Jordan Peterson - The Pain Of Unreached Potential

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Chris Williamson

Chris Williamson

3 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson answers "how do you deal with the pain of unreached potential? How can people not get depressed when failing to reach their goals? What do Jordan Peterson's fans say to him in the street? How can jealousy kill your growth? Should we posit ideals at all?
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@ChrisWillx
@ChrisWillx 3 жыл бұрын
Watch the full episode ➡️ kzbin.info/www/bejne/invKaqqabcaah7s
@cameronidk2
@cameronidk2 3 жыл бұрын
Chris! pay up buddy. I'm an out shape rather barbarian egg faced human in America and believe you owe me some of your Pretty, Deep brown eyed, Statue of David physic Privilege. A check simply won't do! And No I'm not comparing myself to you, I'm making fun of me and you. I've been working hard brother from a much much lower status spot then you .. but again that's my fault ..I was once the king of all that i saw.. and Hubris Came .. the Piper Did Call... I'm putting in alot of work .. I'm not perfect or as ready as one would like me to be .. but history Waits for no man .. or women for that matter.. I believe i have cracked a big societal nut no ones been able to quite figure out .,.. at least in the US .. it's about the homeless crisis and how to reverse it .. here is a video i put out today mostly for my Facebook family and friends, but I think it's a good measure of where I'm at... kzbin.info/www/bejne/aGS7paF6o7Fpo8U i know this is breaking a once cardinal rule about the internet but ...I'm desperate .. you should have me on as a guest +1 509-818-6005 The names Cameron Vessey
@cameronidk2
@cameronidk2 3 жыл бұрын
Chris a taste of my fix.. Many a late night commercial, new aspiring book or author might say “forget everything you know about Blank”. Because their about to blow you away with a whole new way to look at an old problem. Check out my new mouse trap. But as I often do, I must take a different approach, as I tell you to check out this Mouse trap Escape tool. Take everything you know about habits, From Jocko to Books on self-discipline, from self-help to psychological research take it all …and try to imagine what a human being older then 20 years old would look like, act like, be capable of or what they wouldn’t be capable of if you wiped them clean of every single habit they’ve been forming since birth .. then place them into society. This human can be of normal intelligence, of privileged genetics’, and well educated. This human can also have avoided any psychosis inducing trauma throughout his or hers life. As well-adjusted of a say 25 to 40 year old as one might imagine. Then thoroughly wipe them clean of any habits they might normal of developed over the same period of life. Take minute. Physical habits, emotional habits, greeting people with a hello, avoiding cracks in the road. Putting their shoes on in the morning, wiped clean of every habit you can think of and oh so many that you haven’t. And place them into society for a week. For a month .. how would they fair? Could they maintain their patience when cashiers bagging the potatoes in another plastic bag even though they come in a bag already? How often would they just start running to safety like a deer in a grassy field sensing possible danger? After a long week of putting forth effort to do so many little things how exhausted would they be? One might even think they were suffering from depression. Tired, lethargic, no direction.. What if a perfectly healthy human who was suffering from a habit chalk board that had been wiped clean were everything is far more of an effort then normal was given anti depressants .. Take every thing you know about habits, motivation, daily routines, effort, mental health .. and now look at a chronically homeless person as if every habit they’ve spent a life time developing have been erased completely off their habit chalk board.. What would you recommend as a doctor or a counselor or a loved one now? What would your expectations for this person be for the next 30 to 90 to 180 days ? What responsibility’s could they really be given ? When getting dressed in the morning with out outside stimulus becomes a major chore. This is just the first part in my self-proclaimed ground breaking discovery as to why the homeless crisis is just getting worse … is it worth a chat ? I hope so! Please Dr. Peterson .. I believe I’ve cracked one of the biggest nuts our society has been struggling with over the past 15 to 20 years .. I’m 46 years old .. when I was high school dropout and my grandmother forced me to get my GED I did an IQ test at the Spokane community college were I took the GED test the last grade I had completed was 7th grade .. I was 17 and scored a 135 .. I believe I have figured something profound and deeply simple .. and away of fixing it ..RIGHT NOW..TODAY..
@cameronidk2
@cameronidk2 3 жыл бұрын
oops this was a request i gave Dr. Peterson that we all can agree might be to busy to undertake .. Chris your the man your the scoop getter .. you ..could be the one!
