This was my first scary experience as a solo traveler.

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Misako Envela

Misako Envela

19 күн бұрын

What would you have done in this situation? Now I KNOW, the emergency numbers in Thailand are 911 or 191 for emergencies, fire, or unwanted intruding animals
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@katie9735
@katie9735 17 күн бұрын
Next time just start lying to people that start asking you unsettling questions. Say you’re here to visit your boyfriend, the neighbor is your best friend, your group of friends are waiting for you in the house and play videos of people talking.
@katie9735
@katie9735 17 күн бұрын
I’m glad you chose to leave. Don’t feel ashamed. You live and you learn. Glad you’re safe.
@KeaneLuvr
@KeaneLuvr 13 күн бұрын
Yes, don't feel guilty about lying or potentially being "rude" by being quiet like you said. Glad you're safe. Definitely let people know where you are! :)
@mrs.rogersneighborhood
@mrs.rogersneighborhood 11 күн бұрын
Yep. That’s what I’d do.
@debraemilligan
@debraemilligan 9 күн бұрын
Good ideas! I've done this before too! Telling white lies never hurt anyone especially in this kind of situation. Sometimes you can just say I'm not feeling up to conversation right now but thank you for your interest. I'm needing peace at this moment 🙏 or my vibe is still thinking about my boyfriend who I'm going to meet or I'm trying to memorize my speech/school work I need to learn /give soon, excuse me for my silence. Always be respectful and kind because you're in another person's car......
@meganngeorge
@meganngeorge 17 күн бұрын
Never question what your gut is telling you. I’m glad you’re safe.
@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi
@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi 17 күн бұрын
Always sit in the backseat of the cab Play with your hair and pretend you’re taking a picture of yourself ….. Reverse camera and take a picture of drivers ID and his photograph …. A fake wedding band …. It’s always appropriate… Take some Thai boxing lessons ✅✅✅✅✅😎😎😎😎
@joiab11
@joiab11 17 күн бұрын
You’re not dramatic- you listened to your intuition. I am so glad that you’re okay ❤
@feralfascination
@feralfascination 17 күн бұрын
As you said, your gut intuition has not lied before. Grateful you are well and honoring your wisdom
@jjharrison512
@jjharrison512 17 күн бұрын
I've learned that being perceived as rude or dramatic is totally fine if it means it keeps you safe. Always follow your gut. Thank God you're alive 🙏
@klaudiusz6233
@klaudiusz6233 17 күн бұрын
omg YES. I found out about myself, that I am often rather sitting out or struggling with an uncomfortable situation (talking with obvious scammers on the street for example), because I am too afraid of being perceived rude.
@AdventureTimeLoui
@AdventureTimeLoui 16 күн бұрын
As a solo female road traveller I’ve had several gut feeling moments like this one. Always better to leave because at the end of the day we are vulnerable alone. Better safe than sorry. Feminine intuition is NEVER wrong! Glad you are safe 💗
@AdventureTimeLoui
@AdventureTimeLoui 16 күн бұрын
One of the instances I also had to take a few days to think about it. I felt guilty about assuming a person was bad. But it was a good reminder to stay vigilant. Whether something bad would’ve happened or not.
@Accuface2000
@Accuface2000 13 күн бұрын
Not true, females are deceived by looks, personality and material things. Worse of all, you don't like to hear the truth
@MelanieC1124
@MelanieC1124 17 күн бұрын
But you absolutely were being guided and protected. Your intuition was telling you, "this isn't safe, get out" and you did just that! Keep trusting your gut! 🙏🏾
@funkyredhead1
@funkyredhead1 16 күн бұрын
You did amazingly well. You called people, sent them your address, called the owner, packed and left and had the taxi pick you up at your doorstep. All the right things. Bravo!
@sasasha655
@sasasha655 14 күн бұрын
But she did that after the fact. She should have, at least, known the emergency number of that country. Do those things before you go.
@saga4646
@saga4646 15 күн бұрын
Isolation is a beautiful thing but not in a strange country as a solo female with no weapon
@brinjpn
@brinjpn 17 күн бұрын
Never feel guilty for trying to survive. It’s better to be dramatic than dead. I used to feel guilt over stuff like that too but not anymore. People are crazy no matter how much we want to see the good in others. I’ve had bad experiences just living where I live and traveling around as a woman. What I do is low-stakes lie. Say things like “oh I’m actually meeting up with friends who are waiting for me. My significant other gets worried when I’m late, etc.” Stay safe
@Q7d2
@Q7d2 17 күн бұрын
I love the fact that you left. Even if it was an animal, or what ever it was, Following your gut and trusting your intuition is a powerful move.
