Mom Wants Custody of Son from Her Parents! | Part 3

[@viniciuslima9430]

The audacity and cluelessness from the defendant is outrageous.😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

[@jeaniquelouis1718]

Completely Outrageous! Shooked!!! 😢

[@scottmcwave9479]

Stop leaning on the desk Heather and stand up straight! 😀

[@dawnsparks9207]

With out the smirk, it looks like she is chewing invisible gun.

[@thistles]

@@dawnsparks9207 I kept waiting for JJ to tell her to spit it out!

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Very hostile girl.

[@ishahcanah7351]

You sounded just like the more recent JJ!

[@AlanaLewis007]

Heather's attitude sucks she's not grateful to her parents with her head bobbing around and her Bucky teeth smiling like she did nothing wrong

[@jessicap5010]

What does her teeth have anything to do with it?

[@ronica2623]

If she has “Bucky teeth” we can thank her parents for that. Keep it out of the comment

[@lesthall4015]

An ungrateful person is a toxic soul

[@martinboyle9163]

The snyde way she said, "I was raped" as if that excuses her subsequent behavior shows she doesn't take responsibility for anything she does.

[@yung1717]

No she’s saying that she wasn’t having sex and this wasn’t an oopsie. It was a violation

[@demonictelevision9427]

@@yung1717 But she was smirking like it was a brag

[@jujujupiter]

You know, on this issue you should just let it go. If young woman has been sexually assaulted, you shouldn’t be the one to judge the look on her face.

[@demonictelevision9427]

@@jujujupiter She went on national TV smirking about it. We have every right to judge her for it

[@FromRoyalty1]

And she said she doesn't know the father.

[@IH8YALLL]

I found her and her son’s Facebooks. And looks like he really loves his mom. So hopefully she changed and did start taking care of him.

[@forthesakeofhaiti676]

He son probably 100 years old from now, this video is super olddddd, judge Judy was in her 40's then

[@shendisackett]

The son would be around 40 now.

[@mirandavikanderson6958]

This was like in the 90s​@@forthesakeofhaiti676

[@allismama]

This was 1995 and her son was ten so how did you find them

[@IH8YALLL]

@@allismama yeah I’m aware lol. They’re on Facebook. It’s not hard to find either one of them.

[@Esther-lm6pm]

No jj. She doesn't deserve that child. The lawyer is right. This defendant isn't worthy and now she won't learn.

[@Julie-sl8ul]

She deserves NO children.

[@kennethjenkins5210]

ok Karen .

[@funnyvideosyoulove]

@@kennethjenkins5210how's she being a Karen. You can't expect someone who raised your child for 10years to just give him up so easily 🙄

[@mirandafaire4275]

@@funnyvideosyoulove IKR?! NTM what's in the child's best interests! Heather sounds extremely irresponsible & like she's living a chaotic life, which is the opposite of what a child needs.

[@TheTwoBeauties]

2:01 What a disrespectful disgrace she is. Her parents should be suing for custody of her other child too.

[@Username26425]

For real but her parents probably dont want to start over AGAIN.

[@trekgirl65]

Hope the kids stayed with the grandparents and grew up to be beautiful, productive adults. Mom was never going to grow up and be a real mother.

[@emilyp5176]

Heather does not like when someone tells her all her wrong doings….if “in denial” had a face!

[@cdelane3335]

Wanted to help me out with IT. I find that tacky when someone calls a baby they had it.

[@jaeldartey1380]

Give her back her son. You helped her when she needed you. It's ok. Give her back her son

[@LaDominicana2011]

Her son is probably 39 now. I hope he turned out ok and had both his mom and grandparents in his life.

[@psoteriou3884]

She'd be in her mid 50s now. I wonder if she grew up or stayed in the same ungrateful mindset.

[@shannonbrice8012]

I find young adults are entitled and think they are right up until about the age of 22, then reality smacks them in the face and they start listening to advice. This woman has two children, is 26 and doesn't seem to care that her parents took care of her child and is very ungrateful.

[@loralubimaia2783]

I think I found her on Facebook. Looks like she has a four year old son now

[@shendisackett]

​@@loralubimaia2783I'm not sure if it's her but if you looked at the dates the child would be 7 or 8 now. She doesn't post regularly.

[@mirandafaire4275]

@@loralubimaia2783 Wait, WHAT??!! Sure that's not a grandchild bc she's in her mid 50s now!

[@JustineEllushon]

A lot of people are not taking into consideration who could be the father of her first child. Most people are violated by people they know, not strangers. Who knows what secrets she's holding onto our how that really played out...

[@the_punkterpreter]

Dad probably did it tbh

[@shendisackett]

​@@the_punkterpreteryou shouldn't say things like that when you don't know. How would you like to be randomly accused of SA across the internet?

[@shendisackett]

@@Neverendingstory78 they removed my response but I totally agree with you. I don't think they'd like to be subject to that kind speculation online.

