Money Matters in the Philippines/Update on Expat John and Diana/Old Dog New Tricks

Money Matters in the Philippines/Update on Expat John and Diana/Old Dog New Tricks‪@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234‬ Update on Expats Going Broke in the Philippines, The John and Diana Story

[@bert671]

just checking in if people are still complaining about John, lol.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Never ends 😆

[@danielhackney7806]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 Unfortunately John didn't have his head screwed on straight when he came to the PI. Now that baggage is weighting him down. Making a real change is very difficult at his age. As generous as the donors are they will only become John's enablers. No reason for him to make any real changes in his life. John's like the 30 year old kid living off his parents. Why get a job when free support is plentiful. Maybe some tough love is necessary.

[@wmjohns881]

@@danielhackney7806 A very cruel but accurate evaluation John has no reason to try and help himself when others enable his continued helplessness. At least John should be provided with a welfare assistance expiration date.

[@larkangel6593]

@@danielhackney7806 it's a multi level wealth transfer Filipina < John < Paul < viewers Some commenters have noted Paul is now responsible for John, but actually he's the best thing that's happened for his channel There might be a handful of other John's out there. If so, Paul will find them and present their sob stories for his audience Ratings gold, baby!

[@mjc42701]

@@danielhackney7806 Not cruel at all, no need to sugar coat it, he went there with the intention of having sex with young women, not a relationship, no surprise when one of them got pregnant, as far as not having his his head screwed on straight, it was screwed on, he just wasn't thinking with that one.

[@TAM-mj9lb]

As a German who has travelled the globe and lived in a few places for extended periods, I wanted to commend you for helping John in a way that is beyond the call of duty, in a humane, dignified, humorous and selfless way. This is what has always made Americans unique - and specifically your generation stands for these now sadly old-fashioned American values of helping someone in need without being pretentious and moralizing. By simply putting together a practical plan of action, a few resources and moral support in helping John deal with his specific set of problems, you do more to restore faith in true humanity than all those virtue-signalling young people that talk about the iniquity of life without ever lifting a damn finger beyond typing their manufactured indignation. As always, "old bones", i.e. seasoned men, are getting the job done, back then and now... I take my hat off to you and your group of friends.

[@RockmasterVideos]

Nice of you to say, I agree!

[@Kathy-kr1sv]

Well said from some old girl bones in Australia 😊

[@richardwitherow5289]

@@Kathy-kr1sv This Australian in Cairns agrees!

[@ayecaranya]

Well said. I loved your description of the younger 'outrage' generation as well

[@richardcoffey3125]

Any way to donate to the welfare of the babies. Through you of course. I’m sitting here thinking I could easily help in this situation but I don’t know how

[@emmajones8590]

John is darned lucky to have the support of such good friends.

[@demizer1968]

You’re a kind hearted man. No matter how this turns out, you and the other expats did the right thing.

[@vatican6]

The world needs more people like you Paul.

[@bongbin3557]

I’m Filipino and I want to remind people that most people nowadays are not getting into a relationship because they are in love but because it’s about security. Especially if they know that you’ve got money. So for you all out there who’s looking for love, please do the right thing and don’t let them suck you dry. Save some for yourself just in case things get worse.

[@christschool]

No, this is a Filipino cultural issue. "Most people" only relates to Asia.

[@jerryhatrick5860]

Facts,. As an american in america 3 years in a camper i paid 1k dollars for. With nothing. Because whoever calls the cops.First wins I blame me for poor choice. Her beijg my first kiss mattered. She took everything i built my whole life and walked away with it all amd a degree as an RN. Making 120 granda year. And now i have nothing? No woman wants Me. And im atayijg this way because inwant to be a wanted for me. While i am very skilled? Im now disaboed partly thanks to yer and the weekly beatings for 6 years. Women are evil, yup. Im not a bible thumper but i have read it. And even the bible warns man of women amd what they are.

[@tuforu4]

U GENIUS taking INVENTORY of the HUMAN.

[@JEPOYHEROBLOGG]

ITS NOT HAPPEN TO ALL MEN IM ALSO FILIPINO NOT ONLY YOU WHAT DO YOU WANT THEM TO DO TO TEACH THEM NA TUMAMBAY MAG INOM INOM MAG DROGA ?? IS THAT WHAT YOU TRYING TO SAY ??

[@peteranderson217]

I agree and Paul has pointed this out many times and one has to be very careful not to be sucked in by scammers. There are though many genuine cases and Baby Mai is clearly a good example of a good person.inlove with Paul.

[@ssimulacron6722]

Odds are good that since John and Diana are back together that Diana will soon be pregnant again.😀

[@chrismaak2972]

Not only are you doing a real service to another fellow man (down on his luck), you are also entertaining at the same time. You rock Paul and if im anything close to who you are ,when I get older, I will feel truly blessed!

[@mguendumiguel9523]

30000 dolares /1460 dias = 20.5 dolares por dia ... como dice PAUL ES IMPOSIBLE ... ...JONH IS PARASAITE WITH THIS MATH

[@DesertVox]

And saving future schmucks who think it's a good idea to be semi-broke and travel without any stream of income. I kinda see why his new family would treat him that way. American fathers and mothers treat their bum 18yos that way, why should others allow him to squat in their house with no money? Let others take his place and do a better job.

[@larryc6676]

Of course she came back to him. She sees that he might have a few dollars in his pocket now and she's going to do what she apparently has always done. She's going to use him and I feel bad for him because I honestly don't believe he's smart enough to see that she's playing him for a fool. But at least you did what you thought was right and that's all you can really do my friend

[@stanlysteemer4872]

Your right a man loves a woman needs.

[@stanlysteemer4872]

@@malibu-ken yes he does, just stating this John has jelly between his ears. If you don’t understand how women think by his age. A man actually loves women love the children unless their evil from a relationship. Their loves wrapped up in need, no need for the man no love.

