.

[@3777177]

yes, I agree, cebu 13 years....very correct....

[@HemiChrysler]

_separated_

[@DionCLACK]

Yep in this country or Their's

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@NotinKansasanymore]

If she’s married, don’t just break it off. RUN!!! Lol

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Run Forest Run

[@tinh_lai_ivietnam5253]

A lot of fishy details about her. How can an "old school" girl has 2 children with no job, stay with parent be an an "old school" women? Mr. Chuck is so thirsty. He is drinking Kool-aid.

[@VinceKunt]

Well now that you've vetted him. He's going to get his ass handed to him. Philippine men hate American men and cheating with their wives.. 👻

[@muhamedhabeeb791]

I like being ( a butterfly )!!!😮😮😮😮😮

[@tropicshade]

There are no favorable outcomes in this situation for this guy. Get out of the country is my advice... NOW!

[@Maurice181]

When a Filipina woman says she is “separated”… what that means is she is STILL MARRIED.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Are you sure about that

[@jasonjames4254]

EXACTLY! There is no such thing as separated in country that has no divorce. Separated = MARRIED!

[@kierandiviny8210]

From Google - Yes, a legally separated person in the Philippines is generally able to date others, as Philippine law doesn't explicitly penalize ongoing relationships after separation. However, remarrying without an annulment is prohibited. Legal separation in the Philippines allows married couples to live apart while remaining legally married. It addresses the rights and obligations of the spouses as they live apart, but it doesn't dissolve the marriage bond. The legal process of annulling a marriage in the Philippines is complex and must meet specific grounds outlined by law. Simply being separated for a long period of time doesn't automatically serve as grounds for annulment.

[@Mark-gg6iy]

"Separated" means you are married, anywhere.

[@jasonjames4254]

@@kierandiviny8210 This is great information! I knew of legal separation in the Philippines, but never really looked into it before assuming that it had more to do with protecting women from spousal abuse/neglect/abandonment. However, that's not true. It's much more expansive. For all practical purposes, it appears it's kind of like divorce-lite. It allows for the legal separation of properties, spousal support /child support / custody arrangements for children, etc. And yes, from what I read it requires very specific legal criteria, terms and conditions. It requires the petitioner to come to court with "clean hands"; meaning a spouse can't already be cohabitating and committing adultery with a new boyfriend/girlfriend and then ask the court for a legal separation. It appears to be a quite complicated aspect of Philippine law wherein a judge would have a lot of discretion. And where there is any form of judicial discretion in the Philippines, money talks and BS walks! Anyways, let's assume this would require a skilled lawyer and some fairly expensive legal fees that few Filipinas could afford. The odds that she was legally separated are slim. Thanks again for the great info!!! I hope gullible expats don't use this info as a way to get entrenched in a bad relationship. Plenty of fish in the sea! Best to just move on and find another Filipina without all these problems!

[@Joe-mz6dc]

Imagine a country with laws so stupid a man can leave his wife for 5 years and come back and claim her and put you into legal trouble because you took up with her. Ridiculous

[@philmcleod111]

@joe not much different then letting a criminal run for President .

[@billyjoe1888]

It's the law because it's the churches rule...

[@txtworld]

Respect the PH laws ... if you don't like it, then don't go there

[@Theodicy101]

@@txtworld True, he should have done his research, but dumb/unfair/antiquated laws DON'T deserve respect...nor a country that has them.

[@Theodicy101]

@@billyjoe1888 Very true...another great example of religion poking its nose where it doesn't belong AND making things worse. Also, on an already WAY overpopulated planet where HUMANS are the ones causing all of the harm, religions like Catholicism and the Mormons (Latter-Day Saints) which strongly discourage birth control--even working it into doctrine--and who encourage having as many kids as possible, deserve HUGE blame for our planet's problems and huge decline.

[@QuicknStraight]

Well, in legal terms, separation means only one thing in the Philippines: that the spouses have filed a petition in court that has been approved and they are granted legal separation of assets and liabilities. Unfortunately, a sexual relationship outwith the spouse, even while legally separated is still regarded as adultery. The only way, in the Philippines, to end a marriage is through annulment, which takes a while and can be very expensive. As regards Chuck's situation, he does have a legal defense to any case filed against him: but he would have to prove that he did not know the true status of the woman and that can be difficult, as it's a "he says - she says" situation, with no corroboration.Chuck needs to get to the bottom of whether or not they are legally married, in case the guy claiming to be the husband is trying it on. The woman needs to come clean. If they really are married, I would think it's highly likely, however, that the husband of the woman has also committed concubinage (the male version of adultery in Philippine law) since they separated, so it may be worth looking into what he's been up to. If he has, the threat of a counter charge of concubinage might well make the husband back off. As it stands, he likely only wants some of Chuck's money, but going down that road will be a never-ending handout to keep him quiet. You really have to be careful when considering a Filipina for your gf. Knowing her true legal status is important and, if she denies being married you really ought to surreptitiously record her saying so! Sorry for the long comment!