@cameronidk2
@cameronidk2 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/m6iYZqtrpdqbgZI
@derekcanales8477
@derekcanales8477 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@alyssafdz5806
@alyssafdz5806 3 жыл бұрын
I discovered JBP 3 years ago Since then I’ve lost over 100lbs, Mentally & emotionally I am in a stable and increasingly secure place, No longer suicidal, I am writing and am going to start school this year to be a special education teacher, I am currently going through a divorce where for 18 years I suffered every type of abuse you can name and I have my moments where things get unbearable but bc of JP I am getting through it in a very healthy way. I don’t know if you see this comment but that’s a small list of so much I am grateful to you for JP. I had no one in life to help me in positive ways and I took on those lectures and videos hours on hours and it’s done so much in my life I have your books and can’t wait to get the new one 👍🏼
@seifamgad9568
@seifamgad9568 3 жыл бұрын
Great job, Alyssa. Keep going.
@kandondooley89
@kandondooley89 3 жыл бұрын
Stay blessed
@MariMV7
@MariMV7 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats Alissa... I'm so proud of you... Keep going! (I've never posted anything like this before lol, so I trully mean it)
@suvankarpanja105
@suvankarpanja105 3 жыл бұрын
I am also proud of you Alyssa.I want to have a friend like you
@danielcropp8553
@danielcropp8553 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! :)
@paddyauth
@paddyauth 3 жыл бұрын
"Incremental improvement repeated is virtually unstoppable." - JP
@FirstLast-gk6lg
@FirstLast-gk6lg 3 жыл бұрын
Long term investment
@grayscale888
@grayscale888 3 жыл бұрын
-Red Skull
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3ivn3uVr6tmnZo
@johnkuipers7829
@johnkuipers7829 3 жыл бұрын
True. If you can make incremental improvements.
@TheWolfangst
@TheWolfangst 3 жыл бұрын
Add daily journaling and the increments become meaningful.
@LivingALifeOfAbundance
@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын
6 Important Guidelines in Life -When you are Alone, mind your Thoughts. -When you are with Friends, mind your Tongue. -When you are Angry, mind your Temper. -When you are with a Group, mind your Behavior. -When you are in Trouble, mind your Emotion. -When God starts blessing you, mind your EGO. Post navigation.
@alaricgoldkuhl155
@alaricgoldkuhl155 3 жыл бұрын
When you are a social media platform, mind your business. When you are piqued, mind your 'P's and 'Q's. When you are awake, be mindful.
@Thomw72
@Thomw72 3 жыл бұрын
Very well written, thank you, and well done....
@UNKNOWNANG3L
@UNKNOWNANG3L 3 жыл бұрын
you lost me at God.
@alaricgoldkuhl155
@alaricgoldkuhl155 3 жыл бұрын
@@UNKNOWNANG3L Grow up. Substitute "the Universe" or whatever else you want. God is the name many give to the great other - the sum-total of all that is not you.
@Srilankanenglishteacher
@Srilankanenglishteacher 3 жыл бұрын
@@UNKNOWNANG3L you must be very shallow. I feel sorry for you genuinely.
@GrubKiller436
@GrubKiller436 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that KZbin is recommending me recent Jordan Peterson videos again! Like the good ol' days.
@the8u9
@the8u9 3 жыл бұрын
seriously right?!
@Crunch630
@Crunch630 3 жыл бұрын
@@the8u9 He's back. It finally clicked in this video that he's speaking like he used to - an enormous blessing.
@the8u9
@the8u9 3 жыл бұрын
@@Crunch630 totally agree, when he was only recently back, I was still a bit worried because he seemed shaky, but now that he has gained the power of the tesseract he can go back to telling America's @ss to go clean his room.
@ZingoBananaa
@ZingoBananaa 3 жыл бұрын
Am i the only one getting the long Jordan Peterson speeches/lectures on the "next video" feed all the time lately? Not complaining too much, i really like the guy, but i feel like youtube algorithm has been favouring him to about the same degree they do to mainstream news for at least three months now.
@timangar9771
@timangar9771 3 жыл бұрын
@@ZingoBananaa The algorithm shows you what it thinks you'll click.
@rmarques8156
@rmarques8156 3 жыл бұрын
"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday" - Magical Nazi Red Skull
@jj342
@jj342 3 жыл бұрын
his face is looking kinda red lol
@Diegoshadow85
@Diegoshadow85 3 жыл бұрын
@@jj342 He is evolving into lobster.
@Io-Io-Io
@Io-Io-Io 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂🤪👌👍
@someonesomeone25
@someonesomeone25 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but age isn't kind. In many ways I'm worse and weaker than I used to be.
@nocturnaljoe9543
@nocturnaljoe9543 3 жыл бұрын
@@someonesomeone25 But maybe wiser and meaner.
@yordano41
@yordano41 3 жыл бұрын
We watch our own failures from a front row seat. That quote really hit hard.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3ivn3uVr6tmnZo
@cbholmes4739
@cbholmes4739 3 жыл бұрын
"You can have whatever ideal you want as long as you're willing to reduce your movement forward to achievable increments." Dang that is brilliant.