@rocimo124
@rocimo124 17 күн бұрын
I love that you pointed out the experience of so many women. Struggling between being “polite” and “rude” in potentially dangerous situations. As an empath and people pleaser I want to learn how to not care about being polite when it comes to safety. I feel like we were never taught that as girls. I hope for future generations of women to learn the same.
@ElizabethArmstrong-zn8np
@ElizabethArmstrong-zn8np 17 күн бұрын
I travel solo around the US and outside of the US. I don’t feel comfortable with cab drivers asking me all the kinds of questions you mentioned. I’ve found that when these cab situations arise, I say I can’t hear them. I tell them my ears are ringing b/c of the travel. I know it isn’t the best solution, but it gets them to stop talking to me. I also wear a fake wedding ring. I’m sorry you had to go through this, thanks for sharing. I love traveling, I’m not going to stop. Safe travels to everyone 🫶
@Patita1969
@Patita1969 14 күн бұрын
Thank you. That is awesome advice. I going to use it that and share it with my daughter.
@rubylimey7614
@rubylimey7614 14 күн бұрын
Good tips...I have not travel much but i tell everyone I'm Jamaica it helps disttract from the questions i start sing Bob Marley song n talk about USAin Bolt. Love the wedding
@lydiayorkie
@lydiayorkie 12 күн бұрын
I often put on a wired headset while in an uber/cab and pretend to be talking to someone and say the most random stuff out loud (e.g., "I'll be there soon...in a cab...can't wait to see you!" etc). It's sad/silly but this makes me feel better esp when the driver is, what my gut tells me, is too interested in my info. Safety first!
@debraemilligan
@debraemilligan 9 күн бұрын
​@@lydiayorkielol 🤣 good one!
@aliciahart
@aliciahart 13 күн бұрын
Don’t ever doubt your intuition. You absolutely did the right thing! I’m so happy you are safe!
@kamkarter8821
@kamkarter8821 16 күн бұрын
No please trust your gut. Currently on a solo trip and a guy next to me seem weird while we were waiting on an elevator in a mall in Lisbon. My gut told me don’t get on with him. So I pretended to walk away then got on with a couple who randomly showed up. Trust your gut always.
@michellehenriques9164
@michellehenriques9164 17 күн бұрын
Don’t do that, don’t second guess your actions! You’re not wrong for doing what you did to protect yourself from harm. Your gut feelings are never wrong and even if they are, it’s always better to be safe than sorry! You’re still with us and I’m so glad because in the grand scheme of things, that is all that matters! Please eat something and keep your strength up. Vigilance of one’s environment is never ever a bad thing! Enjoy your visit and keep safe!
@lisamurray7168
@lisamurray7168 13 күн бұрын
You were right to listen to your intuition! Not one person on here is saying you overreacted but take it as a lesson. There are lots of good tips on here, stay safe and keep on enjoying your adventure 😊
@KayyNova
@KayyNova 16 күн бұрын
It's better to be safe than sorry. Trusting your intuition was the best thing for you. No need to be embarrassed.
@kimwilliams2212
@kimwilliams2212 16 күн бұрын
As a female we don't have the luxury of being kind when meeting new males just keep that protective mask on at ALL times His thoughts are not your problem
@Nubianette
@Nubianette 17 күн бұрын
I think #1, focus on the fact that you’re ok, and in a more comfortable situation. Then, you’ve learned you don’t want to be in a remote place alone. That was a new feeling for you. Plus, you hurt yourself, and weren’t feeling well. This was a combination of destabilizing factors. That’s not your typical experience. You followed your gut, and you’re safe! Well done! 👏🏾
@ebonieriley8309
@ebonieriley8309 9 күн бұрын
Always better to be SAFE than SORRY, you were correct to follow your first mind.
@elizabethzepeda2122
@elizabethzepeda2122 17 күн бұрын
You were right to trust your gut. So glad you are safe!