[@3777177]

All you say is fine, but in philippines is waste of time to figure out.....best to move to another island, they wont follow, very unlikely, and go from there....filipinas still great woman no matter some issues,,,,,,,

[@edwinholcombe2741]

Good advice

[@hillbillyintheasia6122]

Criminal Penalties If convicted, the penalties for adultery are severe. Both the wife and the man involved in the affair may be sentenced to a prison term ranging from two years, four months, and one day up to six years. This penalty is uniform for both parties, with no distinctions based on who initiated the act.

[@3777177]

@@hillbillyintheasia6122 How many times has this actually happened? This isvery rare, more likely a truck will kill you...

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@RONALD......]

Dump her..find another single woman

[@youngandfree93]

Old guys become set on their ways lol

[@RONALD......]

@youngandfree93 Yeah I'm old too.. but not an old fool to where id put myself in a Philippine prison using a dipper to drink from and to wash my arse with 🪣..🤔

[@youngandfree93]

@@RONALD...... I am part Filipino and I do know this behaviour is sadly common amongst poor quality Filipinas. Many Filipino husbands who are financially strapped will often be in on the scheme too. Sadly many see older folks more willing to stick it out way longer than a younger person would as they would bail instantly

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@brian_atc]

Talk about Red Flags, she wasn't honest about her status for three months? The only chance Chuck has is if the husband lied about reporting them. Be honest with yourself man, you're just an ATM to her brother. Run Chuck run,....if you can.

[@Area51-is6vg]

Chuck broke a law. He should be arrested and fined and then deported. .I wish the husband report him for spending $200 bucks on his children so he could have his wife to himself alone. 😂😂Chuck is not smart enough from stop seeing her. and move on He should get locked for not being smart.

[@Koza480]

@@Area51-is6vg Well said! You’re exactly correct!

[@kingmaafa120]

Out of all the marks Chuck took the bait 😮

[@johnrobertmartyn5040]

U.s.a.,,u.s.a ,,u.s.a Trump won the elections . Chuck. Run mate run.😂😂❤😂❤

[@kingmaafa120]

Sadly and trust me a lot of em out their scouring the internet 🛜 for the next BEEF 🥩 CHUCK to along with the 🐠 When you get the right one 1️⃣ ❤️women But in this day in age with the internet 🛜 You know how clever they can be 😂 Why wait for a knight in shining armor MAMA GOTTA FEED THEM KIDS 👍 oh and buy a new 🆕 👗 or a lot of em AND MAYBE SOME PARTS MY BODY MODIFIED 🤐👍to lure more of em in Be blessed

[@PaulsPhilippineAdventures]

In coming to the Philippines, I recommend having a good all around plan which includes things like handling financial matters and dating. Dating a married woman in the Philippines can only bring about problems, even if they are separated. Vetting in online dating is a must. Get it clarified. About half the women I talked to were married, but separated. Once you find that out, wish them well and move on. There are plenty of nice single women.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

very true

[@3777177]

All a crap shoot, dont know if married or not...no way to tell, assume filipina married....if so, get her and change islands....

[@sentinel80]

There is a way to tell, ask her to get a cenomar, that lets you know of any legal marriage she has had.

[@youngandfree93]

​@@sentinel80no chance. They will all laugh at you if you requested that

[@burtonknows9201]

@@youngandfree93 LOL! They laugh, and I and my money leave.

[@koufax174]

You’re the best Mike! The voice of reason. I once was told a woman I met was married. I stood up and walked away. No explanation. No response is a response. I am allergic to pandemonium. I won’t participate in anyone else’s fantasy. Just split. When she said she was married I would be on the next plane. He’s very confused. There are hundreds of women in SE Asia that would make a good companion. He needs to take care of himself first. The longer he doesn’t take action the worse it will get

[@burtonknows9201]

He's confused alright. He's got pootang-itis. 😂😂😂

[@Koza480]

@@burtonknows9201 You’re right about that. He got on and he can’t figure out how to get off!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@MikeWood-yc1er]

Take a fast cab to the ferry. Say sianora Amiga. Adios. Otherwise the outcomes are not good for the dude. System is stacked against him and limited capital creates limited options. Stop sending cash to her family. Make a clean fast break. Consider leaving the Phil's ASAP.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

one way to do it

[@Koza480]

Great advice!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@dillrq57]

"Seperated"; VERY DANGEROUS

[@HemiChrysler]

_Separated_

[@peter-pg5yc]

Meaning your seperated from your monies to give husband funds to live. sucker

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@TarzansGrandpa]

...There's no up-side to this now.... You have to walk away, stop the payments to the parents, Now.. Move and cut your losses... Sorry man....

