How To Be More Socially Attractive - Charlie Houpert

Most people wish that they were better communicators. More engaging, more confident, and more charming. Charlie runs the biggest charisma channel on KZbin, Charisma on Command, with more than 5 million subscribers and has taught thousands of people how to be more attractive and compelling in their communication.
Expect to learn the 5 archetypes of charismatic communication, how to greet someone with genuine energy, how to overcome being shy, the principles of communicating attractively to women, how to be better at small talk, how to add more humour into your conversations, why Charlie got his entire family to take MDMA, who Charlie thinks is the most charming communicator that Charisma on Command has ever featured and much more...
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00:00 Intro
03:44 Understanding Charisma
09:17 Charlie’s Biggest Influences
13:17 Definition of Introvert & Extrovert
21:21 The Problem with Hustle Culture
29:50 Principles for Charismatic Communication
37:13 Charisma Lessons from Russell Brand
41:13 How to Overcome Shyness
48:36 How to Flirt with Women
59:32 How to Add Humour into a Conversation
1:07:59 Ben Shapiro & The Problem with Modern Debating
1:12:52 How Charlie Got His Whole Family to Take MDMA
1:23:57 Opportunities to Reprogram Yourself
1:41:54 Where to Find Charlie
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[@ChrisWillx]

LES GOH. Here's the timestamps: 00:00 Intro 03:44 Understanding Charisma 09:17 Charlie’s Biggest Influences 13:17 Definition of Introvert & Extrovert 21:21 The Problem with Hustle Culture 29:50 Principles for Charismatic Communication 37:13 Charisma Lessons from Russell Brand 41:13 How to Overcome Shyness 48:36 How to Flirt with Women 59:32 How to Add Humour into a Conversation 1:07:59 Ben Shapiro & The Problem with Modern Debating 1:12:52 How Charlie Got His Whole Family to Take MDMA 1:23:57 Opportunities to Reprogram Yourself 1:41:54 Where to Find Charlie

[@ndndndnnduwjqams]

Fantastic conversation. My 91th in intellect and 75th in openess to experience highly appreciate this one.

[@bobbobert1964]

The story with his father was 3 sentences and it tore me to pieces instantly. Awesome to hear him on a podcast interviewed by specifically you.

[@bobbobert1964]

I hope the best on your quest toward enlightenment. Theres levels. All my blessings bub.

[@johnbmxkid95]

4:36

[@johnbmxkid95]

6

[@kaytee7607]

Chris, you’re probably the best podcaster I ever listened to. Better than the big ones.

[@ChrisWillx]

Thank you Kay. Turning idols into rivals.

[@petestrouse7411]

+1. He's right up there with Rogan. If not even a clearer speaker.

[@georgelovell1]

@@petestrouse7411 Chris is leagues above as an interviewer. In recent months, Rogan will take every guest off on the same irrelevant tangents, and rarely extract anything interesting or insightful from the guest.

[@crimson6172]

@@georgelovell1 lol this is a prime example of toxic internet expectation that is so unrealistic. Do you think there is an unlimited amount of quality guests that always have something insightful to say? Rogan has done a lot of high level interviews and Chris himself is going upwards. Why can't people just enjoy both.

[@pitzboechannel]

Facts

[@antoinesaint807]

Having “strong opinions held loosely, rather than loose opinions held loosely” is the key to a more harmonious way of life… Brilliant sentence.

[@GM-qi8pw]

"Loose opinions held strongly"*** I think they said

[@jonagoat]

@@GM-qi8pw Yes, it's at 40:55

[@derekdroogsma]

Totally agree - if your strong opinions are held loosely, I feel like that says that you’re not afraid. You’re eager to take on new information and learn, otherwise your opinions wouldn’t be strong in the first place.

[@KidDynamite22]

Golden sentence there damn

[@KnottyCeltic]

That doesn't work in the long term. That was me 100% but my wife is now my ex-wife b/c I never had a firm opinion about anything, didn't think things were worth discussing, never made firm decisions, often answered with "whatever". Beware the loose/loose combo.

