Mislabeling has gone too far

Just a short little response video to recent news of NikkieTutorials coming out. Enjoy!
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[@jolvergan7878]

Any relationship not based on trust is doomed to fail.

[@AnxiousTrap]

EXACTLY. Not even trans related, just in general.

[@Lazyboxcat]

Eyyyyyyy ye

[@philatio1744]

Mark Roper what’s the difference?

[@jontonsoup4]

Okay Joe

[@justinstephenson1065]

Jolvergan 100% agree

[@MikeCrocker]

One time I was on Tinder and I matched with this kinda quirky looking girl. Seemed nice and pretty cute. We got to talking and after a few messages in I asked her out on a date. She replied with, "I would love to go out with you, but I do want to let you know I'm going to start taking T really soon with the hope of becoming more masculine, so you'd have to be okay with that for this to go anywhere. If not, no hard feelings at all." It was so courteous. That kind of thing is outside my sexual preferences so I politely declined, and she said she gets it and wished me well. Sweet girl. Hope she's doing well.

[@MikeCrocker]

@john mayer’s #1 fan her bio said female. just a lil correction no hard feelings

[@Userdoesnotexit]

thats not a girl stfu

[@aspectortrap8899]

Dream High Animation it is a girl

[@Dgbygvg]

@@Userdoesnotexit natural born reproductive system intact and most likely not intersex cause that rarely happens? its a girl

[@truesoulghost2777]

Sad world

[@KomebackKing]

I’m sexually attracted to 5 foot 8 large men with red hair and a beard.

[@bumknuckle101]

godamn wubby is little

[@frostytheredd]

@@bumknuckle101 I mean...that's like the American average?

[@clerics6869]

omg thats hate speech??? like if you arent sucking a dick you are homophobic and transphobic if you are a man/girl and someone of the same gender hits on you and you DONT date them then thats homophobia and hate speech you fucking bigot?!??!?

[@warmwater8498]

*_I eat mulch._*

[@Hopscotchpro11]

beat me to it

[@lens_hunter]

Im glad I figured this out when I was younger. Im a straight dude, but I love tons of cute shit, cry at movies, my favorite color is purple, and I like dressing up my characters in cute outfits in video games. Never in my life have I ever thought "Oh, maybe Im a woman" or "oh, maybe Im gay." Im just me.

[@MikeCrocker]

hell yeah purple master color

[@NyxNovaStar]

You're not alone lol, but dude. Purple is awesome. The color of kings!

[@mineprankerz105]

Awhh the “I’m just me” made me smile

[@awesomesauce33]

Purple is epic

[@awesomesauce33]

*purple is best objectively*

[@BlockFin]

I'm a straight male. When I was a kid I had asked for a barbie doll for my birthday present. I think I saw my cousins (female) playing with them and since they were older (=cooler), I figured that barbie dolls are the cool thing to have. My mom was surprised and made sure I knew what I was talking about. She got me the doll and I had a great time playing with it. Later on legos took over my life and the doll eventually ended up in the trash can. I never really thought about it but now I'm really thankful for my mom that she didn't make it a gender thing. Any weird pressure might have pushed me to try to conform to some weird norms one way or the other.

[@sorgan7136]

Never had a barbie but legos did take over my life.

[@picklejuice6699]

You would be surprised how many parents are out there who actually don’t jump to conclusions about their childrens lives lol

[@suckapunch565]

It’s important to raise your children in a gender neutral environment instead of enforcing gender norms. Letting kids be kids and figuring out who they are through self-discovery encourages healthy growth.

[@picklejuice6699]

suckapunch565 , yeah very true

[@cargillmonteque2311]

@@suckapunch565 what do you mean gender neutral environment?

[@Nomicro4u]

If you weren't on Susan's KZbin naughty list you sure are now.

[@gudeezo746]

Love you

[@blotta]

Nomicro4u he was

[@---tw6qk]

Fuck that bitch.

[@Datdus92]

Sounds fucking hot to be on Susan's naughty list.

[@Coffee_Fuelled_Jerk]

Who gives a shit about Susan's list? She probably will be gone soon with the way she has been ruining the site

[@atracin]

I must be early there's still ads on this video

[@Gabo-wg3dv]

The Ads I got all are pro-trans and shit so I'm guessing KZbin is fine with this video

[@ni-9945]

I didn't get any ads

[@TheSwayzeTrain]

aaaaaaand theyre gone.

[@davidtornevski7111]

N O T A N Y M O R E !

[@owenristo4750]

@@Gabo-wg3dv lmao same, I thought I was watching the actual video

[@DemanaJaire]

I am a gay guy and I’m still scared to tell my boyfriend that I’m gay.

[@DemanaJaire]

@Random Mūdū But please, do not tell anyone.

[@thealarm7057]

Who's gonna tell you..I'll do it.. I think your boyfriend is gay, man.

[@elijahhigdon3413]

Lmao his boyfriend that he’s gay like I think he knows my guy

[@DemanaJaire]

Subtitles, please.

[@gweezygaming1024]

😂😂😂 I'm sleep

[@j.g.hansen4039]

A girl told me I should disclose that I'm uncircumcised...

[@DoppSkates]

Chicks like those perfect looking cut dicks bro.

[@jaygo4746]

Imagine that in reverse “I prefer genitally mutilated women..”

[@caprit9905]

Some of us prefer the uncut ones 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@jamesduncan6729]

Should I really have to disclose that? Why would anyone be put off by a foreskin? 😵

[@mel818]

that's... weird. Also, uncircumcised dicks are amazing, so don't let anyone make you feel defective.

[@GhastlyRune]

Nah, your view on telling before falling in love isn't extreme, it's legit responsible. I'm a trans dude and I can't imagine ever starting a romantic relationship without it being addressed from the very start. Not addressing it can be seen as trickery and that's a big no no in sexual situations. But anyway, you're not a transphobe, you're absolutely right and open to the topic. So definitely a +1 from me on your subs, looking forward to seeing what more you got here.

[@johnsmith5028]

puke!

[@Jellekee__]

I feel like, not telling someone from the start will make telling the person even more difficult because there is more at risk? It's a big thing to tell someone, but once you get over it in the beginning and you know how they will respond it's easier than already being deeply in love with each other, telling them, and then they might respond in a non accepting way which would hurt more to the both of you. Not telling them at all is unfair, but will also eat you up

[@GhastlyRune]

@@Jellekee__ 100%! There can be more stress and challenges with dating a trans person, as any other health complication, so its understandable that not everyone is capable of handling that in a partner. So not telling them a big part that plays into life and sexuality early enough, it just adds more struggles. Besides, I think it's better to endure a potential small rejection than to have things blow up, if they decide to stay early on despite being trans then that's just more value to the relationship.

[@Jellekee__]

@@GhastlyRune Yes yes yes! Small rejection for something like this in the beginning saves you (both) a lot of heartbreak later on

[@jaab53]

@@johnsmith5028 if only people like you bred yourselves into extinction into one generation.

[@dittlydarnit3141]

Communication is a very important part of a relationship isn’t it

[@FacePunchSammich]

How did this get 300 likes??

[@fendo89]

Except when its something you don't want the other person to know, then it isn't anymore.

[@sginrummy88]

Im surprised they have never had sex and the dude stuck around long enough to marry her.

[@rileybrown1605]

Hope she sees this bro

[@YuYuYuna_]

@@fendo89 If you don't want the person you're with to know you're trans then you are being intentionally deceptive whether you want to accept that or not. It's horribly rude to the person you're with to not tell them your identity and who they are dating. It's literally saying screw their sexual preferences for my own emotional comfortability.

[@spiritbx1337]

Why are my romantic partner mad when, after years of relationship, I reveal a bunch of secrets and that I didn't trust them?

[@noahjessup9342]

@no homo While he may have been understanding, it may still come as a shock to him on a biological level. What I mean by this is maybe he wanted to start a family and have kids that were his own with the woman that he loved. Unfortunately, given her trans status she cannot do that for him. It would definitely come as a shock to realize that staying with the woman that you love meant having to give up having children of your own and sometimes that can be a deal breaker. It's better for both parties to know up front so they can decide then and there if they'd like to proceed with a relationship.

[@beanos2287]

@no homo he probably wasn't , I don't think most straight males would be ok with that.

[@beanos2287]

@no homo I know nobody that would be willing to continue a relationship like that, and if you're willing to you're not straight, that's just how it is.

[@thealarm7057]

@no homo I honestly think he did not have much of a choice anymore. He had probably planned out a life in his head with her already, a house, a future and everything. Then she tells him she's trans and he is already so invested and in love that he has no choice to accept this is his life now. I would not be surprised if their relationship is a whole lot different after this. He might slowly start thinking straight and when those love glasses come off and he realizes his life was changed by her I am not sure if you can love the person that ruined your idea of life and a family.

[@jesuslopez-hp6gf]

@@beanos2287 lol why are they not straight?

[@PaymoneyWubby]

First

[@elik1491]

PaymoneyWubby second lmao

[@juelothy3190]

No u

[@xCrazyGuyNL]

nice

[@rainyyy02]

PaymoneyWubby third

[@UlsterRedGuard]

PaymoneyWubby fuck you

[@jaydenbarnes9275]

He makes valid, intelligent points followed by 'I want this woman to obliterate my testicles' at 6:49 What a champ

[@TheTrout9000]

You can be fully, 100% a good woke human being and still want a consenting adult to destroy your testicles. It's 2020 baby!