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@jacksonrodrigues8732]

My advice is for him to get out of the Philippines first. If charges aren't filled yet, it's not late.... then figure out without having to worry about being arrested .

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@genepothier8398]

Separated is STILL married. There is NO divorce in the Philippines. Only annulment. He could end up in jail. Leave her immediately. As a foreigner he has NO rights in the Philippines. She also guilty of fraud by claiming she is not married. Unfortunately being a foreigner he has NO rights here. Chances are he will be held totally responsible. Chances are she will walk Scott free.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing

[@robertmitchell6080]

He will do her time, and pay financially as well. Its any wonder the philippines gets any male tourists.

[@Realitycheckagain]

​@@robertmitchell6080yes compared to Thailand Philippines gets very minimal tourists I believe. This will scare a lot of foreigners from coming which will ultimately affect the Philippines overall which is not good for the good ones. Corruption, fraud and blackmail etc should be punished severely but it worries me that the foreigners are always in the wrong and Filipinos could never possibly be wrong no matter what. They claim to be a religious country and all this righteousiousness but it's pretty hypocritical really and they are no better than anyone else

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@Offon_A_Boondoggle]

Not sure how it is handled there but I can tell you from experience here in the US that if you imagine the absolute worst that can possibly happen…then double or triple the trouble and pain you might get close to the potential outcome.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I have heard stories but never found out in person what really happened

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@Chrusttee]

The moment he confirmed she was married (by confirming with her she was in fact married, not just taking this random guy at his word) then that should have been the end the relationship with her. The whole "separated" thing is a GIGANTIC red flag and he should have found out her true marital status at that point. Open your parachute man, it's time to bail.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@edsteward7717]

How long has he been here? Don't need an exit clearance under 6 months. Bail!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@kevinandgemma7740]

Big problem bail out now , he is causing big trouble ..He is very nieve .. He is talking about thousands to settle this maybe about $10 to $15 thousand . n annulment is around $5000 to start with and could take up to 4 years or more , you can go on and on many more costs ..

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

you never know how much it will take

[@robertmitchell6080]

Why go thru all that when there are 1000's of young single mothers of one, or single women without a kid, admittedly not as many if they are 1/2 decent looking. Forget about anyone separated. It only leads to blackmail. The only thing on the minds of philippinos is a white mans money.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@JohnS-zq8ks]

There are several videos on The Philippina Pea's channel that detail this section of PH law. In one or more videos, Pea's guest is a local attorney there in Dumaguete. Although Chuck may not have the cash to pursue the annulment, the urgent issue is to get a criminal attorney to advise him. He may be well advised to hire Gracey (Pea's guest on the videos). At this point, this is a criminal matter, not immigration, although immigration may be the logical course, especially if his intent is to flee.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes she has a lot of good videos

[@Nobody-dc6rm]

My advice if it's not too late for him to leave the country possibly go to Thailand and enjoy himself. If the husband hasn't filed a complaint yet he should be able to get out of the country pretty easy. No woman's worth spending years in the Philippine jail

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@stuartloggins3691]

Id send her home and then apologize to the man and tell him i didnt know she was married. And i wouldn't go with her anymore. She lied knowing that she could cause him trouble.

[@Imold774]

Apologize 😂. Its a “shakedown” for money extortion. His goal is money

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

let see what happens

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@MikeSmith-frog]

Can the wife retaliate against the husband for abandonment? Are they really legally married in the first place? Was there any financial support given by the father that he was supposed to pay on a regular basis but never did?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that does not matter married is married

[@mv4463]

The husband can file a complaint against his wife separately if he wishes and not include the man.. yes the husband can include the man .in this case she told him she was separated.. dude fell in the trap it's his fault for not seeking a proven single. Women.

[@aaba1473]

The evil religions practices will make sure that people are tortured for one mistake their entire lives. Oh it's a test! Don't lose your hope... Religion is poison if it's in the wrong hands.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@kmilton1593]

Disaster: get to the airport, and leave PH forever.

[@robertx1021]

Actually it might be smarter to get on a boat to Indonesia.

[@Koza480]

I think he is too stupid to do that!

