Modern Women DESTROYED Perfect Relationships And REGRETTED It YEARS LATER?

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[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂

[@GearSounds]

Your microphone has a phasing issue that can be solved by running it through a cloud lifter.

[@davidhill500]

GDAY ..BLUE ..From Australia…GIRL…YOU NEED MORE GREEN SOFT CLOTHING TO OFFSET THE FAIR SKIN AND FIERY AUTUMN HAIR….😊

[@datascientist4005]

Hey Pearl, is that AI providing color commentary? It's weird because you can tell it's computer generated.

[@padraigomadain6681]

Cool turtle neck, cmere can't ye fkn sell some too?! 😅

[@thisvagabondlife7132]

As my son once told me “my wife only sees what I don’t do, she doesn’t see what I do do”. She divorced him and he is flourishing.

[@specag31]

"Do do." ?? Theres her problem. 😂Your son was blessed. Keep up the good work ,Mom. ❤️ Physically or spiritually, hug him every day. Life is short.

[@vtmegrad98]

My wife could see the things I did, and wrote it all off as "the bare minimum". Our pastor asked her once if she ever thanked me for all the stuff I did to provide for her and to help her build her business. Her response was "why would I? That's his job".

[@fireeaglefitnessmartialart935]

​@@vtmegrad98I see so many similar comments on fb posts.

[@Jamesppoitra]

sounds like a silver lining.....I hope he continues well!

[@roberthawk5390]

@@vtmegrad98 and the pastor said young man “ you have chosen poorly “ neither of us will fix her. Withdraw all financial and emotional support from her. Maybe she will fix herself maybe she won’t. Meanwhile, you will be better off.

[@jennyb4450]

Found my husband at 21. Married at 23. I stay home and raise our three beautiful children. No regrets. I cannot fathom being in these women's shoes.

[@vanderumd11]

You hit the lottery. How old is he

[@deborahwheatley1970]

Exactly the same here pluss the dog 😊

[@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature]

I am happy to know people like you guys are out there. It gives me hope. I wish you both a happily ever after.

[@jennyb4450]

@@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature thank you :)

[@BrickMudge]

Nowadays, you're a rare breed of woman. In other words, you're a smart/wise woman.

[@TheSpaniard-5337]

My life started 16 years ago when my ex found a "better" man who understood her without words as she told me (she was a very toxic person). We were married and we have one child together. I was a single dad for a while, but found a normal woman whom I've been happily married for 15 years. My ex went into a circle of toxic relationships and lives alone now. She actually cried and told our daughter who is 21, "how your dad was a good man". My ex turns 50 next year. Thank you for leaving me for another man, you saved my life🙏

[@atthebrink74]

I have the same story, except I have 2 kids that raised alone for a few years. The oldest graduates college this week.

[@natethen2595]

Shout out to u two brothers!!

[@SuperiorEnterprisesLLC]

Absolutely love this story and outcome. Women wait until it's way too late to see the light.

[@antoniowestbrook88]

@@atthebrink74 💪💪

[@chaccaron4321]

If she’s willing to admit this to your daughter, just imagine what she’s had to admit to herself lol.

[@caseyroberts9923]

Dated a girl for 2.5 years while i was in the Navy i bought a ring and proposed she said she didnt see a future for us and she wasnt ready to settle down, 12 years later ive been married 9 years with 2 kids. And well, she's a single mother of 4, never married.

[@GORT70]

I think that’s my sister……

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂

[@Shade23753]

Bullet dodged! Thank you for your service . God bless!

[@topg565]

@caseyroberts9923 bro you dogded a nuke

[@topg565]

​@@GORT70💀💀💀

[@dougb4956]

Very rarely do these women regret what they did to their husbands. Their regret is the impact on their own life and their inability to find a man as good as him. Not what they did to the man who thought he had a wife for the rest of his life and is now single and older. But, truth be told, he's probably much happier because he has taken control of his life.

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

Possibly, yeah. Perhaps not straight away but eventually, yes, when he's healed. Some feel better straight away...but for some, the wound is deep and takes a very long time to get better.

[@DeeperDownTheRabbitHole]

It's super rough when you find out men love their partners like a child. They take ownership the same way, while women regard their partners as a father-like protector. People were meant to lose a parent someday, but not a child. It literally is worse for men, and we've always laughed at them to suck it up. It is instinctively failure and death for the masculine mind to overcome.

[@Crossing-Blades]

I would replace the word “find” with keep. Since they know what kind of men are good or not. And they have seen and “interacted” with them. It’s the keeping either in her favor or his is the difference.

