Miscarriage at 13 Weeks | We Lost a Baby

I had a missed miscarriage at 12 / 13 weeks of pregnancy. We lost a baby. This video was so hard to film, but I wanted to share my story to hopefully help anyone else going through this feel less alone. 1 in 4 women go through a miscarriage and it is not talked about enough.
I had a missed miscarriage after seeing the heartbeat at 10 weeks, so it was completely unexpected. On the 15th of October we found out baby's heart had stopped beating.
We are heartbroken, but slowly starting to heal.
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[@honorineumutoniwase9435]

I had miscarriage this week. I didn’t know that I was miscarrying till I gave birth to my sleeping baby. I was 13 weeks pregnant. Heaven couldn’t wait for you… fly high my angel💔💔💔

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so so sorry to hear that. It is truly heartbreaking. I’m sending you a big hug. If you ever need a chat, you can always message me 💛

[@honorineumutoniwase9435]

@@madelinehegedus thank you. It means a lot ❤️

[@Insomnia_._]

@@honorineumutoniwase9435 I may be 13 but I understand how that feels, my aunt had a miscarriage not long ago.. I’m dearly sorry for your loss

[@honorineumutoniwase9435]

@@Insomnia_._ thank you so much ❤️🫂

[@lorisiedl8733]

Madeline I am so sorry for your loss I know what you're going through I've had 10 miscarriages but there is light at the end of the tunnel I have had three healthy babies prayers for you and you and your family

[@sophiaquintana256]

10 miscarriages?! I feel so sorry for you and your babies 😢 💔

[@lorisiedl8733]

@@sophiaquintana256 thank you

[@voutoo7899]

You are a strong woman, stronger than I can ever be! Hug 🤗

[@lorisiedl8733]

@@voutoo7899 thank you

[@angelacrook7863]

I'm sorry to be nosey, but I'm in miscarriage #4 after 4 healthy babies. Did you have any babies after the miscarriages or were they before? I don't know if I should keep putting myself through this.

[@user-wk2yb3cv5n]

I know a sorry on your dark days doesn’t mean much. I know it by experience but keep having faith I’ve gone through a miscarriage last year now I’m 8 months pregnant with my rainbow baby. Gods time is always perfect.

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you went through this too. That’s awesome, hope you and your little one are healthy 💛

[@TJ-bu9zk]

thanks for the video. She was 12 weeks 6 days when she died. so, so close to that milestone. blood tests at 10weeks told us she was healthy, no chromosome problems, and a girl. I learned at 20weeks she had died. I thought everything was fine before that ultrasound. She already had a name and family waiting. after the 1st trimester I bought so many things and told so many people but she was already dead. I choose the pills because i wanted to hold her after, no matter what she looks like. she will be placed inside a tulip and buried with other petals in our garden with a little H carved in the stone. I thought I had a 20 week baby and i really miss her.

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry to hear you went through that. It is absolutely heartbreaking. Sending you a big hug!

[@vassybaby16]

I just went through a miscarriage this week at 9 weeks. Baby had stopped growing at 6.5 weeks. When we went for our scan at 8 weeks doctor warned us that heartbeat was slow. They only thing I can think of was that my baby’s heart didn’t form right 😢I’m very sad but also understand he/she would have just suffered with their health if they would have been born. It’s just very unfortunate it happened. I feel really bad that it even happens to anyone honestly 😞

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so so sorry you’re going through this 😔 It is so unfair. Please know that it’s not something you did wrong or could’ve done differently. I’m sending you lots of strength

[@ChocoaholicGirl]

Omg love I’m so sorry to hear about your loss 😔. Sending you all my love and support through this time❤️

[@agnieszkamichalak3360]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My cousin went through the same thing and I still remember the day she shared that with me... after that she had another two healthy babies, three in total so it all turned out good and it will be the same for you. You have to believe that. I wish you all the strengh and positive attitude for the future. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@amstardust1111]

I could really relate to you. I lost my baby on 25/11/20. I had a good 11 weeks baby bump and I was super hungry. Even though I had some complications I thought my baby is healthy. But my tiny one stopped growing at 6 weeks 4 days and had no heartbeat. I carried my dead baby for one night. I couldn't sleep all night I was holding my baby for one last time😣. I had a missed miscarriage and they gave me medicine for labour. Even then my baby wasn't ready to go completely so they did d & c and I'm taking rest currently. It was my first pregnancy... our first baby...Me and my husband were already talking to our baby. I can't stop thinking of our little one. I no longer feel my baby bump. I'm feeling terrible at people telling me that I'm young and I can have many babies. I came to know I was pregnant only at 6 weeks and I got only 4 weeks to spend with our baby. I miss our little baby... 😢😔

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. It is the most heartbreaking thing. I am sending you the biggest hug!

