WOMEN Will Always Do What THEY WANT! | Pearl Daily Clip

[@jonmueller2117]

Men are in love. Women are in business.

[@BillPetrovas]

Explain

[@yousleepywolf]

@@BillPetrovas men are largely attracted to a woman's personality and looks. We can have one convo with a woman and picture ourselves with her for years to come. Of course, this isn't great for men because we've learned that when it comes to women, they're attracted to a wide variety of things when it comes to us--looks, personality, status, financial value, inner strength, mental fortitude, overall ability to keep her feeling cared about and provided for, etc. Women are designed to optimize for survival...this means not necessarily caring about your needs so long as it doesn't benefit her in some way, be it in the moment or long term. So in other words, a woman can have s3x with you but if you start failing in one of the departments listed above, she will eventually leave regardless of how good it was. And believe me, she knows where she's going when she leaves.

[@leeali4096]

Relationship is a transaction for women.

[@anotherfreediver3639]

@@leeali4096 Well it can be a transactional thing for men as well ...

[@leeali4096]

@@anotherfreediver3639 In short term relationships, yes. In longer-term relationships, men pay through their noses at the end.

[@Alazar654]

12:26: " most men live on their wife's terms, and not theirs." Absolutely correct!

[@seancollins9745]

they allow it

[@davesmith5939]

@@Alazar654 submission comes through money. Whoever pays the bills wears the pants.

[@Steelhorsecowboy]

@Alazar654 man values peace at home over everything, so he will live her life for the sake of peace. If a man wants family and a legacy he will learn the two most important words in marriage; "yes dear" and let her have her way 90% of the time. 10% of the he must put his foot down and say; "No" and not yield, or she will lose respect for him. Choose your battles carefully.

[@brindomicah1392]

That's why I'm divorced and content.

[@geraldos9094]

The marriage certificate is the great equalizer. The marriage will be on her terms or divorce court will ruin you.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

Women only want 2 things: 1. More 2. Something else

[@fatcatcustoms8896]

Perfect

[@jfern6673]

give this man an award..

[@josephhester753]

...And sometimes, more of something else.😆

[@mr.angelosonassis3069]

Well said. More of what no one can provide.

[@niallfitzpatrick6568]

@@KJ-pu8dw You forgot something...they want EVERYTHING!

[@pabs5270]

Married for 43 years. Miserable for 40.

[@alexanderatta-mora7919]

Can you say why?

[@juliuscesar4176]

damn

[@OrwellsHousecat]

Lucky to get 3

[@skippy31415979]

@@alexanderatta-mora7919 He did. He's married.

[@DurkaDur-bx4ks]

Cuz he signed the contract without reading into it, and now he can't leave without losing his house and a percentage of any paycheck he'll have for the rest of his or her life. "Cheaper to Keep her than leave her"

[@SonOfGodzilla75]

I'm 49, never married. Saw how my mother a$$ rapped my father in this US Family Court system that dates back to the mid 70's. This is NOT a new issue its been an issue for decades and has only gotten worse.

[@jackspring7709]

True. The courts are promoting and subsidising this behaviour.

[@truthtelleranon]

@@jackspring7709 Worse: they're profiting from it

[@robertwoods3750]

actually it dates back a lot further than that, never been upgraded much if at all.

[@eddenoy321]

@@robertwoods3750 Correct you are .

[@falconvelocity]

Same.

[@Alazar654]

"The male, for all his bravado and exploration, is the loyal one, the one who generally feels love. The female is skilled at betrayal and torture and damnation." -Bukowski

[@nerychristian]

@@Alazar654 Also, it is possible for men to love more than one woman, and to treat several women well. Women on the other hand cannot do this. Once they have met another man that they like, they will despise and emasculate their current man.

[@YellowToucan]

Another fan of Mr. Charles Bukowski.

[@MasterCole1017]

pretty much

[@midmomom2490]

Feminism at its finest

[@1streylight]

That's because men have a real sense of honor and commitment. these are concepts that women really can't process like we can.

[@geoffreyokrongly916]

Men were historically the head of the household for a reason.

[@SJ.INFO5000]

the reason: way bakc they had to really fight and protect the WEALTH the land the house castler etc..

[@Blase-u4f]

Yes. Women actually want that anyway, regardless of what they say, or pretend to think. Men also want traditional wives, no matter how much they pretend to agree with all the boss babe feminist crap.

[@nerychristian]

Women should have to pay for their own weddings. That would prove they are actually committed to the man before they get married. We know women don't like to spend money if they don't have to.

[@Sukisunn]

Traditionally the womans father paid for the wedding. Bet ya did not know that little fact.

[@westtexastll1978]

​@@Sukisunn the father had to *PAY* another man to take his sweet Lil headache/heartache off his hands & outta his house & wallet!!!

