Relationships in the Philippines /Diana Tells Her Side of the Story

[@Ron58ism]

Paul, you are an enabler.

[@paulinthephilippinesolddog9234]

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[@Ron58ism]

But you do great things for people. I’ll be moving to the Philippines in December 2024 and I’m really excited about that. Paul, your videos are preparing me for the move. I feel terrible for people like John but I don’t feel John has grasped the reasons for his financial issues and because of that I fear that history will repeat itself. It’s nice to help people up when they fall down but at some point they have to pull themselves up to get whatever it takes to survive. Thanks for everything you do Paul.

[@Behemoth66]

John is like a Gilligan from gilligan’s island

[@EddieGooler]

The real predators here are these sleezy old expats praying on those young poor girls. Borderline pedoes.

[@paulheye7551]

That's being nice rating him that smart.

[@GoTrippinwithLeo]

I don’t think I’ve ever seem a woman so unhappy. She can say what she wants but her face speaks volumes!

[@alamrafique6216]

This dude John is abandoning his family and heading out back to the USA for good! Diana can see this openly.

[@nyannyan123456]

@@alamrafique6216 I'm getting this vibe too. I hope we're wrong though. How any man can leave his family behind is beyond me. I was talking to a friend of mine in Japan whose sister got knocked up by an African American. I told him she should go after his ass to pay for the little girl's living expense. The Japanese family doesn't want to go through the hurdles, so this little girl will be fatherless and probably have a tough time growing up in Japan.

[@marcuswolf184]

4 decade age difference....this dude is on his way out of life. And she can see that. Now she knows she's fucked. This dude is selfish for stealing this girl's life away from her

[@Plough78]

​@@nyannyan123456 didn't have a lot of choice after they fleeced every cent he had of him.. *Crap Game*

[@curtisc7846]

Initially I thought the same thing, but after hearing her talk and previous videos, I think she is just in burnout. I've been there, it's difficult to smile or be happy

[@LegalAutomation]

An old guy comes to the Philippines, and tricked a young girl into thinking that he had money. Knocked her up, ran out of cash, and now has to return to the U.S. Not only should John have had more money and a source of income, he also should have gotten snipped before he started banging young girls without protection. I feel zero sympathy for this man. He left this poor girl in a worse position than before he met her.

[@nesq4104]

Lmao. Such is life. Well he can work on processing her usa citizenship papers so she can come to usa.

[@viquiben4919]

I totally agree. He's not the victim here. He has resources and the girl hasn't.

[@amandafurrow2338]

@Growseth Jones The point is he is not a victim. There is a reason this guy was rejected by American women. They noticed high risk in him.

[@briabuday9900]

Golden Rule in the Philippines: if you are older by 20 years or more to your Filipina(many cases of filipina=19 , foreigner= 65 to 79 years old), your money is a fair trade, at least $300 for her family per month is a good deal. You got a wife for sex, you got a maid to clean, to cook , to wash your clothes, iron your clothes ,free tour guide, you can stay permanently without hassle and most importantly you have protection in the community. Don't go to the Philippines and live like a King without enough resources, do these foreigners wash and iron their clothes? No they use the Filipina as Sex and Maid, Here is a perspective , in USA if you use a young blonde american as Sex, Cook, Cleaner , Wash your clothes, Iron your clothes, Tour guide, it will cost you $10,000 a month. Remember this every family member in the Philippines must help her/his family if she/he can.

[@markm4623]

He was rejected by American women because in America $30k ain’t a lot but in PH it is. Simple as that.

[@tommaricle1782]

Wow she is checked out. Just staring at the wall waiting for the interview to end.

[@exvan3571]

At least she resisted the urge to spit on him.

[@thomaslappin4599]

This is so depressing. I'm not going to comment further but this is sad

[@markhumphries921]

For the love of those two adorable babies I really hope this has a happy outcome, though I feel we have just started the 'real' journey. I have been following this from the outset & would like to thank Paul & all his ex pat buddies for their continued support to John, Diana & Family.

[@edwardmaasdam2615]

broke foreigner here also with 3 kids living in the philippines each man has its own story

[@anthonysawyer4079]

It's important that John takes care of Diana and the children. Everything else is secondary. If he can do that, then I can respect him. Take care of your family John! That's what a man does. Be the man that Paul and all the good people who've helped you and all of us who have watched your story want you to be. I want you to succeed and I want to respect you. Take care of your family John!

[@anthonysawyer4079]

@Growseth Jones It's good to take care of children that have no one else to take care of them whether they are his or not. It's not the children's fault if they have a deadbeat dad, which is sadly far too common in the Philippines

[@briabuday9900]

Golden Rule in the Philippines: if you are older by 20 years or more to your Filipina(many cases of filipina=19 , foreigner= 65 to 79 years old), your money is a fair trade, at least $300 for her family per month is a good deal. You got a wife for sex, you got a maid to clean, to cook , to wash your clothes, iron your clothes ,free tour guide, you can stay permanently without hassle and most importantly you have protection in the community. Don't go to the Philippines and live like a King without enough resources, do these foreigners wash and iron their clothes? No they use the Filipina as Sex and Maid, Here is a perspective , in USA if you use a young blonde american as Sex, Cook, Cleaner , Wash your clothes, Iron your clothes, Tour guide, it will cost you $10,000 a month. Remember this every family member in the Philippines must help her/his family if she/he can.

[@anthonysawyer4079]

@@briabuday9900 Amen! Well said!

[@xpusostomos]

John needs to take care of John before this sour faced girl. If that means continuing on this farce and trying to make a go if it, fine. But only if.

[@anthonysawyer4079]

@@xpusostomos John's behavior as discussed in this forum is that of a loser and a parasite who depends on the kindness of others to clean up his mistakes and take care of his responsibilities. Whatever your opinion of the girl may be, John is responsible for the children he helped bring into the world and therefore for supporting the mother who cares for the children

[@IkaUnaOmniGods]

I have binge-watched all the videos about John and felt sorry for what happened to him and his relationship with Diana. I am 101% Filipino and I can tell you, guys, that most but NOT all Filipinas who are looking to marry an older foreigner online, whether it's American, Canadian, or European, are expecting that the guy they will marry will be able to help them get out of poverty. So if you are a retiree from America or another western country and you want to get into a relationship with a younger Filipina, who you know from a poor family, you should be aware that your girl is expecting you to provide not only for her but also for her immediate family. If you fail to become a good provider for your girl, expect that in the coming days, lots of quarrels between you will happen to the point that you will feel like you are not wanted anymore by your girlfriend. Again, I am not saying that all Filipinas are like this, but this happens. A young Filipina girl would never marry a guy that is 40 or 50 years older than her if she knows the guy would never be able to give him a better life (IMO). And to John, I wish you all the best sir.

[@sluxi]

Nothing should be surprising about this really, except for the expectation that the whole family is taken care of and not just her and her children. In most western countries people aren't expected to take care and finance the life of their parents (at least not while they are still in good health) so it seems to come as a surprise to some who have not done their research when that is typically expected if not explicitly addressed in countries like the Philippines or Thailand.

[@tonycataluna1994]

No argument.

[@itsanewday5565]

Need to print this out and hang it in Manila Airport and make these ole dude read it before they leave get the passport stamp.