[@Potatna]

Right! I hope he learns he's lesson, she only wants he's money!!

[@markjamison9677]

Pretty much like women everywhere if you want a decent relationship anywhere in the world especially good old USA better make sure you have a steady income . It’s just that simple .

[@AidaJof]

I am afraid so, but the babies are being taken cared for.

[@pattygibson2956]

Thank you all for taking care of John and his babies. You are all compassionate people.

[@mrobo9037]

No matter what, you stepped up to the plate and helped this guy John. You are a GOOD MAN AND, MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER WORLD 👍👏👏👏👏

[@fngonzo]

Whatever the truth, the "support group" is the hero in this story.

[@mikec360]

This is a train wreck and not going to end well. But good on you for helping him out

[@Mexicobeanpole]

This comment didn’t age well.

[@OneStrokeTwin]

thanks for the update on John, I've been thinking about him. I'm a twin and a stroke survivor so there are several items in this story which resonated with me. I'm glad him and the kids are doing better. you are a top guy Paul, well done on getting this guy and his family the help he needed.

[@stevencasley499]

You and your band of friends are a Godsend to this guy and his kids. He most definitely needs an adult mentor.

[@colinnuttall9579]

Paul, I just want to say you are such a great human being. You clearly have the intellect and drive that this thing needs. You and ‘the support group’ have done some great work that John and his family needed. This has been a great little saga to watch and so good that the babies are getting the assistance they badly needed. Tough love is what John needed and you gave that to him. It’s been a joy to watch you do stuff Paul. Good man. How are you doing in all this ? Do you have someone to talk to and unload. I hope you do because you probably need it.

[@colinnuttall9579]

@@tomkeppler1717 I got the feeling she didn’t care about him in any real way, but I didn’t know they weren’t his kids. He seemed to think they were, but is that so surprising?

[@This_da_life]

Agree , Paul and Mae are great 👍🏼

[@tuforu4]

@@colinnuttall9579 AMERICANS have 700MILLION GUNS IN PRIVATE HANDS USA trump said. No other country has that GUN MENTALITY.

[@richardseid2377]

Paul. You and your group of Retirees are doing a tremendous, great, beyond terrific job. It’s great to see that a community of retirees in the Philippines is helping out a fellow American in need.

[@douglaswilliams4274]

Paul, you have a very good heart. Well done Sir ! You may have very may have saved his life, and the twins. There is three sides to every story. Stay Safe, and Stay Blessed !

[@Dana-ie2bh]

The road to Hell is paved with good intentions. G-D works in mysterious ways.

[@trevorharvey105]

Yep you saved the kids life. Many babies die in the Philippines

[@mguendumiguel9523]

30000 DOLLARS /1460 DAYS = 20.5 DOLLAR PER DAY ...IS CORRECT PAUL.. IS IMPOSSIBLE TO LIVE .....JOHN IS A BEGGAR (PARASITE) WITH THIS MATH

[@the_gilded_age_phoenix8717]

@@Dana-ie2bh Yup. On this Earth, good intentions usually lead you straight to Hell. The twins will be used to milk money from folks to support that deadbeat wmn and her family.

[@Mr.frag-out]

I dont understand how a guy can get a 19 year old pregnant with twins, which puts a burdon on the Philippine family because he has no money. It's not the grandmother's responsibility to raise his kids.

[@David-og7di]

Diana is BACK !!!! Stay tuned folks, we are going to get a lot of mileage out of this show : Pinays of our Lives

[@SY-ok2dq]

Leech. Back to suck more blood. She knows John's getting all these donations and good accommodation and food.

[@bartholomewnyc3503]

Lo

[@bartholomewnyc3503]

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[@reigninblood123]

This Paul dude doesn’t want to run a soap opera. He already stated he hoped it would be “in the rear view mirror”. No wonder. Going back to a teenager that tried to get him deported.

[@CL-mp4vn]

Yeah, not surprised at all. Right after they (she and her family) know that he got some supported friends, they started their taking advantage journey over again. This time is with the kids.

[@liliareg5653]

Paul, you are a good person, an angel if you will. May you stay happy and healthy😇

[@freerangeboogie7293]

This is a great story. Paul and expat friends rescued a family. Twins could have died. It isn’t a forever support plan, just a hand up for now. Another note - recent proper nutrition will help their brains think better & hopefully make better decisions. Kudos!

[@oreospeedwaggindoesamerica6078]

Wow this is like watching a car wreck in slow motion and nothing you can do to stop it. I think it’s great you helped the kids but them living together will not end good.

[@scottforbes4931]

Without expounding on Johns shortcomings I think a vasectomy would 🤔 be in order. Or a generous supply of condoms. Just saying. Paul you are a Saint and were way more patient with John than I would have been. I'm glad the focus has been shifted to what's important, the children.

[@judithdornbush5897]

THUMBS UP to the EXPATS for helping their co-expat and his family.

[@jtuneddc5428]

You a very kind man john. If i ever go back to the pi ill buy you food anywhere you want and donate to you personally for being a genuinely good friend which is rare these days.

[@ccjohncc1]

God bless you Paul for helping the little girls. Kids are so vulnerable and depend on us grown ups.

[@deantienter778]

I just wanted to say thank you for representing foreigners in such a dignified way!!😊

[@davecreer9]

what a man that is if you threw a buckit of brains at him the whole lot would miss him and you tried your best paul you truly are a gentleman sir take care

[@peternielsen5998]

I could be wrong, but it seems to me unlikely the babies would have gotten that sick if they were cared for by the Mother and the family. I could be wrong also, as it seems to me that the Mother has by the sound of it, once again attached herself to John as she smells fresh funds. Love is truly a beautiful thing in that it can give you the most amazing highs, but at the same time is a very scary thing in that it can have the ability to completely blind the recipient to what is obvious to others. Thank you for the update Paul.

