Missy Scares Jase With a List & Miss Kay Divulges Lessons Learned From Her Grandmother | Ep 584

Miss Kay, Lisa and Missy join the podcast with their husbands to discuss football, marriage, forgiveness and their love of Jesus. Missy scares Jase with a little slip of paper that she brought with her to educate Jase on what they have in common. Lisa talks about the forgiveness that was shown to her, and how it helped to unravel a lie that she believed about herself from a very young age. Miss Kay talks about some lessons she learned from her grandmother and what she taught her about marriage and family. And Al quotes Missy on her hilarious sports commentary.
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[@CherylFortson]

Lisa is an amazing woman! May God bless her.

[@Tom30ad]

He among you who is without sin, let him cast the first stone

[@anj3595]

Lisa, I admire you so much. I have spent my entire life alongside “Christians” who have grown up in stable, happy, and loving homes. My conversion was real and life changing, but the sting of shame and past sin by my family and myself is, like David said, “ever before me”. I don’t think I could talk about it all the time. It might be a little easier for you, being in ministry.

[@shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657]

It is always great to see the wives on the podcast and tell stories and laugh and have a good time. What a beautiful family. Honest, real and vulnerable

[@lynngluth2486]

My heart always goes out to Lisa..it’s like she has to relive her indiscretion over and over. It seems like she should be able to leave it in the past now. Same with Phil, though, I guess. They are forgiven and I get the testimony part but it seems more like they are being judged or raked over the coals so to speak. I just wonder if both of them would like to be able to let it go now except maybe for occasionally counseling with people. It shouldn’t be their identity.

[@beckyshealthandwellnessjou4600]

I agree

[@chrissys5785]

I agree.

[@patriciacoponiti831]

I agree

[@aprilgosa5779]

Lynn Gluth their pasts are dead and buried once God forgives you he washes it away as if it never happened she owned up paid her price and asked forgiveness as did Phil but yeah I can see ho it may hurt them to talk about as they hurt people they love dearly and loved even then dep down Phil loved Miss Kay! But maybe I am just guessing . But maybe he just did not know how to be in a marriage maybe I mean they got married as teens thats not an excuse but could be a reason thankfully he turned it around at the young age of 28 and they restored their marriages he and Lisa its not excuse but Lisa felt neglected and she reacted badly instead of going to Alan and talking it out she allowed herself to be seduced by this other man it was not true love it temporary fulfillment she realizes that easy . they also married young not an excuse but it is what it is Jase married young and he did not do anything nor did Missy Willie and Korie talso married right out of High School and in College and they did ok. Except well Willie and Korie fought once and Willie stormed out its funny now because he was like I have no money and no place to go ! LOL it was a stupid fight probably between two college kids newly married they can laugh it off now ! But as painful as it may be to talk about Phil and Lisa and Alan can help a lot of people and now they have Phyliss who Kay refers to her as daughter which is beautiful to me so God made some good out of an otherwise sticky situation Jep is no longer the sister they never wanted! LOL😆😆😆 It was heartbreaking hearing Miss Kay talk about locking herself in her bathroom then contemplating taking pills to end her life she was so miserable but so sweet that her boys were at the door calling her and that saved her if I know Phil Robertson hearing that hurt him more than anything in this world ! Now not all young marriages are that extreme my grandma was 14 when she married grandpa my mother's parents he was not 14 she was and as far as I know they were happy happy happy all the way through he was 25 my Papa And Contrary to what some may think Phil and Kay are basically the same age he is 76 she is 74 do not believe google who said they were 4 years apart LOL some say she was 16 when she married others said he was 17 she was 16 when they started dating t but his birth year is 46 hers is 1947 . I looked it up they married in 1966 Alan was born in 1965 thats ok with me .

[@stephenkarla7113]

I agree.

[@maryhoward1338]

Lisa and Al are so open about their lives .Miss Kay’s determination and forgiveness really was an example for Al to fight for his marriage. Thank each of the Robertsons. Always a laugh with Jase and Missy. May God keep them strong and true witnesses til the end. Great podcast today!

[@aprilraymond-smiedy6055]

Do not forget the woman at the well. Jesus showed much Love and Compassion.

[@karic9805]

Thank you all for allowing us to see the vulnerable parts of your family. I love what Ms. Kay said… she learned because she sat with her grandmother and talked about this. I feel that you all are doing that with us. Yes it hurts my heart to see the scars from Satans attacks on you all but again, walking this out with us has been a huge testimony. Much love and respect to Lisa and Phil for sharing the deepest darkest places, for Al sharing about being a prodigal son and for Kay for having the wisdom to let God guide her.

