more BIG changes ahead for our family 😮

[@gramnenew6196]

Seeing my son go off to war was so incredibly hard. I knew it would change him forever. Praise God he came back home bodily whole. He is still, many years later, working through emotional trauma. Pray for our veterans. ❤ I wish Judah a year of health and good changes.

[@taustin6524]

Same…..the PTSD is a real struggle 😢

[@andreastray5480]

It’s so hard you feel the pain like they do my son was a bomb sweeper came home ptsd thank you all for your services it’s sad and hard❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dawncurtis583]

My son just left for his first deployment this afternoon. He has changed so much already I can’t imagine what he will be like when we see him again.

[@RowenMyBoat]

Agree. The life of a military family, as I viewed from mother, mother-in-law and spouse is SUCH an EXTREME emotional roller coaster that one ant even imagine unless the lived it. Quite naturally, I thought the “mother” role was the hardest, especially as I have a son and daughter, and my son was going. Then my DIL had to stop breastfeeding early because she deployed to Iraq from the day BEFORE my only grandsons birthday and she returned two weeks before my grandson tired two. So actually as a grandmother the fact my grandson was at risk of losing his mother, and knowing I was breaking my DIL’s heart every time I sent photos or videos. Put the ups and downs of terrorizing fear to aproudness where you feel like you want to explode, which ranges, from the sheer joy of knowing when their boots touch US soil again, to the proudness of being an American which means more to you now, like seeing any military exhibition, for example the Blue Angels fly over after the anthem is played will just make your heart swell with pride then you’d be bawling your eyes out from the depth of the overwhelming emotion that you simply can’t control. Anyway, NOT TO MINIMIZE Sarah’s feeling AT ALL, I wanted to bawl when I saw pictures of my second grandson walking into school yesterday for his first day of kindergarten. Then when the DIL sends me pictures soon of my oldest grandson, now 17, going off to school for his Senior year of high school, especially when I can still clearly picture HIS picture from his first day of kindergarten, I’m sure that’s going to be a heart squeezer too! It’s ALL relative! It’s depends solely on where we and our children are in life. Doesn’t mean one is harder than the other or my nerves are stronger than Sarah’s…let’s see, the are purposely seven years between my son and daughter because he was one of those who needed little sleep, needed to be constantly stimulated because he was so intelligent and look at Sarah here with eleven children. I didn’t think I’d survive my first. And here she is, her house seems much calmer than mine was with 1 and 7 yr olds in the house. She’s beautiful, looks so incredibly young to have children leaving home, she never looks stressed, always has a smile on her face. Funny story (kinda), when my daughter had the son who just started kindergarten, he reminded me so much of her brother, never slept, we didn’t even see his eyes for the first six weeks because if he was awake, he was crying so his eyes were closed. I believe most of her PPD was because, so many moms don’t talk about having to hold their babies for three months just so the child would sleep at all, and all the other hair pulling out moments that parents go through when their child isn’t the one we see on TV or people talk about, like how wonderful it. Is to be a mother and their baby is in pristine freshly ironed clothes, which you also had 8 outfits ago during picture taking day, because your baby just happened to spit up on the other 7 outfits getting to this point. Lord, I’m not even going to proof what I wrote above. I think it was one long run on sentence that is full of words I typed that wasn’t the word in my head I wanted it to be, BUT after I saw my grandson’s kindergarten pictures, I wrote my daughter this. We are so very blessed to be given these precious souls, to raise them into responsible, productive and compassionate young adults, only so they can then leave the nest and we pray they shoot for whatever stars they want and they obtain them as best they can.

[@paulofell9939]

My husband came back a different person... Mighty oaks is an amazing program. Helped my husband tremendously

[@jennymiller8435]

Sent our son to the marines no contact with him for 3 months except letters I'm still having issues I'm heartbroken my baby will come back a man leaving him at his bus was so hard serving our country is a huge commitment and we are so proud

[@ivafairley3401]

I remember when my son went to basic training for the Marine Corp. We had no contact with him till he passed the crucible and was a Marine. We went to Paris Island our whole family for graduation and to bring him home for a two week leave. I remember saying to my dad where is my baby I sent them. He rode with my niece in their vehicle some of the way home and I remember breaking down to my husband and crying he's never going g to be the same again and then when he came home from. His first deployment there was another change. Parents have some of the hardest jobs letting our kids go. I am praying for you all.

