MJ & Jessenia Get Heated | The Bachelor

Matt delivers a card requesting to see MJ & Jessenia ahead of the cocktail party, in order to gain clarity on the pair. Find out how it ends next Monday 8|7c on ABC, streaming, on-demand, and Hulu.
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[@raquelsmith453]

This is 10000% gaslighting. Not only does MJ takes zero responsibility, but she shifts the blame onto Jessenia as if its all her fault that this is happening. I have not once seen her practicing harmony and peace, let alone PREACHING IT. I thought MJ was cool the first 2 episodes, but her true mean girl colors started to show and now she is just angry that she got called out.

[@hillaryedwards567]

Kelly! So true, MJ trying to use reverse psychology!

[@mirandayanka7430]

I liked her too at first then how I saw her acting like a mean girl too Sarah it really turned me off from her. And I didn’t even like Sarah ether lol.

[@bkopgamer]

MJ is really pissing me off as well.

[@amber7245]

Preach!! I’m so appalled at MJ’s behavior.

[@cols8930]

@@amber7245 Not appalled at MJ's behavior at all, she has been nasty to Sarah and snickering at Victoria and Anna

[@Momoko4ever1]

I think it’s just rude how MJ doesn’t let jessenia finished when jessenia listened to everything. Lol

[@patsamuel9472]

When she said are you done and she said yes that should have been the end do say another word completely ignore

[@speedude0164]

Jessenia knew she didn't need to say that much. MJ was just gonna K.O. herself.

[@prettybinx]

Jessenia participated in the bullying too though?

[@whoopsie890]

@@prettybinx Ya I think the producers pushed Jessenia to confront M.J.

[@sakura360ify]

@@prettybinx she was complicit when she didn’t call out MJ that night & i remember her laughing saying “i just love us” after katie tried to shut them down but that could be the editing. the show is trying to paint a clear storyline & are in charge of every laugh, movement, sound bites we see and hear. but at the end of the day, MJ is worse- like far worse than Jessenia being in a mood.

[@amy-chrisdelbasso4306]

“You’ll find out the truth when this all airs, and so will he.” -Jessenia BEST 👏🏻LINE 👏🏻OF 👏🏻THE 👏🏻NIGHT👏🏻

[@theextralifewithethan4846]

Period

[@karries6342]

Not really. Just hype

[@lakab2]

MJ talked over Jessenia first. They're also speaking at the same volume, so I don't know why she says Jessenia is being "loud." Just because you look like a hippie and preach out "peace and harmony" doesn't absolve you from being a nasty mean girl.

[@bkopgamer]

That’s absolutely true. MJ was also part of the Sarah situation too by supporting Victoria’s bullying.

[@zeynand4039]

exactly. thats a karen move. pretend like the other person is agressive or loud and she is the innocent one, no Mj. we see you. You just played yourself.

[@camicollantes2091]

I really need to take notes as to how to approach a bully from Jessenia. So classy, confident, and straight up to the point. We need more Jessenias in this world. SHE DID NOT STUTTER!!!!!

[@Mellissaruizpa]

Yesssss she’s goals!

[@chiebukannajiofor8228]

Yes I’m so proud of her!

[@Levelheads4421]

Yeahhhh I missed bits of tonight’s episode but I was a little confused that Jessenia was calling her out when she was kind of encouraging it all throughout. Still glad she’s calling it out though bc MJ needs to go

[@vanessagraciousgift]

💖💖🙌🏽🙌🏽💯 Agreed!

[@pluto31337]

Yes!! I really like Jessenia now

[@lalithaviswanathan6495]

team jessenia 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@Payne_Inc.]

🥂

[@jessenialema5286]

PURRRR MY NAME IS JESSENIA

[@kialivue]

“I didn’t put your character into question. Your actions did.” 👏🏾 👏🏾 Go Jessenia!

[@vanessagraciousgift]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@purplecheesecake496]

Callate

[@bkopgamer]

Time for MJ to be sent packing because she was also part of the bully squad along with Victoria and Ana.

[@kialivue]

@@purplecheesecake496 You callate.

[@SP-sx2zi]

This made me respect Jessenia so much. She approached this so maturely and MJ completely fell for the immature route. MJ needs to go home, terrible character and toxic af!

