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@user-wg2vw3mz1v9 ай бұрын
OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂
@GearSounds9 ай бұрын
Your microphone has a phasing issue that can be solved by running it through a cloud lifter.
@davidhill5009 ай бұрын
GDAY ..BLUE ..From Australia…GIRL…YOU NEED MORE GREEN SOFT CLOTHING TO OFFSET THE FAIR SKIN AND FIERY AUTUMN HAIR….😊
@datascientist40058 ай бұрын
Hey Pearl, is that AI providing color commentary? It's weird because you can tell it's computer generated.
@padraigomadain66818 ай бұрын
Cool turtle neck, cmere can't ye fkn sell some too?! 😅
@thisvagabondlife71329 ай бұрын
As my son once told me “my wife only sees what I don’t do, she doesn’t see what I do do”. She divorced him and he is flourishing.
@specag319 ай бұрын
"Do do." ?? Theres her problem. 😂Your son was blessed. Keep up the good work ,Mom. ❤️ Physically or spiritually, hug him every day. Life is short.
@vtmegrad989 ай бұрын
My wife could see the things I did, and wrote it all off as "the bare minimum". Our pastor asked her once if she ever thanked me for all the stuff I did to provide for her and to help her build her business. Her response was "why would I? That's his job".
@fireeaglefitnessmartialart9359 ай бұрын
@@vtmegrad98I see so many similar comments on fb posts.
@Jamesppoitra9 ай бұрын
sounds like a silver lining.....I hope he continues well!
@roberthawk53909 ай бұрын
@@vtmegrad98 and the pastor said young man “ you have chosen poorly “ neither of us will fix her. Withdraw all financial and emotional support from her. Maybe she will fix herself maybe she won’t. Meanwhile, you will be better off.
@jennyb44508 ай бұрын
Found my husband at 21. Married at 23. I stay home and raise our three beautiful children. No regrets. I cannot fathom being in these women's shoes.
@vanderumd118 ай бұрын
You hit the lottery. How old is he
@deborahwheatley19708 ай бұрын
Exactly the same here pluss the dog 😊
@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature8 ай бұрын
I am happy to know people like you guys are out there. It gives me hope. I wish you both a happily ever after.
@jennyb44508 ай бұрын
@@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature thank you :)
@BrickMudge8 ай бұрын
Nowadays, you're a rare breed of woman. In other words, you're a smart/wise woman.
@TheSpaniard-53378 ай бұрын
My life started 16 years ago when my ex found a "better" man who understood her without words as she told me (she was a very toxic person). We were married and we have one child together. I was a single dad for a while, but found a normal woman whom I've been happily married for 15 years. My ex went into a circle of toxic relationships and lives alone now. She actually cried and told our daughter who is 21, "how your dad was a good man". My ex turns 50 next year. Thank you for leaving me for another man, you saved my life🙏
@atthebrink748 ай бұрын
I have the same story, except I have 2 kids that raised alone for a few years. The oldest graduates college this week.
@natethen25958 ай бұрын
Shout out to u two brothers!!
@SuperiorEnterprisesLLC8 ай бұрын
Absolutely love this story and outcome. Women wait until it's way too late to see the light.
@antoniowestbrook888 ай бұрын
@@atthebrink74 💪💪
@chaccaron43218 ай бұрын
If she’s willing to admit this to your daughter, just imagine what she’s had to admit to herself lol.
@caseyroberts99239 ай бұрын
Dated a girl for 2.5 years while i was in the Navy i bought a ring and proposed she said she didnt see a future for us and she wasnt ready to settle down, 12 years later ive been married 9 years with 2 kids. And well, she's a single mother of 4, never married.
@GORT709 ай бұрын
I think that’s my sister……
@user-wg2vw3mz1v9 ай бұрын
OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂
@Shade237539 ай бұрын
Bullet dodged! Thank you for your service . God bless!
@topg5659 ай бұрын
@caseyroberts9923 bro you dogded a nuke
@topg5659 ай бұрын
@@GORT70💀💀💀
@dougb49569 ай бұрын
Very rarely do these women regret what they did to their husbands. Their regret is the impact on their own life and their inability to find a man as good as him. Not what they did to the man who thought he had a wife for the rest of his life and is now single and older. But, truth be told, he's probably much happier because he has taken control of his life.
@Rugmunchersauce39 ай бұрын
Possibly, yeah. Perhaps not straight away but eventually, yes, when he's healed. Some feel better straight away...but for some, the wound is deep and takes a very long time to get better.
@DeeperDownTheRabbitHole8 ай бұрын
It's super rough when you find out men love their partners like a child. They take ownership the same way, while women regard their partners as a father-like protector. People were meant to lose a parent someday, but not a child. It literally is worse for men, and we've always laughed at them to suck it up. It is instinctively failure and death for the masculine mind to overcome.