[@michaelandrew1475]

Thank you God the Father and thank you Phil, Jase, Al, Miss Kay, Lisa, Missy God bless you and your Family in Jesus name Amen !! !!

[@vanmoody]

I am not a hunter or fisherman. But I really enjoy this family even when they are talking about these things.

[@pattilynch587]

Lisa, you are a strong woman. I enjoy hearing you speak.

[@bwms6879]

Also Thank you Lisa for your transparency in your background. Your background is similar to mine and I really appreciate it deeply. ❤

[@impishmisfits6960]

This is one of my favorite videos from yall. And trust me when I say I watch ALL OF THEM! Jase is so right .. its such a beautiful thing that Jesus has done in Al and Lisa's marriage. Our human minds cannot even begin to understand the power of the Lord! His vision is so much bigger than the picture we create in our minds. Satan will do anything he can, but God always turns it around for His Glory! Our achievements and our mistakes alike are FOR HIS GLORY! And we need to be reminded of this, daily! Awesome show guys!!!

[@kimmygoble8744]

Thank you for doing this post! I think it is so important that we need to go back to the teaching of how a godly marriage and family need to be. You have a platform and you are using it for God’s glory. I appreciate it so much. Praying for you and your family. Please keep sharing and don’t let your past sins condemn you from doing the work for God’s kingdom. So many people need to listen and be waking up from this lost world. Let’s start with one person, one marriage, and even one family coming to Jesus. Thank you! ❤😊🥰

[@chucksinger1916]

I love how Missy puts Jase in his place! Speaks the whole truth!❤️🙏🇺🇸

[@shellygriffin-fitzgerald9657]

So encouraging to hear Lisa speak about her past

[@bettyjo5024]

Every marriage has its ups and downs. Love it when the ladies are on. But good example of three different marriages and how each of you handle it with God help, your faith, your patience, and forgiveness. I have been in a marriage pretty close like Ms Kay, dealt with things like Lisa. Missy and Jase marriage is rare. I loved all of your in puts of marriage but some marriage need to end at times when its takes you to dark places of abuse. And its ok to and pray to our Lord to guide us on our journey. I raised my children the best I could and will never get married again but that is my choice. Bless you all.

[@emilyreilly2606]

Thanks for sharing your testimonies and Godly wisdom. I have been struggling with understanding marriage and relationships. Because, I grew up in a domestic violence family plus spiritual abuse by the church. And it has really messed up my thought process. Also It has brought me to a point that I am so scared to be in a relationship of any kind. Just because I am afraid that I will act in a un-Godly manner and mess it up. Or no one will expect me and my past or present of the burdens that I am carrying because I am not a cookie cutter christian. But listening to Godly encouragement from you guys has been refreshing. If you all could please pray for me that would be greatly appreciated.

[@leann4925]

I really enjoyed this and as always fun to watch Miss Kay, Lisa and Missy. Great subject matter.

[@karlaelia4275]

When I look at the patience I need with my kid, I think of how much more patient God is with me. But I like how Missy put it, that looking at a child’s love and forgiveness is also an example of how I need to be. Blessings to you all.

[@GayleSchlaefli]

Thank you for your truth telling and transparency. God is good.

[@aleydaalvarenga9976]

I applaud Lisa. Powerful testimony and VICTORY in her life, in her marriage, and for her family made possible by the Lord's grace. Praise Him for the HOPE we have in Him and the HEALING that He brings from those scars inflicted by others.

[@happydaylike4342]

Isn't interesting that they learned from Lisa that forgiveness and Love is the way. I mean who are you to judge her or anyone. You are there to teach the love of God Remember Mary Magdalene. Look what Jesus did for her. Missy and the family defense mechanisms are toward Lisa is your issues not her issues. Our first should be love for those hurting, but our knee jerk worldly ungodly mind set is egoistic is not godly or love or forgiveness. We have to learn to be conscious of our thoughts and actions and not walk around in rose colored glasses. That's all I wanted to say. I really enjoyed this discussion. I am twice divorced and felt the ungodly attitude towards me in Bible class with a bunch of married couples. I also know that God sees everything and makes everything right. Blessings to all.

[@thegoodonez84]

Thank you Robertson family for taking the time out of your day to teach us the good news in computer land

[@joanwiuff3230]

so good to see Missy and Kay!!

[@patrickamcguire8749]

I have to say, I didn't appreciate Missy during duck dynasty. I thought she was just a snobby city girl. But I see she has deep wisdom and love for God and her family.

