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[@theoohair1446]

jeez… can you imagaine the absolute love these kids are probably feeeling? like when the cashier asked “Are they all yours?“ and mama Dougherty responded without hesitation “Yep :)”. this mother is truly a wonderful person.

[@GeorginasJourney]

Thought the same thing! 💕

[@moonlitskylight5740]

I'm not religious at all, but I actually loved it when, after the woman asked "is your husband dark haired?" she said "that's the way God gave them to me." So sweet without saying anything about how they got to her. I love this woman.

[@tinavogel7966]

Absolutely, she is an angel

[@yakablue]

Priceless

[@woodysmum1906]

@@moonlitskylight5740 I agree! It was a wonderful response , and very quick thinking on Alicia’s part! The more I see of this amazing woman, the more in awe I become!

[@its_pouring_reign5422]

I love how you said "Fed is best!" And the fact that you didn't judge their food choices, you just let them pick what they were comfortable with! I bet they're already feeling at home. I never had a mom like this, and I can only imagine the joy of these children's lives that you bring to them just by being you!

[@jordiflower]

@@piperhh5609 😂

[@giselleoquendo4514]

@@piperhh5609 clean your ears out !!! Lol

[@ashroyer03]

@@piperhh5609 oh no 😂😂

[@melissastewart4748]

The only thing I judge is unfrosted pop tarts, go max sugar haha

[@jeanieolahful]

Exactly

[@k.r.6697]

When Neveah holds that makeup to her chest like she is treasuring it… we forget what these kids have been through and what their bio families have been through, Alicia and Josh take care of these incredible kids, and in turn their bio families because when you take care of their kids when they can’t you’re taking care of the bio parents too who for whatever reason (many valid reasons out there) cannot. The necessity for foster care and adoption is never a blessing, but if you need to be there to end up in a family such as this of safety and love, the world needs more Dougherty families.

[@barbmccafferty4533]

I can't wrap my head around this woman's (and her husband's) level of commitment. She makes me want to be a better person. God Bless all of you.

[@Handle4445]

❤️

[@naturallyantonia]

You warm my heart!! As a therapist who specializes in treating eating disorders in children and adolescents I love how supportive you are with food choices!! So many parents are way too strict and this leads the kiddos to binge, restrict, and or use compensatory behaviors. I love how you allow them to intuitively eat and have a judgment free food home. I also love how you still incoporate a lot of nutrient dense foods like fruits and veggies in your snack plates. I love your awareness of mental health and how you are not afraid to show medicine and talk about the mental health issues. Keep up the amazing work! We need more people like you in this world! 💕💕

[@sparklypoet1454]

Naturally Antonia That was so beautifully said.Bless you xx

[@naturallyantonia]

@@sparklypoet1454 Thank you so much! Also love your username! 💖

[@sparklypoet1454]

@@naturallyantonia Awwww thankyou!

[@liqht_star96]

when i was a kid i found restriction typically easy due to school, it allowed me to develop my own judgement, and gaming all day has taught me that i will get carried away. you are totally right about all of this! well said

[@alishalovestosmile]

Yesssss!!! I was so happy to hear her say, “We don’t judge food choices.” 👏🏻 👏🏻👏🏻

[@diamondheart9268]

I absolutely LOVED the way you said: “That’s the way God gave them to me”. That was beautiful in so many ways. It just touched my heart because a child is truly a gift from God and to be able to have kids, in any way and appreciate that gift, is truly beautiful. You’ve been so BLESSED and it shows how fiercely you love all your children.

[@candylover1433]

I could tell the kids weren't maybe so shy as to them just being afraid to go past the limit. I can totally relate to that, whenever it's a special thing or even when I go shopping when someone else is paying I'm asking "What do you think we should get?" "which one" ect. I'm not even adopted, that's just with my own parents! 😂 I'll never understand how spoiled kids live with themselves, I've seen some and I'm always like "omg I could never do that" lol

[@shortii12341]

That's my thought they didn't want to push the limit. Even though she would spend thousands on them in a heartbeat.

[@odessav3066]

I agree, and I wonder if maybe giving them a "budget" like $40 for food and $200 for clothes might encourage them to splurge a little for themselves. Personally I know I was always more comfortable picking stuff out when my parents took me shopping if I knew I wasn't causing financial issues.

[@jordiflower]

💯

[@gachalogicbitches7699]

same bro i'm the youngest and the only child in my family that will only ask for books if its under $10 all together my birthday is 6 days before Christmas so my b-day list is my Christmas list last year i put the most things on my list 13 things my parents keep trying to make me add more but the things on their where the cheapest things i could fine that i would still use unlike stuff animals i ask for clothes, drawing supple, and books and that it.

[@SarahEA1]

I feel the same with my extremely picky eater, sometimes all he will it is cheeseburgers, he has branched out and tried other foods, I think a lot of it has to do with textures, I believe fed is best

[@ElsaRhae]

This is not only wholesome and entertaining, but I also learned a lot throughout the video. Thanks for all you do and for all you teach the world.