[@tbanks9117]

Its is well dear life is so unfair am really struggling to come to reality that we lost our cute angel after 14 weeks monday 19th 2022 my wife don't wanna stop crying and i was already having a chat with our baby.

[@rosariogomez5547]

Hello im so very sorry for your lost , its been a while now i hope u are no longer beating yourself up over it . This was my first pregnancy i lost my baby a couple days ago at 13 weeks ... i am getting induced labor so i can be able to push out the baby and have a proper burial . I will also find out the gender in a week 🥺 this is so hard and im sorry to everyone who lost their beautiful angel

[@madelinehegedus]

I'm so sorry you're going through this. It's so hard and unfair. Sending you lots of love and strength

[@halael4696]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am so so sorry for your loss. My experience sounds so similar to yours. My 11 week scan was good with a heartbeat and moving around so much, just baby was measuring a little small at 10w4d. But I started spotting last Thursday and went for an emergency scan. I was in my 13th week and baby measured 11w2d and no more heartbeat. I was only given the option of D&C but the cytotec I took to soften my cervix induced labor for me because I think my body had already started miscarrying. I passed the baby at home before my appointment. It was excruciatingly painful. So you are right the baby at that stage was pretty big to try to pass naturally 😔 Your story was so reassuring because I couldn't find many others that had miscarried at the end of the "safe" zone, when the baby was already so big and with a heartbeat. I couldn't help but feel like I did something wrong. So once again thank you for sharing. I wish you healing heart, body, mind and soul💕

[@madelinehegedus]

I'm so sorry you went through this too. It's incredibly heartbreaking. Yes, I couldn't find that many people who miscarried at the end of the first trimester either. You did nothing wrong, but I can completely relate to that feeling. I'm sending you the biggest hug!

[@FRANCESCA01234]

Im very sorry for your loss 😪

[@halael4696]

@@madelinehegedus I wanted to thank you for your kind words and reassurances, during one of the hardest times in my life. That was so nice if you to respond and your words meant so much back then and helped me in my healing.

[@halael4696]

@@FRANCESCA01234 Thank you very much for your kindness. I welcomed my rainbow baby last December and he is almost 4 months old, thanks be to God. The heart always grieves a loss but he has brought me much joy.

[@madelinehegedus]

Hey Hala, that's so kind of you to come back to this video and leave these nice words. I'm so sorry you went through this, but I'm glad this made you feel like you are not alone. And I'm so happy to read that you've had your rainbow baby now. Sending lots of love! x

[@vitaminmeplus]

So sorry about your loss. I went through missed miscarriage at 14 weeks. They were twins who shared a placenta. One was 2 days bigger than the other. In the last scan the heartbeat for the smaller baby slowed for some time and we were asked to wait for 40 minutes until confirmation. We went inside and they still were fine, both the hearts were beating fine. But 3 days later, they were found still, not moving, heartbeats stopped and the last they measured were 13 weeks and 4 days, when all the blood tests and NT scan, everything went fine. Don’t know what went wrong, we still cry, it was our first pregnancy, identical twins, and they left us alone…I underwent D&C, I saw them both, tiniest and the loveliest babies, will be missed forever❤😢

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so so sorry you’re going through this. It is so unfair and I hope you know it’s nothing you did wrong. Sending you lots of strength

[@vitaminmeplus]

@@madelinehegedus Thank you so much🥰🥰Means a lot!!

[@janecooper4825]

Such a brave lady telling your story..Sorry for your loss xx❤️

[@jadewater7691]

I am very sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage two months ago at 9 week of pregnancy...my baby was measuring two weeks earlier than it should. At first ultrasound I had heard the heartbeat and then at the second appointment to the Doctor No heartbeat.

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you had to go through this, Jade :(

[@FRANCESCA01234]

Im going through similar, missed miscarriage discoveed at 12 weeks. Im so heartbroken and empty.

[@halael4696]

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Those words don't mean much when you are heartbroken and feeling lost. Nothing I say will heal that wound. But I pray one day you welcome your rainbow. If you need to talk or to share feel free to message me.