@saltyjenn
@saltyjenn 17 күн бұрын
This was terrifying! I’m glad you’re ok! Never feel bad for following your gut! You absolutely made the right call to get out of there. Thank you for sharing and spreading awareness about knowing emergency numbers etc. 🙏🏼
@malcolm1896
@malcolm1896 17 күн бұрын
Sis, I've learned that a peace of mind is priceless. Do what you got to do to feel safe and at ease. Glad you are OK, get something to eat and rest.
@sophiemarcaurele
@sophiemarcaurele 17 күн бұрын
I won't tell you how you should feel nor process what happened, and I'm glad you have the courage to be vulnerable with us with "difficult" feelings like shame ❤️ sending you loving vibes! I hope that by now, you had time to soothe yourself back into a safe, calm state so your tummy feels better and you can enjoy all the yummy things 😋❤ I had a thought: you can always reach to us if you have an emergency? Write a note on the channel? There's many of us around the globe, in different time zones: if a few happen to be close to you locally, especially if they speak the language, you can then go into private messaging to give them the address/coordinates so they can call the police and send them to check on you? 🤔🫡 I know I would have your back if you were in Canada! 💪🏼❤
@ms.angiesworld8696
@ms.angiesworld8696 17 күн бұрын
I’m glad you’re safe because you listened to your intuition and got out of there! Do not feel ashamed; you saved yourself from potential danger. Now you can offer safety tips to us travelers who also consider traveling alone. 🙏🏽❤️
@stylishthriftye
@stylishthriftye 17 күн бұрын
I am so happy that you are safe and sound. Always trust your gut, it never fails. Does not matter what other people think. If your gut says otherwise, go with your gut. Never feel guilty about going with your gut. I know you are still processing all of this. Please go have something to eat. And then rest. Sending you lots of love and Light. 💖
@ipsilonia
@ipsilonia 17 күн бұрын
i’m so glad you’re safe!! when i solo travel i *never* tell strangers that i’m traveling solo. ever. usually i’m meeting up w friends or friends of friends, so i say just that. “i have some friends here” “i’m meeting up w friends” etc. i’ve never traveled to super remote places though, so i know those cases take much more caution.
@lesleesoto1052
@lesleesoto1052 17 күн бұрын
Wow this was quite literally terrifying. I wouldn't doubt your gut. You're better off safe. I'm so glad you're okay! ❤
@AmberLive10
@AmberLive10 17 күн бұрын
I'm glad you are ok and let your intuition be your guide !!
@michelleharris312
@michelleharris312 17 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I’m glad you honored your intution as we should, always. Very safe journeys and please take care.
@thisandthat0000
@thisandthat0000 17 күн бұрын
Misako, you made it through this set of awful situations. Very glad you are safe!!! I'm not a professional but what you are describing in the end - that you stay in and don't eat - really sounds like a response to a traumatic experience (which is SO logical in the given circumstances!!). I hope you have people or maybe a mental health specialist to talk it through deeply. Please don't take the responsibility for that crazy noises from the window. You were not making them. Period. And you saved yourself from that situation which is the most important
@kellyemedia
@kellyemedia 17 күн бұрын
Eat! You’re going to be okay friend.
@zaire-ida9316
@zaire-ida9316 17 күн бұрын
Don't beat yourself up! You trusted your gut and the only person you can really trust when you're alone is yourself.
@CuratedVibes
@CuratedVibes 14 күн бұрын
I lived in Thailand 3 years, as fun and chill as the country is perceived, there is a dark undertone there. Lots of drugs, sex culture, trafficking, etc. Its also good to switch accommodations. Stay safe!
2 күн бұрын
Even if it was "nothing"... better safe will ALWAYS be the right choice as a female solo traveler. Love that you got out of there with haste. Thank you for sharing! Shame cannot persist when we tell our stories. Brava Misako!
@15.johnsonangel
@15.johnsonangel 17 күн бұрын
Being guided and protected comes thru intuition as well. Good on you for trusting your gut. So happy that you got to a place where you feel more safe. Give yourself grace as you process this experience 💜 In other creeper news, I was walking down the street and this guy walked up on me asking me all kinds of questions in this low voice (are you single? Do you live alone? Do you smoke weed? Etc.) I was like 👀👀👀 He asked for my IG I saw that all his recs and feed was female model types. Super sketch. I just share that to say the creeps be creepin. It's definitely best to stay connected to what your intuition is telling you in all situations 💯
@theknightway
@theknightway 17 күн бұрын
So glad you're safe! And thanks for sharing - whether traveling or not, it's good to be reminded to be aware of your surroundings, listen to one's intuition, etc.