[@westtexastll1978]

​@@Sukisunn betcha didn't know THAT lil fact! 😂

[@nerychristian]

@shannonnero Wasn't hard to build a shack on empty land

[@timpierce1967]

😂😂😂😂

[@jaygee553]

Zero accountability means you can do whatever you want to do.

[@DayumSonny]

Zero accountability means you THINK you can do whatever you want to do. Zero consequences means you can do whatever you want to do AND GET AWAY WITH IT.

[@johncapo2843]

WRONG it means you can do NO WRONG EVER lol

[@jaygee553]

@@johncapo2843 😂

[@Correction-zl2oe]

They couldn't bear the level of responsibility that their current freedom allows you would need to restrict their freedom and options they are to weak to bear man responsibilities the old ways weren't oppressive they were afforded the level of responsibility they can handle and like a child that isn't very much lol what we have now is unsustainable where women have all this power and all the fallout from their sins falls on men and their children

[@jaygee553]

@@Correction-zl2oe research Bolshevism. Eye opening IF you can find any info on them.

[@crappyfellow]

Until someone stops the free reign of Family Court, good men will avoid marriage and women in general. Nowadays, only 6.5 men in a thousand get married. When he does get married, the following scenario plays out: (1) man gets married, (2) wife refuses to have sex, (3) wife racks up huge credit card debt, (4) wife stops contributing financially, (5) wife stops cooking & cleaning, (6) wife cheats on husband, (7) wife files for divorce and takes the house, cars, savings, and kids, (8) wife falsely accuses husband of abuse and he no longer can see his kids, (9) wife poisons kids against the father. What man in his right mind will sign up for this?

[@voiceofexperience]

Family Court = "Reign of Terror"

[@richarddebono7092]

It's all coming to an end.

[@zhouyi1933]

There a good women out here. There have always been because just like men women are people too and can range from good person to bad on the decency spectrum. Just because you chose a wrong woman who will do these things to you doesnt mean you can't take accountability for your actions. Choose better.

[@Colton-wz5sh]

@@zhouyi1933its the women who need to take accountability. You are ALL like this. Its not the men who need to do better.

[@pukki34]

@@crappyfellow this.

[@General.Legion]

Basically, do not believe what a woman says but what she does.

[@Correction-zl2oe]

80 % of women file divorce thats just the ones who could contain the crazy long enough to trick a guy lol so collectively they are a mess

[@DarthTittius]

You get it😂

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

This is the way to judge all people.

[@tonyb7615]

You can milk it for a year with a cheap ring, then ask for a prenup to get out.

[@Carrera6rennsport]

"men attract the hottest women they can afford, women go for the richest man they can attract" - Tom Leykis from 'Leykis 101'

[@michaellakey3565]

So its virtual prostitution whats the diff' Except marriage is a permanent wallet drain with maybe occasional jollies.. as opposed to an hour or two of super fun for a couple hundred bucks.

[@daddy-w6o5]

nope. Men settle for women whom they find fit to be a proper mother to his kids, only to find later that she was a skilled cheater from the very beginning.

[@Carrera6rennsport]

@@daddy-w6o5 re women: "you're never their first choice and they're always available" - Rich Cooper

[@TheRealRenn]

Quoting Tom Leykis for truth is like hunting in a porta potty for a nice steak dinner

[@drak3y]

@@TheRealRenn where is he factually incorrect?

[@lander77477]

a man will sacrifice his own happiness for his family. a woman will sacrifice her own family for her happiness

[@arcane-z8217]

ABSOLUTELY BRILLIANT!

[@zoesolanki961]

Says who??? Was your mother like that?

[@lander77477]

@@zoesolanki961 nope, but pretty much the consensus of men that have been divorced say that

[@Star_Tec1]

Totally agree. A wife thinks that she had sacrificed a lot for the family by taking care of husband and kids, and now it's her turn to be happy, which eventually end up breaking the family either she leaves or go for divorce. The wife does not understand that her husband (a good husband) has also been working hard and making his value high in the job market so that he could bring happiness to the family. Though such a situation of self-happiness is less likely to happen to traditional women but working women.

[@ginamarie-rf4wj]

Men don't go for the woman he wants, and then blames the woman that she recognized the bad situation and tried to better it so the kids can have a better life. Don't blame women if you choose to stay in a bad situation, it's your weakness that's causing that.

[@Alazar654]

Women do not like nice guys lol Its obvious, people just don't like the truth.

[@Astuga]

They dont like them, but they like to take advantage of them. Emotionally, financially or as the guy in the friendzone when they need to change a tire.

[@davesmith5939]

@@Alazar654 you get sex from being attractive and submission through money. Being nice is part of being attractive, but when they say it they imagine the perfect guy being nice to them.

[@gragvar]

Hard lesson for a guy to learn.

[@smokeybirdman]

Women like nice guys BUT with the ability to keep them in check. That's it.

[@evilgrin07]

Those are the guys they marry....because they love to takeover...that is why they admire cats...because a cat has the biggest balls in the entire hourse more times than not....