[@patsamuel9472]

I believe mj will make her exit next episode

[@soledadvalencia2641]

I love how unbothered Jessenia is. MJ is fuming because she knows Jessenia is right. All I have seen from MJ is arrogance, rudeness, and her being judgmental.

[@fire66rox]

The soul of Victoria now lives in the body of MJ. It’s like she never left

[@yugioh5652]

😅

[@luv2467]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@user-uy5nz8qv8w]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@patsamuel9472]

😁😂

[@samanthasau4086]

Omg I was thinking the same!!! So true

[@Slayfire23]

I love that Jessenia mentions when things get aired because she isn’t wrong. MJ is a liar, she did say there is no toxicity but there is and MJ was the one to mention the varsity ...

[@christinanatarelli8827]

You saw how quickly MJ got quiet and looked down when she said that. She knows it’s true lol

[@SarahGrace221]

But, it was right after Jessenia said "I just love us". She was right in the middle of it for a while. Kit was too. If he was going to send people home for even the smaller parts of this most of the older girls would have to go home.

[@Slayfire23]

@@SarahGrace221 that’s very true too I totally forgot about that. You’re right.

[@sxwriter8569]

@@SarahGrace221 In Jessenia’s defense, she probably meant she loved having the og girls and was getting used to knowing them more but she wasn’t toxic about it, that was more on Serena C and Kit if you’re looking for toxic micros

[@mel8714]

Now that anna and victoria is gone, mj needs to go too!!

[@ohheychristinax]

And Serena C!

[@gracechapman559]

The bullies are Anna, Victoria & mj

[@reesesager2273]

yess

[@elenajoseph6630]

@@ohheychristinax kit too. she’s part of their clique

[@HayleyMarie814]

yes! mean girls always finish last

[@ashlynnbarrera]

“you’ll find out the truth when this all airs and so will he” DRAG HER JESSENIA

[@luv2467]

Lol 💜’d it

[@LisaGallegos]

Yassss

[@elm457]

Mic drop!!!

[@gdesiree29]

Women tell all

[@dt9538]

women tell all is gonna be the final nail in the coffin woo!!!

[@cookiesarelikecream]

MJ is a KAREN!!!! Notice the microaggressions when she called another WOC “loud” and told her to “stop talking over her” when MJ was the one talking over her. What a manipulative gaslighter! Jessenia is a beautiful, poised women and I feel bad that she was in that situation.

[@daisygomez4408]

That’s the same feeling I got. You can tell she has a Karen superiority complex. Yuck!!! Jesenia listened the whole time staying quiet, this MJ chick was appalled that Jesenia would talk over her.

[@kybunnii]

She is a total Karen!!!

[@SupernaturalLove100]

Yup! Thank you! 👏🏾

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

can someone please explain the term "karen" :) is this slang for "gaslighting"?

[@cmalol]

@@milwaukeemotor5995 look up Karen compilations on KZbin and enjoy 😂

[@bbysammie]

"i preach harmony, peace.." MJ forgetting everything she's been saying is recorded lol. I don't think she was intending to be mean to the new arrivals but she def could've approached this convo differently.

[@ll2323]

literally displaying the exact opposite of what shes saying.

[@melissapelletier2138]

She’s must be embarrassed now. 😳

[@arsh6027]

ikr! the new arrivals didn't choose when to come smh

[@allell8852]

😂😂😂 MJ is just a bully

[@vanessagraciousgift]

😂😂😂😂 exactly! 100% agree!

[@divatashi]

MJ literally talks over her and gets pissed when Jessenia talks over her back lol

[@graceramey4443]

It wasn't just the jv varsity comment she made. It was her entire demeanor to the new girls that she was more entitled than them

[@vliciouss]

And when she said ‘you’re done’. The intimidation... smh

[@kjohansson23]

Yeah but honestly she was not the only one. Several of the Og:s behaved the same way.

[@sakura360ify]

@@kjohansson23 Yeah a lot of them were made, and I understand the frustration because more women = less time with Matt & jealousy happens. But MJ was doing more than most, and it was awful... Jessenia could probably own up to not telling the girls to relax instead of just giggling along but MJ quite literally can’t own up to her actions and is gaslighting her. What we saw of Jessenia could’ve been editing- the editing from that date after party was spliced.