[@lynbrowning8855]

I’m 62 and don’t have children, but oh mercy! I’ve shed a tear over Judah! Love your channel, Sarah and Solo! Y’all do an awesome job raising your children the right way! Hugs to y’all!

[@LuzDeMariposita]

I think you are modeling such a healthy way to process this transition for many others. Honestly it makes me so sad to hear when parents are happy to get rid of their kids when they move out. Thank you for showing such a loving and honest reaction without pretending or sugarcoating it, while still being supportive and happy for him.

[@minkgin3370]

Is it being happy they’re leaving or is it giving them a chance to ‘Grow’ ? I’m a firm believer of “Giving them Roots, but Giving them Wings”. I had only 1 child, a son, who left home at 19 to go to University in another city, & he never came back home to live. I missed him, of course I did, but I didn’t try to persuade him to go to a Uni nearer home, so he could still live with me & his dad. We saw him often over the years, as no-where in the UK is that far from anywhere else. Then when my husband died 2 years ago, he & his wife asked me to go & live with them permanently in my little Granny Flat attached to their home. I’ve never regretted him leaving at 19…..he was more than ready.

[@colleenspillers4547]

@@minkgin3370 yes - no parent is trying to "get rid" of their children - but we are encouraging them to experience life and learn to grow. I don't want my children to live with me forever. I want them to seek independence and live their own lives - however, I am there for them every step of the way.

[@DIanaCOL4224]

My son will be getting married in October. He is my youngest it has been him and I now for 9 years since his dad passed away. I think this is been the harder even then when our daughters left home. I love my soon to be daughter in love. They will have a christ centered marriage and that brings me comfort.

[@mrsdabney09]

Praying for a safe stay for Judah! Also, praying for your mama heart. My oldest is 25, and I feel your pain. You and Solo have done an incredible job with all of your babies. Much love from Branson, MO

[@sarahbewley362]

When my daughter got married 16 years ago, I was so elated and I still happy. I see her often and my two (2) grandson, just not e everyday.

[@maryjemison1101]

My Prayers And My Love 🙏✝️🙏❤️💫✨

[@judygeiger2225]

Of my 14 kids, number one was the hardest. That felt like it was crushing. The ones that followed were still hard, but the first was the worst! When He came back and I saw how positive it was for him, it really helped in the process of letting go of the others. They also tend to move in and out a number to times, as part of the process of becoming independent during young adult years. The weddings have brought wonderful new relationships and then grandkids, so that is very different. We are down to the last 4 teens now, but several of our young families now live on our property and are building homes, so I am occupied with all these beautiful baby grands. That also helps.

[@marshamorrell2769]

The first and the last!

[@robincook4349]

lucky you

[@MomOfSeven123]

I would second this. As the mother of children from age 31 down to 12, I have found the sons-in-law and daughters-in-law a whole new interesting element. Additionally, the in-law children have parents of their own who extends our family even wider.

[@sherlynpatterson4304]

With all the unexpected disasters everywhere and the need to possibly evacuate it would be best to keep the RV. This way you can just load the family and go with minimal worries and cost.

[@pattidavis8043]

Started crying, my kids have been adulting for 4 years now. I never "wanted" them to leave, even after homeschooling them for 18yrs being w them 24/7, i cherish every second and loved every moment. My dream is when they start having kids they will live close to home. Children were the desire of my heart, given as a blessing by my heavenly Father.

[@Dh77777]

I was a homeschooling mom of 3 kids. I homeschooled my kids all the way through 12th grade. They are all grown and gone and now I have grandchildren. When they started leaving the nest, it was very painful. I grieved for months and months and months !! I think it is a little different for homeschooling moms, because we are at home with them all day every day . When they get older, they do start jobs and are in an out during the day, but they are still living at home. It is a very hard thing when they start leaving. Praying for you. It will take some time but you will except this change in life, but it will take a little while. Love your sweet family praying for y'all!!

[@theNaniLynch]

Solo is right, one day at a time. The boys are more independent when their older. The girls I could handle for a lot longer. I told my girls that they couldn't get married until they were 27 and they had to live at home until they were 35. Their husband had to live someplace else!!