[@selby16]

TOATLLY AGREE WITH YOUR ANALYSIS , ALSO A LOT OF FILIPINOS ARE LAZY EVEN IF THEY WERE OFFERD A JOB THEY WOULD NOT WANT IT , THEY WOULD JUST WANT TO DO NOTHING AND EXPECT SOMEONE ELSE TO PROVIDE NOT ALL BUT A LOT DEFINATELY

[@EIPepe305]

You'd have to be pretty desperate to marry a Filipina that can't take care of herself.

[@clarklloyd4958]

I’ve followed this train wreck from the start. In beginning John spent a lot of his limited funds too fast in my opinion. He has to be better.

[@Ujara]

I'm really glad you made this video. It showed me how different Americans and Filipinos are. Apparently in the Phillipines, nobody, not even your girlfriend will tell you to save your money. She colluded with other people to get money from him to build a house and buy a truck which drained his account. Nobody told him to save his money for his future or his kids future. Now that he is broke, they are mad. They still have their hands out. They view American's as ATM's and they want money from him as he goes back to the USA. She even admitted it.

[@stephendunn2860]

Not true in my experience

[@chlamydiayourdaddyishere]

Not all families are like that family. Not all Filipinas are like this woman. We will never know the true story either.

[@AA-ge4uj]

Hear Hear.

[@mickymouze1224]

Definitely not all Filipinos are like this. His problem was chasing young girls he couldn't afford and not thinking of the consequences of getting her pregnant. If he had gone for a woman closer to his own age who wasn't dependant on a man supporting her he might've stood a chance.

[@blackgrandpa7652]

Thats universal my friend when you start a relationship with your money and you give the impression your rich once your money is done everyone will hate you worse if they have to see your face everyday...

[@robertburns3892]

My Heart bleeds for Diana...The sadness is written all over her face...16 months a long time with 2 young children...

[@joannasmith1640]

Don't worry she''ll have plenty of support now she's got people in her life who are willing to give it.

[@alberteinstein8959]

I still see a train wreck.... Best of luck to their "relationship"

[@nimo6972]

John, how would you feel if your twins gets pregnant buy a 58 year old forgein men when your your twins turn 18??

[@paulrbottse]

I am shocked by the story but also by the courage. Maybe we start with something small and temporary for Diana till John's promise kicks in. Some roof over her and the kids head. It does not have to be much listening to Paul. Maybe one of the supporters we trust can oversee this our effort. Support for 4 months comes to my mind.

[@FRUGALWITHJOHN]

I have no words or comprehension in this situation. I am only leaving a comment to help the video get promoted on KZbin, so people can learn what not to do. I think this video and the others videos about John will help others avoid similar situations.

[@JuanDiaz-jo1rw]

At the end of the day it doesn't matter what Filipinos think. You can be super rich, and just because you can be humble enough to help people from time to time, it doesn't mean you are going to take care of them. Any place you go In the world is the same thing. Even in the US. You help someone, and now they expect you to do favors all the time.

[@ananumatanu7621]

yep, sometimes its not worth the hassle of trying to find a relationship with them... Better of just having some fun and walk away....

[@JuanDiaz-jo1rw]

@@ananumatanu7621 true. I have a similar issue with my wife's family, but I know how to say no. I didn't come to the Philippines to be a Superhero nor to save anyone from their misery. I came to relax and have a good retirement. My neighbors don't even know who I am. They have seen me, but I don't talk to anyone. My wife respects me at least where she can tell her family to leave me alone.

[@ananumatanu7621]

@@JuanDiaz-jo1rw Well, that's good she's on your side then.. Yeah, I've been there and done that, and I can honestly say I'm liking the single life better; I can come and go when I please and if I ever-so want company, well it's not that hard to find and i can walk away...

[@HoneyLove77]

Not true! In Africa they do not expect you to take care of their village. Etc ONLY IN ASIA do these people do this. Mow the Eastern Europeans and South Americans do use these guys like the Philippines but not this who take care of the village crap! And these old men are selfish reproducing and leaving fatherless children!

[@Barolo818]

what a train wreck...a serious lesson for guys heading to the PH to get some young nookie....what was John thinking??

[@jeh1333]

This situation is a prime reason that I wouldn't get involved with living in a Barangay! Better to live in a condo or rent a place in a decent compound where there are professional people who have good educations and good jobs; people who are self-supporting and not sponging off me!

[@yolandelyle]

JEH that was one of the biggest mistakes John made,was to agree to build a house in a small Barangay,which is a slum. That is how these people behave,especially when a foreigner stays there!! WRONG MISTAKE,WRONG MOVE.

[@Chinoy_]

Well said. I think this fellow is not too Wise and chose Someone Unsuitable, you’re Right of all the Educated and Ordinary Responsible Filipino Girls with Jobs He had to go pick up this Woman ( I Think from a Squatter barangay hence they’ve got no separation of abode ) with a problematic life, questionable background and Family. Waiting to sponge off the first hapless fellow that comes along.

[@d9918]

But very little chance of scoring one of those types.

[@RG-hf4et]

Too many guys get sucked into "helping the family" in their quest to find romance. They want to hold on to a female then she cries the blues for her family and helping them. I don't blame her/them in a way. These people are desperate. And this "rich" foreigner comes along with more money than they will ever see in their lifetimes....And how many times have I heard on this channel the female wants to buy A business or buy some land to build A house for the 2 of them and later adds on "her family" is part of the package. You guys are suckers for this stuff!!!!! Why? For getting involved with a poor young lady who is so desperate to help her life that she resorts to being with a man she probably really doesn't love but is a meal ticket!

[@stan121midling5]

100% correct !!

[@ColinWillis-f7w]

Intelligence is learning from your mistakes, wisdom is learning from others! I'm getting a vasectomy next week 😉

[@edenhundsdoerfer7971]

It’s clear to me that both Diana and John lived in a squatter area that lacks hygiene and sanitation…that’s why the kids got very ill!!

[@martylyons8960]

She wants to go to the US too that's what she wanted but unfortunately John likes to live in the Philippines .

[@OldEnoughToBeYourFather]

Diana is really beautiful. She has beautiful lips. She could be a runway model in usa with just a tiny bit of dental work.

[@Ricobaca]

Or a 🍆 s👄cking, street walking bar fly. 🤔

[@kennyscarborough9374]

Regarding my previous comments,You CAN'T protect someone from themselves Paul,tho you're doing a great job trying! Bless you for your compassion!, Kenny S.

[@martinisgreatadventure720]

Thank God you helped . This is a blessed guy that needs to be in a institution for care. Not to be married and have three mouths to feed and two new babies. NO COMMON SENSE.

[@jeffros6739]

Geez..what a mess..that's one cold fish you caught there John.

[@joannasmith1640]

She's actually a really lovely girl with a soft heart, and a sweet way about her.

[@OlderThanSand]

Paul you're a very compassionate and benevolent guy and I admire you for that. With that said I'm glad to see what seemed to be a never ending train wreck come to an end. I doubt that John has the mental capacity or enough common sense to survive in the Philippines. I'm not even sure how he managed to get this far in life living in the US.

[@AA-ge4uj]

Imagine being able to plug a monitor into his head & see wot goes on inside a mind like that?