[@aliabdaal]

This was great :) even though I was hoping for more beauty tips 😉

[@ChrisWillx]

💜 Would 100% pay for Part Time Prettyboy Academy

[@EddyLeeKhane]

I gotchu - workout - Eat more clean/less processed food - Smile - don't use makeup - Dress matching to your unique body propositions

[@user-nv5el5dm9g]

😂😂😂 nice one

[@Frank7489]

@@hauntedhose he knew it was a joke. His joke was answering seriously

[@baronknight6838]

@@ChrisWillx we w

[@bettermanchannel770]

Having something interesting to say exponentially creates charisma. This comes from actually developing an interesting value, be knowledgeable, be valuable, be interesting

[@OoO-rf2gt]

Problem. The left. Cute theory tho.

[@MystiqWisdom]

@@OoO-rf2gt haha, that's a good point. But without the pre-established popular outlets like corporate media and Hollywood celebs, university professors, how "interesting" would the message of "the left" actually be?

[@OoO-rf2gt]

@@MystiqWisdom well you tell me.. With all of these institutions running at full steam, are you feeling very compelled by them? I would argue "get woke go broke" would put that paper tiger to rest. Pretiege only gets you as far as the shit hitting the fan. This is true of all things. A war zone being one example and woke ideology being another. One is real the other is far from it. One always dissolves the other no matter how established your brand or self belief, when it comes down to somthing tangible and real the strawman falls apart.

[@TeenVegans]

@@OoO-rf2gt lmao stop whining and playing victim to "woke culture"

[@ghrtfhfgdfnfg]

@@OoO-rf2gt What are you talking about?

[@dameanvil]

