Mom Grills Me About Being Gay | Sam Cushing

[@msmrojas]

It must be very nice to have such a mother, unfortunately not all lgbt young people have parents like that.

[@aisadal2521]

Your mom is literally Best Mom. It's always such a wholesome time seeing the two of you get together 🥰

[@ravizephyr]

It warms my heart so much seeing how she was genuinely intrigued in learning your answers. Wish we had more people like her in this world. Love you both x

[@jeffp3926]

It was awesome to watch you and your mom. Being much older than you, it was harder in the day to come out. I didn’t come out until I was 32, back in 2000. Glad that things are easier and more accepting now.

[@sportyg725]

I came out at 37 in 1997

[@jeffrey8783]

It really depends on religion, culture, and ignorance. I had none of that in my way and I came out at 15 when I knew what gay is and that was many years ago. Unfortunately, for so many Religion, Culture, and Ignorance will always be a part of this world.

[@jackajohnson8940]

I never normally comment on videos, but your mum just seems like a wonderful, open minded, and very genuine person. You’re both lucky to have each other and have such a close understanding and relationship! x

[@davewatson7004]

Your mom looks much younger than 68. She's fab. It's so lovely to see the relationship that the two of you have.

[@darinlegore284]

She is so sweet! Can she be our mom, too? I was getting ready to spit out my soda if she asked you "top or bottom" type questions...

[@jerrylee8261]

🤣😍

[@AJD1969]

Mine did ask that ... LOLOL

[@Impala-ui8nl]

@@AJD1969 Oh God did you answer? 😬

[@AJD1969]

@@Impala-ui8nl ... I blank starred at her .... LOL Also she discussed spitting or swallowing with regards to BJ's while serving me cream of mushroom soup ... and loudly saying... "I can't talk to your brothers about these things... they wouldn't understand" LOLOLOL Ps. if she had pushed for an answer I probably would have.... LOL

[@Impala-ui8nl]

@@AJD1969 Oh my God lmao...I mean at least she seems chill about the fact that you're gay?

[@Stephenrsm7600]

Sam, I LOVED this video!!! It was nice to learn more about you!! And thank you, Sam for having your mom on your channel!!! It was really nice to have your mom on your channel!!! I just LOVE your mom, Kristy. I Love that you had your mom ask you questions about being gay, and I loved your responses!!! And I saw your underlying whatever the cause for your extra eye fluttering, blinking, whatever you call it. Usually associated with being anxiety. I just LOVE you, Sam and would NEVER want you to change!!! I LOVE you the way you are!!!

[@samcushing]

Aw Thank you! I’ll relay the message to her. And yes! The eye fluttering is a eel thing 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@لَآآجہدُنہفہسہي]

@@samcushing Sam, I really like you. I love you with all my heart. I wish to meet you. My wish is for life. To marry you. I adore you. I cry. I long for seeing you. I have money to come to you 🥺❤️❤️ I am a 22-year-old young man. All your life is my life. Your photos, your videos, I even put your picture on my T-shirt. I hope you reply to me 😚❤️❤️🥺

[@christopheresparza4182]

Your guys are both so wholesome and great! Sending love

[@jameslatour3987]

So nice to see such a supportive and open minded Mom. You’re so lucky Sam.

[@christydolan6449]

I feel like I’m the lucky one! He’s so darn funny & sweet! ❤️ x

[@Sacsigma2]

She’s so sweet, smart and supportive. By far my favorite video you’ve done.

[@garyinpalmsprings]

Oh my. THIS is the best yet. So extraordinarily honest. With Mr. C 's Mom so charming and Mr. C's questions and responses AND ideas, this video can help young teens with sexual confusion. Just excellent.

[@christydolan6449]

Maybe it could be shared in schools to spark discussion & dispel myths! Love is love! ❤️ x

[@jonaswunderkind4580]

I came out to my mom this summer. It took me 34 years to open-up. Never undermine such beautiful videos like these. They help a lot. Kisses and blessing to y'all Xx

[@christydolan6449]

Heartwarming to hear ❤️ x

[@danieledwards7565]

Absolutely terrific video, love it! The communication between your mom and you is amazing!