[@lynnelovett8999]

Good podcast with the ladies. Thank you. Would of loved hearing more from Ms Kay and Mr. Phil.

[@shannoncassar9141]

Lisa you and I had the same life. I have struggled and still struggle. It's a difficult road when adults don't have Jesus in their lives.

[@GoTellJesusSaves]

Excellent talk! Thank you all for sharing your stories with us. Is so uplifting and encouraging to us who are going through the struggles of life.

[@cassandraapollo8656]

Thank you Lisa for sharing!!!

[@clariemorales1246]

I love how you treat and love mom.❤❤

[@doreenhuston9623]

I admire Kay and Alan for being able to forgive, change and stay in their marriage, probably more so than some because I could not do it. I forgave in time, but did not feel the same afterwards. I did not want him. I was in turmoil because I believed marriage was forever, yet I could not get past what he had done. I divorced in 1986 with 6 month old, 2 and 4 year old boys and have never remarried. I don’t think I ever will because I know I could not take that vow knowing if he cheated it would be over for me.

[@bwms6879]

Love that Missy shared the list of what you have in common with Jase as a couple and what you care about. ❤ I want to do that with my husband now😉

[@lizkingbradley]

One of the things I love most, because it manifests how complete Jesus’ redeeming power is, is the way Phil and others talk plainly about past sins without shame. “Unashamed” because of Jesus, is the message I always get from it. I’m so profoundly grateful for the courage these guys exercise and the integrity they live in to their commitment and faith in God. The family that can talk about their weaknesses openly because they know Jesus’ perfection, not their own, is their salvation and their hope is one where love can abound because it’s founded on God and He IS love. Trust in Jesus is the foundation for love. The profound forgiveness that occurs when Jesus is the focus, not ourselves and/or each other. That is what I always come away with when I watch or listen to their stories and the way they live together.

[@dawnwilburn6585]

I feel so sorry for Lisa. She seems very remorseful and was pouring out her heart but Missy is so hard on her. I won’t listen anymore if Missy is in it. Completely turned me off.

[@tbird1968]

Agree! Pride comes before a fall, and Missy exudes pride (not to mention outright meanness) I feel sorry for Lisa, too.

[@w5mav]

Always enjoy it when the Robertson ladies share their insight. Blessings to all.

[@allynoelani]

Always enjoy when the wives are on the podcast!

[@angiemckinney4177]

Good show! Would love to hear more from Kay and Phil❣️

[@nn-gr7kw]

🙏💫

[@teresafoster2562]

Love all of yall. Thanks for sharing your wisdom and the word of God. Love that yall are all very real.

[@sharonscain7673]

Great podcast!

[@karlaelia4275]

How strong are these women to be able to share like they do to help others? As always the Robertson women are awesome !

[@---wu3qj]

The reason to stay in your marriage is to obey God above your own desires and to glorify Him when you get on your face, cry out to Him, and are willing to die to your flesh and love your spouse anyway! God will bless you !

[@Pam50315]

Very good podcast. Thank You

[@kathyturner3341]

I'm from Bama ,but love all of yall!

[@bpeper98]

Totally agree with Missy.

[@traceyreid8233]

So I'm listening to this on marriage, and right now, I'm separated from my husband because I couldn't take some of the things that were going on and the way he talked to me. It was like getting hit with knives. But I refuse to get divorced, and I'm still praying for him.

[@carlenehiggins1691]

If I had one wish before I died I could sit down with this family and visit for a Afternoon! Phil and my husband could watch foot ball and Mrs Kay and I could visit. Or Bible study. I ad.ire the whole family so much!

[@thinebiggest]

Another wonderful episode. Wishful thinking is to have the girls with a podcast of their own! Al's head is getting rounder and rounder and rounder...

[@bobbieleland7687]

People need to hear this, forgiveness is beautiful. The devil lies. Broken people believe the devil.

[@---wu3qj]

If God spoke this world into existence, parted the Red Sea, and raised Lazarus from the dead, he can heal your dead marriage! I know it from experience. Praise the Lord!

[@sheilamynatt1180]

My grandfather sat down with me and my husband before we got married and said give me 5 reasons y’all should get married and you can’t say bc I love him/her. My 5 reasons Bc he makes me feel safe Bc he has a good work ethic Bc he accepts my past without judgement (child sexual abuse which my grandfather knew nothing about) Bc he makes me laugh and evens out my serious side. His reasons Bc she ousted me gently to be a better man Bc she helps me see their is more to life than work Bc she supports my dreams Bc she is one of the most unselfish people I have ever met Bc I want her to be the mother of my children and until her I never wanted kids bc I could not see myself being a good father. That list has been a reminder for 30+ years of why we are married.