[@peggygilbertsen9099]

Nice to see you guys pop up here. It’s a small you tube world.

[@jaray7710]

What was wholesome about it she filmed the teenage girl picking out her personal item. People call them personal for a reason because they are PERSONAL!

[@hohoho8286]

Hey I know you guys!! haha happy to see you guys here :) I enjoy their videos as well, very very wholesome.

[@cynthiaboot7902]

I think Navaha has changed since she moved in. She is less resentful. I know she never have received birthday presents as grand as the ones you gave her . A special thought you own children never act up around the other children. They act as if everyone belongs! Thats your personality coming through your biological children

[@DiamondPR]

OMG Elsa I follow you too for years. It a good surprise seeing you here😘♥️

[@beverlyphillips8572]

Your mothering instincts are spot on...don't make an isolated child feel even more isolated by pointing out any distinctions between family members. I LOVE that these shopping trips are fun for you...any child that ends up in your home, no matter the path, is blessed beyond measure.

[@tatumcummins6]

beautiful comment

[@des9368]

i 100% agree!!🤍 bless this mama

[@Cowzie_Wowzie]

says she doesnt want to expose their story yet she exposes them to millions of random strangers on the internet

[@kourtneyssweetcreations]

"We don't judge food choices... fed is best" Literally love this family!!

[@Mustang09Hotty]

The way Nevaeh held that lipgloss close!!! You could tell she needs a lot of reassurance and love! Theres probably a lot of simple things she went without until being put with you.

[@BirdTheNerrd]

I did 11 years in foster care. Not once was I treated like this. A few things stuck out to me, "We don't judge food choices" and "They are all mine" ... What I would have done to be treated with this level of care. I wish every foster parent was at this level.

[@naturerayee7924]

Thank you so much for sharing your story 🤍🙏

[@Miss_SkiPp_8812]

I'm so glad to see that they were placed with you. You'll give them the support they need and routine. Which is really important to kids in this situation of any kind.

[@DoughertyDozen]

🧡🧡🧡

[@Miss_SkiPp_8812]

@@DoughertyDozen eeeppppp Im is famous! they replied! No but seriously, you guys have such a loving arua and such an open world view and they couldn't have been placed in a better situation. Really. As a child of abuse myself Ives, it truly gives me a deep feeling of hope for the future. That just maybe, juuussstttt mayyyyybbbbeee, there might just be a better world at some point in their lives for everyone.

[@cecizeni]

I just listen to testimonies here on KZbin about people when they were children how neglected they were because their parents were on drugs or alcoholics they grew up to be on the streets using drugs themselves and prostituting it’s very sad stories and to watch this and have Alicia open her home to these kids is just amazing they are blessed

[@ashleyhelms8010]

💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@carolinazavalarodriguez2527]

I love how you handled the cashier! ''That's how God gave em to me'' and it's true! Thank you for all the good you do to this world and to every single one of these kids own worlds

[@cw6842]

Yeah that really stuck with me. Man, I really love this woman.

[@ataylor702]

Yeah, that was an inappropriate question. If you don’t know the story, it’s best not to ask and just say “you got your hands full, Mama!”

[@Megz1794]

@@ataylor702 there’s nothing wrong with saying she still loves them as her own since they live in her house

[@Megz1794]

@@ataylor702 It’s also not an inappropriate question if all the kids are hers since the cashier might not have been sure if the other were friends of the other 2 kids or if all 4 kids were hers if Alicia hadn’t said anything you can’t always assume everyone that walks into the store together are always family without asking. The other 2 are newer to the family.

[@Violetfire343]

@@Megz1794 no, it’s was extremely inappropriate. Then after to hurriedly scramble and mention about their “hair color” being dark? She shouldn’t have said anything at all. Most cashiers try to be “personable” but end up putting their foot in their mouths. If you’re unsure, sometimes it’s better to keep it to yourself. It came across at rude, to me

[@rebeccalunsford8071]

Nevaeh has good taste in clothes and food. I really love that snoopy sweater.

[@angelamika988]

“That’s how God gave them to me” soooo touching 🥹🥹❤️❤️ They’re so blessed to have you as their mum!! Will forever support you, Alicia! May God shower you with more and more blessings that overflows! Love from 🇵🇭✨

[@bitchystrawberrytidalwave8703]

It's awesome seeing this, you actually encourage them to pick out stuff they like. I was always so skittish. I wouldn't get anything because, I'd be too worried about how much it costs and I didn't want to be a burden on anyone. I'm so happy they got some stuff they wanted. ☺️

[@bearsy2826]

Im the same even now i went on a date and the guy was so shocked when i picked everything the cheapest and was worrying about costs he let me get whatever i wanted but i was so out of my comfort zone doing so 🤣💞

[@bitchystrawberrytidalwave8703]

@@bearsy2826 omg that's me also. Every time my boyfriend and I go anywhere I'm always trying to find the cheapest prices and when we go out to eat and he wants to pay it brings back the feeling of guilt. 😬🤣

[@cutepawbeans]

​@@bearsy2826 omg me too! i always felt like they would judge me for getting something expensive, so i always got the cheapest things! my bf encourages me to get expensive things too even though i never do lol

[@shellyb.8387]

I felt the same. Wouldn't ask for anything ever

[@surpriseme4275]

If everyone had a mom like you, our world wouldn't be such a mess.