[@izbeee]

i'm still laughing at his stream introductions lmao

[@nyagah243]

classic wubby

[@damienshannondeleon4078]

@Krista Star lmao at this dickbag

[@Unicat9]

@Krista Star seen you pullin' some comments out of your ass too. Since you failed to understand the video let me at least explain myself in a simple matter. *See...your comments are shit*

[@murunbuchstanzangur]

Wubs. Your hairline is getting lower. I never saw a man with a preceding hairline.

[@banjojackson2]

An advancing hairline?

[@sissyphussartre2907]

Receding= moving back. Proceeding= moving forward. Preceding= came before something else.

[@DoTheDewRvB]

@@sissyphussartre2907 Wouldn't be the only thing about Wubby that comes before others

[@bernadettehealey2354]

Natal female? :))

[@ashlyt.3748]

😂🤣😂

[@mattmart3301]

i’m a trans guy and i completely agree w wubby. it is in both parties best interest to disclose this before anything gets serious. hell some people even get hurt for not disclosing this in some scenarios. to avoid any unclear feelings this needs to be addressed as early as possible.

[@Hot_and_cold1109]

“In a community that is so quick to allow anyone to love who they prefer, they’re very quick to label you ‘transphobic’ if you don’t love who THEY prefer.” “In a world where I am allowed and celebrated to like who I like, you’re now labeling me and telling me I’m wrong.” WUBBY WITH THE FACTS

[@slashess69]

so you can totally not wanna date a trans woman the issue is why you dont wanna date a trans woman. If you dont like penises and she has a penis, thats a perfectly fine dealbreaker. But if they are passing, clothes on or off, they have no obligation to tell you that they were born a different gender. paymoney is completely obtuse for not specifying any of this in his video, so i have no idea if he's being a transphobic idiot or not.

[@toast4097]

@@slashess69 Guess this video went over your head

[@trinityp3607]

There are always gonna be people who take things too far. But I promise, 99% of the teams community doesnt care if you have a preference, as long as you're not transphobic about it. Same thing with dating people of other ethnicities or religions.

[@slashess69]

@@toast4097 nope, please tell me where paymoney makes this distinction? He doesnt becsuse hes counting on idiots like you to agree with his hyperbole without question.

[@slashess69]

@@toast4097 there is no innate difference between dating a fully passing trans woman and dating a cis woman. There MAY be differences, but again, there was no nuance of this sort in the video.

[@SluggerNugget]

"It's on the trans person to disclose that your trans" That's true

[@danielb8888]

How about sports?

[@SluggerNugget]

@@mr_thekid I wonder how Archangel Gabriel would feel about all this

[@Peacock__]

@@mr_thekid you don't need to be pedantic

[@mayonnaisequeen1513]

Thats truuueee

[@huntersoneoone612]

you're*

[@phinyo2066]

When things looked like it was going to go somewhere with my gf of 4 years now, I told her immediately about my troubled past, depression, and suicidal tendencies. I feel like anything that really impacted your life for the better or worse, like being trans, needs to be told before getting serious.

[@totalbozo]

Although there are similarities it's not exactly the same situation. You also need to be careful not to imply that being trans is a negative thing in the same way as depression. I don't think trans people like to think of it as a flaw, for some reason.

[@kormoxkall6687]

@@totalbozo I recently went through a giant change in my life and I now identify as the loch ness monster not gunna tell my wife though

[@totalbozo]

@@kormoxkall6687 umm, thanks for the confusing non sequitur. It added a lot, well worth it.

[@AxiiMadeMeDoIt]

@@totalbozo I think it is in general the same situation; OP said that anything that has impacted your life for BETTER and worse you should tell your significant other. He just gave his mental health as an example of that- not to compare depression with being trans, but to share with a potential partner something that is difficult and integral to you, and potentially hard for your partner to deal with. OP was just meaning that you should be totally upfront with someone you see a future with, especially early on so you are completely fair with their expectations of you and their future with you.

[@kormoxkall6687]

@@totalbozo no problem - can I get $3.50?

[@penelopesmith345]

I'm trans, you're not transphobic. You should always tell your partner first.

[@JackSpasojevich]

There's so much fucking disgusting transphobia and hate in the world that labeling honesty with a partner as transphobia seems to really just miss the point 🧡 much love to you

[@mrs.chandler9384]

Aryn Smith You aren’t trans you idiot. I just looked at your KZbin videos. You’re a cringe teen boy.

[@gregdestroyerofworlds.8903]

@@mrs.chandler9384 that doesn’t mean they don’t identify differently.

[@thatoneguy7127]

Gay

[@mrs.chandler9384]

@@gregdestroyerofworlds.8903 You can’t identify as anything you want. That’s not how science works.

[@_Biggg_t]

5:15 that's always bugged me too. Everytime I hear about a Male to female trans story they always say they felt like a girl because they liked the color pink and played with dolls...when all that does is perpetuate stereotypes of how and what girls should be.

[@Pendji]

9/10 transwomen always 100% of the time base it on early-life femininity. It's as if they stop thinking about what it means to be a woman at 18. They fetishize the young girl experience.

[@cynthiaerune3554]

@@Pendji source? And where did you get this idea that its a fetish?

[@haloninjax542]

@@cynthiaerune3554 he's just saying it's like a complex or some such. that they obsess over early life femininity as a sort of launching point. not that it's a sexual fetish(although could be). cant really describe it well but i hope that helps

[@haloninjax542]

sexual trauma and pedophilia are human things. they are portrayed in movies, books, songs, paintings etc. liking anime makes you no more a pedophile or rapist than liking the color purple makes you a girl. which by they way they don't.

[@FacePunchSammich]

absentsnail. Why should anyone value trans opinions when you people force compliance and take any question about it as a personal attack? Trans people are just a loud and very vocal minority

[@Parkulele]

Not going to lie, this was refreshingly honest.

[@notricky1680]

? Wubby? He has always been like this

[@maxine603]

@@notricky1680 when out out of character*

[@notricky1680]

@@maxine603 true, but even then, sometimes he uses his humor to emphasize his points. Most of the time he's just hilarious tho lol

[@amityislandchum]

Oooh how brave of the cis white man.

[@EmmettMontanaro]

@@amityislandchum Do you often look for things that get you mad?

[@haloninjax542]

I'm a straight male and dressed up as a girl, had my nails painted, and played with dolls when i was really young. Just because my 1 sister wanted a little sister but got a little brother. i don't really see how those things reflect me. I used to do that shit and I'm still a straight male. a kilt is still a type of skirt, kiss wears make up but is still male, action figures are still dolls. It's just makeup, toys, and clothes. it doesn't represent shit

[@aJazzyFeel]

fuckin preach

[@dismantledbrain5910]

Judging by your profile picture, I'd say it affected you quite a lot. (I'm just messing with you. You do you.)

[@haloninjax542]

nah i know what you guys mean, it's kinda hard because you have to use these stereotypes as a launching point for realizing you're different but that's also labeling which is contradictory to what you want you know. you're fucked either way lol

[@LaraOsman]

Preachhhhh

[@haloninjax542]

@@victorflores6408 lol no i don't dress up as a girl. pretty content being a heterosexual dude

[@logeymusic]

That point of "stereotyping girls things" is so fucking relevant to me. I'm a dude. I have long hair, played netball throughout college, played with my sister and her polly pockets (dolls for those who don't know), love the colour pink and I have never once thought I was a woman because I enjoyed those things. I have been comfortable in my own skin. I'm not discrediting those who would feel better in a different body, but labelling those kind of things alone as a reason, is not helping the divide between the stereotypes of these genders. (edit: oh and nailpolish)

[@someguy9893]

Yeah, I'm trans and I agree with you. There's a difference between gender dysphoria (the disconnect between a person's mind and their biological sex, especially the sexual organs and characteristics, which cause distress and the desire to transition) and just being a feminine man/masculine woman. Being trans isn't as simple as 'a boy playing with girl's toys', it's a more complex set of requirements with more emphasis on the biological sex and sexual characteristics. A lot of people confuse gender roles with biological gender, which leads to some people mistakenly labelling themselves as trans when they're actually just going against gender roles.

[@rand0mtv660]

1:32 "I think *WE* need to take our own advice...". Wubby is trans confirmed

[@Thekaiserwill]

Rand0mTV already got the tits to be fair

[@kayliestevens5438]

Hes a sexy lil lady

[@stardressedsky3872]

I don’t think it’s “transphobic” at all. I’m with you.

[@tropicalfruit4571]

Lol I had a reply for this comment that was pretty neutral but either wubby (yeah I don't think so) or youtube deleted it... I guess you can't ANY criticism whatsoever for the lgbt even if you side with them in the same comment... what a great platform... I love communism

[@NidorinoAlliance]

@@tropicalfruit4571 *I love capitalism KZbin’s a company. And they’re not exactly pro LGBT. They routinely deem anything gay or trans “not safe for children”.

[@YuYuYuna_]

@@NidorinoAlliance They literally ban/demonitize anyone who says anything transphobic/homophobic. But sure, let's just pretend youtube isn't pro LGBT when literally they reworked their guidelines and TOS because of Steven Crowder and that guy from VICE.

[@tiddelyfish2413]

The fact that you don’t tell someone who you’re trying to establish a loving relationship with. You NEED to tell the partner when you BEGIN that relationship not after. I’d feel lied too and heartbroken if the person I loved held something as important as that away from me

[@FacePunchSammich]

I’d be fucking so horrified that the “girl” I thought I was with isn’t actually a girl that I’d puke...Then attempt to sterilize my dick.

[@FacePunchSammich]

Jett Philips. Lmao 😂 that’s fucking nasty

[@mikemikel654]

@Jett Philips it's not about her fiance but people in general.

[@monkeydad47]

@@FacePunchSammich and this is why trans people are scared to tell their partners.