[@kermitthefrog9719]

She’s never yours it’s just your turn

[@bleu_chzst924]

My favorite thing to remind men.

[@Correction-zl2oe]

well then no real man will ever give them 100% knowing she is withholding her heart and body good job women lol

[@Carrera6rennsport]

"you're never their first choice and they're always available..." - Rich Cooper

[@SJ-ru4ej]

Turn the red pill content off and get out in to the real world.

[@guitarmute]

Big facts

[@venvnco6259]

Men marry for love women marry for business.

[@jaym7369]

They marry for the wedding.

[@ura9390]

@@venvnco6259 they marry for the divorce settlement

[@joesoap8125]

Women marry for resources because resources raise children. It’s instinctive but no as men we should not count on anything with modern women and it’s been like this for decades and it does suck because we invest into longevity and thus investing emotionally and financially is not worth it anymore, but being alone kinda sucks

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

"Men marry for love, women marry for business"? Seriously? This ridiculous stereotype is not just outdated; it’s completely detached from reality. People marry for love, companionship, and shared values-not to fulfill some outdated notion of ‘business.’ No one acts like this in the real world.

[@RobertPace-qz3bt]

Women don’t leave because their boyfriend stopped cheating. They leave because he started simping.

[@DontScareTheFish]

Whichever way you phrase it the rollercoaster ended. Most women "need" whoever they consider to be the most alpha / dominant guy. For many women that's the man all other women are chasing after. Aka "He has options but he picked me"

[@arcane-z8217]

BINGO!

[@colethewolfboy]

ADDENDUM: They leave when they take the simp for everything he has

[@girardedward]

@@DontScareTheFishDoesn’t have to be Alpha. Has to be a sturdy rock. Big difference.

[@MarsiVenus33]

​@@arcane-z8217tak

[@josephsimontacchi2285]

Men marry for Love, to Start their lives and to settle down with one Women rather than constantly being on the Prowl. Women marry for Lifestyle, Children, Security. And when they get bored or Unhappy ( which is a guarantee ) They get a Court mandated a Retirement Plan, and the man gets destroyed . Hence, Men are Done playing by rules which are so absurdly Skewed.

[@darrylculbertson8313]

When they don't like you

[@v1-vr-rotatev2-vy_vx31]

You are so right Pearl,, We men, thank you for all you do

[@Epoch-vu8cj]

she's only repeating the same talking points of men before her like a parrot

[@RARochester]

@@Epoch-vu8cj Give her credit. It has MORE of an impact when it comes from a woman.

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

@@RARochester Give her credit for what exactly-parroting the same misogynistic nonsense that men have been saying for years? Just because it’s coming from a woman doesn’t make it any more valid or true. If anything, it’s just sadder that she’s contributing to a narrative that tears down her own gender. Instead of blindly praising her, maybe consider that reinforcing outdated, harmful stereotypes isn’t something to applaud, no matter who’s saying it.

[@Blackgrimreaper2024]

@@RARochesterno its doesn’t simp

[@hannahwhite2776]

😂💀💀

[@rickbourne1376]

When a wife cuts of sex if you don't agree with them, agree to do what they want... it's over.

[@1stJohn215]

Principal is far more important than sex.

[@SoundsFromBeyond]

"When a wife cuts of sex if you don't agree with them, agree to do what they want... it's over." No. You trade it in for a newer model.

[@JusticeSheperd]

When a wife cuts off sex if you don't agree with them, you leave. Anymore who uses sex as a tactic to manipulate is not worth your time or effort.

[@AB-ez4rm]

It's often said you should leave the relationship before you cheat. Here's a reason to leave so you don't have to cheat.

[@Fr4nkBl4ck]

thats-why-you-ALWAYS-keep-some-side.....and-a-packed-bag

[@chrisomalley1105]

"Women value their own happiness above their children "- so true! These are the same women on dating sites that claim " my family is my everything! My kids come first!" Sadly, what they never learn, in their delusional world, is that " being happy " is a short, fleeting emotion. And that they fail to value trust, respect, giving, and commitment.

[@hannahwhite2776]

what?? Lol. How can you put all mothers in one category? That's complete bullshit.

[@rogeliosanchez9220]

Don't listen to what a woman says... Watch that they DO and HOW they respond.

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

That’s honestly such a dehumanizing take. Women aren’t some kind of puzzle or secret code to crack-they’re people, not objects or a ‘game’ to play. If you need to ignore someone’s words and just ‘watch what they do,’ maybe the issue isn’t with women but with your inability to actually listen and communicate. This mindset is exactly why so many of you end up bitter and alone-try seeing women as actual human beings instead of some stereotype you’ve cooked up.

[@nufsaid80]

Once my wife learned what a No Fault Divorce was, she knew she could do Anything, It's been HELL.

[@Nordic_Sky]

When she doesn't need you anymore, or has a better option, she will be out of there guys. Count on it. And as soon as she feels she can do better, she will make your life hell by being grumpy all the time, picking on you, etc. Fun times.