[@petergomez8362]

this popped up on my youtuve and i watched because you are so cute but i subscribed because on how you treat your mom and the wonderful relationship you appear to have with her. That is so wonderful, So I look forward to watching and learning more about you and wishing you all the success in the future...and long and healthy life for your mom..

[@paulkent2840]

Hi Sam, You are so lucky to have such an understanding and pleasent mother, love the way you interact together. what a lovely lady.

[@georgeswes4541]

I loved everything about this video. Amazing! Thanks for sharing the best videos in the KZbin Universe! 10/10.

[@moisescarinhas]

You both make the world a better place, such beautiful souls 💙

[@mmerriw1]

Your mom is a beautiful soul. 💙💙

[@andypham1636]

your*

[@mmerriw1]

Girl, it auto corrected to you’re, calm down. 🙄

[@velocapistrano1163]

She’s not going to ask the questions WE ALL want to know but this was cute!

[@johnmoorejr.1670]

Definitely.. that's what I was most curious about! 😁😊

[@TA-vj8ex]

I just adore your mom. She is the sweetest, kindest, nice mom ever. What a Gem you have. Her smile and warmness just makes a person feel so good. You are truly so blessed to have such a loving, wonderful nice mom. She needs an award for the Best mom in the world!!!!

[@bentan2587]

What a wonderful mum! I love her smile and wishing all stay healthy and happy!

[@manbtm1]

I thought this was a very good Q&A, your mom’s questions were well thought out, sincere, and genuinely curious, your answers were equally as good and responsive. Interesting video, not only is it good for the listening audience but I think you both probably benefited from this , it seemed honest , actually it doesn’t get any better, you’re both very fortunate.

[@christydolan6449]

I absolutely did learn from this! Maybe he’ll want to do another one x

[@yasiralqaysi1090]

Your mom is the sweetest and if there is a way I can give her a hug I would love to meet her one day 💖

[@henrikengebratt6841]

You guys are just lovely! Loved every second of it ❤️

[@joshuasmith2951]

The sense of community sentiment really resonates with me. We tend to want to tear each other down vs build each other up. If you don't fit into a certain box (six pack, great skin, great hair, biceps, etc) you will have a hard time finding a place in our community and people will go to great lengths to keep you out of the community and distance themselves from you. I just feel like the rest of society is busy trying to tear us down that we shouldn't be doing that to each other. Who knows, maybe it will change as we get older. Great video, love your mom! 😊

[@juanbarrios5558]

Please thank her for asking these questions and being apart of your video. This was is beautiful and I appreciate the conversation without judgement. It’s okay to be curious about these things and I thank you Sam for answering honest and genuine. Gotta love Chicago!

[@toms5996]

Your mom seems so chill. My mother, who I love conditionally, would always ask me things like - 'How don't you work much for school' even though I was the best in school or 'Don't look like that' after which I got plastic surgery. You're lucky to have what you have. Edit: playing the piano was the best thing in my life - but that also went down the tubes due to my parents 'encouraging'. I also sang in a choir and even toured but again, that is the past. I have still one of my passions - IT - at which I excel. I just wonder if this is my path.

[@chrisk5651]

Thanks for sharing! Continued success in 2022!!

[@inglescomnativos3546]

Iam so jealous of you having such a great mom. Ever since I came out I have been really wishing to have a family. I was kicked out of my own. I just recently had a kidney transplant and had to face it alone. This was really hard for me. Your mother is amazing!

[@raymondsmith7693]

Oh lord I wish my mum was so open like that makes me so imotional such a nice lady u are bless to have a mother like that

[@BryanGA2010]

Oh my goodness Sam! Your Mom is so sweet! Keep being true to yourself! Big hug to you both! Safe travels!