[@roseseivers6291]

“that’s why her hair is so big... it’s full of secrets” i’m sorry i had to 😭😭

[@survivinglife101]

“I didn’t put your character in question, your actions did!”👏🏾

[@sybilmacy7893]

*talks over Jessenia* “Don’t talk over me Jessenia”

[@emz9688]

MJ: “I’m done” *Jessenia speaks* MJ: “STOP TALKING OVER ME”

[@bophah4990]

This is how I wish Marilyn spoke to Victoria, but she was so sweet and soft - it was painful to watch BUT THISSS! I love how Jessenia stands her ground.

[@Yentra163]

BOTH her and Victoria are certified NARCISISTS. GASLIGHTING, LYING, CRAZY EGOTISTICAL SOCIOPATHS!

[@dianeh4058]

love how she looked at the camera

[@bophah4990]

lol I know that was so great.

[@JamieRose25]

When? What time?

[@scarsstitches636]

Sadly a lot of the girls on this show forget that eventually EVERYONE will be watching EVERYTHING.

[@renahagley6998]

@@JamieRose25 @ 2:01

[@beccabraiman]

when Jessenia is like “okay,” looks directly at the camera, and laughs? I YELLED lmaooo

[@javierav8930]

I need this girls (Jessenia) confidence to be able to confront someone without getting emotionally overwhelmed.

[@nicknatters]

Literally mj is taking no responsibility

[@lizzymcaffrey]

Jessenia's little smirk at the camera was perfection

[@nylal493]

“We’re here because of your actions right now” oh my god THE GASLIGHTING

[@DanA-zf8bt]

MJ: **Talks over Jessenia** Also MJ: sToP tAlKiNg OvEr Me

[@emz9688]

She’s a clown

[@yume816]

MJ, I’ve never seen a girl on Bachelor so unaware.

[@KaitCervi]

Victoria?

[@JewelryLegends]

Have you not seen Victoria? 🤪

[@austinpearce5442]

@@JewelryLegends every Victoria that comes on this show is toxic

[@krystastout330]

I wonder how many of these bullies are going to blame their disrespect on the editing? 🤔

[@tiffanyk.1955]

I can't wait for the women tell all and MJ is going to look goofy with those flashbacks LOL

[@Danieei]

Right! I’m ready for it lmao

[@tiffanyk.1955]

@@Danieei a lot of these girls are about to be put in their place & get booed at by the audience 🤣🤣

[@diamcole]

MJ isn’t as good at flipping the script as she thinks she is. It’s all been recorded girl, how are you going to lie your way out of this? 😂😂😂

[@COTY2015]

So MJ is next to go right? Okay cool.

[@peterkaregianes9371]

Yup

[@NWIndianaElevators]

Yes

[@Lee-wb8mt]

“I have never been more hurt in my life.” You must have had a very easy life up until this point.

[@phuongtran4262]

good job for sticking up to MJ!!

[@chellegrace2784]

Just got into an argument with my fiancé after watching the show and I just had to summon my inner Katie and Jessenia! And off course it helped! Thank you ladies!

[@janeryan2709]

LMAAAOOOOO okay it's been one day since you commented. Go hug your fiancé now!

[@chellegrace2784]

@@janeryan2709 hahahaha, we we're both hungry, so food quickly solved the situation 😋

[@Blueeyesinthesky]

Ayyyeee

[@loginamin]

I love jessenias energy she said what she said and laughed about it that’s queen energy. I strive for that.

[@jeng5911]

Stop talking over me as she interrupts her and tries to over talk Jessenia

[@jodietorio3359]

Jessenia is also a bully . She bullied heather and sara . She only came for mj so she can look good for Matt .

[@rileypugh_16]

Mj HAS to go! She is a mini Victoria!

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Jessenia and Katie are golden. That's the comment

[@BrigitteChaichana]

YESSSSS the bully can’t handle the truth. MJ has been preaching harmony?? Lmao ok harmony in bullying others yeah.

[@gdesiree29]

Its crazy how girls deny what they say but its all on film and camera lol

[@sassygurl8615]

“Stop talking over me” OH MY GOD... YOU WERE DOING IT FIRST

[@ll2323]

MJ doesn't understand what character means lol

[@centigradz]

wow I love Jessenia. so calm and cool and straight forward. go girl.

[@brittanya7812]

The only person who put MJ there was MJ's BIG mouth. She is so utterly childish.