@sierrashavon6459
@sierrashavon6459 17 күн бұрын
MISAKO! Super grateful you’re ok. Excellent job being so brave and getting yourself out of there and somewhere you felt safer! Also the fact that you were proactive in locking all the windows beforehand is something not everyone would do and it sounds like it was 100% the right decision. Try not to get down on yourself for not checking off a few other things on the proverbial solo travel safety list. You had just gotten there and were still trying to adjust to your new environment. Something in my gut says you made all the right choices when listening to your intuition to get in contact with some loved ones, grab your stuff and go asap! Especially after that uncomfortable situation with the driver. Finally, since sometimes taking personal weapons like pepper spray or a taser can be prohibited on flights, I like to take a whistle with me or a giant metal water bottle then once you land and get acclimated you could buy a cheap personal weapon somewhere. There are also personal alarms I’ve seen before but haven’t actually used. You did everything right and responded the best way you could in that moment and youre here to tell the tale! I think you dropped this 👑💕 Also, for any other fellow solo female travelers out there. Know it’s ok to make up a story or flat out lie if needed to protect yourself! We really never know what someone plans to do with the info we share. We don’t have to be totally rude (i wouldn’t recommend being very rude because it could put you in an even tougher spot if the man has a wild temper) to someone but it’s ok to be firm in saying, “I’m not alone but I’m not really comfortable sharing those details with a stranger.” Then you can Segway into trying to ask more questions about the local culture or the area you’re in or something to lighten the mood. It’s also ok to say, yep my friend is waiting for me or my boyfriend is meeting me in a little bit. (Y’all can be meeting on a phone call but they don’t need to know all that lol)!
@AndreMoraesDesign
@AndreMoraesDesign 17 күн бұрын
We’re glad you’re here and thanks for sharing your story.
@SURETHING21
@SURETHING21 14 күн бұрын
I'm glad you're safe. I've recently spent a month traveling throughout Thailand 🇹🇭 and on rare occasions found a taxis or Grab driver speaking or understanding the English language. Yes, you have some drivers, especially Tuk Tuk, hanging and hustling in front of hotels and tourists area in Bangkok spoke the basic with limited understanding of English. Please only use Grab since everything is recorded and monitored.
@brookexworld
@brookexworld 17 күн бұрын
In the end, you trusted your gut & that's all that matters. No shame, no second guessing. Please eat something
@user-kk1jl1tz3s
@user-kk1jl1tz3s 17 күн бұрын
so sorry that this happened to you. thanks for sharing as it will help others. always trust your gut. you intuitively know what to do. listen to your voice. take care and stay safe.
@robann7817
@robann7817 17 күн бұрын
I was in Vietnam last month, many drivers were asking me all these things like "how long are you staying", "when are you going to travel back home" and then I figured out that it was because they wanted to make money and drive me to the airport hahaha
@QueenofDC
@QueenofDC 13 күн бұрын
Exactly, I live in Vietnam, and they ask these questions to make money by driving you around. When I say I live here, that ends the conversation LOL!
@Accuface2000
@Accuface2000 13 күн бұрын
There is nothing wrong with having your driver. It saves you time and trouble. Of course, who doesn't want to make money? You expect free services? Your reasoning is illogical. You should actually be wary of someone who offers you free services
@robann7817
@robann7817 13 күн бұрын
@@Accuface2000 I never said it was wrong, I just said that drivers asked me questions because they wanted to know if they can drop me to the airport too
@marinag585
@marinag585 11 күн бұрын
​@@Accuface2000 Gosh, chill.
@Accuface2000
@Accuface2000 11 күн бұрын
@marinag585 - You look naive and gullible.
@alexaviafara.888
@alexaviafara.888 17 күн бұрын
i am glad you are safe.
@shelovesbooks8421
@shelovesbooks8421 17 күн бұрын
always always always trust your gut! it kept you safe and just hold on to that
@user-hr3he6zj9u
@user-hr3he6zj9u 17 күн бұрын
I am so glad your ok! I'm glad you listen to your heart! Please be safe.
@tmack458
@tmack458 11 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing too! Others need to hear what to think about 🙏🏽💜
@practicewithilianna7157
@practicewithilianna7157 17 күн бұрын
So scary! I would have left that place as well. If I would have called me parents they would have told me to GTFO. Glad you’re ok. Your comfort is priority ❤❤❤❤
@teresaanderson6370
@teresaanderson6370 13 күн бұрын
all super great tips. don't feel bad about sharing any of it. it is so helpful. now you are safe, go out and enjoy!