@carlwells9504
@carlwells9504 3 жыл бұрын
That’s Tattoo worthy
@yossarian7617
@yossarian7617 3 жыл бұрын
Moving forward and achievable increments are synonymous. That sentence doesn't make any sense, not even at a grammatical level.
@JDela10
@JDela10 3 жыл бұрын
@@yossarian7617 -- Yes it does. He said reduce your "movements" forward to achievable increments. The point is if you try to take giant leaps all the time instead of achievable increments you won't move forward at all.
@AnnaLVajda
@AnnaLVajda 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah but some people don't set goals or have the same ideals as others. "Self improvement is madturbation" Tyler Durden.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3ivn3uVr6tmnZo
@jumpmaninspired
@jumpmaninspired 3 жыл бұрын
Red Skull at it again. Love this guy. Keep preaching Red Skull.
@alexandersemionov5790
@alexandersemionov5790 3 жыл бұрын
Well, he looks like he burned in a son a bit. Adds to cool character - love it!!!
@markwhite2207
@markwhite2207 3 жыл бұрын
Ha ha, that's funny...I don't think JP is big on irony
@catdogfishdogcats
@catdogfishdogcats 3 жыл бұрын
More like Lobster Alpha
@african9686
@african9686 3 жыл бұрын
Hail Lobster😭
@kirkjohnson9353
@kirkjohnson9353 3 жыл бұрын
@@murphymerryliz The shirt looks great too - I ordered three. A bit of a spit in the eye to Marvel- but all for charity.
@jacky7878
@jacky7878 3 жыл бұрын
1. Every ideal/goal is a judge - can be crushing 2. Stop comparing yourself to others 3. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday - compounds 4. Who would you like to be? What's stopping you from becoming that? 5. Instead of punishing yourself from as a consequence of perceived distance you reward yourself for incremental movement forward
@alaricgoldkuhl155
@alaricgoldkuhl155 3 жыл бұрын
It brings to mind the Three Great Delusions: I am better. I am worse. I am the same.
@grosbeak6130
@grosbeak6130 3 жыл бұрын
Whence "the three great delusions"? e.g. Zen saying?
@markwhite2207
@markwhite2207 3 жыл бұрын
John Lennon espoused the fourth...
@alaricgoldkuhl155
@alaricgoldkuhl155 3 жыл бұрын
@@grosbeak6130 Straight vanilla Buddhism dude.
@rogalski86
@rogalski86 3 жыл бұрын
The one consistent I like is "I am"
@markwhite2207
@markwhite2207 3 жыл бұрын
@@rogalski86 I am...enough
@abw48
@abw48 3 жыл бұрын
Much of my young life, as an alcoholic and drug user,(1964-1984), born in 1948, was all about comparing my insides to everybody else's outsides, that is to say I always thought everybody else had it together but not me, and so I wanted their life. Look at that guy hes got the women, the car, the money, the style, yada yada yada... Now being over 30 years clean and sober I must say that for many many years I have never come across anybodies life that I want... This is major progress for me...
@vumba1331
@vumba1331 3 жыл бұрын
Well done, what a growth experience! Been there to some degree myself, not an easy process to discover and work through by yourself, Dr Peterson's books and podcasts are so valuable these days, bringing it out into the open and helping you work through your thoughts.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3ivn3uVr6tmnZo
@johnkuipers7829
@johnkuipers7829 3 жыл бұрын
I've never come across anybody's life that I want. Recovering alcoholic but never wanted some else's life. Don't get that. You have yourself, no one else, bottom line.
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
@Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry 3 жыл бұрын
The adults who were in our lives when were children influenced our expectations implicitly and explicitly, for good or ill, and usually both. We may think our expectations change as we get older and become our own, but the dye has been cast. We will always be trying to please someone else if we don't recognize what's going on and do the difficult work of charting and setting out on our own course.
@emd5095
@emd5095 3 жыл бұрын
As my brother sits in jail, I hope he realizes this sooner than later, no one knows what they are doing
@xavierxavier9931
@xavierxavier9931 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan articulates what has otherwise always felt like mere instinct or ‘gut’ feelings and opinions. Great question btw.