00:00 🏋 Charisma is like fitness; most people neglect it, but a small effort can make you stand out. 03:51 🧠 Charisma has various styles: high conviction (e.g., Conor McGregor), authentic (e.g., Joe Rogan), funny (e.g., Kevin Hart), energetic (e.g., Will Smith), and empathetic (e.g., Oprah Winfrey). 06:10 🔄 Changing yourself for charisma isn't self-betrayal; it's evolving to be the best version while retaining your essence. 08:30 💪 Personality is shaped by past experiences; evolving involves unlearning patterns from younger years. 11:45 📚 Books like "Six Pillars of Self-Esteem" emphasize that confidence is earned through behavior, not an inherent birthright. 14:47 🔄 Introversion and extroversion are about where you get energy; it's fluid, influenced by both genes and experiences. 17:18 🔄 Unintended consequences: Pursuing constant socializing for charisma can create anxieties and new neuroses; true choice is essential. 19:13 🔄 Be cautious about dedicating yourself to certain pursuits in your early years (18 to 25), as they may become obstacles later. Consider the potential challenges of unwinding commitments. 21:48 🔄 Advantages in one phase of life can become obstacles in the next. Recognize when the strategies that brought you success need to be reevaluated and adapted for future growth. 23:13 🔄 The video discusses concerns about "hustle culture," emphasizing the importance of working effectively over working harder. Balancing life and avoiding burnout is crucial. 30:06 🤔 When initiating a conversation, set the vibe a level higher than necessary to be a conversational leader. Avoid literal responses to common questions and provide multiple hooks for the other person to connect with. 31:18 🔄 Instead of answering questions literally, offer responses that provide interesting hooks for the other person to connect with, creating more engaging and dynamic conversations. 34:04 🔄 Breaking away from implicit social norms in the workplace by injecting fun into interactions can foster human relationships, leading to professional success. 35:42 🔄 Charisma levels are not infinitely malleable, but anyone can considerably improve their charisma. Not everyone can transform drastically, but improvement is achievable. 37:21 💬 Russell Brand's charisma principles include treating everyone flirtatiously, using a push-pull dynamic in communication, and exhibiting unpredictability, suggesting authenticity. 38:57 💬 Russell Brand's unpredictability in responses adds authenticity, making him fascinating to listen to. The ability to switchbetween jokes and sincere, value-driven answers makes his communication style captivating. 39:25 🎭 Authenticity is crucial; some public figures may raise questions about their true selves if their stories always have the same punchline. 40:08 🤝 Russell Brand excels in authentic communication, maintaining curiosity and playfulness even in political or spiritual disagreements. 41:35 🦸‍♂ Overcoming shyness involves progressive exposure therapy; start by saying one extra sentence to lower the filter on what's acceptable to express. 43:28 🗣 Finish sentences with the same decibel level you started; practice deliberate conversational assertiveness for shy individuals. 45:20 🔄 Balancing deliberate skill-building with being in the flow ofconversation is crucial for growth in communication. 46:45 ⏰ Deliberate practice, similar to Tiger Woods rebuilding his swing, may involve stepping back initially to improve conversational skills. 48:41 💬 Principles for men communicating attractively to women: show interest, have genuine standards, and manage sexual tension. 54:16 🌐 In small talk, focus on playful world-building; engage in improvisational fantasy scenarios to create a fun and flirty vibe. 56:24 🚀 When discussing your job, speak to your values rather than just logistics; share what drives you and your life philosophy. 57:59 🌐 Most men go wrong by not engaging in conversation; they often disqualify themselves before speaking, missing opportunities for genuine connection. 58:55 🌐 Flirting with the world, being outgoing and friendly habitually, creates a powerful social presence that feels natural and engaging. 59:22 🤣 Adding humor to conversations involves having both a genuine answer and a playful response to common questions, providing a balance of authenticity and lightheartedness. 01:00:56 😄 An easy way to inject humor is by saying the opposite of what people expect, creating unexpected moments that induce laughter. 01:01:24 🎭 Prime yourself for humor by watching content from comedians you enjoy before social interactions, influencing your mindset and conversation style. 01:02:34 🤩 Tim Dillon is praised for his rapid and clever humor, showcasing the value of quick-wittedness in communication and comedy. 01:03:17 🎭 Improv comedy classes are recommended for those serious about developing humor, offering valuable skills in world-building, quick thinking, and comedic timing. 01:04:41 🗣 Effective communicators like Tony Robbins, Oprah Winfrey, and Bill Clinton excel in storytelling and creating a sense of safety for open conversation. 01:07:30 🌟 Kevin Hart's ability to command attention and lead conversations, even with a significant height difference, highlights his exceptional communication skills. 01:09:01 💬 In debates, using humor strategically, as seen in Ben Shapiro's tactics, can be powerful in discrediting opponents and winning social approval. 01:12:05 😄 Stephen Fry's ability to inject humor into debates can bridge gaps and humanize individuals with opposing views, fostering better understanding. 01:13:57 🌈 Psychedelic therapy, particularly with MDMA, facilitated significant positive changes in Charlie's life, leading to transformative family experiences and a sense of purpose. 01:17:28 🌌 Exploring the concept of psychedelic therapy is recommended, acknowledging it may not be suitable for everyone but emphasizing its potential for profound personal growth. 01:19:40 🔄 Early childhood experiences, especially in the family, shape one's understanding of concepts like love and power, forming lifelong "accents" in these areas. 01:20:22 🤝 Recognizing and respecting parental wisdom, even if they lack knowledge in modern technologies, is crucial for personal growth and avoiding the dismissal of valuable advice. 01:21:47 🔄 Life involves a continual process of self-discovery, where what serves you at one stage may become problematic later. The challenge is to navigate these changes and find a balance. 01:23:09 💔 Overcompensating to avoid past pains can lead to unhealthy behaviors, and the willingness to experience discomfort is essential for personal growth. 01:25:40 💰 Achieving financial and other goals may not provide lasting fulfillment; the mindset and thought patterns play a crucial role in one's happiness. 01:29:10 🤔 The pursuit of goals can become an endless cycle if not grounded in self-awareness, leading to perpetual dissatisfaction and the constant moving of goalposts. 01:31:55 🔄 Anticipatory beings, humans often find the most enjoyment in the anticipation of events, and dissatisfaction is inherent in our nature. 01:34:56 🔄 Unrealistic idealism is wired into human nature, and recognizing that the imagined satisfaction of an experience will always exceed the reality can lead to a more content life. 01:37:15 🔄 Pursuing external validation, such as charisma and social approval, may not significantly enhance one's subjective experience of life; the real joy often lies in appreciating the present moment and reality. 01:40:55 💡 The journey towards enlightenment involves navigating disappointment and frustration rather than achieving a state of perpetual satisfaction.