[@DoughertyDozen]

🥺😭🧡🧡

[@chyennele1101]

True!!

[@sibyld927]

Absolutely true!

[@memyself7956]

Amen

[@michellelynn8544]

So true!!

[@morganfloyd1186]

As a former foster kid . The way you handle making them feel comfortable is amazing

[@Alphalove3]

Yes! I love how she let them place food by their beds for security.

[@kimberlypennington6237]

We adopted our son when he was 9 from foster care. For the first few weeks he'd ask before going into the kitchen for anything. We have an "open door" policy in our kitchen to anyone who comes into our home. By 11 he was asking for cookbooks and specific ingredients to be bought so he could learn how to cook. He's 22 now and cooks several meals a week and bakes cakes for fundraisers in the community. It makes me so happy to see other parents with the same "fed is best" philosophy.

[@annetreacy2437]

🥰🥰🥰

[@PreciousMarie-xj2od]

❤❤❤

[@badindiegamer]

This might sound really silly, but the "we don't judge food choices, fed is best" part actually had me in tears. I wish I'd had someone so understanding when I was growing up

[@jule9327]

Searched for this because I felt so safe the moments she said that. 🖤

[@JayKennedy101]

I’m raising a teen and it’s so important to start buying them their own personal toiletries. I was raised sharing products with my mom like skin care, hair brushes and products. But with my daughter I’m teaching her that she deserve her own products to learn how to care for herself. Guys too. 😇

[@DoughertyDozen]

🧡🧡🧡

[@dearinsomniadontletthebedb9237]

Same here, raised sharing the same stuff. Now I make sure that everyone knows what's mine is mine.

[@consequenceoferror4727]

Never realised that that is important. I usually just share stuff with my mother, because neither of us care, and I can’t be bothered to choose my own stuff. But when you put it like that it makes sense that my sister for a while didn’t like to share shampoo bottle ,(even if we used the exact same brand). Younger me wasn’t smart enough just to accept it. (Now she uses different shampoo entirely, but also doesn’t care anymore if I borrow it)

[@BBaby1111]

“That’s the way God gave them to me” my goodness you are the best mom ever! Thank you for caring and loving everyone!

[@NA-sv6so]

"Fed is best" I absolutely loved that. So many parents are so strict on certain foods. 💕 "That's the way God gave em to me" so amazing! 🥰 Such a great mom/person/human.

[@daniellef6868]

I love you for so many reasons but especially for “we don’t judge food choices, fed is best!” That moment brought me right to sloppy tears. Iv struggled with eating disorders my entire life, I can’t imagine how much healthier my relationship with food would be had I been raised with this thought process. God bless you for the lengths you go to protect these beautiful kids heart mind body and soul❤ Many blessings to you and your family! It is such a joy to see it grow even bigger!

[@lauraduce-mosshart4406]

Same same same to all this. ♥️♥️♥️

[@daniellef6868]

@@lauraduce-mosshart4406 I’m so sorry you’ve experienced the same struggles, I feel for you💗🦋🌈 I’m happy we can help ourselves heal a little with amazing content like this🙏🏼 You are strong you are beautiful you are loved you belong and I’m so proud of you❤️

[@jaray7710]

I disagree as parents it’s our duty to keep our children healthy. Not meaning to down any of the children but they are not at a healthy weight and can lead to health problems as they get older. Like high blood pressure and diabetes. High blood pressure runs in my family so I have told my sons since their late teens to make better choices with food and they may not end up like me on 3 medications for HTN as is my mother. And her mother died after a stroke. It’s ok to not agree with your childrens choices. If they get mad at you they get over it. I’d rather my child not have a sandwich at all than give a marshmallow fluff sandwich. Fruit and yogurt will be fine just on their own. The lunches always have so much food. I think she just never wants to have her children upset or mad at her. She is the parent and it’s your job to steer your children in the right direction in life. They can’t always just do what they think is right.

[@MaryMamaAshlee]

Nevaeh is sooo pretty! How fun for Bree, Zoe & Harlee to have a teenage sister!🌸🌸🌸

[@AimiAzlan1996]

Right, that's nice! I wonder if Bree will have to switch rooms with Navaeh now that she's the oldest girl.

[@KT-nj9qk]

Just came back to this video, and WOW, Naveah and Dayshawn have grown so much over the last couple of months. So glad they found your family when they were in need.

[@littlekitten6019]

oh my god, the fact that you let them bring food to their rooms means SO MUCH. you have no idea how comforting that is to them, you’re AMAZING!! not only do you love them like they’re you’re own, but you research and understand them.