@Io-Io-Io
@Io-Io-Io 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan is simply common sense
@SkeeNnN
@SkeeNnN 3 жыл бұрын
Which unfortunately is not very common
@Io-Io-Io
@Io-Io-Io 3 жыл бұрын
@@SkeeNnN ...anymore
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3ivn3uVr6tmnZo
@Gabriel-xc9bl
@Gabriel-xc9bl 3 жыл бұрын
very well said
@shantelroesler4364
@shantelroesler4364 3 жыл бұрын
Gosh I really love this lobster villain
@Unikadanceeventsparties
@Unikadanceeventsparties 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 crack me up
@PaulOReilly712
@PaulOReilly712 2 жыл бұрын
The lobster stuff he talks about is rubbish! and also the Atheists believe we are descended from monkeys( evolutionary Biologists ones) even bigger garbage than we are related to lobsters. I know you wil come down on me hard for this post, but had to be said when you mentioned Lobsters. Most of what he teaches is helpful! must say, but Lobsters Nah!
@phasespace4700
@phasespace4700 2 жыл бұрын
@@PaulOReilly712 Nothing he teaches is useful. He's a classic bullshit artist.
@nursultannazarov8379
@nursultannazarov8379 2 жыл бұрын
@@PaulOReilly712 u r right man. We all just listening to BS. Nothing he speak is truth. His name is probably not Jordan
@Honkinonthebobo
@Honkinonthebobo 2 жыл бұрын
"I think that's one of the challenges we have in the modern era because social media shows us the highlight reel of everybody else's life, but we get to watch our own failings from a front row seat. We realize how far away from our own potential we are, but nobody else actually knows that. You are only ever competing against yourself. "
@damo9961
@damo9961 3 жыл бұрын
I used to struggle with depression. But as I've got older I try to see the 'glass as half full'. Cliche I know, but I've become a firm believer that something is better than nothing and even the worst experience can have positives and still be a 'ride.' You only grieve because you had something special.
@Inharmonics77
@Inharmonics77 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Your comment here actually helped me. Sometimes I think seeing the good - even if it is only little - is just me excusing how I've failed to "make it" and isn't "truthful". But then I realise that all such negativity produces no good fruit, so I am may as well choose to be thankful for the good there is.
@Srilankanenglishteacher
@Srilankanenglishteacher 3 жыл бұрын
Well, it's not bad to feel that way guys. But, what matters is, you should know that's not it all. Failure doesn't define you unless you give up. Long as you're alive and have something burning inside, go for it, and have a crack at it everyday. Keep on improving yourself while learning from the mistakes that you'll be making along the way. Have a nice day!
@itsjusachannel6852
@itsjusachannel6852 3 жыл бұрын
The last line was pure facts
@True38
@True38 3 жыл бұрын
Nobody cares about how you feel or think so you might as well be happy. Be your own best friend and choose the best things for yourself in life without feeling remorse, guilt, or shame. Those are nonsense feelings that serve no one good. And don't be worried about other people and what they think, you can always use them to your own advantage as you should because that is what most people do anyway. Life is short, opportunities are few so make the best out of it and go for yours. Nobody cares if you live or die so just do whatever you want.
@itsjusachannel6852
@itsjusachannel6852 3 жыл бұрын
@@True38 FAX!!
@Danamous
@Danamous 3 жыл бұрын
"You can't buy youth" that really hit me
@Drcowboyfunk007
@Drcowboyfunk007 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 29 and I feel my youth flying out the window...it’s been tough. I miss being identified with potential
@spanishflyevh9606
@spanishflyevh9606 3 жыл бұрын
@@Drcowboyfunk007 I'm 39. I can't even get hired now.
@Luna-co7wn
@Luna-co7wn 3 жыл бұрын
SpanishFly EVH why ?
@spanishflyevh9606
@spanishflyevh9606 3 жыл бұрын
@@Luna-co7wn Age discrimination (where I'm from 30 and under the employer get government funding for hiring you). So once past 30, if you don't have the skill sets already, or unless you are immigrant status, it's really hard. Luckily I can ride a disability cheque forever but not many can.
@wyleecoyotee4252
@wyleecoyotee4252 3 жыл бұрын
Wait till you're 58. Grim realization how fast time flies and not to waste it
@AureliusAudio
@AureliusAudio 3 жыл бұрын
"If I take one more step, it'll be the furthest from 'ome I've ever been."
@jaykob2482
@jaykob2482 2 жыл бұрын
Facts! When I was in prison I went through the initial intense withdrawal for opioids (mainly dope). Although, when I was released I still suffered from PAWS (post acute withdrawal syndrome). I sought clinical help and the director noticed potential in me that I could not see for myself. So he took me under his wing and told me "Jake, first take one day at a time, and then when you overcome individual days, take it week by week, and then month by month. Eventually, you'll look back and realize that you've been clean for years". He was suggesting that I take incremental steps like JBP describes. Well, let's just say that I've been clean ever since I took his advice, over 11 years ago. I say this, not to brag. The main thing I wish anyone takes away from my story, is that you too can defeat whatever seemingly unshakable demon that torments your soul.
@Razear
@Razear 3 жыл бұрын
"I'd pick young and poor, 'cause you can't buy youth." Powerful stuff.
