Modern Women Have To Make A Move ©

[@Deshawn1]

Time Stamps Introduction 00:00 Pre show songs. Too lucky by Justnormal 01:51 Expensive Dinner by SINY 04:16 Shoes off by Guustavv 06:13 Even though it hurts by Spring Gang feat King Sis 09:18 Enough of you By Velveteen Feat Amaranthine 12:11 Let Her Know by Jontha Links 15:31 Good lies by Vividry along with a Jedi mind trick 18:38 Show starts 19:23 Candle of the evening Le Labo LAURIER 62, Fragrance of the evening Tom ford Tuscan Leather 22:01 Modern women are going to have to learn how to... 25:07 Let me talk to you real quick 29:50 Do you suck at... 40:22 Get the likes up theme song 43:56 Many ladies don't know how to... 47:26 Stop texting 54:25 If it doesn't happen, it's his fault 58:50 Money World 1:05:08 1st Caller Jessica age 32 1:29:16 2nd Caller Diana no age 1:33:27 3rd Caller Alexandra age 27 1:39:34 4th Caller Ashley age 29 1:41:50 5th Caller Lauren age 28 1:52:30 6th Caller Emily age 20 1:57:41 Back to Ashley 2:00:52 7th Caller Diana age 24 2:09:22 8th Caller Essence age 25 2:16:21 9th Caller Jamillah age 41 2:21:44 10th Caller Nadia age 25 2:40:17 11th Caller Yasmin age 28 2:44:28 Closing song

[@Opeth221]

You're the goat!

[@i_have_spoken]

Yooooooo. Thanks again

[@justiceshaw]

Thanks Deshawn!

[@dimphomodika8323]

Thanks bro 😁

[@PhillipSiddiq]

👏👏👏👏

[@phoebelee55]

I saw my husband Standing there at the bar and I walked up to him and said I’m gonna marry you… We married 10 months later and as of today we’ve been married 15 years and two days.. I was 33, no children, he 30 no children… As of today he is officially still the love of my life and I would do anything for him

[@LightCode7]

Period!! ❣️

[@d1964e]

Lucky man.

[@FRESHALEX760]

You got a sister ?

[@MrSivram28]

Cause you went out and approached your type of man. Most women wait around for a guy to approach and most of the time they settle for guys they dont find sexually attractive

[@phoebelee55]

@MimiBabe … yes I was in the danger zone…According to my husband in the weeks to follow the reason why he continued on with me was because he said “Your disposition was kind and gentle and loving and very accommodating” he also stated That “You kept your emotions in check unlike my past relationships”

[@djhyperkid86]

RIP good sir. Thank you for starting the conversation.

[@nicoleriley8171]

This is what happens when the younger generation spends a lot of time behind the computer/smart phone, the social skills are lacking.. We still have to be able to communicate with people face to face..

[@rplayer360]

They spend most of their time from K - 12, 8 hours a day for 9 months out of the Year , interacting with peers.... Is it not the older generation's job to teaching these things .... Way to remove responsibility from those who are supposed to and placing it on those who don't have it

[@TheScrubBros]

Yeah for the young woman but what bout the woman 32-45 ?

[@patriceesela5000]

Amen

[@patriceesela5000]

China has now limited online gaming to 3 hours a week, unfortunately only for kids but I guess some young adults could do with some restriction.

[@digitallhm8160]

I feel you, but as Gen X man, even when I was younger professional women had focused so much on their careers that when they were in there late 20's/ early 30's they had no social skills to catch the husband that they all so desperately wanted.

[@fayanami]

Kevin is right about the flirting part, non-black women shoot their shot all the time. They do not care if they dont get the result. As a brother it feels like you are invisible to black women. Even older black women dont smile or acknowledge your presence nine times out of ten. This should really change. We men are trained to respond normal. Edit: I still have only dated black women my whole life. So this is just something that needs to be said in order to help black women get a man. If we want black love we need to discuss this also.

[@HUNGRYFLOWER98]

I swear idk what yall be talkin bout. Im 22 and im not the coolest guy at all. Black woman of all ages smile and acknowledge me. Do they date me no🤣🤣. But they are not rude

[@wolfyman1000]

this is cap most women don't approach men at all we have to approach them when we see there's mutual attraction

[@ffghcftxx4591]

@@wolfyman1000 facts

[@delorismartin3537]

I'm a smile, I don't approach men. But I smile when they give eye contact and say hello. I always get the "you not from around here"...I guess bc I smile and speak...

[@x97s]

Maybe you just arent attractive ? Im a "weird BM" and BW are still checking for me just saying

[@C.L.190]

Kevin was so cute on this episode. I laughed so many times at his little remarks. I'm sad he's gone ❤

[@rodneytimpson1608]

Whats cute...crazy

[@TheWealthMindsetJD]

I met my wife while she was in medical school and she approached me and started talking. Went out 2 days later. Been together 17 years and married 12.

[@michaelbillions7998]

Good one g💪🏾

[@nobodysperfect06]

Did she also ask you out first or ask for your number first?

[@trob9100]

So what kind of woman would you have approached and talked to? I mean are you saying you like aggressive women or you thought you were too good to talk to a certain kind of woman. Were you checking her out at all or sitting around judging women waiting for somebody who was good enough for you to talk to. All this talk about feminism being a bad thing, but you married the woman with balls and you're listening to this slimeball.