[@madelinehegedus]

Hi Roxi! I'm so sorry you're going through this. It is so heartbreaking going through this. You are not alone in this, if you ever feel like talking to someone I'm here. Sending you a big hug x

[@katiethompson2214]

Thank you for making this video ❤ i went through this exact same thing a month ago and this video was so helpful for me. I felt all the anger you explained

[@madelinehegedus]

Hi Katie! I’m so sorry you’re going through this too, it’s so hard and so unfair. Sending lots of love to you!

[@GeorginaBisbyDIY]

So sorry - go easy on yourself - thinking of you xx

[@cloyjimenez2335]

Hugs for you I also lost my baby last october 24th 😭 hope they're both playing now. Wish you best!

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry to hear that. Sending you a big hug 💛

[@angelicalomeu476]

I had a missed miscarriage at 11 weeks. A week after my D&C a sweet, 18 year old cousin came up to me so excited for me asking about it and congratulating me, and I didn't know what to do. We were in public and I didn't want to cry, so I lied and said I was never pregnant. She felt dumb. But so did I. There is no easy way to handle it.

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you went through this. I know it can be hard to know how to react in moments like that. It’s such a hard situation to deal with. Lots of love to you 💛

[@yana_ovsyannikova]

I am very sorry for your loss. I lost my son at 15 weeks. His heart stopped at 12 weeks and 4 days. I decided to wait my miscarriage. It was important time for us. He left but he was still inside. Miscarriage happened at home and I lost a lot of blood. The ambulance took me to the hospital. Now my Hb is 7,3

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you went through all of that 💛

[@CosminaMihesteanu]

Si eu am pierdut sarcina si am aflat la inceputul lui octombrie. S-a intamplat la 13 saptamani si cand eram in spital ma uitam la videourile tale si ma linisteau tare. Iti multumesc ca ai fost langa mine, desi nu ai stiut! 🤗 Si eu sunt langa tine si te sustin, te inteleg pentru ca stiu prin ce ai trecut si sper sa te recuperezi cat mai repede si sa dobandesti linistea sufleteasca pe care o cautam dupa o experienta ca aceasta. Multa liniste sufleteasca va doresc, atat tie, cat si sotului tau! 🤗

[@ChevonneF]

Thank you for making this video. I just miscarriaged my first pregnancy at 11 weeks 2 days. We’re devastated but trying to pull through.

[@madelinehegedus]

I'm so so sorry you're going through this. It's the most heartbreaking thing and it's so unfair. I'm sending you lots of love and strength.

[@ChevonneF]

@@madelinehegedus thank you ❤️

[@teodoranovac3230]

Esti curajoasa si puternica! Nu multe femei impartasesc aceste experiente neplacute. Sanatate!

[@LucyakaMom]

Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ I also had a miscarriage about a month ago. It helped me to talk about it as well and hear other women’s stories. ❤️

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you went through this too. Sending you the biggest hug 💛

[@kayyy2788]

madeline, i am so so sorry. i had such a feeling you were expecting because you were glowing in your latest videos.. wishing you and your family peace. you will forever be their mama.. i hope if you desire to try again, you have a healthy and beautiful pregnancy.. 💜

[@purplemoon2201]

Thanks for sharing such painful experiences. Please take care and I am sure you will have good news real soon. Sending 💜 and hugs from Singapore!

[@janemorales86]

I’m on my 13 and 3 days, I’m already scared that it still happens during that week

[@elizabethmichaud7238]

I know this is a video from a year ago but thank you for sharing. I am going through this right now, it was my first pregnancy, and it helps a lot to know that we're not alone. I chose the surgery too even if I was terrified of it and I am glad that I have done it that way, they take care of everything, it is painless and the bleeding is easy to manage. I basically came in, they put me to sleep and when I woke up an hour and a half later, it was all done and I went home. Because of covid, I had to go through the process alone (my husband was very aingry about that).

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too, Elizabeth. I’m sending you a big hug. Here if you ever want to chat 💛

[@elizabethmichaud7238]

@@madelinehegedus thank you!

[@throughtheeyesofachild61_45]

I’m so sorry this happened to you ❤️🥺 I watched your video because my daughter is 12 weeks pregnant and is due her first scan this week. She’s felt so ill since getting pregnant, i hope and pray everything is going to be well. I’ve subscribed to your channel as i see you are pregnant again which is beautiful. I will be looking through your videos and seeing how you have been getting on. Once again I’m so sorry but I know you will grow from your experience. Sending love ❤️

[@madelinehegedus]

I hope everything is going well with your daughter. Thank you for the kind words 💛

[@ALEXANDRABOAMPONG]

I felt really SAD 😥 when I saw this on Instagram. Soo sorry for your loss.❤

[@evasoukalova4081]

Thank you for sharing your story, it has been really helpful ❤️I just had miscarriage couple of days ago, still can’t believe this happened and why it happened I was in 12,5 weeks of pregnancy.