[@melissachatwin9673]

@@the_punkterpreter well she refers to her son as a bully just like her dad

[@dcc2351]

The daughter looks like she has something mentally wrong with her. She's depending on the her friend to provide a home but can't do it herself! That poor little girl she has. Id be working day and night to save up enough money to provide a good home for my first child. And it wouldn't have taken me 10!!! Let alone have another child during that time.

[@melissachatwin9673]

you do realise you can't see a mental disability and even if she is so what? you have to comment on a child's appearance to make yourself feel better?

[@Robert-s3j9x]

The mom isn’t ready for her child yet.

[@susanmorales6941]

Defendant has terrible ungrateful attitude also very defiant

[@hkburrows]

Oof, victim blaming there from Judge Judy.

[@lisasim]

Was she adopted? She didn't look like either of her parents.

[@blujaebird]

She looks like her mother to me.

[@keondra9820]

She has a piece of dad's chin

[@shendisackett]

​@@blujaebirdsame, she looks a lot like her Mum.

[@mirandafaire4275]

I was wondering about this, too. I don't see much, if any, resemblance. Plus her mother looks like she could be Heather's younger sister!

[@Maxtycrosby]

How would this make a difference?

[@TeleneaRoberto-v3r]

Daughter not entitled much, eh!!! What an immature, ungrateful daughter she is. Never grown up and still doesn't get it. Wow. So sad for kids and her parents🙏😢🇨🇦

[@carolburke4359]

I bet they regret spoiling her.

[@jefferyhartwell9102]

She doesn't understand the lesson in this

[@DIDYOUSEETHAT172]

Nothing but crap attitude. This woman will never amount to anything if she thinks she is so on top of the world. I fell sorry for her daughter.

[@DIDYOUSEETHAT172]

Why don't I believer her? The way she said it. I was a martial arts instructor for a woman's group called Lady Beware, I never saw a single victim say it like that, with an arrogant I am throwing it in your face so there, BS attitude. Quite the piece of work here.

[@yung1717]

Oh so you’re an expert on every persons trauma? Grow up

[@vessaj4482]

​@@yung1717they're only sharing from experience. You are one who should adjust attitude.

[@shendisackett]

I found how she said it and her body language very odd, but this is more than 10 years down the line. I think she was getting angry at being judged for not knowing his father and so maybe that's why she announced it like that? My first instinct was not to believe her because of the way she said it, but thinking about how much time had gone by etc... she may well have been.

[@hnclym98]

@@shendisackett she could’ve just said it right off the bat instead of saying she didn’t know who the father was

[@gillianbrookwell1678]

She seems ungrateful, flippant and doesn't come across as being mature and capable.

[@melissachatwin9673]

self protection takes many forms

[@LoadPuller]

Accountability is the daughter's strong point.

[@CarrieRay]

It’s her weak point

[@mirandafaire4275]

Lol, yeah right?!

[@billmoran3219]

Defendant has an arrogance about her and definitely no motherly attributes !

[@lindag4544]

the defendant is pretty irresponsible… but if the first child was the result of rape the whole story is a little different. in today’s world that would not have been tossed out and ignored….

[@lGriffeyl]

the fact that she was rape, her behavior makes it seems to me she blames them...or holding some anger towards them that it happen..

[@melissachatwin9673]

Maybe they blamed her and she just defensive when a judge tells her it was irresponsible

[@ajvourakis]

Kirby vacuum is not a job. It’s a huge scam. I got suckered into it out in Vegas and the things I saw in three days made my blood run cold. I can’t understand how it is even legal.

[@BiterAvid]

This daughter is a nightmare. Ungrateful, completely selfish, totally irresponsible. She is a mess. I hope she does not get that little boy. In fact, she should have supervised visitation only. She acts like she is all together because she is sorta kinda making it on a wing and a prayer. She is 10 minutes from being homeless. .

[@laurenjwolf]

You know this is thirty years old right?

[@BiterAvid]

@@laurenjwolf And? Yes these are old. What bearing does that have on anything at all.

[@laurenjwolf]

@ It doesn't hav e bearing on the case but you spoke in present tense.

[@BiterAvid]

@@laurenjwolf And? Go troll somewhere else lauren j wolf

[@missbradicah]

I wonder what Heather's son thinks of the probability of living with his mother, after 10 years living with his grandparents?

[@Naijella86]

In part 1 when she says she didn’t know who her son‘s father was, it made her look VERY bad, now in part 3 she’s saying she was graped and she may very well have been because she seems traumatised, but if she had come out with that immediately the case may have been handled a lot more gently

[@yung1717]

She doesn’t have to announce that in order to get respect …

[@Naijella86]

@ if you say to anyone you are unsure as to who fathered your child, they’re going to think less of you. If they know you were raped then that is a completely different kettle of fish.

[@shendisackett]

If she was still traumatised then I would argue that the son is best left where he is until she gets some therapy.

[@yung1717]

@@Naijella86and people never judge rape victims I guess. She shouldn’t have to announce “my child is a product of rape”. People should understand that people don’t say everything about their life

[@melissachatwin9673]

That was also stated in part 1

[@merryhineline7781]

Can the defendant stand up straight?