[@slipknot658]

@@trob9100 if you’re an attractive dude nowadays approaching women is optional. yes, you have to be good enough for me to talk to. what makes you think you’re worth courting? are you a traditional christian woman? i’ve been approached for my number 9 times since the beginning of 2022. i don’t like “aggressive” women, i like women that know what they want. i am 6’ tall and muscular, never had to deal with aggression i’m glad you’re seething about it, meanwhile we just chilling and looking good. attractive women walk up to me and ask for my number. this is the only perk of modern feminism. you sound jealous and bitter

[@Ginger_Spicy_Candor]

that's beautiful

[@nwa_8767]

Ok so I had my reservations about this man... but he’s really brining black people together. I’m grateful. Thank you

[@cahnrad]

Please spread the word. I personally am having trouble getting men and women on board!

[@o.c.g.m9426]

Spread his videos especially to our younger women who desperately need this messege

[@cowtowntx.6740]

🙏

[@mohamedblasse999]

Shout out to you.. all the unmarried women in my family hate him. All the married ones have heard similar convos & energies from their husbands. 🫡

[@mohamedblasse999]

Tell your homegirls about him & you'll see who your real friends are. 🎩☮️

[@coachap]

So interesting to listen to the ladies struggle to find the words. It seems like we forgot how to be kind, sweet, loving, flattering, flirty with our men.

[@kuja5809]

Narcissism is disgustingly common among modern women

[@MaJeSTiCz0]

It's always the white and spanish shorties approach me

[@v60polestar88]

They never had to or thought they’d be put in the position. Men have been programmed from a young age to think we have to approach

[@RevolutionaryFather]

TV, Muzic, Terry McMillan books, & a whole host of brainwashing propaganda has been used against you (woman) & our parents. Knowledge of Self is the only cure.... Queen Afua "Sacred Woman" will change any woman of value life forever. Luv 🥂✊🏿

[@LuckyLucci357]

I would hope after hearing this, women would be a lot nicer to the men that approach them, seeing how hard it actually is to convince a person in 30 seconds that you’re worth getting to know

[@castillojennifer17]

I invited my fiancé to have a cup of coffee. In two weeks we start the marriage course in church. Im forever Thankful for that cup of coffee.

[@nobodysperfect06]

Did you also approach him or talk to him first? How did you and him first meet?

[@ItsTiffany]

Listen to him ladies! He's dropping game, speaking from experience. Always smell good, look good, confident & assertive, and let him feel like a man. yuuuup

[@depy2762]

Manipulative women are a turnoff.

[@stallionshark1726]

In short, be the chameleon ("just like a woman"- in skeletor's voice)

[@godveill]

your statement is a good example of a beautiful women who can attract a man and project a mindset that can hold him. a men will establish a mental and emotional bond with a women who understand what he value as mature men ( Attention Affection Approval Acceptance Appreciation adoration ) and desire and will be looking for signs off from her doing the stages of the dating process.

[@godkingfola]

I like how he pretty much kept it brief for all the ones who didn't want to be on KZbin.

[@theerealatm]

No face. No case. Nobody wanna listen to callers cap about their looks and weight.

[@tcompound327]

Me too , once he started doing ig lives and skpe calls it’s hard to go back phone calls especially when the woman cap so hard.

[@rhyno8644]

I couldn't remember one single perfume if I tried. Hes right about the texting. Its the disconnect that removes their biggest opportunity to be feminism towards the courtship process.

[@clv603]

Idk what I'm more impressed by, Kevin's ability to deliver his points so emphatically or the fact he is a walking encyclopedia of memorized fragrances and colognes lol

[@shannonr112]

🤣🤣Yep, Kevin is a Black Nerd.... and I love it!!

[@BeesLitfitlyfe]

In his old videos thats what he did im not sure if he sold them but he definitely promoted fragrances .. check out his oldest videos

[@tramekn]

I’m impressed with it all! He’s like an uncle or dad giving advice that I never received.

[@Zanaaa50]

I love it fragrance and perfumes too so I get that part!

[@jwgreen101]

Thats because he really cares about black women and black relationships

[@1TALLKING]

All these "shoot my shot" Sisters wanting to remain anonymous. If this was a damn "twerk off", they'd be on MULTIPLE screens! LMMFAO

[@barstarnyc9987]

That's soooooo true... smh...

[@AffluentBlacks]

😂😂

[@TheChocolateChamp]

Well they could just be normal girls who don't want to be roasted on world star.

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO

[@elouisejohnson8625]

I totally agree about your views on texting.

[@lagravitas3267]

Had to come back to watch this even if I saw it live. It’s a classic lol. RIP Brother 🕊🫶🏾

[@nashywil93]

I agree with the texting, BIG TIME, everytime Kevin is just bringing more points and more and he's right, we wanna get to know each through text and its simple you can call me. Not mention how Ghosting has been normalized in today's world because people are cowards and can't actually be upfront

[@TruthxAR]

TBH, the same way Kevin hates hearing these women drag on and drag on and talk about nothing for extended periods of time is the same way i hate being on the phone hearing it. And im also texting to weed out the ones wasting my time. I'm not about to text for 5 mins, set up a link and find out you worship the devil. Foh. Then again I dont even really "date" modern women. Crib links, beat and off to the next.