[@Miss_Sydney]

I just love Alex... He is always so helpful and seems to always be holding Harlee in photos. So sweet! ❤

[@DoughertyDozen]

🥰🥰🥰

[@athena6653]

i love alex and james and that they were open to going on this shopping trip with the new kiddos. having peers your age as you adjust to a new home really sends the message that this place is safe and loving and they are able to be themselves here. ❤❤❤

[@realityobserver7521]

I thought the same I really love this lady

[@Marie-cu8wd]

5:41 “don’t judge us I mean it” Alicia you have such a sweet soul. That’s your subtle way to protect them. so cute

[@Haru-mii77]

I love how the girl got so happy she could get what she wanted , the boy was so shy and adorable.. he’ll bloom into an awesome person

[@alliev8701]

I love "That's the way God gave them to me". You're amazing. Love seeing the new kids getting stuff. 🧡🧡🧡

[@moonlitrain8674]

That was amazing, but very rude from the cashier!

[@alliev8701]

@@moonlitrain8674 that's why I loved the way she answered it. 😊

[@fshs6187]

I loved that answer too! I don’t have adopted or foster kids, but I have step kids and people have asked stuff like that about my step kids. It’s such an awkward question! Like why does it matter?!

[@laurenlong3169]

Was literally going to write the same, absolutely loved her response, “that’s the way god gave em to me” ☺️ All you’re children must feel very loved. What a wonderful family xx

[@reginamccarthy1372]

Loved that response too. You're amazing Alicia! Xx

[@Tiffany_FeeFeeTV]

“That’s they way God gave them to me!!!” As fostered then adopted child…thank you for all your family does. But it takes a whole family to open the door and make a new path for others.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@billieburgy6539]

especially with Naveah, helping her with the crucial feminine items which can sometimes be embarassing as a teen, you are an amazing Mom

[@dorissaclaire]

I love that you have such an understanding of how much trauma kids in care can have surrounding food, clothes, money, etc (obviously not all do!) I don’t think enough people understand how important it is for kids in care to have autonomy to choose their own food and feel secure that they’ll have enough of it. “We don’t judge good choices, fed is best” all the way!

[@SlimThickWorkouts]

@Karen Balott theyre not all adopted. educate yourself before commenting

[@thecrazygoodmomlife]

Awe when she looked at the Rice Krispies and said I wanna get this for everyone 🥺🥺 this PROVES with a little effort to get to know teens and let them open up you can see just how wonderful they are a bad situation doesn’t mean a bad child ❤️❤️❤️ this is why I think everyone should consider fostering teens they are just like new babies they are trying to learn new rules, a new environment, new family members, new foods, etc. But just like a baby when they have the right everything they flourish! I love your family so very much ! 💕🥰

[@susanjones4904]

Loved the shopping trip, kids are starting to loosen up, and relax......👍💖🤗

[@petallie]

Nevaeh is heaven backwards 💕

[@kimmyitaliana8463]

Yup,I know so many people with that name

[@erinpufunt6294]

Super common name

[@katie15732]

Thats so cute

[@theoboegoddess]

OMG that’s so cool

[@kramirez177]

Yep definitely I would know. My 1 year old name is Nevaeh.

[@ItalianForehead]

i love that she meets every kids wants and needs and makes each of them feel so special it’s amazing!

[@dagmarboldt]

Imagine how amazing it must be to be in that size family! Always friends, always homework helpers, I love it!

[@constantinajenningsrn3216]

I love when you said "we don't judge food choices", I grew up being judged by my food choices constantly and it really use to affect me in a negative way so I appreciate you for putting that message out there 💕🙏🏾

[@alishalovestosmile]

That made me so happy to hear her say that, too! ♥️

[@allishaw4582]

I love you guys so much and I LOVE how comfortable you’re trying to make the kids. So many kids get cheated out of their basic wants/needs cause people won’t take the time to give it to them. I just love this so much❤️❤️❤️

[@DoughertyDozen]

🧡🧡🧡

[@theonlywayiknowhow6191]

@@DoughertyDozen will you changed your name now since there’s 14 now ?

[@tiffanyshadleyhaulkindagir7378]

@@theonlywayiknowhow6191 she should do Daugherty dozen + 2 🎈❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊😊

[@rachel-6968]

@@theonlywayiknowhow6191 it can still be the Dougherty Dozen but just refer to the 12 kids 🧡❤️

[@meghoughton562]

@@DoughertyDozen I also loved your answer to the cashier, "That's the way God gave them to me." SO perfect...👌🥰

[@stephencraig1156]

Girl, you are a wonderful mother to them all! My heart skipped a beat when you said, “That’s how God gave them to me.” I give that an AMEN! God is so good all the time. My husband and I have suffered 2 miscarriages and in August we will be celebrating 7 years married….we are praying about what to do, but would absolutely love to adopt. However, we were told that because my husband is over 50, we cannot apply. He is 51 and I am 37. Literally broke our hearts and we live in Tennessee. If anyone is out there and you’re pregnant or want a loving couple to adopt your child, we will gladly take them. We are a loving couple and we love God. We trust He will send us the blessings. Oh and Alicia, my favorite memories include going shopping with my mama. Same places, Walmart and grocery talking about what supper we would prepare. I cherish those memories now. God bless your family!!