[@aaba1473]

Nobody ends a nice holiday just because one of the meals were bad. Just try another restaurant 😂

[@TRICK-OR-TREAT236]

@@Koza480 HIS BRAINS ARE IN HIS PENIS. 😂 🤣 😂

[@TRICK-OR-TREAT236]

YOU CAN BET THE HUSBAND ALREADY HAS A NO EXIT ON HIM. HE'S SCREWED BIG TIME.

[@oxnardman1]

She did not tell him she was married, the family did not tell him and they all knew the serious implications of this relationship. But hell, the family was making $200 a month so I'm sure they were happy with the situation. The husband and wife were working together and if he sends her home they will continue to seek money from him to prevent charges being filed to keep the expat out of jail.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

[@xziang]

Good point family knew she was married and didn't say anything either. Maybe they were hoping he would take her to Japan to get married. Family could be in on this too and now might extort him for more $ to,not report him and her to the police. Sucks but don't honestly know. He needs to travel to another country there and then have one of thise 'brokers' see if he can renew his visa.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@ronaldhein5739]

To add Mike, each guy that is going to date a woman with kids, GET THE LEGAL DOCUMENT THAT SAYS SHE IS NOT MARRIED AND TAKE A PHOTO OF THE DOCUMENT. That way he protected and if you’re getting into a problem he’s not in troble

[@sentinel80]

CORRECT 👍. ask her to get a cenomar, that lets you know of any legal marriage she has had.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@tommythomas6553]

I bet those grown children are not coming to the Philippines to see him because they’re so proud of their father And he is extra comfortable looking at that sweet young poontang 🤣😂

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@stan1027]

Can a woman file charges of adultery against her husband in the Philippines?

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

no

[@stan1027]

@@mikesphilippineretirement Wow, that sucks

[@ropineapplehead2198]

@@mikesphilippineretirement not adultery but concubinage is charge women would file.

[@BossHerbie]

That's wrong. Yes, she can, but she must show proof of a sexual relationship (difficult). Otherwise, if she can show that's he's living with another woman, she can file a charge of concubinage

[@keithrogers9741]

@@BossHerbie True

[@Mikeyyyy_L]

Chuck: There are plenty of single women over there that would love to be your lady. They don’t care about a guys looks as long as he is a good man. I’d do exactly like Mike said. Contact someone to help you with your visa and move on.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing that info Mikeyyy_l

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

What Happened to Chuck? Dating a Married Filipina. Getting Jail Time? kzbin.info/www/bejne/j5CqYZRoj7qrgrssi=OuA0AfnptSoquM3j

[@jonmarchilgers384]

Mike, you know exactly what to say and you said it. If Chuck doesn’t heed your advice, he’s setting himself for imprisonment. Good luck Chuck! P.S. Mike, you’re number 1 in my book Buddy. 😂

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@BIGFOOT-BC]

Good advice Mike. Exactly what I would have said. This woman has seriously betrayed you, she is done.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@Florida-Ken]

Mike, your Karaoke voice is very patriotic. Chuck, your $200 commitment is null and void, move on, live cheap and save up some emergency funds. Good luck to you.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Ken watched the whole video

[@robertmitchell6080]

His pension should be his budget in the phils, his savings should be for medical emergency or a 1 way ticket back home. Dont spend any of it on any filipina or her family. Because once it's gone hes on his own. Philippinos just laugh at broke foreigners. They find it amusing.

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[@lostinasia25]

Life is like a box of chocolates..you never know what's inside..... The husband has rights, their his Children. I would start the divorce process or think seriously about moving on. Dating/Living together isn't a good idea with Married/Separated women.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@RealGaryGibson]

These situations are usually just a shakedown for money by the husband. Chuck should offer to pay the husband big money then leave the Philippines (before payment) and go to Thailand.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

maybe just leave before they file anything

[@roswo]

He should just leave , while he still can , any other country ..get out now ..

[@larrylawrence1409]

Living angeles city 7 years most. Girls over 30 working bars are married husband is home taking care of kids why they meet foreigners bars don’t care or check to protect customers, usally it’s both of them black mail you if you distance your self from them , this guy will get black listed if he not make deal with them , that’s why you should come to angeles city to and sit in bars and here all the story’s about laws in Philippines many expat experts here what’s worse leaving this girl or getting black listed these girls are a dime a 100 and I doubt she’s and 8 or 9 most are 6s 7s but still sbeautiful learn the laws before Liveing here and get and education about these girls , when do they lie when there lips are moving

[@michaelbond4239]

Terrible advice. You’ve just rewarded their behaviour, well done and now you’ve just set up the next expat guy. 😂

[@TAO-fw5gc]

When I heard that he met the family, immediately I knew that this was a setup by the woman and her family.