[@jennifer.martin.48]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽“You’ll find out the truth when this all airs!” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@kenzmaddoc1975]

Okay but they are both mean girls. Play back the clip when Katie is trying to defend the new comers and Jessenia LAUGHED at the varsity joke and then said “I just love us”. Her claiming innocence is just as annoying and hypocritical.

[@brookeheise895]

I’m def no fan of MJ but did everyone forget about Jessenia participating in the girls attacking Sarah and also was making comments about the new girls and saying “I just love us” and laughing when there was a negative conversation about the new girls?

[@hannaheaton815]

Everyone else missed that I guess.

[@SHELi44]

this is the best scene i've ever watched from any bachelor episodes

[@newguy32]

Girl looked straight at the camera with a laugh and "k" damn. I'm dead

[@TheChosenSeer]

MJ is accusing ppl of doing things that SHE does!! She did it with such ease it’s scary. She is a master manipulator and plenty of other things.

[@sydneygambrell5278]

It’s like “okay now that Victoria and Anna are gone and here comes MJ” GOD SHES ANNOYING

[@julierocky9993]

Didn’t Jess laugh along when MJ made that comment?

[@jackalsdole]

Questioning Jessenia’s true intentions here. If you go back and watch the episode where the new girls came in, Jessenia laughed at MJ’s “JV vs Varsity” jokes, and said “I just love us” further validating all the bullies. She seems to throw MJ under the bus fairly quick and flipped stances completely.

[@dt9538]

that scene was super edited. that could’ve been taken out of context.

[@jackalsdole]

@@dt9538 Did you watch last night’s episode and her treatment with Heather? Still think Jessenia’s attitude is all taken out of context?

[@Lizlemonbuthotter926]

does anyone else remember jessenia saying "lol i just love us" when katie confronted the group about being rude to the new girls? like pretty much every girl there was a bully of some sort to those new girls besides our girl Katie!

[@laurenlee99]

That was Serena c not Jessenia saying that

[@tjc2121]

That whole scene take with a grain of salt. Bc it edited it to make them all look like they are laughing at the new girls but that scene is so cut up you scene 5 different girls sitting by mj. So they could be laughing at something else and that "i just love us" could have a totally different meaning.

[@Lizlemonbuthotter926]

@@tjc2121 soo true. this season really is 100% all about the drama and nothing else

[@Lizlemonbuthotter926]

@@laurenlee99 I replied with a link but it wont let me post it i guess. it was jessenia

[@ceeaich]

You see the truth hit MJ when she's reminded that they're being filmed, and tries to hide it with, "That's c-cute. That's a childish thing to say." Um, actually, it's reality so... I think MJ did pretty well in high school and is still stuck there.

[@sdmajesty]

PLEASE LET JESSENIA GET THE ROSE

[@JuliaSully]

If only MJ’s personality was just as beautiful as her hair🤦🏼‍♀️

[@CicilyKong]

Jessenia is goals, can i be THAT emotionally stable? MJ is textbook gaslit....

[@chasewarner2707]

You will find out all this is true when you watch this back and so will he giggles TV gold

[@Saltybhabi]

Why is she talking to Jessenia like she’s a child 🙄

[@Sony4Ever321]

Exactly! I noticed that too. I thought it was the only one. The way a mother speaks to her child. Lol I think it’s because she has a Karen superiority complex.

[@ginadeluca9749]

Can I take a moment around 2:00 to 2:05 Jessenia gave the viewers a moment of "The Office"; broke the 4th wall. And Jessenia 👏👏👏👏👏. Plus, I have an inkling that MJ will be going home next week.

[@jagar2809]

JESSENIA - The unbothered QUEEN!

[@marymclaughlin3558]

Remember that small scene a few episodes ago when Sarah was going through her emotional stuff when she got ripped apart by the house, and she tried to talk to MJ afterwards but MJ completely brushed her off and acted like she needed to “cool off,” yah well that’s telling LOL

[@mauvebassetgirl21]

I always liked Jessina and could tell she was a sweetheart. But I’m so impressed by how she held her ground and stood up for the new girls. You go girl!!

[@judyvalentne1565]

Anybody noticed how ‘red’ MJ got when Jessenia told her everyone will know the truth when the show airs👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼MJ is trying to cover her A**

[@Nikkicheethor]

How do you sound so "calm" (AKA MJ) but still sound salty, and just as guilty.