@Crossing-Blades8 ай бұрын
I would replace the word “find” with keep. Since they know what kind of men are good or not. And they have seen and “interacted” with them. It’s the keeping either in her favor or his is the difference.
@chdk55christidonny68 ай бұрын
❤
@chdk55christidonny68 ай бұрын
PEARL IS BEST GOLD SELLER
@michaelpalumbo24169 ай бұрын
She fumbled a bag. Not disrespected a man. Not threw away a good man. She learned nothing. Still a selfish heart
@CiluhStyle18 ай бұрын
Facts
@RossMalagarie8 ай бұрын
Yep she still looks at it as losing a "bag" of money, and all that comes with it like not having to work, and being in a healthy relationship. But instead of seeing it as she gave up a good relationship she still says and sees it as losing a "bag" or money so yeah he dodged a bullet
@fionnmaccumhaill32578 ай бұрын
That's what I heard.
@manipicao7 ай бұрын
Yes, that's what picked up on. He "did" things. She "fumbled". It's still a game to her and she just regrets dropping the ball.
@stischer479 ай бұрын
As a divorced man who married later in life, after 4 years my ex- decided that while she loved me and what I could provide her, she wasn't "in love" with me, but her was still in love with her ex-. Once I got over her, a few years later mutual friends said she said she made a mistake divorcing me. My response? No, I made a mistake marrying her in the first place.
@doppleganger75918 ай бұрын
sir there are no mistakes in this life.. only lessons
@IRefuseToUseThisStupidFeature8 ай бұрын
I always hear about these folks who love their ex's. Do they actually try to right the wrongs?
@skipwilson50868 ай бұрын
I heard the same thing, "I love you, but i'm not in love with you." 7 years later I'm happy with a good woman who loves me, and the ex lives alone in her crappy apt.
@themick65868 ай бұрын
I was 20 with a daughter when my first wife divorced me, she thought she could do better, She got pregnant by Chad while we were separated. Chad didn't want to have anything to do with her or the child. She thought I would take her back. NOT HAPPENING. She went on to marry two more men. Cheated on them. At 65 years old she is alone, having ruined all her relationships including with her children. I remarried 45 years ago to a good woman and have lived my best life, 3 kids, 7 grandchildren.
@nophux71978 ай бұрын
Hope your living your best life.
@danerichards72808 ай бұрын
Great News❤ to hear
@extinctbeaver62498 ай бұрын
That’s the end goal congrats
@jimsierrabravo26677 ай бұрын
God bless you, Sir.
@rjcs20009 ай бұрын
When women leave and try other men? It's finished FOREVER, only a Simpleton wants them back.
@danielholland55338 ай бұрын
Yes don’t take them back. They are now biblically unclean forever.
@evy11758 ай бұрын
That’s why they guilt trip you into letting them go out and do whatever they want. They’re out there try other men, maybe not physically cheating, but mentally unfaithful.
@budisutanto59878 ай бұрын
Told my friends once: when a girlfriend wants a time out, she's trying to get another man, when she said she wants to comeback, that means she have failed.
@bearbryant34959 ай бұрын
Here's my story. Back in the '70s I had this gorgeous baby, I loved her deeply, sex was phenomenal, we both had good jobs and lived comfortably. Then along came her mother who talked her into leaving me for some joker in the army. Who then married her, knocked her up and moved her to Alaska. I just assumed she had a great life up north. A few yrs ago her I saw her brother, he said "Call her Bear, she's back in Ohio and she REALLY wants you to call her." Well, I'd been quite happily married for 25 yrs, have grandchildren, etc. But I called, the only thing she got from that marriage was a son and and hatred of Alaska and the army. I wished her well and deleted her number.
@JohnDoe-og2bt8 ай бұрын
I have a similar story and when I see her with her mother in town shopping with the kid, divorced about a year after he was born, I catch her mothers attention and say "you did that". The best part is that I was making 30k back in 2011 when I graduated highschool and they both know im now a major share holder in the same company
@seriously1957 ай бұрын
"I wished her well and deleted the number." You forgot to say 'and smiled to myself'
@thedynamicsolo42329 ай бұрын
Ex wife had a perfect life. Back in 2003 we were making 80 grand a year. Nice home, I was a step dad (The boys dad had died when he was five) to a 13 year old boy (Great kid, he flourished with my mentorship). We were on our way to going over 100K, really getting ahead. She was treated well, fully provided for and the future looked great. Should have lasted right? Wrong, just three years in she's cheating. Ruined not just a marriage but two careers, a young man, finances, assets and left a wake of devastation that would take 12 years to correct and fix. Never again. She "apologized" three years later and asked if I was with someone. I told her I was happy and successful. I heard later it turned her into a barfly. Sad. Ladies, there is no "better deal" when you have found a good man. If you betray a good man, its boxed wine and cats. I know four women like that. That dumped a great man and ended up with estranged kids (after they found out the truth) and getting on SSDI because of the "trauma and abuse" of their poor choices.