[@chdk55christidonny6]

❤

[@chdk55christidonny6]

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[@michaelpalumbo2416]

She fumbled a bag. Not disrespected a man. Not threw away a good man. She learned nothing. Still a selfish heart

[@CiluhStyle1]

Facts

[@RossMalagarie]

Yep she still looks at it as losing a "bag" of money, and all that comes with it like not having to work, and being in a healthy relationship. But instead of seeing it as she gave up a good relationship she still says and sees it as losing a "bag" or money so yeah he dodged a bullet

[@fionnmaccumhaill3257]

That's what I heard.

[@manipicao]

Yes, that's what picked up on. He "did" things. She "fumbled". It's still a game to her and she just regrets dropping the ball.

[@stischer47]

As a divorced man who married later in life, after 4 years my ex- decided that while she loved me and what I could provide her, she wasn't "in love" with me, but her was still in love with her ex-. Once I got over her, a few years later mutual friends said she said she made a mistake divorcing me. My response? No, I made a mistake marrying her in the first place.

[@doppleganger7591]

sir there are no mistakes in this life.. only lessons

[@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature]

I always hear about these folks who love their ex's. Do they actually try to right the wrongs?

[@skipwilson5086]

I heard the same thing, "I love you, but i'm not in love with you." 7 years later I'm happy with a good woman who loves me, and the ex lives alone in her crappy apt.

[@themick6586]

I was 20 with a daughter when my first wife divorced me, she thought she could do better, She got pregnant by Chad while we were separated. Chad didn't want to have anything to do with her or the child. She thought I would take her back. NOT HAPPENING. She went on to marry two more men. Cheated on them. At 65 years old she is alone, having ruined all her relationships including with her children. I remarried 45 years ago to a good woman and have lived my best life, 3 kids, 7 grandchildren.

[@nophux7197]

Hope your living your best life.

[@danerichards7280]

Great News❤ to hear

[@extinctbeaver6249]

That’s the end goal congrats

[@jimsierrabravo2667]

God bless you, Sir.

[@rjcs2000]

When women leave and try other men? It's finished FOREVER, only a Simpleton wants them back.

[@danielholland5533]

Yes don’t take them back. They are now biblically unclean forever.

[@evy1175]

That’s why they guilt trip you into letting them go out and do whatever they want. They’re out there try other men, maybe not physically cheating, but mentally unfaithful.

[@budisutanto5987]

Told my friends once: when a girlfriend wants a time out, she's trying to get another man, when she said she wants to comeback, that means she have failed.

[@bearbryant3495]

Here's my story. Back in the '70s I had this gorgeous baby, I loved her deeply, sex was phenomenal, we both had good jobs and lived comfortably. Then along came her mother who talked her into leaving me for some joker in the army. Who then married her, knocked her up and moved her to Alaska. I just assumed she had a great life up north. A few yrs ago her I saw her brother, he said "Call her Bear, she's back in Ohio and she REALLY wants you to call her." Well, I'd been quite happily married for 25 yrs, have grandchildren, etc. But I called, the only thing she got from that marriage was a son and and hatred of Alaska and the army. I wished her well and deleted her number.

[@JohnDoe-og2bt]

I have a similar story and when I see her with her mother in town shopping with the kid, divorced about a year after he was born, I catch her mothers attention and say "you did that". The best part is that I was making 30k back in 2011 when I graduated highschool and they both know im now a major share holder in the same company

[@seriously195]

"I wished her well and deleted the number." You forgot to say 'and smiled to myself'

[@thedynamicsolo4232]

Ex wife had a perfect life. Back in 2003 we were making 80 grand a year. Nice home, I was a step dad (The boys dad had died when he was five) to a 13 year old boy (Great kid, he flourished with my mentorship). We were on our way to going over 100K, really getting ahead. She was treated well, fully provided for and the future looked great. Should have lasted right? Wrong, just three years in she's cheating. Ruined not just a marriage but two careers, a young man, finances, assets and left a wake of devastation that would take 12 years to correct and fix. Never again. She "apologized" three years later and asked if I was with someone. I told her I was happy and successful. I heard later it turned her into a barfly. Sad. Ladies, there is no "better deal" when you have found a good man. If you betray a good man, its boxed wine and cats. I know four women like that. That dumped a great man and ended up with estranged kids (after they found out the truth) and getting on SSDI because of the "trauma and abuse" of their poor choices.