[@RG-hf4et]

Well, somehow he managed to buy a one way plane ticket to the PI !!

[@AA-ge4uj]

@@RG-hf4et Yeah but he was trying to get to California & got lost.

[@OlderThanSand]

@@RG-hf4et and obviously it was all downhill from there.

[@briabuday9900]

Golden Rule in the Philippines: if you are older by 20 years or more to your Filipina(many cases of filipina=19 , foreigner= 65 to 79 years old), your money is a fair trade, at least $300 for her family per month is a good deal. You got a wife for sex, you got a maid to clean, to cook , to wash your clothes, iron your clothes ,free tour guide, you can stay permanently without hassle and most importantly you have protection in the community. Don't go to the Philippines and live like a King without enough resources, do these foreigners wash and iron their clothes? No they use the Filipina as Sex and Maid, Here is a perspective , in USA if you use a young blonde american as Sex, Cook, Cleaner , Wash your clothes, Iron your clothes, Tour guide, it will cost you $10,000 a month. Remember this every family member in the Philippines must help her/his family if she/he can.

[@tedm4932]

My opinion , Godfather John met a girl with the wrong family background . Think how much better it would be with caring loving helping family !

[@Cleatus546]

Of course they have no respect for him. He not only cannot support her, he can't even support himself. She is embarrassed and ashamed. And it is apparent that she has no love for him. He is clueless. She was probably a minor when he hooked up with her. It's difficult to know her age, however I think she is very young. This is a bad situation all around.

[@frankokanlawon6405]

I'm not trying to be mean that lady acts like there is no love 💕 it's just escape root and even if I'm old guy that wants to date a younger woman she has to tick all my boxes.

[@fordilac]

Diana looks like a person forced to appear in court.

[@bonzotalonzo9072]

Teehe ☺

[@sixstax006]

Facts lol

[@claudesantolini6335]

He couldn't find a pretty girl!?! 🤣🤣🤣

[@GMDMD]

guessing they are probably paid to appear in these videos which get a lot of engagement.

[@Mexicobeanpole]

😂😂😂

[@JO-mg6xc]

Diana looks so in love with John. She’s so happy that she doesn’t smile and looks away, 😂 John, stop being delusional.

[@brucehuddler7518]

Diana will have another baby while John is in the States. He needs to brake away from this group otherwise his future is over.

[@Truth-fk3vp]

I wouldn't be happy either if Id just had twins to a no hoper .. imagine bringing up twins in a state of poverty . Bringing up twins would be a real handful . She needs to quickly go find some rich dude that will take her and the twins on .. there'd would be plenty of older bored lonely men who would love too I think ..

[@ForbinColossus]

Are you being SARCASTIC? She is revolted by John, as an teenager/20-something would be with a big talker who suddenly goes broke. He never should have gotten her pregnant! Outrageously irresponsible behavior. He is the educated one.

[@JO-mg6xc]

@@ForbinColossus of course I am sarcastic. She is just a poor woman who sold her body to an American loser

[@ForbinColossus]

@@JO-mg6xc Ah, sorry mate!

[@TheDisasterblaster]

John is a textbook example of how things can go wrong fast..irresponsible. Something tells me this has been an issue for John is whole life because this level of irresponsibility does not just come out of nowhere. 🤷‍♂

[@xpusostomos]

Probably, but things can go wronger faster in the Philippines

[@streetfreakpatrol240]

If things gone wrong in your life in your first world country then things are going to get a hell of a lot worse when you move to the PH!.

[@davidpalmer7175]

I agree. He does not come across as a strong, take-charge type. He seems to be a life-long doormat.

[@12yearssober]

He's an example of someone who has had a safety net all of his life most likely from his parents and now they are gone and he is learning life's lessons most of us have learned in our early 20's

[@govinda102000]

@@12yearssober Heck ya. Just doing customer service for 35 years, 300k in my 401 at age 60, paid for my bachelors and mortgage. Also returned every dime gifted from my parents. However I understand how addiction and mental issues at all levels can affect lives.

[@robertv.7924]

Older guys who retire in the Philippines should get a vasectomy before going there to avoid these kinds of problems.

[@reigninblood123]

What about guys like John who don’t have kids in the first place? They would leave no genetic lineage on this planet.

[@OlderThanSand]

@@reigninblood123 consider it a blessing to his potential offspring.

[@TheSlain1969]

@@reigninblood123 is that a must then? To leave a genetic lineage? Kids cost you a fortune from baby to adulthood, that’s a fact. Beter know that, before you go down that alley, right?

[@jayponetwothree7154]

@@reigninblood123 you say that like it’s a bad thing.

[@oreospeedwaggindoesamerica6078]

@@reigninblood123 maybe he shouldn’t leave any

[@therealbuehler5002]

Any money sent to Diana to that house will get taken. Paul needs to collect it front john and give to Diana directly

[@flinx649]

no...Paul has done enough.

[@Noname-fw7uo]

Agree, good idea and this will also allow Paul the liberty, and you know he will take it,to siphon some money as a “management fee.”

[@yorkiephil7744]

Why lumber Paul with that commitment and responsibility?

[@lowes891646]

I think Paul has done all he can do. Paul doesn't need to adopt John.

[@phil-be-health]

But when Diana gets back home with the money they will want a bunch of it from here.

[@quantomic1106]

John broke the first law which is not to live under the same roof with the in-laws. This rule is more relevant in the Philippines. I'm a Filipino, grew up in the PI, and one thing I'm not proud of about our culture is parents using their children as retirement plans. If you are the foreigner who married their child and share the same dwelling, YOU will be the retirement plan. Yes, I've seen foreigners who live with their in-laws happily but that's a very minute exception and most of the time the parents are already financially secured, educated, or have good-paying jobs like policemen, teachers, doctors, or run their own business.

[@billkeller3083]

Exactly

[@Cap_management]

So in a country with no retirement plans how do you suppose your parents to survive their old age with no income and no pension? Dont be selfish. Your parents spent their youth taking care of you and its your duty to take care of your elderly parents.

[@rocconasso6277]

You can see on her face she is not happy. If he takes her to usa once she is legal with all papers she is gone and he has the kids.

[@pj561]

It is very clear from her body language this girl has no love for this man. She never looks him eye to eye, shows any affection, and acts uncomfortable or irritated when he moves close to her. This is probably a very honest example of how young filipinas truly feel about the old men they partner with.

[@antoniohardaway6913]

Exactly there is no love just old men living out a fantasy.

[@mikeearly7099]

I agree with you She does not want to even be there

[@antoniohardaway6913]

@@NotYourChannel23 , John knew what he was getting into. He got what he deserved trying to be with a young girl. Now he wants to cry about it. Old $&& men always crying when the young girl use them for money. Did he really believe she loved him? He is a broke crybaby. These old men making videos acting as if these young girls love them please. You have to be crazy to believe these young girls love these old men. John stop crying and suck it up. Everyone knows the family wants the women to help if she has a foreigner. You’re no different from any other foreigner. When I hear about a old guy with a young girl I laugh if they speak about love. Money is what attracts these women. At any point you could have left this lady. No you stayed so you could blame her for being broke and useless. Keep crying KZbin viewers will send you donations. 🥲🥲🥲

[@antoniohardaway6913]

@@NotYourChannel23 , western women have kids from previous relationships too so are they using the men? John money has run out and he is crying. Stop trying to think with the little head. No happy endings with young girl and old man. Same old story every time. Old man crying young girl help spend his money. How about dating a young girl in the states. Oh I forgot they would never have you. You need a poverty stricken lady to be her King and save her with your low income social security check that if you receive that. Stop dealing with these damn pedophiles.