@user-oz7uk9wp9j
@user-oz7uk9wp9j 3 жыл бұрын
that just hit me so hard, I repeated it 15 times !
@LKRaider
@LKRaider 3 жыл бұрын
I am getting old
@FirstLast-gk6lg
@FirstLast-gk6lg 3 жыл бұрын
@@LKRaider same man it really doesn't feel good. Like literally my body feels like shit lol
@unitynofear7758
@unitynofear7758 3 жыл бұрын
Add virgin to the list.
@thepl8gued0ct0r8
@thepl8gued0ct0r8 3 жыл бұрын
@@FirstLast-gk6lg I’m not a dietitian but I’d recommend the Mediterranean diet. It’s high in omega 3 and other important nutrients that help. Just a recommendation lad
@DanyPell
@DanyPell 3 жыл бұрын
I just reminisced on how great it was to have Jordan around a couple of years ago and just realized how great it is for him to be back.
@ahmedsawafta4570
@ahmedsawafta4570 3 жыл бұрын
"You reduce the magnitude of the move forward, until you hit the point where you will actually do it." Click click click.
@givthritz5225
@givthritz5225 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson lookin good again. Love ya, and God bless you sir.
@fiveleavesleft6521
@fiveleavesleft6521 3 жыл бұрын
He really seems to be coming back to form.
@itsjusachannel6852
@itsjusachannel6852 3 жыл бұрын
Bro why select the god hand as your profile picture
@thepl8gued0ct0r8
@thepl8gued0ct0r8 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsjusachannel6852 freedom of choice
@Arockersfantasy
@Arockersfantasy 3 жыл бұрын
@@itsjusachannel6852 its absolute chaos man, berserk falls in line with the existentialism philosophy
@itsjusachannel6852
@itsjusachannel6852 3 жыл бұрын
@@Arockersfantasy I know, because its truly GOATed. I mean there are only a few mangas out there, which can actually tackle extentialism
@muddywitch9016
@muddywitch9016 3 жыл бұрын
I’m now (attempting) to write a novel thanks to Dr Peterson’s advise. And it all started with me ‘cleaning my room’.
@kingdaleclarke
@kingdaleclarke 3 жыл бұрын
Good on you
@anthonywyndham
@anthonywyndham 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad Jordan is up and about again. We need him now more than ever!
@johnkuipers7829
@johnkuipers7829 3 жыл бұрын
Really? What's wrong? He is not God or anything.
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
*kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6CkgaV3iZ10aMk
@marcin8865
@marcin8865 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnkuipers7829 Maybe he admires him in a way? I don't want to be cocky but we all have someone we look up to.
@defaultdamager7639
@defaultdamager7639 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnkuipers7829 it would serve you well to be kinder, don’t be horrible dude.
@rogermouton2273
@rogermouton2273 3 жыл бұрын
We love you JBP. Wonderful to see you so vital.
@TheDhammaHub
@TheDhammaHub 3 жыл бұрын
The trick is to pick a goal that is realistic, durable, andachieveable. That way you can derive a lot of gratification from the process of getting there!
@ahmedwhaji3672
@ahmedwhaji3672 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t care what others say. Mr peterson is one of the most important public intellectual of the 21st century.
@htww1205
@htww1205 3 жыл бұрын
"Aim high but reward yourself for small incremental improvements." 5:41 Thanks, that's exactly the advice that was needed.
@hal900x
@hal900x 3 жыл бұрын
Of all life's problems, this is the one that crushes my soul. I was given so many gifts, told I have those gifts over and over, and wasted my entire life up to late middle age, ultimately on addiction and the total annulment of life's riches. Those gifts were as nothing compared to the negative core beliefs that were instilled within me. To begin from scratch with a broken body and mind, heavy with regret, is not an easy thing to do, no matter how many tools and insight there are available.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3ivn3uVr6tmnZo
@FriendofDorothy
@FriendofDorothy 3 ай бұрын
on the other hand I just read the latest novel by an author who is now 80. He only had one sort- of kind- of a best seller but he is still writing.
@izawaniek2568
@izawaniek2568 2 жыл бұрын
Incremental improvement repeated every day is unstoppable. Rewarding yourself for the move forward is crucial. Thank you.
@Rapture749
@Rapture749 3 жыл бұрын
This advice is so simple and yet it took me so long to fully learn. Celebrating the small wins has changed my life.
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@scottduflo7348
@scottduflo7348 3 жыл бұрын
How fortunate do you feel to have interviewed the man who had such a big influence on your life?
@archlich4489
@archlich4489 3 жыл бұрын
And thrive at it!