@ajhubbell37548 ай бұрын
She is telling my story. I was with a girl that I wanted to marry and settle down with. After dating for about six months she dumped me because I was “boring”. We went our separate ways. A couple years later I got a letter from her testing the waters to see if I still wanted her. Nope. I had moved on.
@chingron8 ай бұрын
Marry and settle down after 6 months of dating? That explains the problem…
@doppleganger75918 ай бұрын
@@chingron I’m pretty sure the longest lasting marriages come from short engagement or dating periods. When you know you know
@ho26738 ай бұрын
Yeahhhh good response
@kristene23728 ай бұрын
@@chingron I proposed after 6mths we were in our 30's didn't want to waste time and sometimes you just know. Married 6yrs ( if I was younger sure it's definitely wise to take your time, and not rush into anything. On the other hand sometimes if people had waited they might not have stayed together, it comes down to few things if you really love each other, the commit to the other and not giving up at the first sign of trouble.
@markspruill41298 ай бұрын
@@chingron I married after 2 months. Been married 32 years and it's been all good.
@Nuggetmuncher80uk9 ай бұрын
I've been single for 4 years and its been the happiest period of my life. No looking back
@siz4sean9 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@drstrangelove49989 ай бұрын
Same here!
@batbrains1879 ай бұрын
🔥❤️🔥 me too and it has been great.❤️🔥🔥
@tedferkin9 ай бұрын
I hope I can join you, sometime in the future
@oldhag28818 ай бұрын
The loneliest period in my life was the last five years of my marriage.
@user-po3ev7is5w9 ай бұрын
I remember growing up that MANY young women (age ~16 - 25) wanted to date abusive men. I could never figure out that insanity for truly it is a mental illness
@J.A.Z-TheMortal8 ай бұрын
Its popularly called Daddy Issues. Their mothers where attracted to the Chad, or "Bad Boy" who surprise surprise, became a bad husband and bad father. Sometimes a completely absent father. Daughters develop emotional traumas because of this, and become incredibly attracted to the "Bad boys" who resemble the same men that their mothers choose. The more "emotionally unavailable" (as they call it psychology) men, the more attracted and challenged the young woman feels. This is why the phrases "I can fix him" or "He told me he was going to change" are very common to them. Stability, kindness, loyalty and drama free environments bore the sh!t out if these women, until is too late, and the good guys they either ignored or treated like garbage have moved on.
@user-po3ev7is5w8 ай бұрын
@@J.A.Z-TheMortal ah, that explains it. thanks
@AGENTBOOOM9 ай бұрын
The woman who "fumbled" the bag is only saying this now because those same men she was attracted to no longer find her attractive; post wall chick gets what she deserves.
@bico15929 ай бұрын
Years ago I had to bail out a friend for marijuana possession. I waited in the parking lot of the local jail with his attorney. When the doors opened a lot of gorgeous decked out women started walking in for visiting hours. I said the the attorney, "Holy Shit, I need to start committing crime". The attorney replied "scum of the earth my friend".
@caucasianafrican14358 ай бұрын
Pretty doesn't equal decent or good.
@bobkonradi10279 ай бұрын
A man, either as a boyfriend or as a husband, is not a woman's entertainment director. A woman wants to be happy, its up to her to make herself happy.
@chrislong85599 ай бұрын
As correct as you are sir, the problem is the minute she feels bored and or even stable in emotions it's over everytime. They crave excitement, drama and chaos. If they don't get it they dip, cheat or monkeybranch always. So technically we have to be there entertainment director or else they cowardly do one of those things.
@vtmegrad989 ай бұрын
They do feel free to make themselves happy. They do it by leaving, taking as much from you as they can on the way out, and go seeking a new guy.
@7thKinitiate8 ай бұрын
“A happy man is a happy relationship, a happy women is a miserable man.” -Patrice O’Neal
@diamonddave163 ай бұрын
She’ll never be content
@eloyrodarte10839 ай бұрын
Women are their own worst enamy. I'm greatful my wife left me to go "find herself". I would have never left her. My life has improved and I'm ejoying the fruits of hard work and mature investments. She is starting over with nearly nothing. I'm sure her and her dog will be very happy together.
@tracymerriman39969 ай бұрын
Is there some kind of handbook for women? I'm one year removed from my 5yr relationship. Was told the same thing, she had to "find herself". I see this same comment all the time its ridiculous that they all seem to say the same thing. I'm now Thriving, crazy how much money I have compared to when I was with her and she even helped paying 50% on all monthly Bill's. I still save more money now somehow. she is spiraling out of control now and is constantly calling me wanting me back. Sorry hun, I wasnt good enough for you. Good luck out there!
@yourluxxuryautoconcierge13039 ай бұрын
K. S. said it best: "Ladies, at 27, it's time to sell; 30-35 = 50% off; 35-39 = Clearance Sale; 40's = Outlet Mall; and 50+ = The Salvation Army.