[@DanTowey]

Sweet, supportive Mom ! Sam, please educate her on the term "sexual preference" As you know we are born gay. Being gay is not a choice 😉

[@christydolan6449]

I totally agree! 😘

[@PeytonMusic]

Loved this! Great mom, good questions and wise answers. Started watching your fitness videos during the pandemic which helped to keep me from going insane. So . . . gracias! x

[@nancyborden5860]

Your mom is definitely one of your best friends. I really like her outlook and how she loves her son no matter what. ❤

[@randallross1703]

Your mom is so cool and fun! Thanks for sharing her with us.

[@parisparaskevopoulos8886]

Sam has the cutest voice 🥺

[@davidmartin9898]

I love your Mom. She is the best. What a great friendship you have with her. It’s wonderful, thank you for shearing.

[@andygrontkowski5447]

Great video Sam and Kristy! Good questions and nice conversation, wish every one was able to have a conversation with a parent in this way!

[@danbennett2600]

The Velvet Rage is a great book - very confronting in some ways, I'm sure most can relate to a stage that's talked about in the book. Great video Sam!

[@shannonwyatt1614]

You are soooooo lucky to have such a loving and supporting mother.

[@briggitelondon]

New subscriber from the Philippines. Dunno how this came into my feeds, but he’s so refreshing. Mom is so adorable. ❤️

[@Kupcakepa]

Thank you for being you and sharing yourself…and your sweet and supportive Mom…with us!!!!

[@yuuzepe5632]

Sam's family: "They are happy and they love him because we are all different and there is nothing wrong with that, that is what makes us unique" My family in the underworld of LatinoAmerica: "So you have chosen death"

[@carrotjuse]

Wow! Your mom is gorgeous. You're so lucky to have a parent who is so intelligent and accepting.

[@glennmac5694]

OMG your mom just adores you Sam. So amazing to see you chatting together. Maybe next time a wine Q&A 🥂😘

[@FightAgainstObesity]

Haven’t even seen this the whole way through yet (watching as I comment) but your mum is the sweetest!

[@queenbutterfly7519]

Such sweet, lovely pretty people 💕 I love this. Thank you for this and Happy New Year to you both. Stay well

[@Renanleandro18]

SHE IS THE SWEETEST! REALLY! 🥺✨💛

[@twiggledowntown3564]

Overall great video! Love seeing you and your mom interact together !

[@JL-re1rx]

Bless you both! SO MUCH LOVE HERE!!!

[@alexanderhuamani1158]

You are so blessed because your mom is so opened mind with your inclination however other parents are not allowed 🚫

[@mikejosh850]

Your mom is lovely, and this was very refreshing to watch. I wish my mom would react the same.

[@timothydouglas1296]

One of my favorite KZbin couples, always makes me feel better when I see you two together on screen, thank you both for making me feel better ❤️ from KY

[@nikkilogan7726]

Sam, you have a very very supportive & open minded mom!! Your so lucky to have her in your life... & Yes, always remember that YOU ARE AN AMAZING PERSON SAM! Thank you 😎🥰🏳️‍🌈💖🎊🎉

[@charlieb2b]

Love your mom! So amazing that she was so accepting since the beginning. A lot of us were not so lucky, thankfully my parents came around later in life but it would have been amazing to have their support at a very young age. Great video!

[@armandob.castenelli3525]

What an awesome and educative video Sam. Let all those parents who seem not to be able to understand that just because they birth a child, this child belongs to them to race, and mold them their way. Amazing mom.. LOVE to both of you.

[@bradleyhalford5837]

That was such a great Q and A..). You both are great people!!

[@samhartnett4260]

Your mom is precious! You are so very lucky to have her

[@raheeljan4441]

She is so sweet love your mom god blessed you and your family ❤

[@jbeasl02]

Best video in a while - props loved the vibe and content. Mom is a sweetheart!!!

[@pmikeymike]

Love it. Awesome video Sam! Thanks for posting!