[@MeryP24]

I think your network of friends are doing a great job.. coordinated by yourself!! Helping John get to grips with life and reality! If he has some disability he's probably better going back home! If he's able to work, great.. otherwise as you know without income it's a lost cause! I'm feeling johns story won't end as quick as you'd like!! great job looking after him.

[@danielhackney7806]

@Harry and Mery-Foreigner Life In The Philippines, the only way John is going to get a grip is with some tough love. Throwing money at the problem solves nothing other then making donors feel noble. But in the end all it will accomplish is John's dependence on generous donations. I suspect John will at some point come back to Paul's channel asking for MORE $$$$. I hope Paul is wise enough to say NO and tell 60 yr old John it's time to grow up.

[@cherylschumaker1366]

John needs to get a grip right on his suitcase , and a 1 way ticket back home to the States...get some medical treatment and councleing , Than maybe a job and sponser his daughters to come to the States in the future......

[@danielhackney7806]

@@cherylschumaker1366 As long as the donor money is coming in there is NO real reason for John to do anything. He can live the easy life, like the 30 year old kid that's still being supported by his parents. Only difference between John and the kid is John's 60!. LOL

[@pannachawangkul585]

Naaah, if he comes back, seeing things are tough here in the USA as well, as we are facing inflation, he'll be more likely to become a homeless, seeing he wants an easy way out. What in the world that he thinks he can survive for the rest of his life in PI or anywhere, for 30k? You have to add to what you spend. My advice to him is to NOT gets trick into getting anymore women there pregnant!!!

[@danielhackney7806]

@@pannachawangkul585 As a 60 yr old man I'm surprised John doesn't know about the birds and bee's. If you pump your love juice into a 20 yr old honey pie, she's going to swell up like a balloon! It's clear the head on John's shoulders isn't functioning, BUT the head between his legs is definitely working!!! The GOOD news, If he comes back to the states he won't have the opportunity to get a female pregnant!!!

[@joeys4269]

It's not the new housing, new clothes, having something to eat...it's the realization that you need to take responsibility. That is John's true gain. Well put, Paul.

[@1MinuteFlipDoc]

John will say anything.

[@amylee6038]

@@1MinuteFlipDoc Yes. We have a mental health issue. Expecting to live on $30,000 for four years - that's $625 a month for one person even if he spent zero getting established, which is ludicrous. You can't support two people, let alone four! What happens when you start helping someone like this is that you have now passed the "event horizon" of the black hole that will suck you in. First, it is just John. Now it is the children. But all four people - John, wife, and children require a permanent solution. He said he did not want to go back to the USA, so what. I don't want to wash dishes, do laundry, clean the floors, etc. Why is it that he needs other people to find him a job? That's something a teenager can do on their own. If they are mentally healthy. Logically, a person that is incapable of operating at even a teenager level of acuity and responsibility is going to have trouble at whatever work you find for him. The social security system does have disability benefits. What you have to do is go get an evaluation by a health professional that establishes he is disabled. Then you file the disability claim. I am certain he will "pass" with flying colors.

[@SY-ok2dq]

@@amylee6038 Hey, he's in the Philippines and living off expat donations and help. And will soon be able to claim U.S. social security payments to support himself. But if you ask a lot of American taxpayers if it's better that John live there off donations, or come back to the U.S. witk kids and wife in tow and live off the U.S. social security system, and off already-strained food banks, government and charity programs, and take up tax funded space in government shelters and housing - well, I think you know what the answer might be. Things are already grim for many in the U.S., with a rising homeless problem, lots of elderly people struggling to get by, lots of people living in vans and cars, lots of people relying on government and charity help. No need for another guy and his family. And he wants to stay there and so does his wife.

[@ShaferHart]

@@amylee6038 I think he's just a loser and being a loser is not considered a disability yet. Which is why I was disappointed when they started to throw money at the problem since John is obviously delusional, he could've spent his entire life in the US as a run of the mill loser but he decided to try his luck in the Phillipines and, well, this happened lol. The woman nor her family want him and tried to get him deported. They came back when he had some money on him thanks to Paul. The best help John can get now is someone telling him the truth and cutting him loose. He already got more help than he deserved honestly.

[@ShaferHart]

@@SY-ok2dq the alternative is that perfect strangers are going to cover his life expenses for months.. sorry, that's a fool's errand and they all should cut him loose and allow him to live the consequences of his own actions.

[@Niftynorm1]

Paul you have done a tremendous amount to help John and as the old saying goes 'you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink'. The babies are a major consideration that the adults need to put first, John may still be better off returning to the US and stabilize his life then work, send money to Diana and make sure it goes to the kids. God bless you and your expat friends.

[@johnsonyuen1999]

I agree with this comment. The Expats that are helping him should give him enough money to return to the US so that he can work and be financially independent before returning to the Philippines. The US is one of the richest nations in the world and as a US Citizen, you have every opportunity to earn money as long as you put in the time and effort. I believe he felt the bug to move to the Philippines and barely have enough money to financially support himself his gf/family for the long term. I just didn't think he truly gave enough thought on his future in the Philippines. I wish John the very best and hope he make the right decisions going forward. I'm praying for you.

[@canadude2010]

We both know where that will end up….hopefully the other ex pats there with employment ideas for him (online I suppose) can carry the ball from here and help him generate some cash until he’s 62

[@lb7034]

@@johnsonyuen1999 A huge amount of money was already raised for John,there is plenty cash reserves to get him even settled in the U.S

[@SY-ok2dq]

@@johnsonyuen1999 A viewer who wanted to help offered John a job in the U.S. According to this person, John turned it down, to the viewer's disappointment. It paid pretty well, considering that John does not have skills or experience that would land a very well paid job and what's more, he's old, what, 60? Difficult to land new jobs at that age unless you're some ex-CEO or scientist etc. John does not want to return to the U.S. It seems he has refused offers. Nor does he have any job lined up there (already refused one firm offer) and who would really hire him, and to do what? It's not the greatest time in the economy for 60 yr olds starting over. John left the U.S. for a reason. People don't seem to understand that. He chose to leave. He doesn't want to live there. In any case he can collect social security payments from anywhere, as soon as he's approved.