@willtopper9 ай бұрын
The great author and humorist Erma Bombeck accurately enlightened us with 'the grass is always greener over the septic tank'.
@ericcriteser40019 ай бұрын
Nice reference.
@diamonddave163 ай бұрын
👏👏
@ForcefighterX28 ай бұрын
As a man in my late 30s, I was always confused why society generally pretends every beautiful person is attractive. I think there are loads of very beautiful women, which are insanely unattractive due to their girl-boss or straight up narcissistic demeanor. And then there are women, who are not that beautiful objectively, but somehow are still very attractive due to their lovely and female nature. I think we all have seen such women somewhere.
@giftcardbill9 ай бұрын
Notice how every time it's what they, the women, have lost or are losing. Not the pain they caused the husband, children, extended family; the ripple effect of damage that will never go away. Totally damned selfish. That's how women get themselves into dire straits, pure greed and selfishness. I have absolutely no sympathy for them. They have reaped the whirlwind, it's funny as hell, and oh so deserved.
@user-wg2vw3mz1v9 ай бұрын
OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂
@josephsimontacchi22859 ай бұрын
Nice post. Rw3 You’re exactly right. They destroy lives, without a thought. They often say. I’m a Victim. If PT Barnum were alive. He’d now say there is a Narcissist born every minute. Society is plagued with man-ipulating women. It’s ancient and biblical. But in the end the love you Give is equal to the love you Get. lol Sound familiar. Those kids from Liverpool were great
@writingonthewall33268 ай бұрын
Remember two things... A dog is a man's best friend. Helps guard the house. Companion. All round win. What's a girl's best friend? Yup. Diamonds. A worthless rocks that she can flash and rub her ego with
@demarcusds958 ай бұрын
No sympathy at all
@coolguy27898 ай бұрын
The universe is wickedly humorous 😂
@CaptainVillanueva19 ай бұрын
Getting divorced. Really really sucks but the dignity, self respect and control is finally back. She thought constant arguing, control and gaslighting was a great way to keep a man. I only stayed so long for the sake of the kids but that just made her angrier
@TT-Freak8 ай бұрын
Propably same story for most of us.
@MsCwebb9 ай бұрын
If a woman even uses the term "fumble the bag" she is an absolute no for me.
@MaverickMalone-ex4nm9 ай бұрын
Women have tried to come back into my life, or realize they shouldn’t have passed me up when I asked them out, and I just walk away. Honestly I just don’t even bother dating. My life is peaceful and stress free. I watch men get divorced all the time at my job and they don’t look good 😳
@godkingceaser75949 ай бұрын
Same that happened to me . 😂women think men don't have options after the reject or ghost us ✌🏾
@kengaroo51709 ай бұрын
Women are for short term, never commit your resources.
@Kclateef9 ай бұрын
Facts
@sgtlucifer68839 ай бұрын
@@godkingceaser7594 Too bad women don't learn. - Once a woman screws up, you can bet your life she's going to keep her old habits.
@JoeGator239 ай бұрын
@@kengaroo5170 Commit what you are willing to lose, everything in life has it's limits... and have a backup plan. They all do.
@CK-yi6pc9 ай бұрын
Destroyed their marriage and now no one will even give them the time of day,,,,, see it all the time! And at our age we don’t want anything to do with them…..
@annsheridan129 ай бұрын
Actually they are only good for smash and dash now.
@connorkenway79199 ай бұрын
Nice to see women on our side too ❤
@Muck0069 ай бұрын
They arent ... they REGRET losing the RICH GUY that put them on a pedestal / would deal with their demands. translation: they DIDNT CHANGE ... and only regret not taking the winner that only had 80% of their bucket list of requirements.
@Dragonstalon10019 ай бұрын
@@Muck006 The poster is talking about Women like Pearl, Christine, Aly (RealFemSapien), and Emily King
@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg41159 ай бұрын
@@Dragonstalon1001 Nope, they're just grifters. Think about why is the algorithm pushing their videos instead of long time male creators. And most of these """allies""" are divorced, single mothers or mud sharks.
@PhilMill12288 ай бұрын
Started dating my now wife, then about a year later a girl, the highschool cheerleader that dated a buddies of mine, started hitting me up on F/B talking about all of the "Good Times" we all had back in school... funny thing I remember being on the peripheral of our "Friend group"... I've now raised 3 great kids with my wife, and have NO Regrets not reciprocating that girls false interest...
@onedadinplaid1599 ай бұрын
"He boosted my self esteem and made me feel so good about myself, that I thought I could do better than him." Sums it all up right there.
@jdgoesham53819 ай бұрын
I had a chick break up with me because I became good friends with her older brother. I saw her years later and she said she regretted it weeks later when I was bringing around other females when I'd hang out with her brother and she was home alone lonely on the weekends. She literally has been a single mother for a decade now. And I've been with the same cutie who still fawns over me for 7yrs.