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry to hear that, Eva. It was absolutely not something you did. It is a heartbreaking thing to go through. I am sending you the biggest hug 💛

[@evasoukalova4081]

@@madelinehegedus thank you 😊

[@hilaryhaynes2421]

Hi im so sorry for your loss i will be praying for you please rest for a good while and dont worry about uploads as there isnt any rush god bless you x

[@i_comment_on_everything]

I am so so sorry for you! You will make it through this difficult time 💕💕💕 I'm sending you a huge hug 💮

[@regularjane]

So sorry for your loss...sending love xx

[@TheBalancedMom]

I'm so sorry to hear that! I was there twice and it didn't get any easier!

[@ruthsebastian4760]

Love you Madeline. You are really brave. Sorry for your loss xx❤️❤️

[@staceymccann8340]

If you miscarry at home just cancel??? I promise you would’ve still went to the hospital I had one at 9 weeks suddenly and it was so painful and I wish now after I passed baby I would’ve got d&c but I sat at home after leaving hospital for 6days in so much pain. Even if it starts naturally that late I can imagine it’s more painful so you probably still want the surgery. I just hit 12 weeks exactly a year later and still worried so bad hence why I watching these videos at 130am. And good choice not to want to see baby. I’m still haunted by the sight of my baby dead so tiny n helpless

[@anab5280]

Nu am cuvinte, doar lacrimi. Îmi pare atât de rău pentru tot ce vi s-a întâmplat.

[@patriciahale2653]

There are no words to describe how sad I feel for you and the rest of your family, except to say how sorry I am. Sending love xxx

[@irinapirlea]

I’m sending hugs and prayers to you ❤️❤️❤️

[@veronicapereira6917]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@1001reasons1968]

I'm so sorry for your loss xx. Thank you for sharing.

[@ShahinasChannel]

I'm so sorry for your loss hun 😔 lots of love ❤❤🙏

[@justcallmejen2]

So so sorry for you ❤️ Sending love and hugs xxxxxx

[@tranquility9325]

I'm so sorry for your loss babe. Just know that you can have a rainbow baby in the future 🌈

[@madelinehegedus]

I just did a year ago :) Thank you for watching! 💛

[@Drazaanna]

Ohhhhhh my gosh soooooo sorry for your loss xx big hugs x

[@xaviergracie]

sending lots of loves for u ❤️❤️❤️

[@meriw.9698]

Im so sorry for your loss Madeline 😔

[@ElaheKianpoor]

I'm so very sorry for your loss :(

[@tbanks9117]

I don't know how to kill this pain i feel we have been try to have our first baby through ivf cos of low sperm count. 2 miscarriages and we finally got pregnant and after 13 weeks yesterday monday 19th sept 2022 our baby heartbeat stopped 😭😭😭😭

[@madelinehegedus]

I'm so so sorry you're going through this. It's such a horrible thing to go through. Sending you a big hug.

[@VictoriaWilkinsonuk4]

Thinking of you! x

[@anabalikic6625]

I’m so sorry for your loss

[@paolafranco5775]

❤️

[@paigehorton2985]

Omg 13 weeks you need a d&c poor thing

[@musonda131]

Hugs to you x

[@antheanewman9636]

I'm also 13 weer pregnant and I'm much go in on Monday to have a miscarriage and it's breaking me

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this, Anthea

[@ecaterinajurja8371]

Bravo! 👏👏👏

[@galeitan1]

You are amazing madeline. It is going to be ok. Thanks for sharing

[@antheanewman9636]

And yor in just so sad yooooooor

[@mariamary482]

♥️

[@ewelinaserda6041]

❤️

[@sugarsnap375]

I love you, thank you for posting this. Your face at 0:00, that’s exactly how I feel.

[@Yesitsness]

😢

[@jennyadhikari4610]

I just lost my baby at 13weeks of pregnancy today.

[@madelinehegedus]

I’m so so sorry you are going through this, Jenny. You are not alone, if you ever feel like having a chat you can always DM me. Sending you big hug 💛

[@FRANCESCA01234]

Im very sorry 😪