[@youngb7363]

Yup or spread lies to her girlfriends so everyone starts treating you bad. It's crazy the games women play. Not worth the b.s.

[@Nordic_Sky]

@@youngb7363 Yes, that is 100% truth.

[@mikemay777]

True

[@landontesar3070]

@@Nordic_Sky Hello Cowgirl in the sand.....

[@Folk_var]

Basically, just have fun with them, don't put a ring on one.

[@VengWarrior]

Facts!!!

[@BOB-fd4lu]

yeah women are very fun lol

[@PastTime777]

Correct. Don’t sign a useless contract with the state. That’s what you tell them.

[@funkyguy99]

Lol! You would have to be a pyromaniac if you want to play with fire! 😂😂

[@agauerm]

@@BOB-fd4lu you misunderstood the "fun" part

[@tavybukemlee]

Pearl is a genius killing what women don't share honestly with men, no wonder men don't bother anymore. Great to see you again Pearl ❤😊

[@williamyoung9401]

It's because it's not even about money, size, or personality. It's all about the good looks. That's it. Buff muscles, tight butt, and big chin and cheek bones. That's it... Everything else can be rationalized. Can they explain it? No. But that's what they all want.

[@DonGilbertoGuruledeNuevoMejico]

So glad you're back Pearly

[@ldoumen9904]

"there is nothing in this society that is keeping people together" that is spot on !

[@funkymunky]

Men love idealistically. Women like opportunistically.

[@hannahwhite2776]

💀💀💀💀

[@funkymunky]

​@@hannahwhite2776 We know that listening and self-awareness aren't your strong suits.

[@hannahwhite2776]

@@funkymunky Actually you know nothing about me. Lmfao....

[@funkymunky]

@@hannahwhite2776 You deprive me of my peace and solitude, and provide only your attitude in return. The best way to respect a man is to leave him alone.

[@WilliamKirkland-j4r]

Thanks for telling the truth. My Ex lady could NOT accept a casual comment about an "average' XYZ data point about 'women' in general - she made it Personal!

[@MegaDePorter]

Married Man, age 79 17.5 years. Divorced 30 years. Divorced is far, far better. Lost everything. Best : never ever get married. Good luck guys.

[@Alazar654]

10:28: "marriage in 2024 is overwhelmingly a negative experience for men." Kaboom! We told yall lol!!

[@ant123495]

Supporting the cause😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@SJ-ru4ej]

Pearl was just a bridesmaid in a wedding. If she really believed that, she could have chosen not to celebrate a marriage. Nor is Pearl an expert on marriage, dating or relationships. She's barely had a boyfriend for more than a few months.

[@boydw1]

Not even just marriages - Most relationships from initial dating right through to marriage ultimately end up being a net negative experience for men.

[@SJ-ru4ej]

@@boydw1 If a man is miserable when dating/in a relationship before marriage, it's on him if he decides to propose to and marry that woman. If it's so bad, leave before you get married. Men are the ones that propose marriage.

[@Colton-wz5sh]

@@SJ-ru4ejshe could still celebrate a marriage. And it doesn’t matter if she has a boyfriend or not

[@bartroberts3634]

My mother told me years ago women are nuts. My Dad chimed in said,"Rule of Thumb son."

[@the-seed-sower761]

@@bartroberts3634 mother told me the same thing

[@alienJIZ1990]

It actually makes perfect sense. Women assess a man's worth based on whether other women want him or not, and if he's cheating, clearly he's desirable and other women want him

[@chanceklein]

🎯

[@josephhester753]

100%

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

This perspective is seriously flawed. Reducing women to mere status seekers who only value men based on their desirability to others is just a lazy stereotype. Women assess worth based on many factors, including character, values, and how a man treats others. Cheating doesn't make someone desirable; it shows a lack of integrity and respect. If you think that a man's value is tied solely to the attention he gets from other women, maybe you need to rethink your understanding of relationships.

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

@@josephhester753 Holy shit, there are actual people agreeing with this misogynist.

[@alienJIZ1990]

@@WandaEdits-wbk you mean people agree with objective reality? Shocker 🙄

[@GamesWorldTT]

🎉 We Will Always Support Pearl 🎉

[@Alazar654]

This video is gold!!!!!!!! 😂 Excellent!

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

No, no it wasn't at all. I'm guessing you're at the age of 14 who can't see through the redpill/manosphere bullshit.

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

No it isn't, it's absolute garbage.

[@ShamoaKrasieski-xm4ze]

Thank you for bringing attention to this social issue.

[@davidprothro6763]

It’s because of our hard hearts. Typically, we don’t love others, we love what they provide for us.

[@nerychristian]

Pearl is the only KZbinr that tells it how it is. She is right. Society is broken. And the only way to fix it is to take away women's rights and force them to focus on getting married and having children.

[@TryHardCryHarder]

Absolutely.