[@milz7794]

I love how respectful and loving you are to these kids! You are such a great mother to your kids and I know they feel loved!❤

[@d.d.6094]

Alex is really such a good kid. You can see he cares for others and wants everyone to get along and feel comfortable. So sweet.

[@CaseyWojo]

The response to that cashier @ Walmart “That’s the way god gave them to me” absolutely melt my heart!! I personally don’t ever want kids, but I have such a comfort watching your channel and how you raise and treat these kids are so amazing. And you have such a positive attitude and outlook. God bless you & your family xoxoxo

[@crystalbeasley1267]

Love this so much ❤️❤️ as a mom of 3 my self and a former foster parent this melts my heart!!! We are courtly taking a break after the system did wrong by our last set of babies!!! We had a sibling group of three they were age 1 , 3 and 4 we had them for 3 years they had not seen mom in over 3 years. The 3 year old was taken at hospital and same as the one year old so they never knew mom!! In the 3 years we had them she never showed to a visit!! We were just a few weeks out from adoption and we got slammed with a mom visit ( we were in shock) like what was going on so they did one supervise visit.. and then we get a phone call saying that the next weekend they would be going to stay at mom‘s for the weekend me being who I am and she was high as a kite at her visitation with them I couldn’t wrap my head around this this was the hardest thing I ever did these three were my babies you know and yes the ultimate goal is to send them home but for over three years there was never no contact and it wasn’t because she was locked up it wasn’t because she was in a program getting the help she need it wasn’t she just chose not to.. I guess let me rephrase that her addiction had taken over but at the same time the children deserved better.. so the next weekend we meet up where we’re supposed to meet she is so hard she can’t even stand and she’s driving refused to put the kids in the car there’s no way I was in my three babies in a car like this I couldn’t do it I called their social worker she said that I had to I told her I would not do it that she needed to meet us here obviously we had to drive a little over an hour to meet so she wasn’t local but she sent a sheriff to us and the sheriff put these three kids in the car knowing this mother was so messed up.. I was devastated I spent the whole weekend crying I was supposed to get phone calls each night to be able to talk to the children before they went to bed that didn’t happen.. when we picked them up on Sunday they ran and they hugged us so tight they did not wanna let go they cried saying they didn’t want to go back if I’ve learned anything you just comfort them you don’t really ask a whole Lotta questions I’ll tell you what they want you to know but all I didn’t know was these kids loved me I loved them and they did not feel safe.. I talked with her social worker and their therapist and they steal the next weekend we’re gonna have to go for a visit I told the social worker there is no way that I would take them there’s no way I could not take them and put them through that again after the stories they told to the therapist no the therapist did not tell me I was with them when they talk to the therapist do they talk to them one on one yes but I also do a family session with them and the stories that were told on what happened while they were there to this day the therapist and I both cannot figure out how they allowed this to happen.. so basically the social worker said so you’re refusing to take them to the visit is that correct I said yes they’re not safe there my husband and I both agreed on that the next morning the social worker and two other workers showed up at my house and removed the kids from us they said since we did not want to you follow the steps the children were being removed!! At this point there was nothing I could do we called our local sheriff and had him come out and unfortunately they actually belong to the state there was nothing we could do this happened four years ago and I have not yet been able to open my home Back up!! I have nightmares all the time I cry for these kids all the time it was like losing your own children in a bad situation it would’ve been different if they were at home for a good situation I would’ve felt totally different but I will tell you the state of Kentucky did these three children and many other so wrong and one day I hope to get the courage to open my Home back up because I know deep down there are children out there that need me that need a family that just need a little love so hopefully he’ll one day I will be able to do this again.. but seeing you do this for these kids is a blessing that was my favorite thing to do as soon as I got them was it take them to Walmart let them pick out the bedding for their bed a special blanket snacks a little toy that made them feel special let them pick out their toothbrush what toothpaste they wanted always did a little kids but I always let them pick out what they wanted her hair washed in let them pick out a couple of outfits and PJs if they needed diapers or pull-ups and were big enough I let them pick out which ones they wanted you know socks underwear just all the things I enjoyed that I did we get sibling group sometimes and it was a struggle to figure out how we were going to take them and let them just pick out what they wanted yeah because sometimes you just got a phone call and the next thing you know they’re there and you’re like you had no time but somehow we always figured it out being a foster parent can be hard but it’s also so rewarding I just wish people would do things for the children a little more I’m new to your channel but I honestly love watching you and I’m hoping as I continue to watch you I will get that courage to open my Home back up ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@spookyseason3912]

I wish I had a mom like you growing up… your children are truly blessed

[@YourLocalNirvanaFan]

I'm a teen who has issues with my parents. What you're doing is absolutely amazing, hat's off to you :) Thank you for all the kind replies, I'm tearing up

[@Targetfinds1320]

you are loved, you are important and you matter!