[@thedredgod]

@@TruthxAR NAH A CONVO WILL STILL TELL YOU MORE

[@darrenturner3534]

I don't care what a woman thinks if I "ghost" her. She isn't worth my time or attention and she isn't owed "closure".

[@MrTekKnowledge]

@@TruthxAR I'm not a huge fan of phone calls either. Their excuses to siphon off your time. There are about 2 women I really enjoy talking to on the phone. The rest of them, meh, text me ma.

[@aziz-kashifmustafaaii5101]

Facts 💯☝🏾

[@theredcard8577]

That’s how I met my husband 7 years ago! I was on Facebook and sent him a friend’s request, he approved but never sent me a message..yes I know..but I wanted him lol so I jumped in his messages with the cheesy line “You look so familiar, have I seen you somewhere before? Im not really sure though.” Thank god he replied to me! Lol

[@balerikirmu.11]

High risk. High reward. 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@duckfoutube1761]

It is always funny to me how the modern woman now doesn’t understand how far taking the first step and showing choosing signals go, no one’s asking you to literally step into the role of a man, just make it known that you’re available

[@xtrey19x]

@@balerikirmu.11 I don’t think that was high risk at all. I haven’t used Facebook in years, but I do remember people taking pride in the number of Facebook friends they had. Her showing interest likely gave him the que that she’s not just another person running up their friends count and he took it from there. Plenty’s of people follow each other on social media and they aren’t friends in anyway because they’ve never communicated with each other.

[@tairix3616]

@@balerikirmu.11 it’s not even a risk getting rejection lmao

[@nobodysperfect06]

Want to say God bless you for that, did you also ask him out first or ask for his number first?

[@RJRussoVids]

The first caller said, "It was ruthless," about how she dumped her ex-husband. Now that lady will see how ruthless time is to a woman! ⏳

[@rangariraikunedzimwe2780]

She'll get poetic justice from above that'll make her jaw drop 💥🔥☄☄

[@debbik30]

Facts. She needs to go to therapy because her way of thinking is crazy

[@fhhdgy826]

If a man came onto the internet and said “I left my vvife because she couldn’t conceive” the outrage. Double standard world 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@charcole3366]

That was ignorantly tragic then embarrassing.

[@Issey_B_Devo]

I think that’s the most HORRIBLE person I’ve ever heard on the show….. SMDH

[@fhhdgy826]

@I upload afro Shorts but she then went to say that she wouldn’t like it if a guy did it to her. So yes it’s very hypocritical

[@yonce2347]

It's called honesty, something that men aren't familiar with. I don't think many men would be happy about investing into another man's children when his wife won't have any with him, not even through adoption. Men use this same logic when single mothers say they want a childless man but doesn't want any more children.

[@joijoi888]

Men do leave because she can't conceive.

[@zaraa1222]

I definitely had to shoot my shot with my husband. He was too afraid to talk to me. I spoke to him first and the rest is history. Married 9 years with two beautiful children 😃

[@ManCodeTV]

Zara A Well you did what women that are successful in relationships and marriage do. You put your skin in the game, you invested in your own outcome. A lot of women today, modern women. Are not doing this. So they are not getting the outcome that you got. A woman has to do something, can't just sit back and let the man do everything from the approach, to paying on the date, to protecting you, to providing for you. A woman has to do something in that whole process other than "look pretty". So Congrats to you Ms.

[@putlerkaputt9201]

smart woman

[@jhonviel7381]

lets wait and see what those kids become!

[@OCSM1TH]

@Kurt Kelly just had to say that, huh?

[@bdonyell853]

Congrats Some men just need that push over top 👏

[@cherylvaughn2215]

Great episode!! I hope every woman sees the awkwardness when approaching someone. So cut men some slack when you're not interested in them! Be nice so that he can still hold his head high, when he shoots his shot with the next woman. It ain't easy to do!

[@SniperKingz]

Patrice O'Neal regularly said on the BPS that modern women have ZERO game. Look no further gentlemen, this podcast is a perfect example.

[@selfmade8884]

They have all the game in the world for guys that they want. Dudes out here getting finessed every day. The problem with women is that they lose their game when they start losing their looks. Looks is their only bargaining tool and when the looks go they have no other strategies on how to get a man.

[@roberttyler5808]

@@selfmade8884 we aren’t talking about those kinda women.

[@jbb8261]

@@selfmade8884 we’re not talking about onlyfans thots and instahoes. We’re talking about normal women who are lost on how to charm men they want relationships with.

[@furiousgtribal4325]

@@selfmade8884 No, they don't have game. Dudes who get fitnessed by women are thirsty and square. A dude with some sense never takes a compliment from a woman without thinking.."what's this chick's angle?" Wise guys don't put their guard down. Because women constantly test you. Girls need no game. If she pretty or average, she's in. Men have to be charming, witty, smart, logical, masculine and secured in their finances to be eligible. Women can work at Mickey Ds and be average and will get picked up.

[@selfmade8884]

@@keundrefresh Did you actually type the word “sigh”?! Y’all dudes are weirdos.