[@mri3384]

Thats a child guys. The perspectives shared here are heartless. This is a guy exploitng a young woman. These are people driven by their dicks until death, with no morals or ethics.

[@connoroleary591]

If you really love a young filipina, help them with their education, don't help them to get pregnant.

[@calebbonsu2447]

Thank you for this.....everyone in the comment putting all the blame on her...

[@Cj2o]

@@calebbonsu2447 Not sure about that... John is taking most of the blame. Diana herself deserves some of the blame, but John, being educated in a 1st world country, should have more brains than what he has displayed. His strokes must have fried whatever brain he once had, unfortunately.

[@anthonylane6121]

Oh Lord! This drama is just too much for me! Some couples should not have children.

[@strategicplayer7028]

Correct!

[@kennethboehnen271]

Most shouldn't. What's your point?

[@danilokabigting8403]

John didn't get a heart attack while making those babies!

[@GK-wx6xo]

you'd think she would have learned the first time.....

[@misutasutanto6312]

@@GK-wx6xo poverty minded is something else

[@antoniohardaway6913]

The price you pay with the young girls in the Philippines. Family bait to help everyone.

[@johnskisan]

I really don't think John is capable of very much. Very sad.

[@reigninblood123]

WTF?! Old dog “liked” this comment!

[@johntaylor4817]

Concerns me too. I wonder if he’ll be able to take care of himself in the U.S.

[@ernie7065]

Seems true so far

[@flinx649]

@@reigninblood123 it means he read it....no judgement on the reply by Paul.

[@biyongwuhan]

It's also possible that Old dog thanks him to comment, like thanks everybody commenting.

[@DannyB-cs9vx]

It was John's choice to get a young female pregnant. It was John's choice to build the house. It was John's choice not to work. It was John's choice to move in with the in-laws. John is not a victim. He is an accomplice. He had his own motives for everything he did. He needs to start owning his part. Man up, get a job and take care of the family you made.

[@larrylovejr4038]

Right ✅️

[@jayponetwothree7154]

You nailed it. Anyway John doesn’t have to worry, won’t be long before another chad will be in there while he’s gone adding number 3.

[@jewelinthedust]

Absolutely. He's the one who went over there and groomed a practical child. Should be locked up in my opinion.

[@chuckrobinson599]

You haven't watched all the videos. He man's up on occasion.

[@DannyB-cs9vx]

@@chuckrobinson599 Saying and doing are different things. I need to support my family,. can someone pay our rent and give us food and medical? Once his kids are declared U.S. citizens, The taxpayers Stateside will be paying for their benefits.

[@onestarflag9876]

This lady will be online before he hits the tarmac. Rinse and Repeat Gents, avoid the baby trap at all cost.(unless that's YOUR PLAN) Lots to learn from these videos, thanks a bunch from Texas.

[@mikebingham976]

Respect Paul for stepping up and DOING something, no matter the results. Hoping for the best !

[@scottward1002]

Paul needs to suggest to John that he take those twins DNA to America and get the DNA tested independently over there Should do that before he has any doctor in the Philippines teach their DNA do his own research

[@briabuday9900]

Golden Rule in the Philippines: if you are older by 20 years or more to your Filipina(many cases of filipina=19 , foreigner= 65 to 79 years old), your money is a fair trade, at least $300 for her family per month is a good deal. You got a wife for sex, you got a maid to clean, to cook , to wash your clothes, iron your clothes ,free tour guide, you can stay permanently without hassle and most importantly you have protection in the community. Don't go to the Philippines and live like a King without enough resources, do these foreigners wash and iron their clothes? No they use the Filipina as Sex and Maid, Here is a perspective , in USA if you use a young blonde american as Sex, Cook, Cleaner , Wash your clothes, Iron your clothes, Tour guide, it will cost you $10,000 a month. Remember this every family member in the Philippines must help her/his family if she/he can.

[@edithaheinitz6591]

Diana looks very unhappy and unattached..the man is obviously a loser and the poor kids are at the losing end..no future ahead for them. So unfortunate situation.

[@briabuday9900]

@@edithaheinitz6591 , of course she scammed by the western old dude, this is crime

[@briabuday9900]

the reckoning day is coming fast for this kind of exploitation of young filipinas

[@OhTheGeekness]

John strikes me as an utter fool. A 58 year old man moves to the Philippines with 30k and no revenue stream and thinks this is a good idea? How much calculation does it take to figure out that saving 5k a year for 4 more years and moving with 50k and a SS check makes more sense? Then he meets a 19 year old girl that is desperate to escape the slum in which she lives and he takes advantage of her and impregnates her even though he has no ability to support himself much less her and children. If I were her family I would hate him as well.

[@Ricobaca]

He had enough money to support them both. The thing is, he gave it all away. Building a house he can never own. Buying a truck for her brother. Such and so forth.

[@Takaride]

How he got into a serious relationship with a girl he can't properly communicate with is beyond me.

[@clownpocket]

Didn’t he propose to her before he even met her?

[@RG-hf4et]

I think John fell in love with the idea of love........ Diane fell in love with the idea of money/security/upgrading her life & having someone to take care of her, her other child & her family- a sugar daddy...... This is not a "real relationship"..... The whole thing is sad.

[@Ocean-in-Motion]

It was not a serious relationship, what kind of conversation is between 60 years old foreigner with a 20 years old girl from provinces? Spending money from John to get laid with a young girl meanwhile shit hits the fan, she got pregnant with twins and he ran out of money.

[@wr1120]

@@RG-hf4et I completely agree but I don't blame any one of them. It's just not the best of ideas to settle down in a foreign country without having your stuff together.

[@RG-hf4et]

@@wr1120 Exactly. John was not prepared & moved to the PI without having his act together AND not doing enough research.

[@leroypauley3836]

I believe you have the right to live your life the way you want and no one has the right to tell you how to live. If you are 60 years old and want to retire in the Philippines with a 18 year old girl that’s your business. But be responsible and get a dam snip snip and don’t bring kids in to the situation.

[@Takaride]

Definitely very irresponsible of them to bring babies into it all.

[@RG-hf4et]

Vasectomies are quick and the plumbing works the same, guys!!

[@briabuday9900]

Golden Rule in the Philippines: if you are older by 20 years or more to your Filipina(many cases of filipina=19 , foreigner= 65 to 79 years old), your money is a fair trade, at least $300 for her family per month is a good deal. You got a wife for sex, you got a maid to clean, to cook , to wash your clothes, iron your clothes ,free tour guide, you can stay permanently without hassle and most importantly you have protection in the community. Don't go to the Philippines and live like a King without enough resources, do these foreigners wash and iron their clothes? No they use the Filipina as Sex and Maid, Here is a perspective , in USA if you use a young blonde american as Sex, Cook, Cleaner , Wash your clothes, Iron your clothes, Tour guide, it will cost you $10,000 a month. Remember this every family member in the Philippines must help her/his family if she/he can.