[@karenpatterson2835]

Sent my son into the Navy 10 years ago. I could hardly breathe when he left. But I was so very proud! Down the road, even when was underway as a Nuclear electronic tech and it was silent, God helped me learn to control my anxious heart. But it was hard! Holidays especially.

[@sheilaperreault4014]

My husband and I have 6 kids between us between ages 20-30. The changes they go through as they launch and become adults is to incredible to watch. When they come home and share their experiences and life lessons it is just the best. I don’t know any other way to explain it. ❤

[@debbiereilly2849]

“ emotional support chicken “😇

[@Mimiplansandknits]

Sending them off the first time is the hardest. It gets better. My poor son every time I would visit I would cry when I left. And I mean ugly cry. And I would tell him I was so happy and proud of him, he was living his dream, I was crying because it was so long between visits. ( the first 4 years he was gone, it took 3 planes and 7 hours of driving to see him. 24 hours of travel. People think when your children are young and you are exhausted. The hard part is loving them enough to let them spread their wings and fly. It gets better when you see how happy they are.

[@beverlymccormick4264]

They are our kids we love them but they do have to grow up and find their way around. We just have to keep them in our prayers and keep a close communication with them. They will be fine , you and your husband had instill strong values in all your kids so I know they will be ok. Love your channel from day one and still watching. He looks good. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@eileenkillen1481]

❤Seeing them kittens climbing the trees with chickens roaming round you on the porch done my heart good Sarah. Beautiful property to raise your babies. ❤

[@amandamctyre1615]

I wish I had property and I could build houses for all my family to live on! My first born left after college a few years ago and I’m still missing him… he lives right in Orlando, we visit each other 2 to 3 times a year and yet I still cry after leaving him 😂 It doesn’t get easier 😊

[@randimoore7265]

Love your video's. I had tears, I have 4 children oldest is 15. I am not ready to let go. I just love all the birds, watching them run in the yard and runing to their area makes me smile and want some of my own

[@Hhaha888]

Essentially when kids leave for more than a month, they come back as adults and your relationship changes forever. That was always our goal, so it was a celebration time for all of us....seems like your goal is to build a bigger house and keep them with you forever, that might be why you are struggling so much. When they get married is hardest, intrigating another family and merging of their goals changes the relationship massively. Grand children are tricky, not at all like having your own. You should savor the kids you still have, imo parenting under 18 year olds has been the best part of life so far

[@Peg06]

Belle is a natural leader. She'll make a difference no matter where she goes!

[@geridean9966]

When my daughter left for the Air Force I sent her a goodie box every month themed by the holiday of that month. February - everything was red or pink; could include socks, candy, underwear, anything! Her friends always gathered around when she got her boxes! It gave me something to do every month. The weirder stuff I could find, the better!

[@randimoore7265]

Love this! Send a week or two weeks before the next month so it arrives at the beginning of the month

[@marinamayo7994]

I found that it was more emtionally challenging when they get married. It was so incredibly bittersweet. While being such a joyous event a great blessing It broke my heart. Then comes the amazing grandkids which is the most inexplicable joy I've ever experienced apart from becoming a mom. When you know you know. I've also had one leave on a very long term mission trip which is also stretching. Ultimately they are the Lord's. We long to hold them close but it is so beautiful to let them fly and learn and grow and be molded into who they are meant to be.

[@kkatmom]

I agree with Solo about the long goodbye. It’s like your constantly saying goodbye through others. I found my eldest daughter getting married and moving out of state to be emotional. I was so happy for her and the life she was living, however, missing her physical presence was difficult. Sarah, your comment about support chickensss made me laugh out loud! Thank you! I needed that!

[@coopermom71]

We all want our kids to remain close, with trips far away but we want them close~ You are letting them spread their wings and become independent and wonderful adults! Good job!

[@maryflores2004]

You are such a wonderful mom Sarah…. I learn from you how to be. Belle you are just beautiful and you will do wonderful in life as your brothers and sisters to follow.

[@cjordan919]

I love seeing Belle hustle over to say hello to Judah on FaceTime.

[@lme5564]

When my oldest left for the military, I stayed in my pjs for two weeks! I was so sad I thought I would never come out of that dark space! When my kids moved out I was happy! Lol! They are still close by and I see them quite often!