[@SteppinRazor76]

I am old enough to remember talking on phone so long you fall asleep or the old “ no you hang up “ because neither one of you wants to get off the phone. 🤣🤣

[@delorismartin3537]

A guy told me he don't do that " highschool sh#%" . I have asked him several times and we barely hangout so I just assumed he didn't want to talk to me so I ✌🏾

[@Ang-ph6wz]

Yes!! Those were the days! You learned a lot about erschienet too.

[@eddievendetta5278]

I remember that.

[@SteppinRazor76]

@@delorismartin3537 yeah he probably had a girl or wife or has zero charisma. 🤣

[@Omar81OCT]

Yes💯💯

[@shadowfallenable]

That lady is the problem NOT her ex-husband, and when she finds out its her… its gonna be “Hey Big Head”!!

[@evos469]

Them eggs are nothing but dust

[@jcrxci]

Kevin should have a recording of the zoom instructions play before the MoneyWorld song so people make those adjustments. This should hopefully help to minimize the technical delays.

[@businessbywebofficial]

Exactly!

[@aaronespinal4074]

What if he’s the reason of the delay ( older )😂 k.Samuels the goat

[@bandiddid8583]

Or, during his intermission song, he can speak to the women in the zoom room and sort out everything that needs to be sorted out so that once he starts the actual conversation after the intermission song, everything is ready to go. THIS..is why he needs a producer or some help period but its like he refuses to akcnowledge the many IMPROVEMENTS that need to be made to make the show better.

[@Ouroboross-]

@@juicysmolliette2852 True! But there would be less of them

[@BottomShelfGames]

@@bandiddid8583 Yeah, he needs to hire a few people. Though I think he enjoys traveling around far too much to do such a thing.

[@prettylitch1785]

I love the way Kevin knows the value of his platform and filters the time wasters so effectively.

[@Melissa.Simmons]

The same way people got to be and SHOULD BE with their life. 👌🏾 💯

[@jaythebadguy6984]

You don’t have to marry every person you flirt with the more conversations you have the easier it becomes In the words of the great Allen Iverson “we talking bout practice”

[@IfUdntknwMebynow]

He: drops his pen Me: as im picking it up and hand it to him, saying " let me write my number in case you drop it again" I been corny all my days lol

[@Deshawn1]

This works and you will get a date the first week.

[@delorismartin3537]

I remember using one of Will smith's lines from the Fresh Prince...and got the number. "Hurry up and write down your number before I don't want it no mo". Of course I had a big ole smile. I was successful...lol

[@SantiXiAmaru]

At least you put forth the effort. Corny effort is still effort. Lmmfaoooo

[@mikedionr]

Men don't care about you being corny. We care that actually had the guts and humility to be corny in the first place.

[@JO-kr7si]

Classic! I bursted out laughing. Definitely a conversation starter

[@chrislight6497]

Hey Kevin, been having a lot of positive feedback sharing your content on the dating scene. I am a high value man, its nice to see it live. When the light bulb clicks, it is something to behold. Thank You buddy, for being on the front lines!

[@jennifereckel43]

Kevin is so right about women needing to make a move or show signals that you're interested. Its exactly how I attracted my man. The moment I saw him I knew for sure he is going to be my future husband. I had to make him mine, so I immediately went to work. Inquiring whether he's single or married, flirting, finding out his interests. I was the one who said "I'd LOVE to spend time with you and get to know you". Make your moves ladies! Be assertive and competitive in a feminine way. He had a short term fling at the time and he immediately broke it off to pursue me back because I made it very clear that I wanted him. Its now four months later and he's already moved me into his home, talking marriage and children.

[@clasijasi]

1st caller contradicted herself with pregnancy statement. Said she had an early miscarriage but also stated previously she was strict about not having kids til marriage.

[@anthonyharrison7728]

In the manosphere we have a common saying. "Listen not to what these ladies say. Instead, watch what they do."

[@deucealmightee]

“Born again virgin” 🙃

[@jonw.415]

She was lying the whole time

[@najah820]

It's a trash. She divorced that man for something else. Plus I heard he already had kids too but it broke. Make it make sense.

[@t.scales2202]

I definitely caught that

[@Law34prez]

Appreciate this man keeping Patrice O'neal relevant. Same cloth for sure.

[@MrFaceoff188]

This is like a professional black phillip show. They would have the best podcast out if he was still alive. God bless Patrice and his family. Great man.

[@USTaxesSpain]

Good job Kevin. You are helping so many people, not only in the black community.

[@carolpayton8973]

This was a great show. I loved the genius role play moments where Kevin critiqued females giving them examples of little flirty things they could say to a guy to change the mood and let him know that she's interested, and to be a little more assertive.He taught us well on this on this one. GREAR SHOW,VERY PROUD OF HIM!!

[@cruzerzeitgeist9137]

Back in the day, he would force the callers to show their faces.

[@adriantbryan]

Cast your vote: Kevin has "Shoot Your Shot Part 2" next week. Hit the like to vote.

[@tyhesiamoore8808]

Love your content...thanks you've helped me more than you know

[@freshfade28]

Yes absolutely! Maybe a couple men callers to pair women with...I'm all for it.

[@antonydrossos5719]

He might, anyway, but having it as soon as next week would work best

[@Kay.D]

💯

[@corydointhings]

Yes sir.