[@pughbear9145]

Don’t ask her if she is married, ask her if she ever been married. Then ask her to show you a Cenomar certificate for proof. Sometimes the Filipina and her husband will set you up in this situation so that they can blackmail you.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

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[@ronaldhein5739]

Tell him to go to the airport and get a ticket to a country close to the phillipines and rent a place in that country and have her get a passport and join him. Then see if they can work it out with her husband. Also they may be scammers.

[@keithrogers9741]

In most cases the PH Gov won't let here leave unless she has a certain amount of money in her account

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@znzmanager]

Mike, ask Heidi at CGC to have one of her attorneys on staff (I know they are immigration specialized) find out the simple method to "legalize" Chuck's ability to be with his girlfriend, even though she's married. Tell her it would require approval of her husband. That's the clue. If she cannot get it from them, get back ahold of me, and I'll explain it to you. If needed, I'll go into the PH laws to find it for you. It's real. :)

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@BobPuckett-l4e]

My wife, a Filipino, said that when a married couple separates in the Philippines they often go to the baragay and sign papers that they will live apart, and don’t care about each other anymore. It’s not legally binding, legal separation etc, but police won’t prosecute if such an informal, arrangement was signed. Best bet would be to negotiate with the husband. Many marriages fail, even in the Philippines

[@wpop2590]

@@BobPuckett-l4e good info thanks

[@Marty_YouTuber]

No, in the Philippines, married couples who want to separate must go through a formal court process to legally separate. The only proof of legal separation is the Decree of Legal Separation issued by the court. Here are some other options for couples who want to separate in the Philippines: Annulment This process is often expensive and requires proof that the marriage was invalid. Living apart without a court decision Some couples choose to live apart without making their separation official, but problems can arise later. Legal separation allows couples to separate their living arrangements and property without legally terminating their marriage. This means they cannot remarry. To file for legal separation in the Philippines, you'll need to provide the following: NSO copy of marriage certificate, Birth certificates of children (obtained within 6 months), Barangay certificate, and Community Tax Certificate.

[@Marty_YouTuber]

Yes, in the Philippines, the only valid proof of legal separation is the "Decree of Legal Separation" issued by the court; simply living apart from your spouse does not constitute legal separation, and you must go through a judicial process to obtain this decree to prove your separated status. Key points about legal separation in the Philippines: Court order required: A couple can only be legally separated through a court-issued decree. Proof of separation: The Decree of Legal Separation document serves as the official proof of legal separation. No automatic separation: Merely living apart without a court decree does not constitute legal separation. Marital status remains intact: Even with a legal separation, the couple remains legally married and cannot remarry.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@ernestoaranda717]

He should have responded: "Sir, I am financially supporting your wife and children. You must reimburse me or else." Or are there no child support laws in the Phils? It also struck me that this might be a long con. She and her hubby are in cahoots and find a "rich" (to them) Kano and threaten to extort him.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@51dbail]

like you think her husband isn't sleeping with other ladies? How much child support is the husband sending to the kids? If he only had some money, he could put that guy in jail. But for now, he should run

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@boatnic]

LOL, excellent video Mike! Until the Karaoke started at the end.

[@cfcrowley8494]

His looks and the sound of it he's lost his mind!

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it was the last 15 seconds..hahaha

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@michel-georges-charlesmatt3066]

["all wedding are null and void anywhere on the planet that is for sure.. this is a legal scam, now if is a contract between men and women that as to be sorted out..if the men left the family 5 years that is a loss for him full stop"]

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

different laws in different countries

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[@golftrekker]

If the girlfriend was in on it, it makes the perfect scam, but it doesn't seem to be the case here. I hooked up with a married lady on my first visit to the PI, not knowing there was no divorce in the PI. Dating a married woman has risks and is not necessary, there are so many eligible and beautiful Filipinas to choose from.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@jasonjames4254]

Chuck needs to get on a plane now! The only way the husband would have his personal information is if his so-called girlfriend gave it to him so they can extort Chuck. If he can't get a exit clearance, pay off her husband now and get him to drop the charges and then beat feet! Like Mike said, go to Thailand, Vietnam, Cambodia, USA, etc., anywhere but the Philippines. Chock it up to a hard lesson learned and next time INVESTIGAGE before you get attached. And save some damn money! NEVER EVER travel overseas without a well funded emergency escape plan in place!

[@TAO-fw5gc]

Exactly.