[@xpusostomos]

It would be iresponsable to marry an 18yo and NOT give her kids

[@RG-hf4et]

@@xpusostomos Omg, what a f'd up irresponsible chauvinistic attitude. Your "seed" ain't that special, honey!!

[@superdave1921]

Paul, thanks for the update. Diana could care less about this idiot. He’s drooling all over himself thinking that he hit the jackpot. She doesn’t look happy at all, probably thinking that she’s made a major mistake! Both need to just move along with their lives. He would like to marry her not the entire village. They both need to cut their losses and move along with life.

[@dglvr58]

Gosh! Wake up John! She is OBVIOUSLY not in this relationship because of love! And that money you’ll be sending her is NOT ONLY for her and babies , but for the whole community! How dense are you?

[@AidaJof]

Oh My God ... I am glad that Diana is not pregnant again, but I feel her predicament. She'll be alone with the babies whether in the barangay or in the city, but in the barangay she'll be expected to share in the money she'll be getting for the babies ... I feel really bad for her especially because her family only expects money from her and they will not help with the babies. Her family is family in name only

[@RatFink-nr5td]

Sadly, I feel she will be in the same situation 3 - 4 months after he leaves. Another baby on the way. And, I predict she will be back in the barancay immediately.

[@hermitbob7304]

she won't be getting any money from John but the family will THINK he's sending it and she's holding back. I do feel sorry for her.

[@downshift4503]

I've watched the whole saga from John's first interview. I get it that the boys over there are trying to be decent by rescuing the bloke.... but eventually patience will wear thin. I speak from experience of bailing people out..... John appears from the very start to be extremely gullible and lacking emotional intelligence. It's almost like he's lived with his own parents until recently and just breaking into adult life. His desire for a "girl" led to him getting rinsed out (move in, pay for a house, share resources), but not all going to plan (from Diana and her families perspective) when she gets pregnant. He said it himself that no-one was happy throughout the pregnancy except him... and they are even less happy to discover that he doesn't have a Federal Reserve account after all. It's blindly obvious, even in the interview, she's not bothered about him.... at all. More red flags than a chinese communist parade. He's not a victim, nor is she .... only those children are victims. Whether the babies are "beautiful" (as per the comments) or not is besides the point. They didn't consent to being brought into the world and they've inherited all this crap. Even if John could erase the past, he'd do it again.... and again. He'll be in love with the next barely adult "girl" he claps eyes on.

[@ananumatanu7621]

Well, you can't exactly change history, cause what is done is done... I mean, i kind of agree with you, as i think John has been blanketed most of he's life and since he moved to the Philippines, he has learnt the hard way and probably for the first time in he's life, but who knows; i could be wrong... But all in all, John and Diana are both responsible for all of this, regardless who might be older or more wiser; it doesn't take Einstein to figure out whats going to happen... They just need to take accountability for their actions and deal with it.

[@downshift4503]

@@ananumatanu7621 Yeah sure, he has done it before (barely adult girl, married her, got rinsed out). but managed to effectively erase the past (divorced). Learned nothing. What I'd call success at this point, as you say accountability / deal with it would be open honesty from Diana about the status quo on the relationship, acceptance from John that he has two children to support for many years. Lucky for him it seems US social security provides a surplus for children which he could funnel straight to her and hey presto he is bailed out by the US Government. Being an involved Father would be even better..... but the relationship? it's a load of rubbish.

[@ananumatanu7621]

@@downshift4503 i agree, completely.. I mean the relationship part of it; I can't comment much on....

[@desert4seat]

100% His thirst for a girlfriend almost killed him. Easy trap to fall in to for some guys.

[@RK-db4oq]

Not sure I agree with the detailed analysis, but do agree 1. this John guy seems to have very little emotional and intellectual maturity (certainly not enough to be a father), and 2. the girl has zero interest in him as a husband/man--she will immediately dump him if anything better comes along (and I would not blame her).

[@HorseSaddleRider]

When the golden goose stops laying the dollar eggs....... Jeez this is like watching a couple of 10 year olds playing mummies and daddies. For the sake of those children, I hope things work out when John returns with the golden goose back to its factory settings.

[@stevew3196]

This just goes from bad to worse and I'm afraid to say John DID play a part. You asked "Some guys go into the province and be the big shot?" Despite the fact he said no actually he did. HE BUILT A HOUSE. To him he spent virtually all his money on that house. To them it's like Christmas "Hey this guy can afford to build this nice house he'll have no problem supporting us we hit the jackpot." Seems to me like Diana and those babies may be being weaponised. Like you I'm shocked by the attitude of the family. Those babies had nothing to do with any of this. I note the topic of Marriage was nentioned

[@davidboskett5581]

From my understanding he did not build a house -he just added a second level to an existing one,.He was foolish but he probably thought it saved paying rent and didnt he get sucked into investing in a truck with the wife's brother that was going to provide them with an income.John is obviously not very bright but that goes for many men who arrive at the age of 60 with no savings. In PI all foreigners are considered tp be rich and they are compared to PI wages.John and Diane could live quite nicely on his social security payments

[@YourFreeBeats]

Also, let’s remember there are always two sides to the story. I just go back to the fact, if it’s that miserable there, why not bring she and the kids back to the US? What am I missing? People do this all the time.

[@peter-pg5yc]

@@davidboskett5581 but as an foreigner he will never own it..

[@davidboskett5581]

@@peter-pg5yc Granted but his children will benefit even if his relationship with Diana ends.A lot of ex-pats in PI build houses sometimes very expensive ones but they have no legal right to part own with their wife as foreigners are not allowed to own land although I think you buy a condominium. However they all know this but what does it matter -most relationships are stable.Its a risk they take

[@Iworkwithnitwits]

He came to the Phillipines with only 30k to his name and to them he is a rich guy. Don't put all your eggs into one basket.

[@travelgo3720]

Calling you selfish is a shaming tactic. Don't fall for it. A responsible person will take ownership for their own life not blame others. I dated a filipina, it seems to be common in that culture.

[@chrisg6091]

Forgive me for saying this but Diana doesnt seem well educated or particularly bright. In her culture a 'rich' foriegner partner brings prestige & an uplift out of grinding poverty. John's pragmafic step of moving in with inlaws made her lose face & dragged her back into the cesspit of barangay life. Best move was getting him back to work in the US so the two of them can begin to extricate from relatives/barangay.

[@EssentialActs]

They won't see how much you've given them. You're always slefish in their eyes. The nature of takers.

[@markbeale7390]

​@@EssentialActsYou are SO right ✅️.

[@jeromehenry4484]

Watch out Paul, Baby Mae was lit up with the twins in her arms! Twins look healthier than I thought they would, just need to keep them away from smokers. Maybe you can get Baby Mae to translate what you said about Social Security & DNA Test back into Diana's native language, so she will understand better. Since John has already had a stroke, there is a strong possibility of having a 2nd stroke, which will price John out of Life Insurance coverage. Once the children are set up on the Social Security system then they will be eligible for survivor's benefits, a great help for Diana to raise the twins.

[@asdfgh123lkjhgf]

If I was John I'd be sweating anytime I was in the Barangay knowing that "they" knew about something called Survivors benefits! ("So what your saying is if John happens to die for whatever reason we get more money, right??"...)