[@f1freakf127]

I just ran into your channel but i love your mom. wish mine was more acceptive and alive to come out to her and be able to talk to her like you do with your mom. Great video

[@willpower6638]

To Sam's mo. You raised a very sage & gifted young man 🤔 you remind me of my mom that passed away right before Christmas & I was in the hospital fighting for my life during Christmas from Covid I only survived by remembering all the joy she brought to our lives especially during Christmas seeing you & Sam together I see that same look of joy in Sams eyes that I had in mine every time I was with my. Mom thank you for doing this vid with Sam kinda felt like had a small piece of that joy 😚😢thank you needed that today thank you Sam for sharing your wonderful and beautiful mom with us & for just being you 😚❤💛💚💙💜😉🕊💜🌏

[@jerrylee8261]

What a double whammy blow for you and your family. You could have easily given up and....................

[@willpower6638]

@@jerrylee8261 thank you yeah but my mom wouldn't have been proud of that and couldn't let my family down felt like my mom was an angel on my shoulder 😇 hope your vaccinated if not please!!! Get have a good day sir 😊

[@marielsantos8773]

You are lucky Sam you have a. Mother so sweet , understanding,loving,supportive and caring

[@kennethkauzlaric8948]

❤You have a relationship with your Mother like I had with mine. You touched on subject that I believe is so important and that is...don't come out until YOU are ready. Being outed or dragged out of the closet, no matter what the intentions are, is so so unhealthy. When I was ready to come out, in my late teens, my family was so supportive. Actually, my Mom said, " I already knew...I was waiting for you to tell me". So much for trying to hide.🤷‍♂️

[@christydolan6449]

Moms generally know ❤️🥰

[@jeffwatkins352]

What a great mom! Some touch questions yet so at ease, never mind intelligent and supportive. It's no wonder you're so good looking, Sam, because your mom is a knock out!

[@tonyanderson6235]

Absolutely honest conversation Sam. I love this so very much.

[@davidbangtson3109]

Great conversation, lots of interesting tidbits on your thinking.

[@martinnavarro4757]

Sam, sometimes you seem to have this ideal and perfect life... and I genuinely love so much when I can get to know your true life, true experiences, different struggles, and just your honest self. I feel so supported when you tell “secrets” and truths ❤️

[@samcushing]

Well I promise I’m no different than you… Maybe different struggles but struggles nonetheless ❤️

[@martinnavarro4757]

@@samcushing Thank you!

[@johnmoon2734]

Loving the close relationship shared by you and your mom!! 🌹

[@AJD1969]

Thank you for sharing... I was 12 when my mum asked me if I was gay .... and I said yes! Her response was thank goodness you're aware, now I can concentrate on your brothers for grand kids. I don't think I formally came out to my family, they all, close and extended kinda just accepted this is who I was/am. Also consider, my dad too me to my first ballet class at age six. Now which young boy has that happen and then have the support of your dad through all of this madness. My mum still also had all those questions your mum is asking. My words to young gay people is always the following. "Come out to yourself first! You do not need to tell anyone. Should the occasion arise that they/anyone asks you if you're gay/lesbian/queer, you can answer with self confidence that yes I am... Anything they think or say would not, should not affect you and how you feel about yourself. You OWN who you are" For those who don't have that support, there are those of us in our broader community who feel for you and understand the struggles you have had to go through...

[@devincritch1008]

It's nice you have this relationship with your mom !!

[@lawrenceakini9507]

Awesome. Happy 2022.

[@Vz9z9]

You popped up and seeing that handsome face made me click on this video! Your so sweet and your mom too. I bet women’s hearts around the world are breaking😉 you mentioned the Midwest, I’m in Iowa! Subscribed

[@richardsechrist]

I could literally watch and listen to you both for hours! You're both so genuine and laid back. Just beautiful 💜💛💚💙❤️🧡

[@garyroyals4441]

Cherish your mom. She is a personal treasure. You are lucky my friend and I know you have already figured that out.

[@davemail66]

Is a mom the same as a mum? Your mum is lovely Sammy, bless her......mate.

[@yokweification]

Your mom is just a sweet person. Sam, you're a nice person, even I can see through your Vlogs :-) Stay safe!