[@ajhubbell3754]

She is telling my story. I was with a girl that I wanted to marry and settle down with. After dating for about six months she dumped me because I was “boring”. We went our separate ways. A couple years later I got a letter from her testing the waters to see if I still wanted her. Nope. I had moved on.

[@chingron]

Marry and settle down after 6 months of dating? That explains the problem…

[@doppleganger7591]

@@chingron I’m pretty sure the longest lasting marriages come from short engagement or dating periods. When you know you know

[@ho2673]

Yeahhhh good response

[@kristene2372]

@@chingron I proposed after 6mths we were in our 30's didn't want to waste time and sometimes you just know. Married 6yrs ( if I was younger sure it's definitely wise to take your time, and not rush into anything. On the other hand sometimes if people had waited they might not have stayed together, it comes down to few things if you really love each other, the commit to the other and not giving up at the first sign of trouble.

[@markspruill4129]

@@chingron I married after 2 months. Been married 32 years and it's been all good.

[@Nuggetmuncher80uk]

I've been single for 4 years and its been the happiest period of my life. No looking back

[@siz4sean]

Amen 🙏

[@drstrangelove4998]

Same here!

[@batbrains187]

🔥❤️‍🔥 me too and it has been great.❤️‍🔥🔥

[@tedferkin]

I hope I can join you, sometime in the future

[@oldhag2881]

The loneliest period in my life was the last five years of my marriage.

[@user-po3ev7is5w]

I remember growing up that MANY young women (age ~16 - 25) wanted to date abusive men. I could never figure out that insanity for truly it is a mental illness

[@J.A.Z-TheMortal]

Its popularly called Daddy Issues. Their mothers where attracted to the Chad, or "Bad Boy" who surprise surprise, became a bad husband and bad father. Sometimes a completely absent father. Daughters develop emotional traumas because of this, and become incredibly attracted to the "Bad boys" who resemble the same men that their mothers choose. The more "emotionally unavailable" (as they call it psychology) men, the more attracted and challenged the young woman feels. This is why the phrases "I can fix him" or "He told me he was going to change" are very common to them. Stability, kindness, loyalty and drama free environments bore the sh!t out if these women, until is too late, and the good guys they either ignored or treated like garbage have moved on.

[@user-po3ev7is5w]

@@J.A.Z-TheMortal ah, that explains it. thanks

[@AGENTBOOOM]

The woman who "fumbled" the bag is only saying this now because those same men she was attracted to no longer find her attractive; post wall chick gets what she deserves.

[@bico1592]

Years ago I had to bail out a friend for marijuana possession. I waited in the parking lot of the local jail with his attorney. When the doors opened a lot of gorgeous decked out women started walking in for visiting hours. I said the the attorney, "Holy Shit, I need to start committing crime". The attorney replied "scum of the earth my friend".

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Pretty doesn't equal decent or good.

[@bobkonradi1027]

A man, either as a boyfriend or as a husband, is not a woman's entertainment director. A woman wants to be happy, its up to her to make herself happy.

[@chrislong8559]

As correct as you are sir, the problem is the minute she feels bored and or even stable in emotions it's over everytime. They crave excitement, drama and chaos. If they don't get it they dip, cheat or monkeybranch always. So technically we have to be there entertainment director or else they cowardly do one of those things.

[@vtmegrad98]

They do feel free to make themselves happy. They do it by leaving, taking as much from you as they can on the way out, and go seeking a new guy.

[@7thKinitiate]

“A happy man is a happy relationship, a happy women is a miserable man.” -Patrice O’Neal

[@diamonddave16]

She’ll never be content

[@eloyrodarte1083]

Women are their own worst enamy. I'm greatful my wife left me to go "find herself". I would have never left her. My life has improved and I'm ejoying the fruits of hard work and mature investments. She is starting over with nearly nothing. I'm sure her and her dog will be very happy together.

[@tracymerriman3996]

Is there some kind of handbook for women? I'm one year removed from my 5yr relationship. Was told the same thing, she had to "find herself". I see this same comment all the time its ridiculous that they all seem to say the same thing. I'm now Thriving, crazy how much money I have compared to when I was with her and she even helped paying 50% on all monthly Bill's. I still save more money now somehow. she is spiraling out of control now and is constantly calling me wanting me back. Sorry hun, I wasnt good enough for you. Good luck out there!

[@yourluxxuryautoconcierge1303]

K. S. said it best: "Ladies, at 27, it's time to sell; 30-35 = 50% off; 35-39 = Clearance Sale; 40's = Outlet Mall; and 50+ = The Salvation Army.