[@tryscience]

one way to express the situation to Diana, regarding DNA proof of parentage. Tell her some Americans might try to scam the system by saying they fathered 3 children, to get more money from Social Security, when they fathered none. This way, the government does the test and knows the truth. The U.S. Government can't rely on what people say, they have to verify before increasing the Social Security amount. It is not at all a criticism of Diana.

[@hotferret]

Good Advice....the DNA test is a must...for many reasons

[@garyzies3486]

@@asdfgh123lkjhgf That's the kind of thinking that happens more often than you'd think...If they find out, John will be a dead man walking.

[@NoQuMataVuVale]

isn't she only 19? And she has a 4 yr old? So she had her first kid at 15? Then getting pregnant by a foreigner who is old enough to be her dad? I don't understand why Paul and John seem perplexed by all this? Hope this situation works out for the young lady and babies involved

[@ateela15]

Exactly. The entire family doesn't seem to make great decisions from top to bottom. Most likely the pillow talk worked because of his lack of experience wih women.

[@Cj2o]

Paul isn't perplexed, John is.

[@kevinsoundmixer]

Oh boy.. it's kinda sounding a little like a Filipino episode of Maury Povich 😣 But I'm hoping the best for these folks... God bless y'all.

[@kevincurry4254]

What a nasty situation all around. Neither one of them is any prize, but John is not owning his choices.

[@raymond83444]

Not to be negative I just hope the kids do come back as his kid's cause we all seen crazy DNA out comes

[@wanderingbrit9292]

I won't get in to what's what here. But I have a feeling she wants a condo, a laptop and an allowance, if he comes back, maybe nothing left for him, sounds hard but it's a reality here.... Some times hard desicions have to be made

[@paulrg1]

Hi Paul, You need Baby Mae as translator to help this interview. Some slang words you use confuses his girlfriend. ✌️

[@esveeflowers1177]

The DNA is a no brainer. At first glance, the babies don’t seem to have John’s physical appearance attributes.

[@dennishowe565]

Going on KZbin and speaking poorly about her family/community to defend Jon might not be in her best interest for the next year/15 months 😳

[@Maremare680]

I don’t think she’s doing it from her heart. I think she’s playing to convince John and everyone who watches this, so they keep supporting her with money. Money that will ended up spent on her family .

[@jasonwill5949]

An intelligent comment unlike others

[@trainrecked]

truth hurts sometimes..but from the sound of things (her family) doesn't give much of a rip about any of them

[@MichaelBuck]

Yes, I questioned this as well. Is Diane going to live in the Barangay for the next 18 months, if so, thats not going to be healthy or conducive for the Babies or Diane. Obviously Dianne knows its not a good life there. She is going to be alone in the Barangay and upstairs with the babies is going to be very difficult for her. Also, the Barangay will be pressuring Diane because she has money from her rich boyfriend.

[@1stAmendmentVetran]

Not for Diana's. But real drama for us readers.

[@andrewkemp_]

This guy is so gullible and got rinsed for every penny he had. She looks so young as well, the relationship is so creepy.

[@our_phi_life6635]

I’m not sure what to make of this. I feel so bad for everyone involved. Hard to tell where the real truth is

[@reigninblood123]

“A different person in the burungay”. I take that to mean she sides with her family against John when they’re there.

[@Maremare680]

She’s playing the victim here. She and her family only want the money these guys can provide for them.

[@jemmrich]

@@reigninblood123 How I am interpreting it is that, because she's young, the whole family is overbearing and she doesn't yet have her own voice in the family or the ability to standup for her own decisions. So it's easy for them to control her and push her around. If anyone has had friends or family like that, it can be really difficult to manage those situations and often can beat you down to the point you make emotional decisions rather than logical ones. Almost like questioning your own sanity or decision making. Personally I think it's safe to say that what she is like outside of the burungay is her natural state and she's better off not going back for any extended time.

[@roybrady8434]

The truth is always somewhere in the middle there’s three sides to every story yours mine and the truth.. I’m not accusing anyone of lying but human nature we all have our own perspective of what happens

[@frankellis9627]

The real truth is I don't think she really cares much for John. Her body language and facial expressions are very telling. I call it the way I see it. This is one messed up situation. I would not like to be in his shoes believe me 😎

[@KevinVanRooyen-ik1pr]

Thanks for everything you put together Paul ❤ you reminds me of Paul in the Bible. You are doing good work. Surely God will reward you brother. I solute you" be strong my brother ❤

[@DesertVox]

Acting like Bill Gates when you're eligible for a cardboard tent in the streets of LA is what started this whole rollercoaster. A course in financial responsibility and management is mandatory before he sets foot back in the Philippines. He can then restore his self-image and self-respect as he works his way to stability and raise these kids and proves that he is capable of learning from his mistakes.

[@kennethboehnen271]

Many men have several more kids that they simply abandon. So, yes, he needs to wise up, but at least he's manning up to provide for his family, which is more than many men do. Hopefully, he'll get a vasectomy as well.

[@downshift4503]

If he's not discovered that by age 60 he never will. I've known a few characters like this and come to accept they don't change no matter how much advice you offer. They just go from one disaster to the next.

[@DannyB-cs9vx]

Not sure his Social security will meet the needs of a family of 4 even in the Philippines. John may need a skill to earn more income in PI. It would be good for the wife to develop a skill as well. The children will grow, and John will not be around forever.

[@tryscience]

try to cut him a little slack... not only was he in an unfamiliar culture, but he endured a stroke at the same time ! A bit tough to think clearly, when your neurons are struggling to survive. It's easy to play armchair quarterback, not so easy to magically understand all the nuances of Barangay culture, without having experienced it before.

[@superdave1921]

Unfortunately that’s not going to happen. John doesn’t have the mental capabilities to put his life back together, let alone hers in a serious relationship. It’s a failed proposition!

[@carymartz8762]

She is cold and calculated like her family. It's not her fault, is how she was raised.

[@michaeltamares7974]

And he stupid too

[@Flat_Earth_Addy]

It's her fault.

[@YourFreeBeats]

It seems like Diana was paid to do this interview (which is fine) as she has NO interest in speaking with you. I was assuming she would get on here and “tell her side” but instead she appeared like she didn’t want to talk at all.

[@DrDlane]

I wouldn't send her a dime while she is still in the village. They will take the money from her and she won't put up a fight about it because she wants to be loved and accepted by her family, which will happen if she coughs up all the money. Also, if John built the house and put it in her name, she should kick the ungrateful freeloaders out or sell the house and move back to a small apt in town until John returns.

[@Terrie-W]

He has messed up this girls life. Knocking her up with 2 kids at such a young age. And on top of that he hasn’t even married her. I see why her family is pissed. They didn’t ask to have 2 more mouths to feed. Diana looks so sad. Him being as old as he is should have used rubbers or something. Yes he is selfish.

[@johnmartin7158]

Sad situation all round for sure. You’re on the back foot for sure if the family aren’t keen on you.

[@dajewel1982]

They both had a hand in this. That whole family conspired to pump him for money. Also , just looking at her , you can tell that she is a lady of the streets.

[@johnmartin7158]

@@dajewel1982 Lady of the streets is not a very nice comment. But indeed John is a kinda stupid and simple, I’ll agree. But John and John alone is the author of his own misfortune.