@juvi9999 ай бұрын
And why are you not married then?
@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg41159 ай бұрын
@@juvi999 Because as Sméagol, in the moment she has the ring, Gollum will show up.
@TechWeLove9 ай бұрын
@@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115This is a genius comment. I love it. 🤣
@JoeGator239 ай бұрын
@@juvi999 If you watch this channel, why would you need to ask?
@brettg2748 ай бұрын
My wife was always complaining I didn’t pay enough attention to her family. So I started hanging out with her cousins and became good friends, then it became complaining that I was friends with them. You can’t win, just do you.
@alabastergreen74448 ай бұрын
I was with my ex for a few years then she decided i was to boring and the streets were calling her. Married the woman i met right after her and been married over 10 years now. A few years back i got the "leaving you is my biggest regret" phone call.
@NuclearFridge18 ай бұрын
Guessing you said "you got this, it was your choice" or maybe you just hung up without a word.
@diamonddave163 ай бұрын
Womp womp madame
@rhircyn9 ай бұрын
If a woman leaves me, she's done. No apologies or fucks given but you had your chance. I am the catch, she isn't.
@chaccaron43219 ай бұрын
That woman talking about a man she let go 40 years ago isn’t recounting a tale- she’s telling her life story.
@oldhag28818 ай бұрын
'Red dress girl' on 'Whatever' is the updated edition of her.
@NicoGeeraerts9 ай бұрын
Pro tip, women with hobbies and interests of their own tend to get bored less. Like Pearl said, the ones who get bored are the ones who treat guys like their only hobby or source of entertainment.
@123tigercub7 ай бұрын
Agree, there's so many things to do and learn. There isn't even enough time to do it all.
@RANDYJR729 ай бұрын
I love Pearls honesty and integrity when calling modern woman out on their bull 💩.
@zqrahll9 ай бұрын
The chemistry that didn't 'spark' with that guy was that he was a nice guy, and not a bad boy jerk who 'excited' her.
@michaelconroy87719 ай бұрын
Women just don’t appreciate the efforts men go to, I bought my wife flowers and she called me sexist ! , it took me ages and I had to go to three different stores to find Self raising, whole meal and plain, no gratitude 😂
@Mr39knuck9 ай бұрын
Don’t fault yourself…. You made the effort.
@sciloj9 ай бұрын
I would explain it a little differently. It's about bringing some sort of made-up ideology into the equation of the relationship and putting it in front of everything. You don't need any special gratitude to just enjoy things and treat another person in good faith. But if you are possessed by an idea of oppression, you are going to run with it and see it everywhere. So an ordinary well-meant action starts looking like a plot to you. It's effectively a paranoid behavior without having an actual mental illness.
@SD-mi2vc9 ай бұрын
Get rid of her micheal
@banditone78969 ай бұрын
I see what you did there 😉
@MakingDisciples4Jesus9 ай бұрын
That sucks
@birgermunter56389 ай бұрын
im glad i got outvof my marriage, now my money is mine n i dont have to suck up to get sex once a month
@MakingDisciples4Jesus9 ай бұрын
My mother gave up my father and 1 other guy i know of and now she's old and single.
@cmcgensy9 ай бұрын
The bag she fumbled is all that she misses. He would have paid to create or build another strong independent women that would have eventually still left him after the fact years later. So she did him a favor in so many ways . Be careful who you let in your circle, house, or sit in your passenger seat!
@ninjaspam20009 ай бұрын
Pearl the shirt I would buy from you is, (on the front) Bring men back to marriage. (On the back) mandatory laws .... paternity testing at birth, mandatory prenup, 50/50 custody.
@samueledwards2119 ай бұрын
Yeah I had a really great relationship. I tried to make a family out of it. I even put all my savings into it and put myself into debt and left my family for years to try. Want to know what happened? I got used, cheated on, told I am boring. Told that she only had bad memories of our relationship, so yes I love hearing about the regrets of other women.
@The-Walmart8 ай бұрын
Some big facts being said right here… I love watching women cry the same way I love wit holding my help from women when they need it the most
@richardbast72439 ай бұрын
My ex and I have been talking after 20 years apart. I see all the warning signs that I explained away back then. How she perceives things is always tainted by her past traumas from her f'd up family. She doesn't live in reality and after 20 years she still hasn't changed. Might be all the psychologists she sees. Saw the women in her family go to these doctors but they choose to stay with the ones they agree with. Therefore they are just waste of money.
@loganblackwood29229 ай бұрын
Oh she changed alright. She added brand new trauma, brand new old trauma, old trauma, old old trauma and now she is old.
@RG-tt1ru8 ай бұрын
Same, reunited with my high school sweetheart, as a divorcee from a 24-year marriage; she was still unmarried, four kids richer, but none the wiser, her mind still swimming with the same foolish ideas that drove a wedge between us decades earlier. So never take it as a given that life experiences make women better partners because my ex learned nothing from hers.