[@SimoneUmba]

Jessenia is an Aquarius "Are you done?" She don't let MJ intimidate no way. MJ such a Karen.

[@austinpearce5442]

MJ is picking up the torch from Victoria

[@michaelacaleb7919]

She’s actually a Scorpio but yeah 😭

[@chideraannugwu8570]

Mj is guilty. She was one of the girls that were bullies.

[@chloechial92]

“My actions speak louder than my words” LMAOOOOO yes you said it MJ

[@hannahdeleon5053]

I just love watching how jessenia handled this. I’ve watched this like 10 times

[@dt9538]

same this makes me feel so empowered lol

[@raina9484]

You can just see it on their faces. Jessenia is so calm BECAUSE she is RIGHT. MJ is loud, flustered and red because she knows she's WRONG.

[@bratzsnoopy]

They're all catty AF. Some are just more upfront about it.

[@ellaz4466]

As I remember on the episode where Katie defends the newcomers, Jessenia is also one of the girls whos not happy with the newcomers and she said I love the original girls. Maybe shes afraid that she might be included with the girls to be sent home because of bullying which is why she turned her back with MJ. I dont like her too.

[@minhphung8479]

she has never been this hurted? damn this girl has a good life

[@tesalewis27]

Victory gone, check, Anna gone, check... time to get MJ out so the other girls can try to have some REAL peace in that house. Team Jessenia all the way!

[@daniellekearns3678]

Mj was definitely wrong, but if you watch last weeks episode back jessenia was also being rude to the new girls.

[@genregurl]

Yep.

[@leeeyannn]

she definitely laughed and made sarcastic comments but i do also think it was a bad edit

[@daniellenicole6989]

MJ is delusional. Jessenia handled herself VERY well!

[@andra2528]

i can't wait to see mj go home!! team jessenia here

[@carolinamatute6265]

Jessenia’s Scorpio energy 👏👏

[@aL13711]

MJ is mad cause Jessenia is right. And MJ can't face it so she talks over Jessenia, insists she's being attacked, keeps repeating the same mantra of "i practice what I preach and lead by example" cause that's the only thing she has. you can either apologize or double down on being ignorant. I was surprised Jessenia called her out. I think a lot of the women get swept up and don't know what to do when the tension happens in the house. Jessenia showed class in the face of an unreasonable person and I only hope to be this classy lol

[@pourladentelle]

JESSENIA got claws while keeping it classy!!!!! But in the real world she wouldda had MJ!!!

[@Master-xl1jf]

MJ just repeats the same phrases over and over lmao while Jessenia is throwing shots left and right 👏🏻👏🏻

[@ladykat16]

Btw Jessenia is so beautiful. I’m glad she’s standing up to MJ. MJ needs to go. She’s one of the toxic ones. Thank God the other two are gone.

[@thandilelose1658]

Lol 😂 😂 😂 when she said "I preach harmony and peace..."

[@maryan7751]

Jessenia’s parents done a good job! That’s all I got to say.

[@reesesager2273]

i like MJ in the beginning i thought she was cool but her true colors showed throughout

[@Etobicoken]

MJ needs to go and don’t forget Serena C and kit was so rude and bully too when Sarah was here.

[@milwaukeemotor5995]

the dramatic music is making my heart pound

[@Payne_Inc.]

The best smoke I've seen to date! I need so much more of this...😇😂

[@ZoraSearch]

🤣

[@lilygrumbles1080]

I don’t get how these mean girls think they can lie about things that is on camera and And how MJ somehow is so confident she is the victim in this scenario

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

"i lead by example" yeah, an example of bullying lmao

[@kjohansson23]

Yeah, but Jessenia was an Og that also said bad things about the new girls in last weeks episode🤔

[@priscilliacarter1144]

I loved how MJ did not back down to her

[@CuteTeenHairstylesXo]

Ok but wasn’t jessinia part of the bullying too? Lmao. What

[@dt9538]

jessenia just became my new favorite - thank you for your service queen 👑

[@annasteig2923]

Loved Yesenia here! Learned so much about her just from this and the last convo she had with MJ. She is honest by owning up to MJ that she talked about her to Matt. She wasn't afraid to tell Matt about MJ. You can tell by how she responds to MJ here that she is strong, smart, and articulate. She's even a bit witty! Go Yesenia!