[@SY-ok2dq]

@@meowco69 John is 60 isn't he? I mean come on. He's had some 40+ years of life as an adult and is still alive. He must have some life skills. Is he a recovering drug addict? An alcoholic? Sex addict?

[@markdavis6835]

As a father I have compassion and empathy for the kids. The parents however is another story. The help John is getting from all you guys is wonderful and all of you deserve congratulations on doing an incredibly great deed. However, (again) to me this is like beating a dead horse. Unless some of you have endless supplies of cash it will never be enough. John will NEVER get an online job that pays enough. That being said the girl will once again pressure him because of the lack of income and round and round we go. The best thing you should have done weeks ago was stick him on a one way plane back here. There are TONS of job openings here in Vegas. He can send money back for the kids (although it may go elsewhere) and it will be more than working there. Lastly, I understand your feelings of wanting to help this guys, but C'MON MAN. You of all guys should know better having seen your own kids go down a similar path. This guy is a SIXTY year old man. Time for him to put on the Big Boy Pants. No way in hell I will allow this to continue, but if you enjoy tossing your cash I got some land out here just west of Vegas you might like. Best of luck Dog. I will tune in to see how things go down.

[@pretseportales8851]

Well said.

[@LabRat6619]

Amen

[@MrSanguru]

Pretty decent outlook on things! Weirdo John is the classic LOSER of the kind we all know. The girl is a gold-digger. What about the kids...? There are roundabout 400.000.000 kids on this planet in worse situations. My advice for the "supporters"...? Get quiiiiiiickly rid of the guy and frikken move on. Why putting your fingers into a completely ridiculous situation?

[@Asadeso]

Agree, Mark 👍

[@tucsonjohn829]

I agree with everything you said.

[@jimNavz3154]

Paul your a good man 👍 your a best friend who can be depend on.

[@JOHN-ny7xe]

Bless you and the support group for helping both John and the children.

[@stugotz986]

What you and your Ex-Pats did was absolutely awesome. Many Years ago, I had a Buddy who was an Alcoholic. I was looking for a Detox for him to enter. I found one that was a Three Hour Drive away. I drove him to this Detox. Checked him in. I went to stay in a Hotel for the Night. Before I left the following Day, I went to say GoodBye to my Friend. To my surprise, he had checked himself out. My point is you can help People but you can’t make them want to accept that help. It was hurtful that I took the time to help him and he wouldn’t listen to me. But at the end of the Day, things happen. Cheers everyone!!

[@rubyparchment5523]

I’ve “tried” to help people, too. One time, I bought a needy immigrant some nice outfits from a Brooks Brothers outlet. A year later, he was wearing his old rags. When needy parents ask you to help (clothes, shoes, eyeglasses, school/hygiene supplies), they end up resenting you big-time. Nothing’s ever good enough.

[@stephendunn2860]

Alcoholics go to rehab on average seven times before finally sobering up. It’s not easy

[@SY-ok2dq]

That was very kind and helpful of you. But I would not do that kind of thing. Because if they are not initiating it, if you have to drag them there, then they'll never complete the detox or fix their problems or whatever it is. They have to want it for themselves. They have to be making steps on their own. And you can help a little, offer some support while they're doing it. But they've got to be driving themselves forward, not be pushed and pulled along by others. Eventually they have to stand on their own. They have to resist that drink or that hit or that food or whatever, on their own since nobody can be policing them 24/7 for the rest of their lives. Having helped others in situations where this person seemed to need help, to get back on their feet etc., I now know the signs to look for, and what I shouldn't have done. Basically I did too much. And they weren't doing enough for themselves and content to just soak up that help. No thanks. And looking back, I imagine that that person probably has not really learned or changed, and will probably end up again in another situation. I plan to continue to try to do things for members of the community, those who are in bad situations, but I assess it all very differently now. And act accordingly.

[@jamesnewmanvlogs9835]

Learn from the Past, Live in the Present. Maybe the new environment, Paul's advice, and the support group will change his life for the better.

[@guyhmajor]

Well done Paul. I saw a lot of guy's like John in Vietnam when I worked there. My American boss used to say the guy's had no future and the women they were with had a past. I am happy the children are being looked after as malnourishment at that early developmental stage is a major cause of cretinism in countries like Vietnam and the Philippines.

[@canadude2010]

Yes I pray it’s not too late for them

[@donjohnson5123]

What do you know? I retired in Vietnam in 2019 - eventually married a beautiful young local half my age who is a unicorn ride or die wife. Of course you apparently couldn’t land a Vietnamese female, and now no one else including you can stay long term in Vietnam anymore. Couldn’t pay me to live in that SHole the Philippines.

[@anthonygreenfield123]

Very interesting. Malnutrition at an early age can cause lower IQ later in life, interesting concept. explains a lot what I have been experiencing in the Philippines

[@bobhorn5867]

I have actually grown to like this story and followed along. John might want to do a GoFundMe for the twins?! But Paul, you're a big hearted guy for doing this!

[@JJJJ-gl2uf]

I'm happy to see that a group of people can get together to help someone going through difficult times. As a fellow expat living in Asia, I hope John and his gf can finally get it together and start moving forward in life because they have two kids who need stability and support. The situation they were in [especially John] was leading nowhere good.

[@345glenn]

I have to admit that I was struggling with compassion at first. The few times John was on video, I kept looking to see if the lights were on and no one was home. Then you struck a cord this video and nailed it. It's about the twins. God brought you together to save the twins. Bless you and Mae.

[@AidaJof]

I agree, that's it🙏

[@kennethboehnen271]

@@AidaJof it's ok to help John. He needs a friend to give advice and emotional support.