[@Alazar654]

Absolutely correct!!!

[@Alazar654]

the black pill is undefeated.

[@Alazar654]

See, this is why arranged marriage is a good thing.

[@TheBestPill-no2xp]

Coach Greg Adams?

[@mh8757]

In California, if a man lets a woman live with him, she can sue him for financial support AND child support for her kids. Nice guys that didn't start getting women until they made good money are easy to spot. Usually, it's a man who was raised primarily by his mother (to be a nice guy).

[@jkw6196]

de facto law should be removed completely

[@landontesar3070]

California is so screwed up it doesn't count

[@Pieterpittigeportiepeperpathe]

About the cheating thing. That sounds counterintuitive, but it's actually simple. When the man cheats and keeps cheating, it signals you're not worth staying with. The woman gets a low self esteem and doesn't dare to leave. When the man stops cheating, it signals that he thinks he made mistakes and that she is worth staying with. That raises her self esteem and makes her think she has a chance with a better man.

[@chanceklein]

🎯

[@vkdeen7570]

that's part of it, but the main thing is: the man takes an apologetic position, which she then takes advantage of, i.e., makes him jump through hoops. he starts conceding on things, trying to make up. he loses any frame, position, or power he had in the relationship. she then loses respect for him (not for the cheating, but because he gives her all the frame now) ... about 3-6 months sounds, right so if u cheated as a man don't fall into the apologetic frame too long. the guys they stay with are rather unapologetic about cheating, especially long term and don't lose their masculine frame. ask yourself how come players can often keep playing a woman even after she knows he's seeing other? don't lose the thing that made u attractive in the first place

[@Pieterpittigeportiepeperpathe]

​@@vkdeen7570what you say is in line with female psychology. The part they're not telling. 😊

[@SIMARJEETMEHTA]

@@vkdeen7570 Well said

[@landontesar3070]

@@vkdeen7570 sad game to play

[@drgeek100]

Pearl, your insights are extremely accurate.

[@grinningchicken]

Marriages need to be looked at like NFL contracts. Lawyers from both sides hammer out the deal the expectations, length of term buyout clauses and bonuses.

[@nerychristian]

@@grinningchicken There should be no bonuses for getting a divorce, only penalties. And there should also be NDAs. Women do love to slander their husbands.

[@grinningchicken]

@@nerychristian Divorce is when the woman buyouts of the remaining years on the deal so the can hit free agency and try again and NDA non disparagement is a given. Smart men never try to represent themselves for contract negotiations. The GM handles all that. He only give short term low base pay deals with incentives which can be earned by meeting or exceeding certain standards. If they meet expectations hit them with the franchise tag so they can’t leave and they have to prove it for one more year. Anyone who offers a 30 yr old past the prime female a max contract should be shamed and get a new GM. Max contracts and lifetime deals only for virgins under 23 even then the contract can be torn up for conduct detrimental to the team getting popped for PEDs or not living up to certain thresholds.

[@0biwan7]

family courts can void any contract and replace it with one that makes the man pay more. family courts are incentivized to do this by the government because the government sees it as a way to raise revenue. when a woman goes on welfare, the government becomes the beneficiary of all support payments

[@nerychristian]

@@0biwan7 Lawyers also benefit from divorce. They woman's lawyer will always tell her to demand more from the husband. The longer the divorce drags on, the more money they make. And judges were all lawyers at one point

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Any terms favourable for the man in a prenup will be thrown out by a divorce court judge.🤣

[@paulconnolly4483]

No wife = happy life. That’s extremely sad.

[@KJ-pu8dw]

@paulconnolly4483_but true

[@vincentmoreno5746]

❤ Pearl, she speaks the truth..

[@brooksrileymusic]

Sometimes…well mostly

[@DurkaDur-bx4ks]

She does, and you can believe what she's talking about now, or learn it through experience later

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

No she doesn't

[@ReeleKool]

Marriage went from roles to goals ... From Till death do us part to till inconvenience or better offer do us part

[@sdeondotson]

Welcome back Pearl

[@malcolmthimmanah5459]

You are 100% Pearly. There is no reason for men to even fight it as it just becomes a stress and headache for them. Best thing is for the men to just work on themselves, help society and keep the world running. Most importantly for men, keep dutiful men around you and keep that high frequency living. No one is saving a man. So as men, it is our duty to look after females, elderly and children. In saying that, we must however stay clear of people who do not fit into our way of life. A hi and support from us to them won’t hurt. However, don’t include them on the ship though. Keep strong my brothers who are pushing regardless of the lack of support 💪 let’s be responsible whether we feel like or not.

[@tyronemarcucci8395]

Old saying: Women and cats will do what they want, where they want, when they want and men and dogs will just have to bear it.