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
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@jonathandewberry289
@jonathandewberry289 3 жыл бұрын
It's especially bizarre to see young people in their 20s comparing each other in the most specific of ways and i see it often. One is 23 and he's crowing that the other is making 4% less money at age 25 while the other is angsty because he's 22 but the other two were already [meaningless title of a job position] and he wants to be 7% more by the time he's this and that. Holeeeee shit they have no idea how utterly nonsensical and pointless and foolish nothingness that is. 1000 peculiar twists and turns will happen 1000 times in their lifetimes up and down, one launched to poverty to be launched back up, another will be on fire for a minute, later 1000 XYZs will move the sandbox around and so on and so on. They go on like it matters so specifically and it's really just weird.
@vongslayer7338
@vongslayer7338 3 жыл бұрын
As a 24 year old who creates a lot of self anxiety comparing himself to others, this comment was very helpful
@vongslayer7338
@vongslayer7338 3 жыл бұрын
@KobeR JP mentioned in a previous video that, in previous generations, 15-18 was the most awkward period in a person's life. Think Catcher in the Rye or any 80's coming of age movie. But in recent decades, 18-25 year olds have felt the most stress, thanks to a combination of delayed marrying, college debt, hyper competitive job markets, and skyrocketing housing costs. It's funny but I feel way more "teenage angst" now than I ever did in high school. Just the joys of growing up I suppose!
@mikitz
@mikitz 3 жыл бұрын
When you're middle-aged and you notice that you're still nowhere near your true potential... Hell, at least I'm leaps and bounds wiser than what I was back in my early twenties. It's pretty much the most valuable asset I can think of.
@Halberd45
@Halberd45 3 жыл бұрын
30 but at a 20 year old stage of development but its even worse for me. I feel like I have to go harder than the twenty year olds to compete with their exact specific lifestyles. it is information overload to the extreme and I find it very difficult to focus on an object in front of me for even 5 min. Sometimes my attn span bounces so much, a gnat on crack would be like dude chill.
@mohamedorayith4626
@mohamedorayith4626 3 жыл бұрын
1st rule for life: Discover and explore Jordan Peterson 🙏🏼❤️
@TheBartExperience
@TheBartExperience 3 жыл бұрын
Learning that progression is made in incremental steps has transformed my life in so many ways. Because of what we are exposed to every day I was always under the impression that I need to do and have everything and it all needs to happen and be gotten right now, all the while being so overwhelmed with not being where I wanted to be that I made no progress at all. Progress is also not measured by how well you perform - you can't expect yourself to perform better and better each day, rather, each days' efforts compound; for example, three days from now you will have 3 days of effort more added to your work than you did today and that is what makes you better, not that you got more work done than you did yesterday. Otherwise, you can 'not work yourself' into last week in terms of progress and that's greatly demoralising. P.S, great interview, Dr Jordan looks much better in this interview than when he first came back, really great to see!
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@garczmen3291
@garczmen3291 3 жыл бұрын
I did nothing to help myself, but at least my english improved a little just by listening to him, it's something I guess.
@gregoriosamsa2722
@gregoriosamsa2722 3 жыл бұрын
"Every ideal is a judge" No wonder why Freud came up with the Ideal Self, then the Super Ego often described as Tyrannical
@Leen95M
@Leen95M 3 жыл бұрын
“I’ll pick young and poor because you can’t buy youth” Thank you prof Peterson, these words were like a balm to my heart ♥️
@Leen95M
@Leen95M 3 жыл бұрын
I still need to make money though 😂
@judyroth8928
@judyroth8928 3 жыл бұрын
Ur the luckiest Person .well go for it🤣🤣🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️
@AserialKrabatOfficial
@AserialKrabatOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You, I really needed this message
@iLukeHD
@iLukeHD 3 жыл бұрын
I started watching your KZbin a few years ago back when you had a few hundred subscribers, it’s crazy to see how much it’s grown! The podcast you did with your two mates were very interesting!
@GeoZero
@GeoZero 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today.
@Mark-nm6zw
@Mark-nm6zw 3 жыл бұрын
This is one of your absolute best podcasts to date, great job mate
@dunkman393
@dunkman393 2 жыл бұрын
Great question. Ty to Chris for asking it.
@ahmedsawafta4570
@ahmedsawafta4570 3 жыл бұрын
This man, man. Unbelievable wealth of wisdom! Fair to say he changed the way i perceive life.
@mikegeeguitarman8991
@mikegeeguitarman8991 3 жыл бұрын
Two guys I love with a passion. Thanks fellas for talking alout what we all think. Who could not find these talks interesting. How freakin good is it to see Jordan back..literally warms my heart.
@design7054
@design7054 3 жыл бұрын
Really good point about social media, and comparing ourselves against the very best outward image of others.