[@Mack4978]

Trust is important in a relationship, so it's a distrustful move to hide it, and makes the other feel bad because they would feel like they couldn't be trusted.

[@ZJasmineDragon]

As a trans woman I can very safely say a that this community does harbor a lot of very aggressively active members who really are looking to hate. To many it’s not just bout being trans, it’s about supporting the narrative that they deem is fully supportive of trans women. In this I mean, not just equal rights and the normalizing of social norms, but following a certain alignment of political beliefs, religious beliefs, and arbitrary definitions that you may or may not agree with. These people will find a reason to call you sexist, if they can’t they will call you a racist, if they can’t they will say you aren’t trans or don’t support the LGBT. This is not the majority of us, however there ARE a lot of these types of LGBT and allies who think this way. It’s destructive, and makes us look like snowflakes who can’t have constructive discourse, they don’t speak for the trans community, they speak for their circles of virtue signaling professional victims, and are hurting our progress more than anything else

[@akimbodice6955]

Too long, dont care, didnt read.

[@ZJasmineDragon]

@@akimbodice6955 Then don't respond numb nuts :D

[@Jay-kg1jf]

@@akimbodice6955 lmfaoooooo fr bro

[@abyssal_yami9384]

Never actually met a trans person before. This is off topic but where do you stand on the whole bathroom situation? I’d love to get your opinion thx

[@ZJasmineDragon]

@@abyssal_yami9384 The fact that it has to be called a "situation" is kinda part of the issue ig. Its a place where you go to the bathroom, or maybe get changed in a stall. At no point, should anyone actually see anyone else being exposed in any way. So if someone has a penis, or even had a penis, its not like anyone else should ever have a reason to know that information. So as for the "it doesn't make me comfortable" argument, you should genuinely never know if someone is trans, they are just trying to relieve themselves in the bathroom that has been designated for that gender. As for the "its dangerous" argument, statistically, trans people are far more likely to be the victims of sexual crime than to be the perpetrators of it, in metrics which are almost shockingly one sided. Some people claim that "its an excuse for people pretending to be trans to go into the womens room". Okay, well we don't let bad actors ruin other things that way, we have school shootings but gun control is pretty lax overall. Just because someone can do harm because of something, doesn't mean we prevent everyone else from doing it. That being said, there have been 0 cases at this point, in which someone claiming to be trans used that to try to gain access to a women's restroom to harass or assault them. There was one instance of a teenage boy wearing a skirt having nonconsensual sex with their girlfriend in a bathroom in one high school, but they never claimed to be a woman, and they had planned to meet in the womans room anyway, so despite that news story being used as the only example, I really don't think it counts. At its worst, it makes people feel a bit weird, but there is no example of it causing harm, and if people were allowed to start transitioning a bit earlier (by which I just mean taking hormone blockers so they can make an informed choice without puberty making drastic changes to their physical development, then trans men and women would look like their preferred sex anyway, and no one would have any way of knowing if someone were trans. Its a complete non-issue, and honestly a lot of places have just started doing gender neutral bathrooms where all men and women can use the restroom in the same space because, it is literally just a room that has toilets.

[@vastparseltongue]

*Serious tone video is ending* Wubby: I want this woman to obliterate my testicles

[@SkavenUK]

fair play

[@aaronvogt8820]

Went to college with that girl, we all wanted her to obliterate our testicles....

[@AwkwardThumbs]

@@aaronvogt8820 Yeah, who is she?

[@estrogenwoman6111]

I clicked the SECOND i got notified and i can confidently say youre the only youtuber that i am actively excited about

[@PuraKyan]

Big mood bro

[@JohnDoe-fo7hh]

My new h3

[@AquaticSnipes]

Facts

[@unthawing1508]

amen sister

[@shilohdanvers8635]

Legit

[@Jeshikamo]

I have a 4-and-a-half year old son. He's got hair all the way down to his arse, he loves flower crowns, doll houses, painting his nails, wearing his pink unicorn jammies and after trying soccer decided he hated it and wants to do dance lessons. Thanks to his long hair he is always mistaken for a girl. I never went out of my way to correct people, although I have always used male pronouns for him and usually people caught on. Since he's been old enough to understand and verbalize the concept, he has corrected people of his own accord, occasionally getting frustrated and yelling "I'm a boy!" at people if they continue to mess up. I've never told him any of the things he likes were "girls" things and have had to constantly defend his interests to 'well intentioned' family members who are 'concerned he's going to be bullied' while passively bullying him. So I believe 100% that the above charactaristics are sterotypes for what is "girly". But I also believe that kids know what they are, and if playing with dolls or trucks is what makes sense to them then they can use that to express the things they can't verbalize yet.

[@bernadettehealey2354]

Good on you. He sounds like a healthy and happy and string kid. May he never be bullied or brainwashed into thinking his body is wrong!

[@faeronmor2739]

Not to say feeling uncomfortable in your body is wrong, but I definitely agree with this stance. If he likes "girly" things but he corrects people about being a boy, he is just a boy who likes "girly" things. No one needs to tell him his interests are just for girls and make him think if he wants to be interested in or wear whatever he wants he has to be a girl to do so. You can be male and like those stereotypically girly things and not be trans, you just like what you like.

[@manuellichtenecker6403]

awesome comment by an awesome person

[@Pale_ghost]

@Srdjan Kos Thats exactly what it means in the whole world expect western countries that use the word "gender" instead of "your sex".

[@_anshin_anshin]

Kids know what they are? You have to be joking?? I seriously wanted to be a horse when I grew up and a friend of mines son was very sure he was a dog from age 3-5. Kids are fucking kids. They don't understand the concept of gender or how it affects society or the fact that it's a tool of oppression. Good on you for teaching your son that he can like what he like without changing his body. I'd consider him lucky nowadays.

[@kindereggs4263]

I always identified as straight my partner came out to me as transgender early in the relationship before falling in love with them and I completely agree with wubby two years later we have a house together finishing college and still in love. telling ur partner is important and my views of my partner never changed upon revealing that information upon me the right person wouldn’t love you any less and waiting to tell them in fear of them leaving or judging only to find out they did just that is a waste of everyones time

[@onarix]

Cool story

[@Wonderfullcrazy]

well if hes a trans man then of course you wouldnt change your sexuality. yes some straight women have preferences but many straight women are attracted to trans men.

[@name-fv4du]

Key phrase "the right person"

[@cheesecake4648]

there is no trans men, is a she.. you are having a relationship with a woman that thinks is a men.

[@cheesecake4648]

@no homo Well, I learn english on my own pace, not for you. And since I still have voice and you still undertood me, FU and go ahead and answer me in spanish porque ese es mi idioma estúpido, a ver si podés.

[@parkcs7529]

This shouldn’t be an unpopular opinion

[@JonathanGorr]

It's not an uncommon opinion.

[@thomasmccormick1622]

It isn’t. I’d wager that 95-99% of the general public would agree with absolutely everything that Wubby is saying. The issue lies in the fact that there is a very loud minority of reactionary people who oppose this point of view. Too few media outlets want to call those people out on their bs because they’re too afraid of being labeled transphobes themselves. We just gotta wait this one out I guess 🤷‍♂️

[@waterbender19]

I don't think it actually is... I think the only people who are "allowed" to talk about it have different opinions

[@owls4382]

In my opinion, wubby is the greatest commentary youtuber, he's the only one able to speak about issues like this with enough logic and respect to not appear like he's whining or making fun of people, and for more absurd things he reacts to he's able to talk about them with an equal amount of comedy and honesty.

[@kalkat02]

You're Right. Danny Gonzalez cannot touch wubby, with his click baity low hanging fruit videos. I still like Danny Gonzalez though lol

[@daniels8618]

I find it funny how he manages to make videos like these and use the N-word and other slurs without getting massive massive flak. Most people even if they are great and genuinely accepting people still have biases or social issues against other people even without realizing it, I even realize this in myself sometimes. This dude knows how to see people for who they are it seems like.

[@JimsyFlimsy]

Yeah and ItsAGundam doesn’t exist. Wubby is a god among men and must be treated as such, but it’s just my opinion guys take it with a grain of salt.

[@kars9050]

@@kalkat02 I dunno they make very different types of videos

[@nostepsnek1776]

Check out Jean Francois Gariepy. Wubby is good, he played this very safe while still attacking some ideas he didn't like which I have never seen him do, props to him.

[@davehumphries]

Naa what's worse is imagine if a blind person is only told that their partner is ginger after a few months of being together.

[@philatio1744]

only a ginger can call another ginger ginger

[@cameronfajardo5067]

@@philatio1744 it's ginga for people who ain't gingers

[@philatio1744]

Cameron Fajardo Sorry for my seemingly insensitive comment but you must know that i have the g word pass, so I can say “ginger” with no real issue.

[@itsdarc6661]

what's worse is if they were ginger AND black am I right or am I right fellas?

[@icenutsproductions9682]

Gingers have no souls

[@melissahunnybee2you]

I thought this dude was just funny, but he's genuinely deep.

[@itsdarc6661]

the only thing im sexually attracted to is wubby's lips edit: if we hit 1.1k I'll do a toenail reveal edit 2: toenail reveal out now

[@mcdonaldsfreewifi7262]

Now I can’t look away.

[@philatio1744]

Jr Chicano 1987 no homo

[@mr.dinosaur9320]

Darc Static ...i can agree with that 👄

[@ViperBl00d77]

Damn thank God I'm not the only one, I mean no homo but they looking hella supple

[@itsdarc6661]

@@NRLR89 I'm afraid not

[@AlamMahmood]

I am attracted to Credit Card. I am either getting declined or used

[@DoppSkates]

Wow so original, I've never heard this one before.