[@joybrooks564]

I never tire of seeing the birds and kittens.

[@Kaleidescope66]

Good morning. It is so hard to let our kids go. Bittersweet ❤ We are proud of Judah and Belle. I wish them much success! You did good momma!

[@Johnitacc]

I can definitely relate to this. My Nephew went off to get his Masters from the University of Maryland last year. I was so excited for him because that was his dream school. A few days before he left, I was just sitting watching TV and it hit me like a ton of bricks. He's not just going away to school. He's going to begin his life as a man and he's not coming back home to live!!! Mannnn I lost it!😂 I cried and cried. It's been a year, and it's ok. I still worry a little... the world has changed so much, but he is happy, and he comes to visit often. I miss him, and I pray constantly. He loves it, and I know he has so many more opportunities. I'm praying for you guys!❤

[@theresakerins4563]

Sarah, I lived in Japan from 1966-1970 as a Navy Brat. I LOVED the people and the country is beautiful. Judah will do well because he loves people and has an open mind.

[@wandiaflorence7712]

Sarah and Solo, I salute you guys, .you are very real.

[@chronicstitcher7933]

The hardest things I ever did was watch my son board a plane to Iraq in 2007, when it was really bad over there. Having a child in a war zone is a fear that I can only describe as a hand that reaches up from your gut and wraps around your throat, and I spent a year barely able to breath, and I cried and prayed for a whole year. It's a fear I wouldn't wish on any parent. One of the happiest days of my life is when he came back. Changed, so very changed, but alive and physically unharmed (mental is a different story). God bless you and your lovely family.

[@Jankayebambeanbaby]

My sons are 44 & 46 and I still moss them everyday. My grandchildren are all grown now with kids of their own. As type this I am at grandson’s home visiting my great granddaughter. I can’t imagine being so far away as Japan. I live two hours away and still talk to my kids almost everyday. Judah and Belle will be fine but a mother’s heart needs hugs and kisses often. Guess it is a mom thing. My oldest son died almost 12 years ago and I still struggle daily with that. God doesn’t give more than can handle.

[@beckyryan407]

Thoughts and prayers follow Judah in his travels, may God keep Judah in his loving embrace and protect and keep all the people safe.

[@stoakes7878]

Sarah, I completely understand your sadness/crying when Judah left. My son went to Spain for a semester and I cried for 3 hours home from the airport, and every time we talked to him! Then he went to Mexico for a semester. At least that was in the same time zone!

[@tammyr2966]

It’s always so hard when the first one leaves home! May God Bless him and take care of him always, along with your whole beautiful family!

[@nancydavidson9896]

I only have one daughter. She has just bought her first house with her fiancé, has moved to a new job in that town and is getting married here at home November 4th. Every day I have to remind myself to breathe. I will miss her terribly but I am excited for her new adventures. Her fiancé is still living here at the moment so we are all a little crazy. God has his plans. We need to trust the journey He started us on even if it shakes us out of our comfort zone. Hugs to your beautiful family.

[@marybullock7603]

You should be proud of yourselves as parents because you have given your children wings to fly.

[@alisonfay8268]

My eldest son is in the military and is only home from an overseas trip . He was in Syria for 7 months and tbh it was the longest 7 months of my life. We were so thankful for facetime it kept me going. But as you say remember he'll be home soon. Your son is gone to do a great service and I'm sure he'll do you very proud over there . Keep the faith Sarah it will go by quicker than you think . Keep yourself busy ! Sending hugs from Ireland 🇮🇪 xx

[@stephaniemccollum8019]

The hardest for me was sending off my children to the military. You only get one phone call where they read a script telling you they made it. You can hear yelling in the background. Then, when you finally see them at graduation, they are a grown adult. My daughter went in the marines and my son the army. They both got 10days of leave after boot camp and then had to go back. One was stationed in California and one in vilsek, Germany. I live in South Carolina. Very difficult missing them but also being happy for them. My son joined at17 years old and my daughter at 18 years old. Both right out of high school. The house became so quiet. I no longer had to cook huge meals because it was just my husband and myself. But, the military has been a great experience for both my children, free college education and they both will retire after 20 years and then start a career in the civilian workforce with their college degrees and owe no student loans or debt. I totally understand how you feel about Judah being gone. Y’all have prepared him well for his transition into adulthood. Thumbs up!