@jpnbaby
@jpnbaby 17 күн бұрын
I'm so glad to know you are safe Misako. Don't let this stop you from being your usual bold and adventurous self, but stay vigilant and listen to your instincts. x
@kristiannem6786
@kristiannem6786 17 күн бұрын
So glad you're okay! You were NOT being dramatic at all. You trusted your instincts and intuition and it probably saved your life. Always trust your instincts. It's so crappy that we women have to feel this way and move through the world on such high alert. When I travel solo, I feel like I have to play stupid games to stay safe. 1) I have a fake wedding ring that I slip on when riding in cabs or in a questionable place. 2) I make a fake phone call from the cab saying something like "Hi babe, I'm on my way in the cab, see you in a few minutes". 3) I always book the hotel/Airbnb for a party of two, since it's typically the same price. 4) When I am checking in alone, I say my "husband, boyfriend, partner" is in a business meeting and will be along shortly. 5) I even make them give me two keys. I know this sounds ridiculously paranoid, but I think it might help me stay a bit more safe. I might be fooling myself, though!
@stephaniechang3799
@stephaniechang3799 17 күн бұрын
I am glad you are okay, Misako! I think you made the right choice by listening to your intuition. It is better to be safe. Everything else comes second. ❤️
@kikiyweathers
@kikiyweathers 17 күн бұрын
Read or download the book: "The Gift of Fear". Hugs!
@lesliemorrison9242
@lesliemorrison9242 10 күн бұрын
YES!!! I was going to suggest that as well! Gavin De Becker really knows how to talk about safety and things like this! Sooooo helpful.
@MichelleTHEEgoddess
@MichelleTHEEgoddess 12 күн бұрын
❤ so thankful you’re safe
@thefifthdumpling
@thefifthdumpling 17 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I am happy you did get somewhere at least you felt safer 💜
@carlitawilliams5594
@carlitawilliams5594 17 күн бұрын
As women we have a tendency to suppress our feelings of uneasiness for fear of offending others or being perceived as being rude. I feel that you did the right thing by leaving. It’s a lesson learned. Do not be embarrassed or ashamed or let it ruin your trip. Give yourself some grace. So happy that you are safe 🙏🏽
@neilo1762
@neilo1762 17 күн бұрын
Glad you left. Always listen to your gut! I'm glad your good!!
@nancyp2992
@nancyp2992 7 күн бұрын
So sorry this happened to you, and am ecstatically happy that nothing happened - thank you so much for sharing your experience, it is a wake up call for all of us. Wow, brave lady, and you made the right decision as you kept your head about you. Thank you so much for sharing, hoping from now on you have safe travels and will know the proper number to call when you need help.
@ellieerick1
@ellieerick1 12 күн бұрын
I’m so glad you listened to your gut. I’m so glad you’re safe.
@1111KO
@1111KO 17 күн бұрын
Thank God you're alive.
@xjolie
@xjolie 17 күн бұрын
Imagining myself in your situation, I would’ve been terrified as well. I am glad you listened to your instincts and gtfo regardless of whatever it was. When you’re by yourself, any perceived threat is a real threat. Hopefully you’re able to process + heal and still enjoy the rest of your trip 🤍
@hellosavije1888
@hellosavije1888 13 күн бұрын
I’m glad you trust your intuition, very wise , I’m sure now you’ll have more clever ways to handle your drivers. Thanks for sharing😊
@swallacegray2013
@swallacegray2013 12 күн бұрын
You did good, u trusted your gut feelings better safe than sorry, glad you're ok!
@applejacks7929
@applejacks7929 13 күн бұрын
Thank God you are safe! Thank you for sharing. Don't feel ashamed for leaving, I am glad you did. Better safe than sorry. Also are you ok girly? You haven't posted in 4 days. I am cheering👏 for you, Don't give up! I love your videos 💓
@keeonramusic
@keeonramusic 17 күн бұрын
You absolutely did the right thing by leaving. Always trust your gut. Being vigilant is a good thing. I had tears of joy by the end of your video because of your resilience. Build on that, and I hope the rest of your stay there is amazing. Stay safe and continue to be amazing. I love your videos. 🙏❤️🪷
@BriAri13
@BriAri13 10 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened, Misako, and I hope you can find a way to release the shame. You went with your intuition and that’s never a bad choice ✨
@lisawilliams2444
@lisawilliams2444 13 күн бұрын
So glad you listened to your gut! That could very well be the spirit of God leading you to the right paths to get away. Thankfully you are safe and doing ok. You learned and we learn from you. Appreciate your video. Thank you and may the Lord continue to guide and protect you where ever you go.