[@chacharobbins-hg2un]

I agree with Missi about the kicker in NFL. Agree

[@jjbures410]

Finally someone else who knows that 1+1 doesn't always equal 2.

[@beachymamaadventures]

I need Phil’s jambalaya recipe! I need him to go through the step by step process again 😆 😂

[@evantriesstuff924]

Good job Missy! That was awesome with the list.

[@melmore1405]

I agree with Missy. I do not think a kicker should ever miss the goal posts. And a basketball player should never miss a free throw.

[@paulklemer]

How can someone can be this possessed with football is beyond me Jack!!!

[@billcapps1397]

Don't judge Jack!!!

[@howlingwaters2741]

Don't rub it in too much. There will be recompense.

[@marymoore9986]

Love! "Football is more than a game..."

[@sarahball-ruck846]

This was so very good. Really good content thank you👏👏👏 am a huge 'Unashamed' fan & faithful listener who doesn't fit your audience type (demographic) cuz female who has interest in or experience with duck hunting or golf or treasure hunting & never been to LA ... but love Jesus & my family 😘

[@aprilraymond-smiedy6055]

I fought for a relationship for 12 years, that first 'marriage ' wasn't at all close to a real marriage. My Ex was physically, mentally and emotionally abusive. I now have a husband who loves me truly.

[@KC2BKM]

I watched old footage of Phil playing against Ken " The Snake" Stabler and Brett Farve had nothing on Phil for being a "Gunslinger" That old boy had a cannon for an arm and could scramble with the best. I am no expert but it was impressive for a college player.

[@tinydancer36]

Wow...I haven't heard the name "Ken Stabler" in decades. I remember his comeback way back in the day...in his 40's, which was unheard of then. Yup...I'm officially OLD!

[@donnawalker902]

I agree, Missy (and Jase) seemed hard on Lisa, but they have been sister-in-laws for many years, so maybe they have talked about this situation.

[@j.etheredge7628]

Missy, add to your list "The Chosen"😂

[@maryjanedowns49]

Can't wait

[@lmumma1]

Jase and Missy have so much more in common than Jase let’s on.

[@tommyjones5793]

That Missy is sharp as a tack

[@Thestargazer56]

I just got back from church meeting Uncle Si!

[@vanmoody]

I am a huge Indiana University basketball fan and get quite loud. My 2 yr old grandson will cry because I scare him. Maybe that is not a real bad thing? But I do have to console him.

[@bonniewingard571]

If Mom... is over.. yes, then me too!

[@SamsquanchShenanigans]

I think we can add another thing to missy’s list. Both Jase and Missy are definitely talkers. Don’t get me wrong it’s not like they are the people who talk and have nothing to say, however, podcasts usually consist of 90% of it is Jase talking with Al and Phil splitting the last 10% usually in a 7/3% ratio depending on the day. I wish Al would talk more tho because he does have A LOT of really great insight but barely gets to talk or gets cut off a lot and Jase is back chasing the bunny down the trail again 😂

[@debbieshort5300]

Missy seems to be very opinionated. Al and Lisa are very down to earth and seem like such nice people. Missy and Jase a little judgements.

[@kristyjennings-rebarjinkie3078]

I agree with Missy, a kicker should not miss lol

[@aprilraymond-smiedy6055]

My husband now we have been married since 2003.

[@kevinunger433]

Awesome show. Great to see the ladies again. God bless you all.

[@sedoniakrieger7832]

God us good, he is the beginning and the end.🙏🙏🙏

[@corrineadams4857]

Okay......I'm with Missy ! That's why it's called a FREE THROW !!!!

[@chatchatham9472]

War Eagle! Congratulations!

[@diycookingwithconnie6248]

I’m with Missy on the kickers. If you got paid 500 a week then ok but not what they get paid and they got no other job, no running plays, no defending the quarterback, just kick the ball.