[@jhandle900]

Too real

[@soufianelhouda]

You mean related?

[@loganknight24002]

wow thanks feel free to hit me up

[@Triforcefilms]

dude i've always been uncertain how to word my confusion about this, thanks for putting it to words. Keep rollin boo!

[@froggobonano]

I have felt the exact same way but it's hard to bring the topic up without being immediately labeled

[@talloncloud]

@@froggobonano it helps to really educate yourself first, that way you can talk to those experiencing it without sounding obtuse.

[@ppleeatpple]

I know I'm late to the comments but there are absolutely people who will explain it to you and answer questions. ContraPoints has excellent videos that discuss this and she doesn't pussyfoot around questions about her experience of being trans in a way that I think Wubby viewers also would like

[@jinseihoshi9360]

Im a girl and I was born a girl. I never felt that I was a boy even though I played with cars and rolled around in mud. Its just sounds weird to me when trans people say that beacuse they enjoyed something that is a stereotype of the opposite gender that that means they have to be that gender. I think it is a different story though when people talk about body dismorphia (idk how to spell it) saying that something was missing or wrong when they look in the mirror. But basing a transition solely on stereotypical things like dolls or cars is weird to me. edit: I also cut my hair really short at 12 . still am a girl

[@colorbar.s]

Nikkie isn't basing her transition solely on liking girl things, you're missing the point. She was talking about how when she was a kid, she always knew she was a girl and constantly did things that are stereotypically feminine. That's because she was a KID. Kids' understanding of gender is just what they see, and what they see is the stereotypes associated with gender. A little trans girl loving dolls and dresses is just how she'd express being trans, because that's all that kids understand up until that point. Nikkie's current view on gendered objects and concepts is completely unrelated, we're talking about her child self.

[@mattwinstead6726]

I think it was his moms fault he even said that his mom wanted a girl you think that could have something to do with it also

[@andricardenas7854]

@@mattwinstead6726 her*

[@gamechannel1271]

@@mattwinstead6726 Agreed, if the mom wasn't a part of this story, Nikkie wouldn't have become trans.

[@seansean8353]

Yeeeeee I think being trans is a fad rn for alot of people who bored with they're life as is. Like I know how to spice my life up. BAMN. Girl

[@vincentgagric3142]

Hey, I’m a trans guy and I’d like to give my feedback on the questions raised in this video. “Is it transphobic to not want to date a trans person?” Absolutely not. Just like wubby said, you can have a preference. It doesn’t matter what that preference is about whether it’s hair, eye color, or genitals, every one should be able to have a preference and it is your right to know going into a relationship whether or not someone is trans. As a trans person it is your responsibility to tell that person. “How do you know you’re trans if you’re just associating with labels?” This one is a bit harder to answer. Wubby put it well when he said he didn’t know what it felt like to be a man. I don’t know what it feels like to be a man either. I know what it feels like to not be a girl. It’s less of a “I’m a boy because I play with action figures” and more of a “I’m a boy because I know that this is not the correct body.” If you woke up with tits one day you’d know something was off. That’s all I can give feedback on. I’ve been a fan of wubby for a while and I’m glad he’s not submitting to all these idiots calling him transphobic because he wants the basic decency of knowing if his girlfriend is trans. Edit: Hey guys I’m glad this sparked a discussion but that’s what it should be. A discussion. Not a screaming match. We all have questions for the other side and none of them will get answered by getting angry the moment someone disagrees with you. You don’t understand them and they don’t understand you. Ask questions. Talk. That’s the only way to move forward a better understanding for all of us. Don’t throw a book at someone’s head and expect them to learn the material.

[@_zkittlez_1956]

🤢🤢

[@enchantingcinder5176]

preach

[@rad1an]

Hey, thanks for sharing your thoughts, I just have one question I've always wondered since I see it so often, if you're comfortable with answering. You said "I don’t know what it feels like to be a man either. I know what it feels like to not be a girl". How can you know this to be the case? How can you be confident in knowing what it feels like to not be a girl, or what it feels like to be a girl? You have one body, one life, so what is it that you're comparing yourself to if not society (through stereotypes and expectations)? Could this feeling of "not knowing" actually stem from something else? Uncomfortable with your body? Uncomfortable with the stereotypes and expectations that society placed on you? Wubby doesn't know what it feels like to be a man, because presumably, he is just wubby. He just has his one body that happens to be male. So what is it like to "feel" gender, or in your case, to not feel gender? Another question would be, if you feel like you are not a girl, why do you identify as a trans guy as opposed to something like agender?

[@frostfang1]

@@rad1an to add onto this...like I've gone through puberty and I hated it. I hate all the dark hair everywhere, I hate periods, I hated the way my boobs were shaped while they were growing in and then the shape they were when they were "full grown". I hate that I can procreate, and become pregnant. Sometimes i just hate my hormones in general. I do not want to be Male. I do not feel that i am not female. I would just honestly feel more balanced being prepubescent. And it's not a feeling of wanting to be agender. I just dont want to deal with the negative side of these changes. I was chubby as a kid, so I wasnt like...thrilled with my body and wanted to be taller and leaner, but I was satisfied with it. It just worked and there was minimal maintenance. This is all just...mostly an emotionless assessment. I'm not attached to the idea like that's the way my body "should be". So what makes that vague desire different than wanting to be a different gender? Or wanting to be taller or have a different frame for aesthetic or creative reasons? Is it just "we dont have the technology to do that" to you? Or is there some fundamental difference that I dont understand? For me I have long past accepted that this just how my body gonna be. I dont have to like it, but it's easier to live with if I move on and just keep it in the best shape I can, as it is now. We all end up trapped in bodies that stop working or looking the way we want them to. What makes this situation different, and why does people recognizing you as a different label change that?

[@HeatherHolt]

Vinny Bean very well said

[@reidholmes6253]

"I dont know what it feels like to be a man" -Wubby 2020

[@cristynno80]

The best

[@Starfighter_Cookies]

He is just simply *there*

[@Kaburex]

The points he makes are thoughts I've had about his topic that I simply couldn't put into words!

[@amityislandchum]

Well you should ask actual transgender people about it, rather than listen to some cis white guy's ranting.

[@Supreme_Lobster]

@@amityislandchum ok pussy

[@louiegonzalez595]

sharksandsheep you are the exact fucking problem, so his opinion is devalued cuz he’s white and a male? Isn’t that just labeling him? Just because he isn’t a transgender doesn’t mean he can’t have insight. And the points he made are 100% logically true. that’s why I have yet to see a decent rebuttal against his arguments.

[@bevvvy1374]

@@amityislandchum If minority groups had your mentality back in the day, gay rights and black rights wouldn't be a thing. Edit: Forgot to add woman's rights.

[@galacticlavalamp6338]

sharksandsheep I didn’t want to be rude or insult someone by saying anything out loud but yeah I don’t see why liking pink makes you a girl at heart

[@pinkpeach414]

Wubby is not transphobic. He is right and yall know it

[@spork8655]

"Disagree? You're trabsphobic"

[@yahtzee4229]

Did you say transphobic? That's transphobic.

[@reddreams3711]

Nice

[@ohno9638]

I feel like when she described knowing she was a girl at a young age because she wanted to paint her nails and play with dolls it wasn't because those were feminine things but more because other girls were doing it and it's not about the feminine activities themselves it was more of an interpretation of what girls do "girls do this so because I see myself as a girl I want to do it too" that's what I think though so her experience might be different

[@yellowhair03]

Awesome explanation. I was/am also a bit confused on that point..what you're saying makes sense.

[@greatninja2590]

I think the problem is we have like this groups who would go and say they don't want to conform to gender steriotypes so they give their kids a gender neutral environment But then the same groups would endorse those said gender steriotypes if the son show female behaviour and vise versa. Worst case kid just copied that thing he/she watched in tv and parents will assume their kids are trans there are cases like that just a few but they still happen.

[@ufo6582]

Yesss, exactly what I was gonna say. It’s all about the aspect of fitting in and being seen as that gender.

[@caitymullen1776]

This exactly. As much as it would be nice to not have stereotypes or label, they unfortunately are extremely ingrained in our society. I believe what Nikki is getting at is that if there were no labels of things that were "for girls" then she wouldn't have had to pick a label, if that makes sense... All in all I think these issues are really complicated, especially for the people directly involved, but we must ALWAYS go in with a mindset of openness and compassion.

[@FlawedbyDesign777]

spot on

[@2ears1mouth786]

6:02 here starts a damn good point. Something people need to seriously consider.

[@lous68]

that's how kids see gender: with gender stereotypical stuff. when a trans person get's older, they start to notice that they truly feel like another gender.

[@amandaleicht5508]

Conforming to the stereotypes is more about fitting into the gender you feel like you are

[@yannik246]

@@amandaleicht5508 But how do you feel like a certain gender? What is the criteria? I personally feel like there is just your biological gender and your personality which differs from person to person anyways. Why invent a construct around a already clearly defined term?

[@picklejuice6699]

So I am a girl dress VERY masculine, I never have liked dolls or dresses and as a little kid I never played with other girls only boys. I am also attracted to girls. But the thing is I don’t have ANY gender dysphoria, I am comfortable in my body and I feel like its mine, a trans person wouldn’t feel that way towards their body due to the dysphoria they experience, THATS what makes someone trans not the stereotypes that surround them.