[@willtopper]

The great author and humorist Erma Bombeck accurately enlightened us with 'the grass is always greener over the septic tank'.

[@ericcriteser4001]

Nice reference.

[@diamonddave16]

👏👏

[@ForcefighterX2]

As a man in my late 30s, I was always confused why society generally pretends every beautiful person is attractive. I think there are loads of very beautiful women, which are insanely unattractive due to their girl-boss or straight up narcissistic demeanor. And then there are women, who are not that beautiful objectively, but somehow are still very attractive due to their lovely and female nature. I think we all have seen such women somewhere.

[@giftcardbill]

Notice how every time it's what they, the women, have lost or are losing. Not the pain they caused the husband, children, extended family; the ripple effect of damage that will never go away. Totally damned selfish. That's how women get themselves into dire straits, pure greed and selfishness. I have absolutely no sympathy for them. They have reaped the whirlwind, it's funny as hell, and oh so deserved.

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂

[@josephsimontacchi2285]

Nice post. Rw3 You’re exactly right. They destroy lives, without a thought. They often say. I’m a Victim. If PT Barnum were alive. He’d now say there is a Narcissist born every minute. Society is plagued with man-ipulating women. It’s ancient and biblical. But in the end the love you Give is equal to the love you Get. lol Sound familiar. Those kids from Liverpool were great

[@writingonthewall3326]

Remember two things... A dog is a man's best friend. Helps guard the house. Companion. All round win. What's a girl's best friend? Yup. Diamonds. A worthless rocks that she can flash and rub her ego with

[@demarcusds95]

No sympathy at all

[@coolguy2789]

The universe is wickedly humorous 😂

[@CaptainVillanueva1]

Getting divorced. Really really sucks but the dignity, self respect and control is finally back. She thought constant arguing, control and gaslighting was a great way to keep a man. I only stayed so long for the sake of the kids but that just made her angrier

[@TT-Freak]

Propably same story for most of us.

[@MsCwebb]

If a woman even uses the term "fumble the bag" she is an absolute no for me.

[@MaverickMalone-ex4nm]

Women have tried to come back into my life, or realize they shouldn’t have passed me up when I asked them out, and I just walk away. Honestly I just don’t even bother dating. My life is peaceful and stress free. I watch men get divorced all the time at my job and they don’t look good 😳

[@godkingceaser7594]

Same that happened to me . 😂women think men don't have options after the reject or ghost us ✌🏾

[@kengaroo5170]

Women are for short term, never commit your resources.

[@Kclateef]

Facts

[@sgtlucifer6883]

@@godkingceaser7594 Too bad women don't learn. - Once a woman screws up, you can bet your life she's going to keep her old habits.

[@JoeGator23]

@@kengaroo5170 Commit what you are willing to lose, everything in life has it's limits... and have a backup plan. They all do.

[@CK-yi6pc]

Destroyed their marriage and now no one will even give them the time of day,,,,, see it all the time! And at our age we don’t want anything to do with them…..

[@annsheridan12]

Actually they are only good for smash and dash now.

[@connorkenway7919]

Nice to see women on our side too ❤

[@Muck006]

They arent ... they REGRET losing the RICH GUY that put them on a pedestal / would deal with their demands. translation: they DIDNT CHANGE ... and only regret not taking the winner that only had 80% of their bucket list of requirements.

[@Dragonstalon1001]

@@Muck006 The poster is talking about Women like Pearl, Christine, Aly (RealFemSapien), and Emily King

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

@@Dragonstalon1001 Nope, they're just grifters. Think about why is the algorithm pushing their videos instead of long time male creators. And most of these """allies""" are divorced, single mothers or mud sharks.

[@PhilMill1228]

Started dating my now wife, then about a year later a girl, the highschool cheerleader that dated a buddies of mine, started hitting me up on F/B talking about all of the "Good Times" we all had back in school... funny thing I remember being on the peripheral of our "Friend group"... I've now raised 3 great kids with my wife, and have NO Regrets not reciprocating that girls false interest...

[@onedadinplaid159]

"He boosted my self esteem and made me feel so good about myself, that I thought I could do better than him." Sums it all up right there.

[@jdgoesham5381]

I had a chick break up with me because I became good friends with her older brother. I saw her years later and she said she regretted it weeks later when I was bringing around other females when I'd hang out with her brother and she was home alone lonely on the weekends. She literally has been a single mother for a decade now. And I've been with the same cutie who still fawns over me for 7yrs.

[@juvi999]

And why are you not married then?