[@jackiedixon2702]

It all hurts! I cried all the way to drop my daughter off at college and cried all the way back home. I cried when they moved out and was happy when Covid drive them all back home and then I cried again when they left. At some point you realize your job is to make them be able to go out into the world and make a difference whatever that is. The nest becomes empty and then it is filled with grand children and that joy is next level. The seasons change but family is strengthened with new adult relationships and many more blessings.

[@stacichandler9084]

So many people he will bless and encourage and witness too. He is full of life, love and has a solid foundation in which He can stand on. What a wonderful gift yall have been to his world. May God do wonderful things in his life and yours. Because of his love for Jesus and yours. Sending hugs

[@toyaleejb7714]

I'm studying Japanese and Solo's "arigato gozaimasu" took me out!😂😂😂 For the record, its "ohayo goziamasu" for a formal hello

[@leepope3377]

I think it’s harder when they get married. If they go places, you’re still #1. When they get married, you are turning them over to their spouse.

[@riversongsmelody]

After graduating college I spent two years abroad with the Peace Corps teaching English. It was such a valuable experience and it definitely changed how I look at the world. I would love to have another opportunity to live abroad!

[@PethtelLady]

My friends refer to me as “that weird mom” because I pray for snow days, spring break, summer break, and any extra days off school. I love, love, LOVE when my kids are home and when my 23 year old moved out, I was NOT okay! Lol. I’ve never really related to moms who are basically pushing their kids out the door. Yes, I want my kids to spread their wings but as long as I have a home, they will have a home. ❤️

[@joyful8072]

When you shared that Belle has turned 18, I had a feeling that she would be leaving soon. Prepare yourself. It's very exciting for a young person to experience another part of the world. I know you know that already. It can be difficult though to let the children go. God bless and comfort you.

[@Teena-yi9xw]

I can really explain it, but that baby girl is just unusually special, soo cute.

[@ziondaniel7]

Sarah.. again, I am about to navigate this same dynamic with my 20 year old daughter. She is leaving for six months for discipleship and mission program. My heart is full yet breaking at the same time. I understand ALL the emotions 💗💗💗🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻... Sending love, hugs, and prayers

[@apostolichouseofprayer2460]

Mrs Sarah to answer your question all of the above I have had all those seasons and all are hard but rewarding because we love our children.

[@SandNSurf]

Hands down, Having children and family members being in the military is the most difficult thing to go through. I have 17 courageous Veterans in my family. I am the very proud daughter, Mom, sister, wife, and aunt of our 17 brave Veterans. They have served in many wars, and are always away from home. Daily sacrifices, every day of the year. They are selfless, courageous, strong, dedicated. People need to remember this as well……when a family member is in the military, the entire family sacrifices, and serves. We not only miss the person serving, but we miss their entire families as they’re are transferred continuously. A big majority of our active military qualify for food stamps! Shame on our government! They give their all, they ask nothing in return. We don’t know them All, but we owe them All. Unless people have family in the military they have absolutely no idea what it’s like, and the extreme sacrifices involved. They volunteered to join, they serve proudly, they wouldn’t change anything. I am a Volunteer with the VA, with Veterans in crisis. Most people have absolutely no idea how our Veterans are suffering….especially after 20 years of the most recent wars. God bless our active military, Veterans, their families, and the greatest country in the world…USA 🙏❤️🇺🇸🦅🙏

[@rachellilley1518]

Sarah, I know exactly how you feel. The feeling is always being there for your children. You can help your kids while they are with you, i.e., in your home, school, church ,at a friend's house. When far away, they have to rely on others for help and comfort ( usually mom and dads job) it is giving up that parental duty to your child or others is really gut-wrenching( and no its not a control problem) it's just loving someone so much problem. The unknown if they are going to be just fine is tough .

[@cindyupton7357]

It’s so ok momma. Cry if you want too. Many hugs.

[@shirleymurphy1958]

For me is it was the first time they are leaving home and knowing its going too be a long time before they come home! So understand your feelings.

[@pennyd2415]

A parents job is to raise their kids to stand on their own 2 feet. Letting go is hard. My son joined the Army at 18. My daughter moved out at 19 and my youngest moved at 18. Now 2 are married and my youngest is back home. You will get through this. Hugs

[@debbieostrowski5462]

My only child 47 is moving 2300 miles away, is the hardest for me, but his young kids needs him more.