[@Freshness0009]

The first lady is an example of why I believe that love shit don’t exist, or at least doesn’t matter. Once u lose something a girl wants, you see how fast that “love” shit goes out the window.

[@TheChocolateChamp]

Nah you wouldn't stay with a woman who couldn't give you kids while she already had 3 kids of her own. But if you'd sign up to just be step dad and never have your own kids go for it

[@selfmade8884]

That’s why “you” have to be the thing a woman wants. Not a job, money, car, house, or anything materialistic. As the OG’s say, it’s got to be in you, not on you.

[@Freshness0009]

@@selfmade8884 that’s very true. Seems like most women today want “you” if u have all the things u mentioned above. So it’s hard for you and her as well, to even tell what she wants u for… well if you already have the car, enough money, house, etc.

[@Freshness0009]

@@TheChocolateChamp women today don’t mind marrying a guy with 3 kids, as long as he can provide and other things, the same can’t be said the other way around. So that scenario isn’t a likely one to begin with tbh, well at least on my part.

[@TheChocolateChamp]

@@Freshness0009 because guys having their kids is 1 super rare and we've already seen plenty of times that women who have kids don't even want to date guys with kids. But you would NEVER marry a woman who had 3 kids with someone and couldn't give you any kids and then ask you to give up having your own and raise some other dudes kids. You wouldn't do it and you know it so why have negative energy for this woman when you'd do the same thing?

[@tailoredbynature6984]

Ladies, you'll are absolutely correct when you state "no one can judge me" or "only God can judge me". Well, you are actually being judged by your actions, which is why you are getting the results you are getting. Remember, our Creator gave us laws/instructions to follow in order to prevent all this self impose destruction.

[@brittanygonzalez1282]

I love this. 9.5 years ago I shot my shot with my husband. I saw him leaving and approached him.

[@nobodysperfect06]

Did you also ask him out first? What type of environment or setting did you meet him in?

[@jbaru648]

Something as simple as putting your phone away in your purse and leaving it there while you’re out with a man helps u to stand out from the rest of them. That’s dating 101 u should’ve learned before 18 but you’d be surprise how many women 25+ lack basic social courtesy and respect. Then blame us for putting them in the goofy corner and not taking them seriously.

[@Hsteel]

Or one without social media!

[@Hsteel]

@Asa Harvey lol did u leave her stuck with the bill?

[@midnitehauler-usafcombatve644]

Exactly J Baru

[@Hsteel]

@Asa Harvey 😂😂

[@jamalhaleemtucker8425]

🤣ctfu @ “The goofy corner”. Im using that fam

[@adrianlm72]

Me and my wife talked about this year's ago about her single friends. Kevin you are a genius 👏🏿. Yeap they better get there holler on 😂😂

[@largo5348]

Fellas be aware, flirting doesn't make a quality, suitable women because a woman without substance, is a woman without Godly character because all the fragrances in the world don't make a woman!

[@courtneyreid4757]

Facts!

[@Jroc2k10]

Flirting is an part of seduction. While Negative energy character and manners is not. Positive communication is verbal and non verbal flirting

[@traderhines]

Flirting is the first step my guy. What you’re talking about is the fourth step. You need to take the first step before you get to the fourth.

[@tstewart8698]

🎯

[@noenoe1891]

💯this

[@thewinnerslegion]

Took me years 42 to become a HVM. I have friends and employ men in this category. What makes these modern W think any of us would get within 10 feet of them? Boggles my mind...

[@mrdeecroft3114]

wow damn, more success sir

[@domirican81]

I’m 40 and almost at that HVM status. Even at my lowest status, these modern women were and continue to be dustys 😂

[@EveryOneLovebiome]

Blessings my brother. I got curved and dumped when I lost my money in my forties. All I heard was you’re not on your feet. I never looked at a women’s weight or anything. Now, I wouldn’t even look unless she’s a 4,6,8. I’m rubbing shoulders with black men who’s net worth is in the 1%. My life has changed and so has my standards. It’s funny how all of them is now in my DMs. I don’t even talk to independent, masculine, no cooking, no cleaning, etc.

[@domirican81]

@@EveryOneLovebiome If she doesn’t cook, she better at least want to learn and enjoy it. Otherwise pass. 😒

[@darrenjoness2397]

It's called entitlement. Keep up the excellent work Sir!!!Stay on your purpose.

[@tomcat2581]

Lmaoo thanks Kevin for showing me they can’t even TALK to us lmfaooo 😂😂😂 we come up with witty one liners like its nothing they wanna talk about our shoes and shii 💀

[@AlphaDoG-43]

Women don’t shoot their shot because they’re afraid of rejection. It cripples them.

[@shtfvan8084]

Check 1 2

[@harrymic75]

Becuase they imagine getting rejected how they reject us. If they were rejecting guys respectfully there wouldn't be any horrors stories and experience for them to draw from.

[@domirican81]

Women have no game anyway, mostly lames.

[@sarahanderson6913]

That’s true.