[@rhoadestraveled]

The teen years are tough for everyone. I don’t know your situation specifically or what you’re dealing with but just know that these years will be over before you know it. In a short period of time you will be in control of your future. Hang in there.

[@wellsboy07]

Loser

[@kittykatz3518]

I had issues with my parents when I was growing up also. Stay strong. There are so many people who are going to come into your life and love you! 😻😻😻 🧡🧡🧡

[@Sorellalunamistica]

I understand you. Please, be strong. Now I'm adult but my relationship with my parents are still hard. You are loved. 💜🌻

[@Nonea350]

Allowing them to choose their own snack foods is so important! I really love that you don't judge food choices because I feel like judging it causes unhealthy food habits later! Everything in moderation! You are an amazing mother! It's beautiful the way you love them, new or not! I also love how you told the cashier that God gave you them in that way! Thank you for showing me that being a mother doesn't have to be hard labor, it's all about structure!

[@urltima]

I've taken a liking to Naveah from the start - I see so much of myself from when I was her age and NOW at 26 - shy and nervous about speaking up about her needs and wants, when she taught us how to jerk, I could see part of her personality growing more and more confident from the simple fact she felt confident enough in her own knowledge of a dance that she felt she could teach yall and us. I notice those small things and the physical presence when you're nervous or lack confidence, but she is growing so much into a BEAUTIFUL young woman, becoming more confident in herself and im SOOOO happy to see her blossoming and her personality shining through more and more. We love you guys 🥰

[@lexibenda6499]

“That’s the way God gave them to me” literally made me cry. I have one mixed child and two full white children and somebody is always asking how that could be. Now I have the perfect answer

[@anaduarte7444]

"That is the way God gave them to me" such a perfect response God bless you

[@Whirrledpeas]

“That’s the way God gave them to me.” Love this Mama Bear reply to the cashier’s question. 💕👏💕

[@Maeghan2009]

You are such a wonderful Mom. Down to earth and chill. Seems like you're always looking for ways to say YES. Kids need that.

[@roxannegordon6162]

It's not hard when you have a bottomless wallet.

[@sarahsherrod2012]

You make me want to cry…the immediate love you show is incredible. There is no telling what these 2 have had to go through, but you just made their lives 1000% better by not judging food choices, buying them items they specifically asked for, and allowing them to have communication. God has truly made your heart gold. I wish I could give you a hug. I’ve not had my children in 11 years and even though they live with their dad, these videos give me reassurance that my children are fed, dressed, given what they need, etc. It’s scary for a mother to relinquish custody because tons of scenarios go through your head. Are they being hurt? Are they hungry? Etc. In my case, because I have not been asked to come back to take custody, I know they’re ok. I just want you to know you are protecting someone else’s children like your own, and that’s invaluable. Again, you make me want to cry. I know I made the correct decision in my situation. I am grateful these 2 sweet children have someone like you and your husband. God bless you Alicia. I have been praying for your family since you said you pray for all of us. 💕

[@pippin3168]

“I’m having fun, I don’t know about these guys” 😂 you are an angel! Your kids are so lucky to have you!

[@crystalbopp3757]

I sense that they haven't been able to have much in the past so they really don't know what to get. I love that you are positive with them

[@marig.1536]

this was my first thought, they probably aren't used to having things and being able to shop for themselves. i'm sure they will warm up to it and be able to be honest about their needs/desires in time.

[@rhardee16]

@@MaryTheresa1986 I've found when overwhelmed with choices, to give a few, rather than all, and choose from that. It definitely helps, even if it is just making the store seem smaller. "Socks, or shoes next? Shoes, or shirts next? Tennis shoes, or slippers next?" Etc. Definitely helps.

[@marig.1536]

@@MaryTheresa1986 that's a great point!

[@midnightsnow5655]

“That’s the way God gave them to me” how sweet! Love that response

[@kayleighaljoufi1215]

I love this!! I was those kids and to go from surviving to thriving is a gift in itself! I’m so happy you took them! We need more of you in the world!

[@alisamodin9032]

Awe you're such a good Momma!!! It was so cute when you said "Food is comfort". Getting new things and being pampered is such a great feeling! The fact that they're in a total new environment must be pretty hard but you're sure welcoming them so nicely, which must help tremendously!! 💕💖

[@YourLocalNirvanaFan]

Your channel is so wholesome and adorable, it just gives off safe and comforting vibes

[@DoughertyDozen]

Thank you so much!

[@enishawiggins723]

Absolutely love 💕 the response you told the Cashier 🙏🏾

[@crowqueen2789]

I’m tearing up w/joy over how warm & welcoming you & your family are to these beautiful children.