[@cack121]

We had children leave for mission trips, but they were only 3 or 4 weeks. I cant imagine. I did however have a child join the military. 2 years later he was married, a year later he was a dad....3 deployments for 9-12 months each and stationed in several different states. He never did come back "home" but seeing him as a husband and dad truly blessed my heart. It is all part of the process. We raised them to love the Lord and to follow his leading. He felt called to join the military so we support him and prayed with and for him. YOU GOT THIS MAMA...He is doing exactly what you raised him to do. Follow the call of Christ

[@klwh6513]

My daughter returned yesterday from 8 months in Germany on a co-op. Holding 2 emotions is very real! She is so bright and had the opportunity to work in quantum physics and I am so glad she went but missed her too. And yes they mature but it's another wonderful phase of their life to witness. The wide variety of communication options makes it easier too!

[@juliakent2560]

I left as a missionary and didnt come back. I got married 😍 but it was very hard for my parents... but they never held me back. They always said "you must go where God is calling you!" And I am so glad i went.

[@cindiallain8542]

Look into a projector and tv. It takes a white sheet for the screen. You can move that to get into storage. Just a thought plus it would be a big screen. Lol. I think moving was the hardest. They get busy and don’t have as much time to visit. I have a really hard time with that. Thank you Sarah. I have faith in you and you will succeed. Love ya all.

[@janetalonzo2001]

I have one daughter which is 20years old now. When college time came around I lost it. It is true what the lady comment, they leave as teens and come back as adults. I was in shock how 2yrs had made her grown as this amazing woman. It that moment you see it as a blessing that you did amazing as parent. You have to give yourself a path in the shoulder saying I raised and amazing adult. This year she’ll be renting her own apartment😮‍💨 now praying for this whole new adventure is coming her way. Sarah and Solo where ever your children decide to go, they will always come back home. Them leaving appreciate the small things.

[@lisakeefe8273]

I only had one child and when she got married and they told us they were going to move to Texas, I was devastated. I cried everyday for quite awhile. Now she has three children of her own and we talk everyday, but she’s busy with her family. As I’ve gotten older and have had health issues I would love them to move back closer to home.

[@karenallen7064]

In 2001, our son graduated from high school. 10 days later our daughter was married. 2 weeks later our son moved into an apartment. (He moved on a Saturday. We found out on Thursday.) Both were gone in a 2 week time period! Luckily, I was in the final weeks of preparing a resource center (books, CDs, etc,) for a large conference in Europe. It had taken over my brain. And it was our 25th Anniversary in a couple of weeks. We stayed over in Europe & went to Paris for 8 days, so I had lots to look forward to! And yes, it was 2001. My husband returned home early for his mother's funeral and I stayed to finish up work on the Resource Center, flying home 9/10 to watch the 2nd plane hurt the tower the next morning. There was a lot going on to distract us from missing them as much as it could have been.

[@ingridzacharias8697]

It's hard having your first child leave home. My heart goes out to you and Solo! :)

[@joannetaggart4136]

Judah, yes he'll be a man but his warm smile and heart will be with him because that's Judah. ♥️

[@debbiehaynes8295]

Emotional support chicken 😂😂😂. Yes, all good problems in that you've well prepared your children to fly high on their own. They will rely on everything you've invested in them and you will be so, so proud of them. ❤

[@dorethymaebrown8100]

Yes! You are BLESSED!🎉

[@transamgal9]

Sadly the worst is when they pass away. I lost 2 of my 3 boys last year. So keep a joyful heart no matter where in the world they are as you know you will see them again. I l♡ve watching your family it gives me comfort in these sad days.

[@murlenecrowley1283]

My brother was in the military. He graduated from high school and went to Texas and then England. When he came home, I was amazed. He had grown physically and was so more centered within himself. He will tell you that he was proud of himself and that time away.

[@dorethymaebrown8100]

You are TRULY BLESSED! All that property for your INHERITANCE! I pray GOD OPENS THE DOOR FOR ME PROPERTY FOR MY 10 soon to be 11 grandchildren!