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

@@juvi999 Because as Sméagol, in the moment she has the ring, Gollum will show up.

[@TechWeLove]

​@@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115This is a genius comment. I love it. 🤣

[@JoeGator23]

@@juvi999 If you watch this channel, why would you need to ask?

[@brettg274]

My wife was always complaining I didn’t pay enough attention to her family. So I started hanging out with her cousins and became good friends, then it became complaining that I was friends with them. You can’t win, just do you.

[@alabastergreen7444]

I was with my ex for a few years then she decided i was to boring and the streets were calling her. Married the woman i met right after her and been married over 10 years now. A few years back i got the "leaving you is my biggest regret" phone call.

[@NuclearFridge1]

Guessing you said "you got this, it was your choice" or maybe you just hung up without a word.

[@diamonddave16]

Womp womp madame

[@rhircyn]

If a woman leaves me, she's done. No apologies or fucks given but you had your chance. I am the catch, she isn't.

[@chaccaron4321]

That woman talking about a man she let go 40 years ago isn’t recounting a tale- she’s telling her life story.

[@oldhag2881]

'Red dress girl' on 'Whatever' is the updated edition of her.

[@NicoGeeraerts]

Pro tip, women with hobbies and interests of their own tend to get bored less. Like Pearl said, the ones who get bored are the ones who treat guys like their only hobby or source of entertainment.

[@123tigercub]

Agree, there's so many things to do and learn. There isn't even enough time to do it all.

[@RANDYJR72]

I love Pearls honesty and integrity when calling modern woman out on their bull 💩.

[@zqrahll]

The chemistry that didn't 'spark' with that guy was that he was a nice guy, and not a bad boy jerk who 'excited' her.

[@michaelconroy8771]

Women just don’t appreciate the efforts men go to, I bought my wife flowers and she called me sexist ! , it took me ages and I had to go to three different stores to find Self raising, whole meal and plain, no gratitude 😂

[@Mr39knuck]

Don’t fault yourself…. You made the effort.

[@sciloj]

I would explain it a little differently. It's about bringing some sort of made-up ideology into the equation of the relationship and putting it in front of everything. You don't need any special gratitude to just enjoy things and treat another person in good faith. But if you are possessed by an idea of oppression, you are going to run with it and see it everywhere. So an ordinary well-meant action starts looking like a plot to you. It's effectively a paranoid behavior without having an actual mental illness.

[@SD-mi2vc]

Get rid of her micheal

[@banditone7896]

I see what you did there 😉

[@MakingDisciples4Jesus]

That sucks

[@birgermunter5638]

im glad i got outvof my marriage, now my money is mine n i dont have to suck up to get sex once a month

[@MakingDisciples4Jesus]

My mother gave up my father and 1 other guy i know of and now she's old and single.

[@cmcgensy]

The bag she fumbled is all that she misses. He would have paid to create or build another strong independent women that would have eventually still left him after the fact years later. So she did him a favor in so many ways . Be careful who you let in your circle, house, or sit in your passenger seat!

[@ninjaspam2000]

Pearl the shirt I would buy from you is, (on the front) Bring men back to marriage. (On the back) mandatory laws .... paternity testing at birth, mandatory prenup, 50/50 custody.

[@samueledwards211]

Yeah I had a really great relationship. I tried to make a family out of it. I even put all my savings into it and put myself into debt and left my family for years to try. Want to know what happened? I got used, cheated on, told I am boring. Told that she only had bad memories of our relationship, so yes I love hearing about the regrets of other women.

[@The-Walmart]

Some big facts being said right here… I love watching women cry the same way I love wit holding my help from women when they need it the most

[@richardbast7243]

My ex and I have been talking after 20 years apart. I see all the warning signs that I explained away back then. How she perceives things is always tainted by her past traumas from her f'd up family. She doesn't live in reality and after 20 years she still hasn't changed. Might be all the psychologists she sees. Saw the women in her family go to these doctors but they choose to stay with the ones they agree with. Therefore they are just waste of money.

[@loganblackwood2922]

Oh she changed alright. She added brand new trauma, brand new old trauma, old trauma, old old trauma and now she is old.

[@RG-tt1ru]

Same, reunited with my high school sweetheart, as a divorcee from a 24-year marriage; she was still unmarried, four kids richer, but none the wiser, her mind still swimming with the same foolish ideas that drove a wedge between us decades earlier. So never take it as a given that life experiences make women better partners because my ex learned nothing from hers.