[@itsmerifat20]

nguoi phu nu mac chiec ao khay hay va hai huoc cach noi chuyen cung vui ve khien nguoi xem cung thoai mai khi duoc nghe nhung cau chuyen nhu nay

[@getin3949]

She wants her son back now for the 8 remaining years she can collect from the State for 2 kids. You get more money the more kids you have. I don't see her growing up at all. She has an attitude and could use a trip to an endodontist.

[@ladygwen2463]

You need a therapist not a judge

[@hdrake1000]

The daughter seems like a know it all.

[@vivienallen5513]

$600 a week is not even enough to support herself and has to pay rent. She is lucky to have her parents helping her with one child.

[@tammy6206]

This is an old episode, probably from the 1990s. Depending on where she lived, $600 per week would have actually been a comfortable lifestyle.

[@vivienallen5513]

@tammy6206 I am 70 years old. I can only tell you that 55 years ago, I had a great job as the manager of a manufacturing company and made 40 thousand dollars a year but I find that it was expensive to support a child for a few reasons. I bought a house in a good neighborhood and I had a car to drive to work. I hired a nanny to care for my child, and saved money for the child's education. I worked for the same company for 25 years and then got a higher paying job. That is why I said that $600 a week is not enough.

[@tammy6206]

@vivienallen5513 That's really impressive, and thank you for sharing. But in 1996, the median US household income was about $35k, and the average household size was 3.2 people. So your income as a single mom was more than what many other dual income families earned. A private nanny is a luxury that the average family still doesn't enjoy. But the defendant could have easily provided a safe home, reliable vehicle, decent public schools, etc. on $600 per week in the 90s.

[@vivienallen5513]

@tammy6206 Tammy, I am a Canadian from Ontario. Our cost of living is slightly higher if we want to live in good neighborhoods. I remember at that time, I bought a small bungalow for $95,000, and today's market for the same bungalow is over one million, which is not affordable now for people. I know that US houses are cheaper and maybe the cost of living is cheaper too because I have siblings living in the US.

[@Kaboomboo]

600 back then can be almost as much as 1200 today. 5k a month isn't a whole lot but it is manageable.

[@Mohammed-cy6fg]

Heather is today’s gen Z

[@Julie-sl8ul]

Yep 💔💔💔💔💔

[@mikelwrites]

no, she's gen x.

[@mirandafaire4275]

@@mikelwrites I think he's referring to Heather's attitude & complete LACK of accountability for her actions when he refers to her as gen Z.

[@mikelwrites]

@ Yes, but that's still absurd. Every generation has had someone like Heather. Gen Z doesn't have more people like Heather because you wore rose colored glasses when you were younger. Statistically, older Gen Z are having less children.

[@carlydubbya7620]

oh boy. Not easy to hear Judge Judy be so dismissive about the claimed rape of a teenager.

[@californiadreamer2580]

If I had a dollar for every time a 16 yo said they were, when they were lying about it, and it was consensual because they thought it was cool, I'd be wealthy.

[@Callidus7SSM]

Claimed. The way she said it screams “I know if I say this, then it automatically makes me an angel and absolves me of all responsibility. Doesn’t matter if it’s true or not because no one would dare question if I’m telling the truth. Checkmate! I win”

[@carlydubbya7620]

@@Callidus7SSM well fck how did i miss all that? maybe because i didn't create my own narrative.

[@yung1717]

@@californiadreamer2580why are you hanging around so many 16 year olds?

[@yung1717]

Very rude of her to be so cavalier about a minor being raped

[@Bohdi1234]

Roommate, right. Her wife. Now they want a fake Lesbian family.

[@queenbee3647]

She had the baby at 16, true. Dont hold it against her. She was raped. Im glad she didnt abort him.

[@VisualizeHealing]

Okay, I was on the fence about this one until "judge" Judy totally ignored this young woman's statement about being raped and then JJ screams that you made a baby????? Bad, bad, bad. The father seems like he could easily bully these two young girls into giving him the truck and the mother seems like she could be reasonable. The young girl is trying but isn't ready to take on adult responsibilities full time. This young boy is understandably having a challenge. But dismissing a rape charge in the manner Judy did, was unconsiconable.

[@TheTwoBeauties]

What else is unconscionable is calling these two women “young girls!” The defendant is 26 years old!

[@shendisackett]

If she isn't ready at 26 she will never be ready! It seems the parents tried to help a lot, getting the 2 women a house across the road from them means their daughter can see her son more. The parents have done everything they can to help and still are.

[@mirandafaire4275]

If this is the truth, the defendant had a very odd way of saying it & mentioned this very late in the case! If she's telling the truth, it just reinforces my view that the poor child should've been given up for adoption. There's definitely no winners here!

[@melissachatwin9673]

@@mirandafaire4275 late meaning the first part

[@jamesdietz29]

OMG! KZbin let the "R" word slip by!

[@j.udgeJudy]

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