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[@mattrodwell]

I lived there for a few years and you gave your friend some solid advice. She's using him and pretty girls out there are a dime a dozen. I might come back there and stay in Bacolod. 11:10

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[@frankellis9627]

All these fine ass women in the Philippines and this guy goes after a married woman with kids 🙄🤨🙄

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for the comment

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[@Koza480]

Your advice for him to put her on a ferry and send her home is sound advice. There’s too many women in the Philippines that are single to get mixed up with a married woman. That guy should have known better than to get himself into a mess like that.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for your comment Koza

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[@scottchocolate2833]

Food for thought. Most likely the husband left her for another woman, this is also adultery, and he committed it first. Have an agency renew your visa for you to see if there is an issue, or if this is just a warning. Then do some homework on him, find out his living situation and see if he has another woman. If he is also guilty, and this goes to a judge, he will be in the jail cell next to you for the same charges. I am not sure how the court determines if adultery has taken place, but the burden of proof should be the same for both parties. I suspect he is also guilty of this crime and thus has not filed any charges. There was not an issue until she found the "Golden Goose", and now he wants a few of the eggs. Adultery is a crime, extortion is a crime, it is best not to add a third crime of bribery to the basket. I would do this. Get her back home. Keep your distance from her until you can sort out the situation. Have her or some third party contact him and find out what he wants, or what his expectations are. Do some due diligence on his living arrangements and see if he is also guilty of adultery. If he is clean, then you have to walk. If he is dirty, then there is really nothing he can do unless he wants to join you in jail. Either way, you need to find out his situation or the emotional stress will kill you. Good luck. Not an ideal place to be in.

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[@stephenandluisa]

A woman can be separated for 20 years, but if she is still married to that man, it is a crime in the Philippines to have a sexual relationship with her.. the husband can always bring charges against her and him no matter how long they’ve been separated

[@aaba1473]

That's the theory. In application, the husband knows that he will be sent to donkey's heaven by the woman's family if he takes that route. So it never happens.

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[@abeneufeld9690]

If the lady says she’s divorced,wouldn’t she have a divorce certificate to show the boyfriend? Is it a good idea to ask the lady to show one?

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[@marcrichard7251]

Break off the relationship and go to another Island….also Mike gave you good advice to have an agency check to see if changes are filed. If you have a warrant for your arrest you better talk to a lawyer and deal with it because they will find you soon enough. If you’re in the clear than thank the good Lord and never never date a woman who is married. There are ways to investigate if she’s married have her show you a ( Cenomar) which means she single never been married 😊

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it is bad what she did. She may have her hooks in him but he just move on

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[@donpardo1]

Hi Mike, Please give me your opinion : “What if , the husband has an affair with another woman “in this situation? Does the law apply to him the same way? Cheers

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

it does not a man is different than the wife

[@donpardo1]

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[@donpardo1]

That explains why there are so many single mothers in the Philippines doing it tough , if the fathers get a “ free out of jail card”🤔 The irony is that a when a western man looks financially after a Philippina and her offspring, he faces jail. 😂

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[@briangardner6166]

It's time to take a good look at yourself Chuck.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

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[@Ex-Pensive_Expat]

I had done some research about the annulment process a while back. Many said no never just a waste of money and some said it took ten years but yes it finally came through. It seems from what I remember the bottom line is,, ""The only time they get approved is if the reason would have prevented the marriage approval in the first place"". Such as if one of them was already married and the marriage never would have been approved if they knew one of them was already married. Nothing to do with adultery or how long they were separated. That is my understanding. So if he's thinking about an annulment they might want to check the grounds for requesting it to see if it is a good enough reason

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[@InvestInBricks]

As soon as she said seperated he should of known. Typical 4 guy getting with an 8 and blinded by it all. Always check senomar or stay in your lane if your a 4 find a nice 5-6 and have no problems. They are with you for you not what you can give them. She lied get rid find a 40's Filipino pretty and nice person and be happy she will still take care of you and blow your little trumpet when ever you like just treat her with respect and be kind to her she will be loyal and loving for ever.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that advice sounds good

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[@dilvishpa5776]

It’s a crime to have an affair with a married woman on the Philippines. “Separation” is inadequate to avoid violating that law.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@haighton]

[committing] adultery in PH is a crime. What I dont know is who has the burden to prove it and what constitutes proof (photos, videos, a hunch, hearsay) and what exactly is adultery? Is it (adultery) only when sex takes/took place or already when going to a cinema (without any form of intimacy [kissing, cuddling, touching, hugging])

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@rodneil7732]

So my Filipino GF is still legally married I guess, but her American husband passed away, is there anything that I need to be aware of in this situation. She has no contact with his family at all and never has since the passing of her husband. She still has his surname, she is going through the process of having this removed but it is the Philippines so I know it ain't going to happen easily or quickly.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@PapaD104]

If that's the case, I believe you'll find she is a widow, not married, but don't take life advice from some guy on KZbin.