@mriegger
@mriegger 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome. I really needed this video.
@kindlee3468
@kindlee3468 3 жыл бұрын
How refreshing! How clear! What an excellent explanation!! Love Mr. jourden. He explains like no other!! Very clear well explained!
@JordanBazza
@JordanBazza 3 жыл бұрын
So rewarding.
@CosmeJunior
@CosmeJunior 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@iam3489
@iam3489 3 жыл бұрын
I learnt this method a couple of years ago .... Life changing 🙂
@AlexanderMichelson
@AlexanderMichelson 3 жыл бұрын
God bless Jordan Peterson! Thanks!
@vitorfranca5635
@vitorfranca5635 2 жыл бұрын
awesome video.. "social media showing only the highlight of everyone lives when we see our own failures in the front row seat" was very interesting, good set of words. Was feeling bit down this month and it start when i return heavy on social media, we need to be more vigilant.. thanks !!
@clagos247
@clagos247 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks again, Professor Peterson.
@tdang9528
@tdang9528 3 жыл бұрын
All suffering comes from identifying yourself with something you are NOT. time is the greatest punishment as a result of this.
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@kachekijaanlega
@kachekijaanlega 7 ай бұрын
your first line is profound. can you explain the second sentence in depth?
@donshifty
@donshifty 3 ай бұрын
@@kachekijaanlega1st line is not correct
@litovillar6027
@litovillar6027 3 жыл бұрын
I love this talk. So relevant❤️❤️❤️❤️
@officialcheetahhopperz1
@officialcheetahhopperz1 3 жыл бұрын
What a critical conversation for all of us not at the top.
@carlwells9504
@carlwells9504 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder Jordan- I am doing better than yesterday so I will be a little better tomorrow- have been in a particularly bad bout of depression.
@MESSIMAHJJL1233
@MESSIMAHJJL1233 8 ай бұрын
i listen to jordan peterson a lot, i have been doing it for the last 4 years, read his books and all that, watched him live and everything and everyone associates me with him, when my friends hears the name jordan peterson they think of me because i talk about him a lot. The problem and question is my life is miserable, my situation is tragic , i tell the truth rather than lie, i have a very strong character, but most things i don't think i really implement it in my life, like i still compare myself to others and i cry about it so hard because i failed unviersity, i still keep going and trying, but like everyone graduated, have a job, financially stable and i'm 10 times backwards. Why have i not implemented jordan petersons teachings even tho i've listened to him for so many years, watched all his videos and all that, does it mean i dont truly understand or what? If i did implement his teachings i wouldnt end up in my situaition i am today.
@christianwright3385
@christianwright3385 3 жыл бұрын
jordan peterson is so awesome, dudes my hero.
@retrieverlover8228
@retrieverlover8228 3 жыл бұрын
Such a great episode! One to relisten to and keep revisiting. I love your podcasts with Jordan AND Mikhaila so much!
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@Dropthebeatonit
@Dropthebeatonit 3 жыл бұрын
Lots of quotables from Chris, even in the presence of the great man himself, respect brotha!
@vvv_59
@vvv_59 2 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant and so useful!!
@Ciclopea2
@Ciclopea2 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan is the freakin embodiment of what he exposed here and it's so satisfying and inspiring to watch, i am thankful.
@futureself401
@futureself401 3 жыл бұрын
I love Jordan Peterson so much this was so needed for me and for a lot of others thank you Chris!
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@Kyoto99952
@Kyoto99952 2 жыл бұрын
I discovered JP in 2018. I can't tell you how much my life improved since then. Literally, I can't tell you. I can write a whole book about it.
@SophiasHeir
@SophiasHeir 3 жыл бұрын
Chris Williamson really nailed it on these questions...
@MOUWFFAK
@MOUWFFAK Ай бұрын
great starting question
@steliosantorkas3818
@steliosantorkas3818 3 жыл бұрын
Having just discovered this channel I have to say: These were some fantastic questions posed by the interviewer. I am well aware of the value Jordan's responses carry, but asking the right questions and providing the right context really elevates their quality to the next level. Excellent job!
@benv7933
@benv7933 3 жыл бұрын
We need him now more than ever
@lokiman2256
@lokiman2256 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so thankful this man is back and doing videos and talking. He is an inspiration and he helps so many young men essentially see through the fog. He’s a truly good man and I’m just so glad he’s doing ok again and is back to enriching others lives with his wisdom.
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
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@lidkastorm2302
@lidkastorm2302 3 жыл бұрын
Great interview!
@Caspaah151
@Caspaah151 3 жыл бұрын
That really was a great question, Chris!