[@KurtAlexander-lv9eo]

Thank man can see you put a effort in. ❤

[@IVIagicful]

Thanks for the effort

[@1bhishek_raj]

Chris should pin this comment.

[@ShawnGetty-eb1gj]

Joe Rogan authentic. Thanks for the laugh.

[@ColeRolland]

One of the best podcasts I’ve listened to lately. Two of my favorite personalities! 🔥

[@dbmdrums1105]

Woooh Cole Rolands hear too? 😅 Man your A7x covers are kick ass

[@superman8109]

I never comment but this is worth my time. These are the two fellas, along with Ben, that have changed the way that I think and live. It's great to finally see this collab. This is the type of conversation that I strive for in my own life. I really appreciate the work that these two are doing. Thanks!

[@ChrisWillx]

Victor mentality. Seize the day man.

[@_Palesa_M]

Which Ben? Shapiro?

[@twhiteofrd_1102]

@@_Palesa_M I would assume Charlie's business partner/podcast co-host Ben

[@_Palesa_M]

@@twhiteofrd_1102 Oh 🙈 Thank you!

[@davesteckler]

These two got me through 2020. I listen to both podcasts weekly

[@sj4267]

I think it’s important to remember that being yourself can be different in one moment to the next.

[@colemanbright]

I’ve always talked about how anticipation is better than the actual thing, and haven’t heard someone else articulate it so well! Thank you!

[@brendenbowers]

I was thinking it would be great if you had talked to Charlie and/or Ben. I love charisma on command, it has given me tools in life that have made a real difference. They are both great!

[@ChrisWillx]

You manifested this episode Brenden.

[@eomoran]

@@ChrisWillx they had you in their thumbnail for Their Female Dating Strategy video and I was so hoping that you were a guest on it

[@IceColdProfessional]

Softly tap the "like" button. For the algorithm.

[@DaKingLawson]

This is probably one of the best podcast episodes I’ve ever listened to! Thank you for this gem gentlemen. Will definitely be revisiting this one time and time again

[@maleman_xy]

The thing about the shyness filter and conversational assertiveness is so spot on.

[@az9498]

This is one of the greatest conversations of all time . Yall covered stuff I think about every day.

[@robyncohen8542]

Learn to find people fascinating and you will draw most people to you. People really enjoy being seen and heard. Be open hearted and generous and you will have others respond the same way to you.

[@nannoreul]

This 1000% it’s how I’ve applied myself and I’ve seen a huge increase in how much people engage with me

[@kingmo565]

@@nannoreul Both of you are females. This rule doesn't apply to men.

[@colindavis2113]

I love these dudes. Such positive influences for everyone especially us men. Big ups guys. Y’all are doing some very good work 👍

[@TheGuitarChief]

I remember years ago when I started bartending and discovered Charisma on Command. Looking back on how many things I learned from Charlie and how useful they are to this day. Great interview, love the reminder to be present in life rather than anticipating the next dopamine hit

[@rileyparish5149]

I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation! So many nuggets of wisdom; I'll definitely need to watch this again to revisit some of the topics discussed.

[@MrLockie7]

Just finished 6 pillars of self-esteem after hearing about it on here! Such a great book!

[@ChrisWillx]

You'd recommend?

[@nickguernica6441]

@@ChrisWillx Yes, please read. Life changing book.

[@Dustyholes]

Charlie is a legend, really helped out my social abilities with some good advice.

[@user-ng9cu1yi3c]

I've listened 30 something minutes in, and I keep thinking that I'm listening to a person that plays video games and wakes up at 11am on how to be attractive, yeah right dude. ✅️

[@Craigmayville]

Great point. I thought he was kidding until he kept going.