[@luckyq0049]

I love how she just sets it straight. She doesn’t hold back and she is giving great advice.

[@oldhag2881]

None of the women will heed her advise.

[@johnbelt5204]

Yeah, my ex-sister in law got "bored" and left my brother after 8 years of marriage. She's now an overweight, 55year old, single mother and alone. My brother is remarried to a woman that adores him and knows how lucky she is. He has a beautiful home, money and a great life.

[@Simmons2358]

I suspect the best relationship is one where both sides believe the other party is a prize or the prize. A big problem today is that the modern female makes it difficult for any man to consider the modern female a prize coupled with modern females believing they are the prize and a man is lucky to have them.

[@Crushonius]

wrong the only relationships that work is when the man is the prize and the woman loves him quite a bit more than he loves her but should that ever change she will lose all her love and respect for him . seen it happen too many times

[@themick6586]

​@Crushonius a man can accept a woman he thinks is lesser than he is. A woman often considers herself much more valuable than she is. If you want a healthy marriage, you must find one that considers a man the prize (although I wouldn't recommend a man get married). I,ve been in a good marriage for 45 years. My wife is intelligent enough to realize that she's got a good thing. These single mothers, high body count, selfish women that men have to deal with now make a life long marriage a thing of the past.

[@thewarriorwithin7415]

I love how they say “fumble another bag” instead of hurt another man. Makes me think nothing was learned. Love you pearl

[@godkingceaser7594]

Pearl I had a women that I went on a date with ghost 👻. After month i met another women in person and life has been good . The ghoster saw me with this lady and all of a sudden my phone was blowing up . I told her you fumbled me so hard peace ✌🏾

[@Animatthias]

Fumbling the bag is a hilarious expression!

[@justme.9711]

The men grow up to be men and want to be a father, but these girls want to be a girl not a mother not an adult, party, party, party.

[@AndrewReevesArt]

I used to be the guy women left or turned down because I was too nice, they weren’t ready or will still playing the field but I’ve become the man that won’t give these gezebels the time of day, keep my time and money to myself and love the freedom of not having to deal with these future cat moms who will die alone with their medications, Netflix and vibrators 😂

[@jeffferguson4632]

Me too

[@themick6586]

Oh so you know my ex wife ?

[@AndrewReevesArt]

@@themick6586 😂😂😂

[@Dragonstalon1001]

@3:25 "I learned my lesson and I will not fumble another Bag"...This right here shows she didn't learn a damn thing!! The only thing she sees Men as is Piggy Bank/ATM machine ("Bag") for her!! Pearl how did you let this slip by??

[@jppinteric8425]

Opening my eyes... Thank you for a voice of reasoning in this vastly misinformed world. I admire the courage

[@WarlordShogun]

I get pretty pissed off when women refer to us or our ability to provide as 'bags', as if we're some inanimate object that's just filled with money for them to use at their leisure. What would women think if we went around calling them fleshlights?

[@andrewwashburn6080]

its really hard to understand that you can show someone so much love and do so much for them and all they are thinking is i bet i could do better.

[@danbest3401]

Most women in the United States have a short-sighted, peasant individualism resulting from the male-created romantic tradition of the last century. They were told that they were superior creatures, a little nearer to the angels than their menfolks. They were not encouraged to think, nor to assume social responsibility. It takes a strong mind to break out of that sort of conditioning, and most minds simply aren't up to it. -R. A. Heinlein 1957

[@timwalker6802]

I fumbled a bag and started the whole world laughing, but I couldn’t see that, that bag was me.

[@garymarvin4668]

The problem will be that every guy she dates from now on will be compared to the first guy and none will measure up to her idealized memory of him.

[@betterbutt.]

No one is perfect. You find the one that's as close to what you need.

[@merovingian688]

These women are full of it. Learning a lesson means logic trumped her feelings. Once she gets the feeling again she’ll be ready to run the streets again.

[@JohnTovar-ks8dp]

The bag fumbler: she is really no better off. She framed this 'good man' as old, 40 instead of 38. And she framed herself as young, 25 instead of 27. She still has to catch herself in her self delusion. That is, she is still delusional as a baseline.

[@toddbrown2594]

I would never begin dating a woman over 25 years old seriously. By that time she had plenty of opportunities to be off the market. There is a reason she is not and it's why you only date them for fun, nothing serious.

[@annsheridan12]

Reminds me of the “ husband store”

[@loganblackwood2922]

Suzanne Venker mentions that every once in a while and when she mentions it to women that haven't heard it before, her reaction is as funny as the other woman's.