[@d9918]

When DNA is mentioned she certainly has a worried look on her face.

[@puppy6646]

Kids do not look half white at all. Their eyes are black.

[@howardyeo1964]

Wow! Marry a Philippine girl means marry her whole family!

[@poseypapusdiazfamily4630]

Nooo thanks, will pass

[@davidgabrie1302]

Don’t have kids if you can’t afford them, not feeling sorry for them!

[@brianchase9251]

Wow! I've never seen a more unhappy looking female. Poor kid.

[@BryanBloom]

The age difference is so sketchy. Why she would want to be with a guy his age with his issues is beyond me. Why he wants to be with a child is beyond me. Scary... gross

[@chrisregister9380]

I don’t see John getting a job, he will be living at the Salvation Army and eating stale bread for 18 months

[@francdabanc2986]

A sobering possibility.

[@Justin_Time_Delivery]

​@Franc Da Banc there was already an update he got a Job the week he returned to America.

[@donaldvass9397]

Diana's face betrays everything she feels - wearied, depressed, sad and miserable towards this whole relationship. She smiles slightly when the babies are near, but her mind seems overwhelmed by despair. Perhaps there is some sincere love struggling far below the surface, but it's not enough to buoy her strength. My heart goes out to her more than anyone else. It was not her responsibility to orchestrate how this teaming up should play out and be managed - it was entirely John's responsibility when he asked her to marry him. However, it becomes more and more evident that he didn't give much foresight to his plans, and now he is reaping the rewards. He needs to do some serious introspection when in the US, and work like he's never worked before, if he intends to rectify this nearly doomed episode of his life. Paul has been an utterly life-saving friend for John in his unequivocal acceptance, tolerance, charity and encouragement. Paul has done as much as anyone could do in his situation - thank you for a sobering yet inspiring series!

[@BearInThePhillipines]

You read her perfect

[@rickoleary9975]

Here is a chance to help make a difference in the world . No one is perfect and we are all continuing to learn. With the help of many John and Diana can win. Better than singing in church how much we love.

[@dr1verman]

Diana is stuck between a rock and a hard place, thought she had struck it big with an American. All that glitters is not Gold.

[@johncarlson6472]

I see two possibilities: (1.) Diana thought John was a financial "meal ticket" and found him repulsive when he blew through his money. (2.) Diana was genuinely enamored with him (in the beginning), but found him repulsive when he blew through his money. One thing I like about good Filipinas is they actually want a masculine man who's got a solid plan, good financial acumen and will take charge...as opposed to a clueless guy with no direction and financial discipline to budget correctly. It'll be interesting to see what John does when he gets back to the States.

[@donaldvass9397]

@@rickoleary9975 Truly said; though how much better for Diana's hope if John himself were the one who by his own efforts made the difference in her world - as I'm sure she dearly wished from the start. Fortunately, he is given now a second chance, thanks to the "many" you speak of. Time will tell if that push will be enough for him to find stability again.

[@loulou55...]

The series of videos about John & Dianas Story should be shared in all YT channels about the Philippines. it's an example and cumulation of everything can go wrong when you settle here, go into relationship, make babies, get ill and much more, without stable income. I dont judge I only take notice. Guys.... if you want to have a good relationship & life with a Filipina use your brain... that's the part on top of you, not below the waist line...!!

[@gus2600]

I agree .This is nothing but a story of the culture of the Philippines playing out it real life !

[@HunterMann]

I agree, but it needs to be edited down to about three minutes. This gets very repetitive, yes we’ve heard about the neighbor‘s begging yes we’ve heard about the mother yes we hear how he got himself into the situation in the beginning, all of that needs to be condensed, this just drags out an hour plus the audio really needs adjusting on this. Paul is doing a great job with this and has what seems like a very educated approach to counseling, but a simple thing like sound could be greatly improved if he invested in a couple of $40 clip on microphones. Since Paul is a KZbin video maker, it would make sense to have the right microphones, also hanging a sheet or blanket on a couple of chairs behind the camera will reduce a lot of the echo. The stuff is seriously not rocket science

[@kamaruzamanahmadnor7653]

Lol

[@tingtong8781]

Loulou555, you find cases like this throughout SE Asia. The real unfortunate thing here is the fact that children are involved. I hope that I am wrong, but I don’t see there being a happy ending.

[@Thismamabear]

This can happen in Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, etc. The girls there grow up in poverty and the last thing they are thinking about is finding love. They are trying to survive and looking for someone with lots of money or a lot to offer them.

[@michaellukehart4276]

I have been watching this from the beginning...Paul You are Amazing...Everything that you have done financially..Organizing..ETC... It's a very SAD SITUATION... MY Problem is that I dont ever recall him ever thanking you for all that you and all the others have done...Basically have saved his life... I'm Sorry.. but I am not sure that John can do life without someone monitoring him...Handling the finances....I'm not trying to be Negative...I am just afraid that he needs more than just money... Thank You Paul..Reekay...and everyone else that has been helping him...PRAYERS for All...Especially those 2 little Babies.💔💔

[@Chinoy_]

Have to be compassionate, because not Everyone can be smart.

[@rickylee6129]

Not trying to defend John however, he did thank Paul and the support/reinforcement team in a earlier video.

[@lifeuncommon1116]

I’ll correct you on that… he did say thank you in one of Paul’s videos. He was very thankful in fact.

[@johnmartin7158]

You wrote a good post Michael. I presume John brought these babies or at least helped to bring them into the world. Old men & young Filipina kinda upsets me to see. But the reality is in a poverty stricken country this happens. I accept that to a degree. But what I don’t accept is the mess that John has created and this poor young girl is now in this predicament. To imply all this is the extended families problem is beyond the pale with me, Michael. This is squarely on John & John alone. Regards. NZ

[@erlindakahn2831]

Michael Lukehart I did not hear John or Diana uttered Thank you to Paul, Reekay, Jim and the group who helped him financially. Thank you for Baby Mae for taking care of the babies while the interview was going on. Thank you Paul Mc Gill, Reekay (Life Beyond the Sea), Jim and the rest of the generous group. Bless you more!

[@garrywai133]

Paul , u did a good video about John's life in the Philippines. I thought retirement in Philippines is simple but it turns out to be more complicated than I thought originally. Now, I have to cancel my retirement plan in Philippines, thank you Paul for bringing viewers to the actual situation on the ground . God bless you for returning John to the USA .

[@puppylove3781]

Wai the change of heart? ;)

[@bryanfuentes1452]

smart decision...some foreigners need to experience stuufs before they learn though

[@verreal]

I wouldn't change my mind based on one video, but for sure you need to be prepared if you relocate internationally. Have a backup plan, too.

[@victoriar9728]

LOL, retirement IS complicated. I do not know where these Werstern men got the idea that is is easy to go to Asia, get a young woman, have babies... without first understanding the culture ! SMH

[@HoneyLove77]

​@@victoriar9728And they are OLD SO THEY ARE LEAVING THESE KIDS TO BE FATHERLESS. SO SELFISH!

[@jaygeebk7755]

I think this will work out fine. When John gets back after 16 months he will have 4 kids that are his 😂

[@keljaz6616]

... dayum! you wrong for dat...😄

[@djglobetrotter7635]

Dfl

[@GizmoMaltese]

One of them Black (Movie: Me, Myself, and Irene)

[@WhitePOWERranger1]

I’m going to hell for laughing at this.