[@SivartOrder66]

Always a reason for everything and most times we never know. Well, we now know. It was to help those girls.

[@AidaJof]

@Roger Moores Your comment offers nothing positive, does it?!?!?

[@salmaabdullahgb]

@@HolaBrazil let's not forget the 60 year old man that went to a 3rd world country to impregnate a teen with 30k?

[@garyt7232]

Appreciate the update. Glad you were able to "knock some sense" into John. You and your fellow expats that are helping him deserve a pat on the back. All the best to you and BM.

[@christer.rehnstrom]

KZbin and humanity at it's best. Thank you.

[@fuerte761]

You guys did a good thing, to take John away from that toxic environment. I hope this video will help many other man to think before they commit to a relationship in the Philippines.

[@mixmatch608]

Agreed. But it seems that Diana just returned and fully aware of the financial support that he has received, highly likely going to take advantage of the poor guy again. Needless to say, I foresee he will likely fall under the charms and the issue of kids will always be something that Diana could use as a bargaining chip to get more money from him.

[@salmaabdullahgb]

Toxic environment? A 60 year old man went to a 3rd world country to impregnate a teen with 30k?

[@salmaabdullahgb]

@@mixmatch608 he's is the one who went to seek out a teen and had children with her, so trying to act like Simmons forced him into the situation. He's a grown man with no job?

[@mixmatch608]

@@salmaabdullahgb Apparently that seem to be the problem with him right now. I have no idea how he survive back in the USA but his biggest problem is overestimating his "retirement money". Theoretically even if he were to stay in USA, he probably should work a couple more years closer to social security age. To be honest with you, I 100% agree with you and detest this kind of person who rely on others for money, and not making an effort to make things better. But I can't really state a direct response because I'm don't know much about him rather than the information that is posted by Paul.

[@monnica3450]

Paul your simply heaven sent too John. I’m sure everyone of your viewers visiting the Philippines will be looking you up too take you out for a drink or dinner. Again thanks

[@randymarsh5186]

I hope things work out for all of them...! God bless you Paul and all the other Expats that helped John through these difficult times!

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

Thank you kindly

[@This_da_life]

Glad I didn’t put any money into this sinking ship

[@Mexicobeanpole]

This comment didn’t age well.

[@Macjohn1419]

Paul, you hit the nail on the head at the ending about John. I had a friend like that. He was failing at a relationship with a woman and blaming everyone but himself. Throwing money at everything trying to keep it afloat. Fortunately, it wasn’t a Filipina, it was an American woman. Same thing it became a he said/she said. I believe John was delusional thinking that he would have an idyllic life in the Philippines where everyone will look up and take care of him. So, he went broke chasing a pipe dream. Good to see you guys helping out the twins. They were the real victims in this. As far as Diana and John is concerned, I wish them the best. They should stay away from outside influences, especially from her side of the family. I also believe she was manipulated by her mother to soak John for everything and then hang him out to dry.

[@golden.lights.twinkle2329]

You can't separate Filipinos from their family. They are inseperable!

[@maxmontag2047]

Maybe John shouldn't have chosen a teenager 40 years younger than him as a partner. 19 year old Filipinas are still tied to mama's apron's strings. But a 19 year old is why John came to the Philippines, no?

[@coo4231]

Maybe John shouldn't try to use a barely legal person at almost 60. I have no sympathy for gross old white men who are bled dry. Oh no.....someone gave u a consequence u deserve.....as a white man I understsnd ur not used to that As evidenced also by saying ur friends ex was "fortunately" not Filipina. It proves men who sexualize women and especially a specific ethnicity like asian, don't love them at all, they want control. This is also bolstered by the age gaps. Gross.

[@Paul-McB]

@@maxmontag2047 Agreed, he could not pull off getting a teenager and impregnating her in the USA. Did he really expect to pay $30k to delivery two twins, take care of prenatal and postnatel, and to take care of a family? He planned on using his girlfriends family, and he has done so.

[@KiwiInPhilippines]

@@Paul-McB Wow, amazing !! You should change your name to McNostradamus. Any numbers for the lottery?

[@ashtonellis]

You’re a good man sir. Thank you for helping another human being.

[@mariemelendez917]

Thank you and your guy friend for helping John, and I hope you know your Angels on earth. One of both of the babies could have died. God bless all of that helped the babies.

[@amylee6038]

My husband has the same kind of compassion for wayward bar girls. He's been talking about starting an orphanage for them. Nobody over age 24. As soon as your group of ex pats can come up with money, he can go on a recruiting drive.

[@kinhason46]

I met a active Church goer who took his wife and kids to PI and lived there for years in the 1990s doing that exact work, getting bar girls out of it...some success! i lost tract of him many years ago after the family returned to the USA. Your husband perhaps could link up with this church group which focuses its efforts doing likewise. I don't remember what Church it was, however I know it was in Luzon.

[@amylee6038]

@Charles White He doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, or gamble. But he's in fantastic shape, a former 3 time midwest USA champion fighter and boy does he like boom boom. I can't keep up with him and I am 30 years younger. It's sort of tongue in cheek but I need some big numbers for back-up.

[@alexdegaston422]

The kids need Consular Record of Birth Abroad (CRBA) documents requested, processed, and approved at the USA embassy in the Philippines in order to have their USA citizenship established. Glad to hear y'all are focusing on the well-being of these kids, not the adults' drama.

[@RCFSULAW]

Alex this can also be done at the consulate in Cebu which is much closer and much cheaper to travel to. They must have all birth documents and documents of the two parents. They should call ahead of time to set an appointment if they can as the Embassy and consulate are still backlogged as a result of the pandemic. I posted a link to the USA State Department requirements so Paul can help them out.