@karentaylor3543
@karentaylor3543 17 күн бұрын
Thank God you are safe! Always follow your gut! Take care!
@TG-nn9ws
@TG-nn9ws 13 күн бұрын
I'm glad that you're safe. You did nothing wrong, always listen to your gut. I really appreciate you sharing your experience because it gives insight to all solo travelers. Your story definitely gives me a different perspective on things to consider when traveling anywhere. Thank you again.
@debraemilligan
@debraemilligan 9 күн бұрын
I was in an upsetting situation traveling recently too. Take your time and pamper yourself with loving care like you would someone else in a similar situation. I was surprised at myself too. Luckily we both had good people to call to help us through it! I had 2 angels helping me. One told me "You're not alone.. call or text me all through the night until you go to bed". The other one helped me through contacting the appropriate help line because I was too flustered to get through by myself! I'm planning another trip soon to Europe and it is giving me better insight in how to deal with things and yours too on safety issues like being prepared with emergency contacts, etc. A friend had her phone stolen right out of her hand and put her into a very vulnerable situation while traveling recently. Keeping a written list of contacts is extremely important. Thank you for sharing ❤ 🙏 I hope seeing these comments and your self love and care, etc gets you back to enjoying your time there.
@CubanDre
@CubanDre 16 күн бұрын
Man. It’s scary out there sometimes. Glad you are safe. Glad you are able to continue. You should be able to enjoy what you want to enjoy. Hopefully, god willing this doesn’t happen again. You deserve to be in the spaces you want to be in fear free
@KhryztyamCR
@KhryztyamCR 17 күн бұрын
Hi, Misako! I always watch your videos, and I'm really happy that you're doing well and safe now. Can't imagine something bad happening to such a kind, inspirational, and thoughtful person as you. You're one of the people that have inspired me to make my dream come true about visiting Japan and I hope I manage to do it soon, at least for about 3 months. Your experience sounds like a really scary one, the only thing I can say is that I'm really happy and relieved that you managed to avoid every single bad thing that could've happened, and a good thing is that now you're gonna be more skillful and prepared to solo traveling again. Hopefully, by sharing your experience, other people are gonna be more conscious about this too. I'm writing to you from Costa Rica, Central America, and my native language is Spanish, so I hope I'm being eloquent enough with my words! :D
@canar7
@canar7 17 күн бұрын
I'm glad your sharing this and your safe now. Crimes against women who travel alone are crimes of opportunity. The case of Taylor Casey missing in the Bahamas is frightening. I've considered travelling on my own in the future but not disclosing personal details and being on your own in remote areas is risky. Good you listened to your "gut instinct" and left.
@kellyj.azania4371
@kellyj.azania4371 17 күн бұрын
I'm glad you're safe. Go eat something.
@madamenoire3441
@madamenoire3441 17 күн бұрын
You did the right thing! Always follow your gut no matter what! SA in Asia is a very real situation!! I am so glad that you are safe. God's Blessings be Upon You!!
@marceybartlett5570
@marceybartlett5570 10 күн бұрын
I'm glad you are safe 🙏🏽❤️
@miyoshimoore7417
@miyoshimoore7417 13 күн бұрын
Im grateful that you are in a place of safety. Thank you for sharing.
@tamra3691
@tamra3691 13 күн бұрын
It's so so good you trusted your gut. So happy you're okay
@akalady03
@akalady03 14 күн бұрын
So thankful you’re okay. You did the right thing. Always trust your gut.
@eun371
@eun371 8 күн бұрын
girl, this happened to me when living alone as well. such a traumatic and scary experience, so sorry you went through that.
@Nat-mw3bz
@Nat-mw3bz 13 күн бұрын
I don't give ANY BENEFITS TO ANYONE when traveling. These people don't ask MEN all those invasive questions! And when I travel internationally, To ALWAYS STAY WITHIN THE CITY LIMITS if possible. And as far as I'm concerned, ANYTHING WILL BECOME A WEAPON!