[@picklejuice6699]

Lillian Frost , yeah I mean theres labels for everything in this world and you can be whoever you want to and be labeled however you wish as long as what you’re doing makes u happy. You shouldn’t feel the need to fit into societies construct if you don’t want to or feel pressured by the community that you’re currently in. Anyways I am definitely not the best person to get advice from ahaha but I reckon just do what makes you happy and don’t be held back by other people. Best wishes with everything tho :))

[@iceybunny4931]

As a trans woman, the worst choice I have made was waiting to tell someone. I learned from that mistake and I tell people as soon as I think I might start a relationship.

[@DanyulART]

I'm a man, dating a trans-man (female-to-male). He told me he was trans within our first two days of conversation, and I always admired him for it.

[@Becca8123]

That's the way to do it. Being honest with your partner about who you are helps build a strong relationship. I wish you both happiness.

[@themaryblu]

Yes, being honest and upfront I respect him. Nikki is wrong for what she did to the fiancé.

[@bee-sy7iw]

LE REDDIT COMMANDER How is that ridiculous? Being transgender is not about sexuality, it’s about identity. Why do you give a shit anyway? It’s not like trans people are going to force you to transition, girl.

[@psukhopompos]

@ I genuinely feel sorry for people like you. I hope you get better.

[@silverreylo1240]

But what does that make you? Are you gay? Everyone goes on and on about how labels are bad but I personally think we need more concise specific labels. Labels tell us what is good, what is bad, and gives people an idea of how to handle things. Labels are informative and don't deserve such bad reps. They are useful and I do not wish them gone.

[@thejoel141]

I wanted to grow out my hair and paint my nails...that’s how I knew I was emo

[@kuhtreen]

I think trans people tend to attach themselves to stereotypical characteristics of the opposite gender they are given at birth bc it makes it easier for people see/accept them as that gender and overall a person. It would be silly to think labels don’t matter, but they shouldn’t always define us, and since they do they make the world go round. It is not necessarily a bad thing to put ourselves in boxes, it isn’t always intentional. What matters is we are comfortable, happy, and not hurting others ^__^

[@waterdubz7208]

DailyVlogs KZbin I wouldn’t really know how to answer that. Some people just feel like they are born the opposite gender aside from the one they were born with. that doesn’t mean they are spoiled. some people are just attracted to things that people with their own gender would find odd to be attracted by. Like a boy wanting to play with makeup or barbies. These stereotypes are what gives value to gender. Some people just don’t want to abide by that and that’s perfectly fine.

[@h4che]

Not hurting others and yourself

[@kubli365]

@@waterdubz7208 "These stereotypes are what gives value to gender." Why do we need to "give value to gender"? Shouldn't we *not?*

[@waterdubz7208]

TheSly442 yes, I completely agree. My wording was kinda off but what I meant to say was that stereotypes are what is believed to give gender value like how males, are typically depicted to be more masculine and tend to lean towards more of those stereotypes. It is how our current society sees it. But In all honesty, I believe no matter what gender you were born with, you should be able to enjoy whatever you like no matter what labels are placed. Do whatever makes you happy

[@CallMeRedhead]

Agreed. He said that we shouldn’t be labeling things but I think a lot of what Nikki was saying was that, as a child, she saw those things (makeup, long hair, dresses) as “girl” things. So it made sense to her child brain that that’s how she related gender and who she was/is. Kids don’t have the knowledge yet to be able to convey it in a more nuanced way. So for her, those things are what made girls girls, and since she felt like a girl she related those two things. I want to be a girl, I feel like a girl, so I’m going to do what my understanding is of what makes girls girls.

[@krisstasko]

I'm sure there's like 100 people who've brought this up but I'm gonna too. The whole "feeling like a girl" thing is more than likely an attempt to refer to the actual condition that happens in the brain called "dysmorpia" where one doesn't feel comfortable in their own body. Many of my friends who are trans have described that feeling of seeing themselves in the mirror and having their skin crawl because it doesn't feel like themself staring back. The problem here, though, is that there isn't any discussion of that discomfort. The clips shared here, she focuses on "I played with girl stuff and therefore I'm a girl." Plus, the fact the mom really wanted a girl might have honestly played a factor into how this all went down. This is all speculation on my part, I don't know her life, that's just my view I could be dead wrong. That's just my two cents on a year old video that I'm sure no one's gonna see

[@declanhugors]

Yea that's true. If your mom constantly reminds you throughout your childhood "I was CONVINCED you were going to be a girl" you're going to hold that in the back of your head for everything you do. You develop a sort of confirmation bias, where anything remotely connected to female stereotypes fits you in line with your "TRUE gender" as your mom put it. Parents have a lot more influence on their kids who transition than people think. It's rarely ever just them who contributes to the ultimate decision

[@WraxTV]

Yeah, as a kid I always secretly liked girlie stuff too that I'd constantly have to hide from my parents, but I didn't think that made me a girl. I mean hell, most the girls I hung around were the type that played sports and video games and dressed "like boys" but that didn't make them boys in my mind. I just feel like you should do what you want and not allow that to restrict yourself to a certain identity.

[@PaulHofreiter]

WraxTV yup, a lot of the trans movement is defined specifically by labels but they say that labels are bad. It’s ironic.

[@philatio1744]

having to hide that i liked “girlie stuff” always made it feel like i was doing a bad thing but looking back at it, i just really enjoy make up.

[@PaulHofreiter]

phi latio16 right on. You’d think that progressives would push to help normalize non-strict gender roles and preferences but mostly we just get more this/that mentality from them (especially regarding males).

[@---tw6qk]

It's almost like being a male or female isn't defined by a bunch of stereotypes.

[@savageshot3723]

@@---tw6qk what do you mean

[@johnframe6827]

Good grief, I've been making these same arguments with people for years and people on both sides look at me like I'm crazy. Great video as usual.

[@froggobonano]

I KNOW RIGHT??

[@jordanb1153]

@@froggobonano Labels like just about everything have good and bad affects. Labels are good for explaining or defining ideas or concepts in a quick and recognizable way; just like pretty much any other word you can think of. But when those labels invoke social pressures and cause harm and mental stress to people, then they have a bad affect. Not sure if that makes labels not good though.

[@shoobicoothbeetson3431]

Same here! I’ve always questioned how oftentimes trans people kind of contradict themselves by perpetuating gender stereotypes by saying they “felt like a girl because they played with dolls, nail polish, etc”. And I’m like (exactly like Wubby) you are completely free and entitled to do whatever you wish with yourself and your body. But...those are all stereotypical girl things? Does it mean that I’m not a girl because I happened to enjoy dinosaurs, playing outside, playing make-believe fight scenes, and hated dolls? That’s where things are odd. Liking things of the opposite gender definitely doesn’t mean that you are the opposite gender, is really what I’m getting at here. And what does it even feel like to be a ‘girl’? I’m a girl, and I can’t really say that I’ve ever ‘felt like a girl’ or even a boy for that matter. I just...am (which is honestly where I hope we can eventually reach as a society). Where people just exist, rather than really having labels at all. Like, sure, there will be boys and girls, but the stereotypes associated with them could be demolished.

[@xWyntrSoulsticex]

@@shoobicoothbeetson3431 I really wish we could get to the point where everything is okay for either gender as well. I think that girls adopting "boy things" or being tomboys was accepted without much incident, but now I think boys are trying to do the same and getting more flack for it. Therefore, if they wanna be "tomgirls" or just feminine at all, they're shamed so much that they need to just be a girl altogether if they want to have any personal freedom at all. And that's not even getting into shit like sissy hypno and all the other weird stuff that goes on in the trans community. A lot of times they'll look at a feminine boy and basically tell him he HAS to come out as trans. It's enforcement of gender stereotypes to the nth degree.

[@johnframe6827]

@Turquoise Cheetah Wubby here wasn't screaming "REEE Bigot" so idk what you're on about. Wearing dresses and playing with dolls shouldn't be gender specific. Lot's of right wing and even left wing people disagree strongly with that. As an example. Calm down over there and think about what you're typing.

[@sampoage2137]

This man has nailed it right on the head

[@evanislost]

Imagine the person you've been putting your effort and time and trust into building a relationship and life together... Telling you that they haven't being honest about something like that, that theyve not been honoring that trust you've put forth for them. I would not ever want to be with someone thats shown me they feel like it's okay to hide something that important in a relationship. It shows that they aren't really in it for you just as much as they are in it for themselves.

[@svansy]

100%. and this no matter if the actual being trans or not was an issue. no trust = no reason to have anything to do with a person.

[@n64p3]

First big person who finally shared what I’ve been arguing for the whole time! Just because your son likes to play with dolls or wear dresses doesn’t mean he’s a girl. It just means he likes to play with dolls and wear dresses. My point is let people be whatever the fuck they want to be and don’t label things as trivial as clothes and toys to gender. It seems like the people who should be arguing against this the most tend to argue for it when talking about knowing kids are trans based on if they’re not stereotypically their born gender and it infuriates me

[@Naskinlahtaaja]

Acknowledging that our current gender norms/stereotypes exist isn't the same thing as saying that those norms/stereotypes are necessarily a good thing. The reality of the situation just happens to be that people in general tend to express their gender identity via our current gender norms.

[@Electroshk]

I think a big part is also the person's comfort with their own body.

[@jdk5281]

When I was a little boy I dressed up as a girl to get attention from my sister's friends. My mom babysat like 2 or 3 girls in addition to my sister so I wanted attention or to join in on the fun. Makes for some embarrassing photos as a now married man. Good thing this happened decades ago rather than in today's society. Coulda lost my D bro!

[@Naskinlahtaaja]

@@jdk5281 psychologists don't diagnose gender dysphoria on kids because they sometimes wear dresses to get attention from girls, also SRS is not performed on underage people, so there was absolutely no risk of you losing your D.