[@danielhackney7806]

I am one of the hundreds of thousands who watched both previous video's. I have to admit they were pretty depressing but entertaining like an American TV soap opera. Only difference being this is REAL life with REAL people. That's the very real depressing part of the whole mess. John is sadly a train wreck, but my guess is that started WAY before he came to the PI and no amount of money is going to cure him. I have no issue if viewers want to donate money, but in my opinion it's like throwing money down a black hole. I just don't see Old Dog John learning any new tricks and wising up. What he really needs even more then money is a father figure to watch over him 24/7. He's VERY child like.

[@DHarri9977]

In all fairness the guy fell into a deep depression I agree with what you're saying but I think a combination of guilt, worry, lack of food, and his situation as a whole put him in an unhealthy mental state.

[@LabRat6619]

Growing up in many parts of US can leave someone "child like".

[@DHarri9977]

@@LabRat6619 It's not about living in any part of the US some people live a sheltered life. Parents or others have protected the person via finances and other daily responsibilities associated with adulting. It sounds like he getting on the right track thanks to Paul/Mae, and many others, so this is good.

[@andybrown3016]

He’s not just child like I’m pretty sure he has learning difficulties. Very naive and vulnerable and shouldn’t be in the Philippines. His teenage wife is pretty and clearly the only reason she was with him is for what he could provide.

[@Thunder_Lightning_and_Fury]

A child making children, sad.

[@projectkj7643]

Y’all saved those babies lives! Heroes!

[@gemox3225]

This is quite a story. Your generosity and the expat community's generosity has been amazing. Yes Diana should get her to tell her story. You all are in Dumaguete, correct? So this whole story is taking place there?

[@Searat7]

The expression on her face in that picture is very telling

[@m4rk764]

I think if John is able to feed his family he can keep the Diana and the twins. Unfortunately, John doesn't have the money then things going everthing difficult. How can you keep the family together if you can't feed them?

[@Asadeso]

Paul, blessed are you and the support group. You can only wish for guys like you on moments like this. But you better have some deep (financial and mental) pockets because this guy is not going to change on a dime..

[@stevesteel6066]

Great to hear that you supported him and his family in their hour of need. Kudos to your community

[@cyber_surfer]

Humanitarianism at its best, Paul. Just remember, John is not only suffering from emotional trauma, but also cognitive impairment ... Go easy

[@PatDe-zj4et]

2 strokes

[@MASSEY50]

John let the girlfriend and her family use him. He’s a grown ass man. He was responsible for saying NO I’m not having it. He put himself in the situation and he hasn’t learned yet. God bless you Paul for stepping up and helping his twins. Also for helping John because he’s a human. Hopefully with guidance he will learn.

[@rsdouglass4]

He’s 60. Learning has reached full stop.

[@yakiwalu192]

I have no sympathy for John

[@stevegorkowski3246]

It isn't over it's just started! This is the best video for people wanting to live there. They now know first hand what can happen if you don't have the money needed. Maybe you saved someone from going down that path. Even Paul learned something from this. Paul learns what happens when his girlfriend helps out taking care of the babies. Paul just as a side note the chances of having twins are 250 to 1, not that I am putting pressure on you. :)

[@stevenweiss2148]

yes a cautionary tale.

[@valu1827]

I think Paul would have been ok if he wasn’t splurging on women who were only wanting to use him.

[@bradleymiller7375]

@@valu1827 then what's the difference with John!??

[@seeingeye5534]

Not just the money needed but also the common sense. Lonely old men coming here can be overwhelmed by the beautiful young women. Watch out!!!

[@cherylschumaker1366]

@@valu1827 i know i could kive in the Philippines for sure for 4 years with 30 k on my own....

[@tinaraphael9783]

Paul God bless you for sharing your intelligence to John . This time ask him to get neutered lol😃

[@juanitawilms9842]

His lucky to have you guys to help him pay for everything he needs .That’s nice of you and the other expats

[@rosalinashea5493]

Very nice channel Paul, keep up a good job I won’t skip the adds , so you can help John, the two kiddos is cute , omg .. hope this kids can develop some strong immunity. It’s American blood that need good food for this baby’s… like milk.and start feeding with healthy food so this kids can have strong immune system.

[@Yazzie101]

I think your network of friends are doing a great job.. coordinated by yourself!! Helping John get to grips with life and reality! If he has some disability he’s probably better going back home! If he’s able to work, great.. otherwise as you know without income it’s a lost cause! I’m feeling johns story won’t end as quick as you’d like!! 🤷🏻‍♀️ great job looking after him👍

[@MeganLeighburke]

I'm an expat myself and here's some advice to EVERYONE...do not go live in another country without and emergency fund and 1 solid stream of income. I have multiple just in case one falls apart.

[@mr.ai.]

yes, but also the age gap in the relationship & different economic backgrounds & starting a family are all factors in this story. Love to All ❤

[@AllenCH55]

Paul, you're a good man. You and your buddies are simply awesome helping John get his life back on track, and now his innocent twins. Hopefully, things get better for him.

[@elizabethbrauer1118]

Praying for the babies - hope there's some help should they need more parents...godparents, grandparents, aka support parents.

[@stevel1733]

Nice and thoughtful job Paul. Good job.

[@steveo7624]

You’re a good guy Paul for helping your friend out you’re a true friend

[@AudioAlchemy2023]

Good on ya, Paul! You have a big heart. John is lucky to have crossed paths with you and your generous subscribers. I'm glad that you just didn't provide him with money, you gave him some great advice. Cheers, my friend! (From an expat livng in Vietnam)

[@OlderThanSand]

I think it's pretty generous of those that have donated to John so that he can stay in the Philippines and enjoy his retirement. I'd be inclined to donate if it was for a one way ticket back to the US. That seems like the logical plan if he really wanted to support his kids instead of relying on hand outs.

[@sactopyrshep]

He has no support in the USA. Better to stay where he is for the next 17 months until his SSI kicks in

[@OlderThanSand]

@@sactopyrshep I guess taking care of oneself has become a lost art to some.