@jamieramirez7439
@jamieramirez7439 17 күн бұрын
Glad that you are okay ❤
@Evmahalo
@Evmahalo 17 күн бұрын
Your gut never lies.. your mind may go astray but that gut, it’s always on point. I’m so glad that you left and are better, safer.. chalk it up as an experience that brought you focus in a way that nothing else could. You’ll never be vulnerable like that again. I already know that ( and so do you❤)
@debraemilligan
@debraemilligan 9 күн бұрын
Order food delivery! Take a long bath or shower, self love, prayer, meditate, sing, dance, stretch, good people to call or text.... maybe go down to the lobby and talk to someone at the front desk, find out what is easy to walk to, start baby steps, you'll be fine ❤
@audreyhirsch172
@audreyhirsch172 16 күн бұрын
Hope you go out & enjoy some delicious Thai food! We women need to trust our instincts. Thank you for sharing this important info with others.
@dv52528
@dv52528 17 күн бұрын
I tend to lie when I feel danger
@hannah60000
@hannah60000 16 күн бұрын
I considering it putting your safety first. You’re safety and comfort are the most important in such instances.
@nataliejo336
@nataliejo336 13 күн бұрын
Glad you’re safe! And I’m glad you used your senses. Not everyone is willing to share the full experience.
@dwalker6868
@dwalker6868 17 күн бұрын
Girl, I felt every moment of that I’ll be there in a few months and you right I never stay that far out by myself. I’m a scary girl. I want somebody at the front desk that I can call I am so so happy for the outcome lessons learned right❤❤❤❤❤ thank you so much for sharing. This gives me a doublecheck to put in my back pocket. Love your videos. Stay blessed.
@charleslawson4792
@charleslawson4792 17 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾. Thank God You’re Alright.
@DH-uw3us
@DH-uw3us 16 күн бұрын
Thank God you're safe and are here to talk about it. If something doesn't feel right, it's not right. You were smart to listen to your intuition. Sometimes we don't even think about some of the risks we're taking. I can look back on some of my travels and realize now how big of a risk I took, even though nothing happened. It could have been an animal, but that animal could have been just as dangerous as a human if it had gotten in. Thank you for sharing your story. This is a good reminder to us all to think about emergency situations and what we should do if we're in a similar position. I hope you're able to enjoy the rest of your trip, and eat some good vegan food.
@denisesayles3144
@denisesayles3144 15 күн бұрын
You made the right decision always follow your gut it will never fail you God Bless you never book in a remote area by yourself again
@RasolleC
@RasolleC 16 күн бұрын
Glad you are safe ❤
@chriswhiteiii
@chriswhiteiii 15 күн бұрын
I am so glad that you stood on principle and shared this debrief of your unsettling experience while everything was fresh and after you had two days of safe rest in a secure place. Everytime you said, 'Maybe it was just an animal', I was like, "Nah, you did exactly what you needed to do" with all of those variables that you laid out. Thankful again that you documented your gained perspective directly on location probably before you could break your time of not eating.
@lenaprice6239
@lenaprice6239 15 күн бұрын
Always listen to your intuition. It could have been an animal, or as you aptly pointed out, it could have been the taxi driver, or someone else. As a woman traveling alone, it is best to stay in a secure building, with people around. Never stay in a desolate area and never tell people that you are a solo traveler. If they ask, say no, you traveled with your husband and family and leave it at that. Don't answer any extensive questions about your background, how long you are staying etc., because you don't know their motive.
@kellyemedia
@kellyemedia 17 күн бұрын
Dude. Questioning is ok. You’re not being dramatic. You did the right thing. You learned a lot from the experience. Thank God you’re safe. 😊❤ You did the right thing. Always follow your gut!
@mrs.rogersneighborhood
@mrs.rogersneighborhood 11 күн бұрын
I’ll leave a crazy situation in a NEW YORK MINUTE! You did the right thing!
@LLA246
@LLA246 14 күн бұрын
You did the right thing, ALWAYS trust your gut. Glad you're safe.
@Bofresco
@Bofresco 17 күн бұрын
Wow.. Glad you’re ok..
@SA-uj8dz
@SA-uj8dz 17 күн бұрын
Hope you’re feeling better and that you nourished yourself and ate some food. It’s understandable that you need to recover and stay home for a bit first.
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