[@sickofguysnamedtodd2293]

They’re deathly afraid of receiving the same nuclear rejections that they’ve been dishing out for years. Their egos can’t handle a taste of their own medicine. Kinda like how whyte supremacy had to put 💩 in the game once we were free from slavery and then eventually Jim Crow. They had to keep the playing field uneven, keep having an advantage because they were afraid that true equality and a level playing field would mean that black folks, men in particularly would take A shot at revenge.

[@loaded45th]

The young lady in medical school that said “successful women have stay at home dads”, God bless her. She’s so unwise.

[@DripVio]

Facts

[@Allyourneedsmet]

🤣 I didn't see that ending coming

[@jonathannaab2887]

That lady will be a problem. Good luck to whoever she gets with.

[@bunjicarlin1]

I'm a stay at home dad. Hate it or love it...I wouldn't trade it! I love it.

[@jcmb5708]

With a drug dealer boyfriend herself....smh

[@ayashaaddison4125]

I'm glad he did this topic. I always thought guys didn't like women approaching them. I'm going to try this. Hopefully it goes well.

[@plot229]

Just be subtle about it, don’t be aggressive...just drop hints and cues....smiling at him, ask him what type of cologne he is wearing etc.

[@HitmanHart40]

Real estate and part time drug dealer 😂 She's trying to date James St. Patrick aka Ghost 😂

[@MegaDeltaqueen]

Such a fun show! Great job, KS! Get our sisters married!

[@QueLoQue-Ehh]

The suggestions KS provided on flirting are golden! So is the information on texting only during good times. Even in an established relationship that is such wonderful advice. I am so grateful that his teachings remain on youtube.

[@davidwells2568]

“Grow some ovaries…you child” 😂 love it!!!

[@conscienceone1983]

In a year or so I would love to see a Show with Kevin asking women to call in whom have actually approached Men, and their results.

[@denisebradley]

Omg I dropped the phone 🤣🤣🤣 get the big stuff at Walmart go to the high end grocery stores to get lettuce and phones numbers I think that’s the best dating advice I heard

[@Nickim322]

The first caller was hilarious lol I refuse to believe this woman is really that slow and when she mentioned commitment I died laughing. She walked right into that trap

[@0bsmith0]

But that level of slow is so common.

[@flawed2001]

I vote that ALL CALLERS MUST CAM UP PERIOD! No more requesting to not be on KZbin. Who else agree?🙋🏾‍♂️😉

[@bombasticnonsense4247]

I agree!

[@suave_d]

They don't want to be the next contestant on "Yo Azz is going to World Star"

[@CargoP1984]

Agreed!

[@emmanuelboakye1124]

Fear of truth🤣

[@balerikirmu.11]

They know themselves. Can't help fact they gonna be ignant. Or chameleons that would out themselves and go viral

[@jayceonjbrown2751]

Thank God for pointing out texting. Texting can ruin anything because you don't know if that person is upset or happy sending the text.

[@TheDCGuitar13]

There’s nothing more pathetic than the callers who embarrass themselves on calls hopping into the comments to insult whoever sees them for who they are. I see it every show. They’d rather save their egos than their own lives.

[@StackedUpMichael]

Getting tired of most of the women hiding off screen. Calling in is part of the show. If you scared to be shown then dont call. 💯

[@blackthanos914]

That's me! They're in my DM's all day everyday and twice on Sunday! 🥰🥰🥰

[@citizenfour9622]

*SEE!?* They got no game! Gents, remember this when you see her and doubt your approach. She’s no better! 💪😎

[@suave_d]

Very good point. As I stated in my original post -- many of these modern women have no game or verbal skills. They don't work on their approach because they don't think they should have to exude much effort to get a man -- outside of just looking cute and sexy. They believe that the burden should fall solely on the man to get them. With that mindset, they'll never establish an effective approach. They don't smile; they're not friendly; and they put up barriers and hurdles that men have to overcome to get them. Femininity just isn't in them, which is why I don't even bother with many of them.

[@antonydrossos5719]

100% facts

[@Issey_B_Devo]

Absolutely all they’ve done is sit back and pick and choose and never had to develop any social skills outside of rolling their eyes and ordering dinner on a mama dime.

[@DeionSardines]

Best comment/reply I’ve read so far

[@ndub4014]

So true. Ever had a girl approach you? They use the same lame pick up lines and tactics that they say they hate men doing. Like it's still middle school. The 1 caller said to the guy your attractive. Most waaman don't want to hear that first thing out your mouth when you shoot your shot. Proud of her regardless. She got more courage than most.

[@russellbranch5993]

Kevin give yall Ladies platinum game💯💪🏾

[@melissapowellwright3097]

Teachhhhh- Perfumes on point. All in my collection

[@daijohnson8385]

“If he was a average earning Man U wouldn’t be worried about it” Nofr! That’s why it’s good to have a set of values that’s universal for each man No matter if he’s high value or not stick to your core values -no funny business

[@Saint-Christopher]

Lol so many women don't understand that men aren't stupid. That HVM probably went through a nasty divorce, lost a shit ton of money and assets and now she wants to trap what she called a damaged man again to steal the bag. He's not damaged, HE SMARTENED UP TO THE GAME! If he wasn't high value, she'd be immediately OUT the door and likely he knows that as well. Woman: he's HVM but damaged cause I can't manipulate him. Man. Yea... been down that dead end street. Keep it moving 💯

[@ronaldbell6695]

unplug lady's

[@Daytona53]

All my life I thought something was wrong with me for thinking the way Mr. Samuel does and I'm glad I wasn't wrong.