[@SY-ok2dq]

@Alfredo Inusa Are there really "plenty" of jobs for someone like John - he doesn't seem at all sensible or have any idea of finances and money - who is 60, and we don't know what his job/skills/experience background is. He might be very unattractive to a lot of employers. In any case he was offered a job. A viewer made him a firm offer - decent pay - and John turned it down. John didn't leave when Diana and her family were treating him - as he claims - like crap, and abusing him and depriving him of food! And now he's taken Diana back with open arms. He'll never leave her, as long as she'll have him. On the upside, since Diana is 40 years younger, she'll be fit and young enough to be his personal aged carer when he's old an infirm in his 80s and 90s. A personal carer, living in 24/7, would be very expensive in the U.S., but he'll be getting it for only the cost of providing her support - all on a basic U.S. pension.

[@DebbieC2023]

@@sactopyrshep In the USA there are more social programs and Medicaid to help him . It might be easier to apply for SDI here in the US than in the Philippines. He should register those babies with the us embassy for claim to citizenship. Not that this will help the situation but the silver lining is that Filipinos in general manage to live with what little they have and make it. These babies and their teen mom will survive .This man John has to do something to keep these babies healthy - go back where you came from, get a subsidy or a job and support these babies to make their lives better and healthier.

[@cryptocrazy4735]

@@sactopyrshep We're talking about a grown 60 yr old man, not a baby.....many, many people don't have " support " and seem to do just fine, geez.....and he had a job in the USA before....why not again ? He just needs to be a man and grow up instead of relying on others....not rocket science.

[@xpusostomos]

So the community paid for him to leave her.... And now she's coming with him. Crazy stuff.

[@xpusostomos]

@@dino7209 Seems like she knew exactly what she was getting into, and sucked all his money to support herself, her child and her family. I'm struggling to see what he did wrong, other than being unwise. She's an adult, able to make her own decisions, already had a child.

[@PatDe-zj4et]

​@xpusosthe had 2 strokes. Hes ill. omos

[@oilverdowler2093]

So glad things are working out and the twins are doing fine, my wife has lots of baby boy clothes, my son who will be four years this September, she lives in Laguna bel air . .

[@desgoulding7154]

A big thanks to you for doing video. And all who helped John. Best wishes to all. I am happily married to a Filipino 🇵🇭 who is a fantastic mother and person. For 47 years.

[@dougparson4407]

Is it not interesting how a single story can suddenly become an international soap opera? At least this one has provided real world assistance in saving a pair of babies. It is horrible when a conflict of any type has a negative affect on children. But when the story changes and the conflict is put aside and the children become the focus and results in a positive outcome, do we not cheer for those involved. Congrats to those making the better choices and appreciate the updates for the children. Wishing those deeply involved a speedy recovery and happiness!! Good Job Paul !!

[@edithaheinitz6591]

John is surely not that smart guy..he can't function and move forward with his life..you guys adopted him and took care of him and everything. God bless you and what you do for the fellow expat.

[@Koya_Sipanlog_Express]

Let’s hear Diana’s story. Happy the kids are getting some care.

[@jameswelch1054]

The kids are not getting any care from their deadbeat dad.

[@ananumatanu7621]

No we don't need to hear her story... Typical Filipina who took John for a ride...

[@linhaton4957]

This is what happens when you have a relationship with someone so much younger than you. A women that young is in it for the money. She’s selling and he’s buying. Hope he gets a DNA test on the children.

[@JT-cf5ol]

age has little to do with it as they only perfect their craft as they get older.

[@johng5950]

John is completely delusional and is 100% confident that the filipina is his soulmate. Did you see the way his eyes lit up when talking about the twins? If you did, you'll see there is no way he would ever bring up the idea of having a DNA test. His mind is made up, those are his kids and will tie him to his supposed "soulmate" for life. Gonna be a long tough life for everybody involved.

[@CF.]

@@puppyupper4565 baby Mae is in her mid thirties. That’s a big difference developmentally speaking. She’s a full grown woman. John (in his late 50s) met Diana as a teenager. This wasn’t going to end well.

[@CF.]

@@puppyupper4565 I agree with you there. Also I’m very sorry to hear about your sister. May she Rest In Peace. Let’s continue to hope that John and Diana can support their children. Have a good day! 🌸🌺🌷

[@kirkkorenko5743]

Thanks Paul for the update. Happy to hear the the twins are doing much better thanks to the help from you and the others. John better realize that help only goes so far so he better get on board.

[@SivartOrder66]

The Kids need the most help. They are what is important here. Thank You for not loosing sight of that and I'm glad John sees it too.

[@MAGICJ23]

You all should have reached out to him and sent him back home

[@vee7747]

Love to see Diana’s interview!!!

[@juancarlosvaldes4538]

Hello Paul and great video my friend. Here is my professional analysis of the situation: 1. They are together as a FAMILY and this is the first step towards being more responsible and having more responsibility for both parents to make it work. He should get a job, continue to provide for the family, and then go to Manila in the near future to get a complete health checkup, and get the papers moving on Social Security Disability (if he qualifies). 2. If they dont make it work out and both of them continue to have issues, the best thing would be for her and the baby girls to move out and go back to her family`s side. He will still need to provide support now ONLY for the 2 baby girls and himself while STILL working and accomplishing his goal of getting SSDI. Those are basically the two options I see from all of this at this point. Take care Paul and thanks to you and everyone in John's support group.

[@SY-ok2dq]

He'll never leave Diana. She might leave him, but I doubt it now that she knows that he can always get donations and help from othet expats even if he is broke. And now he'll be eligible to claim social security payments so he'll be able to support her and the kids. But isn't there a 3rd child? The one before his twins, thr child that is not John's. Is that child living with them? I don't think Diana will leave. The longer she stays, the older she gets and that makes her less marketable and attractive to other old, expat men. No, I don't think Filipino men would want her. She has a child (the one that's not John"s) to support and that would deter a lot of them. Why should they support an extra child that's not theirs, when they are poor themselves? Diana will stay and eventually become John's nursemaid and carer when he's old, his 70s and 80s, and not in good physical shape. She'll be too old to have any other option. No job, and no other man willing to support a woman in her 40s (which is how old she'll be when John is in his 80s).