@luckyq00499 ай бұрын
I love how she just sets it straight. She doesn’t hold back and she is giving great advice.
@oldhag28818 ай бұрын
None of the women will heed her advise.
@johnbelt52048 ай бұрын
Yeah, my ex-sister in law got "bored" and left my brother after 8 years of marriage. She's now an overweight, 55year old, single mother and alone. My brother is remarried to a woman that adores him and knows how lucky she is. He has a beautiful home, money and a great life.
@Simmons23589 ай бұрын
I suspect the best relationship is one where both sides believe the other party is a prize or the prize. A big problem today is that the modern female makes it difficult for any man to consider the modern female a prize coupled with modern females believing they are the prize and a man is lucky to have them.
@Crushonius9 ай бұрын
wrong the only relationships that work is when the man is the prize and the woman loves him quite a bit more than he loves her but should that ever change she will lose all her love and respect for him . seen it happen too many times
@themick65868 ай бұрын
@Crushonius a man can accept a woman he thinks is lesser than he is. A woman often considers herself much more valuable than she is. If you want a healthy marriage, you must find one that considers a man the prize (although I wouldn't recommend a man get married). I,ve been in a good marriage for 45 years. My wife is intelligent enough to realize that she's got a good thing. These single mothers, high body count, selfish women that men have to deal with now make a life long marriage a thing of the past.
@thewarriorwithin74157 ай бұрын
I love how they say “fumble another bag” instead of hurt another man. Makes me think nothing was learned. Love you pearl
@godkingceaser75949 ай бұрын
Pearl I had a women that I went on a date with ghost 👻. After month i met another women in person and life has been good . The ghoster saw me with this lady and all of a sudden my phone was blowing up . I told her you fumbled me so hard peace ✌🏾
@Animatthias9 ай бұрын
Fumbling the bag is a hilarious expression!
@justme.97119 ай бұрын
The men grow up to be men and want to be a father, but these girls want to be a girl not a mother not an adult, party, party, party.
@AndrewReevesArt9 ай бұрын
I used to be the guy women left or turned down because I was too nice, they weren’t ready or will still playing the field but I’ve become the man that won’t give these gezebels the time of day, keep my time and money to myself and love the freedom of not having to deal with these future cat moms who will die alone with their medications, Netflix and vibrators 😂
@jeffferguson46329 ай бұрын
Me too
@themick65868 ай бұрын
Oh so you know my ex wife ?
@AndrewReevesArt8 ай бұрын
@@themick6586 😂😂😂
@Dragonstalon10019 ай бұрын
@3:25 "I learned my lesson and I will not fumble another Bag"...This right here shows she didn't learn a damn thing!! The only thing she sees Men as is Piggy Bank/ATM machine ("Bag") for her!! Pearl how did you let this slip by??
@jppinteric84259 ай бұрын
Opening my eyes... Thank you for a voice of reasoning in this vastly misinformed world. I admire the courage
@WarlordShogun9 ай бұрын
I get pretty pissed off when women refer to us or our ability to provide as 'bags', as if we're some inanimate object that's just filled with money for them to use at their leisure. What would women think if we went around calling them fleshlights?
@andrewwashburn60808 ай бұрын
its really hard to understand that you can show someone so much love and do so much for them and all they are thinking is i bet i could do better.
@danbest34019 ай бұрын
Most women in the United States have a short-sighted, peasant individualism resulting from the male-created romantic tradition of the last century. They were told that they were superior creatures, a little nearer to the angels than their menfolks. They were not encouraged to think, nor to assume social responsibility. It takes a strong mind to break out of that sort of conditioning, and most minds simply aren't up to it. -R. A. Heinlein 1957
@timwalker68028 ай бұрын
I fumbled a bag and started the whole world laughing, but I couldn’t see that, that bag was me.
@garymarvin46688 ай бұрын
The problem will be that every guy she dates from now on will be compared to the first guy and none will measure up to her idealized memory of him.
@betterbutt.8 ай бұрын
No one is perfect. You find the one that's as close to what you need.
@merovingian6889 ай бұрын
These women are full of it. Learning a lesson means logic trumped her feelings. Once she gets the feeling again she’ll be ready to run the streets again.
@JohnTovar-ks8dp9 ай бұрын
The bag fumbler: she is really no better off. She framed this 'good man' as old, 40 instead of 38. And she framed herself as young, 25 instead of 27. She still has to catch herself in her self delusion. That is, she is still delusional as a baseline.
@toddbrown25949 ай бұрын
I would never begin dating a woman over 25 years old seriously. By that time she had plenty of opportunities to be off the market. There is a reason she is not and it's why you only date them for fun, nothing serious.
@annsheridan129 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the “ husband store”
@loganblackwood29229 ай бұрын
Suzanne Venker mentions that every once in a while and when she mentions it to women that haven't heard it before, her reaction is as funny as the other woman's.