[@barbaradw9969]

I have a box I will be shipping to Japan, next week. I don’t mail often. If I can get it delivered from Amazon, that makes it easier.

[@ninaishida8453]

I love watching your family. My favorite KZbin channel. Since I only started watching a few months ago I go backwards when I’ve watched the latest.❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sonyavillanueva4474]

My grandparents (my Dad's side) came up from Mexico and bought a 2 bedroom home and raised my dad and his 15 siblings there. I have so many wonderful memories of that tiny house that was full of love.

[@sharonshiel]

My 22 year old son moved out just 30 minutes from home to live with friends in his first apartment while attending college in the big city. My mama heart was absolutely broken, just crushed into crumbs! It wasn't the distance, it was just the finishing of this chapter of all of us being a team of 6, us having ALLLL the in jokes and the day to day presence and laughter and goofiness. The figuring of dinner (portions for 6 became portions for 5) how to divide up a big Ole batch of cookies into 5 piles instead of 6, just all the tiny little wonderful silly things that will never be the same. He's not coming back to what was before - he is back to visit all the time to hang out. It's not the same. Finding a new normal and processing a very real grief from the loss, while also celebrating and being so proud of his own growth and his amazing path. Its the HARDEST thing I've ever experienced as a parent. Lots of love to you. Let your mama heart feel alllll the feels. It's OK to grieve and rejoice at the same time ❤

[@krismay6]

Congratulations Sarah and Solo for raising such strong, faithful, loving and independent young adults. You have given them the tools to go build their lives and experience all that life is offering. You do this really every day with all of your children and it’s given them the confidence to spread their wings all in such different ways. Be proud of yourselves! Don’t get me wrong - I cried watching the airport good bye - but today’s a new day to model for the others that the sadness in missing is because we are thankful to share this loving family and that will never go away - it just spreads more faith and love to larger parts of the world. Big hugs to all of you 🤗🥰

[@jillh7403]

Well said!

[@imagineplanandcreate4050]

My only child is 17 and I still have 2 school years left because we held him back a year. I am just in tears because I can only imagine how you feel and just thinking of the day my son leaves. Hugs to all of you.

[@kimluarks2418]

My oldest went away to job Corp at 16 and never moved back home it was hard but it's a blessing to see him have his own family.

[@paulanelson1884]

Wow watching video while you n Belle are sitting on porch! I definitely see that Belle looks like you Sara!

[@kittyrhyder]

The initial leaving is by far the hardest ..... your mamma heart will always miss your "Little Ones" but you will find and establish a new relationship with your adult child. We all have to go through the journey and I send you hugs and love as you adjust xox

[@karenfraser6488]

whatever God has in store for your family, please know that I will pray. I love watching your videos as I find the witnessing a blessing. Love from my family in Australia 🇦🇺 to yours

[@g.deyoung4248]

My mantra during this time was "they are doing exactlly what they are supposed to do" Goal has been acheived! Pat yourself on the back! It helped a bit.

[@AuntBAS]

16:56 Seth’s face. Adorable. Judah will be fine and will grow in ways that will surprise you. You’ve done a fantastic job with him and your ‘work’ is over. Now you get to enjoy him as an adult.

[@diannedutton6127]

This is the hardest Sarah. I'm eightyone yrs old. When my first grandsons went in the Marines, I was a mess.He was in intelligence and I felt good about that.but, he went to hot, fighting zone, but family kept it from me until he got back to England. They knew how stressed I would be. Thank God he got back home safely and now lives a couple of miles from me and is now in nursing school. Has two little ones and it's wonderful! I feel for you. A Mama's heart😢.

[@debedwards6488]

I think, we as parents, some of us, are never really ready or prepared for the kids to go. I sure was not, both my daughters gone before they were 20. It is alot ! To be encouraging, smiling, happy for them. Know they would not, could not, leave if you had not done a great job of raising them. Good Luck to all !

[@teresaacevedo1731]

It’s so emotional seeing your babies move forward on their own. I raised my two children and three grand children. I will admit it was harder for me when my grand children moved out one by one. Our momma hearts break seeing them go into this big world. Luckily they stay close at heart and keep in touch almost daily.

[@dorethymaebrown8100]

I’d keep the RV! That’s truly a blessing!

[@sistersforever9340]

Thank you for this. Glad to know other moms are so sad about kids leaving. My son will be a senior and I’m already crying.