[@CaptCanuck4444]

I respect that woman who admits to fumbling the bag. The sad reality for her is that she my not get another chance like that.

[@roycebritton]

This is why if your partner wants to leave you should just let them go. Reality awaits them.

[@b.b.s7545]

Yep, bye Felicia 😂. If she really was the one, she wouldn't even think of leaving

[@brianhargiss9575]

Those men you reject don’t always find the one and live a happy life.

[@DarienWhite-vm2hb]

I dated a girl for 3 years in college, and she did not appreciate me from the start. I stayed with her, because l thought l couldn't do better. Eventually, l realized she wasn't ready for the life l wanted. I got married about two years after l split with my ex. If she would have got it together, it could have been her. Life is about realizing when to grow up, because our youthful choices may follow us to the grave.

[@elypowell6797]

Believe me, your choices as a young adult 18 and up will follow you to the grave.

[@denniszaderaka7553]

I wish Pearl would start a coaching program for women. I believe one of the causes of women's problems is they either didn't have a Father or they lived in a disfunctional home and are just repeating their Mother's mistakes. Girls tend to seek someone like their father.

[@chingron]

It’s likely that she is such an “expert” because she is/was exactly the same as these women. She is still single afterall and appears to have already hit the wall. You really think she is the type to take a back seat in a relationship as she advocates? Doubt it… I guarantee she is the driver. I remember seeing her podcasts in the early days and she seemed modest, but even then, I could tell it was fake modesty. Now that she has a million followers, she has revealed her true self… cocky and arrogant. And she probably comes off that way in every relationship she has been in… hence her still being single.

[@rocketboostjump]

​@@chingronshe could marry if she wanted. There are many men chasing after her and she is still under 30 and who knows she may have a boyfriend but wants to keep her personal life private.

[@commonsense8012]

Remember this guys .... " the right one will make you, the wrong one will break you. "

[@relaxinmaxin7246]

If taco is all a woman brings to the table, then taco is only what men will be looking for from her. GO taco!

[@schaferatsprynet]

Bearded clams.

[@lewislyles1064]

The wall is undefeated! TRAGIC

[@Lord_Phoenix95]

I was in a relationship for 9 years. I engaged her 7 years into it and while it might've seemed like a long time it helped me realise that the relationship was a one sided commitment and I would often be angry on the inside while with her cause I had committed so much time and energy to her telling her how beautiful she was, letting her know that I have her back and encouraged her hobbies but in the end she was very selfish and I told her that a couple of months before Covid started I had wanted to leave the relationship, which I definitely should've done earlier, because she had done nothing to help in the relationship. In the end she dumped me over that anf the funniest part is she had a new man 1 month later while were still living together.

[@The-You-Doober]

Almost every woman who has rejected me in my 20’s has looked me up in my 50’s. I closed down my short lived Facebook account because of this issue. After conversing with people you haven’t seen for 20-30 years. You see why you haven’t seen them for 20-30 years.🤷🏻🤷🏻‍♂️

[@carluberoi2258]

I can’t be bothered with woman anymore too much effort and drama

[@stephenkilpatrick807]

Facebook post from my ex within 1 week of our divorce: "What a great day for taking the Harley for a ride down the river!" (With the guy she cheated with, she didn't mention that.) One of the women from our church, who wasn't up-to-date with what was going on between us, said "you got a Harley!?!?!?" No, she got a guy WITH a Harley. Like Pearl just said, women can't seem to create their own lives. They have to have a man who is responsible for entertaining them. So if you are not a 'bad boy', eventually there are going to be problems. She is going to get bored.

[@themick6586]

They don't do well with the bad boys either, they will get bored with them over time.

[@spoilerman8975]

Pearl that was excellent ! I'm going to save this and show it to my friends.

[@nonya8562]

Making hobbies and work into sources of happiness is a great way to keep yourself moving forward and doing better. When I'm not busy working it's looking up stocks, streaming my gaming and writing stories that can become a anime or a plot for a video game. Dive into your passion. Never let a person be what makes you happy. That will eventually turn into a burden on them and no one wants to be a burden.

[@christianellithorpe9065]

Pearl, as always you are so smart, so funny and you seem smart relaxed despite this challenging past month. You look relaxed, smiling and attractively feminine, and as always, thank you for your great content. Hang in there!

[@Muck006]

9:30 That "I dont want to settle down yet" happened during the SEXUAL REVOLUTION in the 70s ... which would probably be the start of the "I can get a better guy" / "I still want to have FUN in my 20s" propaganda.