@CaptCanuck44449 ай бұрын
I respect that woman who admits to fumbling the bag. The sad reality for her is that she my not get another chance like that.
@roycebritton8 ай бұрын
This is why if your partner wants to leave you should just let them go. Reality awaits them.
@b.b.s75458 ай бұрын
Yep, bye Felicia 😂. If she really was the one, she wouldn't even think of leaving
@brianhargiss95758 ай бұрын
Those men you reject don’t always find the one and live a happy life.
@DarienWhite-vm2hb9 ай бұрын
I dated a girl for 3 years in college, and she did not appreciate me from the start. I stayed with her, because l thought l couldn't do better. Eventually, l realized she wasn't ready for the life l wanted. I got married about two years after l split with my ex. If she would have got it together, it could have been her. Life is about realizing when to grow up, because our youthful choices may follow us to the grave.
@elypowell67978 ай бұрын
Believe me, your choices as a young adult 18 and up will follow you to the grave.
@denniszaderaka75539 ай бұрын
I wish Pearl would start a coaching program for women. I believe one of the causes of women's problems is they either didn't have a Father or they lived in a disfunctional home and are just repeating their Mother's mistakes. Girls tend to seek someone like their father.
@chingron8 ай бұрын
It’s likely that she is such an “expert” because she is/was exactly the same as these women. She is still single afterall and appears to have already hit the wall. You really think she is the type to take a back seat in a relationship as she advocates? Doubt it… I guarantee she is the driver. I remember seeing her podcasts in the early days and she seemed modest, but even then, I could tell it was fake modesty. Now that she has a million followers, she has revealed her true self… cocky and arrogant. And she probably comes off that way in every relationship she has been in… hence her still being single.
@rocketboostjump8 ай бұрын
@@chingronshe could marry if she wanted. There are many men chasing after her and she is still under 30 and who knows she may have a boyfriend but wants to keep her personal life private.
@commonsense80128 ай бұрын
Remember this guys .... " the right one will make you, the wrong one will break you. "
@relaxinmaxin72469 ай бұрын
If taco is all a woman brings to the table, then taco is only what men will be looking for from her. GO taco!
@schaferatsprynet5 ай бұрын
Bearded clams.
@lewislyles10648 ай бұрын
The wall is undefeated! TRAGIC
@Lord_Phoenix959 ай бұрын
I was in a relationship for 9 years. I engaged her 7 years into it and while it might've seemed like a long time it helped me realise that the relationship was a one sided commitment and I would often be angry on the inside while with her cause I had committed so much time and energy to her telling her how beautiful she was, letting her know that I have her back and encouraged her hobbies but in the end she was very selfish and I told her that a couple of months before Covid started I had wanted to leave the relationship, which I definitely should've done earlier, because she had done nothing to help in the relationship. In the end she dumped me over that anf the funniest part is she had a new man 1 month later while were still living together.
@The-You-Doober6 ай бұрын
Almost every woman who has rejected me in my 20’s has looked me up in my 50’s. I closed down my short lived Facebook account because of this issue. After conversing with people you haven’t seen for 20-30 years. You see why you haven’t seen them for 20-30 years.🤷🏻🤷🏻♂️
@carluberoi22589 ай бұрын
I can’t be bothered with woman anymore too much effort and drama
@stephenkilpatrick8079 ай бұрын
Facebook post from my ex within 1 week of our divorce: "What a great day for taking the Harley for a ride down the river!" (With the guy she cheated with, she didn't mention that.) One of the women from our church, who wasn't up-to-date with what was going on between us, said "you got a Harley!?!?!?" No, she got a guy WITH a Harley. Like Pearl just said, women can't seem to create their own lives. They have to have a man who is responsible for entertaining them. So if you are not a 'bad boy', eventually there are going to be problems. She is going to get bored.
@themick65868 ай бұрын
They don't do well with the bad boys either, they will get bored with them over time.
@spoilerman89759 ай бұрын
Pearl that was excellent ! I'm going to save this and show it to my friends.
@nonya85628 ай бұрын
Making hobbies and work into sources of happiness is a great way to keep yourself moving forward and doing better. When I'm not busy working it's looking up stocks, streaming my gaming and writing stories that can become a anime or a plot for a video game. Dive into your passion. Never let a person be what makes you happy. That will eventually turn into a burden on them and no one wants to be a burden.
@christianellithorpe90658 ай бұрын
Pearl, as always you are so smart, so funny and you seem smart relaxed despite this challenging past month. You look relaxed, smiling and attractively feminine, and as always, thank you for your great content. Hang in there!
@Muck0069 ай бұрын
9:30 That "I dont want to settle down yet" happened during the SEXUAL REVOLUTION in the 70s ... which would probably be the start of the "I can get a better guy" / "I still want to have FUN in my 20s" propaganda.