[@jdk5281]

@@Naskinlahtaaja I was't referring to some nerd in a lab coat deciding to chop my D off. I was referring to having some SJW Mom push me into identifying as a girl and psychologically damaging me. I don't claim that's a universal experience of trans people though.

[@DarkestofTimes]

Ill be honest with you, there's a lot of specific communities of people out there who hate judgement but, are so quick to judge others. Just saying.

[@iwatchtoomuchyt9281]

*cough*most christians*cough*

[@urgamecshk]

Liberals

[@KS-yg9jr]

@@iwatchtoomuchyt9281 Nice easy target, bud. It's almost like you are afraid to call out any of the other *actually toxic* communities..... hmmm

[@n1c3s43]

Kos Stat you mean every religion ever?

[@Drarack]

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[@MerlinMerlout]

A lot of these things are contradictory and simply questioning it gets you silenced. Thanks for taking the hit for us Wubby!

[@timothyhall4794]

You're spot on Wubby, on all accounts. It's a very important thing to disclose, and it seems the people who wanna reject labels the most are always the first to label someone.

[@Ryan-0413]

Yeah, it’s funny how the people that want to “destroy stereotypes” are often the ones promoting stereotypes

[@urgamecshk]

Hi im a trans woman So lemme wear make up and pink dresses

[@PaulHofreiter]

Yes but it’s the stereotypes they agree with and want. Think otherwise? You’re a transphobe now.

[@Ryan-0413]

Paul Hofreiter Damn I hate when that happens

[@cruelcumber5317]

That's not really trans people's fault though. The reality is that a large portion of modern society doesn't see trans people as valid and as a result trans people need to participate in these stereotypical roles to convince the wider public/blend in so they don't get ostracized.

[@Tubeytime]

"As a man, I don't know what it FEELS like to be a man" THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING MY WHOLE FUCKING LIFE THANK YOU FOR BEING INTELLIGENT WUBBY.

[@joeharris6798]

I've been thinking about this and my best answer would probably be that I don't have or feel any doubt about the "label" that I've chosen to accept for myself. Because I've never doubted that, I can't explain what it feels like to doubt something so seemingly intrinsic about myself. It's not necessarily "feeling like a man". Rather it's not feeling any doubt about accepting the label of "man". The same would go for women about not feeling doubt about accepting the label of woman. A trans person would feel doubt about the label assumed to them, which is something completely foreign and difficult to understand for anyone not trans.

[@Naskinlahtaaja]

If you are confused about what gender identity is and what if feels like to have one, an easy way to look at it is to think whether it feels right or wrong to you if someone calls you 'a man'. If it doesn't feel right to you then you probably don't identify as a man, if someone calls you 'a woman' and it doesn't feel right to you then you probably don't identify as a woman. It is not as complicated as some people make it out to be, and one good way to look at it is to just compare it to other kinds of identity like national identity for example.

[@TheTacitusKilgore]

You're not wrong my developmental psychology professor said the exact same thing about having a transgender friend (male to female) who confided in her that "I've felt like woman my entire life" but my professor (sorry if my english is shit i just have shit grammar I'm not even retarded) said that she (as a biological woman) doesnt know what it means/feels to be a woman. It's perfectly okay to not conform to gender stereotypes/labels or be trans but just gonna be real youre just confirming to traditional opposite gender stereotypes and are making assumptions of what another gender is based on what you've been conditioned to believe.

[@Tubeytime]

@@Naskinlahtaaja It doesn't really matter what a person identifies as though, because their identity is only true in their own mind. It's an EXCLUSIVELY internal experience that can't be translated into words or transferred to another person... so calling yourself "X" or "Y" is a pointless exercise as far as anyone but you is concerned. Gender identity involves labels like Wubby said, which don't have any concrete guidelines as opposed to identifying someone's sex. Rather, YOU set the parameters on an individual basis and then categorize yourself accordingly. This leads to chaos because everyone has their own wildly different parameters.

[@Naskinlahtaaja]

@@Tubeytime what do you mean by "their identity is only true in their own mind"? Are being happy, sad, gay, straight, etc also pointless things because they are also internal experiences? I would say that gender identity acts as a strong predictor for peoples behavior, and knowing someones gender identity in addition to their sex is also useful information because that tells you if the person is trans or not.

[@mrmoonman384]

Exactly, by assuming that you’re transgender cos you like things typically liked by the opposite gender just reinforces gender stereotypes

[@Wowsers101]

Hahah you said it perfectly

[@expression3639]

Please read Sophia Alvarez' comment above yours. I used to think like you, but her comment really made me understand what the whole thing is about. Tl;dr : Associating with gender stereotypes is a necessary evil to alleviate body dismorphia for a lack of being able to magically change bodies. It's a very imperfect coping mechanism that does have the side-effect of reinforcing gender stereotypes. The key here is that it's a side effect rather than something that is actively sought.

[@mrmoonman384]

Existential Crisis I get that but know one seems to be able to explain that

[@mrmoonman384]

Expression used to think like me? Okay wow first of all I do support trans, I just said that trans reinforces gender stereotypes and if absolutely does when it doesn’t need to, I also believe trans should be handled differently on account of it having a huge suicide rate, there’s obviously something that needs to be addressed. And no, it’s not because they’re treated badly

[@niqerfaguettranykyke]

How exactly? How often do you see boys wearing nail polishes and dresses?

[@ClosetDemon]

ok, i think she was using stereotypical girl things to further show that she was always a girl. i don't like labels either but i push my more masculine side to show that i was and always will be a man. i'm not sure if this makes any sense but it's my explanation of it. also most people when they say they want to be free of labels they don't mean the labels themselves but rather the constraints put on them. all those things are stereotypical girl things, but that label shouldn't restrain boys from doing those things again i'm not sure if i make any sense lol

[@Black_pearl_adrift]

Oh damn yeah some might see it as kind of "overcompensating" but it's almost like course correcting. Like you were raised a certain way so you're taking on stereotypically masculine attributes to ease the disforia

[@emrahalien2972]

Nice name. Apart of the cult I see.

[@abimon76]

i think so as well. it's still stereotypes but it's kind of bittersweet because she just used them to prove she was a real girl. i wish she didn't have to prove it to anyone but thats just how things are rn

[@azfortuna9398]

Trans dude here, came into this video a little nervous tbh but i agree with everything you said. It bothered me too when she started the vid saying that she hated labels, the went on to say she's a woman cause she fit all the female stereotypes as a kid. Not trying to say she's not a valid trans person or anything, trying to explain why you're trans is really fucking tough actually. I never know how to answer it, but for me its more like physically stuff feels wrong. Its like if someone asked me why I'm right handed I will say that the average trans person you meet IRL(in my experience) are not nearly as extreme as the outspoken trans people online.

[@mrmoonman384]

Amen brother

[@frostfang1]

Honestly your right handed thing is the only thing any trans person has ever been able to say that makes sense to me. The mental part I dont understand at all. But the physical part makes sense. Like whats the behavior? For right or left handed it would be instinctual use of it for one handed activities, but for being trans? Like what's the situation/action? Is it like confusing left and right in your mind?

[@w00tkid]

When he said “I don’t know what it feels like to be a man” it really struck a chord with me. I honestly don’t know how that feels either. I can see why it’s so difficult for trans people to explain themselves in a way that makes sense.

[@azfortuna9398]

@@frostfang1 Rather than mixing the two, its kinda like youre right hand dominant but you were only born with a left hand. Something feels off but its hard to place for a long time, cause you only have your left hand. Its like i have this map in my brain of what should be there, and when its not its this weird imcomplete broken feeling, and like a gross feeling almost like youve been violated when you see stuff thats there that shouldnt be. Like i said its really fucking hard to explain, and im not speaking for all trans people here. Lot of people feel different ways

[@Sheechiibii]

@@azfortuna9398 That helps a lot. Thanks for sharing, it's a question I've wondered for a while too, it's hard to understand when there's no real point of reference but your analogy to right/left handedness makes a lot of sense.

[@magnusolsen691]

You have a sexual preference? That's transphobic.

[@strudelh]

Having a preference is fine as long as you're not bashing the opposite of your preference. 💁🏽‍♀️

[@jeremiahmcmullen4463]

Demon *This man is spitting straight facts here*

[@philatio1744]

Demon girls are cool, any girl is cool.

[@ThatAvery]

As a Trans person myself, I literally disclose at the moment of interest from a guy. I used to not tell anyone when dating when I was 16-19 because I thought they'd like me for me and it shouldn't matter but the fact is that is definitely DOES matter and doesn't make anyone transphobic if they aren't interested in you. That being said, you can always be transphobic to me Wubby, I still stan you :^)

[@mioriaa]

ThatAvery eww

[@samistrash6262]

@@mioriaa "Ewww you're one of _those_ people" -every idiot, school bully, or someone who harasses others to feel special ever (Sorry for not clarifying what I was trying to say, I forgot I cannot use sarcasm in text with no speaking tone. Whoops)

[@spookszn2426]

Sam Is Trash Hush

[@alexsimpson284]

The fuck's a stan,you some kinda jo-star

[@samistrash6262]

@@johnsmith5028 oh no im not aggreeing with you lmao I am trans I just didn't clarify what I was trying to say very well. Thanks for using my pronouns though, I appreciate it :)

[@dswmetals02]

I'm so glad to see the transgender people chime in and agree with wubby on this

[@jaybird7413]

As a trans man I totally agree with you! I would definitely tell someone I’m dating that I’m trans. You’re not transphobic at all

[@savageshot3723]

Are you going to get the surgery?

[@reservoir_flow]

@@savageshot3723 Fam you alright?