[@vanessadobbins2963]

As Solo says "one day at a time"! And your right Sarah, Judah is not alone because he has Lord Jesus and he has his friends. And you may not have to cook for awhile when Judah comes back. God bless you, Solo and your beautiful tribe of many 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@staceyotten5312]

I only have 1 and he is very independent. He will be 17 in just over a month. Yesterday he told me he was going to a concert with his brother who is 2 years younger. It was an outdoor concert with 10's of thousands of people. First time in a ling time i got pretty nervous with him. Ended up getting rained out so it wasnt a super late night for me. I cant imagine him going to another country without me! Prayers for you and your family as you go through this.

[@Babagypsii]

They are very lucky to have such an incredible support system and opportunities in Mind. If I could change one thing from being that young again, I would leave to experience other countries. The benefits can be so incredible. Getting away from your hometown, state even.. and experience life. Blessings!

[@cathrino]

We have a projector i stead of a TV. It works really well, to pull down a screen when we wanna watch and put it away when we are done.

[@vickimontgomery5271]

Oh I feel this so deeply for you! Our oldest left Florida for college in Grand Rapids, Michigan. We homeschooled and were always together in church ministry. It was so hard! We were excited for him and how God was growing him but summers were internships and ministry opportunities. His younger brother really missed him. He got married the year after graduation and they lived in NY for a year before they moved back to S Florida. We work all their lives to pour the Word of God, character, counsel, laugh, cry, and pray with them toward their launching. Our boys are 28 and 32, both married and living in South Florida and this mama is so grateful for every stage of life with them. The tears come but the blessing abound as well as you see your efforts flourish. 🙏Praying for your hearts as you walk these days. Your role changes often in the coming months. Hold them loosely.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@marieneu264]

Happy Saturday morning! Thanking God this morning for his safe arrival in Japan!!!

[@maxineoliver7404]

I'm also happy and proud for Belle, as well! She is going to do very well, in the military, I believe!🦾They are both going to be just fine!🤗🤗The house cleaning and transitioning with the rooms seems to be working out nicely!🛏🛏🛏🛏Continue to stay productive, and well balanced! Take care, guys!!🤗🐔🐔🐈🐈🤭

[@jillymason6910]

Your so refreshing and I love the way you don’t make a big deal of kids sleeping on sofa, sharing rooms and making the most of ever square inch. Your kids are blessed having such practical godly parents.❤

[@hollysullivan7291]

When we followed our son, the oldest up to Bible college, it was like I was watching him drive right out of his childhood 😭. It was definitely the beginning of a new season that took a lot of getting used to. He did come home a man, found himself a beautiful wife and almost 6 years later gave us our first grandbaby which is the best reward! Hang in there Sarah, life gets better if you can imagine that!! 🎉❤

[@queengrimhilde8647]

Awww Sarah… just when I thought it was safe to come back and watch your families video. The look in your eyes when you mention Judah. But it’s ok, he wasn’t even gone 24 hours and he called. It’s good to feel that he loves everything about home that he called home. He will be fine Sarah, and we all will be too. 🥲Laughter through tears is one of the greatest things there is. We all have our balled up tissues to share with you whenever you are ready to share a tear or two or two with a giggle now and again. ❤❤❤

[@ruthturkington1736]

Yes, life does go on! It’s wonderful to watch your kids grow up. At the same time it’s hard. What helped me was I always thought they are lend to us by God for 18 + years to raise for Him! Keeping that in mind always helped me.

[@yvonneholley3517]

I agree with you it's hard when they grow up and leave home but you have to realize that once they grow up they are going to want to spread their wings and we have to be spiritually and mentally able to let them go you have to teach them tell them what they need to know and pray over them and let go

[@jennygillum9951]

My husband and I have a 1 year old, but your experience just brought tears to my eyes. I know we will be in your position before we know it. I know the days are long but the years are short. What a blessing kids are!

[@bbraskey8521]

Wow!!!! You’re parents are going to visit Judah! You’re parents are awesome!!!!

[@amyhenry9315]

I'm so happy to see how you're coping. When my much older brother left for college, my parents' marriage began to deteriorate. The only time normalcy returned was when he came home....until they divorced in his Senior year. I was only 12.