[@agauerm]

Of course they do, imagine being pandered your whole life, and encouraged to break a contract where you only gain benefits from doing so

[@Correction-zl2oe]

yeah if they had a conscious they still wouldn't your point is null and void [and no men wouldn't do this we have a conscious even if we could get away with it not only are men Gods image and glory and women aren't and we are better in every way and more moral]

[@banished6481]

That's one heck of an epiphany, Pearl: Marriage is of no benefit to men. It's just another responsibility.

[@dustinwilson4815]

King Solomon said that in all the people he met, one in a thousand men were wise and worthy. And in all the women he met (hundreds of wives he had), there were NONE. No fault divorce is a monstrosity. It, with a lot of other things, has to go.

[@TheKarlslok]

No fault divorce saves men from being together with horrible wives. BUT there should not be any cash and prices when divorcing! THAT is what is wrong with no fault divorce, that women get cash and prices, and kids, for leaving their husbands. Women should always be able to leave, but then they should get zero, and the husband should get the children (if he wants to).

[@SMacCuUladh]

no fault divorce means marriage is meaningless.

[@dustinwilson4815]

@@TheKarlslok As a side note, the divorce rates in Japan are drastically lower than here (around 2%). This is because the community shuns the practice entirely, and the social price is very steep. Here in the west people are almost always excused for their casual disregard for the bonds of marriage to be happy. This is the root of the problem. As Pearl mentioned, she doesn't meet any Christian women who are okay with obeying their husbands as it instructs them to do in the bible. However, in Japan, arranged marriages are the norm, so most couples are already beginning with an obedience mindset in place.

[@TheKarlslok]

@@dustinwilson4815 2%??? "According to the Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare, 35.5% of marriages in Japan end up in divorce.10 apr. 2023" "The divorce rate of international marriages in Japan is approximately 50%, while non-international marriages fall at about 35%.18 aug. 2023" Whatever moral decline has happened in the west, Japan suffer from the same illness. The fertility rate these is extremely low. So we can not with good consious say japan is in any way better.

[@zipperpillow]

@@SMacCuUladh Winner, winner chicken dinner. Not meaningless, just a gross injustice towards men.

[@Astuga]

Unhappy couples in the past stayed together, because love, sex or sympathy are not the only aspects in a relationship. Having the security of a relationship and a family was valued more, because your family was for the most part the only thing that did stand between life and being an outcast living on the streets, having no one to take care of you in sickness or with high age or literally death. Only wealthy people could afford not to marry. And if they did marry, it often was almost a kind business merger.

[@Ralph_Kreutzberger-Blumenfeld]

"Only wealthy people could afford not to marry. And if they did marry, it often was almost a kind business merger." Wealthy people still marry for business reasons and for their offspring to take over the family business. They can afford to get married and divorced multiple times, so it's a no biggie for them.

[@anthonyfrade5203]

We can get into a marriage for all kinds of reasons, money, sex, status, kids, labor, etc... But you are right, we are seeing it more and more that anything other than you love that person more than anyone else, is just not a strong enough glue to hold two people together over decades. And to love someone is a verb like taking care of a plant constantly giving care and affection. Because saying you love them is cool but your love only grows by tending to it, daily. Women don't understand that love doesn't magically appear in your heart its something you choose and construct by your thoughts and actions. Congratulations to all the humans who were able to have a marriage built primarily on love for they get to experience a rare thing. Too many of us are not being true and in it for other motives. The cracks will eventually show and it'll crumble. Marriage will prove to you whether you actually loved the other person and not what you got out of them. How hot she is, how rich he is... its only a matter of time before that loses its appeal to you and if you didn't actually love them you will torment that person whether you mean to or not.

[@ClaudioBanks-t1q]

My mother is Cuban Italian. And she said to me all woman are where. And if don't think your mother is one . Go ask your dad!

[@Electrifyedwheels]

SAD

[@truthtelleranon]

Based mom. It's true. And it's okay. Men just have to accept this. They'll be okay once they digest the truth.

[@STVODVIL]

“all woman are where.” Okay Bot

[@princered10]

are where? Is that a typo?

[@ura9390]

Where is where? Was she on drugs?

[@nyrangers3150]

So many thanks Pearl! It's nice to hear the truth from someone who has observed the behaviors.

[@SilkyySilk]

Crazy that Pearl will drop a long form video like this and women will still argue

[@SJ-ru4ej]

So? Pearl argues plenty too.

[@SilkyySilk]

@@SJ-ru4ej not the point whatsoever, thank you for wasting your time with the comment.

[@anthonyboss3686]

These are facts! You're on fire with this one pearl

[@jimmyg9186]

Just more reasons why all our ancestors greatly restricted women's agency and ensured societal survival.

[@Correction-zl2oe]

woah woah you don't think women should have the authority to decide if everyone perishes that's MYSOGGYKNEES REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE lol!!!!

[@0biwan7]

traditions are solutions to problems we forgot we had

[@mikesolns1364]

This is why the taliban keep them in burkas

[@telecomgear]

​@@0biwan7freaking deep and right.