[@elispencer7055]

Hey I totally agree that my first impression of him wasn't great. By the end it was pretty clear that he's an appealing dude with some great tips on how to improve in social situations. His advice on things to avoid/ apply during conversations with girls/ others in general was awesome and discipline is far from everything especially when it comes to being interesting. Just my 2 cents

[@Dancky2]

No one is perfect, we all have our demons and vices.

[@tanyaschoenmanm9678]

I legit thought that within the first 60 seconds when hearing that his dog doesn’t even get let outside til 11am! 😮 I’m sorry but I can’t respect advice from some that’s irresponsible with ownership of a pet.

[@danieldanma]

Being the eldest son for 5 siblings and 2 working class parents, when Charlie got to the part where he talks about his family it hit me on a very deep level I didn't know existed up until now. Thank you Chris for this podcast, it was amazing to listen to!

[@protestthisyouloser1093]

This guy is legit! He’s sharp, level headed, and genuine! He’s helped me land some talent

[@georginahighfield2615]

I watch both of your podcasts and was super excited to see you both collab, great episode 👍

[@Jemima1010]

“One of the things guys miss out is having genuine standards” 😂 he said that so sincerely.

[@3lmi__319]

Pain Lmao😂😂😂

[@dynamicpaintball]

It's the truth. We literally have a word for guys with 0 standards, we call them "simps"

[@45blank16]

@@dynamicpaintball you're lost

[@cryabout.it.]

@@45blank16lmao what? How is he lost, that is literally what they are…

[@corden826]

"Guys with 0 standards" is a much much much broader category of men and "simps" is basically a minor subcategory within that broader category, is what I would say

[@charlesb2895]

The conversation towards the end was so good and so insightful and I didnt realize i needed to hear those things

[@AllanGildea]

Extraordinarily engaging and insightful conversation. Thank you both.

[@Ken_sky]

Omgg!! It's so good to see Charlie on your podcast!! I've been a long time fan of his videos!

[@olx222]

That is the largest smile I have ever seen. It's wonderful how just some physical features can bring me such joy and positivity.

[@timsatterfield9752]

Julia Roberts son.

[@mp3nerd31]

Absolutely fantastic podcast. So much wisdom, I'm literally taking notes!

[@oba3600]

One of the most helpful podcasts I’ve ever watched! Thank you

[@QuidamByMoonlight]

Charlie is awesome. Really like him, and feel we’ve had similar journeys over the years

[@arvinsenglishph2293]

LOVE THE PODACST. So much learning, acumen and insights I have got!

[@helloryantanaka]

Well done. Thanks for sharing this conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed hearing his take and listening to your questions.

[@xiaco8309]

Just discovered this podcast. Spent my entire day off just listening to several episodes.

[@snakejazz]

How did I miss this? Been listening to Charlie for a few years and love his channel.

[@nickj.7876]

This was a good and solid episode! I have been following both of you guys for a while, so it was cool seeing you do this! Much love from Norway!

[@heather-sardano]

This is a long video, and yet I have never been so completely captivated that I could not turn it off. Great information, and interviewing. Top performance. 🤩

[@michaelmartin3975]

I discovered this dude’s KZbin videos a long time ago and they’ve been helpful but hearing him commentate on his thought process is way more helpful

[@hotroutepod]

this is one of the realest convos i’ve ever heard. fantastic stuff boys

[@vladimirnikolov2269]

man, I enjoyed the conversation so much. Its so saturated with value!

[@quity919]

I'm 35 and i'm going through all this that you guys are talking about. Thanks guys this helps alot. Hope you both have a great day!

[@EPCauto2]

Whats your advice for an early 20 year old

[@dexterpickett4277]

​@@EPCauto2take risks but treat your reputation like your life depends on it

[@isaacengelhardt1934]

@ 27:04 I made this realization recently. I started writing down and reflecting on parts of my life that are already the way I want them to be (reflecting on gratitude, too) so that I'm already predisposed to identify that my life is good.

[@AA-xc7sm]

I love this guys channel it helped me alot with confidence and social skills! God bless

[@James777822]

Definition of charisma;( at 36 seconds in) , saying he gets up at "around 11am" and not looking like he's being judged!