[@robertcrotty9000]

If you don't have at least $50K in retirement savings, coming to PH is a terrible idea. This story is living proof.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

I did not have 50k but did have a good income

[@wildbill7081]

you do not need $50K savings I have been living in the Philippines over 34 years and never had that kind of savings and live here very good with my pensions but you do have to know how to handle your money situation here just like any country

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@BobPuckett-l4e]

Additionally if the husband hasn’t been supporting his children, or his spouse for the time apart, I don’t think anyone will give the case much merit, if he tries to claim he’s been done wrong.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@gileneusz]

I love his stories, always interesting and funny 😁 but also educative 👌

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thank you

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[@gileneusz]

@@mikesphilippineretirement just watched! thank you for follow up!

[@jamessisson9543]

The only thing is annulment. This is what my wife got. Her husband split from her and the two kids. Never to be found. The court tried contacting him several times. All the legal ways, but he still refused to reply, so the judge immediately approved the annulment. About a year later we got married. Now, we are going on 6 years this month. I am so blessed with my wife.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

how long did it take

[@zenymabalhin7124]

Right and how much?

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[@morlandoemtp]

Guys you need to request a cenomar from anyone you date more than once. Also do a criminal background check on her, let her know your lawyer requires you to do this.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

how would you do a criminal background check

[@morlandoemtp]

@ you ask her to provide to you, same way you would when you hire a maid.

[@rianneanne6582]

​@@mikesphilippineretirementYou can.request for.her.police clearance if ever😊

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[@IanCrouse]

Send her back home is exactly what he needs to do. If he has texts showing that she said she WASN'T married, he's free and clear.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@burtonknows9201]

I'm not trying to be rude, but why do people believe they can live overseas broke? God willing, I plan to retire in three years, with a projected monthly income as of 11/2/24 of $5000 a month (in the last two weeks of the current US presidential election, the value of my pension invested in stocks and bonds has dramatically declined). I wholeheartedly agree that the gentlemen should have investigated if she was married. I'm hearing and reading of too many situations of Filipinas lying and men not investigating whether a woman is married. Going to jail over a woman is not worth it.

[@vernfb5189]

I met a guy in the Philippines who was 79 and living on Social Security. He was more than happy with what he had.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@garyhamilton9186]

Another great video Mike.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for the comment Gary

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[@richardjames1405]

Hey chuck, get rid of Judith and go find you a single Filapina in the province. They are awesome and beautiful. Good luck. You’re too old to deal with these issues.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your advice

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[@markowen7255]

In the Philippines ,Separated means married but not living together. Only rich people can get a legal separation i.e. you need to spend a lot of money for attorneys fee, judge share and years of waiting.

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[@EricPorter-n1c]

Send her back home to her family. And see if Chuck is able to leave the country until the dust settles. There was a misunderstanding or miscommunication regarding her marital status.

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[@kellywysknowski5355]

If she's married. GET OUT. Get out quick.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

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[@abedch1]

He should know if she is married or she’s not . If she lied to him he has to leave her . If she’s not married they both should put a claim with police and court against the guy who is threatening them

[@uperbee]

Simple Put her on the ferry too get back home Give her some money and say you good buy. Leave the place you guys were staying together and take ano ferry to another island. Let her go and don't look back, she lied got cauht by her husband. He didnt do his due dillegence. Shame on him. No he can blame but himself, there is no lose. Just the hard lesson learned....NOW GET YOU AS MOVIN.

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[@billlloyd9755]

Mike, that sounds like a scary situation. I think he needs to send her back home.

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[@MichaelAnthony-r2h]

Wow what a story as much as I want to have a woman at my age here in the Philippines I think I'll just stay single 🤣🤣🤣

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

single can work if your strong enough to be alone

[@burtonknows9201]

@@mikesphilippineretirement@mikesphilippineretirement Mike, if I understand things, even if you plan on living single, getting involved with a married woman is trouble in the Philippines.

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[@streetracingmiscreant8589]

A friend of mine in Seattle tried to hook me up with her Niece that is an OFW in the Middle East somewhere. When she told me that she was separated, I told her that is not going to work for me. I was out.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

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[@neothinkmaki2113]

He needs to be able to prove he did not know about the marriage. Take a screen shot of her dating profile or an online conversation where she says she is not married etc. The husband cannot prosecute him if he was unaware of the marriage. Now that he knows he must cut it off. Any attorney will tell you its in the law that the husband needs to prove the boyfriend knew about the marriage.