[@drak3y]

But somewhere, the simpery of modern men decided the eons of lessons were wrong and that they were smarter than the entirety of human history. How's that working out for us?

[@PeeTee-e6l]

Outstanding edit. Watched the 2 hr show, and the compressed version has all the main points covered perfectly. Well done

[@russelldevaney7001]

Which is exactly why all societies have had complex rules and customs to restrict female behavioral options. Women will ALWAYS choose what benefits them personally. What benefits the society never enters their minds. All societies knew this fact that our society has willfully forgotten.

[@godwinnwabekee6006]

Real Facts

[@WandaEdits-wbk]

No, this whole video is absolute garbage, how does no one have the common sense and the brain capacity to see through this bullshit.

[@azothamenti3378]

Pearl speaks truth its why many women dont like her

[@eazymethod01]

People have always said this was stupid to me, but my view is be together for hobbies (and values). Be with someone where it's like being with yourself.

[@ShewedDude]

This whole video sums up why we all should be extremly cautious of who we listen to and take advice from. A lot of liars and narcissist are drawn to having a “following”.

[@mikeuptegrove]

Dropping a lifetime of wisdom in a few minutes. Your observation is spot on.

[@PunkRockZombie205]

Seeing Pearl grow as a person and realize being pro traditional is a losing battle in today's society and turning red pill is great. Too bad most women will never let go of their delusions in their head and live in reality, but one can always have hope

[@1234Deemoney]

Nailed it Pearl !!!! Thank you for fighting and defending men.

[@Alazar654]

1:12:"80% of the time. W stayed with those who cheated on them" Correct again! yup. This is exactly what they do.

[@stale_.]

Hey we stay after being cheated on too. Too many of us guys do.

[@SJ-ru4ej]

Pearl blames women who leave after being cheated on for breaking up a family and that they need to just get over it, so she should have no problem with the ones who stay. She even said herself, she wouldn't leave if her man stepped out.

[@bradhienzachary]

Yes they don’t mind being cheated on. They do the same and will level up at the chance.

[@ImNotADeeJay]

Women want a man who stands his ground. also, they want a man who bends to all her wants and desires. All at once.

[@Sunday20890]

How about men? What he wants???

[@TsugaC]

Forget iron-clad, Gentlemen. If your prenuptial agreement is not forged from titanium, do NOT get married. Women must be made to understand from the get-go that they will receive little or less if they file for divorce.

[@RARochester]

Just don't get married; you LOSE the upper hand if you do; women show their true colors after marriage. You can't lose if you don't play the game.

[@davidrodgers9558]

Lol.. ya right.. 👍🏻..

[@salguodrolyat2594]

Prenups are worth less than the paper they are written on. Only an idiot thinks otherwise.🤨

[@willbass2869]

ANY prenup can & will be overturned. STOP relying on a govt court document to protect you😡😡! Haven't you 🤡 figured out the game yet?

[@TsugaC]

@@RARochester If you want children and the continuance of your family line, then that is not an option. An intimidatingly thorough prenuptial agreement is your best bet.

[@josephnyongesa193]

Pearl, this breakdown is amazing! Good job. Been following your shows for sometime now.

[@vashnator]

It's not "cognitive dissidence" it's "cognitive dissonance"

[@whiterabit09]

Tism.

[@blond696ie]

@@vashnator "Catholics and Christians" to boot

[@jamestrent-nw9zb]

@@blond696ie How many? I'll wear my best boots for this event!

[@arcane-z8217]

Thank you, Mr. Spock. Joking aside, you are correct.

[@zipperpillow]

Perfect example of your point.

[@user-sy6jf4hm3t]

The stigma of a nice guy is someone who will say or do anything to seek approval. Being accommodating is not an attractive quality because it is perceived as being a "yes" person when, in fact, your intentions are not sincere. Therefore, people are respected for standing up for themselves, causing conflict or controversy, because they are perceived as strong, driven, and intelligent. So consider that in the career world, more people who are assholes rise higher than accommodating personalities. The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

[@scasey1960]

Yes - it’s a losing deal for men

[@steveg6978]

Most women don't have honesty as a core value.

[@zoesolanki961]

And most men don't have empathy as a core value. Men and women have different strengths, that's what makes them work well together.

[@marcusr3795]

@@zoesolanki961how do you gather that conclusion ?

[@zoesolanki961]

@@marcusr3795 From being in a 14 year marriage with the person who was my first boyfriend (we met at 18). You?

[@Blackgrimreaper2024]

@@zoesolanki961that doesn’t make you an expert

[@josephsimontacchi2285]

Glad you are back. Voice of Reason

[@soldier09r]

These are good takes.

[@fellowcitizen]

Excellent video. Devotion to truth and benevolence is imperative.

[@adamharris-y7q]

I'm an Athiest, and I've been married for 16 years. It doesn't take religion to make it work, it takes a woman who is loyal, and that is in rare quantities nowadays.