[@Darknight526]

15:15 "Our nature does not predetermine but it does predispose." Fascinating aphorism!

[@jayk8756]

This is one of the best podcasts I’ve ever watched if not the best

[@iabhisekdas]

you guys just listened to each other and also talked to each other. That is a great one.

[@ivorymaine8421]

This is such a fantastic video. So easy to listen to. Had to share it with several people. ❤

[@karenalford4025]

We all need to get better with leaving the marshmallows! Delayed gratification for something real and consistent. I love the dialogue here, so much wisdom, awareness and maturity! I love your talks! ❤I’m 51 and I’ve finally got better at enjoying the journey as well as the learning and humility from the suffering and struggles! 💯desire happens in the anticipation! 🎉

[@ryancarlile7357]

This was honestly one of the greatest podcasts I have listened to lately. More power to you Chris and Charlie!

[@ShiningFinger005]

The friend repeating your joke loudly is such a relatable experience. I can't believe it happens with others too.

[@dylanwolfe7984]

The best podcast episode I’ve ever witnessed. Helped me a lot honestly. Thanks!

[@Fernando_chavira__]

Just found out about this podcast. So glad I did. A lot of good information here. Gonna rewatch it again!

[@Dawamesk420]

"self-esteem is your reputation with yourself" something that sounds so obvious once you've heard it. But I honestly never thought about it in that way. Great insight barely 10min into the video bodes well for rest of the interview :)

[@g33k240]

Always loved charlie

[@HenryPaulThe3rd]

Yay! My two favorite KZbinrs!! Didn’t see this one coming

[@eliel14ful]

This was so relatable, i think thats part of the charisma, make people feel like your human like them more of a potential friend, i certainly relate with playing LOL, is a addiction if you can quit it, i did and felt better but i can understand the hook, the other thing is the evolution into the acceptance that life is always falls short of expectations, and that is OK, we need to swing from stage to stage as best a we can knowing that perspective is key to find balance in our decisions, really deep stuff and heart-felt.

[@lifeinvader2039]

Great podcast mate, perfect amount of time too with loads of details.

[@Litflowers]

typically being sober and facing harsh challenges is the best route to becoming stronger

[@VanEuclid]

These longer videos are the ticket. Keep em coming

[@dannyadam04]

I think what makes Chris one of the best interviewers is that he finds out why people say what they say rather than just accepting it at face value.

[@whirloffire]

You two are by far my two favorite KZbin people thank you for this conversation you are both brilliant and I appreciate the wisdom I hear from both of you

[@yiyas444]

Thank you very much for this amazing podcast.

[@filhanislamictv8712]

Peace be upon you all of you, Just like The Speaker from Charisma on command channel In my young days I was somewhat of a reserved during my teengage years and People would tell they Like my personality. I spoke often infront my peers and even got up to answer question at a conference of about 3000 people. But I benefited alot my channels like Coc and this one. To be more charismatic empathically, energitically and comedically For the young people reading this Go and own your charismatic self.

[@jeanne8395]

absolutely love this

[@elispencer7055]

So cool listening to him admit that he's made it to the end of the rainbow and the pile of gold ain't all that. Hearing someone admit that their path/ program/ company ISN'T the end all be all to happiness is really refreshing.

[@TheMusicscotty]

Been listening to Charlie for years. Great podcast, fellas.

[@Danrensco]

Great content, my two favourite podcasts! (I'll let you fight between yourselves who's number one)

[@simoncourt1]

This was one of my favorites so far! GREAT podcast, fun, informative, and educational!

[@urigellarfella3680]

Great one this Chris. Your channel is the one I go to most these days mate. Keep it up. Your guests are always interesting and you seem to get a lot of insightful moments as well as funny bits. Much love from Liverpool lad. 💙🥰🤙🏻

[@yvetteostoja4407]

“Self-esteem is your reputation with yourself” “Your nature is not pre-determined, but it is pre-disposed” “The advantages of one phase in your life will be then obstacles in the next” “Strong opinions held loosely, not loose opinions held strongly” “It is far easier to achieve your material desires than to renounce them” Wow... This podcast had way to many quotable mic-drop moments. Great listen! Thanks for this you two!