[@savageshot3723]

@@reservoir_flow Yes?

[@madi2203]

I'm only seeing "as a transman, I agree with you" in the comments, very respectful ones, yet no transwoman agrees and they're aggressive. Really tells which were socialized as boys and which were socialized as girls.

[@dddakotarose]

@@madi2203 Trans women also face violence at higher rates than trans men so they can be more sensitive towards being told they have to come out, which can be deadly for them

[@sopo2015]

I think those are great and valuable questions. From what I’ve understood about the trans community, it’s not just a surface level interest of wanting to play with gender stereotypical items (dolls, nail polish, etc.) Children who could grow up to become transgender do so because they want to physically identify themselves as the opposite gender, which they feel can only be done so by participating in these gender stereotypes. Children can also feel body dysphoria where they actively reject their genitalia by tucking or bindings and other gender identifying body parts (like hairstyles). Young children don’t know the language of how to express what they’re feeling, but they know that they feel out of place or like they’re in the wrong body. And an easy way for children to display their preferred gender is by doing easy things like nail polish and playing with their hairstyles, instead of being able to change their bodies physically with surgery like they might when they grow up.

[@Truegryphon]

Yeah, Nikki just used the dolls and all that because that is what society can most easily identify with. It's hard to describe what it means to be male and female for ANYONE, especially trans people. The words just do not exist in any language that I know, so going to the stereotypically gendered items like GI Joe's or Barbies keeps the discussion simple.

[@nicmartinez6775]

Sophia Alvarez this makes a lot of sense, thanks for sharing

[@Eb0nut]

I definitely agree with you. I was asked once to explain what masculinity feels like, and I couldn't put words to it. I could only describe things that masculine people stereotypically do. It makes sense why young children would do so as well.

[@hotjanuary]

Sebastian, you couldn’t describe it because masculinity doesn’t exist. Neither does femininity. Let’s stop pigeon holing personality traits into gender stereotypes.

[@papaskazoo5860]

Very well put!

[@ladysyberia7419]

"video on sunday" is monday my d00d. WHERE IS SHE. :(

[@wayedk1040]

tuesday now bud :( still waiting

[@abrahamparra3885]

It’s Wednesday now; is he dead?

[@giyokon]

damnit

[@TinyHouseOfHorrors]

👏👏

[@duppedoore]

THURSDAY

[@DeezN00tz99]

6:06 its the same with genderfluid people, they LABEL things that are supposedly male and female when nothing is, People who REE about labels are the ones who label the most.

[@blarghinatelazer9394]

Truuuuuuth.

[@colorbar.s]

the whole idea of being gender fluid has been disproven, though. it's just fluctuating dysphoria, and that's normal.

[@DeezN00tz99]

@@colorbar.s what im saying is nothing is gendered except having a penis and vagina, genderfluid people always complain "well i like dolls so i dont identify as a guy" or "well I dont like WOMEN things so I dont identify as a woman" but the things they are labeling "for men or women" arent for a certain gender, anyone can do whats not SEEN as sterotypical for them but that doesnt make those things for one gender or another, the only thing that makes those things gendered are people who assign them that.

[@souljaboyisbad]

@@colorbar.s source? i want to read this. I've had my doubts about gf

[@souljaboyisbad]

yeah with nonbinary in general, their claims are "oh we like some guy stuff and girl stuff, so we're nonbinary!"

[@ImaneSimps]

I‘m a girl and i‘ve never Played with Dolls, wore Nailpolish or wanted to wear dresses, but i‘m still a girl 🙃

[@LexieLouLou]

Preach. I played with "girls toys" until my mom had a boy. Then I realized I liked "boy toys" way more. Still a girl!

[@kellinxx1003]

everybody’s different 🤷‍♂️

[@spamosky]

Guard: "identify yourself" Me: "well, i like dolls and hairbrushes, but i don't like labels" Guard: "..."

[@Twasbrilllig]

Wow it's like children try to fit in with their friends and say they like stereotypical things because they don't know how to express femininity in a more holistic way yet.

[@spamosky]

@Krista Star I like cats but many of them must die to save the birds. Feral cat initiative 2020. Do your research or cease your investigations.

[@whitewillow899]

You’re 💯 right. Also using gender stereotypes to label yourself a gender is as ass backwards as people who say black people cant be racist.

[@froggobonano]

right honestly what if a black guy goes *in an indian accent* "hello and welcome to my convenience store" Like thats literally racist regardless whether or not you are black

[@WOLFGANG634]

Black people can’t be racist. They can be prejudice, but racist... Nope!!! Racism requires having the power to change the circumstances of the people you’re being racist towards. When have black people or any minority for that matter, have ever had the power, or social standing to oppress white society...? Hasn’t happened. Will most likely never happen. Find something else to do with your time, instead of grasping at straws so you can feel like you’re less of a bigot, because you’ve been “oppressed” too 🥺... Must be hard being white with no problems.

[@Gooble92]

@@WOLFGANG634 I feel sorry for you

[@youtubealtaccount7163]

I think its just a simpler way to explain gender dysphoria. I doubt she was trying to push stereotypical ideals onto women, I think she was trying to explain she feels she is in the wrong body. Gender Dysphoria is very complicated and very hard to explain; so I'm sure she thought that it was just the easiest way to explain it.

[@froggobonano]

@@WOLFGANG634 thats just false and you know it

[@fabusquish.undercover]

People get confused between masculine and feminine and male and female - there is a difference in male and female brains and bodies and so some characteristics are most common to each gender respectively. That being said, males can have feminine traits and females can have masculine traits, and just because someone can be a mixture of masculine and feminine, it does not mean they're a) a new gender b) the opposite gender or c) weird or wrong for being that way Relationships, I think, shouldn't be labelled the way they are anyway - if you like someone, you like them and I don't think it should be labelled differently based on the social groups you fit into

[@gaberobbins7996]

As a trans individual you’re so fucking valid and I vibe so hard with what you’re saying. I think even in the trans community there’s this huge rift where you “have to know when you’re a kid” and do what your preferred gender does, but there’s little of that that means anything. We were kids, we liked what we liked. I had hot wheels and barbies as a kid and still identify now as male. Your queries are valid and something I’m interested in hearing more about, truly. You’re obviously not transphobic, so 🤷‍♂️

[@ukmidnighter]

"What?" *confused face* Brilliant.

[@Osoros666]

honestly - your consistency with your opinions is what i truly love about you. no changing it with the wind or avoiding the uncomfortable

[@ShelliWelli]

Hey Wubby! trans person here. I know this video is old, but I thought I'd give my answer to that last question too - often "feeling" trans comes from dysphoria, or feeling uncomfortable with your body parts/secondary sexual characteristics to the point of distress. Dysphoria can also come from being uncomfortable with your social role, as a lot of gender perception (especially as a child) comes from what you're taught about gender from stereotypes/other people. I think she was trying to simplify it/make it easier to understand by just going with "i used to do this/that as a child", because kids are often taught those are the rules of boys/girls, and boy/girl children tend to play with those toys and do those things (as far as we're taught/what we observe). So yeah, labeling sucks, but I think there's some thought here in what she said that is hard to see without an explanation. I'd love to have a conversation given the chance, you seem like someone who just wants to be informed.

[@alexbojangles5007]

Yo, this is actually educational, thanks for teaching me

[@Josecannoli1209]

It’s still not ok to not tell some one before doing anything sexual.

[@ShelliWelli]

@@Josecannoli1209 i agree, though that wasn't what I was talking about - did you mean to reply to another comment?

[@Josecannoli1209]

@@ShelliWelli no I think it’s important to mention that is the whole purpose of the video and that fact remains the message. He may not be on the ball with everything but his intentions seem well and getting somthing else slightly wrong shouldn’t take away from the main point.

[@ShelliWelli]

@@Josecannoli1209 yeah I agree with that too. He did have this question though so I thought I'd answer it for him

[@Dunz0Washington]

"Classic wubby style" = no video when he says he's going to post it.

[@Venganza_]

Hey Wubby, I wanted to take a moment to try to answer your question near the end of the video (just after 6:00), as well as your followup comments about not know what it feels like to be a girl/boy. Full Disclosure: I am not trans, but I am gay. I'm extrapolating what I can from my experiences, as well as what I've heard from my trans friends and people online. The problem when trying to explain your gender or sexuality to someone (specifically why that is the way that it is, ie. why liking x thing makes you z gender) is that without firsthand experience, you have almost no way to understand what it truly feels like. I think your comment sums up the difficulties, in that you don't understand what it feels like to be a man, or what it may mean to be a woman. Since it's always been normal for you as a non-trans, you don't understand what it feels for it to not be correct (ie to be in the wrong body). What it comes down to is that the reason why someone knows they're trans, or gay, or bi, or whatever ends up being, because. They just felt that way. There isn't some magical reason for it; they just are, because. And again, that makes no goddamn sense without firsthand experience, so you can't really explain that to someone who doesn't know how it feels, so you often have to use these other (less) important reasons right liking nail polish, or dresses, or toy trucks, and trousers. Those are ideas that can at least make more sense to someone without the knowledge of it even if they aren't fully representative of the actual reasoning behind it. So tl;dr, Having reasons for being trans such as liking nail polish, or dresses, or long hair are explanations that can be understood enough by people without the firsthand experience of being trans, despite not being the real reason; The real reason basically being: because, they just know because they just "knew" that something was wrong.

[@mecca6801]

Well said!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Benjiiiii.]

could people be mis interpreting being transgender. ex: if someone doesn't feel good in their body could it be a effect of some other psychological disorder and not transgenderism.