@outlawstarr52099 ай бұрын
The grass is greener where you water it.
@Brother_from_Oz5 ай бұрын
Hey Pearl Your apology comment was perfect It would work.. I’d love to hear the exact words my recent x wife of 20yrs to say.. I’d have her back in a heart beat. Thank you❤
@user-wg2vw3mz1v9 ай бұрын
OMG that woman doing the video in the car, is that TFM's ex? 😂 😂 😂
@louisaklimentos75838 ай бұрын
It was the other way around for me . Men that I liked use to reject me !
@thisvagabondlife71329 ай бұрын
This KZbin channel is one of the most important channels on KZbin. It’s a wake up call to women. Reality is a bytch.
@Dragonstalon10019 ай бұрын
That right there is exactly why the Feminists are trying to destroy it!!
@dougiedorite82967 ай бұрын
Seems a good mother would have explained to them, that a "Good man who will never let you go" , is also likely a firm man who "WILL NEVER take you back". They can't see their selfishness in a mirror , so it doesn't exist. Very sad.
@johntyler21279 ай бұрын
Same thing happened to me when I asked my college to married me.. she got her career and still unmarried, childless at 55. But my old girlfriend did the best thing for me because I met my future wife thereafter. We have been together for 31 yrs and my life is great with a beautiful daughter and my Asian wife aged well. I recently ran into the old girlfriend and she didn’t aged well and looks like someone’s grandma…
@jaycar90798 ай бұрын
I think that this is the issue today Pearl, Women of the past met a man and over time and adversity learned to love him which is why the women of the past stayed with their men for a life time. These Modern day women expect perfection and a deep love connection at the moment they meet and instead of working towards that deep love connection expect it just handed to them. These women need to understand that love and happiness take commitment nothing worth having is just handed to you on a silver platter. Like anything if it's too easily gotten then you won't appreciate what you have until you lose it and it's too late.
@majcorbin9 ай бұрын
HAPPY LIFE =NO WIFE
@SuperDragonRED9 ай бұрын
Social media has toasted their brains bro
@sgt42048 ай бұрын
I’m glad the videos didn’t keep replaying. That would suck.
@Coyote-wm5op9 ай бұрын
My ex did me dirty and resented me for being good. She ended up getting married but to a guy that has shared custody. Once she had to deal with a woman like her she started being nicer to me. At our kids sporting event she started chewing out her husband in front of the kids and other ppl. I almost felt sorry for the guy because she won’t dare talk to me like that after I told her to get out of my house before I throw her out. I’m probably the only guy that’s stood up to her like that. I believe reality has set in for her that she needs a man and her options are dwindling and so are her looks. It’s funny when we go to kids sport events and I’m now the one being checked out.
@BucktailFishing8 ай бұрын
Every time someone makes the “grass is/isn’t always greener…” statement I think of Soundgarden- Outshined. “The grass is always greener where the dogs are 💩ing”. Such a complex and nuanced concept, especially when applied to these sorts of relationships.
@johnleca9 ай бұрын
40 years with my wife who asked for and I paid for the divorce. I am doing well and better everyday after being a heart broken simp. I am very happy when I meet married couples that have traditional values and always give them positive comments and tell them they are what makes this country great.........families, love, values and children.
@dre04mach8 ай бұрын
I wish I would have saved a record of the "regret" messages I've gotten sometimes months, sometimes years after. Could have put them on my resume... lol.
@Adroit19118 ай бұрын
3:13 - yes it most definitely would work. We good guys are pretty forgiving
@jackyboySA8 ай бұрын
I was dating a woman for two years. She is five years older than me. She recently turned 30.We spoke about marriage but told me after two years she isn't ready to settle down, she told me she was only about 70% sure about me. After that conversation I broke up with her.
@elypowell67978 ай бұрын
She will never find another man who wants to marry her.
@katherinelipari66108 ай бұрын
Pearl was onto something with that 'women need to be doing something' comment. It's true. Women need to be kept productive - the devil makes work for idle hands. If men keep their wives running after children, working in the house, studying to improve their handiwork, cleaning and cooking we are surprisingly happy. My husband is always pushing me to learn new recipes, teach our kids new subjects, try growing something new in the garden. It keeps me so happy, and it is great for loyalty. I like being put on a mission by him. It makes me feel useful, and makes him even more attractive as the visionary leader.
@magnushelin0078 ай бұрын
Very interesting observation, I will keep it in mind.
@ricecrash52258 ай бұрын
A friend of mine called and said a girl from your past wanted my number and he wanted to ask if he could give it to her. She said “I was the good guy and an itch she wanted to scratch”. She was scratching itches a lot when we were younger so I told my friend, no tell her to try some antibiotics.
@jessspencer68307 ай бұрын
The grass is greener on the other side, because that,s where the septic tank is !
@damiangordon88937 ай бұрын
the age old saying ' treat them mean and keep them keen" is a true statement