[@kayleeachelpohl2623]

You and your husband are INCREDIBLE humans. It takes such strong people to do what you guys do and I am in awe with your kind, generous, caring, loving, and nurturing personalities. I admire you.

[@AmyJ739]

Glad they are settling in, you're doing amazing giving all the kiddos a happy and safe life ✨️

[@MeiZ125]

I just love this family so much just hearing that she said “yep” to the kids being hers made my heart melt 🥺

[@teridavis5785]

I loved your answer to the cashier! Every family has to do what works for their family.

[@whatintheyoutubeisgoingon]

There is a special place in heaven just for you Alicia! You’re amazing! I know Josh is too ❤️🙌 all of your kids must feel so loved! Love your videos

[@MamaByNature]

My boys eat ramen all the time no judgment here 🤣🤣🤣 such a fun shopping trip ❤️ you da best! 😘

[@DoughertyDozen]

😂😂

[@ashleyjones2034]

I absolutely LOVE your answers to the cashier’s questions. I’m starting the process to foster, and I will be using that if it is asked. It also helps those kids feel they are wanted and belong. Wow, thank you Alicia, for being a role model to me. 🥰

[@miaa.4086]

You and your Hubby are truly heroes! How loving you are to your beautiful children. I love how you treat them all the same.. What I mean is, you don't single anyone out, everyone gets equal loving attention. I love how judgement free you are. Years ago when I ran away from my abusive home, I was placed in a home with both a mix of the couple's own children and us... we were put in a room far away from the "real children". We were told that we were the revolving kids and we were not to bother or expect the same treatment as the "real children". It was horrible. Even worse because it was Christmas time, we had to stay in the room for the revolving kids or RKids (that's what they called us) while they made cookies and celebrated.. We were treated like we were just in the way and burdens. They're kids could treat us anyway they wanted and if we said anything we would get threatened and sent to the "time out" room in their basement. It was awful all that was in there was a little stool or we could sit on the cement floor. Awful things happened in that home. They wouldn't even get us teen girls "things" teen girls need monthly. It was horrible. One good thing came out of it though. Another girl came I'm a couple of days after I did and we became really close friends. We would call each other soul sisters, since we didn't have any of our own. We both had ran away from very abusive homes and placed in this foster home..She said she really wanted a doll. They refused her request, because they said she was too old. I was 13 she was 15. I've always believed nobody is too old for a doll. So I made her a cloth doll out of a shirt and some odds and ends from I my little craft box. It was the only thing I took with me when I left home. The house lady tried to take it away but said we could only keep her for extra housework. Anyway my new friend kept her doll and named her Angel. She was able to hang on to her through the next group home and last foster family she stayed with. I spoke to her about a year ago and she still has Angel... I'm sorry, I got off track. I think of so many who were lost in the shuffle because of horrible foster families. My sister friend and I dealt with some awful things where we stayed but we had no choice. I struggle daily with depression and PTSD but I've survived. I think about the ones who didn't survive and wish so much they could've been in a family like yours..You and your husband are truly selfless and real Angel's here on earth.

[@gskateri6008]

She was made to be a mom of all kinds!! So down to earth and loving. I would feel so safe around her even after just meeting her 🤍🤍

[@abigail1994]

...did that cashier really just ask you how you 'wound up with a couple darker & a couple lighter kids' ??? 😂😂 The answer you gave was absolutely the best you ever could have, mama! I've been casually watching you all for the last couple weeks & I have to say, youve hooked me with getting to see your process gaining these new two! Subbed with the bell on💕💕💕😊

[@dazem8]

she gets a pass as she seemed to be an older lady... they oftentimes don't even realize they're being somewhat offensive. you're right tho, her response was perfect.

[@holliem8588]

Yes she commented on the hair, not the children. Probably because red hair naturally is so uncommon.

[@abigail1994]

Oh the hair lol! I was like, damn that's pretty brazen to ask a person!! She still handled it very well😊

[@angieval8986]

I heard that too, but she handled the answer with such grace

[@hcblue]

I feel like I learned a lot about compassion from Alicia from this one vlog. The whole food ice breaker thing and using it as a way to learn something about the new kids. The comment about being fed is more important than judging their food choices. Breaking the rule about not having food in kids' rooms, because it helps them feel more secure and maybe not worry about food insecurity as much. I was a bit weirded out by the cashier's question (it seemed a bit pointed?) but wow Alicia just turned it around simply by being genuine.

[@jaylenetennier6105]

I just love how you allow each kid to be their own person. 💜

[@jrc5128]

You and Josh are AMAZING humans who have the biggest hearts full of love, kindness, and compassion. Your kids are so blessed to have you. I hope they realize just how amazing you two are!

[@lmmartin959]

This is such a major treat. I know I would feel so awkward as a new member of the family selecting things for you to pay for, especially if fund have been limited in the past. So - golly-- this is really really special. Thank you for all you're doing.