[@blingiy]

That was very kind and generous of you to help John get out of his hole, and to help him realize the mistakes that he has made. God bless you for your kindness and charity!!

[@ivyellis6096]

John is lucky to have a friend like you! Thank you. God bless.

[@ardshielcomplex8917]

After following the vids on this I cant help thinking theres another Train wreck on the way. Johns a very kind and trusting guy, but gullible and vulnerable which sets him up for pain and heart break. That Pinay woman has used him up and damn near destroyed him, the only reason shes back on the scene is because she knows he has good friends supporting him, AND Johns US benefits will happen. For his sake can you please start spelling out the reality to him Paul.

[@yuma420]

Cut John off and then maybe reality will hit him.

[@tommygunn8355]

John is a lost cause I'm afraid. I do feel sorry for him though because I think he's a bit cognitively challenged!

[@zariballard]

He already did!!! At what point does a man become responsible for his own idiocy??? John needs to pay Paul and the guys back for every dime they helped him with so it can be better served somewhere else. This guy has too many screws loose and obviously can only think with the wrong head.🙄

[@tommygunn8355]

@@zariballard It's called (BIPS) Brain in penis syndrome! 🤣

[@jameswelch1054]

John, is a deadbeat dad, who can't even feed his own kids, let alone himself.

[@jetbisayaadventures1437]

Hi Paul and Baby Mae!! May the good day be upon you! You are the only one of the few with you who have shown humanity to your co citizen or your kind. People can learn from you in some good ways! Thank you even more because you are doing it in a country that a lot of people are helpless, in need and no where to go . I understand you can’t help everyone , but everyone need you for understanding being helpful person.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

You are so kind

[@MrSanguru]

Right - he helps his KZbin channel quite a bit. But nobody else, mark my words!

[@cdnmrspolitics]

@@MrSanguru Well in my neck of the woods, actions speak alot louder than your words - Both Mae and Paul are admirable for their service and help to these people. Period.

[@rickylee6129]

AGREED 👍

[@SuperSetright]

@@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234 The kids need Consular Record of Birth Abroad (CRBA) documents requested, processed, and approved at the USA embassy in the Philippines in order to have their USA citizenship established.

[@damoneymaker]

Your guys are good expats! Whether John took advantage of your kindness or not, you still helped a lot. Kudos to you and the other expats!

[@eugeniasicnaodugkem6386]

Mr. Paul I salute you for being so kind to people in need. May God bless you more. Keep up the good work.

[@ikarmic]

It's really wonderful that you and the others helped out John and his new family. I hope everything works out good for John.

[@erlindajohnson796]

Both kids can get SS benefit until they’re 18/19. Somebody needs to apply for it.

[@danielhackney7806]

@Erlinda Johnson, first thing John needs, is to do the paper work for the kids to get US citizenship. Get that out of the way first before he starts collecting his SS payments. He needs to show proof he's the father or those kids will never get a dime of SS support money.

[@chinadave2854]

Over the years i have found that the feeling I get from helping others is so fulfilling and shows the empathy I have for my fellow man! It's easy to point the finger and ridicule but that's not very fulfilling! So realize that others are seeing your empathy or lack thereof, and how do you want to be seen? Are you a problem creator or problem solver? There is a bunch of love out there so jump in any time! God bless y'all peace out brother

[@KiwiInPhilippines]

@CHINA Dave well said Sir. It's quite sad to me how many bitter and twisted individuals criticise and demean others empathy. I guess they were not loved enough themselves.

[@lesterbangs3417]

Well said, China Dave. If John decides to return to the States I suggest a good way to save money would be for Mark Thornton to step up to the plate and give him free passage on his cruise ship.

[@tommygunn8355]

This is an important cautionary tale for any expat. Sometimes people need tough love and to be called out on their stupidity. John is a grown man that is thinking with his penis. I have empathy and compassion in spades but I'm not going to sugar coat and live in fairy land. Better to be brutally honest with John than be an enabler!

[@joannasmith1640]

The guy groomed and slept with a teenager and made her pregnant! whaddayouwant to give him a medal? He should be in prison. One step away from being a full on nonce.

[@s.v.gadder1443]

I don't think he was under funded I think, "and I wanted to say this before" Honest opinion here; he is the type of person who would struggle tanking care of himself in America much less there, I don't honestly think he's very self sufficient, nor really able to self care which is vital to be a xpat.... I personally think had he been able to manage his funds he would have been fine on it. But 🤷‍♂️ I think this happens a lot, people get over there and have all this faith and wind up getting hung out to dry because they are nieve.

[@KoguryoKid]

Outstanding video....really appreciate you many efforts to present this story in a way we can learn from.

[@waynewilliams1421]

I will be keeping John in my prayers. I hope everything work out for him and his family.

[@jppd4059]

What about the child of Diana from a previous relationship?

[@manilamartin1001]

Man you put in a herculean effort for this man's family! You have a big heart, as well as many guys who contributed.

[@maxmontag2047]

George and Heidi, aka Philippine Antics Expat Help (George is Filipino and Heidi is an American, very nice couple) spoke with Diana and they are suspicious of the entire deal. This is one of their comments on that video: "She (Diana) is no longer responding to us. We offered him (John) money, diapers, and formula. Also video proceeds. John and she have refused OUR help. ONLY AFTER OUR VIDEO WAS help offered. Prior she said she had nothing from him. The whole group of them is up to something. He also has been offered other jobs but has not responded. It's been said they are under someone's control. Good luck to them. WE DON'T RECOMMEND ANY MORE HELP."

[@FriendaofGod]

You're such a good man @paul