[@jamalhaleemtucker8425]

Same here bro, I said this same thing the other day in a convo with someone. It’s so refreshing to know that I’ve been on one this whole time and in my natural masculinity mode because I really believed that I was heartless but now I know I wasn’t wrong.

[@steelesharpensteele6252]

@@jamalhaleemtucker8425 being heartless is a part of being a man remember wmn r emotio al so the opposite is us which translates as heartless to many but its very necessary

[@robwills1729]

Whooo, that’s the commitment that you are supposed to have in a marriage! Mr. Samuels threw has that slider, she swung and missed! That facial expression was priceless!

[@B.L.A.C.K.1.]

This type of conversation should happen more often, I smiled the entire show. And not out of malice because of the callers ignorance.

[@TheChocolateChamp]

True this was a great show with women taking in all the information. Buuuut notice that this show was with much younger women.

[@msbellacece]

You can’t build a relationship through text messages. 🥴

[@MultiDashing123]

I agree 100% with the “Stop texting part” ladies Please Stop Texting us just call us instead as a men I rather you tell me everything you gotta say on the phone instead of texting me about it. Leave that for your homegirls

[@chauntellmanley-parrish4709]

I have been in a relationship for 5 years and I still shoot my shot to my man , flirt and compliment him like the day we first connected.

[@orihellcon]

So sad, females always use to say that some men’s pick up lines were corny, now the shoe is on the other foot, it’s a train wreck.

[@sarahanderson6913]

😂😂😂

[@ardoniswilliams7241]

Kevin got so much game, salute to you sir!

[@deecee9741]

Majority of the callers today are in their 20's. The message is resonating, they want to avoid the negative outcomes. The funny thing is, most of the tips and tricks of wooing a man, most women already have the tools in their bags... a little brushing up, dusting off, polishing and shine. That's it! Y'all just need to pull them out and use them.

[@mdotbeedot]

Facts

[@CR-vb2rx]

We use them on men that don't challenge us.

[@Dimes607]

@@CR-vb2rx no you use them on men that excite you. The boring provider you ignore. Thats why Ray Ray has 6 kids and Henry has 0.

[@emiliannegoita1582]

Not anymore, ladies... Not anymore....

[@Issey_B_Devo]

I wish that were the truth but I’m this “Contactless” digital society where everyone is a celebrity it will not come to pass.

[@omegadripexclusives]

In Brooklyn growing up we would go up to girls and say “ hey shorty can I buy you a Pepsy if you’re nice I’ll buy you a slice” and it would always get the girls to smile once they give you the weird look after saying can I buy you a Pepsi, following w if you’re nice I’ll buy you a slice 🤣 then the conversation starts

[@jnginc_]

social media got "the game" all f****d up! Flirting is a lost art.

[@shyvoodoo]

Ladies just set it up so we can knock it down!👍🏽 Thank You

[@peezywheatsrraw4247]

This was a great show and lesson I think you should do more of this kevin atleast once a week.

[@CBTSHARE]

lol ok now, this is a good segment ..well done Sir!

[@MrTekKnowledge]

Kevin is smooth AF yo 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@puddingpie2477]

Fragrances Mentioned: Musc Shamal - Armani Over the Musk - Mugler 1957 - Chanel Oud Wood - Tom Ford Back to Black - Kilian Bond number 9 - Laurice Rahme' Angel - Thierry Mugler 'Spritiueuse Double Vanille - Guerlain Angelique Noir - Guerlain Tonka Impériale - Guerlain Coco Mademoisellle - Chanel Amber Nuit - Dior Oud Ispahan - Dior Santal Blush - Tom Ford Tam Dao - Diptyque Black Opium - YSL Noir - Tom Ford Scents: incense, musk, oud, amber, honey, patchouli, sandalwood

[@RottenMal]

Ladies have no game, and never will this was hilarious 😂😂

[@TheDCGuitar13]

So basically in 2021 you’ve got to have James bond level swagger just to deal with a woman with zero communication skills.

[@duckfoutube1761]

They want you to be Steph Curry with the shot, and it will turn around and still say it’s you that’s the problem

[@KNByam]

Guys I got my first "Hey Big Head" text yesterday.

[@ljthirtyfiver]

I got one the other day , responded short and dry, a few days later shorty posted her and her mans photo as her profile pic. Them hey big head text are from Struggle broads who can’t keep shit right in their lives

[@KNByam]

@@ljthirtyfiver Well mine needed help with rent. Lol I almost died laughing because first thing I thought of was what KS said. This shyt is nuts man.

[@robertoayala809]

" You're outta your french toast mind " 🤣

[@frankcuoco1501]

The real take away is women really don't have any game 🤔

[@user-vg8tv1hp9c]

0 game, none at all.

[@alvinsquezz]

They always love to finesse.