[@amyjo329]

Seeing Nevaeh’s smile when she went through the makeup just 🥲 and I LOVE Snoopy, she has excellent taste in everything!

[@allyb.6296]

your response to the cashier was perfect. warms my heart

[@BrowneyedGirlmjd]

I think my favourite parts was all the kids on the phone and the teenage reaction to the matching outfit question. 😁 you are truly an angel on earth …

[@toppictoppic8696]

Deep down, I really believe the cashier did not ask that question with any menace. Her tone of voice was calm and friendly. I taught my child from a young age through adulthood, that any question you ask due to curiosity can actually hurt that person, I know. I’ve been on the end of receiving those curious question(s). If anyone who reads this can teach even one person that their curious question could possibly hurt someone, then don’t ask it. You know the saying think before you ask (talk).

[@Llama-Mama666]

100% agree with you. I took custody of my grandchildren 6 years ago. Their friends can be out with us for dinner, on vacation with us or just at the park. When I am asked are they all yours? I always say yes, they are in my care and their safety and well-being is no less than my grandkids. Yes, we go to Walmart too, whatever they put in the cart comes home with us. Some of this kids don't have grandparents around. So, I am proud to be there for them. Girl if lived next door and I was babysitting for. Need to go somewhere, yes they, plus mine and all the friends would be mine for the time. Did 20 year for my Country to my sure my kids and yours have the freedom and the rights to a home like you and Josh are providing and working through the systems. I salute y'all.

[@whatimmacallit]

I'm a new sub and I was almost brought to tears as I was in the system myself and didn't have this luxury. However, I'm so thankful God put you in these children's lives to be such a loving and supportive bright light. It's so easier for people to judge others than try to get to know them and I can clearly see how much effort you put into your kids. Keep being amazing and I pray God continues to bless you and your family with good health, love, peace and so much joy! :)

[@applepieke6970]

Can't wait for the "mom of 12 morning routine" video

[@erinhargus2334]

LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS. I love that you appreciate the fact that this can and is awkward (at first) and the kids may feel awkward picking things out like that or maybe don't want to feel like they are getting "too much" and you make them feel that whatever they want is perfectly okay. You are just amazing. Your whole family is so amazing.

[@brooklynjavonna]

Your the best mama! I grew up in Foster care and I can tell that they are feeling comfortable with you already! Also, the amount of efforts you put in is just so heart warming 😊

[@denisecoleman829]

I just love her kindness and compassion.Plus her cooking.😁💕

[@flowerpower5113]

❤️The girl teen looks so happy by her smile. Like it meant a lot to her :3!!!

[@JustCuzItsCute]

I love the no judgement on food. Even with infants! I couldn't produce enough breast milk and the amount of judgement I got for supplementing with formula made me feel like a bad mother. Now my toddler will eat a variety of food but I'm not holding back on letting her have her favorite sweets once in a while too!

[@LR11306]

Fed is best, mama! ☺️♥️

[@JustCuzItsCute]

@@LR11306 your absolutely right!👍❤

[@averyelytle9605]

I just love how much love and support you show to all of these kids. I can’t even imagine how nice it must feel for them to feel this love and support. It’s very refreshing seeing people who go out of their way to make their kids feel comfortable and welcome

[@teddybear13161]

you and your family is so great! i came across this channel through a “short”. and i love the genuine nature of these videos. i’m so glade your taking care of these kids and showing them that there is good parents in this world and even letting them express their self and helping in choices but not over voicing their needs!

[@Lynette27]

This literally makes me want to cry. I don’t know what foster life is like but I imagine it’s so important to quickly provide them with their comforts so that they feel comfortable in a new space and new people. So sweet of you to bring them shopping in order to pick out things they need. You’re amazing.

[@isabellefox7613]

This warms my heart. Bless your family and everything you do to create a loving home for your children. 🧡

[@karenmccullough1253]

You are just darling, how you treat the kiddos is mind blowing~ To say “that’s how God gave them to me” honestly couldn’t be anymore heart melting... I am truly grateful that God blessed us all with you 🙏🏼

[@seeleygirl6178]

So sweet. The older boys joined to make them more comfortable.

[@anndufour90]

Those two kids are so blessed to have you and your entire family to stay with. God is so good. ❤️

[@dianegreen2455]

I like Your Answer: Yes These Are My Kids

[@morbidangel023]

You are such a blessing to these kids! This world needs more people like you.

[@ashxjo28]

I love how patient you are with them and recognizing that they might not have had so much before they got to you! Like with the snacks - the fact you let them have their food in their rooms with them is probably such a huge thing for them!

[@1honeydragon]

I love watching you and the love you provide to your family. I always believed family was what you made it and goodness! There's something almost akin to divinity in the way you carry yourself. I had wondered for a moment what your new kiddos might think of the camera but they seem so comfortable with you, and I noticed you make a point not to always show their face. It's really nice that you're not constantly up.in their business. You are SO respectful to them, unlike a lot of other parents who have a habit of treating their kids like property over a living being with free will.