[@e_squared604]

Appreciate you writing these out for us

[@vishaljain4915]

1:21:14 is why Chris is winning at podcasts. Taking something the guest said an hour ago and flipping it to make it relevant in a new context. Amazing

[@jayfromct5164]

Thanks again Chris new subscriber but I’ve watched quite a few of your interviews and love how you always give deep well thought out insights and a lot of times touch on topics that I thought only I had pondered before! Thank you so much I really enjoy your content!

[@goggins6121]

hey dude, your podcast is awesome, been listening lately more and more from your stuff!

[@trandom2083]

convicting, challenging & truth! You really have a gift to see & interpret things the general public does not

[@mouwersor]

fantastic episode, life-changing advice

[@MystiqWisdom]

Wow, incredible discussion!

[@BurgundyKRO]

Charlie kicks ass :) Great conversation.

[@stripedcollar335]

I am discovering alot about myself pretty late in life. Conversations like this are helpful in exploring the different ways of thinking that have been successful for others and bring contrast to the lesser, more self destructive patterns I am working through. Thank you for putting this work out there for us. I wandered around the red-pill space for a while before I found your channel. You helped me sift what I found there for the wisdom it contains while leaving behind the anger and bitterness. You have a certain mindset that draws the best out of people, made starkly clear during your appearance on Rogan. I like his show, but his formula has become a bit stale, and you managed to bring back what we all loved about his podcast that may have been fading. Keep grinding Chris. You are inspiring progress in others that you may never be aware of, but is having a positive impact.

[@BlackJim]

Love this guy!

[@brycejn]

I was just thinking it'd be great if you had him on! Great conversation. Love both your podcast and Charlie's

[@alexanderdeadmansche]

Great guest. Charlie is a very interesting guy. Looking forward to seeing them interview you on their podcast too Chris.

[@KarmicSlayer]

Really? 🤔

[@grahamcarter7000]

As always awesome Chris 🙂

[@pmtreacy10]

MDMA is the greatest 👍

[@hueclouds]

This was a very relaxed and balanced conversation. These two speakers seem very confident in themselves and not defensive at all. I really enjoyed this, it was very comfortable to listen to, I didn't feel negative or tired once!

[@GeetSampat]

Great podcast Your insight @ 1:30:07 is golden!

[@asteriosvervitis1203]

fantastic podcast. thanks for all

[@jesse3105]

Great collab. Charisma is somehow both the easiest and the hardest thing to work on and definitely needs more of my intentional effort. Also, what a relief when a video podcast has excellent audio and visual quality.

[@Adrianerosemusic]

As an introvert who constantly works on this… I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Can relate to all this! 💞💞🦋

[@rainman400]

Been listening to the both of you for a while. So great to see this collab. Also good to know even podcasters go through the League of Legends rage phase like the rest of us.

[@xTazyKing]

This was absolutey and utterly amazing

[@IceColdProfessional]

This is great information. I'm going to analyze it, synthesize it, and deploy it on my next target.

[@deusvult980]

So cool to see the charisma on command guy is based like that. Had a suspicion but nice to get confirmed.

[@AmbrociousXP]

Two hot guys with amazing smiles and personalities and hyper intense minds, this is what Im looking for.

[@felixl2110]

Chris is great - always looks ready to dive headfirst through a wall

[@TM-cm9ct]

What an interview! 🥰❤️

[@LegendarySaxon]

Great material guys. Will be buying that six pillars to self esteem.

[@CosmicSpaceAdventure]

This was extremely helpful for me. I’ve been struggling with the idea of sacrificing myself by acting in an intentionally tailored way for fear of losing who I am. Reframing it as new habits and skills and clarifying that it isn’t changing the core of who someone is. Thanks for the explanation.

[@luismoreno9633]

Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz is a great book if you want to make changes to your personality. Helped me become way more confident and lost the fear of asking women out.