[@steffybael1245]

THE HUSBAND CONTACTED HIM AND TOLD HIM THAT HE WAS HER HUSBAND, HE HAS ALL THE PROOF THAT HE NEEDS!!!

[@neothinkmaki2113]

@@steffybael1245 Ok but he did not know until the husband contacted him? At that point he should tell the husband he didnt know and just leave her alone. The husband obviously does not care about the wife so he probably wants to extort money.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

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[@novak4594]

Great advice uncle Mike

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

[@novak4594]

Every young man needs an uncle to talk some sense into him. Especially the traps of the hairy lasoo

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[@engnate]

When I hear separated it means married.

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[@davebuick1321]

Hello Mike , wow what a story ! i have heard stories in foreign lands of traffic violations or drug stories, but never about adultery laws . i would have never thought of such a mater . it sure sounds serious.glad you talked about that . i will be coming for a visit in the new year ,first time there . i will be watching my Ps and Qs for sure .

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[@HunkyMan777]

Separated = RUN FAST

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

hahaha

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[@TravelRN910]

Being separated when you're married means you and your spouse are living apart but are still legally married. A separation can be informal or legal

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

thanks for the info

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[@Brian_C_]

He could always play the poison pill with the reciprocal. Guaranteed that guy has his hands in another cookie jar too. What if they find out who he’s been living with? At that point it becomes a ‘you leave us alone, we leave you alone’ thing.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

that is what a court is for or lawyer

[@Expat225]

I won't go into a lot of detail about my situation but I spoke to a lawyer here in the philippines about a situation where the girl's husband left her and the childern and started a new family, ( 3 different women actually). the Lawyer told me the husband would be a fool to try and press charges because he did it first. "You can't go to court with dirty hands" was her exact words. The judge would throw the case out because the husband commited adultry first. The husband and his girlfriends much trouble as the wife and her boyfriend.

[@morlandoemtp]

@@Expat225 but you would need proof first.

[@cfcrowley8494]

Foreigners have zero, ZERO, rights in the Ph. If some foreigner goes to jail and has no money he could sit there for years before ever seeing a judge. Find another lawyer!!!

[@Expat225]

@@morlandoemtp 3 more children with 2 other women should be proof enough

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[@morlandoemtp]

@@Expat225 you know the husband can legally end the guys and wife’s life if they catch you on the act and face no repercussions?

[@handymanmlewis9566]

So people are saying how stupid the laws are there. But just imagine being held accountable for your actions!!!!! Imagine if we were held accountable here in America.

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[@BruceCinader]

No doubt he made many mistakes in the past and some mistakes are difficult if not impossible to fully recover from, but if I were in his position I would run like hell back to the USA before he finds himself in a Philippine prison.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

run run run faster

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[@mikeberg7059]

I would have gone to the man asap to find out his current situation. Observed him Asked to see the marriage license, if he was sincere, I would leave her immediately. If he was with another woman, take photos and confront him and the law about it.

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[@rodneyalbertholland5615]

And all because of her dishonesty

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

your right Rodney

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[@gsmera]

He needs to send her home immediately! I would get her Cenomar and then at least he could say when her status was confirmed he broke ties. I knew a couple guys that were stuck with immigration holds that ended up homeless in Cebu begging for food, one of them ended up getting a ride on a fishing boat to Indonesia, never heard what happened to him. The last thing you ever want is to have an immigration hold here. Be smart, get rid of her, there's millions of good ladies that aren't married. Your treading dangerous waters!

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[@DaveD4v3]

let this woman pass you bye .... there is hundreds of thousands of fish in the sea specially in phili

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[@wobbles47]

Hey Chuck, Thailand is nice at this time of year

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[@Chidoeg]

Married woman, run for your life. Dont be a fool.

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

Thanks for sharing your comment

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[@mikestone9129]

Chuck made the same mistake many guys have made. The long distance girl friend thing. It happens, I suggest he cut his ties with this girl. Do it nicely of course, but walk away. He's in a strange country with laws he isn't aware of. He'll find another girl friend. Maybe even leave the country, go to Viet Nam, it's very cheap there.

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[@susanamartinez-kq3ik]

It's bad news,

[@bwilliam6827]

Yes

[@mikesphilippineretirement]

yes I was shocked it was still going on when I heard his story

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[@therrymortel3135]

If youre separated, youre still legally married. But, if its really not in the picture, then nothings wrong.

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