[@imhisvoice]

🤣

[@greatestlifts7161]

Fellas these women ain’t calling because they care about what we think. They calling for Kevin and sliding in his DMs 🤔

[@officialcryptomischef5518]

Thanks for watching, I have something real big I would love to introduce you to TEXT/ WhatsApp me💬💬

[@RevolutionaryFather]

🎯

[@kennywarren8150]

I said this a year ago. They trying to holla at him

[@tyhesiamoore8808]

You may be right about some but I really love his advice

[@beingoodhealthandprosper8359]

38:48 ~ lol!! *"I was hoping you would pick up what I'm puttin' down!"*

[@gmosha1]

That last female medical student pissed me off so much at the end.. cause growing up in a family of doctors myself, that ego of hers will be checked up so quickly…Just because your in medical school or doctor doesn’t mean your better than everyone

[@thedredgod]

And all it takes is one month of hard timesna nd set backs but SHE'LL LEARN

[@kuja5809]

@@thedredgod she will never learn if she's a egotistical sociopath or covert narcissists

[@dang5961]

I agree she seem decent but yea that ego was crazy. She should stay with the drug dealer real estate investor and leave everyone else alone.

[@TomSNC]

@@dang5961 She literally had a convo with like no controversy or anything. Like literally as smooth as it can be and she HAD to find a way to have an argument. Notice how she didn't lead with that question though? She wanted to get his honest opinion with the first question but wanted to clash with him on the second because she's broken. The hood is still in her no matter what she says, I've seen it

[@chaosbalanced]

2:40:00 This whole conversation is exactly The things Men have had to deal with when shooting their shots at women all of our lives; Scenarios, location, approaching, style, catching you alone or finding a way to separate you from a friend or friend group, confidence, communicating interest, reading the mood, reading body language and still dealing with the checklist of things that would make a women still want to choose him and compatibility- So when you put the shoe on the other foot realize that :: -Not all men are good with women -Not all men are used to women approaching them -Men just like women can be shy or suspicious when someone just randomly shoots their shot -Men are more on guard than ever before with the internet/false accusations & me too situations (especially successful men who have more to lose) -Cultural differences -Religious differences etc

[@wewoweewoo]

a women giving clear signals of interest ain't going to be a 'me too' er

[@wandasomerville4720]

You keep it SO REAL! Love it! Listen to him ladies😉

[@tevingreen3923]

Whitley Gilbert from “A Different World” would kill this role play game Lol

[@Idontknowhoiamanymore]

I’m a light skin athletic black man 31 years old single. I have a job and my own business which makes me more than my employer. I make about $80k a year. I recently was in a 4 year relationship. The woman denied my proposal and left me. I have a lot of friends and family plus I am very busy so I’m in good spirits. However I do feel lonely in a romantic sense and miss the companionship of my relationship. Getting back in the dating game has been very hard. I’ve dealt with a lot and flakes and rejection. Im just tired of trying. So single ladies if you are tired and frustrated with being alone you’re not alone lol

[@Idontknowhoiamanymore]

@D Jay thank you brother. Gotta keep working and keep the faith things will work out 💯

[@dedemurray7]

What’s yur Instagram

[@tunicabey7712]

"...because she didn't want u to spoil ur appetite." Genius analogy!!

[@jamesmebane3121]

Out of thin air , girl come up and asked me out for coffee ! We've now been married 10 years !

[@theukeconomist6518]

It's also important to remember that the meetoo movement has made it awkward for men to approach and interact with women. We gentlemen in the higher echelons of society have a lot to lose so it is going to be the woman now having to show interest to start the discussion. Good luck.

[@blkgranit333]

Still most will never make it to marriage because of the divorce laws and family court. So what's the point? Just another LTR

[@StageInTheSkyCreations]

This could not be overstated enough. Good men and men of value have a lot to lose.

[@jarviss.tv.4895]

Bingo!

[@Bbqtrini]

imo that’s cap. I make very good money and i never once thought about the potential to get jammed up by metoo. When i walk around these chicks don’t know what i’m worth or my salary

[@Bbqtrini]

@@PatrinaOzurumba thank you. No disrespect to the OP but that’s lowkey loser talk. You better than these chicks give them the privilege of experiencing you

[@mhizzgorgeouso.s2012]

Thank you Godfather, this show is the realest show 💯 I’ve ever heard 🙏🙏

[@bob11002009]

He should only talk to guests that are willing to be on camera.

[@StatikFresh4]

Correct !

[@waltslife155]

One of the reason they get put off is how viscous the chat room can get, people behind a keyboard say the kinda stuff they will never say face to face.

[@bob11002009]

@@waltslife155 well that’s gonna happen regardless of whether they go on video.

[@antoniohardy5981]

Yes, that is getting old! These women have a way to get their faces before the exact men they are wanting, and are not take full advantage of it.

[@mesalouis8976]

Soon..

[@CoreLabb]

So I can't read a book on my phone while alone 😥 💔 if you are on a budget perfume wise just buy sample sizes on ebay for less than $10 each, they'll last a while if not over using. Fragrances @34:37

[@1SuperD1]

I’m just waiting for the moment when someone finally stands on their answer. Everyone starts backpedaling when Kevin tells them they did something that was messed up. All the excuses and blame starts flying when they realize they’re looking bad.

[@maxfitt227]

They can't even look in the mirror and listen to what they're saying. THERAPY !!!!

[@ndidindekwu4574]

YSL Black Opium is my signature scent 💥

[@dawaunsubrosa6733]

It'll DEFINITELY work ladies 💯