[@Profabdesigns]

I turned on this Podcast and a darn post game review brokeout!! 😆

[@jessmesscreations2730]

The world will tell you that they want to see you sucseed but in truth it doesn't. I heart people be happy and congratulat my marriage of 13 years but it wasn't two weeks after that I was hearing you need to leave him, you duserve better, you duserve to be happy. That was the world working against God's doing. I truly believe God put my husband and I together. Now with saying all of that I had started to let the world slowly creep in. I started to talk to men and flurt in mind thinking they are just friends. Then it moved on to truly flurting and starting to build a relationship with another person. Though I had not done anything physicly everything had started mentally and emotionally. My husband could have said yes I'll take the divorce but he didn't he turned to a church that we had not been to in a long time and that was after going to our home church for help. Our home church now got us un right away and councled us. My husband fully turned to the Lord and believe in the proses of our healing and our marriage healing. Do I still cry sometimes when sharing yes but it gets easier every time. I also know that God is using my poor choices to help others in the process.. He has thought others through me. My husband and I have been married for 14 years I've been asked to help with 4-5th grade Sunday school class and I'm struggling with that do to feeling unworthy of such a blessing as to work with children.

[@angelinaa122]

I’m 20 and single. I have been struggling with the idea of marriage. Does the lord have a specific person for you in mind? Or do we marry someone who we share our Godly values with and the Lord will use your relationship to glorify him?

[@robertaskew293]

Honestly I think I’m dying.

[@aprilraymond-smiedy6055]

God says pride goes before a fall. We are to be humble and obey,, What does Jesus say and He is our example.

[@nelymarcantel4965]

Jase struck a nerve with me when he said we love Louisiana so support our team. Nothing burns my hide like somebody born and raised in Louisiana and has the nerve to support Alabama.

[@user-bk3wi9mn7e]

So Missy, I should have stayed in abusive marriage for the rest of my life, and die? 34 years I gave, and all he did was abuse me more. Unless you've been there, best not to judge. This statement really hurt me.

[@bonniewingard571]

Hay guy, you're lucky she had you..♥️

[@robertaskew293]

I wasn’t attacking anyone I was listening and trying just like always it ain’t good enough.

[@bonniewingard571]

Hay guy. Didn't like when you said to Mom. you're lucky to be anywhere! " I didn't get it! son

[@anj3595]

I am the same, Missy!!! I just cannot understand how many field goals are missed to lose the game. I always say, “ any game can be won or lost on one field goal”. I am a Tennessee fan.

[@TheCravenIsReal]

Perfect opportunity (lost?) post covid era to leave off all the pagan-inspired love for game/teams etc. Looks like we're dropping the ball...

[@RockinStacy]

Good grief!

[@Thyme2dream]

Well done with the list Missy! To be fair, I have always felt like Jase was being more self-deprecating rather than critical when he brought that up, but it never hurts to set the record straight. (and yes, I figure Jase won’t know that longer than a scrabble word term, but am sure Missy does and can explain it to him if they end up reading or hearing about my comment, lol)

[@theresathompson1029]

Missy a real great book on history is "Twisted Unto Destruction" written by Donald J Johnson

[@joeyjohnson4826]

I agree with Missy you should never miss a conversion as a pro kicker at least. anything within 50 yards you should almost never miss. if you're a kicker and nobody knows who you are you're very successful as soon as people are saying your name it's most likely cuz you screwed up 😂

[@BamaDad]

With two sons who are graduates of Alabama I congratulate LSU on the win. I am a die hard Crimson Tide Fan, and until this year a big fan of Nick Sabin. However that being said he may be getting old, with his siding with several "Woke" trends in the past couple of years I am finding it hard to be such a Sabin fan. It seems like the unity he instilled in the team prior to 2020 has been lost. Their has been a great emphasis put on individualism. This is an extremely team dependent sport and there is no room for this politically correct nonsense. I know he is afraid of not being able to recruit from his usual haunts unless he is copacetic to the morays of the woke agenda, but it is showing in their on-field performance.

[@aprilraymond-smiedy6055]

The Holy Spirit is the one who changes us. Jesus sent the Holy Spirit.

[@nathanmieure4071]

Roll Tide! But it was a good game. And LSU truly beat us. We’ll be back Next Year! 😆

[@78twood]

I wish I could have stayed in my marriage of 19 years. The Bible gives us the exception of infidelity as far as a reason for divorce. The Lord knows whether a man or woman will accept Him and stop that particular sin. Unfortunately my husband chose the opposite although given every opportunity to NOT divorce. Infidelity can absolutely destroy the marriage partner. I’m SO glad papa Phil chose the Lord 💜 ALSO, in matters of physical and mental abuse or the like, you CAN separate and demand the partner get counseling before they can come back into the home!!

[@bonniewingard571]

I'd Mom is over it, I'll consider being over it 🌿

[@ellamarie9709]

As an Auburn alumni, I’m so happy LSU beat AL. 😆

[@CowGirlKat8691]

✟ “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” ~Genesis 1:27 (KJV)

[@johnneu1149]

Not if you're a jets fan lollol