[@mickwelch8515]

Awesome guy and awesome Mom. Thanks for sharing!

[@BJBeds]

Fantastic Mum. Thanks for sharing!

[@JamieA242]

i think your mum really admires you. she was really loving your answers :D

[@maikolyspg]

God bless your mom and family. Amazing video. Thank you !

[@gregorywilson9577]

I’m always so jealous when I see people with caring non-judgemental people. My mother disowned me and didn’t speak to me for 20 years until her death. I always wonder how different life would’ve been if I’d’ve had that support as a kid/teen/young adult!

[@alenmatney1359]

Your relationship with your mother was just like mine, I miss my momma

[@ronelpagao2813]

Oh my g your bond is so amazing 😍😍😍😍❤️❤️

[@stevehofmaster7489]

Yes this was perfect Sam very well done!

[@brian_mk]

You and your mom are beautiful~!! I came out to my parents few years ago but we barely never talk about it... as the Korean society is not yet that malleable albeit social media and all but sending very best wishes from Seoul 🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷

[@EM-eb1lf]

Great video.... As a gay man, I've never dressed in women's clothes nor do I ever have the desire too 🙂. I did play with dolls when I was little, lol! I identify now as masc. When I was a kid and realized I was gay, I felt like I had to try harder to be masc so as not to be outed before I was ready. I do always offer to pay on a date too 🤑! One thing I really REALLY struggled with is wondering if it would have been easier as a gay white man instead of a black man. In alot of ways I still feel that way, but do realize the beauty in my own culture and there are many who embraces it. One thing I wish could change about gay culture is friendships with the same sex not based on attraction. Either that "supposedly" new friend eventually wants to hookup, or if he's not into you or knows you don't want to go there and remain friends...he's done with you. For the most part all my friends are straight people, or females. I wish I knew how to have more gay friends to just do normal stuff with (concert, jogging, sports, happy hour, travel, etc) without a hookup or dating element attached to it.

[@chuckvaughn]

The more authentic you can be.... I would have to agree 💯

[@Rossismagic]

Beautiful and honest. Love you both ❤️

[@matthewmorkel758]

where did your mom get her glasses? Love Them!

[@LenHealsU]

Thank you Sam, as always, for sharing! Much much easier to come out in this day and age than back ,e.g., in the late 1960s and 1970s, when I was in my 20s. To come out openly back then was very very dangerous! We were forced to live a double life for survival! Everything from physical harm to car tires being slashed to being fired from your job to public humiliation and vicious gossip, and so on. I came out to more long time straight friends and relatives this past year than I did all the years since I was born put together. Even Gay lexicon has changed. The word "boyfriend" was not used back then; the word used was "lover", and most couples were not monogamous, which annoyed me to no end. I always wanted 1 monogamous person. As horrific and scary the AIDS epidemic was, there was 1 silver lining. It forced our community to be more monogamous when having a relationship.

[@MM-cy1tc]

This is amazing! Nice job!

[@marcelofg1119]

You mom is so adorable. ❤️🙏

[@johnsheets6902]

Awwhhh! So wonderful!

[@JR-fi8uu]

I agree 💯 %, that she is just wonderful, sweet!!!

[@montehill1364]

Your mom is delightful & it’s awesome how close you are. Forgive me for nit picking, but she repeatedly called being gay your “sexual preference”. I think it’s really helpful for straight people to understand that one rarely chooses to be gay, or straight. Love you!

[@jrsoto560]

Sexual orientation not preference. Big difference. Thy mother is very sweet. So are you.

[@BlueEyed888]

Correct. Preference can change, orientation cannot. It’s important for people to understand the distinction.

[@alexwallace6120]

Thanks for making this video. You and Mom ae adorable and look like you have an open and loving relationship. I'm much older 62,and although I went to my first Gay Bar at 19,and met someone. i didn't really start to slowly come out until 1988,when I was 28. I did move far away, across the country to San Diego. I eventually told my brother's and sisters, my mother had died when I was 17. I never told my father as he was an alcoholic and not very nice.