[@ItsMe-wm4mc]

John your standards are very low. Sorry to be honest here but you gave up all your money to her and her family...she definitely isn't worth it. Even I know their customs are they feel the Farang should support the family. Guarantee she put in her false tooth and was with another Farang once he left.

[@ellvtv2314]

John is still smoking after recently having a stroke? Genius!

[@ananumatanu7621]

He seems pretty proud too

[@felicitycooke3610]

It’s a real sad 😞 situation, Dianna looks so sad 😞

[@dsonyay]

Oh course she is! Of all the Americans to latch onto, she latches onto one that is as poor as her

[@WhitePOWERranger1]

Her eyes are in different zip codes.

[@briannicoll193]

Thank you Paul and Baby Mae for hosting this video. Like a car wreck, it was difficult to watch but an important example for foreigners to understand and learn from. Dumaguete ain't no Mayberry.

[@byronthayer8990]

Paul, your a great guy for helping out, but when will it end? You need to read a book about enabling!!!

[@melanieparis8697]

Yep I agree, John is a deep pit of endless hopelessness…..

[@beverleyabrown488]

Rubbish!!! This will work out fine for John. He just needs to get Diane out of the Baranga, into a flat of her own and get a good job to send money back to her for the babies.

[@NYCCamper]

It's funny I've seen some of this in the US. You meet someone who has less money than you and somehow they look at you like rich. Then you're cheep if you don't pay for everything.

[@alanedgar5146]

My heart I'd broken for this poor guy John it's very clear looking at her she has no love for John

[@saigoneze4465]

lol your JUST like him aint you😊

[@finspiration2666]

John's not going to work his way to financial support or for his family, he said multiple times he's "going for the rubber stamp" to collect SS funds. He never agreed to work for this family. He's going to have his hand out, just in the US.

[@Ujara]

That's exactly what I'm afraid of. The Baranguy will get his SS check, he's too weak minded to keep it in his bank.

[@rhemi553]

I've lived here in the Philippines since 2009 and have seen many people who been forced to the streets to beg for food by their family... I know this for a fact because my wife gets up 4am every Sunday to prepare chicken and rice and water tubes to distribute to four groups who lineup as follows... line 1 are widows... line 2 are street kids... line 3 are mom's with kids... line 4 are men (most of whom are drug addicts or alcoholics) and if any food is left over we give the remaining food and water to the mentally ill and drug addicts who are huddled up along the sidewalks and park pagodas. Because of this weekly experience with my wife for over a decade... I'm mystified why vloggers here on KZbin are seemingly unaware of the reality of life here in the Philippines. So this young lady's claim of how her family is treating her is not unusual... and she is lucky she has found someone to give her money for food... because hundreds if not thousands of Filipinos are routinely mistreated or abandoned by their families nationwide for being a financial burden to their family... so hopefully this man will continue to send money to his wife while he is in the USA... because if not... she could easily end up on the streets begging for food and end in food lines along with many others.

[@AA-ge4uj]

Been here since 2012, tried wot yor doin, didnt see much in the way of gratitude so started rescuing abandoned kittens & cats. In a place where they can barely afford to feed themselves, only a mental defective would take on a pet & then condemn it to a life of misery & desperation. 40 plus cats now & neva looked back. The animals show heaps more gratitude & we neva hav to listen to any aditional whining.

[@bonzotalonzo9072]

@@AA-ge4uj 👍

[@BearInThePhillipines]

God continue to use you and strengthen your wife

[@AA-ge4uj]

@@BearInThePhillipines I'm blessed that she loves them just as much as I do Otherwise it wouldnt b possible. She lived in my country 28yrs & so developed a different understanding than the local local.

[@BearInThePhillipines]

@@AA-ge4uj God bless you both

[@CarlWithACamera]

Here's an interview question: what was your life before you met John? And question to John: why did you choose this girl? Even if (big if) there's nothing inherently wrong with her, she comes from a crap situation. You say it's not your fault the way they treat you, but it is your fault you choose to get involved with her, and by association, them. So, again we ask, whose fault?

[@RG-hf4et]

John is more at fault here, imho...... John is older & wiser. Diane is too young, barely experienced with any kind of normal life - basically a young girl, who is destitute and can barely feed herself and 1 child. Now she has 3 mouths to feed, a family that doesn't want to help her, no money, no man, no nothing, no help...... Smh......

[@robheb1355]

I’ve seen lots of Filipino women English is better then mine Beautiful friendly. So where did you find her?

[@CarlWithACamera]

@@robheb1355 who are you asking? About finding whom?

[@dennisraible4177]

I’ve been watching this unfold since the first video. At first I thought this poor guy is a victim and I was glad to see you step in. Now I believe you have created a video of WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN YOU MOVE TO THE PHILIPPINES. This guy thought he’d find love and happiness on a small budget and refuses believe he’s been scammed. This guy is a mark. Shame there’s innocent children involved.

[@chrism4008]

If he was a mark she would have moved on to a different one when he ran out of money. This is a 2 year saga

[@misutasutanto6312]

@@chrism4008 it's not that easy for her to move on like that..... look at her....c'mon man... no man is going to want a broke Filipina with three children

[@chrism4008]

@@misutasutanto6312 i think you severely underestimate the power of simpery in the world these days. I think if she wanted to she could almost certainly find another expat

[@RG-hf4et]

@@chrism4008 Maybe she should find another ex-pat!!

[@Iworkwithnitwits]

No one probably looked twice at him back home but once in the Phillipines they made him feel like Brad Pitt. He was definitely an easy mark.

[@danhan101]

All of a sudden John drops the "stroke-halfwit' routine. And of course, he can blame everyone else. He will use his own children to play people. The more I see of this guy, the more I wouldn't trust him. In Spanish, John is 'Tonto, pero no tanto'. John is Silly but not stupid. He plays the fool.

[@mtsutphin3468]

It’s John’s responsibility to set boundaries on money. The family may not understand. I help my Thai fiancé’s family out, but I introduced them to the concept of “very few foreigners are rich” right away.

[@EIPepe305]

I'd just ditch her and find a new with all her teeth. You can tell Diana is full of crap and is juicing him just like the whole village is.

[@ateela15]

Lmao, I do the same. I never give out money without serious reasons. Have to maintain clear financial goals and stick to it for the future.

[@AA-ge4uj]

I pray that the 2 guys waiting at the other end to collect him from the airport are wearing white Lab Coats.

[@Falconcat63]

Exactly

[@krungthepper1370]

Watch her face throughout the video. She has complete contempt and hatred when she looks at him. He's nothing but a nuisance to her now that the money is gone.

[@roustabout4fun]

I really hope the .2 is better and not worse~ I get such a stubborn vibe from her and hope that I'm wrong as I can be often.

[@johnmurray7557]

OMG Paul..you can only do so much...enjoy your retirement and run as far as you can from this debacle!!!!

[@eddiesaninocencio7486]

I experienced that myself, I helped her family a few times, however it seems that the demanding is getting worse until I said enough no more, now they hate me but they don't forgot what I did for them in the past, as long as you give they love you, once you stop they hate you.