[@outlawstarr5209]

The grass is greener where you water it.

[@Brother_from_Oz]

Hey Pearl Your apology comment was perfect It would work.. I’d love to hear the exact words my recent x wife of 20yrs to say.. I’d have her back in a heart beat. Thank you❤

[@user-wg2vw3mz1v]

OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂

[@louisaklimentos7583]

It was the other way around for me . Men that I liked use to reject me !

[@thisvagabondlife7132]

This KZbin channel is one of the most important channels on KZbin. It’s a wake up call to women. Reality is a bytch.

[@Dragonstalon1001]

That right there is exactly why the Feminists are trying to destroy it!!

[@dougiedorite8296]

Seems a good mother would have explained to them, that a "Good man who will never let you go" , is also likely a firm man who "WILL NEVER take you back". They can't see their selfishness in a mirror , so it doesn't exist. Very sad.

[@johntyler2127]

Same thing happened to me when I asked my college to married me.. she got her career and still unmarried, childless at 55. But my old girlfriend did the best thing for me because I met my future wife thereafter. We have been together for 31 yrs and my life is great with a beautiful daughter and my Asian wife aged well. I recently ran into the old girlfriend and she didn’t aged well and looks like someone’s grandma…

[@jaycar9079]

I think that this is the issue today Pearl, Women of the past met a man and over time and adversity learned to love him which is why the women of the past stayed with their men for a life time. These Modern day women expect perfection and a deep love connection at the moment they meet and instead of working towards that deep love connection expect it just handed to them. These women need to understand that love and happiness take commitment nothing worth having is just handed to you on a silver platter. Like anything if it's too easily gotten then you won't appreciate what you have until you lose it and it's too late.

[@majcorbin]

HAPPY LIFE =NO WIFE

[@SuperDragonRED]

Social media has toasted their brains bro

[@sgt4204]

I’m glad the videos didn’t keep replaying. That would suck.

[@Coyote-wm5op]

My ex did me dirty and resented me for being good. She ended up getting married but to a guy that has shared custody. Once she had to deal with a woman like her she started being nicer to me. At our kids sporting event she started chewing out her husband in front of the kids and other ppl. I almost felt sorry for the guy because she won’t dare talk to me like that after I told her to get out of my house before I throw her out. I’m probably the only guy that’s stood up to her like that. I believe reality has set in for her that she needs a man and her options are dwindling and so are her looks. It’s funny when we go to kids sport events and I’m now the one being checked out.

[@BucktailFishing]

Every time someone makes the “grass is/isn’t always greener…” statement I think of Soundgarden- Outshined. “The grass is always greener where the dogs are 💩ing”. Such a complex and nuanced concept, especially when applied to these sorts of relationships.

[@johnleca]

40 years with my wife who asked for and I paid for the divorce. I am doing well and better everyday after being a heart broken simp. I am very happy when I meet married couples that have traditional values and always give them positive comments and tell them they are what makes this country great.........families, love, values and children.

[@dre04mach]

I wish I would have saved a record of the "regret" messages I've gotten sometimes months, sometimes years after. Could have put them on my resume... lol.

[@Adroit1911]

3:13 - yes it most definitely would work. We good guys are pretty forgiving

[@jackyboySA]

I was dating a woman for two years. She is five years older than me. She recently turned 30.We spoke about marriage but told me after two years she isn't ready to settle down, she told me she was only about 70% sure about me. After that conversation I broke up with her.

[@elypowell6797]

She will never find another man who wants to marry her.

[@katherinelipari6610]

Pearl was onto something with that 'women need to be doing something' comment. It's true. Women need to be kept productive - the devil makes work for idle hands. If men keep their wives running after children, working in the house, studying to improve their handiwork, cleaning and cooking we are surprisingly happy. My husband is always pushing me to learn new recipes, teach our kids new subjects, try growing something new in the garden. It keeps me so happy, and it is great for loyalty. I like being put on a mission by him. It makes me feel useful, and makes him even more attractive as the visionary leader.

[@magnushelin007]

Very interesting observation, I will keep it in mind.

[@ricecrash5225]

A friend of mine called and said a girl from your past wanted my number and he wanted to ask if he could give it to her. She said “I was the good guy and an itch she wanted to scratch”. She was scratching itches a lot when we were younger so I told my friend, no tell her to try some antibiotics.

[@jessspencer6830]

The grass is greener on the other side, because that,s where the septic tank is !

[@damiangordon8893]

the age old saying ' treat them mean and keep them keen" is a true statement