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@mayenn2006
@mayenn2006 3 жыл бұрын
My word! This touched me so deeply. I knew you shouldn't compare yourself to others, especially based on social media. Easy to say but something else entirely when you're feeling all small and setback. "You watch the highlight reel of other people's success on social media but have the front row seat to all your failures and limitations..." most of which, you alone know about. "No one else has the same set of opportunities and limitations as you." Yours is a unique situation. "They", are really not out there judging you, it's just you. Don't be an unfair judge, don't be unkind. Take your daily steps forward no matter how small. Have faith and patience. This video answered some questions I didn't know I was asking and that's a step forward. It's exciting!
@aragornelessar7399
@aragornelessar7399 8 ай бұрын
Good video man. Well done
@marianemashkalo4182
@marianemashkalo4182 3 жыл бұрын
Good to hear Dr. Peterson, wise as usual
@MrLazini
@MrLazini 3 жыл бұрын
Outstanding content !
@fiyinobayanmusic
@fiyinobayanmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Very helpful!
@mathieuboumal1394
@mathieuboumal1394 3 жыл бұрын
"Nobody else knows that" That is such a good observation, thank you :)
@spanishflyevh9606
@spanishflyevh9606 3 жыл бұрын
People only see what you show them
@hamadamakorro1187
@hamadamakorro1187 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant interview. Genuine host. Subbed.
@yootoob1001001
@yootoob1001001 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this today. Thank you to Chris and Jordan.
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@akirepedroza3067
@akirepedroza3067 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan has the best life improvement advise. Breaking down habits and then eliminating them one by one, while measuring the progress. Simply amazinh
@rayanhiron9607
@rayanhiron9607 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@Jerzius
@Jerzius 3 жыл бұрын
JBP saved my life. I wish the profound insights I received from his two books and his talks upon every human I meet.
@nonamephil9877
@nonamephil9877 3 жыл бұрын
Have read Jordans books and watched him for hours on you tube I always learn something valuable
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@carmineglitch
@carmineglitch 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to watch this, I forget how wise Jordan Peterson's teaching are imperative for everyone's path in life
@caostv9474
@caostv9474 3 жыл бұрын
I'm suffering from my own self Judgment but thanks to this Video with Dr. Peterson, now i felt inspired.
@wagucu
@wagucu 3 жыл бұрын
👏🏾 this guy really knows how to simplify things that complicate peoples lives
@161BMW
@161BMW 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent video
@Antunes__
@Antunes__ 3 жыл бұрын
Peterson for prime-Minister of Canada!
@BezmenovWasRight
@BezmenovWasRight 3 жыл бұрын
Hell no! Do you even like him to put that men on government? Let him rest.
@adulescentuluscarnifex8412
@adulescentuluscarnifex8412 3 жыл бұрын
@@BezmenovWasRight yeah men like Peterson work best away from the bloated bureaucracy of government
@trevorlawrence310
@trevorlawrence310 2 жыл бұрын
He is so logical and well spoken and could solve so many problems in society.
@elke9499
@elke9499 3 жыл бұрын
So long as you move forward...absolutely golden 🏆
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
@bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 3 жыл бұрын
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@william_hartman
@william_hartman 3 жыл бұрын
The incremental gain he talks about in your life reminds me of first starting to lift weights. I did a popular program called Starting Strength, where you just start with the bar. If you can do that you add 5lbs the next time, and if successful 5lbs the next, and so on. If you fail you remove 25% of the weight and start the process over. In a surprisingly short amount of time you can achieve your goal, as long as you are disciplined.
@MotivationalStormvideos
@MotivationalStormvideos 3 жыл бұрын
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@alaouchicheabdellah4986
@alaouchicheabdellah4986 3 жыл бұрын
This content is gold.
@SK-tk6bi
@SK-tk6bi Жыл бұрын
Jordan is the epitome of nuance.
@1flovera
@1flovera 3 жыл бұрын
This man figured out! Jordan Peterson is one of the top 10 best people I've studied
@just_bee9482
@just_bee9482 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with Jordan on this.
@seanemmettfullerton
@seanemmettfullerton 3 жыл бұрын
baby steps... thanks for this! :)
@meilei8716
@meilei8716 3 жыл бұрын
Ah, thank you for helping
@Kimmen
@Kimmen 3 жыл бұрын
It's so GOOD to see Jordan looking so energetic and alive! I love this guy!
@AnnaLVajda
@AnnaLVajda 3 жыл бұрын
Well he practically was on deaths door for a while now he seems to have gained a new love of life and has realized he can't do much about the naysayers so he just focuses on what he can do something about instead of wasting all his life force bickering with people intent on misunderstanding him. Can't keep a good man down they say. He's proof now for his followers you can make a comeback from rehab and attempted character assassination too so leading by example.
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