[@Benjiiiii.]

@Turquoise Cheetah i think that if you aren't trans you aren't going to understand because most people are perfectly fine with their own gender.

[@Venganza_]

@Turquoise Cheetah This is why it's so hard to explain it, because if you have never experienced it than you can never understand it fully. It's just one of those things, unfortunately. I wish I had a better answer but that's the truth :/

[@GW8459]

I agree completely, you really just have to ask the person about their own experiences with it because each one's story is gonna be different. I would also like to add on for anyone else who reads this that there is a whole discussion/debate on body dysphoria which is the whole "wrong body" thing that everyone always refers to within the trans community itself that would probably expand knowledge on this subject for a lot of people if they looked into it. I would also like to add that surgery and hormones are kind of the treatment for body dysphoria but not all go through with surgery because of their own situations. (Source: best friend in 8th grade changed their name, then a year later came out as trans and explained it to my adolescent brain. Then met another trans person in 11th grade after they came out and they talked about their experience with body dysmorphia as well as body dysphoria.)

[@nothere3806]

5:20 its the same like non-binary tumblr people screaming how clothes and makeup and stuff doesnt have a gender category and then they post selfies wearing a cap, jeans and a tshirt ”felt masculine today” and the next day its a dress and makeup ”felt fem today✨”.

[@barnaby_bridges]

Things can have masculine or feminine characteristics, it doesn't mean they belong exclusively to either gender though.

[@sparquinn]

Gender expression and gender identity are different things

[@dochollywood4266]

absentsnail dear god shut the fuck up you sack of shit

[@MythicalPhoebe]

alot of trans people don't like being called trans. they want to live life as if they have always been their preferred Identity. they want to fit in and seem normal and they don't want to be recognized as trans. alot trans women just want people to think that they are normal women. so i get it when you don't want to tell people when you are first getting to know them, and it may be difficult to let them in on that if they do start to grow closer to you as a person because you are afraid it might turn them away from you. i get that. but it is also unfair to keep that information from someone you get romantically involved with. because they may aspire to have kids and they may get their hopes up for that sort of thing makes it worse for them when you have to break that news. especially if they don't prefer trans women, and it ends up hurting them psychologically, making them feel confused and betrayed.

[@lildad559]

I’m a certified mechanic amateur welder and have worked in concrete I’m one of the most stereotypical men I know yet I still let girls do my make up I I still play with dolls when around kids I still let girls do my nails yet I’m still a fully straight cis man born yet I’ll be labeled as a trans phone because I prefer not to date a trans person

[@antoinebugnicourt808]

@⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻ ⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻ why do you need to talk about it as a norm though?

[@antoinebugnicourt808]

@⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻ ⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻ sorry for the typo, just changed it to smth that I hope makes sense.

[@komaenen1359]

there is, after all, a very, very, very different experience having sex with someone who has a penis

[@GOLOSA8623]

Sus

[@sophdotcom]

5:12 As a cis woman, I really appreciate that you brought that up. Every time I try to start conversation with someone about this they jump to my neck immediately. Funny how that never is an actually trans woman. I get that this is a delicate theme so I'm sorry in advance. It confuses me that we are trying so hard to detach ourselves from the stereotypes and, in the process, make a world more inclusive were anybody can be whoever or do whatever they want. But every time I hear a story of a trans woman, they say that they feel like one because they wanted to play with dolls or makeup... or wear dresses. It almost feels insulting. Are we womans just dresses and makeup? If not... What makes a woman for those who want to transition? I understand that nobody owes me a response but I would really appreciate if somebody would like to talk!

[@BeastiezCyZ]

Um. Women are not just dresses and makeup. But the thing is many cis people only take a trans women seriously because they adhere to those sterotypes. Trans women are forced into a shit situation where they can't be themselves.

[@thejack544]

You're asking the right questions. Visit r/gendercritical for a community of women who will tell you the truth about what is going on.

[@andrewpaulakis7202]

@@thejack544 Wait, realtalk, isn't that the sub notorious for TERFs or am I mixing that up with something?

[@Sebastian-pl3xm]

Andrew Paulakis terf is a word to scare you into disregarding what someone is saying. You should go the rest of your life mentally replacing that word with “woman” and giving whatever they said a little more thought.

[@flerpaderp4397]

>truth fucking lol

[@cotati76]

Call me old fashioned but I’ve always thought that the foundation of a healthy relationship is that it’s built on trust and honesty. Not telling somebody you’re trans is the antithesis of being truthful and honest.

[@snif1029]

Eat apples

[@Walleggwp]

Hi, i want to get in a relationship with you.

[@derekgardner1861]

Thank you. Especially before sex

[@justinhenley8700]

What the fuck does this have to do with the video

[@rachaelburson8241]

Sooo Happy to see this. The conversation HAS to be open both ways!!

[@legoyoda324]

Yessss Papa Wubby has finally posted

[@JrChicano]

God has returned 🤣

[@legoyoda324]

Jr Chicano 1987 indeed he has

[@hatednyc]

Yo that's fuuucked. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. They need to be open. Some of us arent attracted to that

[@SutekiRedux]

Im trans and I agree with you, I want my partner to know that "hey, i dont have a dick" because just like me, they have a prefrence. maybe not everyone has a preference, but you cant hate someone for having one. I personally am attracted to other Trans Men like myself, im not interested in bio males, and im not attracted to trans women, but im atracted to bio females, everyone has a prefrence and thats okay

[@MadMrMatter]

Is there becoming a 'trend' of people being offended that another person was offended? "How dare you be bothered by that?! I'm bothered that you're bothered! You being bothered bothers me!"

[@tylerhayes4584]

MadMrMatter you’re transphobic

[@DrWiki-po1hk]

that's a very transphobic thing to say

[@PeachDragon]

MadMrMatter yes. Everyone wants to be mad about something, and that’s the way the world has started to become in the last 5-10 or so, and there isn’t anything *necessarily* wrong with that, but it’s when people do not let other opinions happen, that’s when it becomes an issue, or so I believe..

[@joshsimon794]

I think in this situation, being offended by someone being offended by your own personal preferences is justified

[@oiitssean]

Have you been living under a rock for over a decade. Being offended at things that have nothing to do with you is the hotness.

[@emilyblake4424]

I'm trans, and couldn't agree with you more.

[@Userdoesnotexit]

stick with what you are born with

[@FacePunchSammich]

Dream High Animation. Less expensive and less confusing that way

[@marmalade4389]

@@Userdoesnotexit why can't you just accept people for who they want to be?

[@zr_1234]

@Emily Blake It's not worth throwing lgbt people under the bus just to appease bad faith actors like this.

[@virtualmartini]

@@zr_1234 Wubby is not a bad faith actor.

[@mrwylli]

"I don´t know what it feels like to be a man" I couldn't help laughing

[@fenrirwolfbone9714]

Told a trans woman on Grindr that I'm gay and not interested in women. Got called a lot of colourful names cos I'm gay and not interested in women XD

[@keynation1712]

Would you ever date a masculinit trans

[@ppleeatpple]

@@keynation1712 do you mean trans man? as in a woman transitioning/transitioned to a man

[@jakobwest4811]

I'm a CIS guy and when I was a kid I played with "girls" toys all the time. My mom bought me the girls craft sets of snap bracelets and I painted my nails with my grandma. Nobody ever said "this is girl stuff but it's okay" or anything related to gender. I did it because it seemed cool to me as a kid and I'm glad my family responded the way they did.

[@charbladex]

Same, I grew up playing with my sisters barbie dolls and other stuff she had cuz my parents could only afford toys for one of us. But never once while playing did I go "I must be a girl let me change my sex permanently", nor was I ever told "you are a girl now because you played with barbie dolls".

[@xXxIMNOTANGELxXx]

Yeah but just because your family was cool about it, doesn't mean all families are. I have the same experience as you but with boyish stuff. It makes me sad that any family would ruin any child's fun by putting expectations on them.

[@---tw6qk]

Stop using fake words. Ur just neurotypical.

[@xXxIMNOTANGELxXx]

@Zelieouss I think he means "cis" but cis is a real word which describes people that aren't trans. Just some edgelord I guess..

[@xXxIMNOTANGELxXx]

@Turquoise Cheetah Well according to you "you're either mental or not" I present to you "you are either stupid or not" which you clearly are as you just said "cis is not a real word" while using it as a fucking word. Btw, it is a "real" word, it's defined, it's in a dictionary but I guess you wouldn't know what that was. And it describes... REAL people, such as me or you as it defines people who aren't trans. You dimwit. Cisgender- is a person who'se genetical biology matches with their gender identity Transgender - is a person who'se genetical biology doesn't match their gender identity. You meant to say "Gender identity isn't real." but you are too stupid to articulate your own thoughts for yourself so I have to do it for you. And since you are too stupid to convey your ideas properly, why should we take something from such a dead brainer like you?

[@beastrow2327]

Wow it's been so long I almost forgot this ginger Jew.

[@WaffleWizard]

JOIN THE STREAMS DUDE

[@yoro6000]

Anti Semite

[@hallara9605]

Come join us @ twitch.tv/paymoneywubby and you'll never forget about him again 🤔

[@felixlynch7327]

@@yoro6000 shut it down

[@Klovar]

HE'S GOT SOME JEWISH BLOOD

[@natejohnston9604]

man i slapped that notification so hard

[@totallybias2339]

I payed with barbies when I was a kid, mostly with my aunts (4years older). I’d say I’m a pretty manly dude lmao and I never understood why it was considered girly. I usually made them fight witch my aunts hated. But still played with them and had a hell of a time Glad my family never saw that and told me I’m was a girl or something... some scary things out there