[@abel4776]

The fear of God is what will work, nothing else. 2025 through 2028 will be hell, watch behaviors change overnight.

[@gauge6513]

Yep. Looked up divorce statistics. Atheists have the lowest and rarely are in prison. Isn't it interesting how God's children fail so badly

[@megalodon1726]

Religion can make it work, but only if it's genuine religious beliefs, and not one-day Christianity where they go to church once a week and live like the devil the other 6 days.

[@carlwide6594]

It's a rare quality because of the decline in religious, moral upbringing.

[@Mojo702]

Prenup and paternity tests

[@eibbor171]

prenup can be thrown out in family court and that's where most divorces are settled so no the best prenup is to not get married. Mandatory paternity tests no argument there as it's good for other reasons aside from who the legit father is

[@Mojo702]

@eibbor171 only in certain circumstances: fraud, or unreasonable or completely one-sided, and a couple of others. As long as it is somewhat reasonable, then all is ok

[@DurkaDur-bx4ks]

Bank a sample and IVF money, and vasectomy. If she wants a your baby she needs to ask for your consent like an adult

[@danwetherington5096]

Men will sacrifice their happiness for their family; women will sacrifice the family for their happiness.

[@juliancate7089]

Loyalty is a masculine trait, not a feminine one. All loyalty is conditional for everyone, but no one's loyalty comes with higher premium, a higher bar, than women's loyalty. And even then, it's no guarantee that she won't leave/cheat. Women's loyalty is to themselves at the expense of all else.

[@GymJones865]

@@juliancate7089 that’s why I’ve chose the self model.

[@goblindrums700]

Dear man, if a woman says she doesn't want much or even anything from you, be attentive - that woman wants EVERYTHING!

[@JamesDeese]

What is interesting is that the divorce laws of the past accused of suppressing women was seen by men and women as being "empowering" women to protect their marriages. The base assumption being that they would know if it were worth saving. The punitive cost of divorce was seen as encouraging more proper behavior. That being stated the evolution of sex based laws has swung in directions that make the antiquated divorce system a bludgeoning tool, more often used by women than men, but men do take advantage of loopholes and offensive (actions not feelings). Better attitudes on marriage (now marred by feminism) is a beginning. But, the truth of what Pearl is saying here cannot be denied.

[@TheA1carpetman]

Thanks for sharing and taking the time to put this together Greg 60 years old Coolangatta Australia 🇦🇺

[@Nazyairsengikar]

Marriage should never be the solution; Marriage should be the result of the solution.

[@josephschuster1494]

Pearl, you are spot-on regarding married men…they are truly unhappy with their life situations. Great vid! ❤

[@king489]

It lacks God... When they truly put God first, this kind of behaviour will disappear.

[@CiluhStyle1]

They don't have problem with Men. They have a problem with God.

[@williamyoung9401]

Define "Putting God first." You mean, their own personal belief structure they convince themselves is proper?

[@Correction-zl2oe]

And the world will end prior to that coming to pass so your point is moot lol

[@gauge6513]

Wrong .atheist couples have the lowest divorce rates in the U.S.

[@Bruce-mm2uc]

True. God above all.

[@lardal1502]

As Kevin Samuels used to say "marriage isn't about love ,it's about commitment ". The family and in turn society has been completely destabilize by women leaving their marriage for no real reason.

[@MrJeffcoley1]

A lot of unhappy people externalize the reason for their unhappiness. A woman who is unhappy in her marriage often is going to be even more unhappy once she’s divorced. Her husband isn’t the reason, it’s her.

[@anotherfreediver3639]

Yes, there's evidence for this relating to neuroticism and marriage breakdown.

[@JimKJeffries]

So well said, particularly at the end. Exceptional creations of love, both producing more than either ever imagined possible. God Bless them.

[@jatigre1]

Pearl speaks the truth. Hear her out.

[@lawshorizon]

BTW this is one of your better videos in that you managed to sum it all up perfectly.

[@Montbound1]

They stay for 6 months more to plot against the man to leave him

[@JimLecka]

Thank you for sharing you hard earned observations. Do keeeeeep going!

[@Alazar654]

Live on, mgtow!!!!

[@Arthur-u7e6l]

11 years of peace and tranquility. Life is wonderful.

[@Gejdbaksidnd]

She admitted that she's not traditional. She's still not afraid to expose modern women's lies. Respect.

[@leftsoul5716]

one in 32 is a good marriage

[@Sukisunn]

1 in 32 is 1990s numbers... Today's number is more like 1 in over 9000... Pun intended...

[@JesusCsus]

Sad testimony of these Narcissistic times. I'm one of six siblings who grew up with single mom and low income. All but one has gotten divorced and has yet been married for over 20 years since, to her second husband. I'm going on 34 years, older sister 50 years, older brother 34 years, younger brother 40 years, other brother passed away but was married over 25 years. Maybe growing up with gratitude and making the best of situations was blessing.